"Can I just say that she's wearing MY shirt to emphasize the point?!" 😂🤣 HER COMPLETELY UNSORRY HUGE SMILE

@menufrog

10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@cclayton1316

10 ай бұрын

Looks good on her

@dinahassan4320

10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂 he is so funny because he’s seriously speaking

@maureenlaneski2802

10 ай бұрын

​@@dinahassan4320My bf just said this morning that those are the funniest moments/people.

@mukthakr3140

10 ай бұрын

😂😂

It's like a therapy session: "I understand my drawbacks, but I am not going to change." 😂

@Mohmaya.89

9 ай бұрын

Lol

@SHH6602

4 ай бұрын

So called self-confidence 😂 love her

@theagrome4592

16 күн бұрын

I thought the same thing. It’s good. They’ll grow old together.

“You never know with men” “I am here for eating” Girl, same! I feel this in my soul! 😂

@bestbeloved2704

8 ай бұрын

ugh the sexism

@chilltarts

8 ай бұрын

@@bestbeloved2704 oh stop it. This is how it can feel for women sometimes. I’m sure men have their own things. It’s not sexism, it’s appreciating the differences between the binary, loving eachother for our faults, and choosing to move on as couple and love those drawbacks rather than get annoyed at them. May you, too, find this kind of love one day. ❤

@NoBetterMeow

3 ай бұрын

It’s true. But I also feel like German Boyfriend though he likes to plan is okay with mama’s spontaneity!

Most of your conversation does not seem to be about being German or Vietnamese, but about being a normal couple with normal different personalities and taste. And coming from a place of love and compassion, you try and accept each other for who you are, while also getting your individual needs met. Best wishes and blessings on your relationship and travels.

@rachellai815

5 ай бұрын

The cultural differences does play a big part .

Real talk: That was INCREDIBLY brave of you both to have an open conversation like that (some couples require YEARS of couples' therapy to get to that level of openness and vulnerability!), let alone on the spot, LET ALONE x2 for doing it on a public forum! Super brave, super honest, super commendable! Everyone take note: That's couple goals.

@angiee_granda

10 ай бұрын

they are together for 7 years, thats enough time to reach this bond

@angiee_granda

10 ай бұрын

@@cheesechurger-tq3nz yeah, sadly those relationships exist. I rather being alone than with someone I can't reach a deep bond and be myself. Also schools should have some kind of education of self awareness to avoid wasting a lifetime with the wrong person, my beautiful mum stayed with my dad for 20 years because until the end she tried to be the best wife and woman, and I would never marry someone like my dad so...

@angiee_granda

10 ай бұрын

@@cheesechurger-tq3nz and I don't have daddy issues, I love him as a dad but I don't have him as a figure of a husband. He has become a better man after losing her

@ceterisparibus8966

10 ай бұрын

​@@cheesechurger-tq3nzonly antisocial and abusive?

@DeathnoteBB

10 ай бұрын

@@cheesechurger-tq3nzThat in no way disproves what they said

my golden rule for traveling with another person is: you don't have to do everything together. you can split up and meet again in the evening, share stories & plan the next activities together.

@saschab.7154

10 ай бұрын

Your are not married,aren't you?!😉😂

@MsAaannaaa

10 ай бұрын

@@saschab.7154 I was :D and traveling wasn't the reason we separated :D

@DarlingMartyr

10 ай бұрын

@@saschab.7154 I mean, even when married together, if you don't have time for individual needs, relaxation and freedom you're bound to strangle each other sooner or later...

@reader1236

10 ай бұрын

@@saschab.7154 You don't have to do everything together on holiday when you're married either. Unless, of course, you don't trust each other. 😐

@Mirabellism

10 ай бұрын

I'm married and we separate when one of us is tired and wants to chill for example. It isn't a thing, we are still two persons (who trust each other).

My mom is Middle Eastern and my dad is Dutch. Your cultural differences are so similar to those of my parents, and I ended up being a mix of those.

@sit-insforsithis1568

8 ай бұрын

NEDERLANDJEEEEE😂

@Nadia-ox1kf

8 ай бұрын

Did they survive? 😭 I cannot imagine having different travel preferences. Like I don’t travel with some of my closest friends because we have such different expectations of what a vacation looks like and it’s too expensive to go to a diff country just to not have a good time.

@val-schaeffer1117

3 ай бұрын

So your parents are NOT a mixed race couple.

@ktw5141

2 ай бұрын

not mix race mixed culture.

You guys are so wholesome. This video feels like sitting with friends with a cup of coffee, sharing and listening to each other's frustrations in couple life.

@Lonelyone1111

9 ай бұрын

They r wesome

@helgamossmer2974

9 ай бұрын

@@Lonelyone1111😅

@tameriz1280

19 күн бұрын

Fr, I'm getting too invested in parasocial relationship with them😂😭

I would love to see Uyen and German Boyfriend say what they like about traveling together and what they like about each other in general, too. It's always helpful to reaffirm the good things after you've had time to air legitimate grievances.

@blueseal1425

10 ай бұрын

I want to hear the good things too!

@Laura-kl7vi

10 ай бұрын

I was surprised they didn't do that at the end. But my bet is they did off the video. Uyen was feeling a little stressed toward the end.

@pandamon8681

10 ай бұрын

YES plz! I'd love to see good things too! And plz, less cuts when German BF speaks.. I like you both, plz!

@parker.100

10 ай бұрын

I came here to say that!

@Lehopele

9 ай бұрын

Same!

African boyfriend will happily eat once a day. And he'll happily eat the exact same meal over and over. He tried to train me into the same habits on a 5 week trip and discovered that hangery me is not fun!

@Pollicina_db

10 ай бұрын

Which country? I mean Africa is pretty big

@coconut2184

10 ай бұрын

You’re dating a man and you don’t know where he is specifically from? Africa is literally the second largest continent with the most countries in the entire world and is very diverse…and y’all are still out here talking about it as if it’s some small village with only one ethnicity and race. It’s embarrassing.

@LuckyFlanker13

10 ай бұрын

@@coconut2184don’t jump on the OP, give them a moment to clarify.

@barbaraspeckarmy

10 ай бұрын

@@coconut2184 well we often speak here about a "Westener" and an "Asian" lady, so the generalizing is surely not meant in a bad way.

@Marie.b

10 ай бұрын

​@@barbaraspeckarmyvery well said!

The audible eye rolls from German BF are THE BEST 😂😂😂😂 Your two are so cute together ❤

"What do you like to eat?" "Everything else." That made me laugh out loud. A very enjoyable visit with Uyen and German Boyfriend.

I'm German, but while traveling I might be more like Uyen. Good food is one of the important things while traveling. I like to visit like at most one or two sights in one day. And relax the Rest. Perfect vacation for me is alternating one day of doing something planned and the next day just relax.

@MrRobsn89

10 ай бұрын

Yes I am also like this, food, chill and a bit of visiting :P But I can understand BFs view of making yt videos so often in holdiday...

@doodahgurlie

10 ай бұрын

@@MrRobsn89 If she was doing it because she feels she HAS to put out content to make money, then yes. But the way she made it sound, she actually enjoys doing the videos. It sounds like being creative energizes and rejuvenates her, so that's a totally different story if it's not something tedious or mundane that has to be done.

@0815Horst

10 ай бұрын

Same!

@jackiedelvalle

10 ай бұрын

​@@MrRobsn89Exactly the same: amazing local food is my main interest, then bit of sightseeing/experiences, but of course chilling and relaxing.

@angelicarosas5758

10 ай бұрын

Sounds like a dream.

I feel you about being ignored. I'm Asian married to an American. Sometimes I feel like I should wear a sign containing my salary so people know that I am more than capable of taking care of myself and I am not with him for financial reasons or visa purposes. I tried to just ignore it when we first got together but when it happens over and over again, it becomes annoying and sad.

@art_wild_west

10 ай бұрын

There was a short video saying that she DID marry for visa in the end 😂

@ArgusStrav

10 ай бұрын

Where does this happen? In the US? Or in Asia? Or both?

@keely3003

10 ай бұрын

@@ArgusStrav I've not been to the US. The sad part is this is mostly from my own countrymen. We get it from other Asian countries too but they're less...idk, obvious or aggressive, I guess.

@kimberlywilson7929

10 ай бұрын

That's infuriating. I'm so sorry people treat you like this.

@Tavat

10 ай бұрын

That happens to my Korean wife, too. Especially in India, men only talked to me and didn’t even acknowledge her. I felt pretty bad about that

I agree with Uyen that a big part of travel is the food! :D I also agree that lying around by the pool, relaxing and doing what you enjoy is important when on holiday if that’s what makes you feel content 😊

Oh my god I feel this so hard😭 I’m American and traveling for me is like “let’s see EVERYTHING” and for my Japanese bf he wants to relax and do everything slow. I understand the idea but I just feel like I’m wasting money when it’s something I can do at home😫 this is why we do couple’s trips and I still do solo trips sometimes 😂

@nickleturtle

8 ай бұрын

I'm American and my husband is Japanese and I was gonna say the exact opposite 😂 He has to have everything planned down to the minute while I like to be more spontaneous. Guess it just comes down to personal differences

@Toribell1928

8 ай бұрын

@@nickleturtle true I guess it’s just a couple’s differences more than anything😄

@istoppedcaring6209

7 ай бұрын

that's good but please make sure to often assure him that you love him, guys get affraid of being left to and you know

The German man can never pack too many socks for his sandals. BTW: Speaking from personal experience, you also find these problems in couples from the same culture...

@notmything6629

10 ай бұрын

Sandals look so stupid . Especially in a country with more than 30 degree all the time...just wear good flip flops

@hollywebster6844

10 ай бұрын

Yes, and it's not always the male of the hetero couple that is prepared!

@Iflie

10 ай бұрын

Haha yeah he needs it for the 4k trips that are most def8initly 20 if you know german "going for a walk"

@designdoctor247

10 ай бұрын

​@@hollywebster6844😂😅😂😅 i am the over prepaired one. i relate

@designdoctor247

10 ай бұрын

6:32 her smile 😊 this is AWESOME!!! She appreciates u!!!

This. This is what relationships are. This is exactly what every relationship should be. Both able to not just compromise, but to fully understand and accept the things that annoy each other, and to talk about those things openly. You 2 are adorable, I really hope you have enjoyed your holiday ❤

"You can not be over prepared!" That is clearly a sign of someone who IS over prepared ;-)

5:06 "I think that traveling is mostly about food, so I'm here for eating good food." -- YES, SISTER. I don't know if you have been to Italy yet, but OMG soooo much amazing food there! I married an Italian, not just for the food, but let's just say, such an amazing perk! 😋🍝🍷 (Edited to add, I am 25% German, but this holds true for 100% of my desired meals, haha! And you two are cute as heck!)

As an Indonesian I agree with uyen about food. Sorry german fiance. Getting specialty food is my main reason to travel. Oh and also I need specialty snacks in between 😂😂😂😂

@angelinasandra4721

10 ай бұрын

But for the planning before travel I'm on german fiancee's side 😊 but I'm more flexible hehe

@sephinarose420

10 ай бұрын

Agreed

@lnt305

10 ай бұрын

German here. Exclusively choose travel destinations by the cuisine. Don’t know what’s wrong with him. 😂

@p.s.224

10 ай бұрын

There are people who view food as just fuel. And then there are people who enjoy food. I definitely am with Uyen on this one, and I am German. I don’t understand German Boyfriend there.

@NobodyDrinksFromMyGal

10 ай бұрын

I agree with them both there. It's nice to get fancy food sometimes, but usually I just want something plain and simple, like a ham and cheese sammich or a gas station hotdog. Yup, I have no class. 😋

I'm a spanish woman with a german boyfriend and we have the exact same discussions about what is normal to eat. It's so funny to see someone else having the same problems haha.

@kathleenwisialowski4558

9 ай бұрын

So It's the GB that have problems. They are the common denominator afterall.😂

@fujikokun

9 ай бұрын

I feel like as an American this is a problem I could just never have. All food is awesome!

@MissCaraMint

9 ай бұрын

Yeah. My mom and dad are American and Norwegian. There is definitely some culture clash in the food department.

@mirofeya

9 ай бұрын

Why agrue? Just check out what health professionals say: you need at least 3/5 warm/nutritionals per day to have healthy guts. Eating just bread as your major food source isn't healthy.

@tobiMelka

9 ай бұрын

@@mirofeya RAW Food Eaters would categorically disagree with you ;)

I love to see that you guys can talk about your struggles and gripes, and acknowledge when one person is in the wrong and vice versa

I am a Chinese that got adopted into a Belgian family. We're quite similar to Germans - I prepare very well too! My suitcase is already laying fully prepared on the floor for 2 weeks before I go on holiday. And I will look up reviews of the hotels and restaurants in the area AND pin them on my Google Maps. - I do like sleeping relatively long on vacation. I have 32 paid vacation days per year so I don't feel very guilty about it. If I go with my parents, I do get up early because otherwise they will say: "GET UP EARLY BECAUSE OTHERWISE YOUR DAY IS WAISTED??!!" - I love seafood and squid too! My Dutch boyfriend likes it too. We ate seafood ramen at Wagamama and he got an allergic reaction.. We don't know what actually made his throat swell up a little bit, but he doesn't eat seafood ramen anymore.

@Stiasteny

9 ай бұрын

WASTED** oops I made a typo

I feel like this was one of the more real videos we’ve seen. You can tell these are genuinely things that get on each others nerves. And that’s okay. So much of social media makes it seem like these are not part of a healthy relationship and to be avoided at all costs, but these are things that are normal and healthy. Obviously they can get out of hand, but you shouldn’t give up on a relationship because of some friction. And you should talk about them. One thing to suggest, it is okay to do things separately. I like traveling and seeing places with other people, but I also like getting out on my own. It gives you some control over your own itinerary and gives you something to talk about later. This is obviously not as possible everywhere, but a good thing to keep in mind.

Hahaha! I'm with German BF - planners have a hard time traveling with non-planning, spontaneous folks. I think compromise is important. When I travel with my non-planning friends, I give them options of things to do, but also only plan one 'big' thing per day. Then there are optional things we can do any time if we are feeling up to it. I think it helps strike a balance between those of us with the FOMO who think you can be lazy at home for free whenever and folks who want to go on vacation to relax AND do things. :)

@gaelle4328

10 ай бұрын

Jupp we do this as well and if we are more than 3 people we have dinner together but choose whether or not to do stuff together during the day.

@leilanifujimoto2116

10 ай бұрын

Agreed. For me I just really need to have a place to sleep booked or I get anxious; the exact activities can be researched so we have ideas but decided on later if need be

@grandmasgopnik9642

10 ай бұрын

The hotel part o agree I have to plan these things I need a place to stay and a way there and back! He is right it is left for reason 😅. Other than that I’m pretty chill.

@Laura-kl7vi

10 ай бұрын

No danger of taking it too seriously. @@channelchen

@Haexxchen

10 ай бұрын

This is a good compromise. I do it too. Like I will come with a travel document of which things you could do there, when they are open and different days you could do them, also I have a weather report. I feel prepared, but my friends can pick and choose daily.

seriously: getting the best food possible is number one priority when traveling.

I'd love to travel with her. 💚 It's a vacation! Sleeping in, staying up late, eating all the good foods, chilling at the pool......PERFECT! I have a physical job and up early 6 days a week. If I'm on vacation I'm taking it easy. 😆 Edit: As another person posted, you don't have to do EVERYTHING together.

Uyen’s editing and comedic sense are next level.

@moxiebombshell

10 ай бұрын

Especially to find out that she's not only shooting most of her videos the same day she posts them, but she's also coming up with the concept the same day, too!! 🤯

American here 🇺🇸. Married 48 years to another American who grew up in the same city. We have the same struggles, more personality traits than culture. ❤

@hollylanevintagetreasures

10 ай бұрын

Agree, sounds like personality differences.

@zumeraaa

10 ай бұрын

Yes! I travel with a sibling and it’s the same story haha. I’m not spontaneous and want to prepare, they want to be spontaneous and do minimal planning.

@Laura-kl7vi

10 ай бұрын

...AND also, cultures do in fact have "personality traits" themselves, ie tendencies. Americans Tend to be more open than English people (particularly Southern England) Germans, for example, tend to be planful and punctual. And Italians run later than the specified time. It doesn't mean that every single person is because within the one culture people vary

@Yatagurusu

10 ай бұрын

I could see an aspect of it being cultural. In our countries if you make plans. Something can ruin it. Like a storm. Like traffic (not American traffics with "rush hours", just jams at complete random times) not to mention any public transport we have is at the whim of God. Then theres things like businesses and restaurants may close randomly and go on holiday? Basically making hard, definitive plans in our countries has often been impossible. So people are much more go with the flow. If someone turns up three hours late, no fuss no muss, just carry on the plans and theyll turn up when they do. And even if you may be an orderly person. How will you function when everyone arounds you turns up hours apart? Youll gradually become used to it and do it yourself. Of course I dont mean to say personality is irrelevant and no western person is like this. Its just the conditions where you are and where we are breeds different people generally.

@moirapettifr7127

10 ай бұрын

My husband is 100% German but his family has been in America for 4 generations. They do Christmas on Christmas Eve. They glorify sausages which they obtain from the family's German butcher. They eat rabbit and strange parts of pigs. They are snooty about American beer. Bread must be crusty and hard. They name their dogs Shotzie.

Thanks for sharing, it’s really refreshing to hear you guys speak honestly. Even though there are things you don’t see eye to eye on, maybe sounds like not completely ready to compromise, I can still feel there’s still respect for each other and understanding the other. I hope you will find happy middle ground! ❤

Don't be too hard on yourself! This is an awesome video and I'm so glad that you both share these things with us and with one another. We all go through these things, they just don't get talked about enough ❤

I (german)will travel with my girlfriend (vietnamese) to vietnam tomorrow. We will stay for 3-4 weeks. She already told me, that she is not planning anything and we just go with the flow. I am happy she told me that so i can mentally prepare myself for it. Luckily i like most of the seafood and i got an open tounge for new food. I think what is very important before traveling is to tell the partner what you expect for the trip.

@istoppedcaring6209

7 ай бұрын

how did it go?

@sofiaoltremare6232

3 ай бұрын

Your last sentence is the core even of the whole relationship, the life, the marriage! Absolutely the best!! 🤗🤗🙏🏻🙏🏻🍀🙆🏻‍♀️

It is a beautiful thing to be able to disagree and still laugh with eachother.

@wrentaieb8727

10 ай бұрын

Thats normal 🤨

@everythingisfine9988

9 ай бұрын

It's called mutual respect. If you don't have it, you don't have a relation

Hello guys! I'm from Greece and I like u, but most Uyen, cause I come from a traditional family too! I also enjoy the fact that u, Uyen, respect ur introvert bf, but at the same time u show details of ur relationship, so that we can learn more about how relationships really work! We also learn about life and people in Germany! I wish u the best! 😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

At 5:03 you can see that we still accept that women use physical violence against man while the other way around this would be considered as harassment. Putting food as the top priority will prevent you from achieving exciting things. There are no excotic places that have a burger bar around the corner. Exciting places are typically lonely.

I feel like their vacations should be split into parts, like a few days for German Boyfriend to pack the itinerary (although let Uyen have a lunch), then a couple of days for Uyen to film (with perhaps preplanned suggestions from GB), and then sprinkle in an all-inclusive or something similar so that Uyen can sleep in get up slowly and they can both eat their preferred foods, and Uyen can have some time to edit (or film not on location), and then repeat for as many days and locations as are practicable.

@Haexxchen

10 ай бұрын

Here is my German families vacation formula: (Protect the secret with your towel, k?) Cleaning and packing - just make sure to come back to a clean house. It will ensure your rested self does not panick when coming home. Clean up, check the fridge and change the sheets. Have a space to unload the suit cases out of the way. Arrival day - just orient yourself and unpack what needs unpacking. The next 3 days are a loop, do as often as wanted: Action day - Do something really cool and fun like camel riding, snorking or hikingh up a mountain. You are supposed to be aching a little tomorrow. Sight Seeing day - today you go to a city or a museum. Expect to walk 10k + km today and have your feet aching. Buy souveniers, take photoes and enjoy one or two restaurants. Relax day - lay at the pool and get drunk the whole day. Action day will wake you up enough. Rest yxour feet today. Feel luxorious and if possible book all inclusive for these days. Departure day - start packing in the evening and make sure the last day was a relax day. Depending on where you were to the onion look, so you won't be freezing at arrival. When home, put your suitcases into a corner and relax Unnpack - the next day and do the washing. Don't have the suit cases stand there for days and remind ou of your vacation with "work". Invite friends for drinks and show them the pictures.

@salomesandroshvili6711

9 ай бұрын

​@@Haexxchenwow that is so detailed 😂 please give us other planning tips too

@HappyTobeHere89

9 ай бұрын

​@@Haexxchenthank you! You're awesome for sharing.

@johnnyearp52

9 ай бұрын

My boyfriend and I are both white Americans and he wants to exercise non-stop. Hiking or walking. I want to do things more slowly. I am pickier on food. He wants to eat the cheapest food. We both like exploring though.

Best part of the video was when Uyen said she feared that the German boyfriend will abandon her during the trip 😂😂😂 Anyhow, not all couples are so open about such issues. It's great that you guys have fun talking about the challenges in your relationship. I can feel the love between you😍

@karinbergman1646

9 ай бұрын

🌷💗🌷

@eboh23peace

9 ай бұрын

Wow, great sharing. Mmmm holidays are amazing. Each are entitled to relax as they wish because you are looking forward to doing what things you like to do.....then when you go, it looks like this video😂 because you're clashing with different 'want to dos' and expectations/reality of the here and now, while on holiday. Good on you both, for giving this idea a go. I hope it helps The situation or makes it easier. You are two people after all who are trying to blend in together on a daily basis.👏🏾👏🏾 good luck! I would be like your German bf, up early, eaten and out before 9am at least. Love to walk too. Maybe each do daily things on your own. Some together. I probably would. ❤😇👍🏾💞💕

I had this with a friend. She was a totally different type to spend her days. So we split up for a lot of days, and we were both very happy. Still doing things together

Your relationship is perfect with all your imperfections as a couple, you complement each other perfectly.

Greetings from Leipzig :) Being married to a Filipina I can absolutely relate to your struggles since they are nearly the same in our relationship. It kinda has to do something with cultural stereotypes. I like to plan after the motto "Be prepared for everything, but expect nothing", so I am able to help myself in any situation. My wife is way more spontanious and likes to live in the moment rather than in advance. "Five minutes before the time is the german puncuality" while being one hour late is stil concidered the filipino "on time" (You kinda get an idea how many mental outbreaks I had on this :D ) She likes to chill on vacation while I like to explore the places we see. She rather slurps cocktails at the beach while I am snorkeling. But if it comes to food I am with Uyen. Food is a fundamental part of the local culture an the one thing to explore which both can enjoy. Nevertheless, it is these opposites that attracted us int the first place, help our relationship to grow and made us the couple we are today. In fact we started doing things the way the other one usually does, like I have become more spontanious in my planing while appreciates to sometimes think things a bit through in advance and so on. You two guys have the most important thing ehich is your honesty towards each other and the ability to comrpomise. You look so happy in your videos and I hope this is not just an illusion. My wife and I love your content since it ha so many parallels to our relationship and brings us so much laughter. Keep going :)

@MHG1023

9 ай бұрын

I can confirm this. Being married to a Filipina for 17yrs now and it´s the same issues (food wise in particular) but we deal with them just as you and Uyen with her boyfriend do it. The difference is just that I´m the lazy one and my wife makes too much arrangements and puts too many schedules on my precious vacation time ...😂

@rvolution

9 ай бұрын

Depends. I'm Indonesian but I like snorkeling and going on adventures looking for places that aren't crowded. Some of my friends are like me, while others prefer to what we called "pretty-travel". I always arrive 15 minutes before, but I admit that others are often late. Usually those who are used to coming on time are those who are used to working in large companies so that this carries over to everyday life (at least that's what I observe in my social circle).

@Gemueseknolle

9 ай бұрын

I totally can relate to German boyfriend

@landhausidyll3185

8 ай бұрын

I am a filipina married to a german man for 19 years. I guess I am not the typical filipina. I love the outdoors, traveling, discovering and I LOVE to be prepared. I am so prepared that my husband doesn't need to worry about anything. Whenever he tells me while on a trip, "too bad I didn't bring/I forgot...." then I just hand it to him and he's like - "I love you so much!" haha! I am a 100% girls scout. I saved him from pickpocketers, embarassment lol and would-be-accidents because I am THAT prepared. But I am not uptight mind you. I am fun like most filipinas ;-D

@asdf-gh8vd

7 ай бұрын

I'm a Filipino and grew up in the PH. I loathe the Filipino time.

I can relate to the FOMO mindset. Because, you may never visit that place again, and if you do, it probably won't be the same place. Things change.

@p.s.224

10 ай бұрын

Definitely true, but food should be part of the experience. I would get FOMO about great food if I were to travel with somebody who views food as just fuel.

@rustknuckleirongut8107

10 ай бұрын

I have FOMO about missing out on a chill time relaxing. I run around and stress trying to do as much as possible at work. If I do that on holiday I feel like I should just have kept working and saved the money. Sometimes stopping and letting the experiences catch up to you is more relaxing than chasing around after something you might not even find.

@Lampoonlongtails

10 ай бұрын

@@rustknuckleirongut8107 True. You can't enjoy the sweet cent of the flowers, if you don't stop running by.

@kpwxx

10 ай бұрын

I read something in a museum once about how there being too many lovely things to see and do actually results in more stress as people tend to view them as a checklist. So trying to adjust and remember you can never do everything and focus on the joy that the things you *do* get to do brings can be really helpful. The museum exhibit was about free time/hobbies but I think it def applies to holidays too!

@kimberlywilson7929

10 ай бұрын

Same. I want to see the best of any place I go.

You literally described my husband and I to a T. We're both American and he likes to create a detailed itinerary to see everything and I'm just like let's see when we get there LOL. I hope you had a nice time traveling and memorable experiences. Also, I understand Uyen's desire to experience the fresh and lovingly prepared seafood dishes of Asia.

I love hearing you both sharing your cultural and personality differences.

I like the idea of this video. Thats why the internet was invented, so we can know more about each other's cultures. Beautiful couple💕

@stefanfalldorf6573

10 ай бұрын

Sorry, but the internet was invented for cat videos and those far behind romantic videos 😁

@mygirldarby

10 ай бұрын

Actually the US invented it for academic sharing.

@hunger28772

10 ай бұрын

​@@stefanfalldorf6573 i think internet invented for everything, remember you are not something you born with, you are what you want and we grow everyday

I love this video for several reasons but the one I wanted to share was how healthy it feels to see another couple that has to compromise (and is willing to do so) on the internet instead of the perfect picture.

I love how authentic you both are! Thank you for sharing 🥰

I love these guys, I've always been afraid of being in relationships, but their videos are like the best lessons for having good ones.

The slow zooms on Uyen’s reactions as German Boyfriend talks are so good.

You *can* be overprepared. Uyen makes a good point: if you bring extra stuff that you never use, that you had no chance of using, that's inefficient, because you have to pay more for more luggage on the flight and carry it around with you everywhere. That, is being "overprepared."

@nelliebly6616

10 ай бұрын

But the luggage is for all the things he wanted to do........

@cuclainne

10 ай бұрын

If you fly a non-budget airline and stay within your allocated baggage limit, you don't need to pay extra.. and they're already quite generous.

@blarfroer8066

10 ай бұрын

If you have to prepare for your underprepared partner as well, you're not being overprepared.

@lilbatz

10 ай бұрын

Team 1 backpack carry for three weeks in Japan. I'm NOT checking luggage. Domestically, I'll FEDEX anything big I really need to the site. I'm not schlepping stuff around like a mule on vacation.

@notmything6629

10 ай бұрын

You can sell your kilo's for locals

The issue you guys have in your relationship is veryyyyyyy normal and almost every couple have these small differences which are completely okay as far as you guys love and have respect for eachother which is very important lota of lovee ❤️❤️❤️

I love this and love both of you so much. There's beauty in difference and learning from each other!

I‘m German but at least when it comes to food I‘m with Uyen.

@Pollicina_db

10 ай бұрын

Yeah who knows when you’ll be back in that country, its the only chance to eat their food

@p.s.224

10 ай бұрын

Same

@vomm

10 ай бұрын

But if you eat too much and like insane three times a day you're too tired for some activities. It's much better to see things but most people just want to eat all the time

@SeemsOffTopic

10 ай бұрын

Well i travel alot and if i eat 3 times a day in a restaurant you could roll me after some weeks. I normaly go for the must haves, like special food the country is famous for but not 3 times a day. Next to this getting a food poisoning will ruin your trip super fast

@raempftl

10 ай бұрын

@@vommNot necessarily going to a restaurant but more like trying to find something nice to eat instead of just something filling. It’s part of the cultural experience of the place you traveled to.

I'm Dutch and I identify completely with Uyen. I find planning things creates expectations which opens the door for disappointment! I never try to visit all the hot spots when I'm somewhere because then you're just busy completing a tickbox rather than living in the moment and enjoying yourself :) although I do struggle with spending hours trying to find the perfect place to eat as well!! 🙈

I love how you chat your differences and still have an understanding with each other. LOVE is BLIND!

I had a German brother in law and I lived in Germany study German for one year so I can relate to lots of things you said in the video, now I am in US and have a US boyfriend so there’s another cultural thing too. I wish you two happy and enjoy the differences cause that makes the life so much fun too!

I'm neither Vietnamese nor German but I'm definitely a mix of both of you when it comes to travelling! I overpack, don't like seafood and would definitely rather book where I'm staying early. But holidays are for relaxing and enjoying lots of yummy food (at least three times a day!). You two are so cute together though, it's really lovely to see.

This is the first video I have seen the dynamics of your relationship, you guys are such a perfect fit. The commonalities mesh, but your opposite character "flaws" complete the other person.

You guys are amazing! And its great to hear these stories, it brings a nice bit of insight into the struggles and fun bits of a mixed couple! Wish you all the best and a lot of fun on the remainder of your trip!

You guys are ADORABLE! I love these videos. Enjoy your time together!!

I love how they both still find ways to compromise even through their different opinions ❤

This couple bring me joy

That is the perfect way of being a couple. Thanks for sharing!!I hope young couples learn a lot from you!

This provides an amazing example of how it's okay to disagree or to be in conflict in a relationship, and that all that matters is how you deal with it. That's a very sweet video, thank you ❤❤

UYEN'S SMILE IS SO GORGEOUS AND HAPPY WITH GERMAN BOYFRIEND!! i love u guys and am so happy for ypur relationship😂

Hehe, I want to show this video to my German husband. Your conversation is so relatable and yet the love you have for each other is also very palpable. May we never stop being able to laugh at these "little differences" while doing the work to overcome them together😉❤

It’s the Relaxed vs Anxious traveler archetypes. A classic conflict! Been there, done that. It’s frustrating for sure.

Hearing them laught is so heart warming ❤

Actually my husband is like her, snacking is a lifestyle. I compromised. We’re now Food Adventurers when we travel 🌸 lounging will help you combat the 40C heat, avoid dehydration 😊

I think a lot is different personalities as much as cultural differences. Both of your ways of travelling are great. As you say, it’s about compromise so both get to do their thing. ❤

@jrivas8112

10 ай бұрын

I agree, it's more about personality, not everything is abou him being german. Not all the germans are the same. I identify myself rather with him, and I'm not german. On the other hand, I have a german friend which is more similar to her.

@Sorrely1

10 ай бұрын

@@jrivas8112yes I agree. There are traits that are more common in one culture than in another, but everyone is different and prefers different things.

You two are perfect for each other. True opposites who attract. Such a wonderful loving couple! :)

You two are so relaxing and wholesome to watch

My partner and I also have different takes on how to 'relax;. I'm very much the person who wants to see everything, eat everything and do everything. My vacations are literally planned by the hour. I do NOT like to sit around because I feel like it is a waste of time (If I was going to sit, I'd sit at home). But I've learned to compromise also. This is what helps build a healthy relationship. To share a life with someone means you are not longer just doing everything for yourself.

@nanwijanarko1969

10 ай бұрын

I can relate to you. However, it confuses me because I changed between both depending on my mental state. Sometimes I was really FOMO and wanted to do everything and felt that clock was ticking, so we had to MOVE. However some other time, when I don't have the motivation, I was really happy enough with staying at the hotel or cafe nearby with people who are dear to me. Not even talking or doing anything, just chilling together. ... I sound like a nightmare travel buddy 😂 fortunately my SO was even more flexible and can accommodate me

@Eyefornow

10 ай бұрын

Planned per hour? Jesus

@Laura-kl7vi

10 ай бұрын

Right. I'm in the middle. I get FOMO and understand "If I want to sit, I'd sit at home". At the same time, I"m on my precious vacation and if I'm doing so much I can't relax,I can't feel like I"m on vacation. I think the latter feeling is what drives some of us who can't plan every hour/minute. Me, I"d plan a few things to do every day and definitely something special for the nights. And I can plan what I will definitely want to see but don't' have to plan the day till we get there.

@MSWMW

10 ай бұрын

@@EyefornowYup, that's how I do. I do not fly 12 hours into a nice tropical place to waste any time.

Thanks for being vulnerable and letting us know of your FOMO, German boyfriend. ❤ Now it makes more sense to me. I think FOMO is a thing people of all cultures have, not a German thing at all. (But being punctual and over planning probably is. 😅)

@Laura-kl7vi

10 ай бұрын

One thing though, in European and American guides for traveling to S.E. Asia, they are going to tell you to bring things like first aid supplies and medications. Someone who is From S.E Asia may not stress over that. It looks like he does really overplan, but also Uyen may feel typical Westerner-traveling-in-non-Western-country planning would be too much.

@yokoakimura

10 ай бұрын

One thing I had to learn is that “here is an efficient way to do everything” is often a bad plan. A good plan includes gauging the abilities of everyone in the party, and planning accordingly. I bet German boyfriend has some backpacking experience, but this is a VERY important thing in backpacking because you must be at the pace of the slowest person, and improper planning will result in accidents or running out of food. Maximizing group utility is my usual goal for plans, and I feel like things one misses out on is always replaced with other things. You might have to sacrifice an hour of sleep to catch an extra event, and end up with a more tired and grouchy partner. Likewise, some events you miss out on make way for comforting moments or relaxation that might make you even happier. FOMO sounds very tough to deal with, but it’s definitely bad for effective plan building.

I enjoyed watching you both. You both have great sense of humor and you know the opposites attract is very true!

Uyen: Vacationer German boyfriend: Traveller

I love the honesty of both and the problems they explain they struggle with while travelling as a mixed couple.

Talking about these things is also therapeutic. It's good to get things off your chests. It's not going to be sunshine and roses 24/7, but what these guys have is pretty dammed close. They make it work and if you put the work into something, you reap the benefits.Loving this journey😊

I love this video honesty truly is the key

You guys are different but accept and complement each other so well. I love to witness your dynamic. What's most important tho is that you need to compromise a bit and keep a good sense of humour about everything, and love each other, it will work out then for sure.

i feel like you both brought up some constructive criticisms, but maybe your boyfriend has a point.. enjoy your holiday, and spend time just traveling and being there, instead of burdening yourself with work, even when you're away on vacation. you deserve it, and it obviously is impacting your relationship to a degree

@doodahgurlie

10 ай бұрын

Based on what she said, she enjoys the work, so it's not a burden. If you're creative, sometimes the energy flows into you and you have to get it done while it's still hot. If it was tedious for her, then it's a different story. It's something that appears to energize her, though.

@Angelus9015

10 ай бұрын

I understand how she feels because I also can’t turn off my brain during vacation. When I have an idea, I need to write it down and immediately execute it before I lose the inspiration. And when you’re in the flow, it’s hard to stop until it’s done.

@doodahgurlie

10 ай бұрын

@@Angelus9015 Yep. And I think those whom are creative recognize this. You have to jump on it while you feel it because if you put it off, then it will disappear and there goes the creative inspiration and zest/desire to do it. Creative energy cannot really be controlled and harnessed to be used at a later time like that for some of us.

I agree that it’s a personality thing more than cultural thing. If one doesn’t have the energy-whether to walk or look for places to eat three times in a day-it can be pretty exhausting on a month-long trip. Find ways to energize yourself separately for sometime (for German BF, it could be something that he wants to see that Uyen is not so interested in; and for Uyen, it could be eating at a restaurant that German BF doesn’t want to be at) so that when you are together, you have abundance of good energy and are happy to spend that time together.

This made me smile so much. I can see how differences can lead to fighting but as long as you have respect and empathy for each other, it doesn’t have to be a big deal.

Aww they're so cute! You hear annoyance amd joy at the same time!❤

Watching y'all address your conflicts in healthy ways is wonderful. 😊

I’m Canadian and absolutely a cross between the two of you! I love planning flights and hotels well in advance and walking a lot, but I also like to keep activities spontaneous, pack light, and spend lots of time and money on local food.

@kimberlywilson7929

10 ай бұрын

I think I'm like you.

@gerricamus2718

10 ай бұрын

Ditto here

@sharonshin4421

10 ай бұрын

Same here! ☺️

@karenbernadettemanalu9424

9 ай бұрын

SAME HERE

@mercury_rising

9 ай бұрын

Me too. Fellow Canadian here.

Lmao. Y’all are cracking me up with the bickering 😂❤

I admire how you perceive your differences as a source of strength rather than weakness in the relationship. It is unique and extremely precious.

This was beautiful. Keep the lines of communication going and you two will do great things together. Much love to you both❤

I really like this video! Online dating can make it very easy to dismiss people over small differences. It's great to be reminded that they really aren't make or break you as a couple! 💜

You are amazing. Your videos always make me smile. Your fiancé is also amazing. I love how supportive he is of you and the content you create. The two of you are making the world a nicer place to live in. With all the bad news in the world its nice to come across videos that make people smile. Also I would get annoyed if people ignored me and made me feel invisible. I think you have gently (and kindly) touched on the racism you experience - I think it's an important thing to raise awareness on.

Hi there, thank you so much to you both for sharing honestly, bravely and openly. I am an asian married to a german for almost 20 years! We have been in Germany for 12 years now and have travelled around Europe and Asia together. I so know what you are talking about and feel you both. I hope you both had a great holiday in Asia!

This video made my day. Thank you Uyen. Seeing the two of you banter and laugh gave me so much joy that I needed

I love that y’all laugh while you complain about each other! That’s the best way to do it, the self awareness helps!

I love this and love both of you so much. There's beauty in difference and learning from each other! This made me laugh so much

I had fun watching your video. I felt like you were old friends because you shared typical problems that couples encounter. Continue having fun 😊

Good food is very important. I am with Uyen on this point.

“You can do that home!” “I know! And I can do it here, too! It’s amazing!” ❤

I love these two. This channel is great. I like the food videos the most.

I relate with German boyfriend. I struggle with anxiety and sensory processing sensitivity, and a lot of things you mention about his habits, food choices, password vigilance and not wanting to be filmed all ring a bell with me. But I also struggle with executive dysfunction, so I can relate to a portion of Uyen as well (because I forget to pack things or forget details about the trip that would help me be prepared). Even when I think I am planning and being so prepared, there are usually gaps that I didn’t realize would be there.