I really appreciate and respect Peterson giving credit to his student like that.

@Elizabeth-yg2mg

4 жыл бұрын

I noticed that too--it's good. I worked in research with a bunch of academics who took credit for their staff's ideas. It was demoralizing and unethical.

@vanillagrizzley

4 жыл бұрын

This is why he is so easy to like and appreciate!

@leytonzhang5607

4 жыл бұрын

Jordan is in the 99.99th percentile in both wisdom and intellect

@johnehurley7547

4 жыл бұрын

Yea well that's what real teachers do.

@brainactivity737

2 жыл бұрын

Giving credit to your team is a sign of confidence and good leadership. Bravo Peterson!

Don't go looking for friends. Find yourself, and what you want, and live within that, and your friends will already be there.

@AbdulSamad-dz4vw

4 жыл бұрын

👏 right

@human7491

Жыл бұрын

Easier said than done, for we are not alone.

@amihere383

Жыл бұрын

@@human7491 If it’s easier done than said then it isn’t worth doing

@QWERTY-gp8fd

6 ай бұрын

already did. financially independent still no friends, no woman. lonely miserable life ever since the parents died. money cannot fix this.

I spent a lot of my life trying to fit in and find my crowd when I should have been trying to find myself

@EdwardGFunk

4 жыл бұрын

oh

@yaboiplank6764

4 жыл бұрын

This sounds like a song,but I can't put my finger on it...

@justinkim7202

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly how I felt

@Jesterj13

4 жыл бұрын

I found you! Your on you tube comments

@Chrispullin_

4 жыл бұрын

Your just a typical human being no big issue bro you’ll be fine 💀

"You're not the plan. You're the thing that overcomes the obstacle to the plan." -JBP

@jerrygreene1493

4 жыл бұрын

@Brandon Stewart Is that supposed to be useful advice? How?

@obviouslykaleb7998

4 жыл бұрын

jerry greene Because plans don’t adapt, but people do. Likewise, a single plan is good for a single scenario.

@jerrygreene1493

4 жыл бұрын

@@obviouslykaleb7998 Posit An Ideal: 'Our research has shown if people conceptualize an ideal, what do you want, if you think that through and reach for it, you are less tormented by uncertainty, here you are alive and everything, if you are not capable of manifesting some relationship with the fact of your being, there would be nothing useful to do. You can make a case for adopting that strategy....' [Seriously dude. You had to do research to come to the revelation that if you decide what you want you then become less uncertain about what you want? Here you are alive and everything manifesting a relationship with the fact of your being? Dear JP did you manifest a relationship with the fact of your being today, and what did that action look like specifically? We are here and alive and stuff? That is some serious intellectualism.] I guess JP helps lost souls who are inspired when someone on YT tells them to clean their rooms, all good. As an intellectual though, JP is a complete idiot. An embarrassment to even the faux academia fields of psychology and philosophy. I can't use my eyes as electron microscopes? Real elements are real? If I do something that hurts I tend to not do it again? Thank you Jordan.

@hassaan1670

3 жыл бұрын

I read this in my voice first then Dr.Petersons voice. XD

THIS should be MANDATORY Marriage Counselling!!!!!!👍🏽

The sooner you know your traits and accept them (along with the limitations) the happier you are in life.

@tentimetex

3 жыл бұрын

Okay but for introverts who are creative, there is literally NOTHING that we can do in life. It is not monetizable. Industry is not looking for that.

@JFairhart

3 жыл бұрын

@@tentimetex - ok, accept that and be happy. Don’t complain or use excuses. Earn a wage and be dependable. That’s it.

@tentimetex

3 жыл бұрын

@@JFairhart thanks for the advice and tips.

@JFairhart

3 жыл бұрын

@@tentimetex - for souls like us, it is a very great accomplishment to be humble. The ego wants to be somebody in this world. But our destiny is to overcome ego and attain spiritual advancement which is extremely difficult if you don’t recognize the true purpose of your birth. And if you accept this life as it is, your next incarnation will be more advancement than imaginable. Good luck brother.

@laramatthews2082

3 жыл бұрын

Not too soon in life tho. There's alot of fundamental wisdom created in curious exploration and experimentation. This is why I can't get behind the "transkids" movement ... It negates/robs immature humans of that natural curiosity, exploration, and experimantation that is so fundamental to developing personal character. Not soon enough can be detrimental to maturation too tho ...

He has such a smooth way with words.

4:40 "The advantage of working with a conscientious person is that they're gonna work like mad....the disadvantage is that they're gonna work like mad.." Haha....that's right.

@indridcold8433

4 жыл бұрын

I work alone. I have worked alone since 2001. I do not even remember what it is like to have a coworker. I do not even see other people save the security guard at the guard Shack at the entry to the facility.

@ecurb10

4 жыл бұрын

@@indridcold8433 And do you like it that way? To an introvert like me that sounds like heaven!

@indridcold8433

4 жыл бұрын

@@ecurb10 I do not even remember what it is like to have a coworker. It would seem like an awkward and intrusive experience to have a coworker again. For work, I would have it no other way. I do not like the work I do. But the isolation and the pay is great!

@ecurb10

4 жыл бұрын

@@indridcold8433 Do you mind if I ask you what you do? Do you even see/talk to customers or clients?

@indridcold8433

4 жыл бұрын

@@ecurb10 I am a mechanic for the plant and vehicles of Estes Logistics North. I work third shift so I have no coworkers. I just repair the forklifts, machinery, lorries, even company cars and occasional employee vehicles as a benefit to them. I come to work, look up my assignments for the night, and get to work. The customers are handled by a different department. Most employees work at day. I am an in-house, nocturnal, grease monkey. But it pays extremely handsomely, thus I stay with it.

Introvert, orderly, industrious and boring here! I like to relax too.❤❤

@ecurb10

4 жыл бұрын

Me too, except the "industrious"....eek!

@isaorozco778

3 жыл бұрын

Gosh me too and single lmao ... Single by choice 🤣

When building a team I like to get people with vastly different traits and strengths and show them what they can accomplish together by using each strength together.

@Julebstube

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah I know, like a Wizard, Elf, Dwarf, Barbarian....

@BLITZY261

4 жыл бұрын

@@Julebstube ..and a serial killer...must have at least one of those.

@tahah.babikir7698

4 жыл бұрын

@@WordToTheWise dude thats not an appropriate response...

@ninjabeatz905

4 жыл бұрын

@@BLITZY261 People are hired for their psychopathic traits - Wall street

@dc1397

4 жыл бұрын

Like the movie with Adam Sandler in the Longest Yard.

The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking and so are we. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking

I just love this man. Thank you for sharing.

Become your own helping hand. Find another that does the same, and you'll be helping yourselves as well as each other and you'll develop a proclivity for moral guidance and harmonius balance in order and chaos, safety and strength, and emphasis and compassion for the individual as well as for the wider community. That's what we need when couples start families and have children in my opinion. It sets them up more well and healthy and respectable for the kids and adults alike and opens up the door for further moral and practical knowledge and competency.

@pthompson2113

4 жыл бұрын

So true. My parents did the opposite!

Education and all the advance studies is nothing to Jordan Peterson in what makes him stand out above most others, it's that he places it within his abundance of common sense. Look at Dr Phil , he sells common sense. I'm not a follower of Dr Phil but gotta drive that common sense point, I will follow and listen to the free and great counsel of Jordan Peterson for as long as he lends himself.

I strongly suggested we need more people like you

I wait every week for these videos.

this was put in a way that i can accept. thanks man

Thanks for actually posting videos related to the title👌👌👌

It sounds like this guy knows what he's talking about.hope he becomes successful one day💪

@wavewithmichael8780

4 жыл бұрын

Lol he is a very successful man, Type Jordan Peterson on KZread and you will find out how big he is.

@adriannagulto

4 жыл бұрын

Hes jordan peterson bro

@calebc2067

4 жыл бұрын

I think he was joking guys.

@yaboiplank6764

4 жыл бұрын

@@calebc2067 thx

@davyroger3773

4 жыл бұрын

@@wavewithmichael8780 r/Whoosh

We are all unique and different but we tend to strive better when we surround ourselves with those who have more similar personality traits :) we have better and stronger relationships ♡

@scottyben191

4 жыл бұрын

Erika K ✌🏼❤️

@ErikaK

4 жыл бұрын

@@scottyben191 much love Scotty!!

@scottyben191

4 жыл бұрын

Erika K Same! Hope your day is full of love and positivity!

@ErikaK

4 жыл бұрын

@@scottyben191 :) :) yours too!!!

@tahah.babikir7698

4 жыл бұрын

I hereby pronounce you as boyfriend and gurl friend.

Brilliantly concise and accurate this is so helpful

Thanks Dr. Peterson

This is an exceptionally good video. Thanks for posting it.

Oh so true .... all around

Thank you!

It's true enough what you are saying thank you very much for sharing

Learned about this guy from a random chat room and he’s a genius !!

The best speaker in the world

It's nice to have an introverted woman to relax & chill with. And an extroverted one to build & grow business with.

My father is extremely extremely low on agreeableness

@kirkjohnson9353

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe he has a son who is just like that.

@winx4930

4 жыл бұрын

Try one that disowned you for no other reason than an evil sister

@UserName-ii1ce

3 жыл бұрын

Dont minimize others problems because you think you had it worse

This is a well made video, kudos. Clean editing and syncing.

0:54 slow down buddy, I don't even have a personality yet

@katedemenok8340

4 жыл бұрын

LMAO

This makes a lot of sense. I think I am definitely industrious. I prefer to be busy with something useful.

Brilliant!

My husband was orderly and conscientious, I am much more relax and chill kinda person. He was disagreeable and I was agreeable. So he'd sit there and tell me to cook and clean and make sure everything was done while freaking out about it all not being done. I use to pretend I was asleep just to get down time.

Such an articulate person

Bravo! JP yet again…Nailed it! 😎🤜🏻🤛🏻

These videos are a wealth of useful information thanks for the up! 🔥🤙

*Posts a Jordan Peterson video again* *instantly clicks*

@WordToTheWise

4 жыл бұрын

Always good to see you around :)

@VinnyTheory

4 жыл бұрын

Hey we’re on the same journey, I’m just way behind you haha

@VinnyTheory

4 жыл бұрын

Psychonaut that’s like saying if Einstein was on Benzos for a couple months then all of his work is meaningless. You need more than that to hurt a mans reputation. You’re just a hater and the fact that you are even watching a Jordan Peterson video confuses me

@VinnyTheory

4 жыл бұрын

Psychonaut I’m not going to fight with you, I just feel bad for you that you consider yourself to be intellectual when you haven’t heard anything Jordan has ever said or know anything about him. By default all of your judgements are invalid. Once again, it is like never knowing any of Einstein’s work and attempting to spread word to people that do know his work that he is an idiot, which is laughable. I didnt compare the two because of their fields, I compared the two because they have the same level of genius. You would know this if you were 2 hours into one of Jordan’s lectures, but all you do is read headlines. I have nothing to prove to you, and the fact that you continue to try to take down Jordan’s reputation with the mere fact that he’s on prescribed drugs is hilarious haha. You’re such a snowflake liberal if you care about that. Have you ever seen the show House? He’s also a genius addicted to Vicodin and no one cares, all the viewers are absolutely in love with him. Why? Because he’s once again a genius and an amazing person. Drugs don’t reflect character, especially prescribed legal drugs. Einstein was a great scientist but was also well known for his knowledge of philosophy. Jordan’s an even greater philosopher, and both are genius’s. Although I’m wasting my time arguing with you, considering your opinion on Jordan is one that uneducated and unjustified, I’m not surprised because Jordan is the only person I will always stand for regardless. And honestly, I’m not even going to continue this discussion. If you want to hate or judge a person you know nothing about then fine, be an idiot, and if you want to actually provide a fair analysis then go watch Jordan’s actual lectures. Goodbye

@albrtl

4 жыл бұрын

@Psychonaut *Casually compulsive response towards invocation of Godwin's Law Contrary to what others may think, I suspect your story contains merit-- SYKE! *STEALS YOUR DRUGS WHILE READING THIS!*

Introvert on the internet seeks introvert on the internet

@j2582

4 жыл бұрын

Cozy.

@jimjabal

3 жыл бұрын

To quote The Fray, ".. you've found me. you've found me".

But even so for example that both parties have different personality traits, if love is really on the table, each would make sacrifices, adjustments for them to be compatible. They will endure for a time their different traits, then learn how to understand it, so they could move forward. But if one, even if one only won't make the efforts to match with the other, then it's best to leave the relationship.

I wish all teachers were so enthusiast on what they taught because it's so engaging and interesting this way with the passion and makes you want to pay as much attention as the enthusiastic one. Just imagine how much education would change in contrast to that.

And this is the sum of all fears, which is the greatest connection we all must look for.. beside what somebody looks like. If you do not have a compatible feel and intent where somebody is just going to fall apart

@robfolks

4 жыл бұрын

Huh?

@pthompson2113

4 жыл бұрын

What?

@andredelacerdasantos4439

4 жыл бұрын

@@pthompson2113 Excuse me?

Where your different will generate a constant source of conflict, watch for it predict it and resolve it before it becomes one. Set the frame from the get go.

I'm glad this video popped up in my feed... turns out I'm a conscientious and industrious person, not just a nervous wreck that can't sit still and covers up anxiety by doing something all the time, LOL.

I wish i was that good of crediting people of what they did and remembering statistics

Mr. Peterson you are so smart and Intelligence. :)

It was good, made me think...

Bereft of curiosity, a silent cold chill moves with the fog that quells what remains.

@tentimetex

3 жыл бұрын

What does that mean?

@handssolo7980

3 жыл бұрын

@@tentimetex stay curious, or be forgotten in the mist.

I wish I saw this before I got married.

@seshwondo376

4 жыл бұрын

I’m miserable single and miserable with a girlfriend, life is suffering regardless of your state in it

@kirkjohnson9353

4 жыл бұрын

You have things in common with your wife- she is no doubt saying the same thing.

@blueboat9581

3 жыл бұрын

@@seshwondo376 ask yourself what do you want. Then go after that

@gracekestler4116

3 жыл бұрын

I spent a lot of my life trying to fit in and find my crowd when I should have been trying to find myself

Thank you for the great video! Love your content man! I escpacially loved the ones where his voice is like echoed. Would love to see one of those again! Keep it up.

@WordToTheWise

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Moreno, I'll look into it ;)

He just described 90% of American marriages lol 😂

@salomebrunner7667

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

LISTEN to this man BEFORE you find yourself in a quagmire. Truly.

Wow, just wooow...🙏🙏🙏

Opposites may attract ... But they can never last. Companionship can only really come from similarity.

That's true

I love it- "people with low productivity were wiped out by those with high productivity" hahaha...IF ONLY- there's so many more people to GO

This is the only true thing I have heard this guy say, and I have watched plenty of his videos

Goggins would say to triple down on your weaknesses

Fixing other peoples problems can be satisfying whether you are a heart surgeon or a plumber. When you leave the job, people can go on with their lives.

My wife is an extrovert. I love it. Doing chores give me time to myself. 😁

I’m not in any way understanding of everything Jordan speaks about. However, I’ve spent a lot of my youth teaching those seeking advice or guidance, that in order to fit in with people, or in this case, a significant other, you MUST figure out, understand (change if needed) who you are.

Well that explains a lot of my past relationship failures lol

This is all given info...

Tolerance transcends into ever deepening varials. How much you can tolerate it for tat, given your own imperfections is unique to a degree. But I still agree with Jordans thesis.

Is it possible to transform one's personality traits through repeating thoughts and actions aimed at creating new habits?

That’s been something we have been trying to pin down for quite some time. What is optimal for a good relationship. For awhile it was this idea that there needs to be this counter balance. (Opposites attract.) Though we found that to be wrong mostly, though there was something about it worth mentioning. Then obviously its been said the more similar you are the better. Though yes, in some respects. Though also no, because the desire for a relationship stagnates if they are exactly the same. After all, humans are a reactionary species that only lived for 30 years or so. So now we sit at a cross roads between the two theories. After all balance is needed in all things, or so the saying goes.

WOW

If you're watching at 3:30, amazing mind to the student mentioned shortly after:p

I think about conflicting personality traits a lot. The way I see it, if you both find it difficult and nerve grating to be around each other, it’s not that either one is wrong, it’s just the wrong fit. It shouldn’t feel like work and a lot of tongue biting just to be around each other. Same goes for personalities too similar to yours. It’s hard to respect or grow w a person w the same flaws as you.

What about the remaining traits Neuroticism and Openness to Experience? What can someone that usually score high in neuroticism do to navigate in relationships?

So in a few words: don't be too different but don't be too similar either.

I’m definitely annoyed by mess!

I'm one of those annoying people who go around engaging in conversation.

@ConvictedHeart

4 жыл бұрын

*gasp* YOU MONSTER!

@evangeliamintzai6302

4 жыл бұрын

Me too!!!

@Me-by8qi

4 жыл бұрын

This is what some would say: Please stop, I have work to do. Also, I'm most likely carrying your load. (Pareto) But I just work from home.

@indridcold8433

4 жыл бұрын

I write to avoid interpersonal interactions with others and to practice my English written vocabulary. But I do not talk to others. Why talk when I can write to anonymous people thousands of kilometers away? If we do not like each other, it is not a problem. All you know is my name and we never write each other again. On the opposite end of the spectrum, we can never like each other because we do not know each other. We correspond for a spell then never write each other again. It is great, random communication without consequences!

@TheyCalledMeT

4 жыл бұрын

then leave your office- and get a sales job

Hey i have a question i dont have a personality i see the situation and the outcomes and act according to it and is happy with is am i normal?

I have no idea how to socialize so i joke everytime I'm with someone, like a lot to the point of no one takes me seriously, i was ok till life slam your face to the ground and show you what he really is, joke no longer hide who you are you can't denied yourself anymore

@mattkaczmarczyk6953

4 жыл бұрын

Same

See, Peterson's not always wrong.

I always thought that it would be a mismatch if both partners are extroverted, since both want to talk 24/7

where do u do these test thou?

Does anyone know if Jordan Peterson ever addresses wanting to balance out your traits yourself. Ie does he believe someone who’s lazy can become more industrious and keep to it. Or is his position, you are who you are? Thanks comments

Has anyone noticed that most all of comments are from extroverts. Which is obvious from the comments themselves. What I'm getting to is " I'm glad for KZread ect. " Being able to share a little at a time has helped me change my personality from an extreme introvert to move ever so slightly on the scale of opening up a little more. It still blows me away how people need people though. I just can't make since of it. I'm not trying to upset anyone.

I'm intj. I need an observer to stop my perfect plans failing due to my administrative incompetence. I know it's the admin and my se weeknes because I've written business plans for more sencory aware people and they have done well. I've tried twice and failed twice.

@KaraokeNig

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe twice is not enough.. try more times that may even improve your administration. Strong will.

@RoyceWhiteOfficial

4 жыл бұрын

@A Van Called Rupert-It's called Positive Accountability (the observer you speak of). And it's not only for those with "administrative inability". Those with Conscientious personalities (those with admin ability) are only 25% of the population, and even though they are Task Oriented, they can still accomplish the wrong things. Further, when they start to succeed, they need people oriented skills to lead properly or they will begin to fail. So in reality, we all need someone of our opposite personality to be strong where we are week. Also, your def of "admin incompetence" is needed to make sure we're talking about the same thing. I am doubly Outgoing, with half part Task and half part People orientation. And I need positive accountability to make sure I stay on target and get the "right" work done-activity doesn't equal accomplishment. My bride is 97% opposite of who I am and is strong where I am weak and is a great accountability for me-as I am for her-in personal and business life. Knowing your personality, hire someone who is opposite to be who you cannot or will not be. Lead them well and get to the success you are looking for. Or bring in someone you highly respect who is willing, and let them be your positive accountability. In all cases, a good understanding of personality allows you to know why you do what you do and how to connect with your opposites (and even your similars) so you can build rapport and understanding to get to your definition of success. Press on!

20 years into my relationship and according to these metrics, we are doomed...

@momentumflux8863

4 жыл бұрын

Same here...

Where can I find the link to the entire video?

@WordToTheWise

2 жыл бұрын

Links are in the description under "Video Sources" :)

It is so hard to believe that women are higher in agreeableness. That flys in the face of every experience I have ever had 🤣

Industrious person are dedicated and religiously do their work while others in a manner of less orderliness are lazy with no disposition or care around ..... God bless pro and more power !!!

Can our traits be altered?

For some reason he reminds me of Rick from rick and morty

@kendrastrange18

4 жыл бұрын

Cause Rick is a "know it all" ass who doesnt really know it all...

@InnovAce

4 жыл бұрын

Kendra Strange lol hm

@TheElectriczil

4 жыл бұрын

@@kendrastrange18 idk seems to be the only one traveling dimensions and all that jazz seems like he might know more than jerry

@mrzombiebrain

4 жыл бұрын

i think becuz ricks knows "everything" in his world and Peterson has a way of explaining things that makes u think he knows everything

i love you all

Funny too because his mention of sex is opposite in my situation.

5:50, me and my girlfriend.

When I look at my life, I see how I have a wonderful woman, who is different enough from me, but not too different. I also have a call to pastoral ministry, which make complete sense because of my extraversion and intellectual tendencies. It's funny how God works everything out.

I’m a introvert. It puts me at a disadvantage to succeed. I don’t know how to act in groups of people. How can o succeed if I’m so lazy and don’t like being around people because I feel so uncomfortable?

@oleandra3759

4 жыл бұрын

Joseph find success in flow with who you are. Think of successful authors as one example. Besides, you may consider yourself lazy because you’re thinking of activities you don’t enjoy. What about activities you do enjoy?

Ok

I know I'm an introvert now I'm 50. I don't care so much about opinions in groups of maybe 10 or more peeps. Even if I know them. If there are too many people I avoid or remove myself.

How do you know if you are extroverted? I'm 26 and I still have no idea. I have no problem talking to people, I really enjoy it, but it also tries me out. I'm super motivated by people around me, but desperately need occasional alone time. Every personality test I take yields different results

@pfireball9383

4 жыл бұрын

You're like me.... I'm in between both. A good balance I think

@orderingfoodwgoogledoxesu3113

4 жыл бұрын

@@pfireball9383 good but tricky, its hard to solve social problems because I dont know what kind of personality I have. It's like i have a different solution to the same situation based on what mood I'm in

@pfireball9383

4 жыл бұрын

@@orderingfoodwgoogledoxesu3113 take a " big 5" or 16 personality test online... it's free

My theory, sort of, as to why stars (extroverted) turn to drugs, they are so used to having people around that when they disappear for even a moment, they are lost and can only find solace in drugs. The introverts seem to live out their lives long because they are okay being alone.

@baraka256

4 жыл бұрын

Gustavo Joris Haha... my observations could be wrong.

in a few words, be alone

do you think of a question then try to answer with negativity and positivity

@tahah.babikir7698

4 жыл бұрын

You mean pros and cons...

Messiah