When my husband and I were engaged, there was a short period where we were fighting a lot. One night we went to a friends bbq and my husband was asked to lead us in prayer before eating. When we were leaving, a girl friend of ours followed us out and told my husband how wonderful his prayer was and how it touched her. It was innocent, but the Lord used that to convict me!! I remember thinking “all he is hearing from me is criticism. Do I really want other women filling his cup with praise?” Ever since that day, 6 years ago, I have made it a point to compliment and praise my husband every single day.

@ohyeah2269

Жыл бұрын

Wow thank you. These stories are rare gems of wisdom to help us preparing 😊

@sicilianstraycatsandfriends

Жыл бұрын

Does he do the same to you? Relationshiptips are give and take. 50/50.

@truthnotlies

Жыл бұрын

Wow, beautiful point. I needed to hear something like this again. Bless you, sister.

@henriquesilva5538

Жыл бұрын

@@sicilianstraycatsandfriends What men give is not the same as what women give. What men take is not the same as what women take. Yes, relationships must be BALANCED. But there is no such thing as 50/50 equality between men and women. But young people believe that a man not praising the woman who praised him first is a "t0xic and @busive relationship"...

@VanessasVarietyVenue

Жыл бұрын

Well thanks be to God I am glad you were able to see yourself rather than continue, many times we are so blind on narrow that we never see what we do wrong and are constantly pointing finger i hope you share this with more women. Bless you my sister.

My husband used to always say when I would complain about my weight after I had our son “Don’t make me see something that I don’t want to see” he didn’t see me that way and didn’t want to but by complaining about it I would bring it to his attention. Work in silence ladies 😊

@ohyeah2269

Жыл бұрын

Love this!

@andreawithgod

Жыл бұрын

That’s actually so sweet of your husband to say..

@TheDaisyJ

Жыл бұрын

Amen!!! I know exactly what you are talking about. I’m learning more and more when my husband responds to me. I get the dumb look, like why did I say that to him. Why did I point that out to him.

@TFARN

Жыл бұрын

Oh wow. Beautifully stated...

@Strawberry_gal

Жыл бұрын

My husband said the same thing to me.

We have 7 children, natural birth. I complained so much to my husband. He always says, “Baby what I see is a woman who is beautiful, carried my children with so much strength and beauty. Stop beating yourself up!”

27:30 This part is so true. I’ve been dressing more feminine lately, and yesterday while I was at target I was the only woman I saw wearing a long floral skirt. I actually caught SEVERAL men turning their heads back to look at me. Which I’m not concerned about their attention, because I am married and my husband was also with me. But I kid you not, for YEARS I have not been dressing feminine, sadly I can take it back to AFTER I became married. I became lazy and my daily attire consisted of huge baggy shirts and biker shorts. Of course I didn’t get anyone turning their heads to look at me.. not even my husband! But now that I dress feminine I am hearing multiple times a day from my husband how beautiful I am!! I didn’t even tell him what I was doing and how I was going to change my wardrobe. So seeing this natural reaction and shift in his perception towards me is so wonderful! I’m ready to throw all my baggy shirts and biker shorts in the trash lol 😂

@JosieBarberr

9 ай бұрын

Facts

@walkinunity5461

6 ай бұрын

@@JosieBarberryour comment means a lot to me. I just had our 4th baby and that has been my attire, t shirts and sweatpants in the house. I lost a ton of weight and it’s made me insecure. My first pregnancy took so much out of me, it caused dental problems. It’s so embarrassing. My husband asks me to dress nice for him; buying lingerie or just something nice to bed, like silk nightgowns. I’ve been so insecure that when I put something nice on for him, I cover it with a robe 🥺. I’m 32 and we have been married for almost 9 years this coming March. I have no godly women in my life. So coming here and seeing comments and watching Bindi means a lot to me. I thank YAH for so many of you. I’ve been eyeing a few nice feminine dresses that I think I’m going to finally purchase. Thank you for the encouragement. Praise Elohim! ♥️

You don’t have to be a super model, just be YOUR PERSONAL BEST. Learn what YOUR OWN HUSBAND appreciates, and do what is possible to you. One thing I want to add: Some husbands will have unrealistic expectations. If they have indulged in pornography, they have set themselves up to NOT be satisfied, no matter if you are beautiful! Do YOUR BEST, and if your husband is in sin, let God chasten him.

@kayla5285

Жыл бұрын

you sound wise.

@andreawithgod

Жыл бұрын

This comment is amazing! Thank you!

@notibutchristGal222

Жыл бұрын

I would divorce if my husband was indulging in porn. It's adultery and I can't mentally go through that again.

@alyssayu1979

Жыл бұрын

🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

@Curly_Jay

9 ай бұрын

Beautifully stated! 🙌🏼

I’m 74 years old and I’m learning so much from you and feeling convicted about my need to be my husband’s wife! For all the young women out there who think sexual pleasure ends when you’re old….it ain’t necessarily true! My husband and I enjoy each other now more than we ever have. In my early years I had so much shame because of my former sinful life. I’ve repented of that and now I am free to be truly intimate with my husband. Thank you ladies!

So much insight shared in this video! When wearing a dress to go grocery shopping, I feel like I'm engaged in a gentle, low key protest against the masculization of women.

@kirs10dubya57

Жыл бұрын

Me too!!!!

@dumfriesspearhead7398

Жыл бұрын

Good point.

@melissaseverance6494

Жыл бұрын

Same

@truthnotlies

Жыл бұрын

So true, same.

@sharon6981

Жыл бұрын

Same! I love dressing in a feminine way 🥰

Honestly. I need to just throw away my whole wardrobe and start off fresh. Since I started watching Bindi I literally bought 3 dresses and I love how I look and feel in them! And so does my husband. But now I wore them out too much lol. I need to buy more dresses, lingerie, and figure out how to make this natural hair cooperate and make these edges grow back lol

@ondreatorrence4322

Жыл бұрын

Thifts stores !! That's where I get all my cute dresses and skirts . All modest and affordable

@rasheedaogburn123

Жыл бұрын

Hey girl! I only wear dresses and skirts and right now Shein is a huge help. I also just snagged some cute skirts from H&M. I would say start with staple pieces and build from there if you want to incorporate more dresses and skirts into your wardrobe. It’ll come!

@leahfinch7126

Жыл бұрын

I have super curly hair and I got my baby hairs to grow back with rosemary mixed with jojoba oil and wearing my hair down more❤️❤️

@canelareina3795

Жыл бұрын

Update. Did you do it

@ChasingChrist

10 ай бұрын

You must be me lol because I’m thinking the same thing

This is so important. I grew up conservative black baptist. I was taught at an early age that female sexual desire was something to be ashamed of. My mother was not as severe as my grandma but she still managed to make me feel ashamed of myself for any sort of feminine beauty I might have portrayed. I was a strong willed child and kinda refused to be completely unfashionable. I did cover up but I didn't think pretty prints or pink or red colors were evil. Nothing in the Bible told me any one color was evil. When I did finally married I felt ashamed when my husband called me beautiful or when he liked an outfit I was wearing. From the years of nonsense I grew up in I felt like attracting my husband was wrong even though the Bible doesn't say that.

@emptysoul5057

Жыл бұрын

@AnEssene I was told not to read songs of Solomon until after I was married and talk of anything about anything near that topic was not accepted. I just snuck and learned things anyway though. I wasn't sexual active before my husband but I didn't wanna go into marriage knowing nothing at all. Imagine not knowing how babies are made and being married....yeah nope I wasn't about to let that happen lol.

Take care of yourself: Brush your teeth regularly Brush your hair Drink mostly water or fluids without sugar Listen to your body Eat Russell Stover sugar free chocolate for treats if you can afford it. Learn to love your own company. Do some things for yourself sometimes, even if you feel guilty. Do some things for others sometimes when you don't feel like it. Think about the possibility of DELETING social media and make a plan of how to do it. Discover triggers from childhood trauma and rewire your brain to respond/ communicate differently. Establish clear personal boundaries with others. If an answer doesn't satisfy your inquiry, don't let it go till you get the answer you're looking for. Take mini breaks from intense focus to rest your brain.

@nay2670

Жыл бұрын

Love this 💞

@kg2096

Жыл бұрын

4th one from the bottom is key and makes a huge difference. Learning to live in a different world, one that is far less threatening than I learned growing up ❤

I will never speak dispairaging words over myself in front of my husband again. Thank you for bringing an awareness to this issue. I do this ALL the time!! God BLESS my husband who has NEVER said a bad thing about my body or my looks, even though I frequently tear myself apart in front of him.

I think a private online seminar of some sort would be great for some ladies that truly want to understand their femininity. It may also give you the freedom to share more things with us. Your content is amazing x

@incognito3599

Жыл бұрын

This!!👆🏾

@felicianoble7225

Жыл бұрын

Yes!

@Trydenisescott

Жыл бұрын

PLEASE 🙏🏾

@S_1490

Жыл бұрын

Yesss!!!!!

@Dr.Cherokie

Жыл бұрын

Like I’d pay money for this Joyce. Both of ya’ll are a great tag team!

That intro 🔥 Even when we fight, my husband can’t help but smile and compliment my beauty. It used to make me confused but now I get it!

When you guys were addressing self-confidence I do want to point out how a lot of things that we think about ourselves are purely in our head. When our culture says to fix a problem we think of surgery and body modification to look like somebody else. Rather than have an honest conversation with ourselves about comparison and self-worth. I think it's worth it to really go to God in prayer about how we feel about ourselves and our identity. Our identity should be wrapped up in Christ not in man's standard for us.

@ohyeah2269

Жыл бұрын

Golden point!

For the ladies struggling to be sexy, what has helped me is taking sexy dance classes, female only. Dancing in high heels for example. It has helped me be more confident in being sensual around my husband and it’s also a good way to stay in shape. New to this channel. ❤

@jcqwater8713

Жыл бұрын

great advice!

@jcqwater8713

Жыл бұрын

great advice!

@nnadichukwunonso9550

11 ай бұрын

Ungodly advice

@Jazzrib

11 ай бұрын

@@nnadichukwunonso9550 it’s so ungodly it made my marriage better.

@CinemaDoll137

8 ай бұрын

Great advice because you could do this for your husband too

I love how you gave a disclaimer when it came to sex in marriage. As long as it's consensual, and there are no third parties ( emphasis on digital) it's all good. 👏🏾. This is key, I have counseled many women who felt pressured to do things that they did not want to.

This is awesome... bars :) I like these Christian women breaking boundaries and speaking truth! beyond the ordinary.

I am 18 years married. They are 💯 correct on every point. Listen to Bindi… become a professional. When your daughters or little sisters become engaged for marriage, teach them what you know.

@canelareina3795

Жыл бұрын

Can you recommend any KZread channels or books?

I like the points about sexual expression in the bedroom. I’ve listened to some ministries that seem to deem certain acts that aren’t considered “procreative” as wrong. Churches are either completely silent on sex or have too much control over what goes on. It has definitely been a challenge to come out of that. It’s important to do what your spouse likes and vice versa but also have healthy boundaries if something is too far.

@Tania-rg7jp

Жыл бұрын

Nazarenes and Hebrews only had sex to procreate because they practiced spiritual alchemy. If you were in the priesthood you got other practices akin to tantra but commoners were told only to have sex to procreate. Regular sex drains spiritual power. They were not worried about losing their husbands because divorce was mostly forbidden and many husbands had bondage concubines/slaves who they used. Those are the parts Christians leave out. Christians like to cherry pick what to follow and not follow but do what thou will.

@dumfriesspearhead7398

Жыл бұрын

@@Tania-rg7jp It's funny how John Gray (author of Men are from Mars, Women from Venus) wrote in a recent book a very similar thing, but from a scientific standpoint

@vikumugisha1635

Жыл бұрын

@@dumfriesspearhead7398 which is the title of the book? And what was his view ? Thank you

Hi Joyce, I thoroughly enjoyed this video and appreciated you having Gwen on. A lot of us ladies haven't heard these perspectives and honestly it's not spoken about openly in the Christian community. Thanks so much! Would you considered doing a series on parenting, discipline, teaching children about God, building confidence in our children, important lessons, etc.? 🌹🌹🌹

I’m a silent follower here, working in that lol. I just had to comment and say you ladies are my people! This topic is so refreshing and something I desire to share more of with women as well. It’s been on my heart for years and this is confirmation to share what’s on my heart. Well done ladies!

These are the honest conversations that we NEED!! This was awesome, well done ladies.

I’m loving this video format and the special guests! Amazing content. ❤ You ladies are sharing so much wisdom. More please!!

Just started watching and know this conversation is going to be fire because it features my two favorite homemakers!

I could listen to your wisdom ALL day!!!! You are on another level & I love it so much. Thank you for blessing us with your insight and not shying away from the truth 🙌

A-MA-ZING! Loved every minute of this conversation. To know that God wants us to take care of these areas and that it's actually good stewardship 🙌🙌

Great video. I’m so glad y’all addressed sexuality in marriage. I just got married and come from a background of living in sin then being celibate for 3yrs. I had to readjust my mind that this is now the time for me to indulge and truly get to know my spouse more intimately

@ohyeah2269

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations. Song of songs is a place you can also now finally explore through your new blessed holy marriage perspective. I'm so happy for you.

@deirdremorris9234

Жыл бұрын

Congrats! CELEBRATE!!!

My two favorite homemaker KZreadrs in one video. From watching Gwen talk about Bindi in one of her videos out of admiration to watching Gwen be on Bindi's channel, is such a beautiful thing! 🥺

It’s these collabs with my favourite people 🥺🤭♥️♥️ looking forward to it 💃🏾

You guys are so encouraging and motivating! Y’all have given me a broader perspective on the Christian walk as a wife and expecting mother. I definitely agree that we shouldn’t compartmentalize beauty or virtue and look at the whole person. ❤

This talk was a much-needed wife talk. I have learned alot and will carry with me several tips given. Thanks ladies

You have helped me so much! Please write a book for women, I love how candid and honest you are ♡♡

You ladies were dropping gems. I enjoyed it and it will help me be a better wife. I have started a journey on being more feminine, dropping weight, and eating healthy. My husband in subtle way has let me know I have gained weight, the old me would have gone off but now that I have been walking closer to God he has been letting me know that I have been eating badly and my husband is right. I realized that my husband missed the woman that was when we first got married. I ate healthy, always had myself put together and exercised. We are two kids in now and things change but I know I can get back to taking better care of myself. I have an unhealthy relationship with food and I have asked God to help me make better food choices and he is.

This was convicting, encouraging and such a blessing! Thank you ladies

Thank you, ladies! What an interesting conversation with so much wisdom and great advice. God bless you ❤️

@Bindi_Marc honey you NAILED it in your analogy! I love analogies too!!! You made me reflect on myself based off of that. That was a blessing to hear!

Loved this ! Gwen you gained a new subscriber. I'm not married but I desire to be. And this was full of soooo much needed information. Wow such a blessing ladies

My husband and I will celebrate our 1 year anniversary in 3 days. This video was very helpful in combating some inner turmoil I've felt since becoming married. I really wish more christians were "open" about this topic. I would definitely participate in a seminar where christian married women could go more in depth on this subject! I really loved the conversation! 😊

This was so good to listen to. Thank you for sharing this online! ❤

Thank you ladies for having this conversation and sharing your tips and wisdom with us! This helped me with some of the things I’ve been wrestling within my walk!

This was a very good conversation and much needed. Thank you both!

Wow wow wow!! When you said invest in a public, private and bedroom wardrobe it made me think about entering into the tabernacle in the Old Testament. The courtyard, the holy place then the inner room or the holy of holies…. Chills!!!!! You ladies have blessed me with this open conversation. Iron sharpening iron!!!

Learned so much and enjoyed our chat, thank you so much for having me on:)

@nenyeo6090

Жыл бұрын

Ahhh 😌 I’ll already love the collab. I love both your channels.

@Offthebeatenpath.

Жыл бұрын

@@nenyeo6090 Thank you!

@DesiraeOfori

Жыл бұрын

So excited to see this pop up!! I enjoy you both!! Now to go watch 🤣

@naty1012

Жыл бұрын

I subscribed to your channel

@Offthebeatenpath.

Жыл бұрын

@@naty1012 thank you 🤗💕

There are so many of us who are rich in character and we don't take care of ourselves because we have been condition to focus more on one and not the other. That if we just be a good Godly woman our husband will find us and accept us in whatever condition we are in regardless.

Y’all are cracking me up! 😅😂Very good truths, honesty and humor! I love it!

Bindi was spitting straight facts in the intro! I know for a fact that my husband sees me very differently than I see myself and this is just because of the grace of God within marriages!

I normally don't comment but you ladies did an awesome job. I loooove the transparency. Had me laughing, convicted and inspired to grow all at the same time. Gwen you have such a beautiful, graceful, honest, humble spirit. Bindi I’ve been a sub for a while….you and I are the exact same! That’s all I’m going to say love you girl. 😂😂😂

Been waiting all day to cozy up on the couch with my coffee and watch this!!🥳🥳 thank you!

This was a very good episode. I love that you touched on sexuality. Especially how you emphasized that it should be consenting and as long as no one is getting injured or it's something the other person is uncomfortable with, have the freedom to engage with each other. Married couples should have all the fun. We have God's permission to do so. The church tiptoes if that around sex as if it's a dirty secret. God made it for us. So glad to hear a healthy convo about it. I am a late 40s woman and we are empty nesters. It is time for us to really enjoy ourselves. I even told my kids please do not come over unannounced. We do not want to shatter your dreams 🤣. Keeping up our appearance is so important too. I am guilty of not dressing up to go the store. I'm decent, but I don't put forth the effort for makeup or dresses. I will try but I can't make any guarantees. I really enjoyed this show.

@ondreatorrence4322

Жыл бұрын

Haha 😅 🤣 my mom said the same thing ! She said you better call first pr I'm not responsible for what you might see... girl let me tell you I call EVERYTIME 😅😅

Wow ! Such a blessing .💕 I really enjoyed this video.😊

Thank you very much for taking time and making KZread videos like this, our culture needs it, we as woman need true.. And the encouragement to take care of ourselves and our Man.

Wow, just can’t thank you enough. Growing up Catholic, there are so many mixed messages and non of them really positive. This episode was really helpful and much needed!!!!

As a woman that’s been married for 11 years this was helpful. Though my husband and are very clear on our love language we can always learn something new as a Christian couple. Definitely subbing to Gwen as well. Thanks Ladies! ❤

Wow tons of advice for all of us. Thank you so much ladies. Looking forward to next episode.

Can't wait to watch this!!!

This was another great discussion alot of gems in this video!

I enjoyed this! Thank you both so much!!

Hey!! I'm so excited about this video 🥰

Love this! Thank you ladies! God bless you both. I’m down for the private seminar! 🙋‍♀️

This was such a blessing! I have been struggling with the intersection of "looking my best" and relationship with Christ. Much wisdom and insight! Appreciate you ladies!

What an amazing conversation ❤❤ in preparation for my marriage and this is something that had been put on my heart for a while. I loved the areas spoken about and the honesty 👏🏾 ❤...

This was soooooo good ladies , thank you ! Please do another ❤️

Oh I love this soooo much . I always say our body is the temple!!I have gotten bigger recently and people say oh you look great for a mom of 5 .... But they don't know I am heavier now than when I was pregnant with baby 5!!! I have been dealing with a skin issue and I had to take steroids etc BUT I am not gonna stay here because " they " give me a pass as a mom of 5 or because I am so tall. I'm gonna get back to working out so I can get back to a good size for me which is a medium. About 20 pounds lighter 💞 I definitely agree it's important to keep yourself up! Even in a large I dress up everyday and really take care of myself. I get compliments often because I wear long modest dresses and light makeup and jewelry everyday. People are always willing to hold doors, offer help, offer extras etc and I think that is absolutely amazing!!!

@briannawright6460

Жыл бұрын

Checkout glowbody PT, a Christian KZreadr who is awesome for mamas!

Guuuuurl, okay I gotta come back to this , preach sis 👏🏾

This is amazing and so unbelievably profound for me. Thank you ladies SO much!

The best video I've watched this year,good job ladies ❤️

I loved this convo! ❤ We need the sexuality and sex appeal talk more for married women. It's so important. I'm currently working on weight loss after baby 2 and the confidence that comes with seeing your body getting lean makes such a difference in the bedroom. There's nothing wrong with bettering yourself externally and internally for your husband. That's loving your man. I used to hate lingerie because I wasn't confident. It's something in learning to love now. I loved the analogy of wrapping up a gift for him. I'm also in the process of having a private and a bedroom wardrobe. This just solidified my decision on that. God bless you ladies and your marriages! ❤

@kennethfok

Жыл бұрын

A women’s body is a precious gift for her husband. There’s nothing wrong with putting on sexy lingerie and either unwrapping it yourself in front of him or allowing him the honour to unwrap it. It is God’s intended design for spouses to enjoy sexual intimacy together.

@nechiedavis1779

11 ай бұрын

Sad, sad, sad. Confidence is the most beautiful thing a woman can wear

Can't wait to hear this chat!

Thank you for this transparent and clean video to help us out ! :) a couple of inquiring questions : how do/should we develop the 'know how' in the bedroom? Should we read certain books to be a 'professional', or are you saying it comes with time ?lol what resources would you recommend to aid us in becoming a professional ?

I love you girl! You are doing some great work with these videos!

Coming from a single women here I think also dressing up and looking good can be so beneficial for our mental wellbeing as well! Looking good makes us feel good and motivates us for the day ahead! Thank you Bindi and Gwen for this discussion! I’ll remember it for when I get married one day! Please do a video with Melissa Dougherty her on KZread! Would love to see you two together!

@zachianggandu774

Жыл бұрын

Some women think wearing heavy makeup demonic nails and wig makes them look beautiful. Just enhance your natural look, exercise, be respectful and be celibate till your wedding night. It will eliminate the f boys. Live a righteous life, don’t dress naked like the modern women. Anything they do just do the opposite. Avoid surgery for any bbl, just be natural as possible. Wear your own hair stop trying to copy the white Woman by wearing wigs, u will look second to the white Woman. Don’t smoke or drink for any reason, enjoy your soft drink men love it.

@TheBlaxkWolf

11 ай бұрын

@@zachianggandu774no where in the Bible does it say wearing acrylics or wigs is demonic.

Great conversation, ladies! Thank you 🙏

Brilliant conversation, ladies. I enjoyed it a lot. Lots of things I'll take away from this. I do struggle with wearing less modest clothes at home though, as either i need to throw rubbish outside or the postman is knocking every day- sigh ☺️

@naty1012

Жыл бұрын

Keep a robe handy. I understand because my in-laws live downstairs the apartment and they come upstairs unannounced sometimes but I won't allow it to stop me, we have to find ways to work around that.

This is so important to talk about I struggle with confidence. I started taking care of my hair more and hygenie. My husband really dosent care what I wear I would like to wear more feminine clothing.

This was a really good conversation ❤

Love this ❤ Thank you my beautiful sisters!!!

Hi Bindi. I really enjoyed watching that talk. My suggestion for another channel to do an interview with is Mrs. Widwest

My thyroid was off and I gained weight for a while and I will never forget my husbands reaction once I lost the weight. 💕

I really appreciate this conversation..especially being a young wife. 🙏🏾 blessings Gwen and Bindi❤❤❤

Good Christian counseling from your church is terrific too!

I hope I remember to come back to this video once I'm married. (If it's God's will). Great information

A truly amazing catechesis on marriage and relationship between men and women is 'the Theology of the Body' John Paul ll. Fantastic interpretation by Christopher West

I NEEDED to hear ALL of this 🙌🏾

Thank you for sharing that. Since I started taking seriously my relationship with our God I have let go of myself. I used to dress with very tight clothes and straighten my hair all the time but lately I donated all of my tight clothes and tried leaving my hair naturally how He created it but I stopped caring as much on my day to day to groom myself and I was kind of feeling guilty of trying to hard to make myself pretty but this makes soo much sense

@katejohnson5083

Жыл бұрын

Balance is key! God bless you sister ❤

Love every thing this woman says God has truly made her for this time in history

❤️❤️❤️ Two inspirational women.

I remember I read a comment on a blog I follow. (Which will remain unnamed to protect the privacy of the person mentioned) but this lady said her and her husband had both grown up in a church that told it's congregants that a woman was not allowed to feel pleasure in the marriage bed as that was sinful. Only the husband was allowed. And the concept of mutual pleasure was shocking to her. But at the same time, she was in a lot of pain because she never got any pleasure out of it. It was also a topic her husband refused to discuss. It literally hurt my heart hearing that. I love wearing lingerie. I love God's design for marriage. Sex appeal within the confines of marriage is vital. I need to work on it more and I need to lose weight and make an effort in my appearance.. I loved this video.❤️

I really enjoyed this perspective. It's so encouraging and refreshing to hear women speak this way. One thing I would like to add is that I've had a couple of women express that their issue with connecting freely with their husbands sexually stems from the sexual abuse they have experienced. Any advice on how to handle a situation like that?

@lodoia9532

Жыл бұрын

I would suggest they pray for deliverance from the trauma. It's very unfortunate what these woman went through but God can take their pain away.

@stephanieadim5010

Жыл бұрын

@@lodoia9532 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

Wow I follow you Both, This is Great! This is what Godly Women look like. PERFECTION.

"Professional in training" I totally agree !

I can’t wait!

I’m so excited

Amazing video, as always.

I appreciate all this so much. So much needed right now. One note i would make about your "at home" wardrobe" what about if you have older sons? I think we still need to present ourselves modestly around the house to our sons.

@kennethfok

8 ай бұрын

Not just sons, even in the presence of daughters, modest dressing is also important. The not so modest dressing should be reserved solely for your husband and it should never be worn outside of the bedroom. That would also be a good way to teach your daughter about dressing modestly. And how would you classify modest dressing at home? Should mothers and daughters be allowed to walk around the house without wearing a bra?

This is so helpful.Thank you for sharing.

Thank you thank you thank you for this. Women need this!!!!!

It’s hard for me to put effort into how I look. It’s always been something I never tried to do because I don’t feel comfortable in my own skin if I’m not in a hoodie and jeans or leggings. My husband fell in love with me when he met me in my leggings and hoodies and T-shirt’s lol so I’ve continued to just dress that way our entire relationship..I was younger than and I do now wish I put more effort in looking better, doing my hair or putting on nice clothes etc, but I feel uncomfortable when im like that idk why. I hope that changes for me. I really value your teachings and suggestions this was an awesome session.

@Paul-pz1er

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I'm a woman. I understand. I pray it changes for you too. Be encouraged. You are lovely. God sees and knows you

@lindsaypeek63

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I still have this to some degree but have been changed tremendously. For me it came from resentment or rejection of being a woman and being feminine. God is still healing me from the feminism programming

You are 100000% on point about the church overcorrecting! I was brought up and taught sex=bad So now that I have all these questions, I feel like a pariah if I ever dare to ask. And it's completely destroyed my confidence and ability to gauge what I'm supposed to be doing here... It's high time we switched the narrative! You should SOOOOO do a seminar or a conference!

I know you said to put in the comments if there's anyone else that we. want you to interview, but I think this is a great channel with a great book. great book as well LTS Radio Liberated Through Submission Radio was created for every man, woman, single, or married here we explore a deeper understanding of biblical submission.

This is so good. ❤