Fun pyscology fact: if you know someone that argues over everything you say, don't be thier friend

@Sawyerrrrrrrrr

Жыл бұрын

Thats what I’m saying 💀

@roberta.vieira

Жыл бұрын

Aaaaaand if they're family?

@karateka_95

Жыл бұрын

As a people pleaser, I find it so hard to argue against others even if I thoroughly disagree. It makes me feel helpless because I feel I just let them walk all over me. I really need to somehow show some assertiveness without being over-argumentative.

@Pyotaro

Жыл бұрын

I like to ARGUE A LOT and dd d d I'm a good friend not fights, ARGUES

@JiafeiProducts6969

Жыл бұрын

Their*

I know it’s just an example, but if someone tells me “the sky isn’t blue” my response is “well okay then”

@AdviceWithErin

Жыл бұрын

Same 😂

@simplethings4683

Жыл бұрын

yeah same xD then thr convo ends. So, we can stand up and create distance from that person.

@ElizabethUkeh

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!!! I don't have the strength fr

@idek7438

Жыл бұрын

I'd be like wow someone really wants people to know that they were into science as a 12 year old and still remember all the little factoids

@anuragpratapsingh5027

Жыл бұрын

I say- good for the sky 😂

Best response is that you just say nothing afterwards and stare into their soul until they run away, works everytime!

@Sokdramatic1062

11 ай бұрын

Dude are u a scorpio?!😂

@araeshkigal

11 ай бұрын

Scorpio?

@araeshkigal

11 ай бұрын

@@Sokdramatic1062 Could be Aries too..They have precious little chill for other people's BS.

@Sokdramatic1062

11 ай бұрын

@@araeshkigal Sure it can be!!👍

@wherethewildflowersare

10 ай бұрын

This has nothing to do with a man made new age witch craft idea. Stop with the astrology and horoscope BS.

Person 2 was still the aggressor, clear attitude in their voice when they respond in both scenarios.

I hate having to defuse an argument that I didn’t start 😅

@CheyenneMarket

Жыл бұрын

Don’t. Call a jerk a jerk and walk away.

@Sky_347

11 ай бұрын

I just try and get away unless i try and state something that is 100% true like earlier when i just said about 2 laws and then someone brought me into the argument and like 30 seconds later i was having a meltdown so thats why i hate arguments 💀

@nosajsamaniego4512

8 ай бұрын

Bruv, this is literally like girl math, but, for how they argue; 😂😂😂 The sky is not blue; That's the fact;

@suemitchel-runow3566

6 ай бұрын

If can do that, u are amazing

@justarandomperson2786

6 ай бұрын

@@nosajsamaniego4512 This video is using an obviously very simple and basic concept as an example. Nobody is actually arguing over the color of the sky - the creator used that topic to be a placeholder for things people actually argue about. You trying to defend one of the characters in the videos fake argument is pointless.

Don't let people walk all over you. You don't have to be the peacekeeper when someone is so argumentative to you.

@kyomado

Жыл бұрын

If you can't avoid that person like the plague, knowing how to not escalate the situation will definitely help you not get instant verbal abuse. It's obviously not the ideal response, but it can help you survive in certain situations.

@ioannaa0

Жыл бұрын

Well i agree kinda . But what if you are working and that person is a client, your coworker or even your boss. Knowing how to avoid conflict is useful. Not easy though

@janetuss6496

Жыл бұрын

I'd just say "ok" cause it's not worth my energy to navigate a normal conversation with someone so argumentative. I don't mind letting them "win" this kind of thing cause I just don't care about it lol.

@dianarojo-jewell4070

Жыл бұрын

It is at least a good skill to develop, even if not applied all the time. Even interacting with children or family or someone who is usually lovely but having a bad day can get argumentative surprisingly. And I think this video shows how talking positively without dismissing the other person but redirecting the conversation can help share some positivity :) I think this person is not being walked all over, but rather it's like they're taking control of the conversation and of their reaction to someone else's emotions

@paula-wp1sh

Жыл бұрын

@@janetuss6496 Yes, because in this video it felt a lot like explaining why both people are right and having to defend the first "the sky is blue" sentence. If I have to talk to people who want to take apart what I say. I just don't try to defend it but try not to care what they think. Otherwise I will have to work so hard for just a casual brainless sentence. (I know it's just an example but this is very representative of the things people have started arguments with me)

Something I learned in therapy was to not manage somebody else’s emotions for them and/or preemptively. If I overthink every word and how it may come across, it will only make others feel like they don’t need to regulate themselves and like they can behave any way they want in my presence. If I just talk without overthinking and managing everybody’s feelings for them, it also means I respect them and deem them capable and responsible enough to regulate themselves. Obviously this doesn’t mean you can in turn become the rude one, just that you don’t need to adapt to the other person while taking no space up for yourself.

@mariec7092

Жыл бұрын

Interesting, thanks

@joane24

11 ай бұрын

Never thought of it that way. Thanks, that's interesting and sounds helpful.

@makingithome8493

11 ай бұрын

Yesssss❤❤❤

@jordanferguson2254

11 ай бұрын

I agree with you. So people get to be themselves and live stress free lives while I'm taking on all the burdens to artificially create peace? Yeah, not happening. Being sly and all is great when necessary, but as a lifestyle? You know you're surrounding yourself with the WRONG people. Like you can never relax. I don't engage with those who make me feel like I'm walking on a tight rope. One wrong move and boom, it's over or they become petty. Or people who need to be managed so that interactions aren't negative. It's exhausting. Find people with good hearts and minds instead because it's no fun if things fall apart unless you breathe/live a very limited path. Especially if you're free in spirit and value authenticity and choice. Also, if that means going at life alone, or with a few people, so be it.

@mariec7092

11 ай бұрын

@@jordanferguson2254 You still do have to address people like that, especially at places like work. A "sincere" person is sometimes also a person who feels they have to do more than other people to be accepted, or not fired, or just to advance themselves bc that is what their "high aspirations" (to escape the pack and survive) makes them want to do. Incidentally this may be seen as excessively ambitious and wanting to do more than is necessary or humanly dignified and sustainable, which in certain work cultures is badly seen. People want to keep things at a certain pace, and if they seem to perceive a certain mix of "inferior/superior", or oversompensating type of complex, they will pick on you, use microagression to push you down and that is why you want to adopt a very "laid back" artitude in certain types of job or with certain types of people. Pretend to be interested in them, which after all could be legitimate, since we are all humans, and don't be ashamed of your own flaws.

If someone is constantly looking to argue, I'd just suggest leaving them behind. They can go argue with themselves.

@suemitchel-runow3566

6 ай бұрын

That is what i said...i told told him. You always want to debate me, and it's exhasting...he said i had issues..but decided he is no longer one of them

Argumentative people like that aren’t just sharing information to share…they are on a rampage and want to belittle someone else because they feel unhappy themselves.

@heehoopeanut420

Жыл бұрын

^^^

@scottbriggs4960

Жыл бұрын

Indeed. Miserable and insufferable people.

@commanderwaddles3483

Жыл бұрын

I don't think so, seems pretty clear to me that ignorance makes this person angry because the info feels like common sense to them

@mimilune2746

Жыл бұрын

​@Commander Waddles in this specific scenario ? The person is def looking for a fight i for one know why the sky isnt technically blue but you have to be a special kind of stupid to start an argument over it

@shelby6

Жыл бұрын

​@@commanderwaddles3483 yes they are argumentative and have anger issues, the sky looks blue to both of them so why get mad about it?

If someone did this to me, I would look at them and say “okay”. Not even worth it

@heehoopeanut420

Жыл бұрын

bonus points if you roll your eyes and laugh to yourself a little after. learned that from the mean girlies in high school, the masters of brushing you off and making you feel dumb for saying something😂

@commanderwaddles3483

Жыл бұрын

^^^^That's not what that does. Just makes you seem like an arrogant person who thinks they know everything. Only insecure people will internalize somebody using their body language to invalidate them like that

@ninda2949

Жыл бұрын

​@@commanderwaddles3483not really. I don't like to argue over little things like in the video and if someone actually does that to me I would do the same, say "yeah" or "nice to meet you" and walk away.

@janecruse5900

Жыл бұрын

Yes, the pretentiousness of someone like that would inspire me to end the conversation real quick.

@shhhyourtooloud257

Жыл бұрын

@@commanderwaddles3483 it's only arrogant if you use it in the wrong context. If they used it in thie video's scenario, it's a passive aggressive but satisfying way to brush them off without causing a fight

Passive aggressiveness is the moral of the story here 😂

@johedges5946

11 ай бұрын

That's a horrible thing

@araeshkigal

11 ай бұрын

What part of her aggressiveness was passive though? ;)

@wheresthelambsauce8273

21 күн бұрын

Nope it's called maturity. If someone is being belligerent and disrespectful, that's when you stick up for yourself.

Man if someone says that just during a regular conversation, I'm not going to want to talk to them anymore

Even the scientific explanation is wrong. Its because the blue wavelength is scattered due to particles in the atmosphere. Not because of earth's surface.

@theoneandonlyflexo

Жыл бұрын

I had to scroll way too far before seeing this 😅

@Nenebeautyy

Жыл бұрын

Yes, thank you. I was looking for this

@nonamexchess

Жыл бұрын

Was about to say this. The ocean is the thing that she should talk about here. The ocean is the thing which is clear, but appears blue because it reflects the sky.

@theoneandonlyflexo

Жыл бұрын

@@xtr4t4r4stri4l thats also not entirely correct. Water is also just slightly blue

@mojo782

Жыл бұрын

​@@theoneandonlyflexo word

Disclaimer: some people just like to argue. Don’t try this w them 😅

@ooopticnerveee

Жыл бұрын

Amen!

@scenepunk09

Жыл бұрын

Some people do like to debate thought, and I think you could use it on them if u both know how to keep things from getting heated lol

@Okokok1252

Жыл бұрын

That’s me😬

@gcmeme

Жыл бұрын

Aren’t you from new york

@lovelyhearted

Жыл бұрын

True... I was once unfriended in am ugly way.

I like how the second half of this conversation was very specific knowledge not everyone would necessarily be able to communicate

"Turn your anger into curiosity" ☝️🤓 On a serious note, that is great advice.

i just say "stfu this is why you don't have friends"

@haldouglas4773

Жыл бұрын

is that why you don't have friends?

@rubyiskira8939

Жыл бұрын

Agreed as ex physics student, people like this are toxic and insecure, i had a fellow student who behaved like this, he failed physics and ghosted the uni

@BLink2fu

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@MorgueInTheVoid

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂"This is why your mom never loved you"

@acolourfuldreamer

Жыл бұрын

This is what I'm thinking in my head, but on the outside I'm all smiles and head nods

Seeing the disrespectful facial expressions and hearing the passive aggressive tones, I could never be that reserved back to someone. I’d rather respectfully tell them their points are interesting but to watch their tone or keep interactions with them to a minimum.

@annaagapova3583

Жыл бұрын

And you really don't have to. When people are being this jerks to you, you don't have to smile back and play dumb to make them feel better. Just need talk to them again.

@AleTitan

Жыл бұрын

​@@annaagapova3583 Unless it's at work

@laimaravillon895

Жыл бұрын

Good Advice

I just don't engage with people that obtuse 😂 but your example did show someone with endless patience which is always a good thing 😂

@lolli3092

Жыл бұрын

No. Endless patience is not a good thing. After so long, you become a doormat. By standing up for yourself and telling someone how you are to be treated is healthy.

@sarahroberts7374

Жыл бұрын

@lolli3092 yeah there's a fine line. I guess i mean how they didn't rise to being provoked. Tbh I'd have prob just told the provoker to "eff off" 🙈🤣

Tbh: I might’ve needed that “turn it into curiosity” thing because I tend to fight a lot when things are just misunderstandings between me and many people in my life.. FATE GIVES ME YET ANOTHER TIP TO LESSEN MY TOXICITY! 😅

@cpaewai

Жыл бұрын

Is about giving the other person the benefit of the doubt, and asking them - oh really? Then you look curious and they possibly feel bad for being so confrontational or at least feel heard by you, so they love you even more as a friend 😊👌

@runway5338

Жыл бұрын

As the commenter above said, give them the benefit of the doubt. Ask them questions to clarify what they mean, or address the parts that raised concern or confusion in you. Also, realizing that you misunderstood (or that you both agree to the same thing but were talking in circles w/ one another) and pointing it out in a lighthearted manner can help diffuse the situation. Even make you realize how silly it was. Only if neither one of you has gotten hostile yet, otherwise you’d have to approach it more sincerely.

@xxmathiasnofacexx

Жыл бұрын

@@cpaewai thanks!

@xxmathiasnofacexx

Жыл бұрын

@@runway5338 ty! 🙂

@mariec7092

Жыл бұрын

Your comment proves that you're not doing it on purpose, so forgive yourself and let go, for sure not everything needs to be debated and you'll gain energy and ease in your relationships, in your life, even in your health, and you'll be able to focus more on you, when you don't focus on "the truth". I am proud of you for taking note, and of the maker of this short for making the effort. Isn't the Universe wonderful? 😌

I just give them a dead and dry response, and they just get annoyed because I didn't allow them to project their narcissism on me lmao

@allygachafr

Жыл бұрын

fr just say "cool"

@greeniscoollol

Жыл бұрын

@@allygachafr or "k"

@thisismetoday

Жыл бұрын

Who are you calling the narcissist here?

@greeniscoollol

Жыл бұрын

@@thisismetoday I mean if I was having an argument with someone narcissitic, then I would use this "psychological trick" and end the argument.

@greeniscoollol

Жыл бұрын

@@thisismetoday no one in particular basically

This is the type of reply I think of 36 hours later in the shower 😭 gotta work on doing it in the moment

@ananeeva4109

Жыл бұрын

same here :DDD

@anneeliselaurent3454

Жыл бұрын

Being capable of giving good comebacks in the moment is all I’ve aspired for in my life 😭

@avaa7978

Жыл бұрын

LOL

@inx7110

Жыл бұрын

​@@anneeliselaurent3454I THOUGHT THE SAME THING FOR A LONG TIME😭

What a convoluted way of dealing with someone who is being purposely obtuse.

"wow the sky is such a nice blue color!" "the sky isn't blue. it's cle-" "SHUT !!! UP"

Good intentions. But someone that argumentative isn't worth giving that much energy.

@letsdomath1750

Жыл бұрын

If you're not going to interact regularly with them, probably not, but if you can respond in a calm and collected manner, it is advantageous to befriend a wide variety of people and allow them to develop a good rapport with you. They may have connections or leverage or information or insights that they only share with you because you were able to meet them where they are in a way that didn't drain you in the process.

@ygs497

Жыл бұрын

I’d just walk away or look at them like they’re a dumbass.

If I said "what a beautiful day, the sky is so blue" and somebody argue, I'll just leave. They clearly have problem and try to project it to me. Hell no I'm gonna take it.

we have failed as a society if we need to teach eachother how to communicate like normal human beings 😭

The thing is, this is how I win like 90% of my arguments because I’m just super respectful towards them and most of the time they will listen to me because I’m not being an asshole if there an asshole though and I’m being respectful to them and they will be seen as a bad person.

No, if someone’s gonna respond to me with that kind of attitude, I’m not gonna take it. I’m gonna act like a smart arse right back at them😂😂

@AGreasedMonkey

Жыл бұрын

Really? My initial reaction would be to assume that they're probably a crackpot. Some sort of flat earther who thinks a blue sky is a conspiracy. It is blue after all.

@YumWater

Жыл бұрын

​@@AGreasedMonkeydid you even watch the video

@-Tia-

Жыл бұрын

@@AGreasedMonkeywaitwaitwait…what do flat earthers and conspiracy theorists have anything to do with the sky being blue?

@AGreasedMonkey

Жыл бұрын

@@-Tia- anyone who aggressively claims the sky isn't blue sounds like they're insane.

@AGreasedMonkey

Жыл бұрын

@@YumWater yeah, and having to explain that the sky technically isn't blue is dumb. Insisting that it's not just to make yourself sound smarter is an asshole move, same as saying polar bears aren't white. It's blue, and everyone knows it's blue.

"Well, it looks blue to my eyes and a very pretty one at that. Learn to enjoy the small things ok."

@acolourfuldreamer

Жыл бұрын

This is a really good response

I just walk away from people like that don’t have the time nor the energy to deal with them

this is the type of person when you say good morning at noon they say "technically its the afternoon not morning. "

Nope, as soon as this started, I would walk away.

@Feyrecursebreaker

Жыл бұрын

Same. Not worth the energy to be cordial to people like that.

This is one tip I actually can't agree with, I've known too many toxic know-it-alls to put up with being talked down to anymore, if someone is correcting me just to be a prick I'm not going to play along ✋🚫

@CCLyssCC

Жыл бұрын

Right?

@pingu3984

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I agree with you. I like mostly all of her stuff but this one missed the boat. Good intentions though. Don't doormat yourself for someone who is determined to have an argument about something so anodyne. You don't have to pander to their ego to keep the peace.

@gameypiettvgamergames7463

Жыл бұрын

@@pingu3984 I don't really mind though since this seems like nothing to argue over

@pingu3984

Жыл бұрын

@gameypiettvgamergames7463 yeah. I get what you're saying. Somethings just aren't. I think I like the "ok then" response a lot of people have.

Oh this is really useful, I find everything an argument so this helped.

Thanks for advocating for peacefully expressing our thoughts, feelings, and boundaries. More peace keepers like you will make the world a much more stable place!

"This is why Mum doesn't fucking love you" What I would say and walk away.

This helps you in situations you literally cannot escape from, like a work meeting where your boss is an insurable ass, or a client that you need approval from. It sucks bit sometimes we all need these tools

“well the sky is blue rn, so stfu” 😊

Totally not the point I know but that’s not why the sky is blue XD Light hitting the atmosphere is split into the different colour bands (a bit like a rainbow) and the blue light is filtered down to us through the atmosphere more than the other colours, so it looks blue.

@rubyiskira8939

Жыл бұрын

For anyone interested in reading more it's called rayleigh scattering and it's the same cause that makes the sunsets red

@monicamukherjee3758

Жыл бұрын

Blue colour scatters the most

@Sjoerd1993

Жыл бұрын

If we’re going that route, Rayleigh scattering scatters shorter wavelengths more effectively than longer wavelengths. Hence the blue colour. That leave als with the question, why doesn’t the sky look violet? Which has an even shorter wavelength? (The answer is that our eyes are simply more sensitive to blue light, so it appears blue to us)

I just would not talk to them

the best response is "you will never be loved, you know it, just admit it"

I need you in my life girl 😩, i got so heated in arguments trying to win

The trick is to shut down any sense of ‘argument’. Some folks are cool with smacking down someone they are in conversation with.. but that’s how to lose ALL your friends fast..

This is why I just keep my thoughts to myself…

@alexandraalbertz1442

Жыл бұрын

You do not have to. Communicate with an open heart no matter what the others do

@ygs497

Жыл бұрын

Nah keep those thoughts to yourself. From personal experience the thoughts in my head should probably stay in my head. 😂

The right response: "Really? When is the last time you saw the sky in the color clear? Never? Ok then!"

@tarod3

10 ай бұрын

At night!

First our professional lives and now our personal lives too, thank you for being a ray of sunshine.

Okay, last time I checked the sky was blue because of light scattering. If it was because of reflection, it would only be blue near the ocean Edit: also, when you started talking about retinas and what we call colors, that's a completely different discussion

@AdviceWithErin

Жыл бұрын

Guys 😂

@younscrafter7372

Жыл бұрын

@@AdviceWithErin What makes you think I'm a guy?

@patatav7780

Жыл бұрын

​@@younscrafter7372 lol

@shelby6

Жыл бұрын

​@@younscrafter7372 "guys" is just a generalising term, has nothing to do with gender

@k9spot1

Жыл бұрын

@@younscrafter7372 Wow you are literally the evil person in the video.

Im just gonna get up from my desk and walk away. Quicker and much less stressful. People like that are looking for any excuse to argue

I just say, “ok idrc if you want to argue, argue, but I don’t have time. so anyways, _______”

I usually end every conversation with “sure” in a tone suspicious enough that if they’re wired they’ll feel uncomfortable and if they’re normal, they’ll feel uncomfortable.

you don't have to put up w ppl like that, if you're not respecting me, I won't respect you and just walk away. If you're being nice and informing me, I'll listen with interest.

@gnatscrafts

Жыл бұрын

true, you dont have to, but you can choose to. i personally wouldnt have the patience, but plenty of people just prefer this form of communication. some people prefer to defuse an obnoxious person rather than blow them up

@Vescilla

Жыл бұрын

It's your choice what to do but it's a pretty immature way to handle the situation. No one will care who started the argument or how you were treated, if it's your coworker, you're both problematic and create an unfriendly atmosphere. It's good to learn how to avoid confrontation so you don't look like the bad guy. It's not that important to "win" the fight anyway.

@g0desq

Жыл бұрын

@@Vescilla i don't think it's immature, I think it's just better to not deal with a person who's disrespectful when it isn't our fault and just ignore them rather than waste your time with it but yes it's everyone's own choice.

@Vescilla

Жыл бұрын

@@g0desq From my perspective it is, I understand why you'd rather just walk away but it's in your best interest to handle such situations in a way that doesn't harm your reputation. Of course, there will be people who would take your side in this conflict because in reality you didn't do anything wrong but from some people's perspective you might come off as the rude one because you ignored someone who was merely disagreeing with you.

@angelicasysnila5476

Жыл бұрын

@@Vescilla there's difference between "mere disagreement" and criticism. A disagreement is simply saying "i don't like the blue sky" when someone says they like blue sky, but When you're trynna show how you're feeling about something (in this case, it's the beautiful blue sky) & someone is just so immature that they make that beautiful feeling a matter of criticism then they aren't worth anyone's time and no one will take it as a rude gesture to simply ignore someone so impolite and inhumane to criticize someone's likings & and their shared feelings

I may have problems since my first thought to take 2 was: "No I don't want to be nice" lmaooo

I love to share random scientific facts with people as it helps me to remember them and I just like to share things I learned. I am also the type of autistic person that doesn't understand tone or use the right one so the fact that people would assume I'm being argumentative or trying to belittle them is not the greatest thing.

"Wow really I didn't know that...cooooool" my usual response.

That… that was not what I was expecting, ain’t nobody talk like that, unless you’re a redditor.

Ask questions to discover the other person's value system; introduce yours and basically meet in the middle. Nice! Very actionable, thanks :)

I would be like “did I ask?”

How to shut down a toxic person: “Oh this is something you seem to know a lot about. Tell me more. I’m willing ti listen” Toxic person: *can’t speak because they’re in shock* 😂

Fun fact, it’s not “reflection” it’s actually “refraction” - it’s why the sun looks yellow and the sky is blue - they are opposites. That’s not actually the fun fact… The fun fact is to get more pretty colors, we need more particles in the air that cause this refraction… meaning pollution is literally what is making your sunsets so pretty. So are you anti sunsets or pro sunsets?

if this person was arguing with me about it i'd straight up roast them lmfao

Literally had this happen about the colors of stars, retinas and everything. It did not end as friendly. Looking back I wish I had asked why it was so important to him.

🗣COLORS ARE A CONSTRUCT AND THINGS ONLY EXIST AS YOU PERCEIVE THEM, NOTHING CAN EXIST FOR SURE EXCEPT FOR YOUR OWN CONSCIOUSNESS

i think this can be really valuable! i know the comments are mostly “you dont need to put up with this shit,” which i agree with, but the video’s goal is just showing a different form of communication. some people want to be open and patient and non-confrontational whenever possible, and that’s okay! (sidenote: my response would’ve been “why are you purposefully instigating a disagreement with me? you know what i meant; it sounds like you just wanted to make me feel small and less intelligent because you know a random fact we all learned in middle school. you’re annoying as hell.”)

@JT29501

Жыл бұрын

If the person disagreeing had been all "yeah, it is pretty.. hey did you know its not actually blue? It's clear and *explanation*! Isn't that crazy?", it could be a pleasant interaction all round.. but yeah as you say, people who go all confrontational over facts they have picked up almost certainly just want to feel superior rather than actually share something they are passionate about/interested in.

@rethsriley1939

Жыл бұрын

And i love you for your response ❤❤

Fun fact the actual color of the sky is blueish violet in either words purple! 😊

@AdviceWithErin

Жыл бұрын

ok pretentious know it all!! 🤪

@kaibakugou8637

Жыл бұрын

Lol

Finally people having my kind of conversation 🤩💖🤩

Honestly, this is true. Sometimes you have to deal with difficult people in your life, but I find that when you try to hear them out and try not to get too upset or angry about being corrected, even if you know that the other person is being a bit ridiculous or they're being a smart ass, the conversation goes a lot smoother and the end of the argument is more pleasant. Sometimes I have to remind myself of this so I can stay sane and not stressed out.

@vvelvettearss

Жыл бұрын

im gonna try and take this on board. Today I had a random girl make remarks tho I could tell it wasn't friendly curiosity it was kind of rude - about me walking without shoes on a nice day to town Went like How are you walking with no shoes on!? after I had passed (how? same way as you lady. It's not impossible) Me went - it's not so bad youll hurt your feet ! Nah you get used to it You DO hurt your feet sometimes but it's hardly very dangerous, feels pleasant and is something you get better at Just my example Her tone irritated me somewhat and I didn't react and went on my way but people that just want to wrestle you into a discussion over nothing do wind me up I felt in hind sight I should have just stayed to have a discussion about how there's basically nothing to react to seeing as we both have feet and both walk and my feet aren't hurt even if she says they are. I wish i could just shrug those things off . Any further tips ? But i guess over time I start to see those kinds of people as forms of entertainment to hone my smiling and shrugging it off skills the more it happens xD different ways if can go

This is why I hate people. I keep finding myself trapped with someone with this rude tone and passive-aggressive attitude, so I prefer having my lunchtime in silence calmly. I love spending my time alone ❤️

Actually blue is a human experience so if something looks blue, it is blue. If that wasnt the case the sky would be violet.

@shanellemurrey9300

Жыл бұрын

How so? (About the sky being violet instead)

@Yatagurusu

Жыл бұрын

@@shanellemurrey9300 humans dont actually see violet very well, its picked up very weakly by the blue and red colour receptor (hence why violet looks purple). So even though the sky is more violet than blue, the blue is picked up more than your eyes and the violet is less picked up, making the sky look blue

@shanellemurrey9300

Жыл бұрын

@@Yatagurusu noice 👍 Don’t quote me on this, I learned it ages ago and I forgot, but wasn’t the sky like some kinda purple/ violety colour as well before the atmosphere got more oxygen in it? Again, I can’t remember if it was true or not, it might’ve been a different colour if anything

@Yatagurusu

Жыл бұрын

@@shanellemurrey9300 maybe at a specific time? But the earths atmosphere isnt actually caused by the chemistry of the molecules in the atmosphere. Its cause by the fact blue light is scattered way more than red light when light travels through a transparent fluid. More or less oxygen shouldnt change that. Feel free to contradict me.

@shanellemurrey9300

Жыл бұрын

@@Yatagurusu oh yeah sorry I forgot to mention I was talking about like, billions of years ago. And I was probably still wrong about it lol, I can’t remember it fully

Omg just dodge those people or never talk to them. They are just trying to fight anybody because to express their inner anger they don't know how to process.

Brings new meaning to the phrase 'What color is the sky in your world?'

The sky isn't blue because "the atmosphere reflects earths surface". Its blue because of the scattering effect. Blue light scatters more thus making the sky look more blue. On the other hand during sunset when the sun is far and the light has to travel more, the scattered blue light gets absorbed and what remain are only the red, orange and yellow light. ETA : Who says the the sky being blue is a fact when literally it is red everytime after it is blue.

@recoveringintrovert717

Жыл бұрын

So you're the pretentious know it all in this clip, huh? (I'm trying to show curiosity)

@phun1901

Жыл бұрын

At sunset the light does travel further through the atmosphere, but it's not so much that the sun is further away. The significant thing is the distance of light travelling through the atmosphere is much longer, because of the angle of incidence. And what we perceive is somewhat a result of which wavelengths our cones are sensitive to, and the uneven distribution of wavelengths that the sun emits.

@canibecomeacookie

Жыл бұрын

I was looking for this comment

"Turn your anger into curiosity"

Honestly, if the person is that rude, I just don't want to talk to them-

Thank you! The world needs these skills -it’s called learning to communicate-we need to get out of psychological labeling and calling everyone “toxic” and learn to do EXACTLY what you are doing here. PLEASE MAKE MORE VIDROS LIKE THIS!!! We are desperate for the need to connect and stop all the hate’

That second person in the example though wasn’t just sharing information they were trying to unnecessarily bring down the first person’s mood.

I would still get angry 😤

First video: I like you already ! 😊💡💡💡

"the sky is so pretty today" you're indoors.

Really love your videos, if every coworker could be like you everyone would enjoy going to work.

I just stfu and walk away.

lmao my ex friends were like the problematic character here, so glad i got out of there, such a toxic environment. btw great way to explain it, i learned it and now I'm never in a defensive position, a game changer definitely!

“It appears blue due to atmospheric reflection🤓🤓🤓”

I don't care if someone says the sky is red or even green. I just agree to them since it's still a lot better than wasting time over arguing.

I've said things like the science person before but I was not angry but now looking at this video I can see why some people reacted negatively to me saying those things. 😅 I guess it really comes off as being a know it all. Though I just was trying to share an interesting fact. Now I feel bad though.

@gameypiettvgamergames7463

Жыл бұрын

I think it's the way people say things because I never understood people getting mad at someone for telling them how something actually works.

@BrightElk

Жыл бұрын

@@gameypiettvgamergames7463 I guess it depends on their goal of the conversation. In this case saying the sky is blue is just an attempt at making light casual conversation. And the sky is blue is a pretty universally accepted experience even if it isn’t “scientifically accurate” But then science person comes at them with all this heavy complicated science that the average person just doesn’t think about and whether intentionally or unintentionally they make them feel kind of stupid for not knowing that even though most people don’t even think about that. I can definitely see how it would come off as really rude.

I was taught it was the refraction of light by the atmosphere but I understand that’s not the point of the video haha

@emmynoether9540

Жыл бұрын

Yes, I agree. I think she mixed it up with why clear water in lakes or the ocean appears blue - because it reflects the sky. The sky looks blue because this color is strongest after all the light scattering in the atmosphere. If I got in an argument about this I would just suggest to google it together instead of argueing.

Bro turned an argument to a conversation 💀

Nice advice 👏🏾 this does require some Patience and Lightheartedness that comes with maturity. So moral of the story someone has to try to be the mature one. Especially when dealing with argumentive narcissist type Encounters. Enjoy your Blue skies, be open Minded, but don't let anyone steal your Peace or Joy. Stay blessed in Jesus name everyone. We got this 😉😇

dwight???

Omg Im so early! Also I love your videos and do you have any advice for someone going into their senior year of high school?

@AdviceWithErin

Жыл бұрын

Have FUN!!!! Enjoy it! Make lots of friends, listen to your gut, say yes to things!

I have accidentally started using this 😂 I didn’t even know of this trick, but I just felt like acting nice and suddenly I changed someone’s mind about something

I love that the conclusion of that conversation was, the sky is blue 😅

Nah.. the way they respond is just rude.

“That sign isn’t blue, it just absorbs every other wavelength of light and reflects blue” That’s what being blue mean lol😂

Just would like to say lady your hair is AMAZING it's so pure and silky looking, like an elf :)

the 90% of the population: And I took that personally.

But we like to argue... Its our love language✨

If you "scientifically" correct me for calling the sky blue, I will walk away from you mid conversation and not talk to you again. That's extremely obnoxious, not a person I want to talk to.

Yes, this works almost always when you argue with yourself.

You are a treasure, Your videos are helpful and informative. I wish there were more like you. Keep up the good work. Peace