Pour Minds - Episode 179 - Don't Gas Me Up

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Hey y’all this episode we discuss seeking approval from other races, gaslighting yourself, and more!
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  • @lisajayne4425
    @lisajayne44252 жыл бұрын

    Be careful telling Ninjas what you want, it opens the lane for them to play the role to pull you in. You need to know to yourself what you want and observe his actions. If the red flags start to appear, see him for who he is, which is not for you and haul tail!

  • @beautyfolse4249

    @beautyfolse4249

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️🎯 This comment needs to be pinned.

  • @benjijack9517

    @benjijack9517

    2 жыл бұрын

    Be careful dealing with the wrong people. Since a child we been told never judge a book by its cover just bc a man knows how to carry himself like a king doesn't mean he is one 💯💯💯

  • @bravesexystrong6941

    @bravesexystrong6941

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! Don’t give anyone the playbook to your heart.

  • @ShaeDaily

    @ShaeDaily

    2 жыл бұрын

    I used to tell my gf this all the time. Don’t give them the cheat code…literally

  • @brittdabee5278
    @brittdabee52782 жыл бұрын

    A lot of “white” people don’t even be checking for us. Racial anxiety is real.

  • @Paradiselounge

    @Paradiselounge

    Жыл бұрын

    Yea I agree . It’s conditioning . Also divide and conquer is a real thing, I wish we could all come together as one .

  • @shayonce_
    @shayonce_2 жыл бұрын

    Lex had a lot of names in her lifetime. 😂 I just found y’all, and this podcast has me in a chokehold 😂

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂❤️❤️

  • @elashamoss4539

    @elashamoss4539

    2 жыл бұрын

    And Drea's face everytime🤣🤣

  • @videogworl
    @videogworl2 жыл бұрын

    Lex is really a gem😭

  • @alaneofmyown
    @alaneofmyown2 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad y'all discussed people that gaslight themselves. I have a co worker who is experiencing a breakup and she said that she's mad at herself for crying about the breakup because that's a weakness. I was like sweetie, it's ok, you're supposed to feel. It's so sad how many people believe that is a weakness I ain't never heard that in my personal life.

  • @brandonfrizell2745
    @brandonfrizell27452 жыл бұрын

    BARBARIC !! Talk yo shit Lex. the don has spoken

  • @jonathangrant9486
    @jonathangrant94862 жыл бұрын

    That's why I love this podcast. It's so diverse. They talk about everything from BDBs to the Moors...I love when Lex start talking that pro black shit.

  • @leeleebryant8833
    @leeleebryant88332 жыл бұрын

    Lex you're so naturally funny and quick with it 🤣🤣 the "you wouldn't understand me, you didn't know "the struggle" I died 🤣🤣

  • @sarawarner7186

    @sarawarner7186

    2 жыл бұрын

    The "damn its strick in here" had me I tears

  • @msandrews87

    @msandrews87

    2 жыл бұрын

    I need to see pics of Emo Lex😂

  • @apreecemashae2589
    @apreecemashae25892 жыл бұрын

    I love how y’all pick a name for the episode and never use it! I love y’all lol

  • @rosereign888

    @rosereign888

    2 жыл бұрын

    Every time! 😂❤

  • @Ariana-yv2cg
    @Ariana-yv2cg2 жыл бұрын

    Love y’all!!! I’m not sure if y’all can do this (for ad purposes) but I’d love to know your wine recommendations! Maybe it can be a segment on the show, what y’all are drinking each episode. :)

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    We’ll look into it! Thank you ❤️❤️

  • @Thats_MarieHoney

    @Thats_MarieHoney

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@DreaAndLex Yes I’d love to drink what y’all are drinking while listening to the show !

  • @Thee_Nun

    @Thee_Nun

    2 жыл бұрын

    Baby y’all said a WORD about married women and that’s exactly how it be. Her first kid and he got like 5, baby he trapped you 😂😂😂.

  • @daebtch

    @daebtch

    2 жыл бұрын

    I literally was just thinking this!! Please do cause y’all be lit off da wine 😂

  • @jasminjenee
    @jasminjenee2 жыл бұрын

    Nothing I love more than watching new episodes of pour minds on Friday night, while getting ready for a date with my BDB

  • @MisSterious1987

    @MisSterious1987

    2 жыл бұрын

    Baby daddy bestfriend???lol sike ..just playing 😘😘😘 yesss it's Saturday nights for me recovering from my Friday with the Bdb

  • @jasminjenee

    @jasminjenee

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MisSterious1987 he might be😜😜

  • @tiffanymeriwether7687
    @tiffanymeriwether76872 жыл бұрын

    This episode hit different. RIP To Mama Anne 💜✨🙏🏾

  • @NAYSWAY88
    @NAYSWAY882 жыл бұрын

    Lol not the Help! Had me dying.

  • @WhoIsTheeMeister
    @WhoIsTheeMeister2 жыл бұрын

    I’m soooo happy for y’all! Y’all energy and the crowd energy is so amazing! Wow y’all are more amazing at this than y’all realize

  • @WhoIsTheeMeister
    @WhoIsTheeMeister2 жыл бұрын

    I love the maturity of the topic this episode 💓

  • @elashamoss4539
    @elashamoss45392 жыл бұрын

    I see yall gave us a sneak peek of the new set during the commercial breaks! I love it❤ Can't wait to see it🥰😍

  • @bharris1796
    @bharris17962 жыл бұрын

    Right on time! Heyy pour crew 💜💜

  • @prycemacon7097

    @prycemacon7097

    2 жыл бұрын

    Heyyyyy lol

  • @ldkea05

    @ldkea05

    2 жыл бұрын

    Heyyyy guurrwl heyyyyy

  • @Hiddenuntil

    @Hiddenuntil

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey sis 🥰

  • @RobandSijay

    @RobandSijay

    2 жыл бұрын

    what up sis, glad to see you

  • @britty_bit

    @britty_bit

    2 жыл бұрын

    Heyyyy Bri! I used to step with you in middle school. Dope to see your part of the pour crew too 💜💜

  • @beautyfolse4249
    @beautyfolse42492 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Drea, that absolutely give zero fuccs how they act around us and in front of out face.

  • @ldkea05
    @ldkea052 жыл бұрын

    I'm herrrrre 🙌🏽🙌🏽 I just want to say y'all posts bring the sunshine for the week -- when I see the notifications I'm like yessssssssss 🫶🏾

  • @theprettyygamer
    @theprettyygamer2 жыл бұрын

    I love that you guys educated the gworls on gaslighting this week my educational queens 😂🙏🏼 would love to see you guys talk about defense mechanisms I learned about that in high school and it’s always been super interesting to me the way people’s brains operate and make them respond to things.

  • @CarloGonzalezTV
    @CarloGonzalezTV2 жыл бұрын

    This is the first time I’m watching & listening to your podcast; so far I’m only 6 minutes in. I have to say, you two embody *so* much Love. It’s beautiful

  • @CarloGonzalezTV

    @CarloGonzalezTV

    2 жыл бұрын

    “Do Black people need to act right in front of White people?” *fuck* no

  • @Dajiaw101
    @Dajiaw1012 жыл бұрын

    Hey POUR family❤️ I discovered y’all in January, and I binged every video.. even Wine Down Wednesday! ❤️

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    Heyyy welcome!

  • @meraaa954
    @meraaa9542 жыл бұрын

    the new set is everything !

  • @iyaniarose
    @iyaniarose2 жыл бұрын

    i love lex that’s my twin fr 🤣 her bops are always in my playlist i’ve been listening to finesse for the past week ima need them to make a pour minds playlist 😂

  • @tksjourney8048
    @tksjourney80482 жыл бұрын

    I am African… Drea: American Lex: uh uh you didn’t have to add that 🤣🤣

  • @niccilyons4985
    @niccilyons49852 жыл бұрын

    ✨Lex and Drea, I can’t wait for y’all to break 100K in subscribers. I LOVE your podcast and look forward to it every week.💕 Personalities are a vibe. I be laughing my ass off.💯 keep killin it! 💪🏾

  • @kychea6357
    @kychea63572 жыл бұрын

    Okayyy y’all done upgraded the background in the ad segment, love to see it😍😍😍😍

  • @jayJay-jo1nq
    @jayJay-jo1nq2 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been waiting all week …another banger

  • @taigenmiles1490
    @taigenmiles14902 жыл бұрын

    I watched this with the guy I’ve been dating and let me tell youuuuu I was fighting for our lives. He was like these girls are crazy. It’s too real. Now all his friends know about the show and like it or not y’all got a new viewer.

  • @dymond8001
    @dymond80012 жыл бұрын

    I love y’all podcast pls keep going 😭❤️

  • @hairaccessllc110
    @hairaccessllc1102 жыл бұрын

    This was very much an enjoyable episode 😊 song choice , immaculate 😭🤍🤍🤍

  • @rochiggidy
    @rochiggidy2 жыл бұрын

    They crack me up. I like the gaslighting section esp about how we gaslight ourselves. Between Lex's singing and Drea's long pauses...it's always a good time.

  • @rochiggidy

    @rochiggidy

    2 жыл бұрын

    STOMP

  • @american701
    @american7012 жыл бұрын

    Keep doing y'all thang, excellent show, excellent concept.

  • @cupcake2998
    @cupcake29982 жыл бұрын

    I love when they match hairstyles 💕

  • @yahshawndasturdivant106
    @yahshawndasturdivant1062 жыл бұрын

    I'm crying so hard!!!! 🤣🤣🤣I love yall! Thanks for inspiring me to start my podcast with my girl back up!🥰

  • @griffinjenn85
    @griffinjenn852 жыл бұрын

    Omg!! Lex was doing the extreme Bankhead bounce while singing, Stomp, I felll out! Great episode ladies! 😂😂😂😂🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @black26075
    @black260752 жыл бұрын

    Like the new set 🔥🔥proud of you ladies fr 🙏🏾come along way ,keep grinding 💯

  • @dejapalmer5982
    @dejapalmer59822 жыл бұрын

    Happy Friday pour crew 🥂

  • @misteradenking
    @misteradenking2 жыл бұрын

    i love the new set yall moving on up but i do miss the more messy and drunk cant wait for one of those

  • @rb6701
    @rb67012 жыл бұрын

    Great episode and the live clip at the end 🔥

  • @Whereswest
    @Whereswest2 жыл бұрын

    I love lex’s women first mentality i love what you said about the women representing themselves on tv and other women looking out *chefs kiss

  • @azamqulwa717
    @azamqulwa7172 жыл бұрын

    I love lovd love the show breakdown segment cause I don't be knowing what to watch chile and need those recommendations 😂😂😂

  • @dezziefbby
    @dezziefbby2 жыл бұрын

    OMG is the Babble ad at the NEW STUDIO? IT’S BOMBBBBB.

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    Girl let me go see idk 😭😭😭😭

  • @prycemacon7097

    @prycemacon7097

    2 жыл бұрын

    I LOVE the new ads set up can't wait to see the next episode with the new set up!

  • @MoreOfSiren
    @MoreOfSiren2 жыл бұрын

    Lex is hilarioussss lmaooo! Loved the song this week 🤣🤣🤣

  • @EverydayGworl
    @EverydayGworl2 жыл бұрын

    Drea speaking tongues got me CRINE‼️😂😭😂😭😭 cause why would you do that??

  • @ldkea05
    @ldkea052 жыл бұрын

    Drea’s expressions during the song …. Givin them BFF vibes like “guuuuuurllll STOPPPP” Lex Franklin 😂

  • @jamier1396
    @jamier13962 жыл бұрын

    Loved the episode ❤️ loving the come up Lex always have me cracking off and Drea always saying the real sh*t

  • @TaylorCorrien
    @TaylorCorrien2 жыл бұрын

    Periodt Lex speaking facts we ain’t even 15 min in 👏🏾👏🏾😍

  • @iamkandacemarie
    @iamkandacemarie2 жыл бұрын

    Omggg the new studio 😍😍😍

  • @domh2163
    @domh21632 жыл бұрын

    Is that the new set during the babbl plug!? Love it

  • @Someboutju901
    @Someboutju9012 жыл бұрын

    I definitely felt the first topic, I have a work from home job in training where I have to be on camera and I’m the only black girl in my class and it feels weird 🤧 like their jokes are different🤣🤣 I can’t be myself🤣🤣

  • @ndeonikabooker5358

    @ndeonikabooker5358

    2 жыл бұрын

    Gurl same!!!!

  • @christinarose6957

    @christinarose6957

    2 жыл бұрын

    Girrrrrrl aren't they corny? they really be thinking they're funny too 🙄

  • @sweethoneybee3616
    @sweethoneybee36162 жыл бұрын

    I screamed so loud when yall started singing stomp 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love yall

  • @chanelbankz449
    @chanelbankz4492 жыл бұрын

    Leexxxx be havin me crying at work got me lookin crazy 😂 I love yall

  • @EverydayGworl
    @EverydayGworl2 жыл бұрын

    🎶AtlAnTIssss🎶 been stuck in my head since last week show 🤣🤣🤣🤣 R.I.P to Drea daddy🕊

  • @pscih7149
    @pscih71492 жыл бұрын

    Aww y'alls new studio at 20:00 is so cute

  • @kissesfromkatie5755
    @kissesfromkatie57552 жыл бұрын

    Maaaaannnn I have to come to a live show! I’m about to see 85 south for the first time tonight!!!!

  • @angelh6345
    @angelh63452 жыл бұрын

    Y'all make me laugh so much and think Love y'all 💗💗

  • @Biddysworld
    @Biddysworld2 жыл бұрын

    I love you guys so much this episode was so good I hope I can afford to get y’all on my podcast one day 😭😭♥️♥️

  • @Karibari808
    @Karibari8082 жыл бұрын

    That ad room you guys were in was teaaaa

  • @eyreneroberts6625
    @eyreneroberts66252 жыл бұрын

    Lol yall so funni, n loved the song 4 end credits‼️‼️❤

  • @lex_da_flex9656
    @lex_da_flex96562 жыл бұрын

    I love lex hair and makeup on these ads hun!🥰

  • @RVANae
    @RVANae2 жыл бұрын

    18:15 is when I had to like 👍🏽 the video!! Y’all better than me because my momma is blocked on everything except on Facebook

  • @mahletalemayohu2568
    @mahletalemayohu25682 жыл бұрын

    Lex why are you like this bro 😂😂😂 the singing segment - I am screaming

  • @ConsciouslyEno
    @ConsciouslyEno2 жыл бұрын

    Love y’all 💜💜

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @tyovannaclingman4103
    @tyovannaclingman41032 жыл бұрын

    I love your hair in the ad snippets Lex

  • @tksjourney8048
    @tksjourney80482 жыл бұрын

    “Not you catching me gaslighting you” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tantaniarenee
    @tantaniarenee2 жыл бұрын

    Not Lex slaying in the babbel commercial!! 😍😍

  • @SnickersBarJamal
    @SnickersBarJamal2 жыл бұрын

    13:39 Not the help 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @Love_missbri
    @Love_missbri2 жыл бұрын

    Please do a show breakdown for The Ultimatum

  • @tamaraglo845

    @tamaraglo845

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yess!!

  • @tianataylor6084
    @tianataylor60842 жыл бұрын

    Awwww I love y'all so much! Look at y'all uplifting my spirit and whatnot 🤗

  • @miaprice9652
    @miaprice96522 жыл бұрын

    I been waiting all day on this💚💚

  • @mrj5695
    @mrj56952 жыл бұрын

    Lex went in with moor talk

  • @djdswift314
    @djdswift3142 жыл бұрын

    Actually Lex, you can have very different ancestry results from your siblings! DNA is crazy! Love you guys! 🤎

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh damn 😭

  • @BillionareBoyShow
    @BillionareBoyShow2 жыл бұрын

    I’m crying at Drea at 53:05 😂😂😂

  • @javenjamal475
    @javenjamal4752 жыл бұрын

    Here we GO!!

  • @cheyennehymes2872
    @cheyennehymes28722 жыл бұрын

    GREAT EPISODE! 😂💕

  • @kissesfromkatie5755
    @kissesfromkatie57552 жыл бұрын

    Everybody let’s give Lex a YAAAASSSS for the fresh bundles!!! Misbehaving and showing out!!!!!

  • @rredd4680
    @rredd46802 жыл бұрын

    Lex to damn funny😂😂 I like her personality!!!

  • @vashtilou731
    @vashtilou7312 жыл бұрын

    "Stomp"!!! Im Crying!!

  • @keilabazile2016
    @keilabazile20162 жыл бұрын

    I’m SCREAMINGGGG at the song choice at the end 😭😭

  • @potentspirit3096
    @potentspirit30962 жыл бұрын

    Y’all need your own App!

  • @tiffanyanthony5552
    @tiffanyanthony55522 жыл бұрын

    Ohhh shittt nie it Friday !! A Good Friday at that ‼️😍

  • @yahshawndasturdivant106
    @yahshawndasturdivant1062 жыл бұрын

    Stomp took me out!!!🤣🙏

  • @sportyspice7230
    @sportyspice72302 жыл бұрын

    LEX!!!!! 1:25:17 I’m in tears 😭 🤣🤣🤣

  • @djhellnaw5632
    @djhellnaw5632 Жыл бұрын

    Dope stuff I just realized how much I have been gas lit like a bic

  • @sarahmathieu6122
    @sarahmathieu61222 жыл бұрын

    Liking the new set 😍

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @kaprik828
    @kaprik8282 жыл бұрын

    I love you guys ❤️❤️

  • @CT-hz6mz
    @CT-hz6mz2 жыл бұрын

    the song💀💀❤‍🔥...and omg please come to FL😢

  • @hill2cute
    @hill2cute2 жыл бұрын

    Can we see some old middle school pics of Lex ! PUHLEASE !! 🤣🤣

  • @victoriasimmone
    @victoriasimmone2 жыл бұрын

    Okayyyy I peep the new set 😍👀 !!!

  • @themxoliadventures6345
    @themxoliadventures63452 жыл бұрын

    We love u guys South African Fan🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🥂🥂🥂👌🏾👌🏾 Day 1 Fan FYI🤣

  • @HiiS4eva
    @HiiS4eva2 жыл бұрын

    i had the beiber bang too for a little while too😂😂

  • @Thats_MarieHoney
    @Thats_MarieHoney2 жыл бұрын

    I be telling my friend never hold in they fart for this reason 😂 I knew it was true 😂

  • @pscih7149
    @pscih71492 жыл бұрын

    Release the St.Louis tour dates so I can get my tickets please!

  • @JermiaHamilton
    @JermiaHamilton2 жыл бұрын

    Lex you funny as hell !!

  • @Someboutju901
    @Someboutju9012 жыл бұрын

    Bruh they get funnier and funnier 🤣🤣🤣

  • @TeenyLadii
    @TeenyLadii2 жыл бұрын

    Yesss Ro and Traeeee!

  • @shygurl_moe1502
    @shygurl_moe15022 жыл бұрын

    love the clip of the show

  • @RobandSijay
    @RobandSijay2 жыл бұрын

    1:18:20 YOU DID NOT NAME THE EPISODE THIS DAMNIT LMAO one day its gone match I got faith in us

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭😭😭

  • @kaijaful
    @kaijaful2 жыл бұрын

    Hey ladiesss ✨

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey girllll

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