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Ramit answers your questions: Recessions, getting married, firing an advisor

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  • @ramitsethi
    @ramitsethi Жыл бұрын

    What surprised you from the video? (I read all of your comments.)

  • @lisag9493

    @lisag9493

    Жыл бұрын

    Nothing surprised me, you give great advice ,, with a wonderful sense of humour ,, very funny and you made me laugh out to myself ,, personally, I would always recommend to young people to pay into a pension as soon as you get paid, then you won’t miss it ,, if you can’t pay off your credit card every month then don’t use it ,, best wishes, Lisa

  • @serotines

    @serotines

    Жыл бұрын

    You literally have helped me get my life together so much, thank you so much

  • @mamalovesthebeach437

    @mamalovesthebeach437

    Жыл бұрын

    Not to focus on the minutia and focus on the $30,000 question! I really needed to hear this. I'm likely considerably older than your typical listener/reader (60+) but find all of the questions and topics helpful.

  • @mygoodlife204

    @mygoodlife204

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mamalovesthebeach437 me too. 56

  • @raheelakhtar7

    @raheelakhtar7

    Жыл бұрын

    If you don’t manage the $30 questions well early on, you won’t even get to $30K or $300K questions.

  • @JnDocV
    @JnDocV Жыл бұрын

    I finally did it! I broke up with our Financial Advisor today with the help of this podcast. We are a military family and sadly there is a company who preys on the military. I thank you so much for all the help and guidance you have given me to make the break and the confidence to do it on our own.

  • @AudreysBrains

    @AudreysBrains

    4 ай бұрын

    We also fired our financial advisor after watching Ramit! Index funds all the way!

  • @livin4racks191
    @livin4racks191 Жыл бұрын

    I love that Ramit finally made a KZread channel and podcast! This solo episode 🔥

  • @mamalovesthebeach437
    @mamalovesthebeach437 Жыл бұрын

    The B of A debit card comment 😂 Marrying the "right" person is the BIGGEST decision of your life, period. In my first marriage (26 years) we never discussed our values, children, etc. Aligned VALUES are #1!! Now in my second marriage (19 years) we did things vastly different. We actually wrote down on 3" x 5" cards everything we could think of that had the potential of destroying our relationship. There were a couple of deal breakers for me but we worked through them (nothing as horrendous as "Live-Laugh-Love sign). One was finances. He was a strong earner (self-employed) but horrid with money. He was in debt. I had none but I did have a maniacal ex). In many hours and days of conversations he admitted right from the start his lack of skill and commitment regarding finances but that he was willing to learn and get and stay out of debt. Together we set a plan, attended classes and he hammered down his debt and got clear in less than 2 years. He has a good sense of finances but hates dealing with the management. It took a few years but I eventually I took over all administration of household and business finances. For the first time in his life he was regularly contributing to retirement, HSA and several savings accounts for things such as taxes, equipment, equipment maintenance, etc. We have monthly financial meetings where I bring the spread sheet and we both discuss our plan. The recession in 2008 knocked us down hard. Without making this into a book, it was a very dark, difficult couple of years. But we came back stronger in many ways. We are still not in a great position to retire (we're 60+) but we're decent financially overall. We both work in the business and we've purchased equipment (with no debt) so that my husband, who wants to continue his work, can work for another 10 years. We're both in good health and take full responsibility to keep it that way. We listened to your book together even though I had implemented most of the strategies you suggested. One thing I was really lagging on is getting rid of one of my big banks. About the same time you were discussing big bank blues in your book I had an issue with my big corporate bank. I'd banked there for nearly 30 years but I was dealing with corporate heads not local bankers. I finally cut ties this week. I had investments w/Schwab but no checking account. I applied for a new account and will be transferring over my accounts next week. It feels FANTASTIC! Boomers like us may feel they know it all, they've got it down, they're doing fine but I found your book refreshing and an ideal tool to check-in with how I'm managing things. I wish I'd thought more about investing when I was young and single. I took all of my extra income (in my first marriage) and put it into his 401K (I got 0) instead of starting my own.🙄 The information you share in your book and on KZread could be a perfect high school finance course. I really enjoy your energy, humor and wisdom. I find it fun to listen to your podcasts and KZread. Thanks again Ramit for all you do!

  • @psychic_orgy
    @psychic_orgy Жыл бұрын

    The live, laugh, love thing is 100% going on a checklist

  • @user-vl7ol5up2b
    @user-vl7ol5up2b4 ай бұрын

    Re: Firing a "financial planner". You dont need to tell them at all. Set up your receiving account. Set up a transfer. Assets move.

  • @user-fw2ol2gp1l
    @user-fw2ol2gp1l Жыл бұрын

    Combining finances with a partner: 1. One joint account (covers fixed expenses, joint savings, joint investments, joint "guilt free" spending) - both people contribute proportionally based on income 2. Remaining cash goes to individual checking accounts for "no questions asked" spending Create a joint future where your love and commitment is reflected structurally. 3. Decide which situations fall under which catagory

  • @Uneerie_
    @Uneerie_9 ай бұрын

    OMG The bit about the financial adviser 😂🤣 I freakin LOVE IT! 🥰

  • @DaveJMorten
    @DaveJMorten Жыл бұрын

    The only thing to put on the marriage checklist: Would you put a "Live, laugh, love." sign up in our house? Ramit: "Obviously the answer is No! Holyyy shit! Can you imagine being married to someone who wants to put that up?" Had me cracking up. X-D

  • @33Jenesis
    @33Jenesis Жыл бұрын

    I am a life long single in my old age. I hated asking my mother for money to go out with my friends. I hated having meals paid by BF. I have to be financially independent to feel free. At my age I don’t write off relationships but marriage is never gonna happen. I like to live in my own house instead of feeling like a guest in someone else’s house.

  • @Hidden2u

    @Hidden2u

    8 ай бұрын

    You may be human my spirit animal because you’ve said something I haven’t ever been able to put into words about myself: I have to be financially independent to feel free.

  • @miyukishouse4647
    @miyukishouse464711 ай бұрын

    So thankful! I am introducing you to my children. They just started working after college, they can start early. Sent this video to them now. :-) Thank you!

  • @lowlowseesee

    @lowlowseesee

    4 ай бұрын

    hell yea!

  • @bradleyroberts5869
    @bradleyroberts5869 Жыл бұрын

    Ramit, I love how entertaining you make your content, highly valuable and I enjoyed the Netflix series! I totally binge watched it, I need to get your book next! 😊

  • @jamieoteri
    @jamieoteri Жыл бұрын

    glad you're making more of a KZread presence again. I want to Join your Coaching program

  • @ramitsethi

    @ramitsethi

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks! Excited to share more here. And when you're ready, I'd love to see you in Money Coaching

  • @melimevivzla
    @melimevivzla Жыл бұрын

    Big fan of your book Ramit. I just gifted the journal to my 17yo brother. Thanks for this video, make more of these please!

  • @ramitsethi

    @ramitsethi

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙌🏽

  • @sylvetteferguson6791

    @sylvetteferguson6791

    Жыл бұрын

    I want to buy your book to help my kids their manage their money. I have a spender and a saver. I need to have a plan too even though I am getting closer to retirement … 🇨🇦🇨🇦

  • @jordash325
    @jordash325 Жыл бұрын

    It's still early, but I'm surprised at the lack of comments from realtors 🤣🤣

  • @isagoldfield7393
    @isagoldfield73939 ай бұрын

    So eye opening, thank you Ramit⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @melanielien5625
    @melanielien5625 Жыл бұрын

    36:00 is why I am liking this video because I completely agree 😂

  • @candecarro
    @candecarro8 ай бұрын

    Ramit, I appreciate your political leaning. Dave Ramsey CONSTANTLY makes disparaging comments about Democrats and Dr. Fauci (a brilliant non-political figure). Drives me NUTS!

  • @theAppleWizz
    @theAppleWizz Жыл бұрын

    I was just laid off with severance and the emergency funds I have a run rate of a year. I’m already interviewing at 3 companies I should get multiple offers around Feb 😅 they really fucked me by doing the layoff on the first week of dec.

  • @steverocksyo
    @steverocksyo Жыл бұрын

    My parents (80) must be on the pulse because they want to give us money now (so we can enjoy it) and we're like no, we don't need it, you do. I guess times have changed.

  • @user-vl7ol5up2b
    @user-vl7ol5up2b4 ай бұрын

    Dollar cost averaging. When the market is up, you buy fewer shares. When the market is down, you buy more shares for the same $. Over time your shares will appreciate. Keep buying over time.

  • @laurenvalverde6447
    @laurenvalverde6447 Жыл бұрын

    I’d like to hear more about how all this fits into “the limits to growth”, global warming and loss of biodiversity, which are facts rarely mentioned in financial planning (denial/too big to address?). It’s like we’re solving financial debt on one side, and digging our global debt on the other. If I’m doing all this partly for my children, but that they have no means to sustain in 40 years, what do I do with that? Any way to address this perspective? 🌎

  • @Joce123
    @Joce1239 ай бұрын

    Amazing video

  • @livelaughlove4635
    @livelaughlove4635 Жыл бұрын

    Omg! I have a Live, Laugh, Love pillow on my bed 🙈 You could turn it around. Haha 😂

  • @donnaallgaier-lamberti3933
    @donnaallgaier-lamberti3933 Жыл бұрын

    ITs easy to have a "no debt" policy if you are making a lot of money. I hear you saying $2,000 every month towards savings and investing. Most of us don't make thousands of dolllars per month and can put aside $2,000 on the sbove. That was my total salary before SS and taxes etc. I have multiple autoimmune conditions and this limits my working hours and my earning capacity I was able to have no debts except for a home but certainly did not leave enough money to invest etc.

  • @arh1234

    @arh1234

    Жыл бұрын

    The numbers may not apply, but the concept may still be helpful! It's hard when the audience has diverse backgrounds.

  • @ronwill06
    @ronwill065 ай бұрын

    The info abotu the recession was interesting

  • @vulpixelful
    @vulpixelful Жыл бұрын

    56:36 I do the clothes thing, but according to my bf, having my everyday clothes out in a basket is "messy" 😁

  • @abenovy7795
    @abenovy7795 Жыл бұрын

    In talking to a friend of mine recently, she was asking if I thought it would be better to pay off her credit cards slowly over 3 years at their high interest rate, or to take out a Home Equity Loan or HELOC to pay them off at a much lower rate and save a huge amount on the interest payments. While she has never once been late on her payments, she has variable income and she is nervous about the idea of her home being the collateral. Any thoughts on this Ramit?

  • @tylernol1566

    @tylernol1566

    Жыл бұрын

    There's a common approach called a balance transfer, I recall it being to a chase slate card that popularly has a 0% bal transfer fee to a new account (normally it's 3%). I believe (look this part up) you can then take advantage of the 0% APR for the 15 months of the new account--different cards have different promo rates. This would be my preferred first option. Otherwise just by the numbers it's a no-brainer to consolidate debt and pay way less interest. It's not like her home is going to be taken if she's late once lol. Now, I don't KNOW, but I will bet you foreclosure doesn't happen for months of no payment and silence. Just look it up. "Defaulting on a HELOC"

  • @sannaekfeldt9241
    @sannaekfeldt9241 Жыл бұрын

    Which podcast episode is the one about recession and the couple?

  • @MistaRowland

    @MistaRowland

    29 күн бұрын

    I’m wondering this as well! Sounds fascinating.

  • @AlphabetRock
    @AlphabetRock Жыл бұрын

    Lol. I can't stand the "Live Laugh Love" and other signage that people put up in their homes. It's often part of staging condos and houses, and it's such a turn-off.

  • @00Dawggg
    @00Dawggg Жыл бұрын

    What’s the need for the “No questions asked account” if you have the joint “guilt free” spending account?

  • @victorvanquish1041

    @victorvanquish1041

    5 ай бұрын

    The difference between me going fishing with the guys &/or me & my wife going on date night.

  • @00Dawggg

    @00Dawggg

    5 ай бұрын

    @@victorvanquish1041 why can’t that come from the same account?

  • @victorvanquish1041

    @victorvanquish1041

    5 ай бұрын

    @@00Dawggg I guess it could if the couple worked it out that way. But there are things a wife would like & enjoys doing that a husband wouldn’t & vice versa. So just makes everything less complicated when your common hobbies & excursions are pulled from one account. & her hobbies are on her no questions asked account & his come from his account. things could get sticky when it comes to imbalances of purchases if everything did get pulled from one account but it’s also a couple to couple thing that could be worked out.

  • @jeremyhelquist
    @jeremyhelquist6 ай бұрын

    Why do we, as a society, feel the need to leave an inheritance for our children who we already took care of for 18+ years‽ My parents raised us to be an active contributing members of society who can take care of themselves. They should enjoy their money and their retirement for themselves and have stated, they have no plans to leave us anything.

  • @bull_chops
    @bull_chops Жыл бұрын

    Yo !

  • @vein3780
    @vein3780 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Ramit! I've always said, marriage is essentially like running a business. Your spouse is your business partner, and women have a hard time understanding that 😂. Love just ain't enough

  • @lmb4876

    @lmb4876

    Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes, it is the husband that has a hard time understanding…I was married to a surgeon ( we met in college) and HE was a spendaholic..live for today-type guy. I was always pulling in the reins… We are now divorced & he married his MUCH young nurse. She has NO problem spending his money! I am now retired and he is still working..oh well😂

  • @jamirova
    @jamirova10 ай бұрын

    Why using BoA debit card is bad? Smb pls explain to me

  • @PaigeKite

    @PaigeKite

    7 ай бұрын

    BoA (and "monster mega" banks) are known for charging unnecessary fees.

  • @genowefamensching3146
    @genowefamensching31463 ай бұрын

    At what financial level do you need to put your money in a rust for you kids? Is it 5 million or 25 million or 100 million?

  • @user-vl7ol5up2b
    @user-vl7ol5up2b4 ай бұрын

    Re: Leaving money. We call it "control from the grave" . Don't do it. Split equally unless there's a special needs situation. Split house as market value.

  • @LUK0BA
    @LUK0BA3 ай бұрын

    Bank of America has been good to me! I think they have changed to be good.

  • @mnardz16
    @mnardz1611 ай бұрын

    What is the problem that marriage solves?

  • @candecarro
    @candecarro8 ай бұрын

    The importance of politics in choosing a partner? When do those attitudes develop? My first husband and I were perfectly aligned in that regard, and though we haven’t been together for 40 years, we still are and because of that we can still be close and have a strong relationship. My second husband (I’m now a widow) and I were not aligned politically but it wasn’t on my must-have list (and I DID have a list!), it was just something, unfortunately) we could not talk about.

  • @jmc8076
    @jmc80768 ай бұрын

    @49:06 first advisor we let go was first scenario. Shockingly unprofessional and rude. Almost predatory. Second (yes two) was retiring from Ed Jones Canada. He was great incl helping w/trans back to us. We talked in person. Rare maybe. Funny I had a sense the first was going to react as he did but still unprepared.

  • @steverocksyo
    @steverocksyo Жыл бұрын

    Its funny i was born for worry free spending lol

  • @aljohnson2790
    @aljohnson2790 Жыл бұрын

    You always talk about “x percentage” to be allocated to investments. But you never say what those investments should be. Where is that info year after year?!?!

  • @ramitsethi

    @ramitsethi

    Жыл бұрын

    All of this is covered in my book in great detail

  • @candecarro
    @candecarro8 ай бұрын

    I’m retired. Should I regret my decade as a Realtor?

  • @mandypdx
    @mandypdx2 ай бұрын

    I will not spend on a partner. I spend $1000+/mo on my dog

  • @livelaughlove4635
    @livelaughlove4635 Жыл бұрын

    It’s so disappointing that you brought politics into this.

  • @ramitsethi

    @ramitsethi

    Жыл бұрын

    Money is political.

  • @gracie2375
    @gracie2375 Жыл бұрын

    Is the potty mouth necessary? You content is great besides that.

  • @mirandawalker6600
    @mirandawalker6600Ай бұрын

    I've saved a pay stub from every job I've had to show my kids. Started at $6.42/hr @ Fazolis back in 2003 (highscool)❤