Haha the son is just hustling his parents

@tonyadurst-scarlett1542

2 жыл бұрын

Yep.

@armynurseshark

2 жыл бұрын

This happens when parents don’t talk to each other

@kinsley7777

2 жыл бұрын

@SaladRostrum ... You nailed it ! ... especially if she's buying the kid 3 pairs of sneakers every month 🤣

@shannongriffin63

2 жыл бұрын

How 🤔 the father is a liar if your child walked in with new clothes and shoes you wouldn't ask where they came from just asking if my son walked in with anything I didn't pay for I want to know where it came from or that makes me a bad parent

@shannongriffin63

2 жыл бұрын

How 🤔 the father is a liar if your child walked in with new clothes and shoes you wouldn't ask where they came from just asking if my son walked in with anything I didn't pay for I want to know where it came from or that makes me a bad parent

The kid has it pretty good. He's playing both parents. Seriously, 2 or 3 pairs of shoes a month plus clothing, pizza etc? He's definitely doing alright.

@AztecDread

Жыл бұрын

He's a spoiled punk

@wyntersutton9966

6 ай бұрын

As I was reading this comment she was saying that😂😂

@raymondsolisjr.1262

6 ай бұрын

If he was a girl would you say the same thing

@user-ph2fk8ij2u

6 ай бұрын

He's a SCAMARTIST 💰

@ilyasali4868

6 ай бұрын

​@@raymondsolisjr.1262 what would change according to you if he was a girl, I don't think gender matters here. A cunny person is cunny whether male or female

I think the son is living his best life 😂😂😂 buying new shoes 2 to 3 times a month and not telling his dad about the extras

@schanataylor2067

5 ай бұрын

Exactly!

@Lets0627

4 ай бұрын

Probably bc he's getting nothing out of the cs. Then she's a fashion designer so she makes most of his clothes and shoes are probably refurbished celebrity shoes..ik son son be fresh asf tho 😅

@jessicaarmstrong5035

3 ай бұрын

I wanna know how his father doesn't notice that he has new shoes 2-3 times a month. Something tells me the dad knew something was up but just didn't ask since he didn't have to pay for it.

@alexiadavis67

28 күн бұрын

But wouldn't he see all the things his son has

I love how mama is relaxed because she has PROOF! I love a good mama

@kayshawnsimmons5585

5 ай бұрын

Receipts don't lie💯😹😹😹

@pqperique7260

4 ай бұрын

We never saw proof.

@christopherhorton821

4 ай бұрын

What proof ?.

@chinoreno1

2 ай бұрын

she’s fine 😮

@kickdropmedia

2 ай бұрын

A good mom would have her kid

I want to stand up and applaud this mother for going over and beyond to care for her son. She was willing to prove via cash app that she is telling the truth. Great and unique case!

@whynot9771

2 жыл бұрын

She's wearing a hat in court!?? ...my goodness...thats not respectful.😳🤦‍♂️

@Jp-ny3qh

2 жыл бұрын

Lets be realistic Mari, most fathers who do pay child support do the same thing so there's not much to applaud here, as many of them in the end are pushed to the side by society. If the mum giving money is such a great thing, then why not applaud the father for taking care of his child and his new family and working too? Why just applaud the mother?

@brittanyanne936

2 жыл бұрын

@@Jp-ny3qh it’s not that he doesn’t get an applause but more so just the situation of him saying she doesn’t help more financially like she said she was. Finances are such a small part anyway. I hate what she said at the end. It doesn’t matter what the father does with the child support. He could buy himself some shoes with it but the week before he could have bought his son a pair. Parents start to get so petty about child support. If your child has everything they need and more then who cares!

@YourShadowKeeper

2 жыл бұрын

@@whynot9771 Its not real. They're actors, they even clearly state that in the video and channels profile. Also, the wardrobe department would have been responsible for that choice.

@maribrunson4464

2 жыл бұрын

@@Jp-ny3qh You are correct; however, I applaud all fathers who support their child(ren). I would never take anything away from a father.

I think this ruling was definitely fair. That mama may not have primary physical custody because of her career but, she spends 2 to 3 days a week with her son and gives almost DOUBLE what she is ordered to give him for child support. She is trying to do right by him. 💜

@SpideySensey

10 ай бұрын

Nearly all the extra goes towards gratuitous pairs of expensive shoes. Hardly a necessity.

She’s genuinely doing her part and more and I applaud her for that. I can see why she would appreciate a decrease in the child support payments. All together she is paying just over $1200 a month

@rodericksears638

Жыл бұрын

I've some men pay the same amount that she's paying and still get dragged and disrespected by the mothers.

@minaberric4069

Жыл бұрын

@@rodericksears638 she’s getting disrespected right now too 😂mothers get flamed way worse for not being there than fathers do, and this women IS there ☠️

@rodericksears638

Жыл бұрын

@@minaberric4069 I don't here about too many women paying child support.

@vin7786

Жыл бұрын

Men do it all the time but she is a true hero 👍

@rutherfordrodney25

Жыл бұрын

Men do it and it just called a gift no decrease in support most of the the it’s an increase

The dad knows darn well she is giving her son above and beyond child support payment.

@kayshawnsimmons5585

5 ай бұрын

He's selfish and greedy

I could tell in the beginning, the judge was not on mom's side. The dad was not believable...couldn't give a straight answer or give eye contact. The judge made the right decision.

@sharondrahardrick9839

2 жыл бұрын

Yep 👍 t

@bronsonperich9430

5 ай бұрын

The mom could not provide a legal basis to back her argument. But then dodgy dad couldn't back his lies 😂

@seawitchpirates9871

4 ай бұрын

They’re actors

@meka1002

3 ай бұрын

I don't think he really cared

@valenciasanchez93

2 ай бұрын

Yeah cause the child support is being used to care for his wife and kids lol which is why she sent to money to her son and not to the dad. If I’m not mistaken equipment is only paid for once a year.

I think the son is taking advantage of situation telling Mom he needs this and then telling Dad he needs this . You gotta give credit to the son for running a game on his parents

@action_bastard8567

2 жыл бұрын

yup, collecting $ from dad or mum.

@carmillastephens9497

2 жыл бұрын

But hol up tho lol He has 2 other kids in the house and a fiance... That extra $700 from child support is going to the other kids.

@bobbiejackson732

2 жыл бұрын

Daddy need 2 step up this is ashame very good mom she taking care r his other kids to

@chestnutbrown9340

2 жыл бұрын

The parents aren't communicating

@michellebest7539

2 жыл бұрын

Most definitely he running a game on both of them

So you’re telling me when that child comes home with some new sneakers the father doesn’t ask his son how he come by those 2-3 pairs of sneakers per month? YEAH RIGHT! He knows well that the mother is doing over and beyond for her son.

@DemelicosHelsaint

Жыл бұрын

Uh huh... And how is buying an exorbitant amount of sneakers for a kid supporting them?

@TERI-B

Жыл бұрын

@@DemelicosHelsaint Did you even watch the video? I didn’t say that buying a lot of sneakers is supporting a child. However, shoes are considered “A NEED” and fortunately for this child, he gets more than he needs. As stated by the mother of this child, she pays the father child support and supplies other needs, like clothing and give the child other money than the child support that she gives to the father. So yes, the mother supports her child in every way she can. Nothing wrong with spoiling your child. It’s her child and she can do what she wants. Don’t be mad at him having a lot of sneakers. Stop hating!

@stefanc4520

Жыл бұрын

The mom sent the money to DIRECTLY to her child without the fathers knowledge. You're assuming this 17 year old kid didn't spend the money on girls/alcohol/drugs and used it for a legit purpose.

@TERI-B

Жыл бұрын

@Stefan C ...NOT all black people waste their money on girls, drugs and alcohol!!! So you sound very foolish for that 🙄

@odutola123

Жыл бұрын

@@DemelicosHelsaint y

it’s not like she wanted to stop providing support, she just wanted to stop giving the money to the dad. She wanted to be able to just send money to her kid…he’s 17 years old, that seems fair to me.

@harper.la.vegano

Жыл бұрын

I think that's very fair.

@danawinslett7505

5 ай бұрын

I disagree. Child support also covers food and shelter for the child. Pretty sure the kid isn't taking the money from Mom's cash apps and throwing it on the household bills.

@jenniferhuff4895

Ай бұрын

She is giving her son money, and he spends it on shoes apparently?

@IBeAzazel

Ай бұрын

Absolutely correct 💯💯 just give the money to her son

@IBeAzazel

Ай бұрын

​@@jenniferhuff4895She also supporting the weed habit😂😂😂😂

Sounds like the child is double dipping between the parents for “uniform and equipment”

@simoneturner88

2 жыл бұрын

I was thinking that. Like so we not gone talk about how dad buys him sneakers then he asks mom to send him money for sneakers? 🤷🏽‍♀️

@vickilee7212

2 жыл бұрын

nah its the dad who's the problem, nothing she does above and beyond is never good enough, sounds like hes just trying to scam even more money from her for HIS 2 other kids, hes lying thru his teeth

@Chaosmite

2 жыл бұрын

@@vickilee7212, it’s both their problems since neither of them are communicating and the son is playing both of them like a fiddle

@nakiawalker9816

2 жыл бұрын

@@vickilee7212 that’s a reach

@terellbrown4326

2 жыл бұрын

@@vickilee7212 you female always blame the Male

Body language is a huge sign I always look for. The mother is paying for everything her child needs and wants. The father was clearly lying. Him and the step momma is gonna be pissy come graduation.

@KaitlynnIsDead

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Thank you!!!

@dswynne

2 жыл бұрын

Why assume that the Dad is lying? It might be that the son is double-dipping the parents. And, the only reason the Mom wanted a reduction is because SHE thinks that her ex is using her for his needs. This is a clear case of not communicating with each other

@kevintownsend2457

2 жыл бұрын

The son is definitely playing them

@xphnyx9299

2 жыл бұрын

or just maybe the kid is asking for stuff from both parents that’s what i used to do 😂😂😂

@michellebest7539

2 жыл бұрын

Nooo the father is busy working long hours. I know how the black men do

It's refreshing to see that the parents, though separated, are both taking care of the child instead of just one parent. I love seeing this. It might not get enough views as "bad mom" or other videos of yours but this was heart warming to see that parents care for their child

She actually seems truthful and like a good momma. That guys eyes were so shifty

He wears $500 sneakers that's ridiculous I remember when we were kids we were lucky if we got Payless shoes!

@elyhenu8449

2 жыл бұрын

And Payless wasn't that cheap - i grew up on thrift store shoes and clothing before it was coOol

@tree6787

2 жыл бұрын

@@elyhenu8449 right!! I remember when 25 bucks was a heck of a lot of money for a pair of shoes! And we were lucky if we got new Payless shoes they were usually hand me downs. ☺️ I wouldn't change a thing though it makes me grateful for everything I have.

@joytoyouandme4593

2 жыл бұрын

How much is the son and fiancé paying towards household expenses? Who needs 2 or 3 pairs of shoes a month? Vonda didn’t ask the right questions.

@lynnellison7587

2 жыл бұрын

@@tree6787 right , kids are so ungrateful now, most feel entitled

@jaymeeengrasciramos9752

2 жыл бұрын

For real

I’ll be honest… if my son’s father was actually active in his life without needing to be told by the government or anyone else, I DEFINITELY would not put him on CS. Heck… he hasn’t been in my son’s life since birth (he’ll be 4 this year) and I’m JUST NOW petitioning for a DNA to receive payments.

@mogetit5999

2 жыл бұрын

Good for you! Hopefully you will get back pay as well.

@MissDeenaB94

2 жыл бұрын

@@mogetit5999 I appreciate it thank you. I really tried because he is 2 years younger than me so at the time he didn’t even turn 21 yet when I got pregnant.. so I somewhat get it.. but cmon now… at some point you have to grow the hell up. I wasn’t ready either but I put myself to the side and became the best mother I can possibly be. Not perfect but I try with my night

@bethanyknox190

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. I never asked for child support in the beginning because my sons dad was there 1000%. But when I refused to get back with him he stopped doing for our son. So after trying for a long time to compromise with him with no luck I finally took child support out on him.

@DrvnkDrvgxn

2 жыл бұрын

You're a good person for that. Ive always felt the same way.. and I did the exact thing you did. Waited til 4 years of him being inactive in my son's life. Now he's going on 8 and he still ain't around and neither is that child support 🙄

@myeshadapisces

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Wait a sec. He can’t claim that it’s only him that pays for sports when she’s paying 700.00 mo. in child support.

@avabrown5259

Жыл бұрын

That ALONE had me like..whaaat?

@wyattnguyen6323

Жыл бұрын

It depends on when they entered the $700 agreement . If the child wasn't playing sport at that time, then the amount doesn't cover the sport.

@juanitabanks6352

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@yolandaperry6223

Жыл бұрын

Doesn't matter when he started playing sports...the $700 she is giving is her part if his sports needs... the farther still has to pay his part...Child SUPPORT is to help the other parent support the custodial parent not pay child supoort and fully pay all activities...remember the other parent has to have food & shelter also...all parents should do more than Child support if can but in all actually they are only obligated by the court order..he didn't even want to give her credit for the extra...this goes if it was visa versa...

@spaghettiinnose2216

Жыл бұрын

righhht?! where is all that money going ☠️

Wait......$200 for a pair of sneekers....$600 a MONTH for shoes? What the hell are people thinking?!

@lynningram4218

8 ай бұрын

Right???? Hell nah.

@pamelatire8386

6 ай бұрын

She is not there like she will like to be for her son because of work. Now she is compensating financially

@debrabaird633

6 ай бұрын

Get a grip No one needs that

@kayshawnsimmons5585

5 ай бұрын

He will need that money when he's 25🤦🏾‍♀️

@liliaalvarado7040

4 ай бұрын

I can see it if they are specialized for track and basketball. Sometimes they wear out, you need different street shoes and court shoes, and sometimes if you play hard enough, those shoes wear out fast.

If the dad paying for equipment and uniform and stuff. The momma paying the money directed to the son and stuff for those things. What’s the son doing with the money if the dad still paying for the uniforms and all that stuff.

@saoirse0013

2 жыл бұрын

i was thinking the same thing

@shandicook515

2 жыл бұрын

Good question! I was thinking & wondering the same thing.

@mrslywwilliams313

2 жыл бұрын

He's probably using that money to purchase more shoes while his father has just purchased uniforms and shoes. Kudos to Judge Vonda for stopping the childishness between them in court. Glad that the father didn't face Judge Judy with all of the looking around that he did with Vonda. She wouldn't play that.

@sherrytee2962

2 жыл бұрын

🤣 the son is living his best life he can financially

@Cookie-zv3ni

2 жыл бұрын

He was lying. That’s why he put his head down when she was answering that question.

I can’t stand when grown men talk like he do. It’s like a low growl 😂 ENUNCIATE!!

@Shabaka87

2 жыл бұрын

Slow and smoke weed all day

@beesknees213

2 жыл бұрын

....like he doES.

@rbaltimo

2 жыл бұрын

NIGGA MUMBLIN..BWAHAHAHA

@lionxwarrior3004

2 жыл бұрын

Texan drawl! Leave him be lmao

@Shabaka87

2 жыл бұрын

@@lionxwarrior3004 has nothing to do with being from Texas. His brain is barely functioning.

If i was 17 living in a broken home, and the parent I wasnt living with was sending me money...I sure as hell wouldnt tell my father that lol

@avabrown5259

Жыл бұрын

Smart kid.

@jailaprimm1687

Жыл бұрын

How you know the home is broken?

@jub_doubleo1142

Жыл бұрын

@Jaila Primm because both parents are on this show

@jailaprimm1687

Жыл бұрын

@Jub_DoubleO how is that a broken home?

@jub_doubleo1142

Жыл бұрын

@Jaila Primm because the parents aren't together and the kid goes between 2 different homes....if you have to go to one home to see your father, and a different home to see your mother...that is a broken home lol

My youngest son went to stay with his Dad and I was put on child support. His Dad thought he was gonna continue to collect child support AFTER our son dropped out of school. Nope, didn't happen. So I was taken off of CS. But I continued to give our son money when he needed things. His Dad was pissed because HE wasn't getting the money.

I was 17 as a Senior, so why would that Suprise the Judge as if she never heard of that??

@kev80976

2 жыл бұрын

Right! Lol same here. Birthday in July ‼️

@Lyric-sd5tb

2 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same. Me and my son both graduated at 17.

@Iamanitawilliams

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe because he not even 18 yet, and she's looking to get off of CS. Also in the event he attends college, the CS order can be extended to age 23

@nakking3224

2 жыл бұрын

@@Iamanitawilliams learn em

@therose__

2 жыл бұрын

Me too..i was born in november.

“Well go ahead and live happily ever after because you all are dismissed” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@kayshawnsimmons5585

5 ай бұрын

😹😹😹😹👩🏾‍⚖️😍🍿☕

She sounds like such an amazing mom!! I can tell dad is just mad he isn’t getting what he wants in the equation ! This mom deserves so much love and gratitude because she’s doing such a good job I just wanna hug her

@lunaballuna

Жыл бұрын

BOTH parents are doing great. He's caring for his child just as she is. The son is very likely going to both parents saying "I need this or I need that". All 3 need to have a sit down. My brother did this to my parents until I ratted him out and they had a sit down with his spoiled butt. Dad is doing a great job, he just needs to monitor what his son is doing a bit more closely bc I think the kid is pulling the wool over his eyes

@mariahillenbrand8396

Жыл бұрын

Dad is probably using the child support for his own needs!!!

@SpideySensey

10 ай бұрын

I'd say she's a good mom. An "amazing" mom would tell her 17 year old "No, I won't pay $400 a month for two pairs of shoes. I'll instead put that money away for you for college"

@Iamdiggity22

10 ай бұрын

I felt the dad was very respectful. Seems like the son just taking both of them for a run. If dad says no, mom will say yes kind of deal

@loveRCDtv

6 ай бұрын

The favoritism is insane here… Nowhere did I get the impression that he’s mad. He literally did not put up a fight whatsoever for the lowered child support. He looked tired from a long days work and was ready to go home. My personal opinion I think they are both good parents. I’d argue that the child support amount should have been kept the same as there only a couple payments left and sneakers/pizza are not necessities… BUT I’m not disagreeing that the lowered amount isn’t fair either because it is since she sees him half the week etc.

You know she loves her son very much because even though she's out of town often, when she's back, she gets him and she's been doing much more than what the court's required. I agree with her sending her son cash app. This way, she knows he's getting what he needs and it's not going to others in the house. Bravo my sister. Her son KNOWS he's loved very much.

@juanitabanks6352

Жыл бұрын

Yes smart

This was a great case , mom is really taking care of her kid!

@hakeemblake3653

2 жыл бұрын

Financially but shes not there day to day raising him. That would be the step mom and dad.

@YouAreGoingToLoseMe87

2 жыл бұрын

@@hakeemblake3653 exactly

@YouAreGoingToLoseMe87

2 жыл бұрын

Half ass taking care of him She need to be there

@consciousheart2348

2 жыл бұрын

It never ceases to amaze me that she is doing all that she can she sees him at least 2-3 times a week along with providing for him financially yet she is looked at in a negative light !! Wow Some men don’t do half of what she is doing and society says to the mother “ you should have made better choices when you laid down with that man! Or that’s on her for letting him get away with stuff!! Pick a side! He pretended not to know that “ she buys him clothing for his activities she isn’t physically there but maintains everything for his well being and yet he shrugs it off like he is Stevie wonder and can’t see anything!! Smt If she was physically there would that have been what the child needed ?! Notice his father shrugged off 80% of what she said!! But I bet you if you revisit this upon graduation things will be completely different cause she will be paying for college and another set of financial stuff for him and his dad will still require help from her for day to day stuff for their child!!

@bobbiejackson732

2 жыл бұрын

And his other 👪

I’m glad she got a reduction and for the dad not knowing about the cashapp is fishy…

@chrisrodney79

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed.

@tracygabriel152

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, are you not paying attention, your son has extra money that you did not give him, as a parent , it’s time to investigate

@humanhoney6058

2 жыл бұрын

Not even he contradicted himself because at the beginning the judge asked him about outside money and he said yea

@Nini_473

2 жыл бұрын

She was definitely taking care of his whole family!

@stanleywilson8137

2 жыл бұрын

@@Nini_473 700 takes care of a family? Please enlighten us on how to do that.....I'll wait

My parents got divorced while my dad was making about $38 an hour so the child support wasn't an issue for him until he got laid off and wasn't able to get a job or a stable one. He wasn't able to pay child support so it just kept stacking up and he lost things like his drivers license so he wasn't able to even drive to get a job. I was about 8 at the time and now I'm a full grown adult over the age of 25 and this year my dad was able to finally pay off the rest of the child support. Keep in mind I spent every summer with my dad and ever day I could with him and in my mind he was supporting me more than my mom

I feel like you’d be absolutely required to show paystubs, bank records, cashapp and Venmo receipts the day you’re in court for this.

@yolandaperry6223

Жыл бұрын

Are these true cases because I've never known this to be done on the word of each parent...have to provide documentation

@Oxzilion

Жыл бұрын

@@yolandaperry6223 no, they’re not real. At the end of the videos it says they’re fictional and done by actors, or something asking those lines.

@obliviouss_380

Жыл бұрын

@@Oxzilion apparently they’re based on true situations

@naomiemoore5725

10 ай бұрын

All actors. HOWEVER, they are based on actual cases.

@Oxzilion

10 ай бұрын

@@naomiemoore5725 I know. There’s a disclaimer on her videos. I was just saying, you’d think people would know enough to bring receipts to stuff.

"I send money through Cash App, I even have proof" Me: Let me see

@alexndrog3025

2 жыл бұрын

Yooo 🤣🤣🤣

@no.cakess

2 жыл бұрын

Right

@feliciamoore1747

2 жыл бұрын

Right

@directdevan

2 жыл бұрын

faxxxx

@dayo1026

2 жыл бұрын

Actually, it doesn't make sense for the judge to require the dad to produce written evidence to prove the mom is not paying extra and then accept the mom's assertion that she is paying extra without the mom producing written evidence to support her claim. If anyone is in the position to produce physical evidence to support the extra payment, it's the mom. I tend to think the mom is lying and is upset about the dad having a new woman and having moved on with his life. Also, there is a reason the dad was awarded sole custody of his son. There should not have been a reduction based on an unsupported verbal claim that the mom was paying extra. This judge's ruling leaves a lot to be desired. I have worked in juvenile law for decades, and I have never seen a judge accept a person's word without corrobarative evidence to support it.

He’s almost 18…she just need to hang on. Let’s keep it real the issue is the finance. It’s the mom feeling like she’s supporting his woman. Technically it’s true, but thankfully she only have 6 months to deal with it.

The son is playing them 🤣🤣🤣

@jesstill7833

7 ай бұрын

Hell yes the son is playing both of them

@kayshawnsimmons5585

5 ай бұрын

Yup!😹😹😹

I respect the mom because I can tell she really wanted to snap lol but she held her composure. I believe her

Honestly this is why people need to have connections and contact with their parenting partner because kids realize then there is a disconnect and if they can get out of it they will

@kenyappalmer5819

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly I do not speak my exhusband however my is a manipulator and I know that he thinks because we do not connect that he can manipulate situations. I have learned that that my son tries it

@pamelahall1367

2 жыл бұрын

Mom only only has 6 months payments left which she can handle....good job....jerk knows he and so called fiancee was usin that 700 for themselves and their children.....KARMA

@RouzMusau

6 ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly

Sounds like the son is getting some extra cash for himself 👀 Both parents are paying for the same things at the same time? I don't think so 🤣

They both seem like civilized individuals. The son playing them like a fiddle 🥴

The fact that both parties agreed that he spends 2-3 days a week with her shows there should’ve been an adjustment on CS alone. Regardless of whether the judge was considering the extra money as a “gift” especially since the CS order was likely based on the son living with the dad full-time.

Mom, your son's playing you for a fool. You're not sending him child support, you're sending him an allowance!

Whoa! $700 a month….I hear so many men complain of 200 a month! No wonder the mom wants a reduction since he’s almost of age. But like the judge, I don’t think she’d take dad off if roles were reversed. And most people would agree. But…700 yeah I don’t blame her

@user-ik1bk3go1e

2 жыл бұрын

He's inmature , inarticulate, pathetic, irresponsible and using his ex to support him and his family.

@MsBrownsugarTX

2 жыл бұрын

Baby I had 3 minor kids and was only given $146 per month for all three! Not they are 28, 26 and 20 I just started getting child support last month from 2017!

@phoenixrising6940

2 жыл бұрын

I took my child's Dad off support. We were mature enough to manage without court involvement.

It's always the "that's just my opinion" parent that's lying lmao

Good job 👏 Mom! It's rare to see a parent in Court that is paying more money 💰 than ordered, providing the extras for her son as he goes through HS. It seems as though she has always put her son 1st during his 17 years 👍👍👍 Great job Mom & I hope your son has learned alot of your good morals & taking responsibility. This is a refreshing case to see brought before this Judge 👌

It's is good to see parents taking care of their child and not being evil to each other

Typically, anything sent outside the child support order is considered a gift by the court and will not adjust the child support order. It depends on the state though.

@BiracialWaifuu

2 жыл бұрын

I don't care what state you in, this is my opinion. If you sending stuff outside of child support, that's not a gift cause at the end of the day that's your child, you help support that child anyway necessary, even if it's outside of child support

@leamarie4687

2 жыл бұрын

Yes I’m NY they would consider it a gift

@naegillespie5267

2 жыл бұрын

@@BiracialWaifuu Right,they only say gift befor a child support order is in place.

@mariahardy1201

2 жыл бұрын

I found that out when I provided a list of things my ex was giving extra, even though he was technically behind on child support. The judge thanked me for being honest and explained that if it's outside of the child support order it is a gift. 🤷🏽‍♀️ And he is still in contempt. I was very surprised...he was shook.

@cholebell8306

2 жыл бұрын

@@BiracialWaifuu true

I’m 27, my father has always been on child support. The state let him get so backed up in CS that the judge told him more than likely he’ll never get off it for me because he owes so much in back pay. It’s truly refreshing to see even tho the kid is hustling both parents which is common at that age, they both go above & beyond. That’s what they should be doing.

Their son probably asks both parents to pay for basketball and then keeps the money 😂

Always love watching this sista do her work enforcing the law as it should honestly be done 🙏🏾🛐💯🙌🏾✝️

I don’t think he is being totally truthful

@chrisrodney79

2 жыл бұрын

Neither of them is.

@ortaegahenry6493

2 жыл бұрын

I agree extra money man please he was getting over like fat rat it take a lot leave your child i just can’t do it but good luck with everything

@marshabranch1300

2 жыл бұрын

Not at all

@tetethomp7880

2 жыл бұрын

Me either because at 1st he said that she send cash app here and there then he turned around and said he knows nothing about her sending the son cash app. And if she paying $700 a month. Shouldn't the dad take that to pay for extra curricular activities? Sometimes some of these parents be getting child support and the child is not be taken care of and the child does reaches out to the other parent for food and other things they may be lacking.

@tateyanabaker537

Жыл бұрын

@@chrisrodney79 maybe I missed something.. what wasn’t the mother being truthful about? She had proof that she’s been sending him(son) cashapps and she’s current with her child support payments 🤷‍♀️

I love how your bailiff says “you’re welcome.”

That mother was helping to take care, of him his wife and children. That judge was, wrong for that. She know damn well, what that man is doing with that $700 a month. It most certainly, is not all being spent on the son. 🤬

@TheJustwatchin88

2 жыл бұрын

Says who?

@altonf62

2 жыл бұрын

Men go through these BS all the times. Im talking about men that are in the same situation as her. Child support is view by many like punishment especially men. It is not it your responsibility as a parent to do so. Like this woman in court. I paid my child support like I was suppose to. I also handle school supplies , cloths, field trips, school pics, birthday and xmas presents in addition to child support payments because they are my kids too. I see all the support she is getting for doing what she is suppose to do. That said that goes for men too,

@stanleywilson8137

2 жыл бұрын

So by your logic. Child support money sent to women gets spent the same way. Gotcha....dumb ass statement

@sandrasimpson216

2 жыл бұрын

He still has rent, water, electric, clothes, food. Sounds like son taking his cash app money hanging out . 175 is health insurance. Soo 700 isn't alot.

@lailarobinson3196

2 жыл бұрын

@@sandrasimpson216 his bills are not her responsibility, child support is for the child and he has 2 other kids. He has to have a job.

I think that a reduction is fair ! So proud of the mother for sticking up for her self . The feeling of not being on child support after a child has aged out is amazing but the support is directed directly to the 18 yo child so 🤷🏽‍♀️

If he is almost 18 why even bring it to court?

@JudgeVondaB

2 жыл бұрын

I’ll never understand that part.

@clearseer007

2 жыл бұрын

She wants to save some money. It was 700-450=250 saved per month.250x6 months = $1500 saved.

I'm gonna need mom to refrain from wearing her cap in court😂

@williamegler8771

Жыл бұрын

That is part of the Ghetto Fabolous Fashionista ensemble...

@kimschlehuber4339

Жыл бұрын

It isn't real court. It's acting

I'll never understand parents that need a court to help like this! Me and my ex husband have NEVER paid child support... We buy whats needed between us! 🤷 Your child should always come before your wants

@tracyhurst7512

2 жыл бұрын

It is why it is because people do not want to take care of their responsibilities.

@deonmonroe4592

2 жыл бұрын

Bitter ppl

@cjrogers1000

2 жыл бұрын

Maturity has a lot to do with it and when one isn’t that’s when the courts are called on…congratulations on always working it out

@mrslywwilliams313

2 жыл бұрын

@@tracyhurst7512 and courts are needed to also account for what ever responsibilities that have and are still being met. People lie and play games with each other.

@JamesBrown-ty5wp

2 жыл бұрын

Alot of adults don't put the child 1st and then want to hurt the other person... especially when jealous and envy is involved.... also a lot people don't have a clue on how to communicate

He Talking bout "So I can live happily ever after" 😂 Get On! Dude You're in HER pockets. && She taking care of her child plus providing an extra income into your home.

She's sure taking care of his whole house.

It seemed like the judge was looking for a reason to deny mom. That man was obviously lying. I’m so glad mom was able to get her request approved

Idk why she told her to not worry about something that's "not even her business" Honey if my son lives there and I'm sending $700+ to that house my son lives in, THEN ITS MY BUSINESS. PERIODT

@waynefoster85

2 жыл бұрын

She was referring to her comment stating “I’m tired of taking care of him and his other kids” which was a tacky comment to begin with but the judge is right his other children aren’t any of her business as long as her child is taken care off that’s all that matters

@BiracialWaifuu

2 жыл бұрын

@@waynefoster85 Yeah as long as HE is taken care of. Not his brothers and sisters or his daddy. 👏🏾👌🏾 So I see that comment she made as justified

@minglee649

2 жыл бұрын

PERIODT…..

@mystery38106

2 жыл бұрын

I can bet that he takes care of those other kids with that money

@BiracialWaifuu

2 жыл бұрын

@@mystery38106 I already know he do. She literally snitched on him. He and his wife don't make enough to dress them as nice as her son. But as soon as that child support being sent, all of a sudden the siblings dressing just as nice? Hell yeah he spending that money on the other kids

It's so crazy how the attitude shifted towards the mom after she said she had receipts..... People crazy. I'm glad she was calm about it.

perfect example when parents don't communicate. for all we know the kid is taking advantage of the situation.

Dad needs to talk to his son. I think the son is a hustler!!

Her paying more is not his problem it is her.

BIG UPS TO MOM... MAD RESPECT

I've watched a lot of cases and in similar situations the Judge has said if you give extra above what the court has ordered its considered a gift.

I love that both ain’t hollering 😭 so civilized

When Judge dismissed them 🤣😂😂😂

She is paying extra when she wasn’t ordered to and now wants a decrease in her obligation because of that.

😂wow..this is probably the most calm support court I've seen in a while. Most of it was straight forward and to the point 👍

Money she gives the son directly is a gift -

@mirandapatterson5624

11 ай бұрын

Doesn't matter

Excuse me but I'd know if my kid was wearing $250 shoes that I didn't use that $700 to pay for. He know the money didn't come out his pocket and that all he concerned about. The gag is she got it to send. Support and cashapps running up and she still spending time. If this were the other ways around I'd feel the same

A low tone, no fighting, solemn, slow court case. ❤❤

I applaud her for taking care of her son and also for paying her child support like she should but if the child support cannot be denied or stopped then for the next few months or whatever until he turns 18 I would just pay the child support and I would not pay anything over that. Let his father take care of the rest of it. If she's doing what she was ordered to do that's all she needs to do for now.

Son is def finessin 😂😂😂😂 But a court order is a court order. He ain’t 18 yet

700$ a month and two incomes. I would’ve save that money for him when he turn 18 so he would be set for college.

The fact that children get to choose where they want to go is absolutely ridiculous. They’re always going to choose the easiest way and that is not always the best way. Their wishes should be heard but the best parent should be granted.

This woman is strong. She should be given a big handshake.

See and they call me sexist. I feel just as bad for this woman as I would for a man. Imagine ladies, your bady daddy had custody of your child and he taking money from you and the son is also taking money from you. Of course you want a reduction. And it's somewhat reasonable. But time and time again men deal with this and no one ever cares. Anyway I love this show.

@altonf62

2 жыл бұрын

FACTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@tateyanabaker537

Жыл бұрын

Yeah it’s messed up even when the roles are reversed.

I absolutely respect this Woman

The son is hustling lol

She asks is there anything further before I move over to the next party an the person always says NO then continues to talk 😂😂 i can't

She's buying the son 2 or 3 pairs of $200+ sneakers and his dad doesn't know?. I can only surmise that the boy is either lying or buying them and selling them to his friends

Hey both parents are there for the child, one thing I will say... THAT KID BETTER APPRECIATE IT, NO QUESTION!! I wish I would had that growing up!!

The father has a slow drawl...he is careful what he says ....clever son , playing one off against the other, with the mom throwing in sneekers and pizzas...😂😂😂😂 along with the CS.❤❤❤❤he is living his best life.

This was one of the chilliest and straightforward court cases I’ve ever seen.

I love how as she kept asking questions she was like hmmmm cause it was making sense 😭😂

We are lucky to have Medicare in Australia through the government for low income earners but don’t have to paid back but America seems to be much better at helping both parents with parental rights and visitations. Go Judge Vonda 🇦🇺💜

@lovemii3kids

2 жыл бұрын

Its the same in America

@lunnalocca9376

2 жыл бұрын

I believe Medicare gets taken out in taxes in your pay checks and end of year taxes in America. My sons has Medicare bc he’s a baby but I do not bc I don’t qualify

@zakenab

2 жыл бұрын

Medicare is for old people yall talking about MediCAID lol

@jacintadonadio1208

2 жыл бұрын

@@zakenab Medicare in Australia is different if you think it’s just for the old you need to open your eyes to the world sweetheart

@msllamamama

2 жыл бұрын

We have medicaid in Washington State for the kids and adults and we don't have to pay it back.

Son is hustling both parents😂

No 17yo needs 2-3 pairs of shoes a month. That child is taking full advantage of his parents.

I love how her reasons go from diverse to very narrow for what she's sending money for as soon as she starts actually explaining all of a sudden she's buying him two to three pairs of sneakers a month and that's the total

Mom is doing her legal obligations plus some. That’s so good to see honestly.

The voice of justice. This judge is human. God bless you Amen

I'm glad she at least received a reduction. I feel like she really was taking care of him and his other family

That man was a damn liar. Real scrub

@hakeemblake3653

2 жыл бұрын

Dude is active in his son's life , and taking responsibility for him while his mom travels. Not a scrub , things get muddy in divorces

@MissPanda-hq9zd

2 жыл бұрын

@@hakeemblake3653 he a scrub because no hardworking man will put their kids mom on child support.

I LIKE THIS JUDGE. SMART, FAIR AND SEXY. I SUPPORT THIS COURT!!

If the son has lived with the father for a number of years and the mother has been paying child support all of those years and the son has a few months until graduation, just keep paying. It's only for a few more months and in a few more months, child support will be over. I personally wouldn't stress myself like this. In a few months, this too shall end. I agree with the judge decision.

Love your hair today Judge Vonda B.

@JudgeVondaB

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Erin!💜

She doesn’t know what her child support is being used for so be nice. Kid almost grown.

I love this judge she is kind and fair and loving and understanding please keep her around so some children safe from people who don’t want them which is sad heartbreaking I just don’t understand people like that