Wasn’t expecting a VAR reference from Penn Badgley I won’t lie 😂 You Season 4 Part 1 is available to watch on Netflix now!

@trishacollymore4397

Жыл бұрын

What's VAR?

@whosdevin

Жыл бұрын

Value at risk?

@darkrider3952

Жыл бұрын

@@trishacollymore4397 Video Assistant Referee. Used in football usually to review fouls and offsides that aren’t obvious to the refs and linesmen on the pitch.

@nadim2911

Жыл бұрын

@@whosdevin bruh

Interviewer: is someone killing a family of 4 a red flag? Penn: again, It depends on the context

@BaDazai

Жыл бұрын

😅 If the family of 4 are the killers from Chainsaw Massacre then yes, context would make sense!

@windydayys

Жыл бұрын

joe moment

@moonbatt

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@mariyabardarska5895

Жыл бұрын

😂😂 the guy is open minded, it's why I love him. Like what if it was self defense? What if it was the Hitlers and by killing 4 he saved millions? You just don't know 🤷🏻

@mollyowen6094

Жыл бұрын

Surprised he did not level w/ having an avatar photo in car at this rate ☠️

You can tell Penn Badgley is very smart and insightful

@topicc06

Жыл бұрын

Can you really

@krys1075

Жыл бұрын

Agreed I’m liking penn even more with his answers in this interview 🙌🏽

@Ferfmane

Жыл бұрын

No shit

@chappelayers397

Жыл бұрын

And hot

@sharyebethancourt3660

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

Lmao Penn needs context for everything, love an open minded man!

“Normalize not seeing Harry Potter” And this is why I love Penn Badgley.

@gandalainsley6467

Жыл бұрын

Its just a movie.

@simpleplanfan011

Жыл бұрын

@@gandalainsley6467 I know that but people act like it’s a crime against the universe to never have seen or read Harry Potter.

@gandalainsley6467

Жыл бұрын

@@simpleplanfan011 Yeah , it is dumb.

@Dazzzz4

Жыл бұрын

When he said, "I would wonder, are they ok?" Did he mean the people saying it's a red flag or people who haven't seen the movies? lol

@taethetical

Жыл бұрын

Exactly because I never even watched harry potter until I went to uni, reason being is because my parents are overly religious and could never get away with watching it lol

I appreciate Penn trying to normalize being poor and not make that a red flag

@ava-jl1ll

Жыл бұрын

Agreed.

I appreciate Penn's slowness to cast judgement in this video. There's value within going slow and trying to understand someone's situation or preferences, which seems to be how Penn is approaching the answers to these questions!

@Babyblue115

Жыл бұрын

Yes true, but also I thought about why the women in this interview was so quick to calling something a red flag and I think it´s because women are conditioned to judge men quicker on their red flags because they have to protect themselves and remove themselves from any situation where they could be potentially harmed/attacked. So let´s appreciate the slowness to cast judgement from Penn but also not judge the women in this video for being quick to judge.

@Babyblue115

Жыл бұрын

I also assumed that the people in the video where straight and that might be false. But still, this was just from another perspective.

@bichen-up-ur

Жыл бұрын

good quality as an actor to keep multiple factors and points of view in mind

@ajiththomas2465

Жыл бұрын

​@@Babyblue115 Based and true comment.

@eleo_b

Жыл бұрын

I liked his view on the housing situation, knowing that a lot of people don’t have a choice

I think we're taking labeling things as "red flags" way too intensely. Like a red flag has to be something that points towards a very unhealthy behavior or thought pattern or some issue. Sleeping in socks or in a small bed doesn't really point to anything besides odd preferences in comfort

@Njbear7453

Жыл бұрын

Lol

@zarosderer4447

Жыл бұрын

you beeing very toxic, red flag.

@snoozyq9576

Жыл бұрын

I agree as someone who has ignored very large red flags in the past

@guitarsea003

Жыл бұрын

Same. Like a simple preference over something shouldn’t even be tagged as a red flag.

@emiliawhatmore2608

Жыл бұрын

It’s not that serious, get a life mate

''penn badgley is hot, joe goldberg is not'' someone needs to get that tatted lmao

@Truthseeker-kc8rd

Жыл бұрын

That should be a disclaimer before each episode😂

"Compatibility is something that is earned and worked for." Tati's takes are so smart.

Tati is such a great actress because I would have never guessed this was her voice when I watch Sabrina or YOU

In my opinion, finding Joe attractive isn't a red flag. The show conditions you to find him charming. If we saw the show from Becks or Mariennes eyes, we would 100% think he is insane and not find him attractive. But because we see the show from his eyes, we see how Joe views himself. And because Joe sees himself as a hero who is forced to do bad things, we start to see him as that. The show relies on our trust in a main character who in any other context would be completely detestable. And that is the genius of the show. We want to see him succeed since we identify with him more than any other character. And Penn Badgley just has a lot of natural charm and charisma which makes us less likely to see him as a bad person.

@finpin2622

Жыл бұрын

True, although I will say I still find it weird when people root too hard for Joe. Even though we're seeing things mostly through his perspective, we STILL see the cracks in his facade and all his hypocrisy. So it's fun to watch him do what he does, and in a way you're like "MAN just stop murdering please" but for me, I'm not rooting for him to succeed 🤣 I want to see that man in peril. Finding him hot is fine, hoping he gets a redemption arc and gets to live a happy life after everything .... Is a bit weird.

@NataliaPessoaXOXOMAKE

Жыл бұрын

@@finpin2622yeah I’m the same. I don’t understand people that are rooting for him hard??? Like… he’s crazy y’all. No thanks.

@gandalainsley6467

Жыл бұрын

@@finpin2622 Well the thing is that nearly all the people in you suck and you don't feel really bad for them. That is why people are rooting for Joe. Its like with Friday the 13 and people rooting for Jason.

@mariyabardarska5895

Жыл бұрын

That. And also, Joe as a person is actually quite interesting. Like I don't get what's with all the automatic hate towards him, he kills people yes, we all know that's bad and no one is defending it, but can we move on to discussing something else about him or maybe go a little deeper? If we imagine Joe with the same perso ality traits but growing up in a stable home entertainment and not developing his... Characteristic hobbies, then he's actually a very intelligent, insightful and might I add - compassionate person. He can understand people very well, better than they understand themselves, and if he used those powers for good, he'd be an amazing person. I personally really enjoy his internal monologues and his observations on society. Granted the people we see on the show are their own personal kind of batshit crazy and awful, and are exaggerated versions of real life people, but nonetheless still those musings ring very true with he world we have.

@Lollipop.er42

Жыл бұрын

Yes! Penn keeps saying it’s because he is white but it’s a 110% that he’s the main character!!

Socks in bed being a red flag... Dude, I can't sleep if my feet are cold, it's not really something to overthink for me 😂

@Olivia-bl8ez

Жыл бұрын

Right ? I can’t sleep if my feet are cold.

@Ayosh69

Жыл бұрын

Same here 😂

Someone: *Breathes* Tati Gabrielle: 🚩

@tgardner11

Жыл бұрын

I love her so so much. She has a stunning face and just a great aura.

@simonharknesstv

Жыл бұрын

@@tgardner11 she’s amazing 😂 loved chatting to her and the cast!

@u8395

Жыл бұрын

Penn Bagdley: 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

@avikamnarwal

Жыл бұрын

in indian tati means poop and i cant stop now

4:21 THANK YOU PENN! Star signs and astrology are not inherently a bad thing, but when people judge other or write people off / say bad things about them without actually getting to know them its harmful. It's like judging a book by its cover. Also yeah most people that judge people because of that know barely anything about it

@scribblemonster370

Жыл бұрын

I agree to the "know barely anything about it" Part. Because as someone who is a bit much into astrology, these people judging everyone based on just their sun signs is like my last straw lmao. Because behavior is different based on different planets. So at that point, they're just writing people off at a probability of one out of a hundred

I'm sorry tati's thought processes through each scenario is hilarious 😭😭

@aa4488

Жыл бұрын

Not really

@laurel1865

Жыл бұрын

The idea she thinks we’ve all seen Harry Potter because, “what did you watch in your childhood….” 😂😂😂😂😂 I was an adult when those movies came out. Good lord.

@rekameszaros

Жыл бұрын

@@laurel1865 she’s 27, I’m her age and anyone’s who a bit younger or older than us didn’t see or read HP is bit weird, not a red flag but definitely an question you will ask them as “how could you avoid it your whole life?”.

Wearing socks to bed is not a red flag! Some people just have poor circulation and their feet get cold (….like me 😅).

@Xbitxx

Жыл бұрын

For real lol. I felt personally attacked on that one. I never viewed people wearing socks to bed as a "weird" thing. So I was surprised to see that they all thought that was a red flag

@thebookseeker8880

Жыл бұрын

I am also that person. Im always cold so for me sleeping in socks would be a red flag cuz I dont need another hothouse plant I need someone who is able to warm me haha

The fact that Penn needs to know the context 😂 he’s just like me fr.

The more interviews I watch of Penn Badgley, the more I fall in love with him!!!!!😭❤️❤️🙈

All I can say is Tati is an amazing actress if that is what she sounds like in real life

@pde8444

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I’m very confused w her voice

@ZymexProductionz

Жыл бұрын

This! I like her character in the show and want good things for her.. However.. Now the actress herself tho.. Her I can't stand I've just figured out

@TM-il8rb

Жыл бұрын

@@ZymexProductionz why is that?

@ZymexProductionz

Жыл бұрын

@@TM-il8rb My brain is just weird like that.. I can't really stand that fast-paced "like"-filled way of speaking :i

@gerome022

Жыл бұрын

​@@ZymexProductionz she talks that way, cuz she's trying to censor herself..or she's not well rested, I feel like.

i love the cast's personalities so much, penn is understanding of other's point of views and i agree with most of his answers, for example that other people can't afford money or those who didn't watch harry potter lol

People in our late 20s who don’t have social media anymore actually seems like LESS of a red flag these days. Like it’s refreshing and means they’re not interested in public opinion, they just want to live their lives 🤷🏼‍♀️

The single bed one is ridiculous! What’s wrong with sleeping in a single bed in your 20s or even much later in life?? Single person = single bed, just makes sense

@laurel1865

Жыл бұрын

It’s whatever makes you comfortable. My daughter has always had a full sized or queen mattress, but that’s so all the sheets are the same.

i dont think it's a red flag to say joe is hot if they're talking about his physical appearance (because he is attractive) but if they are saying he's hot because of his behavior, there's obviously something wrong with them. the woman that called him charming had a point. that's a big part of how he gets away with things (plus it's an unrealistic show). he is charming and it can make you overlook the bad things he's done and how bad and dangerous he truly is. but it's still never ok to call his behavior hot or say that you want someone to do that to you.

Tati the actress that plays marieanne is so real like I love her energy so much

Cool seeing Tati's actual personality, she seems lovely.

penn badgley talking about astrology… HE GETS IT. KING

The bed part is kinda unfair cause not everyone can afford a new bed and/or not have enough space for a bigger one. Living is getting expensive. I'm almost 20 and never had anything bigger than a twin my entire life

@xoxokennya

Жыл бұрын

They said late twenties not early twenties 😭

@kizz991

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking what if they don’t have a big enough room for a bigger bed, like maybe a uni dorms might only have single beds for the accommodations you can afford. Some of my friends accommodations are very small bedroom areas with a single bed and maybe a desk. Perfectly fine to me.

@in_theMoment

11 ай бұрын

​@@xoxokennyaI must've missed that, but I still stand by my point.

@starcrysis23

Ай бұрын

I didn’t have a full sized bed until I was 26 and it was cuz I was living with someone. I’m poor so I barely have had a mattress at all till then. I slept on a cot with a piece of foam on it, I had a really cheap uncomfortable futon, and had a bunk futon with a twin on top, and all this was after 18. I’m 28 now and have a full sized mattress a friend bought me that’s on the floor because I can’t afford a frame.its pretty cramped with me and my bf and 3 cats. Especially cuz my bf sleeps with a ton of pillows on all sides of him kinda pushing me off lol

I don’t think calling your parents mommy or daddy is that much of a red flag. Sometimes that’s just what they grew up calling their parents and they’re just used to it.

@redred7702

Жыл бұрын

Yeah. I’ve got a bunch of friends who call their parents mommy or daddy. Well to be exact, it’s closer to “mammey” and “daddey”, which is just another of the million ways to call your parents in asian languages.

@tdelioncourt1268

Жыл бұрын

I had an ex hate that about me, when he called his parents by their first names (didn't say a thing but I consider it to be so so cold)... like? I'm sorry I grew up in a family were showing affection isn't bad?

@susalkasarahi

Жыл бұрын

I feel like in Hispanic culture it’s super normal to be an adult and still call your parents mami and papi. I think only my white American friends call their parents mom and dad.

@millykay3209

Жыл бұрын

I feel like here in Australia you’d get bullied hardcore for calling your parents that 😂 It makes me feel icky

@starcrysis23

Ай бұрын

I called my grandmother “grammy” as a kid and I still do. It would take a conscious effort to stop

I grew up in the Southeast US and knew many people who weren’t allowed to watch or read Harry Potter as kids for religious reasons. It was strict, too. Getting caught with one of the books was as a physical punishment

@dailycupofizzy

Жыл бұрын

I was never allowed to watch Harry Potter. One day I just convinced my mom but my dad was never happy with it. Stole and hid one of my books because of it

@snoozyq9576

Жыл бұрын

I had very religious neighbours like this. They saw all our fave movies as being very bad and they were all banned.

@oladeleayoola

Жыл бұрын

@@snoozyq9576 my wife wasn’t allowed to watch/read it because it had “magic” and “witches” which was strictly against her parents/grandparents beliefs

@laurel1865

Жыл бұрын

Or because we were adults who had no interest in watching or reading kid books.

The sad thing is there ARE actually people who consider meaningless shit like not having seen a certain movie as a red flag.

I sleep with socks on. I just like having socks on

@snoozyq9576

Жыл бұрын

Yea if it's a cold night why not keep your feet warm? It's only logical.

I wear socks to bed … I never thought it was weird 😂

after watching this, his intelligence proves me why he plays Joe of all people.

I hope Marienne comes back in part 2, I love Tati so much I wish she was in more scenes this season. (but I hope she teams up with Ellie to take down Joe or something, I want more of Marienne but I need her to be safe haha)

@joestar2399

Жыл бұрын

well :)

You can really see the difference in maturity levels between them. Penn is the only one who didn’t say “I do this so it’s normal”.

@ajiththomas2465

Жыл бұрын

I dint think it's a difference in maturity levels. The reason why the actresses are more quick to jump at red flags than Penn is because they need to do that to avoid danger and harm in real life.

@NewWesternFront

Жыл бұрын

@@ajiththomas2465 yes beware the bed-sock killer

Damnnnn!!!!!!!! This Penn got incredible answers. Thank you for understanding that well very different circumstances/realities.

Socks in bed is a red flag? They must have great heating!

I’ll never understand what’s the problem with wearing socks to bed. Peopl always say it’s weird but there isn’t really a justification. Is it weird to wear pjs? It’s the same thing. I just have cold feet.

@xgise

Жыл бұрын

Yeah and one of them said socks to bed is like cover under covers, like, have you not heard of PJs? Also my feet don't really get cold, but I feel like socks are comfy especially after clipping my nails, I hate getting my nails snagged on the threads

Penn trying really hard to hide that he knows astro lol.

penn explaining the astrology thing is so perfect. that’s exactly how i feel.

Pen sounds normal and healthy

People who say socks in bed is a red flag have never had the beautiful experience of bad circulation in their hands and feet and can actually be woken up because of how painfully cold their feet gets when socks were not initially worn to bed... ...

I can imagine Penn enjoys playing Joe a lot as he seems like such a thoughtful, genuine guy. So playing a psychopathic serial killer must be fun!

@StochasticGreen

9 ай бұрын

He's talked about it in other interviews. I'm not not sure he necessarily enjoys it, he was morally conflicted about playing the character and almost didn't do it. It seems like the cast all has fun together though.

Yep. What he said is so true. It is wrong to ask someone's star sign right in the beginning before seeing it for yourself whether you are compatible or not with that person. As someone into Vedic astrology, it's a vast subject, quite complicated and the more you dig deep the more you realise that we are misusing astrology to our benefit. Infact there are so many less knowledgeable astrologers out there wrongfully predicting stuffs... Let alone common people like us.

Penn looks like he could be in the Nativity Story

@JanaJTerra

Жыл бұрын

This comment made me lol. 🤣

@crashcadet851

Жыл бұрын

Oh my gawd 🤣 or a cult leader 😆

I love how human they are.

I just like socks man. Why is it a red flag to wear them to bed 😂

@Olivia-bl8ez

Жыл бұрын

I just like my feet to not be cold

the way tati talks about astrology ... i love u queen

Wearing socks to bed is weird...? 🥺 But it's comfy!

@snoozyq9576

Жыл бұрын

People heving a problem with you keeping your feet warm is the real red flag!

@laurel1865

Жыл бұрын

It’s like they’ve never heard of winter. 😂😂😂

@evelinamean3642

Жыл бұрын

And I will catch a cold if I’m not wearing them. Judging me for keeping me healthy is a red flag😡 🚩

Penn “it depends” Badgley over here

TIMES HAVE ALL WAYS BEEN HARD for some people more than others. even when things were going well the people have a long history of taking nice things and fucking them up.

My dad used to buy my mom a fancy perfume that he also buys for my stepmom and I thought it was weird until I put 2 and 2 together and realized it’s the perfume his mom wears ❤

I really love that Pen would ask if someone was Ok if they’ve never seen HP. Some religions and cults can be very strict about the kind of media they allow (surprise surprise witchcraft ain’t their bag). And growing up in that kind of environment can be damaging. It was a very insightful response by Pen.

ive never watched the whole HP movies justice for us 😂 im perfectly okay 😂

I watched the first and 2nd HP movie but I felt like it was overly hyped and was talked about so much that it deterred me from finishing it.. until Covid/quarantine happened and my fiancé who loves HP made me have a whole HP marathon with him and I understood why people loved it so much lol.

Imagine having a dinner party with Penn and Tati

Thanks for the social media Joe. I’m a girl in my 20s and now my only social media is KZread and it’s great. Highly recommend.

Staring at my socks in my single bed while Im 27 at home with my family…..

@esthergift8373

8 ай бұрын

Right!? 😂

Me in my single bed with socks on in my 20s💀

@cam0987

4 ай бұрын

... living in ur mom's basement, u employed 😂😂

What is so weird about wearing socks in bed?? I hate having cold feet, socks warm them up…

@Lakerfanforlife

Жыл бұрын

Most people feel more comfortable without socks going to bed and some do because some people their feet get cold so they put socks on

@ermagernern

Жыл бұрын

I can't sleep if my feet are cold!!!

Omg Tati seems so chill and cool

There's a game called red flag or deal breaker. I played it on a date once. and all my answers sounded like Tati's I just can't give you a yes or no answer. 💀 Also Penn's mentally healthy and so logical about everything. I'm so jealous of his wife

9:46 this is cultural too. I call my mom mommy/Madre and my dad daddy/father. To them calling the mom or dad was disrespectful and too casual. Mommy/daddy was affectionate and Madre/Father was respectful.

He is slowly becoming Giga Chad, and it’s beautiful.

Regarding the horoscope, I agree don’t let it be the first thing you ask.

3:50 THANK YOU

I wear socks all day and to bed bc my feet are always cold and I don't like when they get sweaty when just wearing slippers 🤷🏻‍♀️

5:55 when someone won’t show you their basement… totally thought the interviewer was finding a polite way to ask about ppl not showing you their junk for a second 😅 it makes their answers funnier

My husband had a case of athlete’s foot when we first started sleeping together and he insisted on wearing his socks because he didn’t want to spread it. 🥰 Context is everything.

@yasselesca

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, context is everything :). Can you explain to me, why it's weird to wear socks when sleeping? Where I live it's normal. Don't you guys get cold feet?

@EsoteriaHealing

Жыл бұрын

I know! People make a big deal out of nothing. My extremities are always cold and i NEED socks.

It's funny because I actually didn't grow up watching Harry Potter so my guy now was like YOU have to watch it. I did and my favorite is the last movie. However, I would have hated it if he thought it was a red flag lol. I love that Penn said what he did about it.

yeah... i hadn't seen harry potter and then binge watched them all, four or five years ago

For a fragrance consisuer like myself I see nothing wrong with getting something I enjoyed for an ex for someone else. But for someone who isn't into fragrance as much as myself it could be a red flag because fragrance for many bring back memories of good times. I've always been hey if you to leave I won't hold ya back kinda guy.

Imagine penn dating someone who’s seen “you” and their just like, man I hope this goes well 😂

@samantha_nel

Жыл бұрын

Penn has a wife 😭

Joe is so judgemental that to see Penn be diplomatic is really refreshing

Gosh I love Penn 🥺♥️

My now wife had not seen HP OR Star Wars and it was fantastic for our relationship cuz I got to show her and make her a fan

I have horrible circulation, so in the winter my feet get ice cold. Like, to the point where I can’t feel my toes and I can’t sleep. So, I’ll wear socks to bed in that instance, and I don’t think it’s inherently weird. Also, not a red flag in either case. That sounds more like a personal preference than a “red flag”

@slytheroineq8868

Жыл бұрын

You should try an electric underblanket!! I have the same problem with my legs and feet, it’ll hurt a ton but the electric blanket has been a game changer!

@NewWesternFront

Жыл бұрын

@@slytheroineq8868 wait what it hurts?

@slytheroineq8868

Жыл бұрын

@@NewWesternFront Yes i have bad circulation, which sometimes causes a lot of pain in the winter when its cold. I dont know why, but its one of the few things that help

I agree with Tati that Penn & Joe are different - Joes behavior is ALL red flags 🚩

My socks make me feel warm, cozy and safe in bed 😩 I literally have to sleep with earplugs and an eyemask on. The socks are the least of my worries.

I wasn’t “ok” for like 19 years of living until I saw Harry Potter for the first time 😂

I like how Penn actually understands astrology and the red flag is that people who don’t understand it are throwing it around like doctrine. Which you don’t do if you’re well-read in the subject and/or a reasonable person. I like the girl saying “it has to be earned”.

But my feet are always cold at night:( car obsession isn’t red flag necessarily but it’s annoying lol.

Funny that a lot of the questions here really depends on the culture/country. Living with parents is super normal here in SE Asia.

I have a specific male fragrance that I love. I first got it for a male distant relative and have since been getting it for bfs. Didn't know that it's such a red flag, lol.

So true what he said about the astrology thing! People who actually know about it would never look at the star sign for compatibility… you’d have to get their whole birth chart and then look at their moon & venus sign 👀

Regarding the Harry Potter question, the answer to Tati's question is Twilight lol. I'm 21 and I watched the Harry Potter movies for the first time last year. Growing up I was always into vampires over the wizards lol.

socks in bed? Simple: it's cold and I want to warm up kind of a given if you live in a cold country

What joe said about astrology is so true. Definitely a red flag for me

@hruneya

Жыл бұрын

his name is penn badgley, not joe goldberg😐

@shoxggz645

Жыл бұрын

Joe 😂😂😂

@woe6994

Жыл бұрын

@@hruneya really?

@user-br5zg1zj6o

Жыл бұрын

Same,I'd be like byyyye

@aa4488

Жыл бұрын

@@hruneyawho cares, it’s funny

Penn Badgley seems like such a sweet man 🥹

Thank you Penn badgley for normalizing not watching Harry Potter

Tati Gabrielle is so cultured

I have year round cold feet so I often wear socks to bed

A brit that hasn't seen Harry Potter is a red flag for me

@xgise

Жыл бұрын

I don't think it's a red flag, but being a Brit seems to add insult to injury somehow

Penn Bagley should do a movie about Jim Morrison at this point! Look at the resemblance...

4:31 As a scorpio, I somewhat agree but not completely because there is some truth in astrology. But then again every person is different.

God, after Part 2, his voice is TRIGGERING af! 🤣

Yess thank god they said living with your parents is contextual! I live in a country where it’s normal!

Omg that first red flag was something an ex did... except he made me buy it 😂 shoulda seen the red FLASHING in my face 😂

Penn definetly watched a lot of football whilst he was here because the card and VAR references lmaooo