Very informative message for parents of boys and girls. 🎉

Absolutely 💯 correct . Totally agree with what you have said Anju.. Your DIL is also your daughter and treat her with the respect that she truly deserves .🙏🏽💯💕

Hi ..very good information u shared .both the boys n girls should know to respect each other and their family..

How simple you think, I wish people do listen to you and follow you exactly like what you said. All are not like your In-Laws and husband… you are lucky to have them. 👍👍👍👍👍

Your message is excellent

Thank you sharing for beautiful thoughts ❤

Pretty informative vlog anju😊👍

Very informative video . Hum log bolte he ki bachho ke liye jivansathi dhundhna he. Par ghare ki javabdari me our gharke kamo me itana ulza dete he ki dono ko jivan ke sathi banane ka moka hi nahi dete he. Use jivan jine ke liye free rakho.

Superb video and lots of love 😘😘❤❤❤❤❤❤

Very informative message vlog and very nicely explained I agree with Anju

You read my mind on this issue. It’s not just an issue; we, as a society, did this to ourselves over generations. No one dares to change it or challenge it to change. Someone has to start, and that someone is me and my wife. It takes a generation to change something, and unfortunately, we don’t like change. As parents, we have to accept that we are wrong. The sooner we accept it, the sooner change will happen. My family is very much like yours. We watch your videos together. Love you guys !!!

I have seen personally how things can be difficult . I second everything you say .. its all about expectation and expectations with no sense of responsibility... if only every one understands their roles and responsibilities, life would be so much easier

Anju I totally second u fully. My mentality & thinking matches with u fully. We should consider our bahu as our beti & then life becomes garden garden.

Every Generation is different, previous generation thinks we arent like them and don't collaborate with them with as much ease as they did with predecessors. Mine was a love marriage 20 years ago and it wasnt anything to do with physical attraction but soul connection and common interests and perspective on lot of things about life . But having said that, i do think this generation is more informed , they know what they need, and deserve and live in when taken in a matured state of mind is not wrong, all arranged marriages arent safe, all love marriages arent risk. Every marriage is full time work and needs respect, trust and love towards each other. Live in relationships when done in a matured age once they have employment of their own, is a better option before signing up for life time commitment. Times have changed and its time girls get to speak their mind and live life on their terms. I would say kids should have their own marital home and not a joint set up with parents / in-laws. Be there whenever there is need and health issues, that way everyone gets their own space and privacy. That i feel is best arrangement for everyone's happiness especially in today's high stressful corporate careers for both the spouses.

@so-be-it2

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I love this! Your first statement nails the point - every generation is different and the sooner we understand that the better. Why is everyone against change? It's bizzare to conclude women are afraid of marriage. Wrong. Women have a voice now and are independent and know exactly what they want. Marriage is not the be all and end all. There are ways of having a legal partner but that's not the point.

Absolutely right

Best video Didi theek bola❤❤❤❤

Very nice information 👌 ❤

So well said Anju . I treat my 2 daughter in laws the same way u said. 😊

Well said....it's our generation duty to spk about all these things. Many of us has created fuss. Instead of facing ,running from situation are been adopted

V nice video dear

You are so sweet. Your facial expressions concerning the topic is so natural. Hats off tobyou on such a mindset

I agree this new generation is very different thinking but agree everyone needs to change!!!

Anju explained very well. Completely agree.

Nice vlog God bless you all

Totally agree. You are correct Anju.

My kitchen is my kingdom and I run it my way.

Very true Anju .. today's generation is very different... Let's hope for the best 🙏🏻❤️... There's always a give and take in all relationships... 💜

Really true what you said.

Dear Anju, I recently watched your video on fostering happy and healthy relationships and addressing concerns about marriage. Your insights on communication, respect, and understanding were incredibly valuable. Thank you for using your platform to promote positivity and wisdom in relationships. Your work is truly appreciated. Best regards, Jyoti

Beautifully explained Arranged marriages are more secure but love marriages have problems But respect for one another is the most important factor

"Samajh main aa raha hain na" Anju ji you are so cute 😘

Chechi good advice Really u are a true innocent soul with clear mind ❤❤

Anju you r very lucky to hv Santosh as your husband. You might be free with your husband, not everyone can share with your husband .

Nice msg 👍

Well explained Anju Ippol ellam instant ho gaya he dear even moms r scared of would be bahu n daamad everyone have different types of experience i have same thoughts Anju by the grace of God my children r very gud

You are absolutely right Anju ji . Actually , now a days both girl and boy should respect each other and they should treat their parents equally .

My daughter is 5 😅 but how I wish you were her MIL ❤ you are so pure, real, practical in your thoughts 💭 your future Bahu will be so blessed.😇

Wow Anju much needed talk and still Reality but somewhere I saw both way few years girl side they Don't want her in-laws in house but she definitely like her family near by both way needed to understand and I saw family changing but still need more awareness both side .

Very true Anju

Absolutely right anju ❤

Hi anju mam....so well said...n I loved ur yoga poses ❤❤u r an inspiration for mi 😘luv u all❤

Very useful topic Anju.My view is that relationship built hone ke liye time dena chahiye.Sacrifices,acceptence dono side se hona chahiye.Tali ek hath se nahi bajati ye hamesa yad rakhana.Lekin isme important chij ye hai ki bahu bahar se aa rahi hai to pahala kadam ladake wonko uthana paxega.aur ye expect nahi karana ki jaise bahu aayegi dusre din se hi sab kuchachcha hona chahiye. Har ek rishta majbut hone ke liye fri tion hoa jaruri hai.lekin wo jo difference of opinion hota hai uske bad sikh leke dono partiyo ne aage badhna chahiye.

All fingers are not same, those who suffer they know better

Anju I totally agree ur mentality but nowadays generations have different ways to live their life that is I and you.

Hi chechi it was such an important information to all 😊

NICE MSG

To be fair, I would never tell my daughter to get married or not get married as that is her life choice...and I would respect her wishes either way as I unconditionally love her. The last thing I would want is for her to take on the responsibility of looking after a spoilt "man-baby" who is incapable of doing even basic chores around the house to help out because he has never been asked to lift a finger around the house by the mother! Such "man-babies" will only hold back my daughter progressing forwards in her life/ career... Also on the flip side, I know of girls who have got married/ gone to stay at their in-laws house and then complain to their parents that the mother-in-law is not a great cook, doesnt put out plates for the d-in-law to eat or pick up the d-in-law's plate after she has finished! Hence, there are spolied girls as well equally as much as boys! Such immature adults should not get married in my view till they develop some real life skills & common sense as otherwise it will only be a recipe for disaster on the longer run. Just because a kid is spoilt at home, doesnt mean they will be treated the same in their future adult life by others wherever they go...a few hard truths will need to be learnt. Marriage is not a necessity in this modern world where the concept of it is simply both overated/ outdated in my view. Each one to their own on whatever works for them. Also I dont understand why you commented that your husband was a zero (nothing) when you married him? That is a rather weird thing to say as you seem to be defining him by his monetary status at that point in time which is the wrong way to look at it, surely? Or are you trying to say his monetary status didnt stop you from marrying him? Regardless, reference to someone being a zero could be perceived as being pretty negative and is a poor choice of words.

Would love to meet you guys someday! Take care 🤗🫶

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Anju ji aap kitna bhi accha soch lo time hi batata ha kaisi saas aap banoge yaa aapki bahu kaisi milega yaa aapka son in law kaisa milega ..at the time of marriage hum sab yhi sochne ha sab accha hoga😂😂😂

@arunamahto325

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well said.

very informative video bec i m also in those one who suffer from this situation i can understand life partner most important person in our life bt sometimes situation like worst thats why i m little worried. should i get married

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Buddha statue is infact perfect for your yoga session❤

By the by, dr enthu paranju

Hi chechi🥰🥰

Anju in summers how you manage milk & more..milk ? They place milk in midnight and in morning its not good.. so how you manage pl inform. Thnks

Not only girls...even boys do not want to get married cos no one wants to adjust or take responsibility 😔

Private job in Singapore, US or any other country is ok. Considered best

In Todays materialistic world we are all in a very competitive rat race busy with our education and job and don’t have time for anything else times have changed and children don’t want to get into marriage. It’s very important to find the right partner to get married as every thing goes well till you are young but once couples retire the problem starts so many marriages fail after retirement these days dominating husbands have a different mind set and it’s very important for woman to be financially independent so that they never depend on their husband.

You have really lost weight n looking great❤

Hii Anju😊

Aap bhi kaise ho Di? ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Very true Anju but today's girls and girls parent they don't want their daughter to get married todays generation they won't liked to be told it can be boy or girl .parent pamper there child. Olden days girls were taught to be liabilities and boys asset but today girls have started working so they are no longer liabilities so parents don't want their daughter to get married because if they get married her income will go. Girls are not willing to take responsibility .no In law,big flat ,a cook ,maid this are the basic requirement for their marriage .I am earnings why should i listen to my partner. At the age of 40 and abovr they get this quality and they try to settle down but them it too late . And boys and boys parents are still in the old shoes. After certain period you will see lot of people suffering from depressions, isolation and self pity this has already started but the situation will be worse. Parents pls dont interfair in your child marriaged life From the day one ,abusive marriage should not be tolerated it apply to both boy and girl Both husband and wife should take the responsibility of daily chore and has to work together has a family

Shadi karke ladki ka sasural Jana concept is so obsolete . In today’s world .. shadi karna hai to apna alag Se ghar banao . Both parties should leave their paternal home and be responsible for their own lives and decisions.

Get real bamboo plant , their r many varieties, my favourite for garden is Variegated Bamboo , is perfect for a short hedge or container planting. A small-leafed bamboo, each leaf has a white stripe in the center. Cold hardy and versatile, it spreads quickly to fill a space. ,,, their u can place Buddha around Bamboo plant !!!

Aajkal divorce bhi khel ho gaya he dear sabko aapas me adjustment karna chahiye everyone have responsibility

Didi can you share yoga class details... can i attend it in USA...

Could you please share the details of the yoga instructor

@IndianMomInLondon

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+44 7435 390625 : neha ( yoga teacher)

Aap expect nahi karoge Anju .. kuch log boys parents dusri ke girl ko value nahi dete …Husband understand ho to girl ko kahi bhi values melega …I have two boys Main bhi aap ke jaise sochate hu … Sab ka values karna hai …

Ohh onnum parayanda chechi. Pillar ippo motham dark aah

Can you please share your yoga teacher details?

@IndianMomInLondon

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+44 7435 390625 : Neha ( yoga teacher)

Abhi youtubers se life lessons lena padega...

@arunamahto325

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can’t understand why she is teaching us all. it’s depends on situations,and is she going to apply for her also??

If daughter in law ask u to sit quietly in a corner and not interfere in her kitchen then how will u feel

This is all old news. Indians are already doing this for the past 20 years in the uk. What era are you living in.

Hi anju kaise ho aap Aap se Baat karna hai aap ne kaha tha email share kar do main ne kiya tha par aap ne reply hi nahi kiya please reply kar do