Salaam. There is something from you going around titled 'POV blocking men'. I just want to kindly and politely point out that a man saying 'I live with my parents' should not be seen as a 'red flag'. In islam we are told to cherish our mothers and fathers dearly and keep them close. If a sister is unwilling to live with a mother and father in law then that is very very understandable but to state that a male living with his mother and a father is a red flag unfortunately, and very dangerously, ties into the western mindset of individualism. Remember, some of us may live to see old age...let's not treat living with and looking after your parents as something to be embarrassed about.

@starlight200816

Жыл бұрын

It depends on your culture. My parents are from east Africa and a man living with his parents is very shameful

@shahliker1095

Жыл бұрын

@@starlight200816 You've just highlighted the problem - don't mix culture with religion. As Muslims, we should put religion before Western, East African or any other culture.

@starlight200816

Жыл бұрын

@@shahliker1095 honestly with marriage the reality is everyone had their own preference. If a sister or brother rejects someone based on a trait they dislike that is their choice. Ultimately everyone should marry whom is pleasing to them. Islamically we are advised to get married. As for who to marry that is our own individual choice. If someone makes a video on KZread about their own experience and advice no need to get offended by it. Let people have their own opinion. I wouldn't want to marry someone that dislikes a major trait of mine or circumstance. It's not fair to me or them.

@shahliker1095

Жыл бұрын

@@starlight200816 You have missed the point if I can respectfully say so. The message posted wasn't 'I prefer not to marry a man who lives with his parents'. It was effectively 'man who lives with his parents - red flag'. Big difference. We shouldn't be promoting the idea that it is embarrassing to live with our parents. They are dearest to us and we know....'heaven is under your mother's feet'.

@shazadaziz6593

Жыл бұрын

She won't reply she's a lost cause

In reality, people who have been married and have children, and are divorced find it really challenging to find a spouse who meets their expectations. This applies to both genders.

@rosameijering5161

Жыл бұрын

I think so yes. To be honest I dont understand how people deal with thT

@Sona77.

Жыл бұрын

It’s hard to meet expectations even as a single person lol

For the first question I would definitly advise anyone dealing with burnout or hard time in general to turn to Allah Though prayer, sadakha and good deeds .

@joelm7621

Жыл бұрын

I agree

The last question and answer

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

I’m so happy you loved it Aqsa ❤

@Stephaneholyfield

Жыл бұрын

​@@ZahraaBerro❤❤🙏🙏🙏I love this zahraa

@sforsafiyah

3 ай бұрын

❤

I loved it! Also ,i love your shorts 🥰youre GORGEOUS,talented ,and very Smart.keep going,spread the love!❤️❤️

@NickBerryiwersen-vt9er

Жыл бұрын

Hi

Peace be with you. I have been wanting to ask some questions. 1) what advice can you give for a female Christian who is dating a Muslim man? 2) what advice would you give on keeping faith after getting divorced and working on moving on and healing and trying to date again? Thank you for your videos I love watching them 😊

YOUR VIBE ATTRACTS YOUR TRIBE 🗣️❗

I love your SHARE !!

“Someone can be madly in love with you and still not be ready. They can love you in a way you have never been loved and still not join you on the bridge. And whatever their reasons you must leave. Because you never ever have to inspire anyone to meet you on the bridge. You never ever have to convince someone to do the work to be ready. There is more extraordinary love, more love that you have never seen, out here in this wide and wild universe. And there is the love that will be ready.” -Nayirrah Waheed. Been seeing this quote a lot of social media and it just sums the last question up well I think.

May Allah make your heart at ease. I hear you sis . May Allah guide you and guide me as well ameen

I loved how u answered on the last question thank you so much ❤❤

Hi Zahraa. Assalamualaikum. 'It is what it is'. This is what I truly believe to be the no1 hurdle/barrier, in this day and Age, for the brothers/sisters to practice, me included. The influence of the worldly concept of 'healing' oftentimes conflicted with the subject of Redha/Ridha of the faith. It is often thought that one needs to completely 'heal' from the trauma of the past (and here I of course referring to intimate relationship between man and woman) in order to embark on a new journey with another person. We plan, we act, but what we sometimes forget or set aside (perhaps unknowingly since we are brought up in a framwework of 'man/woman decides his/her destiny') is that the decision is His, and only He alone will decide which path we will be, based on the plan/action that we took. Tawakkal...we kinda 'silenced' this in our everyday life. My apology, rambling on, perhaps unwelcomed. You are a strong person, with conviction, eloquence, and a past. Any decent human being will be cautious to take the next step forward in that circumstances. May Allah grants you the bliss of partnership that will further helps you on your journey, perhaps sharing the load of 'healing' as you move forward in life. Be Well and Assalamualaikum

Thank you being in this world!

you looks so pretty also love ur makeup😍😍🙌

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!!

Thanks so much this helped me so much u a good influencer

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

Hamdellah ❤ excited to hear you say this and inshallah I continue to be influencing good in all Of you 🥹

@ruethy2566

Жыл бұрын

@@ZahraaBerro hey zahraa...just wanna know have u ever truly considered re evaluating Islam?...not in comparison of anything..just Islam ..because I did n it just beats my understanding ur so intelligent to still follow this religion

Assalamu Alaikum!! I just came across your channel and i’m so glad i did. i love listening to you and your story. your so inspirational. May Allah reward you and ease any hardships in your life.❤ you deserve the best

but there are an Community Lebanon people together -alliance agreement very happy and glad that living on the Brazil COUNTRY . GOD BLESS YOU !!!

We love you so much your the the youtuber ever ❤ 💜

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

Love you too Khadra! What do you want to see next?

No words but one thing i can say is. ماشاء الله.

Love your thoughts about manifestation and believing someone is out there for me. Thank you for spreading this! I will continue to be patient. 💜

@fessali5726

Жыл бұрын

Of course there is. You will find someone special. 🙏

@Sona77.

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words. 💕

This is therapy ✨️

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

haha exactly what I want to hear!!

احبك كتيرً و احب فيديوهاتك

JazakAllah Khariyan!!

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

Omg thank you so much !!!😘

@catrionarodgers-murray8619

Жыл бұрын

@@ZahraaBerro much love, babe. 💋 It's the least I can do to show my love and support.

15:08 🥺🥺🖤 this question i needed to truly repeat forsure. thank you!

@porschafrederick3044

Жыл бұрын

alhamdulillah, you’re literally therapy 🥺

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

🥹🥹 we have all been there & you got this girl ❤

@gigulalagaming

Жыл бұрын

@@ZahraaBerro hi sister how are you

Good job 🙏 good video 👍📸 So love you 🤩😍

i always love your videos!!

Of course there is someone out there for you ,I'm a single mom I have been believed there someone out there for me and I get married my dream guy alhamdulilah.

@Zahraa, do you understand MSA and can you speak it?

I love u so much i want to say u a person that when i am sad,mad,bored i watch u i am telling u if u think someone hate u that is there problem now u nice kind beautiful. LOVE U/LUV U

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

🥹🥹🥹 honored to hear this. May Allah swt always keep You happy !! 🎉

Asalamualaikum Zahraa Can we become friends. We have the same profession.

hi i m a muslim when i was 3 year old i was praying and i m 9

my favorite, im so proud of you🥺🖤

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

I’m so happy you’re here 😭❤️

@porschafrederick3044

Жыл бұрын

@@ZahraaBerro always been here and will stay here 🖤 your hard work and dedication is everything, your content is literally amazing!

S.a jazak Allahu khairan sister keep goin

Thank you so much for sharing this, sister!! And thank you for being so brave and admitting you get therapy to help you in life. I know for me some of my trauma is related to being a Muslimah. And how judgmental born Muslims can be towards converts. Like I don't want to get into too many details, because I don't want to distract from your wonderful message, but in 2019, I was sexually assaulted. And for some reason, instead of referring me to a qualified mental health professional, my imam thought the secretary was the person he sent me to. Who showed very quickly that she was not qualified by telling me that I had cheated on my husband. Alhamdulillah I was able to stand up for myself and say, "that's what I thought too, but then alhamdulillah, I felt like Allah subhannah wa ta'ala was telling me such thoughts were from shaythanis and not from Him." Fortunately, my therapist now is so incredibly patient, like I was talking about that stuff, and she had me just sit with it. And I started to get so overwhelmed that I was like, "I don't want to do this anymore, right now! I'm about to have a panic attack!" Her response? "Thank you! I appreciate you advocating for yourself and telling me your limits." My apologies, I am really sorry I'm not trying to make this about me at all. I just saw how open and honest you are, and I felt inspired to be honest about a little bit of my situation. I'm grateful to God that you clicked with your therapist from the start. Insha'Allah your journey of self-discovery will continue to strengthen you into having an even more beautiful energy. ❤️❤️❤️ Sorry one other thing, Al Islam is one really awesome website. But another resource I've also used a lot, especially when I was a baby Muslimah, is this one Imam Mahdi Association of Marjaeya (313) 562-4626 g.co/kgs/8Ay91i You can look at the frequently answered fīqh questions. Or you can submit a question to the scholars. Sometimes the answers they give are...not the best is the nicest way I can put it....but some of the scholars give awesome answers and support them with Hadith from Kītab Al Kafi and Al Qu'ran. I loved this Q and A. JazakAllah Khariyan

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this and i am sorry you went through this. I do not use our local community/mosques for advice because they don't really understand mental health too well! Additionally, religion is not the answer for everything IMO. Best of luck iA 😘

@tekkie740

Жыл бұрын

Actually we are all born Muslims ! That’s why everyone who chooses Islam is called a revert

@catrionarodgers-murray8619

Жыл бұрын

@@ZahraaBerro I agree with you completely. I hope hoping, Insha'Allah, more Muslimahs decide to become therapists. But it's sad, because a lot won't, especially where I'm at in Western PA. Because they don't want to work with the LGBTQI+ community. Because if you express an opinion that is discriminatory towards the LGBTQI+ community, you can lose your license to deliver psychotherapy, rightly so, since part of being a professional is divorcing whatever beliefs you may or may not have from your job. I briefly did psychotherapy with kids in their homes. And I have 4 years or so of clinical experience with children, toddlers and youth with autism. And if people ask me why I put kum kum on my forehead, and the part of my hair. I just tell them it's because I have desi ancestry. Because therapy is not about the therapist. It's about the clients journey. And like I tried working with a couple hijabi therapists to try to heal some of my religious trauma. But it's too traumatic because I got pushed into sharing some really hard s--- when it was only my second sesh. Some other things happened that led me to firing her. But my therapist now is amazing. She uses a lot of somatically based techniques, which are more powerful than just pure CBT, on my humble, opinion. Like for instance, Zahra's. When I see your beautiful smiling face, your energy smells like roses, daffodils, jade, and sunflowers. Thanks for being so sympathetic, kind, and compassionate. Insha'Allah you have a nice day, wonderful sister. ❤️ JazakAllah Khariyan. ❤️

@Mohamedismail-sb6pd

Жыл бұрын

@@catrionarodgers-murray8619 Can't someone just say, "i'm not qualified to give you advice on your situation" to alphabete community and refer to a specialised professional who is willing to deal twith hem?

@Shia.Ahlulbayt

Жыл бұрын

@@catrionarodgers-murray8619 I glad to see you found the help you needed. A lot centres might not know the best expertise needed but I think slowly they become more aware. The community discusses mental health more than they use to & it becoming an area they are trying to address slowly. Even have tv shows on it now. kzread.info/dash/bejne/aWtopaiecsXPp6w.html

Zahraa were can i order ur hijabi product

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

www.zahraathelabel.com use code ZAHRAA20 to save 20% off ❤

May Allah swt bless you and us all a spouse that has the characteristics of prophet Muhammad pbuh ameen 🤲🏼

Recently I have been thinking of going into a serious relationship with a modest and peacefull mhajbe woman... I honestly find it attractive spiritually(as a muslim) and physically for me as a man because we men are visual in the end. Do you recommend anyone ?

Very good so Beautiful

Salam 3alaykoum, very good Experience , you show them what is the really Islam, thank U

Masha Allah

Zahraa i wanted to say i want to order something but i dont kn were to order

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

Hey love, what would you like to order?

@abdiaishabasasad6259

Жыл бұрын

I would like to see all your options were can i see that

Yes I agree , I wish I was healed for sure , but I did get it though now

@masumnur5993

Жыл бұрын

I am from Italy single boy and you

@mariyavatulko7922

Жыл бұрын

@@masumnur5993 i am married

@masumnur5993

Жыл бұрын

@@mariyavatulko7922 where from you

@mariyavatulko7922

Жыл бұрын

@@masumnur5993 i am married

@masumnur5993

Жыл бұрын

Where from you...and you like to message send your watsup number

Where are you from? What is your nationally?

im really feel the same path alhamdulilah

Loving the consistency habibti ❤, hope you can vlog for us during ramadan ❤

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

thank you love. I will try to not slip through the cracks! Ramadan at Zahraa The Label is so busy for me 😌 I will do my best to do quick vlogs rather than long ones.

@User68375

Жыл бұрын

No pressure love, I know you’ll be busy with your brand 😌

Masallah sister

and i got a twin and 9 with my twin too

I can heal you ❤

As a muslim your thumbnail is too attractive and beautiful to handle OMG😍❤️😍❤️

@-.--.--.--.--.-.

Жыл бұрын

Astafirllah brother lower your gase

U are a Beautiful Person & a Gorgeous Woman 👩 Don’t Change for Anything or Anyone stay Informed & Educated & don’t ever Settle either Honey 🍯 Happiness your Happiness is Something in Life this Lifetime U Deserve & just make Sure He is Deserving of someone as Special as Yourself 💯 U are a Very Good 😊 Person & your Children will Know & It probably Won’t Even Feel like Any of U have to Try just like that Missing Puzzle 🧩 Piece that just Fits Honey 🍯 He will just Fall into Place Perfectly in your Life Honey 🍯 U Deserve It God Bless 💯🙏💙

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

thank you so much!

Zahra this is my first time watching and people in my school they bully me because i wear hijab

Take some Business Management Courses that will help you.

do you recommend your followers take anti depressants ?I wonder if she is on Anti depressants or if they have been recommended to her by her shrink

Masah allah 🇮🇳🇮🇳

Kiki do you love me ?

Ok

I have to take my mother's medicine. I need some money. Please help me.

Are you from Qatar and I am from Qatar and i am Arabic and Bangladeshy

Hello.

ماشاءاللہ

sister please help me

Your on point sis! 'answer to the 1st question'. Additionally I would heal trauma by not looking at it. It's old news. Rear-view, if you allow it to be. Besides, all the fresh new experiences are in front of you. Why give thought to hurtful situations? Let that energy go by simply not thinking about it. Not talking about it. ❤❤❤

Healing comes from Allah

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

It comes from Allah swt but we have to work on ourselves 😊

Good luck and God bless you more . Ya ALI 😊

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!! Ya Ali Madad 😘

@AllahMohammadAli110

Жыл бұрын

@@ZahraaBerro 😁

Its hard for a single mother to land a high value man. A man that earns 6 figures, is over 6 Feet and has a 6 pack. These high value men go for younger virgin girls.

@birhanjommy

Жыл бұрын

By what measures do you value a human being? A rich 6ft man and a murderer is a high-value man?

@Luella-xu3kg

Жыл бұрын

The prophet Muhammed’s (pbuh) wives were all non virgins (widows and divorcees) except 1

@JohnSmith-ib1ky

Жыл бұрын

@@birhanjommy Nobody here mentioned a murderer except you. Obviously a murderer is not a high value man. I already described to you what makes a man high value. He has high income/wealthy and is physically attractive.

@Sona77.

Жыл бұрын

Lol not true at all.

Bonjour madame

Sister please help me please

sister please help me please i fold my hands before you please help me

I am a poor boy.My mother is often sick.And my sister has no eyes.I can't even find any work.I can earn some money to help my familyI fold my hands before you, help me.Help for the sake of Allah

❤🧕🏻

Are you not scared OF the Carry guns in California. Just i ask because i am planing to travel to California.

Plz help me

Where are you from Zehra Aunt

@ZahraaBerro

Жыл бұрын

AUNTTTT??!!!! LOL! I am Lebanese 🇱🇧

@SARIMAKRAM

Жыл бұрын

@@ZahraaBerro No No I was joking I am really sorry you are the crown of our head Thank you so much love from Pakistan ♥️😊

Are you a Muslim I am I were a hijab😊😊😊😊

Aren’t relationships haram?

As muslims we are not meant to have pre martial relationships at all .The best way to avoid relationship Trauma is to follow the Sunnah and not get involved with men your not married to .Allah wants us to protect our hearts and wait for marriage to stop us 1. becoming unchaste and 2 . not get psychological issues .men and woman are not allowed to be in the same room as each other alone .why do you think there is segregation in mosques ?

@arnelabih1845

Жыл бұрын

Ameeeeen I 💯 or pray Tahajjud

You can date as a muslim

تقدري تتكلمي غربي can you talk in Arabic?

Omg I searched you up to find something authentic to relate to (singlehood/ motherhood/ divorce etc.) and this started off so fake and sponsored.

As a young man, I feel it is challenging to find and meet modest women, especially in a non-muslim country and in this generation when women have so many options.

Focus on your inner beauty more do good deeds pray Tahajjud be kind give sadaka every Friday repentance say sorry those that you've hurt in the past be humble don't have big ego talk like a rose 🌹💖 soft masculine energy will push me away most of Arabic women have this bad attitude demanding and judgemental ppl will never be happy. You don't need therapist you need Allah pray Tahajjud. It's the tone of your voice & the way you articulate your words....you signed up to be an influencer so why are you complaining about if someone comments.

The only way to heaven.Dear Jesus I know that I’m a sinner. I know that I deserve to go to hell but I believe he died on the cross for me and Rose again. please save me right now and give me eternal life. I’m only trusting in you Jesus amen. Sidenote heaven or hell you choose just remember once you take your last breath it’s a done deal.

What I know is any relationship between man and woman outside marriage is a fornication and it is a big sin so I'm not with you in that

@danoneall4013

Жыл бұрын

Facts Dating in Islam is Haram. Living with your girlfriend/boyfriend before marriage is haram. Shia Muslims (like her) don't view it that way.

@goldeneagle1762

Жыл бұрын

@danoneall4013 of course it is but what this has to do with Shiism ? Because I don't think dating is allowed in any sect of islam

@danoneall4013

Жыл бұрын

@@goldeneagle1762 - It is. I spent time in Shia places. They allow it

@goldeneagle1762

Жыл бұрын

@danoneall4013 another question how did you even know that she is a Shiite ? 🤔

@hadast3806

Жыл бұрын

golden eagle - In all of the major religions this is a sin, why would a Muslim girl ok that? It clouds a woman’s thinking to make sure she is picking the right husband. Even non religious relationship coaches are advocating against it!

Why do U wear a hijab but then use makeup.

Didn't ask plus you are Shia

Free Andrew Tate

@MandipGillan

10 ай бұрын

@APLatina2000your a woman. That’s worse

If you want to be truly veiled to you from me, I am a Muslim, I will advise you with this: Do not speak to any man except your father, uncle, grandfather and brother. Do not put even a little bit of make-up because it is forbidden! . Do not dress yourself up for any man other than your husband. And do not put perfume outside the house, it is forbidden! . And don't show your wrist or even part of your feet! . And other morals, transactions and worship. The subject is not just a piece of cloth on the head.

Dating💀💀💀 isnt she a muslim

She’s a bit on the masculine side of the spectrum as a woman. Not saying anything wrong with that necessarily. Although, in many cases, overly masculine women tend to not have healthy satisfied relationships. That may be why she struggles to find a good solid healthy marriage. A woman like this really needs a man who is very masculine. A man who knows how to maintain a position of authority in a relationship. If a woman assumes a position of authority in marriage it will be doomed. Both parties will be miserable. The woman will lose respect for the husband and resent him for it. May Allah SWT grant her the man she needs. Ameen 🤲

Assalamu Alaikum Sahara I’m Muslim I wear hijab I’m a girl

Salam aleikum brothers and sisters, my question is as follows; I honestly couldn’t watch turther than 1:30. At this point the topic was about healing, when the Channel owner mentioned visiting a therapist. What is the stance on Muslims needing/visiting therapists? What is the islamic view on this? To be honest, I can not watch any further because I believe in Allah. Allahu ahlam gives me the idea that studying Quran, Tafseer and Sunnah will bring me closer to practise believing in Allahu ahlam more than I would when I believe in a human to solve the problems in my soul. My heart and soul are hurt and I have been alone in this dunya for so long that I also sought help. It is not bad and it shows character, that you at least feel the need to improve. Simultaneously I discovered how a mere human will not provide me with answers only Allah can give. Beacause Allahu ahlam.. The guidance, healing and love I’m looking for… it doesn’t seem to be retrievable in (the council of) another human. What are your thoughts on these ideas and would you offer me your view on this? (@everyone that reads this) Salam

Nice video 👍 #menkshorts

Xaaaanziiir 73 muslim.groups and only one go the right path .the one who follows the prophet Muhammed S.A.W footstep..do you think the real women from islam do what you do

Parda kijiye aur social media se door ho jayiye

So now you are promoting dating? Which Hadith of quranic edict talks about dating? Please elaborate….