I was in your situation and decided to use Muslim dating apps. 80%of the people there did not seem serious or didn't know what they want. My rule was, I don't date outside my city, I don't chat more than a few days, we have to meet in person outside in a public spaceand no flirting, just talking about personality and future expectations. I made istikhara after every date and they all crumbled except one. And now I am married to him alhamdulilah, I am 34.

@arnelabih1845

2 жыл бұрын

MashaAllah sister congratulations. Please make dooa for me that soon InshaaAllah I meet mine 💜

@amena92

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing! This comment should be pinned for all to see and read

@ZahraaBerro

2 жыл бұрын

THIS IS ME !!! Smart girl, love this energy! I also limited it to my city ( or max 100 miles) then talk first for a few days, Meet for coffee and see where it takes us. Believe it or not meeting them sometimes allowed me to break it off immediately 😂 if it doesn’t click , I’m out 😝 good for you love ❤️

@MisRumbababum

2 жыл бұрын

Amazing Congratulations sister! Thank you for sharing! This gives me hope

@sammhansamkhan4244

2 жыл бұрын

Very nice . conversation

Our religion isn’t here to suffocate us. To partake in certain activity is haram. But to interact with a person of interest with boundaries without needing a father figure to dictate isn’t haram. Islam is in fact very freeing and only requires the Wali to bless a marriage, not to dictate conversations and so on. After all we all know what kind of interaction is appropriate and which is inappropriate. In this day and age to meet somebody it’ll be called “dating” and this is simply interaction between two people who are interested in each other in hopes of the same goal- holy matrimony. So my opinion is put yourself out there but protect yourself and stay wary!

Love your video!! It’s a very important topic! Honestly, as long as both men and women set red lines and boundaries and ACTUALLY abide by these boundaries, apps, masjids, community events, and other ways are needed to meet people and then you need to sift through them to find the right one for you

@ZahraaBerro

2 жыл бұрын

I see no harm , given one is educated enough to make that choice. Some people don’t have control and can be fooled ☹️

This is a real struggle. I live in a small city and it’s really difficult to meet people. Thanks for making this video, I now know I’m not the only one. ❤️

I've been married for 12 years now after a lonnnng complicated journey of searching for the right person....all I can say is keep it halal as much as you can...the more you keep it halal the more "barakah " and blessings you get from Allah...and this is what you really need to keep a marriage for a life time....

@ZahraaBerro

2 жыл бұрын

Subhanallah beautifully said. Always keep Allah swt in mind ❤️

The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides...respect is one of greatest expression of love ❤ I respect women.

Thank you so much, Zahraa. I was talking to a potential recently and out of nowhere he made some inappropriate comments yesterday. This video is perfect timing. We both agree with one another. Unfortunately, some men present themselves and pious Muslims when in reality they're anything but that.

@ZahraaBerro

2 жыл бұрын

Don’t get me started on that!! I literally ponder everyday about these “religious figures” who seem so holy but then sneak into your DMs and state inappropriate things. I learned so many valuable lessons from them. Beware of these kinds of men, religious or non-religious. I get turned off so fast from these comments. It’s just not the kind of thing I want to hear when I’m getting to know someone.

@Boss-gk8kc

2 жыл бұрын

Even women. They pretend not to be gold diggers but they are.

@Hi-ii4qo

2 жыл бұрын

@@Boss-gk8kc your name already says alot bout you

Subhanallah I Made dua this week during tahajjud of dating app is the way to find a potential partner. I feel like youre video is a sign. I am a single Mothers also of 2 kids and learned a lot of what i DONT want!

I like how you Zahraa talked so openly about this controversial topic, I personally am still very confused about what is called "Halal dating" and I didn't form a specific opinion about it✌🏻❤

@ZahraaBerro

2 жыл бұрын

Makes sense , it’s hard to talk about. Given the new shift in society the past 10 years and most recent 3 years, we need to adapt.

@rayene1683

2 жыл бұрын

@@ZahraaBerro yes totally!

@S3KZC

Жыл бұрын

@@ZahraaBerro religion does not adapt

I am not Muslim but I still agree everything you are saying. Right now I am ready start dating but when I am ready I will be doing your way. As I have learned from my mistakes and regret it now. For me my daughter is important and I will do everything which will not affect her life.

I agree with you. It's not easy to find a spouse. Before going to college everyone says you can find someone at your schools msa. I was very active and on board one year. There were no compatible people for me. Now I am on dating app's and have met sisters that are more similar to me in religion, interest, and family.

You don't have to meet with someone , the right person will come up to you in a right time. Just trust Allah and he knows what is best for you.

Sister, I’m so glad that you made this video and talked openly about this issue. I’m in the same shoes as you for several years(I meant the exact same shoe lol being single for 3 years, in my late 20s, two kids) and I 100% agree that it’s so difficult to meet people. I’m from the same state as you and despite being around small Muslim communities it’s almost impossible to meet people. I have tried dating app for only a few days and realized there are hardly any Muslim guy with serious intention so I deleted the app. But I asked myself this question countless times as well that how do we get to know/meet someone in today’s world? Right now I’m trying to focus on other things and waiting for Allah to allow me to meet the right person. Keep me in your prayers. May Allah make everything easy for us.

@mervekirmizi2992

2 ай бұрын

Ameen 🤲 May Allahu teala give you what's best for your dünya and Akhira . May you be given what your heart is looking for sis ❤

@Dantics15

Ай бұрын

Me too sister.. I'm at the age where most of my friends already married and have 2 or 3 teenage children. But, now I'm still single and haven't been married. Even though I live In Indonesia, where you probably think would be easy to find spouse whose also Islam. It's really hard for me to find one. When I have negative thoughts, I always remind myself that it is Allah's decree and that maybe this is the best for me right now. I've tried dating apps, but it always turned out bad. Like you said, they never had any serious intentions. So now I'm trying to join a pre-nikkah courses to get an insight about marriage in Islam. And hopefully Allah will meet me with my future husband. Ameen. May Allah make it easy for us and may Allah always protect us.

"Dating" for us Muslims isn't like how the western world views it. We go into "dating" with the intention of marriage which means we have strict restrictions during interactions with the opposite gender that takes place in the presence of a mahram. Also as Muslims we are blessed to be able to utilize the prayer of istikhara to receive Allah's guidance in order to know whether a potential spouse is right for us and whether or not we should proceed into a marriage with them.

I am so glad to see this video, You just put all of my thoughts into words. Thank you !

I am a convert but I have never understood that many Muslim consider women and men beasts who at the first opportunity jump on each other. I had many male friends during uni but never happened anything besides normal friendships. Not from my side and not from their side. ( who knows maybe it means I am ugly🤭🤭) your opinion is so wise and I really envy in a good way your confidence

@lostsouls5885

2 жыл бұрын

Hi sister, what the sister in the youtube video mentioned is a shia belief. We Muslims upon the sunnah of the prophet don't believe in such thing as 'dating' and doing it will destroy your imaan. Literally anything I've learnt in my life is to avoid haram, at the end Allah always gives me something better.

@lostsouls5885

2 жыл бұрын

As a revert it is very easy to resort to youtube for the problems you face which is very understandable when you have no Muslims around you. However, it is very important we take knowledge from the right people, not unqualified youtubers who are speaking from their desires. I recommend you start by learning Quran, praying etc. Then start studying Islamic books like usool al thalatha with islamic teachers. I only mean to say what's good as it is very dangerous to take knowledge from the wrong people. Thanks for reading jazakallah khairan

@Erienna872

2 жыл бұрын

@@lostsouls5885 first you don’t know anything about me. Second I don’t need you to tell me what I am to believe. Third by stating that her beliefs as a shia is not valid, you made me convinced even more not to take anything seriously which you say. ( don’t assume from this anything if I am a shia or not) Fourth, don’t assume that I am incapable of making my own decisions or understanding and I need recommendations what I should do

@saniatamanna7763

2 жыл бұрын

@@Erienna872 right

GIRL!!,you're glowing mashallah 😍😍😍

@ZahraaBerro

2 жыл бұрын

Awwww ❤️❤️❤️

I'm married for almost 23 years now alhamdulilah my wife and I knew eachother for 3 weeks before getting marriage with her we have 2 beautiful boys 17 & 15 and we still love eachother walaahi my brother's and sisters I recommend to you to not waste time for nothing when you meet someone honest and good take it without hesitation. Good luck for all of you who are still single and keep praying to get the right person insha'Allah kheyr

Great topic I meet my husband at my job . I was dating him and I was not Muslim then so I did not know that he was Muslim so we dated and I think it was not the right thing to do but at the end we got married. I think 🤔 that it's good to be on dating apps . But also but your self out there and if you have family maybe they can also look for you .

Salam alaikum zahra, I am a revert of 5 years ahumdillah I am still learning Islam. I have only been practicing the past two years and I have two children. I live in Australia and I swear every single word you said is what I’m going through! It’s so hard to meet someone genuine! I feel like being on a dating app and when I match with a guy they don’t take me seriously when they see I’m a non hijabi and a revert. So I get spoken to in a manner and I just get exhausted speaking to them after two weeks they start flirting and find out I have my own business my own house etc and try invite themselves over? Like wth! So I wish them the best then block them. But then they try and find me on social media lol it gets creepy… I’m 36 and still looking! It’s so hard! Inshallah the right man will come to me I’ll be honest, I know so many hijabi personally that date in secret for a few years then they end up doing nikkah, but wallah if I did the same I feel like the man won’t ever marry me coz I’m a revert and they are from Muslim families so they accept.. it’s sad to say, but it’s so true.

@yusufabdillebarodiintaada8498

2 жыл бұрын

Where do you live in Australia I will get for you husband I live in Sydney I have madrasa in Sydney teaching Quran I have a book is call how you read the Quran

@ZahraaBerro

2 жыл бұрын

The important thing is to know your worth and be cautious of men who take advantage of your situation , as a revert or a woman. I think you set those boundaries by what you approve/disapprove. After a few short convos I immediately know if someone is a good fit to even give him my time. That’s just eliminating the wrong suitors for my own sake and allows me to not get emotionally attached, it’s hard , no doubt about that. But inshallah I have hope we can all somehow connect with someone if we know what we want. Best of luck ❤️

@saymatattooremovalchannel9264

2 жыл бұрын

@@ZahraaBerro thank you zahraa for taking the time to respond to me! Inshallah Allah will bless us in this life with a pious husband 😘 all the best and happy birthday to your son! X

@trippingwithak

2 жыл бұрын

What does walla mean.

@user-ti2ph6qb1y

Жыл бұрын

This is so beautiful, welcome to Islam sister ❤️ May you find everything that you were looking for in a spouse and that through the process you are never mistreated and are seen for your worth. I am so sorry that you have faced certain prejudices as a non-hijabi and a convert from men (wtf??). It is hard out here to find someone genuine but as someone genuine yourself, I trust that you will find that person for you. Good luck!! 🫶🏼

11:00 I have a feeling that I made a mistake of the part where you said is not do flirting. On Insta, she told me that when we meet at the event don't flirt in front of others. I said OfCourse I won't & then added that maybe a little without anyone knowing. But now that I think about it. I believe that was dumb of me. I hope it doesn't cause any red flag later on. We are going to meet at an event on Saturday Insha'Allah. I hope it goes well & we get to know each other a lot better. It's my first time & I have no idea how I am going to do it. No matter how hard I try, I just feel so nervous for some reason. Though I will try to stay strong & be myself. I wish my father was still alive. Would be really needing his advice right now.

Mashallah Zahraa jaan e qaand e nazaaniin .. besyaar maghbul asteen .. Dost et Daroom !

very well explained!

Thanks and welcome sis❤❤❤

mashaAllah sis great topic i realy appriciate you 🤗

@ZahraaBerro

2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️

You’re right, there’s literally no other way to meet people these days, the community has disintegrated and it’s very different now. I swore I’d never go on dating app cos for a while I thought it’s haram and as a result I just don’t meet anyone and still remain single to this day. I gave up on the idea ever meeting anyone, 😞 pray for me sister.

@Ibrahim-hc8fg

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Sister all I can say is have patience and I recommend you stay off dating apps because it’s haram and you have plans but guess what Allah’s plan is better so just pray 5x a day and read the Quran and make duas InShaAllah Allah will open doors for you because I am in the same position as you plus Allah created everyone in pairs maybe right now it’s not the time for you to meet someone yet Allah has better plans for you just rely on Allah and don’t fall in the trap of Shaytaan. And yeah Allah knows best.

@lostsouls5885

2 жыл бұрын

yes it is very hard, but if you give up something for the sake of Allah he will replace it with something better

@Sona77.

Жыл бұрын

I gave up too :/ it’s really hard. I stay away from dating apps

alhamdulillah,,respect from indonesia 🇲🇨

Masha'allah Masha'Allah My God protect you Very nice video Thank you Jazaki Allah khier

I was so so so confused should i use this or not i just stays at home and the proposals coming my way and i really dont like them so i started using the app

what are some apps that you think are the best to be on ?

As what you have told, in California so many moslem, alhamdulillah and I agree with your opinions about halal or haram dating in Islam, yeah great you toke a different situation but it so close in islam rules,

We love you sis :)

@ZahraaBerro

2 жыл бұрын

Love you too !! 😍😍

Sounds to me like you know what you are doing.. Do what is best for you and your kids and be mindful of all of the red flags. When you least expect it, it will happen 😉

I’m a revert without mahram and business wise I’m in your shoes as well but dating apps are not the way. There are similar platforms though where you can choose to talk to someone according to their profile and you speak to them through a third-party. It’s not bc we think that we can control ourselves that we are allowed to date without a mahram, whether it is online or irl, cause shaytan will use every way even those we don’t expect. It won’t necessarily be flirting. If this isn’t allowed, it is for a reason. And Allah knows better ✨ May Allah help us. It is very hard for us in this era, but we need to be patient no matter our situations

@lostsouls5885

2 жыл бұрын

I AM SO PROUD 😭😭. I mean who am i to be proud but as a new Muslim the fact that you were able to detect the wrong this sister is spreading is amazing. May Allah bless you and be very very careful as to who you take knowledge from (I had to learn it the hard way - not a way any1 wants to go on as it destroys your imaan)

@lostsouls5885

2 жыл бұрын

kzread.infoENSKZMnHL9M?feature=share I recommend this highly if you have any questions. These sisters will be able to give you the support you need!!

@tbmadeitt

2 жыл бұрын

@@lostsouls5885 Aww may Allah bless you sis. And help you with anything you’ve been and going through. Much love xxx

@lostsouls5885

2 жыл бұрын

@@tbmadeitt Thanks for the kind words

@lostsouls5885

2 жыл бұрын

@@tbmadeitt I can never stop myself from giving tips so here comes my rant(sorry). Start my learning the basics of praying and reading Quranic arabic. If you dk how to feel free to ask. Then move on to studying books like usool al thalatha which translates to "the three fundamental princles". You can then start studying more books and become a powerhouse of knowledge

THANKS SIS 🥰🥰

Mashallah you make beautiful videos mu Allah always make you happy 😊 ❤

@ZahraaBerro

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ☺️

You are 100% right I agree with you on this topic

Ma shall ah sister 👍🏻😊

I understand ur perspective and how hard it is but persnoaly i would prefer to meet someone in persom rather than meeting them on a dating site but i do like the fact u know ur boundaries and i respect that ur trying to keep things as halal as possible but i would just make dua for allah to guide me to find the right person or for them to find me and sure you also need to take part in that but u have to put ur trust in the hands of allah and in sha allah one day you will hopefully find the right person, praying for ya!

Thanks!

Your a Good woman!! God loves you!!

Real talk sister Alhamdulillah

What dating apps would you recommend?

From what I can understand "dating" is more like old fashioned courting. Very strict and stringent. Now this is from a reverts point of view. I would want my family involved as much as possible. And his family too. It would have to be someone local for that reason. If he is local then my cousins and uncles probably know him and can advise what sort of person he is.

As per my opinion it's easy for a girl to operate an dating app . because most of the profile in which boys get there match is fake or it has problem on it.i know some of the boys will agree on it . And in the dating app we get fake people so it's very difficult to trust someone . And for girls it's more difficult because in dating app people come for hukup haram kind of thing . So we need to follow the slow process to understand and person the more slow we go the more we understand genuine person.

@ZahraaBerro

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed , you must be very cautious! That’s why you have to ask for their socials, etc to confirm

Allah loves us and he knows what is good for us and what is bad too he told us to be away from haram and that is definitely the best for us and he tells us things we can do, he doesn't tell us orders we can not follow

I do not date. ANYBODY PLEASE JUST IN CASE THIS HAPPENS WHAT DO I SAY IF SOMEBODY ASKED TO DATE? What do I do?????

@Nicola.M7

2 жыл бұрын

U dnt have to date, just tell them ur looking for marriage and that you want them to meet ur parents

Please suggest a popular Muslim Marriage Website for North Africa, Middle Eastern countries.... I a stuck, looking for marriage since last 6 years... please help...

Sis make me smile 😊

Assalamu alaykum. I am 15, Alhamdulillah, my parents r so religious. In my this age, u know it is realy natural to adapt someone I mean loving. Ofc , I know it is not good to date with boys, but I cannot control myself. I used to talk with him during classrooms, and Telegram, but Thank for God,I never touch his hands, but still i need to control myself, and trying to forget him.

@BobSankarian

Жыл бұрын

No 😂

@BTSARMY-od9el

Жыл бұрын

@@BobSankarian is it funny

@WLWLWLW

Жыл бұрын

​@@BTSARMY-od9elmarry him?? 🤨

What’s your opinion on meeting a Muslim girl, but not being Muslim but developing a connection?

It is ok you don't need to say sorry for the camera. We know how being a single mom is a bit hard, but we all know that you are a strong and fantastic mother mashallah may Allah protect you and your sweet children. Say this duaa: O Allah, love the son of so and so, and so after your love and love for your holy messenger, and give it to me, and possess me in his command, and make it from my division and my share, and our husband in halal on your year and the year of your holy messenger. in Arabic: اللهمّ حبّب فيّ فلان ابن فلان، وفلانة بعد حبّك وحبّ رسولك الكريم، واهديه لي، وملّكني زمام أمره، واجعله من قسمتي ومن نصيبي، وزوّجنا في الحلال على سنّتك وسنّة رسولك الكريم. 🥰😊❤‍🔥. I love you sooo much I am a 14 years old girl

Abdulrahman is my name am from Somaliland and 33 years old where can i send my CV ? 😁

🌼Where is your hometown?

Can I dm you? I am interested in el salvordian muslim girl who was converted 4 months ago and her family is Christian

Ok but doesnet dating mean also going on dates together so isn’t that haram?

Nice, really loved it - love from Canadian Pakistani vloggers 🥰❤️

asalam o alaikum could i really ask that are you a shia muslim?

That role is for the local imams they have to make program that connect the cummunity each other

@arnelabih1845

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah they do this MashaAllah I'm UK in USA they don't do this I called so many imams shayks hehe you name it to find me someone but I am definitely praying to Allah and InshaaAllah Tahajud is one of the most powerful prayer ever will get back on that

@thedragonsunicorn

2 жыл бұрын

true but as a shia muslim, a lot of us feel excluded from islamic spaces because it is dominated by sunni muslims... many of which think we are "kaffir". there is no shia mosques near me at all so this is not an option for me and many others.

@ZahraaBerro

2 жыл бұрын

I think some mosques have this Hamdellah, but we need all to join.

@ZahraaBerro

2 жыл бұрын

@@thedragonsunicorn try shiamatch.com !

@abdirahimmussa2708

5 ай бұрын

@@thedragonsunicornbrother can you stop this Shia or Sunni, you are a Muslim period 😂😂

اختي ادع الله ان يرزقك رجل صالح والله يعطيك ذالك لان الله ارنا اندعوه بكل شيء نريد سواء ما في الدنيا او في الاخرة

Maybe you will find the love of your life after this Video ♥️😜 Just a Joke Sounds weird but I dont know how it is in Amerika But in europe many muslims connect with the mosque and they connect you I think it is not halal But if you only talk about the needed topic to learn about each other it could be okay I love the way of your thinking I love this kind of videos

@ZahraaBerro

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks ! I don’t really believe in this . “Love of my life “ I just believe a good person who is faithful , good to me and my children and has a good financial stability is a good candidate.

You are right and of course staying single can be more haram than using a dating app!

I think everyone's mate come in a right moment. Because if Allah wants someting it will be. I think If somebody's mate is the other side of the world, he or she will find you without any dating apps

There are islamic books that have loads or relavent questions, some light things like food preferences ( which can be a huge prob actually) to how you will deal with finances. Some women have no access to husbands accounts, some are their book keepers. Dont be shy to ask questions, if you are ...then get your dad to do it. He worked hard on his daughter and deserves to be handing her over to someone who will take care of her. But get the book, so you are not asking stupid questions like what his fav meal is. His stance on zabiha, leftovers, going out...will tell you more of who he is and how he will treate you.

Im living in Europe country at the same time working.my life work and home.its kinda a tough as a muslim woman to dating to be honest.thats why sometimes i as my self how i can find my man?😅u have a point

Assalaymualykym honestly if I was in your sustaining single and wanting to be married I honestly would tell my mehram or male relatives to ask around and look for a potential partner. Especially if the brother/father is involved in masjid they can ask the iman. A lot of masjid did Online events during the pandemic. Honestly dating apps are not the place to find people on deen it’s like 1 out of 100, j suggest to make so much dua and have sabr indeed Allah ﷻ can make us meet our soulmates

@saraghauri7453

2 жыл бұрын

@Maryam🥰

I am very proud of you

Im a fan of your content

I can’t find any compatible man on the online dating apps I’m frustrated

I have boyfriend and I don’t want to let him go what do I do if we try to get married my parents will say no

@millionzkitchen

7 күн бұрын

Firstly get out of the haram relationship. And if you don’t want to. Wait till the punishment to arrive. 👍

Assalem Alekum...i have a big part of the answer! i have to work on it a little bit more...InshAllah...but im close very close...i let u know...wait before to make a mistake...:-)

The most beautiful thing is that there is a translation ... It is beautiful that no one talks about such a thing. I prefer some men who distort the book, the Holy Qur'an ... I love your videos, but we want to translate it into Arabic ... 💔🗿 ‏﴿وَلَا تَهِنُوا وَلَا تَحْزَنُوا﴾

Is it true that in Muslim countries a woman that gets raped needs a certain amount of witnesses to witness the actual rape for the man to be prosecuted? I also want to know if it’s true that muslims aren’t allowed to listen to music? I also want to know if make up is haram? I have a really open minded view to Islam but the things I see that you’re allowed and not allowed to do as a Muslim are kinda gross to be honest. Please answer my questions to make me less of an ignorant.

@user-wu4dc8wk7u

2 жыл бұрын

There is no such thing in Islamic countries. There is a test that takes it against women. There is also a medicine that reveals which rape is better... 🗿 I mean, it is the rape of the woman who witnesses what he does other than defending us or being with I mean the woman. If she says men raped me, I mean, she is lying.

سلام . انتي من اي بلد

Ohh mann!! So it seems virtuous and modest women still exist 😌

I am a Christian man who has friended a Pakistani woman. We have chatted for over a year. I have always tried to be as respectful as possible. I have slipped on questions or a comment here or there but she always let me know that is haram and I always apologize. I hope our friendship last a long time.

@thedrasc1465

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for being respectful. Not only is it haram, but marriage between a Muslim woman and Christian man wouldn't be valid, and it would be seen as living in sin. If you dont plan on converting, I would recommend you leave her be. But if you do plan on converting, all I would say is make sure you're doing it for yourself, not for her. I've heard of men converting for their Muslim wives and regretting it because they never connected with the religion and thought it was too restrictive. (It's not, imo, but I like to look into why things are prohibited)

@wavicsad1846

4 ай бұрын

​@@thedrasc1465how about a Christian woman and a Muslim man,must she convert too?

I've never been on dating apps (never had to, women have been very easy). BUT I will be on them this summer Muzmatch, Minder as I want to try auditioning Muslimah's for marriage during the Summer, at this point; to see; my only concern is 1) Quality 2) Disease - so we'll see how it goes. I don't know if it's Halal or Haram but I'll feel my way through it...and see how it goes- I have no yardstick to judge, so we'll just see. You're very brave to do this video - it's a sticky subject...but we do have to get married somehow :)

@Hi-ii4qo

2 жыл бұрын

“Never had to, women have been easy” why do u sound like you slept/dated with the whole town?😂😂how u gonna find a wife now? You seem promiscuous.

@Sona77.

Жыл бұрын

Lol if women are so easy, why are you using a dating app? 😂

This might not be practiced often but i talk to only one muslima at a time so i can better navigate how i feel women to women and so that i dont potentially make these women competition for each other. I like being transparent with her and her wali that if im talking to a sister ill say Assulamu alaykum i appreciate connecting respectfull so inshaallah something may turn out great. Right now im talking to a women and would like to hold my integrity to getting to know her and if we dont work out then ill get back to the both of you and inshaallah plan a day to meet and talk. I see alot of times often many will date so many they become indecisive on who their partner will be that it forms pressure and makes competition. A moderation is a great doing as well in engaging and getting to know someone thoroughly.

I think you should just stick to your mission in life and if that one person happens to enter your life where both your paths merge together then that person is the one for you

I am Egyptian. You look very beautiful with hijab.

Ya

Like you said at the start of the video it’s haram unless your parents are there, end of story, the video should have ended straight away after that

What do you consider flirting?

Meetimg someone from these apps is almost always a big disappointment so it's waste of time. Yo need to click with that person in person. You might be best friends over the phone but then in reality it's different and you must at least recognise that and not continue if your expectations aren't fullfiled. He might look different on photos or he might sound different, act different, talk less or more and you need to see the body language if it matches his words which often doesn't. Read about toxic relationships before getting married. Read a lot. That's my best advice so you don't end up with narcissist, psychoopat etc.

@Sona77.

Жыл бұрын

I stopped dating apps , but it’s so hard to find someone as a working professional

Muslim women can get divorced? I’m seriously didn’t know this. I’m not a Muslim but I’m intrigued by the modesty in women

@b8sh

9 ай бұрын

There is a process in the holy quran laid out for divorce.

its possible to meet anyone anywhere imagine leaving home and thinking "today imma meet a man". please.

You're genius

She is great, I hope is finds Mr. Right.

Dating is haram. Point blank. You know that sister.

Which is better for Muslim man to get married in London, Please ? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

Am from Morocco 🇲🇦 but Am to Berro😱😱😱😱😱 How that??????

may be u could know someone who i arab and meet him by coincidence or ask ur arabic friends about good guys who are willing to marry , i dont know that thing about vdatin apps, i feel there are a lot of palyboys just to waste time and honest one will never come from these, your fate will come i know may be u need that right person but may be someone will u meet in another social media apps ,may be he will start first and u talk with boundaries and that s how thing happens u allow what others wanna talk with u

14:07 lol that rhymed

I really understand your situation. You're a good muslim and I believe that you will never take any wrong decision.

Hi

I think it’s sad that female/male interactions are so sexualized and made taboo. Ive had so many great friendships with different genders and think it helps you see the humanity of ppl and go beyond stereotypes. I think this strict gender separation creates soo many problems I society.

@lostsouls5885

2 жыл бұрын

it's not a matter of 'taboo'. There is two sides - liberalism + feminism and Islam. What you have said corresponds with liberalism and feminism. It juxtaposes the values of Islam. Please brother/sister you can't mix the two. Islam doesn't allow men and women to be just 'friends', which I believe we all know but we give in to our desires (including me) and follow what the white say. For centuries we told the west to not follow Christianity and they now stopped. Now they made up their own ideologies which we again tell them are wrong. However, we can't be telling them they are wrong while our people are such big fans of them.

@lostsouls5885

2 жыл бұрын

I think the gender separation actually creates less problems. Now that genders are free to mix, the cases of STI's (as the prophet ﷺ said they will be) are out of the roof. More people are being raped and women are overly sexualised. We as humans love to decide whats right and wrong, but the reality is we can't. Only God can set moral standards for society - as he knows it best.

@qfason5836

2 жыл бұрын

@@lostsouls5885 Hmm I think many ppl can be friends without having “desires” it’s actually pretty normal. It’s not really feminism or whatever it’s just normal life. Ultra conservative societies have so many social problems.

@lostsouls5885

2 жыл бұрын

@@qfason5836 I just wanted to tell you the islamic view, (assuming you're Muslim?) up to you what you follow

Well first of all make your intention to God.... 😊

@ZahraaBerro

2 жыл бұрын

Always 😍

@whimpy474

2 жыл бұрын

@@ZahraaBerro you better be ready if God sends you a superman. I know you are 😇

هل تستطيع تتحمل كل شيء ياتي من هذه الاماكن كذالك اذا جعلت شروطك جيد ومحل الاتقاء يكون في المسجد

If you really want to marry a muslim man and you are looking by yourself then I would say pray two rakat salat and genuinely ask Allah to make it easy for you then go to your neatest mosque and ask the imam that you are looking to marry and describe your requirements then keep praying InshaAllah you will find few contacts 😄

Hai how are you Indonesia Romi 🇮🇩