More happy marriage ahead, Ghib! Thanks for sharing this day with us. I have to comment that you're no typical Japanese husband. You approach your marriage with an open heart and do reflections with your wife. This is one of the main keys to a successful relationship. Credits go your missus too. Look at her willingness to be open with you in the video. I dare to say that not many spouses do that. Bless the both of you with many more joyful years to come.

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

😊 thank you

"This couple exudes a down to earth charm, with genuine warmth, relaxed demeanor, and a humble, easygoing nature."

Thank you for being authentic and showing a real slice of life! As a viewer of your channel, it was nice to get to know you better through this video as well and get some tips on relationship management. Very relatable content.

@nutrats

2 ай бұрын

If you and your wife do a Q&A video to continue this topic and maybe about life in general too, I would be interested to watch 😃

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it! It was slightly challenging at first to talk about our life and problems but if you enjoyed it, it was worth it

Wishing you both a very happy 5th anniversary! おめでとうございます!

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thanks always paecpc!

I'm married to my Japanese husband for 7 years now with a kid. I must say cultural miscommunication was the thing to overcome like what is ok to say or sensitive sometimes we don't get each other but we will try to explain once we cool down. Also he is not the kind to give me surprises or show outward affection but I'm ok with it. It is true once you have a kid, things change because there is an additional responsibility and another life depends on you two. But the kid does help diffuse tension or becomes a topic to talk about. I started going back to work part-time and my husband had to pick up the kid and prep dinner on days that I work, so he does chip in since we don't have help from parents or a helper. He cleans the toilets weekly and his cooking is definitely better than mine. As with any relationship, international or not, there has to be the understanding and stepping in for each other without comparison. Cheers to your 5 years and many more to come!

@RC-rp3eu

2 ай бұрын

I am impressed by the communication between the 2 of you. There is a bond, an intelligent, caring attitude. But. Start a family. Kids add joy and more love.

Congratulation to your 5th Marriage Anniversary, Ghib san🙏🏽🙇🏻‍♀️ Thank you for sharing this valuable information

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you too!

Thank you for the quiz, what a way to celebrate this milestone! 🎉

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Huat ah!!

Heartiest Congrats Ghib Ojisan n Wife on your 5th wedding Anniversary. It's very interesting that all your fanss gets the opportunity to watch both of you appearing your candid commenrs in the open.Best of success and happiness to both of you and your family both in Osaka and Singapore

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you very much!

Congratulations to both of you! Happy 5th Anniversary! May you both have a peaceful and happy life together for a really long time.

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you! You too!

Hello friend, I always feel intrigued by your amazing videos, happy wedding aninversary. 😊 There are many cultural differences but glad that you guys work out these differences. 🙏

Happy 5th Anniversary! You two!

I can totally relate to this topic, haha. You two really seem to complement each other well. Happy wedding anniversary!

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

I think so too. Thanks!!

I feel enlightened by this video, I am married for about 5 years plus, I totally agree that both parties need to put in effort to communicate effectively in order to make the marriage work. 🙏

Congratulations!! to your 5 years anniversary!!🎉🎉🎉Thank you for sharing! I think what you did is a great process of healthy marriage. Keep listening to each other needs😁We have been married for 45 years.

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

45 years is amazing!

Happy anniversary🎉 5周年ってことにびっくり‼︎😳 いつまでも仲良くお幸せに✨

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

ありがとうございます😊

Many more anniversaries to come!!!

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Huat ah!

Both of you sound very genuine!

Everlasting love to both❤❤❤🎉

Happy anniversary to you and your wife! 🎉

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 😀

Congratulation my friend, love your video so so so much ❤

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🤗

Blessed anniversary, thanks for ur sharing, God bless

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thanks so much

Happy Anniversary!

Happy 5th anniversary. Blessed year ahead, together with your wifey!! 💐

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!

Congrats on your anniversary!

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Eumi!!

happy 5th anniversary Ghib san!! I still remember when I clicked on your video for the first time back in 2019, when you were touring Yishun 😁. Awesome to see where you are at now!

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for supporting the channel since the beginning. I hope I can continue to make interesting videos for you 😁

Happy 5th wedding anniverary❤😘 Always remember , be nice n patience to one another , all problems will be solved❤

Happy 5th anniversary and mine 31st anniversary , both our anniversaries fall on the same day🎉 blessed with good health, good wealth and happiness ❤😊🎉

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

31 years is amazing! Huat ah!!

Happy Wedding Anniversary 🌹🌹🌹❤❤❤

Happy Anniversary ㊗️💐💐🤍❤️

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 😊

Happy anniversary!

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

😆😆😆

I thought ghib had 3 million subscriber but actually only 300k... so underrated

I don't know anything about Japanese husbands. But you sound very different. You are open and funny. You have also adopted a Singaporean accent. I have been married to my husband for 33 years. We have an interracial marriage. I am Chinese and he is an American. The secret to a good marriage is forgetfulness. I always forget so I don't get angry for long. It may not work for all but it works for us. You two look like you will have a long and happy marriage. Happy anniversary. Your simple homemade dish looks warm and welcoming. God bless.

@kezbot2

2 ай бұрын

Forgetfulness or forgiveness? ❤

got that GOV SG sponsor

oh ghib..may you and your wife have many many more healthy happy communicative years ahead..! Love watching the both of you communicate..the part of apology is so true in many marriages!

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you😁

Ghib chewing the candy when he is panicking haha

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

The candy saved me

14:42 Ghib san i think you should maybe start cooking videos one day cause i am interested in some of the dishes you made and happy 5th anniversary as well

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thanks! But cooking is only hobby🤣

Happy anniversary 🎉🎉🎉

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 😀

My husband & I try to communicate more & spend more time together. 😊

Happy 5 anniversary🎉🎉🎉

Happy 5th wedding anniversary Ghib and Wifey ❤🫶😀🥂

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thanks always kez 😁

Happy Anniversary Guys!🎉

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thanks 😆

the question on values about money, is not so much gender based but influenced by our upbringing. Happy Anniversary!

Planning for my wedding in April with my Japanese husband and I’ll definitely make him do this quiz with me 😂 maybe for one of our 余興

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Yeah I recommend! It’s a good way to start discussing important matters

@sharmine1997

2 ай бұрын

@@GhibOjisan thanks for taking the time to reply :) I think it’s a really great quiz not just for couples but human relationships in general hahaha been through a lot the past few years working my ass off as a corporate slave in Japan and yeah 人間関係 is really the worst thing ever as a foreigner who not only has a language barrier but also cultural barrier 😭 I started applying things I learnt from dealing with my husband who’s a little inflexible and in turn the approach helped with 融通効かないおっさん at my work too hahaha hope everyone get to have happy and sustainable relationships ❤️ Really nice to see that you seem to be enjoying your Singapore life with your wifey who has a really cute voice hehehe!!

5 years already, time for wifey face reveal! 😂

Happy 5th Anniversary to you both 💐🥂🎉

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thanks 🥰

Happy 5th wedding anniversary Ghib..Your wife has a real sense of humour..liked her one line humour punchlines..reference to the Boat Quay review of the worst- rated restaurant in Singapore..lol

There's no perfect marriage but perfect understanding of imperfections in each other..to me that's love

Happy Anniversary Ghib san. All your “‘meh” and “eh” really blends in, hahahaha! For wifey : my hubby and I worked really hard in the past, now when we are older, we no longer have the energy and health to go travelling. Don’t procrastinate, enjoy life dear. ❤️

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Appreciate your insight! 😀

Respect for each other's differences. Accommodation and compromise. Although a couple, they are still two different people.

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

For sure!!

happy 5th anniversary!! its my 7th year soon -(not marriage yet😅) just being together.. you guys should try love language test as well!

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

That test sounds fun too 😆 congrats on 7 years!!

So practical....

もう結婚五周年なんですね✨めっちゃ早い！おめでとうございます😆

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

時間，あっという間ですよね🥹ありがとうございます！

I like your clock!! Where did you guys get it??

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

It’s a handmade clock bought at Florence, Italy, one of our fav cities on earth😁

0:33 lmaooo @ that "eh why you throw!?"

Hi Ghib, is it easy for foreign men to date Japanese girls? It seems very hard right?

How did you & your wife meet? 😊

I maintain happiness by staying single.

No lah..you are not too Japanese lah! You actually openly speak about both your relationship ah!

Happy Anniversary🙂 Well, regardless of how it looks, I believe whatever food we have on our table is always nice, especially when it's shared with someone we love. It's about cherishing the moment and being grateful for what we have, rather than focusing on external appearances or extravagant spending. So, whether it's leftover food or a gourmet meal, it's all part of the celebration and should be appreciated, which I know you both do. You've mentioned that you cannot be too Japanese. It's a mutual thing. We are all brought up from different cultures and family backgrounds. It's not just about you not being able to be too Japanese; your wife also cannot be too Singaporean. It's a two-way street. If you believe you cannot be too Japanese, your wife also can't be too Singaporean either. It's about being grateful for what we have and understanding each other's cultures with empathy. It's a beautiful journey of mutual respect and appreciation for our differences, infused with humour and love. Both of you are funny and humourous. I love how you call your wife "Wifey" ----- lmao🙂

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thanks for your input 😁

Happpppy happpppy 5th Wedding 💒💍 Anniversary Mr & Mrs Ojisan!!!💪🥳🎉👍👏🫶... Work yur marriage,communicate often, Accommodate one another...changed yourself, don't expect frm him or her....put away yur rights...that will go a loooong way...till death do us apart!

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thanks for advice 😆

Ghib: oooo Happy 5th Anniversary...... *inside his mind, I survive for the 5th year !!!!!* LOL🤣

Marriage counseling channel now?

Haha so need or no need? 😅😢 This couple is so cute and lovely ❤🎉 happy anniversary

結婚五年目、おめでとうございます！ Anyway what are the other sensitive questions that Singaporeans tend to ask which you feel are sensitive?

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

I think the baby part? Haha

🙏🏼😊

Hi Ghib n wife,, 結婚　記念日　おめでとう㊗️ これからもう　もと幸せになってね，体もう　いつも元気でいてね，来週　もう　お誕生日ですね，double おめでとう🎉🎉ね😅😂。㊗️👍🍾

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

スジャニさん、いつもありがとうございます！

@sujaniaslam2428

2 ай бұрын

@@GhibOjisan , こちらこそ，今　ジャカルタに行く　所､i asked my stylist that cut my hair to subs to your channel Ghib hehe

woo-hoo congrats

Congrats Ghib san... the only thing we all hope is to see a glimpse of your wife... haha

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Maybe one day? 😇

If you want something or not happy, just be direct and say it out but be gentle if it is harsh news. Stop expecting your partner to mind read and do exactly what you want with 100% accuracy. And when wrong or misread, blame them for not loving you enough to already know it. That’s just childish and waste of time. Sometimes love is also not expressed in words but in actions. Learn to notice the little things that your partner does only for you. Those are easily taken for granted and seen as a norm after being together for long while. Ask yourself if a stranger or family would do the same for you and in the way you like it done?

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Great insights!

Interesting tropics 😅

Hi ! May I know where you get the monkey from ?

@yuzuhibiki

2 ай бұрын

Singapore zoo I believe

@hgft274

2 ай бұрын

From parliament. Lots of them there

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Two dark ones From IKEA, the lighter one from friend 🥰

Happy 5th wedding anniversary ❤❤🎉🎉 every time the wife talks, you zoom on th monkey 😂😂 aiyaaa lawak la

Hoping one day will showing ur wife's appearance!

this one orrhhh

So five years, is baby in the future?

Happy 5th marriage anniversary. While you enjoy marrying Singaporean girl. How’s Japanese girl view towards Singaporean male? 😂

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

I think Rich and kind 😇

@sglatitude

2 ай бұрын

@@GhibOjisan filthy rich 🤌🏼🤭

Ohh no...less then 2 yrs to 7 yrs itch....hehe 🤭😲🤣

are you all expecting? guessing from the monkey baby :o

Why Japanese women get angry doing housework/taking care of kids? Would they rather work in - gasp - cut-throat corporate Singapore, number 1 most expensive city in the world?! Or Japan Inc. with zangyo and karoshi?! I would love to be a full-time stay-home parent but alas...

Why is your wife hiding?

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

She shy, not hiding 🙈

Ganbatte

Hı broo show your wife face plz then we Will see how beautiful she is regards to you

When intending to have baby😂

Japanese Wife better 😂

@user-sh5ed4ug2k

2 ай бұрын

goes without saying

@jsurfin1

2 ай бұрын

I guess you didn't get the memo: everyone wants a Japanese girlfriend but no one wants a Japanese wife! lol

Maybe you both can take a fertility test as I have friends who try IVF many times but still no chance. Sometimes, it is fated.

i feel so sorry for you

I hope you have signed a pre-nup bro. Once you get super famous, 50% is hers unless you do a Achraf Hakimi. He give all his wealth to his mother. She gets nothing. 😁😁 Oh, since you are in Singapore, do you still give all your salary to wifey like Japanese man???😆

@joshualee8151

2 ай бұрын

dont think thats any of ur concern or business..... if i was a wife n read that id be seriously offended...

@azureliteyahoo

2 ай бұрын

@@joshualee8151 u do realise its a joke right

@joshualee8151

2 ай бұрын

@@azureliteyahooyes i get that but not all ppl will take it as such... i think personally its a bad joke... some ppl will take it lightly... but ya... just my opinion n i fully respect urs as a joke... maybe mrs ghib did not appreciate it OR she laughed about it... who knows exactly lol

@phreaquetalk

2 ай бұрын

such a tasteless comment. shows the quality of human you are.

5 years no kids? Why?

Happy Anniversary!

@GhibOjisan

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 😀