Q&A: Wedding Updates, Birth Plan, More Kids, Managing it All & More

Today, I'm answering your questions about my wedding, my birth plan for baby 2, whether we want more kids, how I'm managing motherhood and everything else along with other great questions like what are my current spiritual beliefs and how to know if you're with the 'right one'.
Brew up a cup and let's catch up!
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Talk Chapters:
00:00 - Welcome
02:26 - A moment you wish you could give yourself a big hug
03:44 - Fav thing to plant in your garden
04:10 - Any wedding updates, date or plans?
06:10 - What's the hardest part of being pregnant taking care of a child?
07:23 - Are you planning a home birth for baby 2?
08:15 - What are your spiritual beliefs now?
13:40 - What does a typical day in your family life look like?
16:10 - What is your fav part of your daily routine?
17:12 - What goals do you want to accomplish before baby 2 arrives?
18:45 - How do you feel about being a boy mom? Did you want a daughter?
21:55 - Ad Break
23:45 - How are you managing it all? Do you have a nanny or house cleaner?
26:50 - What emotions are different this pregnancy vs. your first?
29:10 - How many kids do you want?
31:08 - FTM: any postpartum advice?
32:01 - Do you get overstimulated or annoyed by your fiancé?
34:50 - Are you still breastfeeding & will you co-breast feed?
36:27 - How do you handle reoccurring home tasks while taking care of a family?
38:58 - How do you know if your person isn't the one?
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change.
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  • @dennettmolly
    @dennettmollyАй бұрын

    Love you so much. I’ve been watching you for years! Also I suggest a backyard wedding. You have the space.

  • @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    Ай бұрын

    That's currently our plan 🤍

  • @dennettmolly

    @dennettmolly

    Ай бұрын

    @@KalynsCoffeeTalk eeek! So excited your next chapter 🖤

  • @AosAos-us8to

    @AosAos-us8to

    28 күн бұрын

    Www Ķ 20:03

  • @megandavidson706
    @megandavidson706Ай бұрын

    Girl, we spent $5000 on our wedding including the dress and venue. Simple, easy, it was the best! I highly recommend going the simple route

  • @goblish9406
    @goblish9406Ай бұрын

    As a looooong time viewer who used to be spiritual but is now an atheist I really do love the ways you explain concepts in several ways ("for me it's the universe, for you it might be..."). It really makes me feel included and like the videos are for me too. It sort of makes it easier to take the concept/tool/idea and fitting it into my life without having to reframe it first, so personally I'm really grateful for that! I would never want you to hide your own beliefs, and I feel I get a good sense of how the topics translate into both your spiritual sense of the world and how that could translate to my world view 😊

  • @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for saying that! That's really encouraging feedback to hear in terms of how I'm communicating these things without being exclusive ♥️

  • @edenelias2at
    @edenelias2at9 күн бұрын

    The answer about the fav part of your day was one of the sweetest things I have ever heard.

  • @hannahperkoengel
    @hannahperkoengelАй бұрын

    It’s so nice to have your regular vlogs again! Look forward to them every week ❤

  • @BigSistersLibrary
    @BigSistersLibraryАй бұрын

    I’ve been learning how to create systems and gyst through you for many moons. Thank you for adding value to my life. ✨

  • @KaitlynB222
    @KaitlynB222Ай бұрын

    I’ve also experienced grief with the loss of my mom before having my second baby, it’s nice not feeling alone 🩷 It’s crazy experiencing two heightened emotions of life and loss at the same time but our little ones definitely keep us going!! I’ve followed your journey for a while I’m in Ontario too!! Thanks for doing what you do and sharing your old soul with the world 💕

  • @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    Ай бұрын

    I'm so sorry for your loss, but thank you for sharing. It is such a crazy experience to go through such contrasting emotions at the same time, but you're right! The little ones keep us going. Sending you love!!

  • @jessicahelene23
    @jessicahelene23Ай бұрын

    It may be too personal but I’d love if you could do a mock family meeting or address how you and Ryan talk about tackling household tasks and childcare as well as what systems you have in place. Hubby works and I am so grateful his work allows me to stay home with our little one but I’m doing about 99% on my own and I’m tired. Any discussions I try to have lead to arguments and nothing changes. 😔

  • @hannasophia18
    @hannasophia18Ай бұрын

    For (budget) wedding planning check out Jamie Wolfer! She is a wedding planner who has a great youtube channel with a lot of tips to plan a wedding on a budget :) I feel like you'd like her vibe.

  • @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    Ай бұрын

    Omg amazing, I will definitely check her out thank you!

  • @rosemarywhitehead8631
    @rosemarywhitehead8631Ай бұрын

    I was so sad when I saw the ad that you were looking for help, it's honestly my dream job, but I'm in Quebec. So close and yet so far... I really hope you find that help because you deserve it.

  • @Life.W.Walkinshaw
    @Life.W.WalkinshawАй бұрын

    love you Q&A's and how open you are with your community :) wedding wise My biggest advice is keep doing what your doing and keep that mentality. No stress, go with the flow and we did not regret having a small wedding. We just invited the people who are and were active participants within our lives and no regrets at all. I'm just so happy for your growth along with your family and mind set and mentality

  • @MamaRat_Morgs
    @MamaRat_MorgsАй бұрын

    Beautiful Q&A, especially with regard to your spirituality and your openness about evolving beliefs!!!

  • @kaailyntaylor
    @kaailyntaylorАй бұрын

    Your hair 😍 Also, love your views on spirituality, I knew there was always a reason I was drawn to you!

  • @Ratkatkat
    @RatkatkatАй бұрын

    I’ve been watching you forever and I feel like we’re growing up together

  • @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    Ай бұрын

    Oh I could list so many, but off the top of my head here are a few favs over the years: The Four Agreements, The Untethered Soul, The Power of Now, Sacred Powers. I know there are many I am forgetting but these are great place to start!

  • @moonkitty3849
    @moonkitty3849Ай бұрын

    Love your vibe and style of your videos! I've been watching you for a long time and always appreciate your videos. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and your life with us! Very relatable. ❤🌸

  • @IlFilodiArianna_vlog
    @IlFilodiArianna_vlogАй бұрын

    I love this type of Q&A catch ups 💕🍵

  • @kenicox8192
    @kenicox8192Ай бұрын

    Loved this video a lot! It was refreshing and relatable. I watched it while my 7 month old napped on me. 😊 For the past month I have been realizing and learning to accept that I don’t have the support that I envisioned when I was pregnant (specifically, support from my partner). I’m in the process of seeking balance and accepting more help from family, but I’m also considering hiring help occasionally so I can have a genuine break. I’m trying to soak up these moments, and remember that she will grow up fast… so I need to savor it. This hits even harder because I’m pretty sure she will be our only child. Thanks for the video, and side note: you look positively radiant! ☀️

  • @Vanessa-jv5ls
    @Vanessa-jv5lsАй бұрын

    I love watching you talk about the love you feel when it comes to your family, you're beaming💫💚

  • @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    Ай бұрын

    🥲

  • @nnoemi_
    @nnoemi_Ай бұрын

    I love the happy spring vibes💛 answering your last question: I moved to the 5th country in 4 years, now for my MSc internship. I feel like I want to stay somewhere, I’d love to find a purpose and a reason to stay. But lot of days I’m thinking if maybe those reasons are created and not found. I’m mentally tired of starting life over in different countries and that the reasons for staying somewhere just passes by time. Also it’s expensive to move but I’m grateful for all the opportunities that I could get/make happen. I grew tremendeously as a person. But at (almost) 27 I need to stop (at least for a while) and be more grounded, create stability and build my professional career. Maybe I was running away from things also - probably it’s just me I was trying to run away from. Sorry for the ramble and thank you if you took the time to read it🩷 I love that for you that you built a home and have a beautiful family and a great career, to you I’m just a random person on this globe but so happy for you 🫶🏼

  • @jeannette1376
    @jeannette1376Ай бұрын

    Grateful for you 🐼

  • @shanaesmith112
    @shanaesmith112Ай бұрын

    💝 love you!

  • @aurelia017
    @aurelia017Ай бұрын

    It’s pretty cool that I’m pregnant at the same time as you! 🥰

  • @sanskriti_barua
    @sanskriti_baruaАй бұрын

    Did anyone else re-listened to this episode after listening on Spotify? ❤

  • @chrissyhammerbeck4133
    @chrissyhammerbeck4133Ай бұрын

    As you shouldn't stress. We did a court house wedding with a small reception. We only had close friends and immediate family over. I thought it was nice.

  • @chrissyhammerbeck4133

    @chrissyhammerbeck4133

    Ай бұрын

    I would love a deeper conversation about spirituality.

  • @noursharayah6818
    @noursharayah6818Ай бұрын

    You could connect with a granddaughter as well ❤

  • @shanaesmith112
    @shanaesmith112Ай бұрын

    the sagittarius placement you're thinking of is your Midheaven or MC :).

  • @nisazamora3037
    @nisazamora3037Ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @tiffanyrogersfeuer1914
    @tiffanyrogersfeuer1914Ай бұрын

    Just thought I would share a little about being with someone that you know isn't "the one." I was with my most recent ex for 3.5 years. We did want the same things out of life, we rarely ever fought, constantly made each other laugh, ect. Everyone was surprised when we broke up. There was this emotional connection that was lacking. I remember him saying that he couldn't picture his life without me, and because we had been together for so long, I couldn't picture mine without him either. But, when I imagined actually walking down an aisle towards him, it felt wrong. I couldn't actually see us getting married, all I could see were our friends and family individually talking to us beforehand and asking us if we really wanted to go through with it. I did a plant medicine ceremony a few months before we broke up, and a few weeks after the ceremony I heard this "whisper in the wind" is the only way that I can describe it that said "you aren't going to marry him, you aren't going to have kids with him." And after that, I knew that we had to break up but it took a little while for us both to admit that we weren't happy. We're still friends to this day and have the deepest love and respect for each other.

  • @Malekfahad420
    @Malekfahad420Ай бұрын

    Hey Kalyn, really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with Best Quality Editing in your videos better than your Editor with good pricing and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail which will help your videos to reach to a wider audience ? Pls let me know what do you think ?

  • @sashaluinstra4090
    @sashaluinstra4090Ай бұрын

    Girl it’s the preggo hormones impacting the gut! Metamucil much needed in these 9 months I swear😂

  • @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    Ай бұрын

    It is next levellll this pregnancy!! 🥲

  • @pjesarek
    @pjesarekАй бұрын

    off topic but guys did i miss ttpd reaction video?

  • @angelika6620

    @angelika6620

    Ай бұрын

    Not out yet!

  • @pjesarek

    @pjesarek

    Ай бұрын

    @@angelika6620 thank you❤️

  • @elisescott7012
    @elisescott7012Ай бұрын

    When will you be doing a new Taylor Swift album reaction video

  • @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    @KalynsCoffeeTalk

    Ай бұрын

    Finishing up the edits today :)

  • @amandaadams9274
    @amandaadams9274Ай бұрын

    God, Jesus, is the one source. 🩷 love to you & all.