My hair is so confusing. I don’t get it.

@marinaking8793

3 жыл бұрын

So it’s not just me. Lol. Ugh

@courtneyhawkins4072

3 жыл бұрын

Same I wish somebody would just look at my hair... give me a hair routine and products tailored for my hair so I don’t need to figure it out lol!

@itsmegxo9348

3 жыл бұрын

Girl same! About to go bald any second lol

@margareto1600

3 жыл бұрын

Me too! I wish someone looked at mine and told me all that "porosity and stuff", then I'll figure out what products I need...😁

@soukitain2119

3 жыл бұрын

Its because they dontmention when they notice it if u notice ur hair dont look good 3/4 days agter u washed ur hair i guess uts just normal ! It means ure a human being having activities haha it just dries out get frizzier ! So if she means she notices it js’ust agter washin yeah i get it.. it cant be perfert everyday ...

I'm a guy, after so many wrong advices and practices I finaly stumbled upon your channel. And I've never this satisfied in a long long time. You brought another level of confidence and happiness in life. Thank you.

@tehmillos3985

3 жыл бұрын

Yo im a guy too do you mind sharing your journey and type of curly hair?

Sometimes i wish i was just born with straight hair, my hair is just so tough to deal with. The frizz and the straight parts in the back never go away but then the front looks good. Im kinda just lost

@margareto1600

3 жыл бұрын

I use something to curl up those pieces, seriously, I'm not religious about CGM, it needs to work for ME!

@iamaqween5156

3 жыл бұрын

You can always relax it but I’m never doing that

@gloriaborger952

3 жыл бұрын

Aww I totally get you girl, I actually have straight-ish hair is a bit frizzy, I wishhh I had curly hair, it's so beautiful lolll. I used to get some curl in my hair, espec at the back but I think that was just because I wasn't conditioning the back of my hair properly and it kind of was scrunched by sitting on my neck and hood when it dried sooo ahahah. I need to find an actual curl gel though and perhaps do something about the protein since it snaps pretty easily. I'm using flaxseed gel and it just doesn't seem to hold much for me. Love your curly hair though it's absolutely beautiful, I know for a fact other people are thinking that heheh xxx

@haloum

3 жыл бұрын

I always have those wavy ish parts in the back and u can always wet them after ur hair dries and just finger coil them (if u have any product, use it) and they should look just as cute as the rest of ur hair ❤

@haloum

3 жыл бұрын

and maybe try to avoid air drying? because personally, that's what gives me the most frizz so I never do it

It's not a JaymeJo video if she doesn't mess up some words lol love you girll great video!

@jaymejo

3 жыл бұрын

Ahahhahah. Facts

@user-3dfhdha24

3 жыл бұрын

@@jaymejo if u was my gf u could fix my hair :(

I've been seeing a lot of curly haired people showing or talking about Mel. I'm so glad she's getting the recognition she deserves as I feel she's really transformed my hair care routine for the better! I also have to say I've stumbled upon your videos many times and I love them, it's really great watching someone like us (Not hairstylists or professionals) talking about these difficult concepts. PS: Your hair looks wonderful 🖤

@Haley-hz9gj

2 жыл бұрын

Couldn't agree more!! :)

Protein and moisture is always so important for me!

@lexi0623

3 жыл бұрын

ur hair is stunning!!

@wolfietigre2542

3 жыл бұрын

Do you know any products for 2c/3a hair

@wolfietigre2542

3 жыл бұрын

@Gal Pal thank you i wanna ask a question but i don't know if you will know the answer should i cut my hair short or all the way off to make it curlier

@wolfietigre2542

3 жыл бұрын

@Gal Pal yeah i dont know much about hair because my hair just started to get curlier about a year ago and now my hair is mixed with 2c/3a

@tocacreepy4748

3 жыл бұрын

@@wolfietigre2542 same and my hair is so ugly. I need to use loads of products for it so look somewhat okay.

This was so helpful! Your curls are absolutely STUNNING! I started my curly journey this year after 16 years of relaxing and keratin treatments so half of my hair is straight from damage and the other half is my virgin boricua curls. Videos like this help me SO MUCH! I also love manes by mel. I would love to see more curly routines 🥰

@Mandoxc

3 жыл бұрын

@Zero Cool what's wrong with you lmao

@raquelwhite7210

3 жыл бұрын

Big chop!😊😊 and no heat what so ever

@raquelwhite7210

3 жыл бұрын

Wait i just went to your channel, you dyed and straightened it 🥴🥴😩

@liltop9657

3 жыл бұрын

@Zero Cool sounds yummy

No offense but Mell nailed it with that video but you nailed it at explaining it so simply!❤️

@jaymejo

3 жыл бұрын

Im glad!

me: focusing on stretching a strand of hair my boyfriend: ... what are you doing?

i’m glad you got your curls fixed! i had noticed that your hair had been looking flat but i’m sooo happy your curls are popping again!!

Baby me: Straight hair Toddler me: Ringlets Child me: Big curly/wavy hair Pre teen me: Frizzy straight hair I'm upset at whatever happened to my hair :((

@kkdraws9052

3 жыл бұрын

Probably damage

@Mandoxc

3 жыл бұрын

to be fair, it may be damage but it may also be simply hormones. Example: As a child my hair was pin straight, 1A. As I reached puberty my hair became "puffy" and only saw its waves and some curls when I let it grow. Basically it can be damage, but it can also just be puberty making changes

@aspiringcaptain

3 жыл бұрын

Hormones, it’s their fault

@sum6198

3 жыл бұрын

I heard where ever there is frizz, there are curls. Try the CGM to see of you can revive curls/waves

@blueidolon66

3 жыл бұрын

If you think your hair is “frizzy straight hair” it’s just curly hair that doesn’t have enough moisture. Mine was the same until I learned how to take care of it. You need a LOT of leave in conditioner and a light gel and you’ll probably be all set.

That’s so great, honestly amazingly explained ... just needed a simple breakdown explaining protein & moisture 🙌❤️💎

This was so helpful! I am having a moisture over load as well. Literally going through the exact same thing you are

your curls are so stunning jayme! i love the shea moisture mask, it’s my favorite!! it’s also 3am but i couldn’t miss this video lol. thank you for all the work you put into your content🤍

jayme thanks for sharing your story! I definitely have been watching mel's videos too and she helped me out a lot as well. I realized how to take better of my hair through both of your and mel's videos on curly hair. I also have low porosity hair and I realized that I had too much moisture in my hair as well a while back and was able to make some adjustments. it's so helpful hearing someone else's story who has similar hair as me and similar issues and triumphs. tysm for sharing!

I love Mell. You, her and Kelly at Joy Before Her are my favorite.

Oooo our girl Jayme knws our homegirl MELL okayyyy🤤🖤🍾 CHEERSSS🍾🤣

Yayy u and mell are my favorite curly heads!! 💖

i’m so thankful for this video! this is EXACTLY what my hair NEEDED 😩 I literally watched your video, went & got the same product, used it this morning & my hair is already coming back to life! 🙌🏼 🥰

This is exactly what we needed!! 🥺 ahh I love you & your curls so much 🥺🥰 sm love from 🇿🇦❣️

I love that you mentioned Mell!!! She is very helpful

Ah this is so helpful, why is taking care of curly hair like science in high school lol. Anyway gonna look for some protein product next time I'm in a drug store (cause in my country Shea Moisture is sooo expensive), thank you for the video

@ami9486

3 жыл бұрын

Kiara Etsuko ikr. It’s so complex!

@itsme1092

3 жыл бұрын

I was gonna suggest shea moisture before you said it was expensive lol. Try Redken anti snap. It's reasonably priced and works really well.

@ami9486

3 жыл бұрын

Kiara Etsuko oh you don’t really have to use specific brands. Go to manes by mel’s video and she says which ingredients are good if you need protein. The only ingredient I can remember is keratin.

@deandrajohnson1973

3 жыл бұрын

Do u guys have Hask there cause here it’s cheap and they have a Keratin line and a Biotin line that are good they also have tons of spray leave ins that are great!! I use the Keratin one daily..it makes my curls curlier! 👍🏾

@angeliemaguinda

3 жыл бұрын

Same the shea moisture products in the country i'm from is also expensive 😭 I gotta find and search for cheaper alternatives

Omg I’ve literally been having the same problem as you with my hair! Thank you so much for this video🙏🏼❤️ So helpful! xx

Her beauty is killing my confidence 😭😭😭❤❤❤❤

Thank you so much!!! I am always so confused when I see people talking about the protein and moisture and no matter how man times I would read it I wouldn't understand it. This really helped me out!. Thank you😇

Such a HUGE help and I thank you so much! I follow Manes by Mell and she is one of my faves! I have low porosity hair as well and taking notes from YOU! Keep these videos coming girl! Xoxoxo

not me learning better with this than with school for exams

Great video ! Keeping a balance of both is so good for your hair to look it’s best !!! 💕💜💕💜💕💜💕💜💕💜💕💜💕

eyes been opened let's go shopping!!!! thanks jayme

loveeee your vids! You're so informative and your hair is gorggg

This makes perfect sense!! I have fuzzy hair, there's no hold, etc UGH This makes sense THANK YOU!!!

Thank you soooo much for the tips! I followed your advice and my hair has never looked so good!🥰 I had the same problem as you and I'm so glad I could fix it this way!

Thank you for the explanation. When different people explain the same topic, they do it a little differently, and from a unique perspective.

I'm glad you figure things out. I love Manes by Mel also and have been following her. I'm still making all kinds of adjustments because I'm coming to realize that I have combination hair. Different types from the back to the front and some with different porosity, but im mostly high porosity all around...some hairs super moisture overload (lacking protein) while others look great. Luckily more look great than not, but finding the balance is a weekly project. I like the idea of having a styler with protien and am hearing that more. I used the shea moisture styler you recommended in the past, but I may have not done it right bc I didnt seem to like and used it for my son instead which it worked well for. I will need to revisit. Im learning a lot! Thanks for the video!!

@nadiasolomone

3 жыл бұрын

The hair mask she recommended is for low porosity hair so maybe that’s why it didn’t work

I totally needed this video! Your hair looks great by the way☺❤

This video came out at the perfect time I was struggling with this! Thanks so much 🥰

I agree! Porosity is extremely important how you care for your hair and many people don't understand that. Even in the 80s hairdressers didn't recommend hair treatments based on porosity

I started using the product she mention : )) glad to see another KZread recommend it.

I’m here cuz my hair isn’t as curly as it used to be ;-;

@welm8412

3 жыл бұрын

same

@niribee4126

3 жыл бұрын

Same 😖

@ritaelmahboubi6923

3 жыл бұрын

Your curl pattern can change with age it might be it 😊

@lonesoul14281

3 жыл бұрын

Same, bleach and color damage

@crybabydalia

3 жыл бұрын

Sameee i have lots of heat damage and bleach damage

I'm so thankful for this video! I have low porosity hair and apparently a moisture overload too. My curls right now just stretch and die. Also, my hair is super frizzy! (and other videos just told me it was because of lack of moisture) I now know that I need protein in my routine. Again, Thank you so much for these tips!

@sarangcrochets9583

2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly my problem I’m not sure if I need moisture or if I have a moisture overload ?!?

Been waiting for this!! Your hair looks stunning 😍😍 definitely gonna try this out!

@jaymejo

3 жыл бұрын

thanks!!!!

my curls are actually just like yours but my roots looks almost straight and my hair has no volume at all and i have very thin hair ive lost sm in the last 2 years so it looks like my hair got less curly idk what to do my curls looks 2c now when I was younger it was 3a/b my hair cut is straight would it get better if i get layers? i feel like layers wouldn't look good on me because i don't have much hair

@Elizabeth-xv7xd

3 жыл бұрын

Hi my curls are similar in ways. I have straighter/ straight slightly wavy roots as well. I have also been loosing hair for the last couple of years so my hair looks thinner now. I have a fine texture of hair. Personally I find when I have more layers and bangs my hair has more volume, looks thicker and lays better. The curls also look better.

@electraheart5278

3 жыл бұрын

@@Elizabeth-xv7xd thank u💞

@parentalonion6552

3 жыл бұрын

Oh yeah you definitely should get layers.

@shaelana

3 жыл бұрын

Make sure you’re brushing your hair 90 degrees from the head on all angles and that you’re diffusing you’re hair upside down!

@annastayziaa

3 жыл бұрын

watch mane by mels videos~! she talks about this. I was able to recover a lot of my curls because I had the same problem as you

I tried that elasticity test and the strand just broke and I barely stretched it. And all this time I was using protein because I thought that this is what I needed. I think you just saved my hair lol

To answer your queatuon: when you have high porosity hair its usually from heat(tools,sun), hair color/treatments, styling damage etc. That's why Mel said your hair is damaged but balanced in the chart. Also when you have true hygral fatigue the only way to fix is is to cut it off. So you were lucky that it wasn't completely overloaded and reversed it before it was to late. But it's so hard to tell what your hair needs and how much is enough sometimes. Ugh. great video

You read my mind.... i'm just now questioning what do to.... protein or moisture. Perfect timing!!

Girl, your curls give me life....and hope mine will attain 1/3rd of your beauty!

This was the most helpful video out here!! I love how you explained it. I tried to stretch my hair and it just snapped off lmao

Thank you so much for your videos they helped me so much ,my hair is so beautiful because of you ,keep going !! 🥺💜💜💜💜

Your hair is the healthy version of my hair so I subscribed.thanks for the advice.

this is the video i didnt know i needed!! thank you so much, my hair (and me) has been suffering

Ok, so I did a hydrating mask, and it made my hair super oily. I’m gonna try a protein mask because by the description, I have a moisture overload. I was thinking my frizzy and limp hair was because I didn’t have enough moisture. This video was very helpful thank you 🙏

Love this video. I finally found out what's wrong with my hair. I thought I had an protein overload but it is moisture If I maybe believe this video. I love easy explanations. Thank you so much! ❤

its 3am in ny, i have class at 10am lol but i must watch ur vidssss🥺🥺🤍🤍🤍🤍

I too have learned so much from Manes by Mell..... will have to switch things around for myself also.... have to balance mine out.... u explained it great also. Ty! Violet 🥰

You hair is a goal❤❤

Early early earlyyy!! Love you Jayme 😇 from Brisbane

This is so helpful! I believe I might have a moisture overload so I’m investing in a protein mask treatment

Mell is just the best ❤️

I LOVE that mask! I just got it not sure if I needed protein or moisture and it was the perfect balance

Your hair looks incredible 😍

BINGO!! Just the information I needed!!

JaymeJo is drop dead gorgeous. Like WOOOOOOOW.

Last week I started wondering if I needed protien & started using tiny bits because I was terrified of it too GREAT TIMING

Im absolutely in love with your videos !! You have really helped me learn how to care for my curls.. thank you so much !! But do you have a tutorial for sleeping with curly hair ?

Omg my hair is back! Thank you!

my hair actually looks limp and lifeless just like how yours did before. i just recently bought a whole new hair care setup to add some protein into my hair while retaining some moisture. might give myself a month or two to test everything to see if my curls come back to life. thanks for the video!

YESS, thank you! You explained it so well

porosity has to do with the hair cuticle- the outer layer of the hair strand not the folicle which is where your hair grows out from.

Super helpful, I didn’t know why my hair is crap (I figured that my hair just wasn’t very curly anymore?) it stretches to infinity and just lays limp. Time to add some protein!

I forgot you live in Australia so that’s why this was posted at 2 am

My hair is very protein sensitive! When I do my Shea moisture protein mask I have to also do my moisture mask by Mielle or Carols daughter to balance ! Same with products I have to do moisture|protein|moisture

Love ur curls😔💘💘

me realizing I messed up the balance in my hair after being too lazy to repurchase this protein infused product 👁👄👁

I think I've got moisture overload. I used to really not take care of my hair at all, I never even conditioned, but a few months ago I switched to the CGM. With every wash I was getting better and better results, but then in the past month it's gone way down. My hair goes limp so quickly after I unplop, my roots are flat, and my curls are like non-existent. I tried a clarifying wash today and my hair does feel a lot better, but its still so flat and stretchy. I'm gonna get this product you recommended! I dont want to mess with my usual routine yet as it's been going really well for around 5 months, but I think doing a clarifying wash and a protein treatment like once a month should help keep me on top of it all!

Hi, Jayme Jo , and all You Girl's out there in " Curly World " - Your Channel Jayme Jo , is absolutely Amazing ! It's a " Curly Community " - within KZread , I only found and subscribed 2 weeks ago But I have seen a BIG improvement with My Hair , I have had good advice from comments - and Your videos are a Great Resource - So...... I now have a new 'dryer/diffuser , Denman D3 , and more suitable products - and NOW know how to use them ! Thankyou ALL Love You - Simon. xxx - Your " Curly Boy "

thank you for teaching! imma watch mells vid too :)

Your curls are stunning! I am jealous lol

You are a god send ! Thank you so much !

@the.penthouse---barre6792

3 жыл бұрын

Finding Jayme jo this week go's to prove one thing, We are ALL truly BLESSED ! Love You ! , Love You ALL, out there in " Curly World " Simon. xxx

Your channel made me accept my nature,Although I am an Arab, our society does not accept curly poetry at all..thanks u are Amazing🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.

@crybabydalia

3 жыл бұрын

True. I'm also arab and it's getting kind of more acceptable where i live so I'm transitioning my hair which have a lot of heat damage :(

Wow thanks so much you explained it so perfectly

Your hair is what mine was like until my mid 20s, except red. Trying to get it back.

Your videos are very informative thank you soo much♥️

the shea moisture jamaican black castor oil mask is also good for balancing protein and moisture in your hair

Your hair is amazing . I am doing the slow grow out now til next april 1st.. giving it a year to rest from using curly girl method for 5 years and my hair was a hot mess

This was so helpful! I‘ve been using high moisture products for years now and i wondered why my hair became so flat and straight at the roots. I ordered the exact same products. To be honest i think my hair would look exactly like yours if the protein & moisture uptake would be balanced. I‘m looking forward to trying the new products 😍

Firstttt! 💖

You have the best curls on KZread! 🥰Violet

I'm confused, because my hair is pretty low porosity, it has literally no elasticity, but I still fit into the signs of over moisturized hair. So confusing 😭

@worldpeace42069

3 жыл бұрын

Lmfao same

@kivzzzz

3 жыл бұрын

Same!

@tarab5833

3 жыл бұрын

Is it possible you could have your porosity wrong? I did! Lol. And I got moisture overload. Ugh. Finding the balance has been a see-saw! There's a test on naturallycurly.com/quiz

@NaomiTCOOKIES

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@trishaaloo5281

3 жыл бұрын

That test is wrong my hair is low porosity and it said high

Omg!!! That’s probably why my hair has been acting out, I stopped protein products for years now 🥵

@user-wo4rb3bs9r

3 жыл бұрын

What protein products do you recommend

I just want to chime in with the protein overload- make sure you do a clarifying shampoo to remove the build up of keratin/protein before starting the moisturizing treatments. It is more recommended to go to a salon for a clarifying treatment but if not kinky curly makes a gentle CG friendly clarifying shampoo. Curlsmith also has a clarifying line if you want more high end products. I've also read you can do an apple cider vinegar mix, but my concern is it is too acidic and will mess with scalp ph/dry your hair out completely

I've been having a hard time trying to figure out what my hair needs so I'm really grateful I came across your vid. New sub!! ❤️

I fixed my curl pattern with a big chop I kid you not. I have type 4 hair now

Now it all makes sense thank you for explaining it so well! 💜

Thank you, so helpful!

LOOOOVVVVE YOUR HAIR. BEAUTIFUL 😍

man this girls hair is amazing.

Thank u so so much! I realized everytime I shower without pre poo (oil) my hair becomes extremely frizzy and dead, while if I do it looks so so different almost like it isn’t the same type! Always wondered why! Now I know ;)) merci beaucoup beautiful

psst 🌸🤗 just wondering if you would ever try a bonnet dryer attachment , vs diffusing video 🤗❣️i love your vids btw

thank you for this!!!!! ❤ you

Protein have different molecules, choosing the right sort of protein is also something to keep in mind:)

@ginamontana5356

3 жыл бұрын

Coconut or any coconut derivative seems to be a huge problem for me. Worse is that virtually every product has it listed in the top 4 ingredients and many hair products have it listed as 2, 3, and 4. I don’t understand this coconut craze. It’s not the best for skin either but it’s in everything.

@ginamontana5356

3 жыл бұрын

@@ammaarahgardee9506 I just cut nearly 4” off myself. I used Joico “moisture recovery” shampoo and conditioner 3 times, I am so mad at myself that I did it again and fell for the title and not the ingredients and the same happened to me. My curls also turned to a very dry, very dull 2 looking pattern. I was happy with Shea moisture low porosity line and they discontinued it 😢. I am having a very hard time finding replacements with no protein and no coconut.

@ginamontana5356

3 жыл бұрын

@@ammaarahgardee9506 thank you so much for the product reference ❤️❤️ I’m going to track that one down!