Raven starts at 29:20

@crystalclaire9040

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@amateurastronomer9752

Жыл бұрын

Thanks girl! 😂

@innasidibe9570

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@alexamiranda472

Жыл бұрын

looking for this

@elon6481

Жыл бұрын

ThankYou 😅

SK The definition of “give an ugly guy a chance and he starts to think he can do better” 😂

@selxwrld

Жыл бұрын

he’s not even ugly though, why even go there

@evee5788

Жыл бұрын

​@@selxwrld He's ugly especially next to Raven... But hey, everyone has their own criteria.

@imo.124

Жыл бұрын

😳😬😄

@selxwrld

Жыл бұрын

@@evee5788 he was unfaithful. doesn’t matter if he was ugly or attractive

@lisabhudia5780

Жыл бұрын

It’s makes him ugly in the inside. Ugly isn’t always used to describe someone’s attractiveness

Raven grew on me. I didn’t care for her in the first few episodes but she’s such a genuinely beautiful person inside and out. I love her 😭

@flygurl247

Жыл бұрын

Girl same I thought she was gonna be the villain but she prove us wrong, She slay

@shannonh8136

Жыл бұрын

Same

@ghettyhilaire4948

Жыл бұрын

This was my sentiments EXACTLY!

@220890

Жыл бұрын

Same !!!

@organicallyhannah

Жыл бұрын

I feel like the producers edited her to look disingenuous and mean when she actually just has quirks? But when their relationship worked out they pivoted

In the moment Bartise approached her in the pool and she was straight and show how much she respect herself and other women and i was like wow she is actually someone worthy to follow, i admire you Raven you are amazing ❤

@Meowhappie

Жыл бұрын

Yeah bartise would never be able to keep up with a woman like raven

@onetwo4687

Жыл бұрын

The fact that Raven told Bartise "I'm used to guys like you, guys that only go after me because of my physical appearance, and I'm not interested", gained mad respect from me for turning him down. LIB is supposed to be about falling in love with who the person is in the inside and Bartise clearly did not go on the show for that.

@xXTatiJellyXx

Жыл бұрын

@@onetwo4687 Exactly! why would you go to this show if all you care is how others look 🤔

@TLemieux11

Жыл бұрын

This was the exact moment I grew the utmost respect for this woman!!

@moonmilkgalaxy

Жыл бұрын

I forgot about that! Man been so long since the Bartise and Raven thing but so true alot of respecy

29:15 for Raven's interview thank me later✌

@deserieoware7055

Жыл бұрын

Yes, thank you! 🙏🏾

@Mimi-hn6iv

Жыл бұрын

It is later....thank you!

@Jess_614

Жыл бұрын

Bless you!

@CleoCantor

Жыл бұрын

😂 lol messed up, but thank you 😅

@delsmontgomery

Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU!

SK deserves an Oscar for that act. He had me FOOLED too sis

@LittlePenguinHouse

Жыл бұрын

He deserves 100 rotten tomatoes and that's it

@ceciliadundee9122

Жыл бұрын

Thats african men for u 😂😂😂

@Wande861

Жыл бұрын

@@ceciliadundee9122 yikes 🫢

@user-gt9xd8bq3h

Жыл бұрын

@@ceciliadundee9122 💯

@catvalentine712

11 ай бұрын

FRRRRRR bro best actor of our generation

Raven is the full package: beautiful, intelligent, kind, caring, loyal, graceful, classy, willing to compromise and meet her partner in the middle. This gotta be the worst fumble of a baddie I’ve ever seen.

@candyxox

Жыл бұрын

💯

@ericabelcher8760

Жыл бұрын

I agree!

@inspectorgadget247

Жыл бұрын

That’s why ppl are so upset! Cuz she’s so humble and not even stuck on stupid or self like baddies are rumored to be! SK lost his mind 😂😂😂

@suriasosa3327

Жыл бұрын

dead ass

A lesson to us all : she who looked so vain at first, with her whole Pilates girl beginning, has turned to be one of the best personalities ever on this show, with maybe Lauren from S1. Kind, mature, humble, very self-aware and graceful. She was the only girl on a season (with otherwise pretty much terrible personalities) I could see myself becoming friends with, even though we're very different, the way she handled SK's mom melted my heart. Definitely ready for marriage and commitment once her whole barrier went down, ready for a healthy and balanced relationship, much more than some of her showmates (I'm looking at poor Colleen), ready to compromise and listen. She deserves her own Cameron, at the very least, someone as kind and trustworthy as her. And SK fooled all of us. It's sad that she should even blame herself when the entire world got fooled by his act - I would have never seen it coming either.

@Ashley.Heather

Жыл бұрын

I wrote off when she was doing jumping jacks during a serious conversation but seeing her since has been eye opening

@74MD74

Жыл бұрын

I always thought people were being ridiculously harsh towards her. There are so many reasons someone might need or want to move around even during an important convo. We had no idea how long they'd been in the room or in other rooms. You can't decide who someone is based on one scene like that.

@Ashley.Heather

Жыл бұрын

@@74MD74 that’s very true. Even though I’m aware editing can make it seem one way, I have fallen victim to believing a certain narrative too.

@jade-qi8ot

Жыл бұрын

@@74MD74 Literally. I get it makes for good memes, but if she is used to being active and is going on multiple dates all day multiple days in a row, why not get some movement in? Plus exercise can be used for so much more than just physical benefits - it can help regulate mood, relieve stress, etc. Dating is stressful. Dating on camera has to be exponentially more stressful. I thought the genuine negativity she received for this was so stupid.

@vanessahobbes3072

Жыл бұрын

Facts

Raven still being open to love after SK did all this to her is amazing. The way men can LIE.

@floresss06

Жыл бұрын

and most of the time, not even well 😭

@mindoflino2699

Жыл бұрын

Lol saying men is crazy

@AmyTraphouse

Жыл бұрын

Like it's a second language

@stansmith5610

Жыл бұрын

*As a guy I can tell you 80-85% of men cheat and like 50% of them their significant other knows but stays around because of the kids, house, etc*

@mindoflino2699

Жыл бұрын

@@stansmith5610 bro u are jus chattin this is not true at all.

Netflix has to make a Bachelorette show and have Raven be their first lady! She deserves men fighting for their lives for her!

@ericabelcher8760

Жыл бұрын

I don't even watch the Bachelorette but this idea right here, I would definitely watch it just for Raven! That's a great idea!

@lillian-ku4mj

Жыл бұрын

Yaaas someone call the bachelorette

@janelleb.9206

Жыл бұрын

Man, I would want her to have real love. I feel like these shows aren't for real love anymore😢

@janinejackson4739

Жыл бұрын

Her and Diamond...

@ericabelcher8760

Жыл бұрын

@Janine Jackson Yes because what that clown did to her was ridiculous! Smdh

It definitely makes sense why SK’s brother was so hesitant about SK proposing and asking about a refund for the ring.

@victoriaagostini9612

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I always wondered why his reasons for proposing were to give raven “reassurance”. Little did we know all this shit was happening. SK is a snake.

@tegantalks9612

Жыл бұрын

I would hate to be SK’s mother. I know if my son went on TV and acted that way I would be so ashamed and have some very harsh words.

@suedaniel147

4 ай бұрын

Hope she sold the ring for money!

In hindsight, It's just crazy to me how Cole was bashed for all of the things that SK is actively doing. Aughhh SK makes me so angry. She did not deserve this. I'm so annoyed with him right now. The audacity.

@KpTheG

Жыл бұрын

Cole deserved it too tho

@Nikkii18

Жыл бұрын

This part!

@TheAustrianPainter87

Жыл бұрын

SK is innocent

@iamshawndella8653

Жыл бұрын

It’s the AUDACITY for me! Whew chile

@DaisyMaye15

Жыл бұрын

Okay but like also Bartiste!! Less not forget him

SK literally told her that he didn’t want a relationship like his father. His father has 3 or more wives. Clearly the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree

@Toastbuckets

Жыл бұрын

Truuuuue!! I was thinking this same thing

@bammytingy

Жыл бұрын

While it wouldn't be a relationship I would seek out, the wives know about each other in polygamy from the very beginning. SK is a liar and very deceptive and blindsided Raven

@healwithdanak

Жыл бұрын

The majority of narcissistic personality disorder comes from a parent it could be the mother or the father

@chocolateislife8737

Жыл бұрын

@@healwithdanak in this instance, clearly from the father. As OP said, the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

@estrella264

Жыл бұрын

omg I remember that he’s literally a sociopath or whatever it called

he had us all fooled... amazing what a pathological liar can do.

@allegedlyandfacts

Жыл бұрын

Seriously I really thought he was one of the good ones

@anonmon8550

Жыл бұрын

He didn’t have me fooled. The way he blindsided her at the alter showed me that he was disingenuous.

@encorein08

Жыл бұрын

he never had me fooled, i always thought he was ugly and insincere

@Carl-_-Jones

Жыл бұрын

@@anonmon8550 I don’t think contractually he could have told her the truth then there wouldn’t have been any drama at the wedding producers are puppeteers

@eeeyooohoh

Жыл бұрын

@@anonmon8550 he seemed like he was about to crack up too when he said i do not . bartise is awful but even bartise seemed more serious when he said no

SK acted like a broke college student on a budget who couldn't help Raven with her rent on LIB, yet he's out here flying multiple girls on couples trips. YEESH! Gaslighting 101.

@JJ-bu7ke

Жыл бұрын

Right. He kept making it seem like he was on a budget and saying it was so expensive to keep flying back and forth to see her.

@ceebee8255

Жыл бұрын

This!!!

@CrystalM1917

Жыл бұрын

It was too expensive bc he couldn't afford to be a player at the same time.

@mariavanessanakayiki2480

Жыл бұрын

Let’s make it gaslighting 501

SK really had the nerve to judge Raven's looks...what world is he living in?

@JyotikaSinghRani

Жыл бұрын

Who even knows 🤷🏻‍♀️

@pinkorganichorse

Жыл бұрын

Well she is very ugly but so is he.

@marisaking5982

Жыл бұрын

unattractive men usually have the most audacity 😖

@Sarabrookeee

Жыл бұрын

The world of “I prefer white women”

@teresaamanfu7408

Жыл бұрын

I believe that Raven is drop dead gorgeous. SK is a sad man.

He is GIVING narcissist. The gaslighting, selfishness, lies, lack of accountability, focus on his image, portraying himself as something he isn't. I'm so happy raven realized her worth and that he was exposed. She is so gorgeous, and deserves real happiness. I hope SK leaves her alone and she thrives ❤️

@camarada9755

Жыл бұрын

Yess , STAPLE!! Lack of empathy overall, disgusting individual.

@itsaprilmichelle

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!! Like, I had goosebumps listening. I was in a 4 year relationship and didn't realize what the hell this turned into until I got way. I'm so happy she's gotten away and coming back to herself. 🤎🌹

@Ashley.Heather

Жыл бұрын

Yes and her friends saw it straight away!

The second that SK said no to Raven at the alter, she completely changed. I saw her heart melt and she became such a more vulnerable, and open human. After that moment all I could do was root for her.

@juliac2687

7 ай бұрын

He damaged her heart and self esteem with that... that's why it was harder for her to walk away right away

As a black woman when the women started coming out of the woodworks the first thing I noticed was the stark difference between them & raven. Now learning that he was also criticising her Bts is so heartbreaking to hear. SK is a monster.

@freedomm

Жыл бұрын

She wasn't his type, he shouldn't have continued the relationship. Seems he's exactly like his father.

@sholay706

Жыл бұрын

That is one side of the story

@sholay706

Жыл бұрын

Remember he fell in love without seeing her

@nadiainthesky

Жыл бұрын

Yepp, I’ll never forget an early LiB episode where Nick and Vanessa Lachey were talking to the men and SK basically implied that he was eager to be on the show because he was tired of not having a fair shot with white women. I’m also not surprised that he’s taken after his dad’s example. He was red flag city from day 1.

@freedomm

Жыл бұрын

@@nadiainthesky But he seems to be into thicker women in his private life, whether black or white. I believe he'll marry a Nigerian.

Honestly, her testimony is going to be BEAUTIFUL. She went into Love is Blind so guarded and towards the end of it had everyone that was side eyeing her in love with her because she finally was being her authentic self without fear. Her dealing with someone as conniving as SK, the way that type of situation can really mentally fuck with you. All for her to come out of that genuinely optimistic about love and not jaded. She could’ve EASILY reverted back to her old ways. She passed the mf test. Her next one will be her best one.

@rekaro__

Жыл бұрын

period

@DaiMadeMusic

Жыл бұрын

💯

@ayohilary7744

Жыл бұрын

Well said

The way SK messed up the best thing that ever happened to him. I’m so proud of Raven for handling this with so much grace

@andyanderson8129

Жыл бұрын

This guy is not just a pathetic liar but also a fkn Idiot! But it‘s his loss, he will never find a fantastic woman like Raven ever again.

@007nadineL

2 ай бұрын

No. He's not that into her. That means he didn't miss nothing.

2nd part of raven starts at 2:09 :08

@wonderwoman122

Жыл бұрын

Thank you !

@elsiemandujano3565

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!!! Was only here for Raven

@Ver00h

Жыл бұрын

Thank you because that nosey friend was being messy in a situation that has nothing to do with her

@janethgonzalez8136

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! I listened to the whole thing thinking she was gonna say something like y’all just repeated the same thing 10x that’s enough

@SashaBlake

Жыл бұрын

Thanks alot lol

I swear from exercising in the pod to the Raven we have here is insane!! Goes to show how shows portray people! Raven is so sweet and humble!!!

@rosaclick1995

Жыл бұрын

Yeah we are quick to judge people without meeting them

@debbiedebz7297

Жыл бұрын

Yess rhe way how the roles got reversed… ppl loved SK and said he was too good for Raven Then boom Sk turned out to be a pile of shit and Raven is actually the nice one😂😂

@mrs.elentz2336

Жыл бұрын

For sure… editors doing people dirty 😖 For entertainment purposes. Allegedly.

@howsusisthis

Жыл бұрын

I mean she was really exercising. Both her and Bartise verbally said it. It had got nothing to do with editing. Just because SK did her bad doesn't mean she's all fairy dust now.

@jade-qi8ot

Жыл бұрын

​@@howsusisthis yall really hating on ppl for exercising LMFAOO

This level of betrayal is beyond words🥹 I genuinely wanna give Raven the warmest & biggest hug!❤️

@juliarivera2904

Жыл бұрын

Sameee 🥰🥰🥰

@daniellaasamoah7078

Жыл бұрын

He is a monster

@xxFireAngelsxx

Жыл бұрын

😅

@ohhey_chelsey

Жыл бұрын

Around like 42 min she was talking about trusting SK and it’s hard because if you’re serious about someone, you have to choose to trust someone until they show you otherwise. This is a prime example of when doing everything right goes wrong.

The people saying they had an arrangement are cruel, you can see that she's genuinely hurt. She's so sweet and genuine, she didn't deserve this. SK is trash. Also, making her sit through the replay was unkind/unnecessary.

@stankdik

Жыл бұрын

agreed! that was so disrespectful he should’ve asked first if she was ok w that.

@suras8984

Жыл бұрын

​@MoUD he might have asked prior to the interview.

@ciaras3170

Жыл бұрын

no YOU see she’s hurt I don’t see that at all she doesn’t seem genuine imo she seems cold and rehearsed and maybe she needed to rehearse to be ready to do these types of interviews but the sincerity is definitely lost

raven is such a sweet pure soul 🥺 even speaking on the matter, she didn’t really slander SK’s name. she spoke on the facts and how it made her feel. she let SK’s actions speak for themself

This was such a gentle listen,,,, no screaming, no talking over each other, the genuine apology from the host,, yeap!!👏👏 Raven is very beautiful!😍

@jaxsonc4762

Жыл бұрын

I feel like they actually interrupted her a lot. It was kind of annoying.

@NhuNhu-888

Жыл бұрын

@@jaxsonc4762 agreed!! VERY annoying

@allisonscanlan4144

Жыл бұрын

@@jaxsonc4762 true but way way less than usual ☠️

The thing that makes me SO sad about this is Raven is a beautiful person inside and out. The fact that SK tries to drag her down towards the end saying he wasn’t “attracted to her” or “she wasn’t his type” is so wrong. Admitting to that towards the end is so disgusting on his part. He didn’t even have to take that extra punch and let her know that. If that was the case, he didn’t have to stay as long as he did. And honestly, Raven is out of his league looks wise. It’s ok to have a type but that’s such a front. I think he wanted to hurt Raven even more or justify his shitty actions because she’s GORGEOUS. She could be on a magazine for real. Looks aside, if you’re in a genuine relationship with somebody that doesn’t even matter at all. SK is such trash, and Raven will rise above this. She’s such a graceful amazing person. I hope she gets all the good karma.

@jessxr_

Жыл бұрын

Agreed, but I think, in a way, it helped her see who he really is. And ultimately, helps her move forward... can't go back to where you're not wanted in the first place.

@cassiepoohmylove6624

Жыл бұрын

so true and he went on love is BLIND! if you coulnt love someone who wasnt your type dont go that show

@rubytuesday999999

Жыл бұрын

Where did he say those things?

@cjo4210

Жыл бұрын

And he looks like a turnip!

@frtt2884

Жыл бұрын

@@rubytuesday999999 2:15:22

Aww poor raven she looks so visibly uncomftorable while watching back herself talking about their relationship

@chelsearaquel589

Жыл бұрын

im thinking the same, im not sure why they'd play all that back..? super awkward for her

@OrelsGirl

Жыл бұрын

It was unkind of them to make her sit through it

@alexisc.2752

Жыл бұрын

I felt bad watching that clip. Looks like she wants to cry. I dont think she knew they were gonna play that unless they did a briefing before

@adelaramirez970

Жыл бұрын

I agree!!! I fast-forwarded through it because I found it disgusting

@VeMaMartinez

Жыл бұрын

So wrong

What happened to raven scares me so bad. Her whole closed off personality, that people take as negativity but in reality is just to protect herself. I felt that so much. People take me as a closed off but it comes from fear. I really thought their relationship gave me hope. And seeing what happened makes me scared to love. I feel you just can’t trust anyone and let those walls down.

@jfaustin1742

Жыл бұрын

Same here

@pettybetty1791

Жыл бұрын

That's the bad side of the halo effect. When you're conventionally attractive but shy or closed off, people can assume it's because you're stuck up or rude even when that's not the case.

@LucianaFujii

Жыл бұрын

Take a chance! If people are jerks like SK is their loss

@chillvibez268

Жыл бұрын

Being in love is a risk you take. Even for me after 8 years I sometimes think what if he hurts me...

@ichiban6004

Жыл бұрын

Yes love is a risk. We can’t go through life guarded because we are afraid to get hurt. Life wouldn’t be worth it, I think raven gave me more courage than fear. She took what happened as a lesson and she understands that things like this are possible in any relationship. It doesn’t make them worth not having just to avoid pain. Love is amazing but also risky the best thing to do is take it day by day than assuming something aweful will happen.

SK’s behavior was manipulative and abusive. The lengths he went to silence her and to try to fabricate a whole different story. I feel so bad for Raven but I am glad she is on the other side and able to tell her truth!

The fact SK kept secrets despite the fact his partner at the time was asking for honesty shows that Raven dodged a bullet. Raven is such a kind and strong soul; just because you're a strong person doesn't mean your strength should be constantly tested by your partner. Raven deserved a safe space and 100% honesty.

@Ninasim123

Жыл бұрын

Someone could even think he is acting like those Nigerian love scammers...Poor Raven

Made me teary-eyed when she talked about SK’s mom. She didn’t deserve any of what he did. UGH 😢

@savannahz6399

Жыл бұрын

I think deep down his mom knew what he was like, she was with his dad who had other women so SK wanted to be like him.

@jojobanks8857

Жыл бұрын

@@savannahz6399 not always the case. As someone who’s also Nigerian, my grandfather was a rolling stone but my dad isn’t. We can’t say that SK’s mom knows what he’s like

@savannahz6399

Жыл бұрын

@@jojobanks8857 I'm not saying all Nigerians are like this. But SK was showing signs of not wanting to settle down when he said no at the wedding then dated her afterwards but couldn't stay committed. The brother definitely knew he wasn't sticking to one woman.

@jojobanks8857

Жыл бұрын

@@savannahz6399 the brother knew but the mom seemed genuinely shocked at the wedding. I doubt she knew

@NakyaMami

Жыл бұрын

I think SK ‘s mum knew he’s not into black girls !

Props to Nick for leading this discussion with such gentleness and empathy. He really address her with such care throughout this entire interview and that’s exactly what she deserved

I love how the male host empathized with her. I’m so sad for raven she went into this show with good intentions and now she has to heal from all this bullshit from this pyscho who is so under her league. She’s a gorgeous girl deserves so much better

Super tacky to play that clip back with her sitting there. She’s obviously uncomfortable and hated it.

@eh1126

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! That was uncomfortably long

Ravens subject starts around 28:00 👍

@vogueeli

Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU lmao

@Thatchickx03

Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU

@jacquilozano9852

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

@onenessa1

Жыл бұрын

Doing God’s work 🙏🏽😂

@americabernal7053

Жыл бұрын

True hero! Thank you I was so confused lol

I really feel like this is what Nick and Vanessa should’ve been doing, not this exactly but actual questions that dig into what was really happened. Everything was so surface and pretty much unnecessary bc no one cared.

@pineappleice100

Жыл бұрын

Agree. They’re terrible hosts lol

@diannesidhu6475

Жыл бұрын

LOVE THIS!!!!

@johannastromberg1224

Жыл бұрын

They're horrible hosts

@j.mendoza6755

Жыл бұрын

@@pineappleice100 I watched the reunion today for season 3. First question they made was about Alexa’s closet space as a married woman. I’m like whaaaaaattt? You guys as hosts are the worst

Man…we gotta protect her at all cost she is being so openly vulnerable you don’t get that a lot I’m glad she was able to say the truth and now she can heal. She’s so well spoken it’s nice to see her be able to let it all out and not hold back great great interview! Thanks for letting us in and I wish her nothing but a beautiful peaceful loving life ahead

Skip to Raven’s first segment 29:15 and second segment 2:09 :10 🫶🏾

@gracerodriguez8557

Жыл бұрын

Thankssss❤️

@Passionatelycurious91

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@helenmulatu897

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

@vuyile

Жыл бұрын

They need to pin your comments 📌

@mnelly4930

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!!🙏🏾

This level of vulnerability is unmatched . Thank you so much Raven. We love you!

Raven turned out to be the best person on Love is Blind for me ever... she grew on me, at first I thought she was an airhead, but she surprised me with her depth, intelligence and presence... you know... SK shocked me to the core for real

Sk will wake up one day and realize who he truly is and who he lost. Raven is such a bright light. Wishing nothing but success and true happiness for her

@wackybrattyx

Жыл бұрын

Probably not. He’s likely a narcissist.

Nooo Raven looked mortified watching the clip of her talking from the past. Poor thing. God, I feel terrible for her. She’s such a catch and didn’t deserve that. 😢

@DuquesaChannel

Жыл бұрын

Omg yess i agree 😢😢 her face

@lisapersaud4711

Жыл бұрын

Timestamp?

@missaajak712

Жыл бұрын

34:05

@feleciawilliams1668

Жыл бұрын

why would he make her watch for soo long, i was genuinely confused. the invite to answer questions and the outfit change and her not there either, am i missing something?😂

the way he manipulated all of us into thinking he was a good guy. poor Raven i can’t imagine how she is feeling.

@Febreezy

Жыл бұрын

It's scary that he's going into medicine.

@Godiswith_HER

Жыл бұрын

It’s so scary.

The growth of Raven is astounding, I’m glad this experience didn’t coat that hard shell back over her 10 fold, I’m glad she can give love and vulnerability a chance again because that’s healing, growing and living. 💗 kudos Raven!

She said, she was under witchcraft and that hit me. Girl, we've been there. SK lived up to the Nigerian men stereotype. She deserved better and I can relate to how guarded Raven was in the beginning of the experience.

Sk is the definition of a narcissist

@Kimkay7

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!!! This !

@vlcralley

Жыл бұрын

A lying dog….

@MsRaeRae

Жыл бұрын

My thought exactly

So he embarrassed her at the alter then gets another chance with her, proposes to her to just cheat on her and break her heart AGAIN IN FRONT OF THE WORLD?!?! 😡 ……. Its mind blowing

Raven is so calm and composed, l love how she narrates the story without bitterness. Love and light to Raven🥰!

Hearing all of this really shows the self hate that SK has for himself. He’s a very insecure man outside of being a pathological liar. He was never deserving of Raven. I’m glad she still has such a positive and beautiful aura.

SK was doing it for the money, manipulated Raven in so many ways to save face while living his real life sneaking around with girls. I’m glad this podcast answered all our questions of what really happened behind closed doors. Raven hope your heart heals and always follow your intuition, your feelings are valid, you are genuine and he was fake.

@OluwakemiAde

Жыл бұрын

The show didn't pay them. There's no money. He works in Tech. Maybe the thrill of being on Netflix though. They don't get paid to be on the show.

@halfway2somewhere

Жыл бұрын

Yes they absolutely get paid. According to a former cast member it’s about $1,000 a week but they def get paid on all reality shows, pretty sure it’s a legal thing. It’s not a fortune but they def get paid ​@@OluwakemiAde

@OluwakemiAde

Жыл бұрын

@@halfway2somewhere Nope! LIB is different. They brought people on the show and give them the opportunity to find love. No monetary gains. They didn't get paid. Most of them certainly have great jobs paying $1000 or more a day. $1000 a week would be a ridiculous reason to want to go on a show. They probably use that amount to eat out or buy groceries on a normal day.

@halfway2somewhere

Жыл бұрын

@@OluwakemiAde I don’t know where you get this info but they do def get paid, there is even a legal lawsuit about it. A quick google search would tell you. The contestants and the show both have stated this so I don’t know why you’re arguing. It’s very well known and easily verifiable if your don’t believe me. They get paid because they have to have at least six weeks off work to go on the show. I’m not gonna argue the actual facts but you can literally Google it and even see the paychecks from some of the concert contestants that were showing how much they got paid

@halfway2somewhere

Жыл бұрын

@@OluwakemiAde also when you sign up to be on the show, it’s literally in the terms and conditions there as well how much you get paid. I never said they went on this for the money, that was the original poster. Natalie and others have said they got paid so much less than If they had just stayed at work. My only point was they do get paid to be there. All of this is very easy to look up so I don’t know where you’re getting your information but these are actual facts, so I’m done arguing with you.

SK is disgusting and I feel bad for his Mother, too. She seemed like the sweetest, she really liked Raven, and her son is such a disgrace. Raven, this was a blessing in disguise!! You are beautiful and strong and deserve so much more than what SK dished out. ❤️

@j.mendoza6755

Жыл бұрын

It reminded me to “shake”. His mom was such a beautiful soul and amazing lady. Same with SK’s mom, she’s like amazing but his son just soooo bad. 😢

I cannot believe this. Raven is incredible. The way she was treated was so incredibly awful……

ravens story is the real embodiment of "love is blind"

Oh Raven you can hear the pain in your voice. SK is a narcissist and probably a sociopath. How can he lie so easily?

@shadiaali728

Жыл бұрын

There are ppl who can lie easily (pathological liar)doesn’t mean u r narcissist or sociopath that word thrown around so much it lost meaning .

@Febreezy

Жыл бұрын

@@shadiaali728 there's other signs hinting to something else going on, far past being a bonafide liar. From someone who has dealt with a narcissist, SK's personality is concerning. In public, he presents himself as something entirely different compared to the private.

I didn’t like her at the beginning of the show, but then I really liked her as a person. She deserved so much better ❤

@enjolim.4778

Жыл бұрын

Same, I didn't like her at first either, especially when she was doing jumping jacks in the pod 🤣...but later after getting to know Bartiste, I see why! Lol she quickly became my favorite of all the seasons because she seems like such a kind hearted person. I even did her pilates vids and like her even more, you should def check out her pilates vids!

@alisjordan9206

Жыл бұрын

Same! Idc for her either.. but she grew on me.

@adrenna1973

Жыл бұрын

She truly evolved more than anyone. She was totally guarded but she really opened up and became vunerable.

Can you have her back on the show just to talk to her about her life not all sk. She’s so lovely I think ppl would enjoy just knowing more of who she is.

One thing he didn’t lie about: raven is indeed a treasure. ❤

It will be great if Raven is the next bachelorette and have the opportunity to meet some great guys 🌹🌹

@garlicparmalexa2635

Жыл бұрын

Yes because the men going on the bachelor as such good men… lol I do hope she finds a great man too though!

@07karmar

Жыл бұрын

@@garlicparmalexa2635 thank you lol ! She deserves something much more!!!

@HD91436

Жыл бұрын

@@garlicparmalexa2635loooool right!! Hopefully she finds a great guy in general

@dorriswandia

Жыл бұрын

I think a break from the public would be great. No more dating shows.

@jfaustin1742

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!

I think even watching we were all fooled by SK, I was so shocked when I seen the videos, the level of betrayal is so beyond words 😢

Raven is a gem of a person. I'm so impressed by her. I'm sorry he put her through this. She will be okay - sounds like she's taking all the right lessons from it and not letting it change who she is.

She is such a beautiful person. So articulate, genuine and vulnerable. She is just a gem of a person. I hope she finds the best the world has to offer. She deserves it.

I love how this podcast gives us a detailed vision of a person that is living in an abusive relationship without even knowing. It’s very clear when you are not in the relationship but when you’re part of it it’s so difficult to see the red flags and believe them. I feel so sorry for Raven but happy that she is in a way better place now far away from all of this

@chelseawilliams4592

Жыл бұрын

Trc😊😊😊

@AishaLynn

Жыл бұрын

Facts!!

SK ruined his reputation while trying so hard to protect it....congrats to raven for coming out the other end of this mess

Finally some answers. Thanks Raven for being so open 💕 My only feedback… there is no reason that clip should have been played for so long. It’s obvious how uncomfortable it was for her and we could have done with just a summary from her instead of hearing the clip

This is my first time watching this show and I have to say I'm impressed and surprised. I came to for the Raven tea (which girl, my heart is with you on this one) but was so captivated by the honesty and compassion you show your callers and guests. During your interview with Raven, you largely let her tell her story unprompted which felt authentic. Then, when speaking to callers, you didn't jump in with your opinion, but led them to their own. I really enjoyed that you held your thoughts back for so long. It let your callers form their thoughts and set the stage themselves before you added your own influence. It's such a selfless way to give advice and I learned a lot from it.

He fumbled it 😩 I love Raven so much. Deserves way better

I’ve gone through the same thing and hearing Raven’s recollection of all the lies and manipulation tactics from SK was truly heartbreaking, it brought back all the painful memories and humiliation. Raven you’ve got this. You’re a great woman and you’ll get back on your feet. ♥️

@ElisewinCarewall

Жыл бұрын

Stop talking to him girl. These assholes always pretend to feel sorry just to keep an emotional leash on you. No contact is the only way with narcissists

Raven ended up becoming my favorite person by the end of the season, and she’s so real and genuine in her work and platforms. She didn’t deserve the evil manipulation by SK. He honestly seems like a completely toxic person to be with. Screw his reputation. She came out winning in the end.

Raven girl you are strong af coming into this and taking about it. It takes alot but just know we are all proud of you and hoping the freaking best for you dude. What a loss but just know, just know you’re only getting the best from this experience. Becoming stronger, learning more about yourself and loving yourself. You got this even on your bad days, always remember you are THAT GIRL

I think I hate the first part where nick decides to play this long ass clip of what she said and he is smiling enjoying it all and you can just see raven struggle through it.

@OrelsGirl

Жыл бұрын

So terrible honestly

@ihatesushi18

Жыл бұрын

Feels gross

@SaraLovesAcing

Жыл бұрын

Sometimes smiling is a response to discomfort or feeling awkward/uncomfortable

@LoveTanyaxo

Жыл бұрын

Also he said it was the producers idea to replay it

@Sumi2379

Жыл бұрын

Omg felt so bad for her. You could see it was hurting her

She is such a thoughtful, well spoken individual who has been through hell and back and still has an open heart. Seriously an inspiration! We are rooting for you Raven!!

Raven handled that with so much grace and didn’t get discouraged. I love that for her. At first she seemed standoff-ish but seeing her be real and vulnerable changed my outlook on her. Side note: Can we please get Zanab on the show and ask her what she thought when she watched to actual clip of the cutie situation? I’m dying to get some type of read on her.

@karinaababneh7746

Жыл бұрын

I am pretty sure she will never own up to shit, she would just repeat that many scenes didn’t make it to TV 😂😂

Sk’s red flag for me was when he shared on the show that his dad was in a polygamous relationship. He low key is a polygamist but doesn’t identify himself as such which is deceitful and he made Raven and the other women believe they are in a monogamous relationship with him.

@melodyide2248

Жыл бұрын

If I remember correctly, he flat out said that he wasn't like his dad. I honestly think that he mentioned it hoping that the answer from the other side would be a positive one.

I’m so happy for Ravens grace and maturity! I loved her since episode 1! Also want to applaud her for standing on her boundaries throughout the journey!! Especially when it came to moving!

@diannesidhu6475

Жыл бұрын

Agreed! ❤️

I absolutely cannot believe the endless lies… you can tell raven has such a strong soul. ❤️ I hope she’s find honest love

I'm so sad for Raven she had to take this publicly but the bright side is that it's a huge warning for other women about SK. I was rooting for them too.

She sounded like she was on the verge of tears the whole interview. So sorry this happened to Raven she did not deserve any of this

Shout out to Raven for knowing her worth and standing her ground. ❣️

Discovering vulnerability AND gut feeling as superpowers! I can relate to that. As well as to many other parts of her story. Kudos, Raven!

That gut feeling is NEVER wrong.

On the bright side,it was a huge learning experience for Raven.She entered the experiment as a closeted human in terms of letting people in and giving her heart out,and now ik she will be able to love again.Because love is still out there,and there are genuine people!She will be more careful and take the red flags exactly as they are!!RED FLAGS!! LOVE AND LIGHT BBG!

I'm such a fan of her. She is so strong and I know she is coming out on top of all this. No doubt. You got this, girl!

Sk didn’t deserve Raven! She is beautiful, strong, loyal and independent. I wish u nothing but the best Raven. 🖤

I honestly didn’t care much for Raven. But she quickly became my favorite. She is dope and real af

Raven's story is incredibly difficult but she's brave enough to share it, and the team is excited to hear it. It sounds like a great episode!

I dated an SK. And it's crazy how much I see myself in Raven. All I needed was for him to tell me the truth and not lie to me constantly. That's all I wanted. The lies were by far more hurtful than knowing the truth. I hated that he kept insulting my intelligence and yet I kept giving him the benefit of the doubt. It was really hard for me to leave until he ended up getting another woman pregnant. And even then had he told me the truth I would have probably accepted the child. That's how crazy and loyal I was to him. And the worst part is all those guys who would try to be with me and knew how badly I was treated. It was one of the most humiliating experiences of my life. So I understand her so much. Her story is so relatable!

He always made my skin crawl from the beginning. She deserves the best.

I suffered a lot of trauma as a child and then became a mother at 20. I got fed up with spewing my trauma on my child. We started dialectal behavior therapy as a family and wow!! I am heeling my trauma and holding myself accountable as a parent. I hope my daughter can flourish and break the cycle of abuse!!

*Can we talk about how GORGEOUS Raven is. His loss*

I feel like out of all the women on love is blind Raven was always the most honest and caring person on there. I hope I get to meet her one day as we are in the same city and I would just be happy to meet her. Girlfriend, you deserve the world you deserve the happiness. 🥰🥰❤️

She is the epitome of somebody who's worked/working on themselves. So much lying and disrespect from someone you love can bring anyone to their knees and make them cold but she's working on herself and not allowing that piece of......to change her but only to improve her ❤️❤️❤️ she's a baddie.

I could genuinely listen to these two speak all day. Such an open and honest interview. Praying for her peace ✨

We love you Raven!! ❤ All the BS he put you through has just showcased how much of a BOSS you are girl ✨You've handled everything with so much poise, so much grace, and a silly af sense of humor. You're glowing from the inside out and I know you're gonna go on to do big things! Ugh I still can't believe SK :((

Raven is such a gorgeous woman. And I’m sorry, but SK is sooooo ugly to me (uglier now since this situation). The fact that he tried to make it seem like she was the unattractive one in this, blows my mind. The kind of stuff people like him do and the lengths they go to save themselves and make themselves look good, is truly beyond me. Praying for many blessings over her life.

@HD91436

Жыл бұрын

He not attractive to me his bro was better looking… I realized he definitely was negging, some insecure guys when they know girl is out of their league they try to say your not my usual type or never compliment her.

@HD91436

Жыл бұрын

Also just date who you find attractive ladies because the ones who you don’t still end up playing you.

@mzcutie988

Жыл бұрын

@@HD91436 💯

@JeannetteAbrahamson

Жыл бұрын

He was never cute

I love that she's back to dating. I love that for her ❤️

i watched this due to raven, i became a fan due to the call in at the end, your character is EXACTLY the way i carry myself, and explain things to my friends, its about the principle, honesty is the best policy and dont sacrifice yourself for those that are dishonest.. hold those accountable. hold yourself accountable. NEW SUBSCRIBER here

Who knew that in a season with Bartise, Cole, Zanab, Matt and Andrew (teardrop guy), SK turns out to be the biggest villain…. Wow. Bunch of shitshow people.

I spent 5 years with a compulsive liar. I totally get Raven, you want to believe and you want to see the best in people. But you don’t see it until you’re no longer in it.

@nadia502

Жыл бұрын

The more raven talks about her relationship the more I see the similarities we went through. It suckssss to say the least

@ElisewinCarewall

Жыл бұрын

Same, I spent 3 years with a compulsive liar and that shit really affected my ability to trust myself and others. It’s just so unnecessarily cruel.

@nadia502

Жыл бұрын

@@ElisewinCarewall yup! I kept asking myself what I was doing wrong that he just couldn’t be honest. Until I noticed he’s a broken person and he just can’t be in a relationship

@ibpr4170

Жыл бұрын

Liars like that are also so good at making you feel like they have changed and telling you the truth… sorry u had to go through that!!

@jojasmin235

Жыл бұрын

Same..8 years. I was broken when it ended and I had to get get therapy after him. Now I'm finally in a healthy relationship. People like this won't change.