@46:25 I personally feel so sad that that's why you guys have "verbally" withdrawn in your recent videos. The main reason I gravitated towards your channel back in 2016 was because you had the discussions (relationships, sex, friendships, feminine day-to-day stuff issues, etc.) I longed to have with fellow girls my age. I LOVE hearing your opinions, whether similar or opposite, because I always learn something new, I feel lighter, happier, more empowered... that's as a result of seeing intelligent, beautiful Kenyan women doing the damn thing! In your last video I commented that watching it took me back to pre-2019. My hope is you see this and know that there are *many* viewers who appreciate, safeguard and respect your candor, vulnerability, bubbliness, the banter, your true selves - all of it. I hope you can all one day feel free to do and say what you want with your chest as you use to. Shut out and drown them naysayers - they do not matter. I acknowledge that it's way easier said than done, but it would be a shame if they succeeded in making you dim your bright stars. We are here for you. 💛

@jennymayna5334

Жыл бұрын

True....we are here and we are the majority....we are so encouraged by your lives...

@carolmutua5266

Жыл бұрын

As much as we may like it when they are totally open, protecting their personal and mental space is important.

I think everyone, every woman, subscribed to this channel and listens to this quad wants the best for themselves and their overall relationships, I wish you all the best... Merry Christmas and a happy new year girls. Be self efficate, self intentional and self loving 🧡🧡🧡

So glad Ivy clarified the comment Jules said " Ati the way you were talking , its like you owned land before " Coz i caught and the clarification cleared things right up! Lesson learned to be bold and ask for clarification instead of catching 👌🏾💯

@AnysieIshimwe

Жыл бұрын

Yes. Glad you caught that too. That comment from Jules did not come off very nice. I am glad Ivy clarified immediately.

@maryannnjoki2318

Жыл бұрын

I was MAAAAD FOR A SECCCCCC🤣

@nt2397

Жыл бұрын

I thought I was the only one who could sense the tension between these two today glad Ivy spoke up!!

@wamuyuf5072

Жыл бұрын

@@nt2397 there's always tension between the two, always, if you look keenly, their personalities are very different, which is part of the issue

@sammie1919

Жыл бұрын

I noticed this too and in such situations, I have always reacted without clarifying and I like that Ivy did that without reacting first and I like that Jules had no issue clarifying and did not also take offence to Ivy needing clarification. I think there is a lot to learn from both of their responses. Also, it's good to take the person's clarification as the truth and not overthink it and think they meant something else from what they clarified. Take it as it is.

😭😭😭😭 Ivy’ message to Tshazi and Shikie has me tearing up

❤Absolutely loves this episode 😊 My Highs - Completed my degree and graduated with good honours. - Got a well paying job after getting the courage to quit my toxic job. - Travelled to London (Hi Ivy🌹) - Got to move out to my first apartment at 21 - I grew my personal relationship with God - I made a lot of meaningful connections and met beautiful souls this year My Lows - Struggled with anxiety, fear and imposter syndrome - Struggled with addiction - I never got to attain some goals - I lost so many friends because of the huge transition to adulting (which is the ghetto😂) My theme in 2023 is to GO FOR IT. I’m planning to do things that scare me, no more dimming my light, planning to be the most authentic version of me. Thanks over25👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@viviantalam5796

Жыл бұрын

I like that you are very intentional at only 21 am inspired and am 27 wishing you the best come 2023

@brianthomasM

Жыл бұрын

@@viviantalam5796 Thank you so much. I am so humbled. I also wish you all the best. I leant that there are no timelines to get your goals.

@Mercyree344

Жыл бұрын

So beautiful ❤

@gracegift7994

Жыл бұрын

It's the focus for me 🎉

@mercyawiti2608

Жыл бұрын

So proud of youuu♥️♥️

Shiko is so fancy, and really beautiful. She's also very stylish

Shiko is such a good listener, gives a conversational atmosphere, she engages you so well. I loveee that about her.

My highs for 2022 1. Learning to drive my husband's manual car. 2. Seeing my baby hit those milestones oh my goodness. I still cant believe i am a mum to a 1.1yr old Lows 1. My business not going as planned or as i had foreseen 2. Applying for those jobs, doing interviews and not getting hata regret emails 😪 and i still have to do them till i get something better. Words for 2023 1. Growth 2. Contentment

@lucynn

Жыл бұрын

I feel like we are the same on the high and lows

@hellenamedia3470

Жыл бұрын

Beautiful.Thanks for sharing

@juneadongo6972

Жыл бұрын

Ghai! Manual car! That is the safe excuse I have used to avoid driving...that we own a manual car! God, am I sending this prayer to you again??

@abbynimo1075

Жыл бұрын

Why does this lool like something i would have written... your highs are my highs and lows pia

@rachealnzatu7984

Жыл бұрын

@@juneadongo6972 imagine just start learning. i used to think it was so so hard until i just decided to learn. You too can do this. Your 2023 goal has been set :)

@Just Ivy Africa, we appreciate your candor and vibe. Do not cloak your brilliance and free spirit to assuage the few hate spewers! Shout to the roof tops babe.. Go girl, do you!

@isabelomolo8853

Жыл бұрын

Yes! Yes and Yes!!!!!

Jules is confident and she's my favourite cast member

My low is I got an accident on 26.January just a day after winning employee of the year and a few hours before signing a contract of further studies which came as a price for my crown . To cut the long story short I broke my ankle ,was operated , had to stay in bed for 6 weeks then another 6 weeks for Physiotherapie and Rehabilitation before I could go back to work again and how I lost my opportunity for further studies. My high : 1. the operation went well without complications, three months ago I got an offer same job but different employer with more than double the salary from my previous employer. 1.I have learnt to say no and choose myself letting me come first, I have learnt to thank God more and often for each day and everything, appreciate everyday and make everyday count. ”sometimes loosing an opportunity means that you deserve much better than what’s on the table„ . A very good friend of mine told me as I was battling depression after operation just thinking how an opportunity just slipped away.

@mwendenyaga91

Жыл бұрын

Wow, I have learned that everything happens for a reason,and sorry for your ankle breaking but see what it brought you 😊

@bettyabilla4922

Жыл бұрын

@@mwendenyaga91 haki tena , thanx anyway. My 2022 began really horrible that in January I couldn’t wait for it to end.

I'm so happy for Shikie considering at the beginning of the year she said sth about 2021 was not good for her (the way she said it was heartbreaking).. I'm loving her positivity. Wishing all of you more wins and highs💖

My high is that I roofed my mum:s 🏠 and she has moved in,not finished yet but I'm so grateful for the milestone.My low is feeling stuck careerwise. My 2023 Words Elevation and self actualisation. I love you girls.Keep winning ❤️

I'd do anything to have a friend like Ivy who applauds me!

My Highs 1. Self rediscovery - learning new things about my personality and appreciating that. 2. Self Discipline - growing up as someone who was considered disorganized and impulsive, it was great to realize that I can cultivate new habit much easier than i thought and be consistent in that. 3. Breaking barriers - to realize that things which i once saw a my limitations no longer limit me was the greatest high of all. My Lows 1. Coming face to face with my biggest fears - this was crippling, especially since it was more than one single fear all flooding in around the same time, but it truly brought out my inner strength so in retrospect, i am grateful for it. Words to live by in 2023 1. Compassion for self - trying not to push myself too hard. Small progress is still progress. 2. Contentment - seeing value in the little things just as much as the big things.

"The beauty of idealism is that it exists in reality" love that! Dream! It's possible! Plan, implement...and it will come to pass!

@joymuthoni6260

Жыл бұрын

This was so validating to me

Who dares comment on Ivy's outfit lol and the way this mamaa of twins is always looking fire 🔥

I loved what Ivy said, the thing with idealisms is that they exist in the real world. My highest high for 2022 is going through my diary and realizing that I am living through what I wished for and envisioned. Some in the exact way, some modified into a way better existence. In terms of emotional healing, personal, career and financial development. I closed the year on such a high, that I still haven't had the right reaction to it yet. A too good to be be true typa moment.

Last year when you guys did this Reflecting video, Shiki said “2021 was the year where her sunshine went to die” and man that broke me because I was the same. But hearing her so happy and all of you including Lornzie of course is so beautiful this year. Merry Christmas girlies! ❤️

2022 was the ghetto ,'hoodest' of hoods for me ,, hope it doesn't go more down hill from here ,,looking forward to a better 2023

My word for the year was ABUNDANCE My highs were i) being able to save more than my target, ii) being fully self aware and being able to express my feelings without the urge to explain myself to anyone. iii) starting my counseling psychology practice. God help me My lows: I) not being able to mend a long term relationship with a loved one and ii) 'losing' a girlfriend of 13 years because of a shag buddy she met🤣🤣. All the same, I keep going. My 2023 word of the year is GROWTH. I manifest self development all round because I just want to focus on me. May God keep and sustain you & your families ladies ❣️❣️❣️🥰.

This channel is a so impactful, so therapeutic. Thank you Ladies, we love you🥰🖤

Good job team over 25 ..Jules,Lonzie,Ivy and Shikie...you carry us with you..your dedication is unmatched..your enthusiasm is overflowing .. your passion is addictive..we love you..keep us inspired...Merry Christmas and happy new year...❤️

Wueh, si mlihama!

I love 20222 My Lowest point was I was diagnosed with Spinal Tuberculosis..I was sad The high is I managed to finish my drugs the whole year. I managed to open my business that picked so we'll....2023 I love you already I am coming for that car and 💰

Its time, its time we now get a new episode from you guys.

I really love Jules, her accent is everything

@joanfundi325

Жыл бұрын

The way she talks like she is rapping. I love her

Go Shiku👏...I can relate to your journey of self discovery. ..you seem ready to concur 2023💪

My highs this year were: starting my own business and leaving along overdue relationship that wasnt working .my low was ,cutting off family for so many reasons that i cant write here.

Loooved every moment of this episode

this is the joy of hitting that notification bell!!

The bloopers! We need those more. Great episode!

The bloopers 😂😂😂😂 Great video as always. Happy holidays guys!

Not me beat boxing the intro song 😂 love you ladies. 2022 was real❤

I CAN GUESS LORNIESZ HIGHS 1. Having a baby/ being a mother 2. Starting a fashion brand 3.Marriage 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

That last part of the outtakes, tears! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I respect you ladies for sharing your life with us. It's a beautiful thing and it takes strong ladies to do that. Thank you

Beautiful episode. You ladies are unmatched and we’re absolutely blessed to have you!

This one has resounded to me on so many levels. Gratitude ladies 🙏

Loved this episode and so glad that you chose to acknowledge but also lowlight the bad experiences. We are all here for such positivity. I can't wait for the next episode in 2023.

The amount of growth in my life since I discovered this Channel!!Happy Holidays y’all!!!!!!God bless y’all individually and as a unit!!!♥️♥️♥️♥️

Thank you for this episode.

These ladies are wonderful and blessed ❤️❤️ you've Impacted me as a group and as individuals and for that I am grateful. Merry Christmas and Happy New year ♥️

I'd love to pick Ivy's brain on strategy. Her content this year has made me say yes to a lot of awesome things this year

Just Thankyou!

My highs.. 1.growth-personal, career, spiritual 2.My son My lows.. 1.my best friend passed on in Feb 2.my business has been low 2023 words Acceptance, gratitude and content

I can relate with Ivy when she talked about the excitement that comes with saying you are a land owner,that kafeeling,pure bliss🥹 My high this year is that i gifted myself for my 30th birthday a piece of land,it was a long process,almost a year buh here we are😊when you hold that title deed,pure orgasmic😁

This video made me reflect on how i had a shitty year. My Highs were: 1. I gained a very beautiful relationship. It is my first real platonic relationship, but I like how intentional we are. And as opposite sex, I appreciate how we both respect our boundaries but also make sure the other person is well. 2. This year I really supported a lof of people who were struggling with their mental health. To the extent I implemented a project of 6 months around it, that was also successful. My Lows: 1. Rejections after rejections 2. Brokenness killed me to the extent I stopped thinking straight. I normally consider myself as a creative person and very positive. But my friend poverty and hunger is a bad thing. I can't wait the time I will get out of this mess. Words for 2023: attack, enthusiasm All said, I love you so much ladies, following you all these years, made me feel like you are my sisters. I wish you nice holidays🥰

@TheOrganizedLawyer

Жыл бұрын

Sending u love

@pacisco5151

Жыл бұрын

@@TheOrganizedLawyer Thank you so much ❤. Be blessed!

Gosh ! such a fulfilling episode!

Thanks ladies for this episode, for the longest I didn't know i was lacking self efficacy. So thanks for always pouring out knowledge

I honestly love your content guys. I look forward to it. I've gone through different emotions as I watched you guys. There's alot to learn from you. I love you and I look up to you in some ways.

Omg never commented but I enjoy this episodes with this lovely ladies a lot. I'm getting insights and relatable moments

I love ivvy always here for her and her voice

Love love this episode ❤️❤️

Gratitude, growth and self confidence

One of my best episode from over25. Incredible job girls

The bloopers are the highlight of my day today! 😂❤️

This episode..in itself ..I love it for me..& for you Girls..Wow..the executioooon .Love IT !

I love how y’all are winning separately and together. Love it!!!❤️❤️❤️

I just love you ladies. I feel bad that people judging you has made you guys hold back and yet I personally learn from you all and appreciate what you do. God bless you all and may you all continue to grow into amazing women.🥰 Happy holidays

Thank you Over 25 for sharing yourselves, your brilliance,your vulnerability, your beauty and time with us. Cheers 🍻 to 2023

The bloopers had me in stitches 🤣 😂

one of my favorite episodes..so inspiring

Merry Christmas to every who reads this comment, I wish you a good health, wealth, and a hppy new year ahead.

I love your energies, each of you is unique n u all js blending so easily..u all shine differently n that's the best thing abt you

Loved this episode; (Okay, all episodes) but this one has made me reflect on my 2022. Be blessed ladies and happy holidays. Wishing you the best in 2023. ❤

the episode was amazing and the bloopers were hilarious!

You guys always keep me going.Kwanza when you talked about owning a land weeee,that thing is always on my mind and me being 25 i know am going to get myself a piece of it In Sha Allah. Thanks guys for the motivation,strength for 2022 and waiting for more coming 2023.

Thanks girls for teaching me a lot! Sending you so much love from Congo 🇨🇩 ❤

You guys did a show for 2022 goals or something I followed the advice and its life changing,I have made tremendous progress in my career finances and in ,my personal life.That's powerful.We have also seen each one of you grow. I feel Ivy has really pushed herself out of her shell this year.Looking forward to your content this year

Great talk ladies.🎉

Hey ladies. I personally appreciate the lows , they are a constant affirmation that we are all human. , most times we dont post our lows on social media but the little lows that have been laid out here on this episode have really inspired one or two. They show that not every day can be 100. Some days 0, some days 90. Balance. Kudos to that and Merry Christmas. 😊🌻

This episode was so well done, I must commend over 25! The juices are flowing, it's authentic and raw and beautiful to see!❤️

This is one of the best episode so far kudos ladies. Highs Meeting my dad for the first time (am over 30) Content, Growth and Daring.

@marymso5893

Жыл бұрын

How was your experience meeting with your dad for the first time Esther?

@estherkimani978

Жыл бұрын

Oh Mary at first it was scary but after the event I felt relived and I felt like a child in his arms in a good way....and that's what I needed the most.

Beautiful episode❤ Jules dropping gems as always 16:54

Thank you so much for an amazing conversation. I have learned so much from you girls.wishing u a happy healthy new year.watching from 🇷🇼

The beauty of idealism is that it exists in reality! That is so powerful!

Today's episode had such gems ladies🤌Love it! My takeaways being - Do it afraid and On the part of firing or mourning endings is accepting that particular thing doesn't align with you. Ironically this has been a low that I've come to accept this year. My highs has been starting therapy , learning the importance of building healthy habits for my mental health and having the courage to leave a toxic workplace. My 2023 words are CONFIDENCE, CONSISTENCY and PEACE💫💫 Long but tapping into declaring🙂

Thanks gals. The theme on reflection is great. No reflection, no growth. You have matured a lot. Old wine gets better..

Thankyou 💛

Loved this episode and love the addition of bloopers😀.. An all time favorite for me!!! 2022 was one for the books in my eyes! Alot to say..

My highs and lows weuh needs a whole episode. I'm gonna do that on my channel soon. But my 2023 words are gonna be 1. Commitment 2. Discipline 2. Self efficacy (i'm gonna borrow this from Jules. Coz I can totally relate. Happy holidays guys. Thank you Over 25 for giving us awesome episodes this year. Love you.

Beautiful ladies with so much zeal,confidence,the wisdom they ooze is on another level!!! I really enjoyed watching this episode i think its one of the best !!!!!

This ladies are goals.I mean power house.I love there listening skills,there ideas the expression ,and above all there highs.💥

This episode is just BEAUTIFUL 🤍✨

Am on my 29th minute of this section and am feeling so excited with what else is in this episode, I love Over25 coz its a place where feel related to each character in one way or another we on same space of understanding things in our own way.

Early early gang hoyeeel💃🏿💃🏿😍. Kuna zawadi😅. My 2022 has been just there😔, grateful STILL HERE . My 2023 word is SELF EFFICACY thanks Jules😍. Lornzie❤️. Merry Christmas🎄💝

The bloopers had me dead🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Could totally relate to that never-ending laughter once I start laughing. Especially during serious moments and everyone's looking at you like you've lost your mind because you can't explain why you're still laughing yet the joke is already stale😂. Anyways I love the people you're becoming, how far you've come, and where you're going. Continue owning it🥰

Ivy is also beautiful and elegant. Her style is everything

@Ivy sometimes a door has to close for the window to open...Something better will come along, you might not even realise it immediately but when your think or look back you'll see it clearly...

Loving the episode. Kindly Ivy share your saloonist.. the locks look so wow

This episode has really made me more appreciative.

That ending was everything I needed. 😂😭 High: work. relationships. Low: work. relationships. 2 words: innovate. elevate.

Let me just say off the bat before I even finish watching, Over 25 have a beautiful friendship - I can assure you that it isn't an a surety that the friends in your 20s will continue even into your 30s and beyond, (or that you would even want the same friends from that time). Never take it for granted that you have a safe space to be your full potential. Happy holidays Ladies.

Love love this content

Jules podcast 👏👏 that 🐂 story epic hongera Just Ivy for owing land in Kenya

Congratulations ladies for owning land in Kenya! That's a really huge achievement. Jules! I love your podcast! I've listened to all episodes!

I love you guys .

You guys!! I love love your content! Such a balance of energies! And I am here for it😍 I am a KZreadr and I am doing the same video.. thank you for the inspiration girls❤️

This was so therapeutic, ladies! Thank you so much. . . Happy holidays to you and yours! 💌🍀