Peep but don't always react 👀. Here's why!

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  • @aspiringtoinspire_with_KW
    @aspiringtoinspire_with_KW4 ай бұрын

    Proverb 21:23 He who guards his mouth and tongue keeps his soul from trouble.

  • @maidinthamiddle

    @maidinthamiddle

    4 ай бұрын

    I should be practicing this piece of wisdom a lot more than I am.

  • @honestystegall4140

    @honestystegall4140

    4 ай бұрын

    😇🙏‼️💯

  • @RedeemedByGod.
    @RedeemedByGod.4 ай бұрын

    When I was promoted on my job my senior supervisor told me and I'll never forget - "Never let a snake know that you know they are a snake or else it will change the way it deals with you, just leave it and it will expose themselves." ....your video confirms this, and you are absolutely correct! I've done this and it ALWAYS works in my favor. Thanks be to God.

  • @purple7vi0let

    @purple7vi0let

    4 ай бұрын

    I'm going through this at work right now. It's wise to be this way but some of these people are slackers and need to be called out so they don't become lax in their work ethic because then all the work falls on your plate.

  • @redcardinal4

    @redcardinal4

    4 ай бұрын

    Good advice!

  • @therealnowyouknow
    @therealnowyouknow4 ай бұрын

    You are 100% correct! Some folks will just act like they don't know what you're talking about if you confront them. These types think they're super clever and can fool everyone. They will spin the narrative and make you look like you're crazy or the villain. Your best bet is to avoid these phony devious types as much as possible. Also don't talk about them to others.

  • @preciousstone2782

    @preciousstone2782

    4 ай бұрын

    YESSSS MA'AM... THEY ARE EARTH DISTURBERS..

  • @tamarag9981

    @tamarag9981

    3 ай бұрын

    So true!!!!!!!! I'm glad I'm not the only person who notices that. Love your comment!

  • @AskAuntChina
    @AskAuntChina4 ай бұрын

    My goodness! I just lived through this at work. This battle was extremely exhausting because I wanted to react so many times. But I felt the urge to keep quiet. My reputation of not interacting with them any longer in the workplace saved me when they got around to lying

  • @AdiannaRobinna

    @AdiannaRobinna

    4 ай бұрын

    GIRRRRRRRRRL, I needed this confirmation because I am going through this right NOW at work! God bless you, my sister in Christ!

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Don't let your coworkers get to you!

  • @anneagena8236

    @anneagena8236

    4 ай бұрын

    @@BeautifullyMuna Exactly nobody got time to keep replying to these liars.

  • @anneagena8236

    @anneagena8236

    4 ай бұрын

    @@AdiannaRobinna Love do not react misery loves company. Most of them are miserable. I work in nursing and I go through this every night at work on the job. They are so miserable they try to put their problems on you. Just ignore them do not react. These are miserable souls. They are trying to take your energy.

  • @endiahopson2874

    @endiahopson2874

    4 ай бұрын

    So happy I saved this video to come back to! I am in the time of my life where silence and stillness is REQUIRED for me to go to the next level! My job at stake due to harassment from my boss! And my money is going up and down, my love life is at a standstill and I am spiraling! So I needed this! It’s much more peaceful to act accordingly then to speak accordingly!

  • @Ms.J.
    @Ms.J.4 ай бұрын

    Keeping it real can go left real quick! 😂 Been there, done that, got the sweatshirt & the hoodie....I'm good! Lesson learned! Now, I just sit back and take mental notes. I've also learned that not everyone is as "real" as they portray themselves to be, and not everyone is ready to hear the real. They ask for it, and the next you know, they're calling you a hater bc you're not co-signing their mess. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ Thank you for the video and all that you do! 🙏🏾

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    I know how you feel sis!

  • @sameernelson9684
    @sameernelson96844 ай бұрын

    Don't let ppl know, that you know, great advice 1😢

  • @maidinthamiddle
    @maidinthamiddle4 ай бұрын

    "You dhoukd be gentle as a dove, but wise as a serpent. "

  • @Mslawre88
    @Mslawre884 ай бұрын

    My goodness ! I needed this word . I faced serious consequences due to lack of self control but God is so merciful. Thank you!

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Its ok sis. God is so merciful and he teaches and guides us!

  • @kathyvazquez7765
    @kathyvazquez77654 ай бұрын

    Keeping it real can cause REAL PROBLEMS..TAKE HEED YOUNGINS👁️

  • @Jac735

    @Jac735

    3 ай бұрын

    Wow I didn't know that but what if you tell them in a cool calm collective matter though because some people do need to hear the real especially now since everyone us acting like puppets or sheep

  • @Aplethoraofconvos
    @Aplethoraofconvos4 ай бұрын

    I also have noticed that the people I want to confront tend to lack self awareness and can’t handle any sort of criticism, especially if they are a narcissist. I kept it real with my narc brother and it ended with him spitting in my face. That was 6 years ago and I haven’t spoken to him since. I have learned to tame my tongue, but it does take practice and self discipline . I am also grateful for the moments where I expressed how I felt because in those moments they revealed their true colors.

  • @user-jw6sm2ip7n
    @user-jw6sm2ip7n4 ай бұрын

    Im guilty of confrontation. Thank you for this word, there's always room for growth❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @preciousstone2782

    @preciousstone2782

    4 ай бұрын

    IT TOOK ME AWHILE AS WELL....THEY ARE NOT WORTHY OF A REACTION OR A CLAP BACK...

  • @user-jw6sm2ip7n

    @user-jw6sm2ip7n

    4 ай бұрын

    @@preciousstone2782 Amen🙏🏼

  • @staceyrobinson707
    @staceyrobinson7074 ай бұрын

    Yes .I've been in a situation with this person and when I put 2and 2together I got away from her.She was a dangerous frienemy.I understand exactly what you are saying.

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    I'm happy you got away from her

  • @QueenPen888
    @QueenPen8884 ай бұрын

    It resonates with me. I have to do a lot better with not calling out the things I see. It’s extremely hard for me not to, I’m a straightforward person some people may even say blunt. I dislike games and being fake, manipulation. You are right though it hasn’t always gotten me the results I wanted, but I feel like I would rather just be true to myself. If I play along, I feel like I’m no better than them, in terms of being manipulative or fake. And in the end they will eventually be exposed anyways, what’s done in dark comes to light. I have to work on this I guess, not speaking on it every time. It’s hard

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    I know how you feel but just peeping things and act accordingly quietly is so much better and peaceful

  • @RandyJ1219
    @RandyJ12194 ай бұрын

    ‭‭Proverbs 29:11 NKJV‬‬ [11] A fool vents all his feelings, But a wise man holds them back. Awesome message ❤🙏🏾

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks Randy!! That is such a true scripture.

  • @healingwordsflow
    @healingwordsflow4 ай бұрын

    Yes, I just experienced this at my job I just left. I told the GM once nothing changed, I had been told that was The Managers habit. So I removed myself peacefully. As probably was wanted. All vengeance belongs to GOD! Peace Be Still

  • @BeEncouraged158
    @BeEncouraged1584 ай бұрын

    This message is for me, this is how I been moving around a few people at my job, lets just say everyone in my department I see how they snitch on each other how they sneak and talk about people but I sit by myself and stay to myself and they think i think im better than them but God be showing me stuff Sis you are on point, should i continue to sell my products to them?

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Yes you should still run your business and sell your products. Keep the conversation with them business only

  • @BeEncouraged158

    @BeEncouraged158

    4 ай бұрын

    @@missctolbertvoh thank you Sis, and I will do just that🙏🙏🙏

  • @EvetteCollins
    @EvetteCollins4 ай бұрын

    Yes, you are absolutely right! The Holy Spirit would reveal things to me about different people at different offices I worked at. If I started feeling “funny” or sensed something, I’d either pull back or just remain quiet. Like you and others have said, they will not admit to what they’re doing in the dark. I’ve always felt like they would deny it or call me crazy/paranoid.

  • @karendenisethornton1306
    @karendenisethornton13064 ай бұрын

    Hallelujah it just happen to me last night at work on 3-11pm. Instead of coming to me went to the staff coordinator and she approached me like I was a child. It was concerning a patient. However I did not say anything and took care of the patient. The under handedness individual came to me later and said you are not talking my response I am concentrating on my work. Prayed to God in silence and killed the messed from moving forward. The person came back to me and wanted me to ask why you did the underhandedness concerning the patient. I silence the enemy in the individual by keeping quite. You are on it because it is written bring your flesh under subjection of the Holy Ghost. God fight my battles all I do is be still and let him deal with people. Shalom

  • @purple7vi0let

    @purple7vi0let

    4 ай бұрын

    Hallelujah 🎉 Amen!!! Praise God!!!❤❤❤ So glad you were able to keep your peace.

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    I love to hear that you kept your cool!! You really exercised constraint!! Nothing but pure wisdom.

  • @karendenisethornton1306

    @karendenisethornton1306

    4 ай бұрын

    @@missctolbertvoh I have learned over the years to not fret over the foolishness of other people who don't know the importance of self-control an element of the fruit of the spirit. Shalom

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Exactly!! Same here!!! Shalom ❤

  • @preciousstone2782

    @preciousstone2782

    4 ай бұрын

    AMEN TO THAT.... WE KNOW ALL THINGS WILL WORK TOGETHER FOR THE GOOD!

  • @lexuriouslooks
    @lexuriouslooks4 ай бұрын

    so wise Miss C. I was watching this right before I got tested in this area, and failed , smh.

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Its ok sis. Start over again when you fail! We all bump our heads sometimes

  • @sheiladozier5046
    @sheiladozier50464 ай бұрын

    Right Sis. Watch and pray. And that 'IF' you have ought against your brother...go tell it to them, that's concerning when we in church. Everyone is NOT a brother & Sister in CHRIST. So that's a different approach needed. And the ought with your brother or sister in CHRIST is for the purpose of reconciliation. So it's peace in GOD'S house. Someone outside of THE LORD...that scripture is not for that situation. GOOD Word, Sis.

  • @SackclothRemnantPodcast

    @SackclothRemnantPodcast

    4 ай бұрын

    Amen. I agree. Beautiful comment. We must confront in the Body of Christ because the Word instructs us too, but in the world, people don't always have the right motives or any intention of reconciliation. But Titus tells us to warn once then twice and then have nothing more to do with them. This is one on one. This is not talking about those in authority to exercise church discipline or speak the Word of the Lord. Our desire should always be to obey God's will. Whatever the Holy Spirit leads us to do. The Lord will always give us wisdom in every situation. Whether to speak or keep silent. And also how to make amends if we err and speak prematurely. We must stay close to the Lord and in His Word, and He will help us mature and teach us how to hear and obey Him.❤

  • @techauntie
    @techauntie4 ай бұрын

    Yup cause an underhanded person is 9/10 also a liar so they are gonna deny and fake get offended if you confront them

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Very very true!!

  • @llolla110

    @llolla110

    4 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @virtuous-lee

    @virtuous-lee

    13 күн бұрын

    😂or they could gaslight you

  • @redcardinal4
    @redcardinal44 ай бұрын

    God bless you. I was just in Proverbs 12 today where it says in verse 6: Fools show their annoyance at once, but the prudent overlook an insult. This has been my way of being for quite some time after working on not being reactionary. I have found that many people do not have the emotional maturity to receive correction, and it is true that they will lie when put on the spot. I just let people think they're winning and quietly remove myself. If it's someone I have to deal with on a regular basis, I pray about the appropriate words and timing.

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    God bless you too

  • @kimberlycaraway740
    @kimberlycaraway7404 ай бұрын

    AMEN 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!!! YES Sister Keke, so true. "SILENCE IS GOLDEN"....a true statement FOR REAL! It's best practice for me to just observe the person and the situation. It's so very important to have spiritual discernment and hear the voice of God. Blessings Keke ❤️🙏🏾💜.

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Yes! Blessings to you too 💓

  • @kevinraymond7324
    @kevinraymond73244 ай бұрын

    I don’t normally comment but you are helping me maneuver through this life of mine you give so much good advice and you lead with GOD an wisdom thank you!! You have truely helped me clock something’s that are not for me!!!

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Wow! I'm glad God is using me as a vessel to help you guys

  • @tamarag9981
    @tamarag99813 ай бұрын

    I thoroughly enjoyed every bit of this video. I did have a habit of doing this. Always addressing the underhanded behaviors or comments and it turns into an unwanted argument, a lie, or they will switch it around to make me wrong smh. I realize that so many aren't willing to be accountable or i guess they feel put on the spot. Im now focusing more like you said , to just observe and act accordingly. I don't have to let them know im onto them . And i love the way you put it when you said , "method of madness" . Excellent message!

  • @da3272
    @da32724 ай бұрын

    Sis, you are always on point with your messages . Thank You 🙏🏾

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    All praises to the most high!

  • @maintain.faith.3657
    @maintain.faith.36574 ай бұрын

    You're on fire consistently dropping gem's. Great work 🤝

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Appreciate that! God has been downloading in me

  • @p.gizzle90
    @p.gizzle904 ай бұрын

    Yesss, yesss, yesss…I had started doing this with family many years ago. *_I refuse to ask anyone something for them to lie in my face._*

  • @Carmellasandy
    @Carmellasandy4 ай бұрын

    Thank you for all your positive messaging. Side Note, your hair is always beautiful and shows lots of care. Can you do a couple of videos on how you keep your hair so luxurious and nice?

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much sis! Yes I think I'm gonna finally do a video for you ladies on the products I use and my regimen. I can tell you that I stay on top of trims, I keep my hair moisturized and I drink a lot of water. I wear a good silk bonnet at night to protect it.

  • @andrewradcliffe777
    @andrewradcliffe7774 ай бұрын

    God told me you have years of wisdom. I’m only 35 years old and this message really helped me. ❤

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Wow. God is awesome!!!

  • @shakiellaachee7829
    @shakiellaachee78294 ай бұрын

    You're one of the real prophetess girl I swear your messages come at the exact time of the current enrgy. I'm dealing with someone bringing this fukry energy in my life. I wish I didn't say anytjing ... hes old enough to know why a pattern is happening he just don't give af and neither do I.

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys82523 ай бұрын

    Church members/ LEADERS , coworkers, family members do underhanded things more often than you think. Sometimes it's best to just move on or if you find it's safe to stay while keeping your distance don't ever think that an underhanded person 🐍 Will all of a sudden have a lightbulb moment of integrity. They'll most likely get mad , lie some more. Choose your battles wisely 🙏🏽 Lord please give me discernment and protecting. When people have DIRECTLY affected me I have defended myself to let them know don't think I'm going to let you continue to mistreat me . I like that ( navigate and move to protect my mental well-being ) I don't need to confront everyone that's underhanded.

  • @user-he5uh8uw6f
    @user-he5uh8uw6f4 ай бұрын

    Bless u sis...am also watching people running behind you in the video...hope u are safe,glory to god.

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Lol those boys were running up and down the block chasing each other after school. It may look like a bad situation but trust me it wasn't. They're always wrestling and running when they get out of school. A lot of kids are in after school programs so once they get out they're super energetic

  • @tjkills
    @tjkills4 ай бұрын

    This was the perfect video I’m having a hard time trusting my friends due to all the betrayal and persecution when it get peaceful you don’t know who to BELIEVE

  • @truelyblessed8719
    @truelyblessed87194 ай бұрын

    God bless u Queen T much needed I have been battling over the years not to React or Reaction especially with family it feels better to have self control I got too Pure a Heart

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Keep your peace my brother! Don't allow anyone to knock you off your square.

  • @kathyvazquez7765
    @kathyvazquez77654 ай бұрын

    Man o man!!! 💎 This is a WORD ❤ wisdom is key 💖💜 many let they flesh drive em to confrontation, I've been there...and I learned that people ain't gonna admit they're wrong!!! It's a waste of time n energy!! Sister this message good but only for the MATURE N EXPERIENCED😅

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    😆 very true. Only the mature will appreciate this video

  • @TheGlobalMisfit
    @TheGlobalMisfit4 ай бұрын

    🗣💯𝗣𝗿𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗯𝘀 𝟮𝟵:𝟭𝟭 A fool uttereth all his mind: but a wise man keepeth it in till afterwards. Gotta to know when to be a lamb 🤐and when to be a lion 🗣 When they think you are naive you have the upper hand if you're wise enough to use discernment and weave around the snakes

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Very true!!!

  • @jeaninerichardson7179
    @jeaninerichardson71794 ай бұрын

    Great WORD of WISDOM, Hallelujah!!!!!✝️🛐🛡🕊🧐🤐😌

  • @llolla110
    @llolla1104 ай бұрын

    Literally went through this today. I just sat back and watched . God told me not to be confrontational and then this video pops up today.

  • @sheryljohnson9789
    @sheryljohnson97894 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much you are truly blessing me to get my life on track from dealing with the wrong people that are your friend 🙏💜🙏💜🙏💜

  • @preciousstone2782
    @preciousstone27824 ай бұрын

    YES MY LUV... I REGRET THAT IT HAS TAKEN SO LONG TO DEVELOP THIS EMOTIONAL MATURITY...BY THE GRACE OF GOD! IN MORE SITUATIONS THAN NOT I REMAIN UNBORHERED... NOT TODAY, CANT HAVE MY JOY...

  • @NealYee-lj2qc
    @NealYee-lj2qc4 ай бұрын

    Amen Sister. Very wise words indeed. I thank God for my 8th grade teacher who told us to tact our sail to the wind that blows. So when I see something off, I keep quiet but tact my sail to them. Great video my lady.

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much

  • @NealYee-lj2qc

    @NealYee-lj2qc

    4 ай бұрын

    @@missctolbertvoh you're welcome

  • @laurettashaffer8481
    @laurettashaffer84812 ай бұрын

    I Appreciate You Wise Woman Of God!!💖👏🏾👑🤗

  • @marilynbradley8487
    @marilynbradley84874 ай бұрын

    I tried to speak to a friend who I had something against and she turned that thing on me. She was in total denial I couldn't believe my eyes. I'm only polite to her, but we don't hang out anymore. I'm good with that.

  • @mikec1865
    @mikec18654 ай бұрын

    I appreciate the Wisdom saturated in this video presentation. 💯

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    I appreciate that

  • @anneagena8236
    @anneagena82364 ай бұрын

    I feel like I need to stop reacting to other people and let them expose themselves. Because the minute I say something they try to make it seem like Im the instigator thats what they always do I am going to observe and react less. I find out that when I do not react people expose themselves for the liars that they are.

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    People will expose themselves when you keep silent and watch them in certain settings. A underhanded person always is typically a busy body

  • @anneagena8236

    @anneagena8236

    4 ай бұрын

    Exactly !!!!

  • @anneagena8236

    @anneagena8236

    4 ай бұрын

    ⁠@@missctolbertvohgirl like my neighbor upstairs he makes awfully loud noises With his gf they engage in threesomes I can hear them having sex and he was looking at me sexually too. Which I think is repulsive and disgusting. I feel like he wanted to sleep with me and include me in his nasty shenanigans . He sees I’m not going and he starts doing this. Very arrogant person who plays loud speakers. I’ve had to call the police On him 4 times. I really don’t like people coming into my apartment. Neither do I like police because they don’t do anything but will be quick to arrest you. He started lying and playing victim. He was acting like he never did nothing to me. He told me you could have knocked on my door we could have talked umm eww not after that. I knocked on his door before asking him to turn it down and he didn’t care had to call the police.closed my door on him and the police. I will never say a word to him again he put me in a position like that. This place is quite its my safe haven. I’m just going to pray for him.

  • @NicoTNN
    @NicoTNN4 ай бұрын

    missctolbertvoh, girl!!!!!!!! What an insightful scripture to remind us of. Wow. Proverbs 17:28 New American Standard Bible Even a fool, when he keeps silent, is considered wise; When he closes his lips, he is considered prudent. I heard that one loud a clear. Thank you much!!!

  • @L.W.4269
    @L.W.42694 ай бұрын

    ON POINT KEKE YES

  • @raquelhenry8889
    @raquelhenry88894 ай бұрын

    Great Message ❤ so True

  • @vitalia2680
    @vitalia26804 ай бұрын

    Excellent message. Thank you❤

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    You are so welcome

  • @aleciaupson9977
    @aleciaupson99774 ай бұрын

    So true. Great message ❤

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks sis

  • @alexishill3342
    @alexishill33424 ай бұрын

    So true. Thank you for this ❤️

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    You are so welcome

  • @Dearest_Kenyetta
    @Dearest_Kenyetta4 ай бұрын

    Such a timely word. All in my KOOL-AID!! Literally praying over myself for this very thing cause of something I peeped recently. It's like having Intel.... It gives you the upper hand. God is SO GOOD!

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    I'm happy you were able to see some things but keep your composure. Thats difficult to do for some people.

  • @Dearest_Kenyetta

    @Dearest_Kenyetta

    4 ай бұрын

    @@missctolbertvoh Yes indeed. Holy Spirit is leading me as I yield to Him.

  • @ednaevans2025
    @ednaevans20254 ай бұрын

    Love your videos.........OUTSTANDING

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much 😀

  • @MakedaMix
    @MakedaMix4 ай бұрын

    I needed to hear this

  • @LettiTomy
    @LettiTomy4 ай бұрын

    AMEN! 💛💛💛💛

  • @W.Y.L.A.T.V.
    @W.Y.L.A.T.V.4 ай бұрын

    Very true MISS CEE GODBLESS YOU🙏🕊️🔑🔑🔑

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    God bless you too

  • @W.Y.L.A.T.V.

    @W.Y.L.A.T.V.

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey7694 ай бұрын

    U r so right

  • @tarshagreene4661
    @tarshagreene46614 ай бұрын

    Good morning. Thank you for the words of confirmation. I am currently in the situation that you’re describing now.❤🙏

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    You are so welcome

  • @aletheasims6519
    @aletheasims65194 ай бұрын

    I wouldn’t confront them, I’ll just send the underhanded person this video.

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    💯💯💯🤝🏽👊🏽❤

  • @eugeniaparks1015
    @eugeniaparks10154 ай бұрын

    One of the Fruits of the a Spirit I'm truly working on. I'm a REACTOR. Not good at all. I'm living out this very situation and God has told me to hush. I didn't listen the 1st time but I'm on it now. Self control is for SELF.

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Its all good sis. I've been there before too! It takes time but with God you can learn patience and self control

  • @tinawhite2560
    @tinawhite25604 ай бұрын

    Wow you answer fast I am still watch ur video . Everything you Saying is Right . I avoid lot drama. And I have found Men out as well women from having self control. What kind person they are without get to close keeping silent

  • @cylaweathersby9461
    @cylaweathersby94614 ай бұрын

    Thank you ❤❤

  • @willierobertsel9669
    @willierobertsel96694 ай бұрын

    The Lower Self Is Real

  • @Yodabless
    @Yodabless4 ай бұрын

    GOD know I needed to hear this ..I knew he broke my garage door..he's wouldn't tell the truth ..once the person came to fix it ..not fix I had to get a new garage door..I don't understand why he's couldn't tell the truth..I had pay him to do the some work ..he's return some of the money back but still deny that he's broke it ..the person that fix it ..share with me what probably happens..it was what I thought

  • @DeiontateBennett-cj1tl
    @DeiontateBennett-cj1tl4 ай бұрын

    Amen ❤😊

  • @levitaifau
    @levitaifau4 ай бұрын

    This video has resonated with me deeply. I am in highschool (My birthday is in a few days! I'm turning 15 on Sunday!). Please help me. Somebody pray for me. I have the most goodest intentions I swear, but I just can't seem to mind my business. I'm always trying to mediate between situations that dont directly affect me. This is really hard for me to just stay quiet. Today, I had an argument/petty little drama with this girl in my class. She was talking ill of the new girl in science class behind her back. What really made me mad was the fact that shes always the one to defend her friends or defend herself when people talk bad abt her, but then she decided to talk bad abt the new girl. I was so angry because the new girl is a friendly acquaintance of mine and I thought she had become upset, so out of anger I called her the a word. And then she wanted to fight me. Im a relatively skinny boy, and I cant really fight. I told my teacher and she told me that I should've been careful with how I deliver my tone and words and how she shouldn't have to resolve everything with her fists. But why is it that it always backfires on me whenever I try to defend other people? I know its my fault. But why is thay the reason? Its not fair that she talked bad about the new girl, but somehow Im in the wrong for being mean to her back. I never can mind my business, but Ive got the biggest heart (as my fav teacher says) but I always involve myself in dramas that dont directly affect me. It hurts knowing that I have the best intentions just to he destroyed by people I may have thought were kind. Please somebody help me. How do I fix myself? I just want to be happy and not care about everything and just focus on going to university in the near future. The Lord is testing me, and I am so irritated.

  • @levitaifau

    @levitaifau

    4 ай бұрын

    She got so defensive after i called her out too. Highschool is just full of unnecessary drama. I feel like nobody understands why I do the things I do. I'm tired of being a people pleaser and just want to put myself first for once and maybe have a long period of isolation from people. I feel depressed.

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Listen to me. You're a teenager who is still growing and learning. Certain things teenagers do are to be expected. Go easy on yourself because you're gonna make mistakes and bump your head sometimes. Usually people with a big heart do the things you do. We always want to come to the rescue of others we see in trouble. Don't change that beautiful quality about yourself. You can pull that person to the side in private if time permits and tell them you're uncomfortable with them talking about the new girl cause she's cool. Only pull them to the side if you feel they're worth having the conversation. If they're the type of person to lie, deny or get confrontational then hold your peace. Some people are meddlesome people and you expect it from them cause they're always showing who they are. Sounds like the new girl is causing her to be intimidated so she's bad mouthing her. New kids in class are the center of attention so some students will start talking about them or even making fun of them.

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    I don't think you need to be fixed. I think you just have to learn how to pick your battles. Some people aren't worth the battle because they're full of drama. Avoid problematic people. Happy early birthday!! My birthday is on March the 14th!

  • @levitaifau

    @levitaifau

    4 ай бұрын

    @missctolbertvoh Thank you miss Keke! Happy early birthday to you back😆🫶

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much!!!

  • @redzin8818
    @redzin88184 ай бұрын

    God is walking me through this lately. I should have watched this when I first saw it this morning. Because I definitely opened my mouth already today. 😐😬

  • @FingerprintingGurus
    @FingerprintingGurus3 ай бұрын

    Totally resonate

  • @tangiercurry4681
    @tangiercurry46814 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @willierobertsel9669
    @willierobertsel96694 ай бұрын

    Some People Want Trouble Be Careful

  • @QBJINC
    @QBJINC4 ай бұрын

    I love your content. ❤🎉❤🎉. Always the facts. 💯

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much ❤

  • @QBJINC

    @QBJINC

    4 ай бұрын

    @@missctolbertvoh you are welcome ♥

  • @courtneymichele4321
    @courtneymichele43214 ай бұрын

    This is a hell. Dont stop making these video's

  • @kurtissimms5523
    @kurtissimms55234 ай бұрын

    True dat ❤

  • @thetropicalredladya.k.atam7960
    @thetropicalredladya.k.atam79604 ай бұрын

    I HEAR YA NI BUT IN MY CASE I’M SPEAKING UP. AIN BOUTA LET FOLK KEEP RUNNING OVER ME. ONCE I SPEAK MY PEACE, IT AIN’T NO MO WE DONE!!!

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Oh I hear you sis. You never allow anyone to run over you. Just be sure to check the temperature of the room. You know some folks out here are unhinged. Once you confront them they're ready to fight and will take things much further than they should

  • @NuNu-zo5ng
    @NuNu-zo5ng4 ай бұрын

    I get it🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @MrsB320
    @MrsB3204 ай бұрын

    Wisdom 😊 tyty

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @brendalott3090
    @brendalott30904 ай бұрын

    Amen and Amen God knows I don't do that I play dum they know when you move different and don't say nothing act the same 😂😂😂 ok

  • @kathyvazquez7765
    @kathyvazquez77654 ай бұрын

    ❤Proverbs 13:10 Where there is strife, there is pride, but wisdom is found in those who take advice❤

  • @Godisspiritchanel
    @Godisspiritchanel4 ай бұрын

    100% true

  • @marvanewborn2287
    @marvanewborn22874 ай бұрын

    🧨💪

  • @AwesomeMe47
    @AwesomeMe474 ай бұрын

    🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

  • @ayanasmithoney7365
    @ayanasmithoney73654 ай бұрын

    🔥🙌❕👑

  • @BlessMeWithWisdom
    @BlessMeWithWisdom4 ай бұрын

  • @BeEncouraged158
    @BeEncouraged1584 ай бұрын

    Hello my beautiful sis in Christ, ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ God bless you

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Hey sis! God bless you too!

  • @staceyrobinson707
    @staceyrobinson7074 ай бұрын

    I get it.

  • @spider8trucking950
    @spider8trucking9504 ай бұрын

    Yeap let them talk every reaction doesn't need a reaction

  • @SassySavingSistah
    @SassySavingSistah4 ай бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @Clearbluesky771
    @Clearbluesky7714 ай бұрын

    I know I make it worse when I don't speak up

  • @giftedplanksify
    @giftedplanksify4 ай бұрын

    Just take a step back. Maybe they will look at their mistake and look to Jesus. Do the right thing 😃

  • @DawnietotheMax
    @DawnietotheMax4 ай бұрын

    6:34 Proverbs 9:8

  • @msbeautiful01
    @msbeautiful014 ай бұрын

    💯📖✝️🙌🏽

  • @L.W.4269
    @L.W.42694 ай бұрын

    Yes I'm Peeping alright a lot of Things and Staying Quiet and then They know ehat They doing Trying t o Take you out your Element

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    There will always be people who try to take you out of your element but keep dodging them. Protect your peace.

  • @kadlacdixon-thedrawmylifep3293
    @kadlacdixon-thedrawmylifep32934 ай бұрын

    First Time Viewer...

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Welcome sis ❤

  • @AdrielMercado-rm5qx
    @AdrielMercado-rm5qx4 ай бұрын

    You see that person at 1:15 get robbed

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Lol!! I don't think it was a robbery I think those were some brothers and friends playing with each other. I saw them walking back and forth with each other before I started to record

  • @Jac735
    @Jac7353 ай бұрын

    But what if you want to tell the truth though I just don't like beating around the bush I'd rather tell them and move on instead of playing around

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    3 ай бұрын

    To each is own but proceed in certain situations and with certain people with caution

  • @Jac735

    @Jac735

    3 ай бұрын

    @missctolbertvoh I appreciate your vids this is actually the first vid I completed on you have one of the best vids on here ➕️ your respond I really appreciate it lately since the new year started I been distancing myself from alot of people it happeneds every year with me I don't know if I gotta just change all together or just not be so social

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    3 ай бұрын

    Just set boundaries and do things in moderation. Not everyone deserves to have access to you.

  • @risingsun8493
    @risingsun84934 ай бұрын

    🙏🏼✝️❤️🌈💐💎💪🏻

  • @tinawhite2560
    @tinawhite25604 ай бұрын

    Did you anybody see those 2 guys chasing other guy behind her car please becareful out there

  • @missctolbertvoh

    @missctolbertvoh

    4 ай бұрын

    Those were teenagers playing with each other after school in my neighborhood

  • @journeykind5809
    @journeykind58094 ай бұрын

    I get it. Thank you🙏🏾🫶🏾💪🏾💜