I’ve been wearing my hair natural and consistently for about 3 years now. I am > 60 and I’m just grateful for the hair that I have on my head! When I was younger I had a shoulder length head of full thick hair. Not so much anymore. I’ve mourned the loss of that thick hair and recognize that all is fleeting in this life. ❤ yourself and just be happy and grateful for your individual locks on your one of a kind head.

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

@@user-sb9mn1tw4v well said 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Fine hair, low density babe here 🙋🏽‍♀️ Totally agree with everything you've said. I enjoy being able to just part my hair into 4 sections, moisturise it and slap on a wig and it doesn't look too bulky 💛

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

@@buhlemaz wow wow wow! Forgot about that one!!! Would be tricky to just do that with thicker hair!😍

@islandgirlruby2750

Ай бұрын

Girl you better speak that truth

I’m getting spoiled with all the daily videos! 🥰 And yes, there’s definitely some benefits to not having a ton of hair. I think the Lord gives us what we can handle. 😅💙

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

Nice point!

I have mostly medium, low density hair, and I'm happy with it. 😊 The best thing about curly hair is we can make it look thicker through wash and go, afro, or blow dry styling if we so desire.

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

so versatile

I have fine, medium density, 4A/4B hair and I'm content with what I have!❤

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

love it 🥰

@Aniexo_

Ай бұрын

Same lol

I’m happy I clicked on this video , it’s fueling my self acceptance journey

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Honestly, I feel this. I used to hate not having thick hair but I don't think I’d be able to maintain super thick hair. My hair is a medium density and it's good enough for me.

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

😍😍😍

I have fine hair and you nailed it on the head with the benefits. I love thick hair but I couldn't manage it. I have a relative with fine hair and very high density I could just about do their hair it was difficult. There one thing I don't like people confuse fine hair with thin hair they're two different things. Thin hair is when the parts are very wide and you can see the person's scalp easily.

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

@@LivingInTheShade great clarification there! They both have their pros and cons but finer hair is simply uncelebrated 😏

@sandraboullineau5283

Ай бұрын

I appreciate and love your videos

@LivingInTheShade

Ай бұрын

@@CoilyDiaries Very true.

@sobruhkey

Ай бұрын

I just recently learned the difference between fine and thin hair, so I'm sure that most (other) people are living with misconceptions. Fine/coarse has to do with the thickness of each hair strand. Thin/thick has to do with how many strands there are across the whole head.

@pragooutube

Ай бұрын

​@@sobruhkeyCorrect!

My hair is fine, medium density and I love it ❤

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

That's great!

I have fine, low density hair😊and I wear my hair predominantly in an unstructured stretched afro with lots of frizz...people say oh, your hair sooo thick 😅 honestly you can't tell me nothing 😊😊😊But humbly, I say thanks, because God has been gracious to me!

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

Amen sis!👏🏽

Having fine hair is such a PITA though. I’ve been trying to grow out my hair for YEARS, and if i slip up for one or two weeks, it sets me back for months. I just wish my hair was a little bit less fragile.

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

delicate strands we’ve got! keep discovering ways to improve on your routine

The video us fine hair girlies needed!! Thank you 😊

@CoilyDiaries

27 күн бұрын

You’re welcome 😊

I have hair like yours terms of characteristics and this is why i love watching you not only that but also i love watching you because you are real...your content ain't about whats everyone likes but about what is true, the feelings and all that! This topic is one of hat real thing you talk about❤ And yes the pros are true and comes to think of it have anyone wore a heavy wig?! Looks good on pics but if you put it on oooh you will think where is that scissors 😂😂😂😂😂same as natural...looks good but oh firl let it stay on another one had Side note: i love them thick hairs though😂😂😂😂

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

Thanks gorgeous! Great point too👍🩷

I have medium to high density hair, and one thing people often forget is that dense hair is not just dense on your head. It's also dense on your arms, legs, face, etc. I love my hair now, but a dense head of hair for me came at a huge cost. I know that's not true for everyone with high density, but it is for me. Managing body hair can be extremely tedious, but I've learned how to manage it over the years, so now I'm happy with my hair density.

To prevent confusion, we should use these terms: For individual strands: FINE strands> medium strands> COARSE strands For whole head of hair/ density: THIN>medium density>THICK Personally, i have very fine strands, yet medium to thick density. The challenge i face is that heat can easily damage my fine strands, yet in its 4c curly state, it's very thick and i struggle to put it in a woogie unless it's stretched. Pro with my hair: because it's fine, it can stretch easily without heat, so twists. And since it's medium to thick density, twistouts look very full and voluminous. 🎉😊

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

@@pragooutube true…

I have fine , low density hair and I'd like thicker hair. I don't want long hair but I grow my hair for the coverage I get from "shrinkage". I love a dense TWA.

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

love what shrinkage can offer

It’s the sleek buns that I’m a lil jelly of. I did a sleek bun one time and I was fighting for my life. Never again 🙃 but I love the look. Stay pretty ladies ✨

My hair is fine, low porosity and dense, not a good combination. The struggle is real.

@BabesWeAfro

Ай бұрын

This is my hair, though I think mine is medium density.

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

embrace it and continue to love on it ❤️

Loving your content ❤❤

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

@@sihlenatashamasombuka3942 ❤️❤️❤️

I have medium density but course to medium strands and high to medium porosity, medium to small circle hair (tight curly kinky). The longest part of my hair reaches between lower spine to tailbone length. I'm thankful to Jehovah through His Son Jesus for the hair on my head and I agree that thicker fuller hair may be celebrated but the time energy effort and amount of products needed to maintain that hair type Lord bless 'em who has it. I'm cool with what I have. (Psalm 83:18; Rev 4:11) Thanks for sharing 💜🙏🏿💐😀

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

Absolutely 💯

I'm a part of the fine hair team too and I agree that fine hair definitely has a lot of advantages. I spend enough time on my hair as is, I don't want to spent more hours on it. Like you said, thicker hair is always promoted as the best type of hair to have. But there's absolutely nothing wrong with fine hair....it's the hair God blessed us with and it should be embraced. I think it's great that you touched on this topic. It will definitely encourage others, and hopefully, more women will talk about this important subject. Take care and be blessed in Jesus' name!

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

well said! thanks sis

I disagree fine hair tangles up a lot. Fine hair doesn't look nice. I'd never be glad to have finer hair.

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

fair enough sis

@aprilblooms273

29 күн бұрын

Let us fine hair naturals be happy with the video!! lolol

@Scorpiehibiscus

28 күн бұрын

I absolutely hate it

@Bromeliadsss

15 күн бұрын

You gotta find peace where you can or life will be miserable

@aprilblooms273

15 күн бұрын

@@Bromeliadsss so true!!!

I literally just did a video about this. LIke why do we think everyone loves big hair or that thick hair is healthier? No, I love my fine low density 4c. I'd never change a thing about it.

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

I have medium to thick density and haven’t been able to do slick downs. Can you point me to naturalistas that have my kind of hair but have done a sleek bun on their hair? I really want to wear my hair that way without it looking puffy😢

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

@@chisomdebra5128 not knowing how think or what type of hair you have but here is a start kzread.info/dash/bejne/m5iqz9mnn8jKaag.htmlsi=As951jp8aIfxkqTz Natural 85 has sleek her hair down but I think embracing the beauty and texture that comes with the characteristics of your hair. Another way is to stretch or blowout your hair before sleeking it down

@chisomdebra5128

Ай бұрын

@@CoilyDiaries Thanks for always engaging.

@novatastic1111

Ай бұрын

Try taking smaller parts and slicking it down to make it less puffy

I have thick thick hair but i wished I had fine/medium hair couse it's so hard for me to take care of them, and i feel like knotless braids comes prittier with thin hair. English isn't my first linguage so i'm sorry if I writed something wrong.

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

@@Idk-xj4sv hey 👋! The goal is to ultimately love the hair you have! Thick hair has lots of pros too and maybe explore styles that suit thicker hair?

Thanks so much❤

@CoilyDiaries

27 күн бұрын

welcome

Yes genetics plays a roles . However the older we get our density thins out. Sometimes , hormone fluctuations and inflammation can do it also. I am going through lots of pain and have a HUUUUGE FIBROID PROTRUDING , to the point I look 6 mo. Pregnant. So my hair is taking toll. Even though it's trying to grow , it starts thinning out and I can't get it past lower bra strap. Some areas are much longer like 3 in. From tailbone and other parts at the point I mentioned. I've had to cut sections of hair off due to thinning, and that part is at 5-6in. Doesn't bother me , too much, (sometimes it does) I have notice for side note, years ago ( 17yrs now) Before the whole hair movement , when I had my own hair in singles , she grew exceptionally, in one year, new hairs grew in, so my fine hair appeared thicker, So my ancestors came back in numbers but strands were still baby fine.

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

@@angelvenus-africa4161 thanks for sharing this, it’s sooo true

High density hair is more work. I'm happy with my medium density coarse hair.

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

Love your hair accessory ❤ Where did you get it from ?

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

@@missfabidia thank you. It’s an old one I wore for my wedding. Unfortunately can’t remember where I got it

I think my hair texture, density, and strand thickness is a lot like yours. I am content with what God gave me.

@CoilyDiaries

Ай бұрын

love it hair twin 😍

💜👍

Yes the thicker your hair the more work you have to do 😄 but sincerely i love the thickness. I use to dislike it as a teenager because my hair was thicker then before all the relaxers got it but now i want the thickness back and i pray everyday for it😅.