Pour Minds - Episode 156 - The Mind of a Cheater

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Hey y’all! This episode we discuss the psychology behind cheating, delaying intimacy, a different love language and more!
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  • @ahmadblack5347
    @ahmadblack53472 жыл бұрын

    Lex: How is THAT classy ? Drea: ... it has a collar 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    🌚😭😭😭

  • @shenellrichardson4936

    @shenellrichardson4936

    2 жыл бұрын

    😭

  • @gigib.5952

    @gigib.5952

    2 жыл бұрын

    This took me all the way out 😭😂😂 and it’s a whole crop top 😂😂

  • @channeyy09
    @channeyy092 жыл бұрын

    When Lex said "I'm looking at Mozart" girl Mozart is a whole music composer not a painter 😂😂😂😂

  • @justjohnnay

    @justjohnnay

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lmaooooooo it’s me not even catching this until this comment

  • @jackies_world

    @jackies_world

    2 жыл бұрын

    The whole thing had me weak! Lexx is hilarious 😂

  • @davecannon4431

    @davecannon4431

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @Luvislove983

    @Luvislove983

    2 жыл бұрын

    😩😂😂

  • @toridavos1119

    @toridavos1119

    2 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭😭

  • @NiecyValentine
    @NiecyValentine2 жыл бұрын

    He made her wait 90 days cause he already knew his shit was trash lol

  • @dejapalmer5982
    @dejapalmer59822 жыл бұрын

    Drea: What if he isn’t physically capable to give you what you want? Lex: cool, I go to Pizza Hut 😂😂 .

  • @Howfineisjasmine

    @Howfineisjasmine

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly 😂😂😂

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭😭

  • @Luvislove983

    @Luvislove983

    2 жыл бұрын

    😩😭

  • @JewelPray
    @JewelPray2 жыл бұрын

    I definitely agree with Lex, most of the time women cheat it’s because they aren’t being fulfilled in some area of the relationship, I’ve def thought about it before but I believe in karma so I just leave them first 😂

  • @Goldenxbih

    @Goldenxbih

    2 жыл бұрын

    That 😭😭

  • @jaylaaa-x
    @jaylaaa-x2 жыл бұрын

    y’all get more gorgeous and funnier each episode 😭😍 this whole episode and conversation was needed! i love seeing y’all thriving and growing ♥️

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much ❤️🥰

  • @grltn07
    @grltn072 жыл бұрын

    I'm not a cheater generally. Last time I physically cheated I was 18 and I'm 33 now! Buuuut about 4 years ago, I got caught with a dude at my house and I didnt even physically do anything. However, I do feel like cheating is defined as whatever you can't do in front of your partner!

  • @quincyhomes1554

    @quincyhomes1554

    2 жыл бұрын

    wheeew, going through something similar.. what was his reaction?? how did he take it

  • @s.0.u.p896
    @s.0.u.p8962 жыл бұрын

    The chemistry between y'all is unmatched the way y'all bounced off each other is incredible. And I really appreciate that both of y'all really be giving y'all for the song at the end hilarious every time but y'all Lowkey getting better

  • @ceejay4850
    @ceejay48502 жыл бұрын

    LEX U WERE ON A ROLL TODAYYYYY!!! This episode was mad funnnyyyy lmaoooo!!!! The stuttering at the gas station, to the long titi hitting the gas yooooo!!!!!!!

  • @sisterhoodsorority9625

    @sisterhoodsorority9625

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yesssssss😂

  • @ceejay4850

    @ceejay4850

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sisterhoodsorority9625 she takes me out everytime!! But this episode had me in tears!!! 😭😭😭

  • @CarlyyyandddAujaniii
    @CarlyyyandddAujaniii2 жыл бұрын

    i love how they ask what’s been goin on w each other at the beginning of the episode when they definitely already kno 🤣

  • @kalvinbaber5484

    @kalvinbaber5484

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm a nigga and that shit be funny af😁. Like you damn near live together And prep for the show lol

  • @chuckyytv662
    @chuckyytv6622 жыл бұрын

    Feels like every four episodes it’s dreaa mom birthday 🤣🙂

  • @breanna455
    @breanna4552 жыл бұрын

    27:50 lex face trying to figure out if she’s a narcissist 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kiararogers2261

    @kiararogers2261

    3 ай бұрын

    27:58 lol lol 😂

  • @WhoIsTheeMeister
    @WhoIsTheeMeister2 жыл бұрын

    Can y’all make it a part of the show to show y’all outfit ?

  • @Alovelyme1
    @Alovelyme12 жыл бұрын

    And my belief is if you need to cheat then have a conversation, come to an agreement, and or leave. But taking a way someone's choice of whether or not they'd want to deal with it or sn opportunity to give you what you're missing is selfish

  • @aprilbrooks
    @aprilbrooks2 жыл бұрын

    “You can get the biggest chanelllllllllll” 🤣 I’m dayyeddddd

  • @brittnibenjamin5404
    @brittnibenjamin54042 жыл бұрын

    Lmaooo Lex was funny as hell this episode. Her ass said she’s waited longer to pay her rent! 😳😂🤣💀💀

  • @ladyd1471
    @ladyd14712 жыл бұрын

    All the episodes are funny, but this one really made me laugh 🙌🏾🙌🏾 “A VIBRATOR?? I DONT WANT THAT SHIT” 😂😂😂😂

  • @livalittleee1331
    @livalittleee13312 жыл бұрын

    I paused Summer Walkers album for yall🤣❤️❤️ dedication at its finestttt

  • @Lace900

    @Lace900

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same sis ! Sameee💕😭😂

  • @daniellepeters6271

    @daniellepeters6271

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lmao I can’t wait to hear about it next bop of the week

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    😭😭❤️❤️

  • @justjohnnay
    @justjohnnay2 жыл бұрын

    Tahir be dying in the back 😭😭

  • @quitathomas4326
    @quitathomas43262 жыл бұрын

    I love y’all 💕 if y’all see me acting like a groupie at the live show just go with the flow 😂

  • @gigib.5952

    @gigib.5952

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not go with the flow 😭😭😂

  • @kiarasmith1154

    @kiarasmith1154

    2 жыл бұрын

    My thoughts exactly 😂😅

  • @Opinions.of.Rih.
    @Opinions.of.Rih.2 жыл бұрын

    Drea killed her part of the duet lol The breathy ooohhh really took it there 😂

  • @taylopey
    @taylopey2 жыл бұрын

    It’s Lex face for me when Drea caught the harmony

  • @dinah0831
    @dinah08312 жыл бұрын

    Pour Minds on Friday + Wine = Perfect Night

  • @dinah0831

    @dinah0831

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not Lex opening story ohmygoshhhh 🤣🤣

  • @sisterhoodsorority9625

    @sisterhoodsorority9625

    2 жыл бұрын

    Facts👌🏾

  • @videogworl
    @videogworl2 жыл бұрын

    Literally having the worst day ..... decided to hide out in my car for lunch, forgot it was Friday. THANK YALL 🥰

  • @Goldenxbih

    @Goldenxbih

    2 жыл бұрын

    The podcast really be taking you to another world, love it here

  • @tineeeify
    @tineeeify2 жыл бұрын

    Lex was in her bag this episode I was cracking up THE WHOLE TIME. Love you girls. new Patreon member here !!

  • @skkyvisuals2527

    @skkyvisuals2527

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yassss 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @Alovelyme1
    @Alovelyme12 жыл бұрын

    That's why it's harder for men to get over their woman cheating; cuz he knows if she felt close and comfortable enough to let another man in, she had to be emotionally involved.

  • @reannac.4985
    @reannac.49852 жыл бұрын

    Lex is such a LEO🤣 I felt everything she said about the cheating. 🥴

  • @EverydayGworl
    @EverydayGworl2 жыл бұрын

    *27:58* Lex: blank stare 😳

  • @TiannaEss

    @TiannaEss

    2 жыл бұрын

    Drea: 👀 Lex: 😯 Also Lex: 🤔

  • @okayariel_
    @okayariel_2 жыл бұрын

    I just looooovvvveeee Drea’s accent🥰

  • @Indoe_
    @Indoe_2 жыл бұрын

    I’ve spoiled myself watching these episodes here instead of listening on Spotify. Let me sign up for the Patreon!

  • @BrooklynnImani
    @BrooklynnImani2 жыл бұрын

    "A toe can't fart in my mouth." I'm done💀💀💀😭

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭😭

  • @Kane_____

    @Kane_____

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@DreaAndLex I wanna sniff y’all farts to see which one smells like success mixed with egg 🍳 💨💩😍

  • @EverydayGworl
    @EverydayGworl2 жыл бұрын

    Drea man voice be killing me 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ohthatskeyah
    @ohthatskeyah2 жыл бұрын

    Lex is pure comedy 🤣❤️. y’all two together… undefeated 👏🏾 !

  • @kiarasmith1154

    @kiarasmith1154

    2 жыл бұрын

    Period 💅🏾

  • @leanahagholson9345
    @leanahagholson93452 жыл бұрын

    Lex was preaching this episode ✊🏽that thanksgiving analogy was 🔥🔥

  • @shaquannarichardson9455
    @shaquannarichardson94552 жыл бұрын

    This was by far was my favorite one from y’all! Keep up that great work, content and keep being you ! This was entirely too funny

  • @aprilborum2569
    @aprilborum25692 жыл бұрын

    Its the whole show for me! From the set up, to the format, to personalities, and just everything. One of my favorite KZread shows/podcasts hands down 🌹💛🙌🏾🙌🏾 you both needed to be here in this moment together and it shows. It’s such a beautiful dynamic.

  • @Cierac
    @Cierac2 жыл бұрын

    I love this podcast so much lmaooo. I was cracking up the ENTIRE episode 😭😭😭 love y’all!

  • @chanelbankz449
    @chanelbankz4492 жыл бұрын

    The end got me CRYIN y’all make my day‼️

  • @foodi.esti.nauti.
    @foodi.esti.nauti.2 жыл бұрын

    I was literally watching a Patreon episode waiting on y’all to upload 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @jarayepperson6306
    @jarayepperson63062 жыл бұрын

    Pizza Hut that is literally a terrible name to have somebody named under 😂

  • @jackies_world

    @jackies_world

    2 жыл бұрын

    Especially because they don't text/call you unless it's like a special happening or your order is being delivered.

  • @mswhite3005
    @mswhite30052 жыл бұрын

    Can I just say you alls chemistry is amazing each episode is getting better than the last you all seem to be happier and getting along so well I love it keep up the good work ladies

  • @keyamoore9692
    @keyamoore96922 жыл бұрын

    I’m so proud of y’all on the harmony this time!!!♥️♥️

  • @charleisangel4666
    @charleisangel46662 жыл бұрын

    y’all friendship is sooooo pure and telling each episode 🥺 I love y’all 💕💕💕

  • @apreecemashae2589
    @apreecemashae25892 жыл бұрын

    If you cheat on somebody and stay. No matter the situation it’s always your fault.

  • @maggie6222
    @maggie62222 жыл бұрын

    ya'll are my girls for real. I just fuck with ya'lls vibe and humor so much. these episodes make my day every friday/weekend.

  • @sisterhoodsorority9625
    @sisterhoodsorority96252 жыл бұрын

    This is definitely one of my favorite episodes y’all vibe was giving a loving energy ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @IsceesMommy
    @IsceesMommy2 жыл бұрын

    Lmao but I love how y’all finished off the episode! Cuz that “soft Oh” took care of it all!!! “Idk about y’all BUT I KNOW ABOUT US!” Keep that energy my boos!!! I love yallllll! Can’t wait for Nashvilleeee!

  • @victoriastennis2367
    @victoriastennis23672 жыл бұрын

    Lex P I just love your conversation because you are my spirit animal. We can have a drink and conversation any time! Congratulations on everything 💙

  • @Therealestscorpio
    @Therealestscorpio2 жыл бұрын

    Love they’re podcast so much 😂🧡 they really naturally funny asf & dropping GEMS 💎

  • @karinacabrera17
    @karinacabrera177 ай бұрын

    I’m a new listener and now a huge fan! ❤️ I’ve been binge watching this daily for a few days now. I had a bad day today and Lex on this episode had me cracking up. She really pulled me out of the funk. I love her energy and sense of humor. She’s so unique, so animated, so funny!

  • @cj10109
    @cj101092 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate the guests but I love y’all together!! 😂💜

  • @hansjean-gilles603
    @hansjean-gilles6032 жыл бұрын

    Drea gettin there with the vocals!! Ok sis!

  • @ToBCaSharaP
    @ToBCaSharaP2 жыл бұрын

    Few mins in a Lex has tickled my soul 😂😂 🗣 BBBBBBBBBBB BAD

  • @jaquelhill9159
    @jaquelhill91592 жыл бұрын

    THE BEST PART OF MY FRIDAY 😂❤️ And my sisters look tf good 😍😍

  • @ericamac8110
    @ericamac81102 жыл бұрын

    IT WAS THE END FOR MEEEE i love yall 💜💜

  • @jackies_world
    @jackies_world2 жыл бұрын

    Love y'all so much! I was so weak at Lex the entire time. Especially about the cheating not being her fault 🤣 Since y'all mentioned RL, his son is FINE!

  • @quailbanks4483
    @quailbanks44832 жыл бұрын

    This episode was rocking and i want tickets to the show out there😉

  • @Shatorriyae_Shanice
    @Shatorriyae_Shanice2 жыл бұрын

    Was just listening to tha don lol then the notification for a new episode came ! 🙌🏽😍 hey Gworls !

  • @zreed1689
    @zreed16892 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely loved this episode. Every single topic was 🔥

  • @desl1158
    @desl11582 жыл бұрын

    It was great to get a different aspect behind cheating and the sexual love language. I see that Drea has been practicing on the dem vocals🤩.

  • @_Tree
    @_Tree2 жыл бұрын

    One of the reasons why I enjoy listening to this podcast is because I like how their real-life is integrated into the show!! Keep it going ladies

  • @conscious_cove

    @conscious_cove

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @theedeejreid
    @theedeejreid2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂 this episode was excellent. Definitely my favorite episode so far.

  • @abeautytip2470
    @abeautytip24702 жыл бұрын

    Love everything about y’all! But have y’all assistant refresh that candle setup. Great show!

  • @mizzlizz2016
    @mizzlizz20162 жыл бұрын

    Can’t wait to see y’all in Nashville! It’s going to be a good time🥰🥰 y’all should have Maui W on the show one day, I would love to see that😍😍

  • @mckialalives6047
    @mckialalives60472 жыл бұрын

    Lex is funny asf 😭😭😭 love the show ladies!!

  • @nenenicoleonthemove_
    @nenenicoleonthemove_2 жыл бұрын

    Lex-p!!!! You were way to funny on this episode 😂😂😂😂 Drea…I love the outfit! It’s giving “I’m going to see to my man at his office for lunch” lol

  • @mbalinhlapo5577
    @mbalinhlapo55772 жыл бұрын

    The mind of tristan Thompson should be the title

  • @brandiprescott8481
    @brandiprescott84812 жыл бұрын

    Can we get two episodes per week??? Wednesday & Friday's lol man I love y'all!!!

  • @Suziee_Suee

    @Suziee_Suee

    2 жыл бұрын

    Real Talk!!!

  • @LisaMarie-sj1eu
    @LisaMarie-sj1eu2 жыл бұрын

    I love the look this episode btw 😍😍😍. It’s giving African Safari lol.

  • @becomingtaija
    @becomingtaija2 жыл бұрын

    why are y’all so DAMN funny 😂😂 also Lex your nails always look soooo nice Drea your lips gloss stay poppin the entire episode , it’s actually crazy . what’s the lip combo sis

  • @beautywlexi
    @beautywlexi2 жыл бұрын

    Yesss my friends finally posted💘

  • @Jazgang03
    @Jazgang032 жыл бұрын

    Omg I cried laughing when Lex said " I was in a polygamy relationship, but he was in a monogamy relationship"

  • @TriceNvrmiss
    @TriceNvrmiss2 жыл бұрын

    I literally giggled when Drea said she need to lose 5 lbs lol girl you look good😍 Lex I swear you sound like you need to be in a poly relationship😩

  • @envy.jamika6807
    @envy.jamika68072 жыл бұрын

    Been Waiting On This Bad Boy 🥰 Hey Ladiesssss 💜💜

  • @schoolgurl2hot
    @schoolgurl2hot2 жыл бұрын

    I agree with Lex on the cheating situation and if i ever have to do it that's because i told the person what i did Not like and they did Not listen and Communication is Everything honey.

  • @ANGELMAN.

    @ANGELMAN.

    2 жыл бұрын

    lmaoo u you ever have too?bruh

  • @sharneecobb3499
    @sharneecobb34992 жыл бұрын

    FINALLY! I’ve been waiting 💕

  • @sheriwilson3557
    @sheriwilson35572 жыл бұрын

    I love how real they are😊😊

  • @mona-ss4gj
    @mona-ss4gj2 жыл бұрын

    😂 Love the longer episodes

  • @lovelyj7125
    @lovelyj71252 жыл бұрын

    I’m finna pour up I been sitting here waiting 😩❤️

  • @JazmineDotCom
    @JazmineDotCom2 жыл бұрын

    Love y’all 😘 and please tell Good Vbes to get y’all some new candles cause honey I don’t know how that flame still burning ain’t nothing left 😩😭

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭😭

  • @giagenae
    @giagenae2 жыл бұрын

    I really love y'all man lmao always giving me a laugh

  • @Slaydaphotographer
    @Slaydaphotographer2 жыл бұрын

    🔥🔥 slayworkatl in the building … love y’all 💕

  • @jaywyn1559
    @jaywyn15592 жыл бұрын

    This was a good episode!!

  • @daijahlatriece7537
    @daijahlatriece75372 жыл бұрын

    Love this whole episode

  • @leanahagholson9345
    @leanahagholson93452 жыл бұрын

    Lex gave dat man all she had she a true humanitarian 🙏🏽😂😂

  • @Alovelyme1
    @Alovelyme12 жыл бұрын

    Definitely agree that cheating is anything that you can't do in front of your partner.

  • @blackice7313
    @blackice73132 жыл бұрын

    Another great show ladies

  • @lynettethreats2412
    @lynettethreats24122 жыл бұрын

    Nobody: Drea: I like ordering wings 🤣😂🤣😂💀💀💀💀

  • @kalvinbaber5484

    @kalvinbaber5484

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂 time stamp?

  • @13sweethoney
    @13sweethoney2 жыл бұрын

    My bop of the week is wale- Tiffany Nikes we’ll really his whole album Folarin 2

  • @KamilahCydni96
    @KamilahCydni962 жыл бұрын

    Omg y’all are hilarious af! I’ve been laughing straight 🤣🤣🤣 and both so beautiful 😍💜

  • @sierrasimone3063
    @sierrasimone30632 жыл бұрын

    Lex is hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @christinabroussard8039
    @christinabroussard80392 жыл бұрын

    When Drea said her ex from Louisiana say fot I couldn't stop laughin cause that's how me and everyone I know says it.

  • @user-tb8xx7sk4d
    @user-tb8xx7sk4d6 ай бұрын

    It’s the harmony for me. The workout queen/ tomb raider vs lex p the choir director 😂😂😂

  • @804Steppa
    @804Steppa2 жыл бұрын

    Mane yall funny asl!!!!!!!! Lol Great dynamic duo 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @mitchell4f401
    @mitchell4f4012 жыл бұрын

    I was just listening to the podcast like let me see this blazer 😂😂☠️

  • @DreaAndLex

    @DreaAndLex

    2 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭😭

  • @tierralangley3511
    @tierralangley35112 жыл бұрын

    I be getting so much second hand embarrassment when Drea start singing 🤣🤣 but I know it's in good fun love you ladies

  • @lextalk901
    @lextalk9012 жыл бұрын

    Aye mane I need what they drinking cause y’all was lit this episode 😂😂

  • @dejapalmer5982
    @dejapalmer59822 жыл бұрын

    Friyay!!!! Let me go put some patron in my cup 🥂

  • @amahjahv
    @amahjahv Жыл бұрын

    It’s Lex saying “who laughed?” when they tb foreplay 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @AthenaRenee
    @AthenaRenee2 жыл бұрын

    this episode was talking about me the whole cheater segment 😂😅

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