Pastor's Wife Destroyed His 3 Churches And His Life - Apostle Casper
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ENGINEER YOUR LIFE - EPISODE 109 - Apostle Casper
Apostle Casper details how his life was destroyed by his wife, whom he trusted with his ministry and as the First Lady of the church. He details the ab*se he endured, and the general pains that Pastors face privately while they are publicly celebrated.
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As a leader of a ministry, how do you navigate being celebrated but facing challenging times in your personal relationship. Apostle Casper takes through his journey of trials in triumph both in marriage and leadership in this episode. Dont forget to subscribe if this content resonates with your heart :)
@alanzoscar9853
16 күн бұрын
I have a feeling that we need his ex to come and share the story ! We desire to know both side stories
The truth will set us free. Playing victim is not of God
@musa8180
19 күн бұрын
TRUE
Just say I am from Zimbabwe this neighboring country thing ain't cutting.
@zena3413
20 күн бұрын
😂
@patiencekutama4498
19 күн бұрын
@@thembifuyane9962 hahahaha i know right 😂😂
@musa8180
19 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@kaylinmangwinyana3292
17 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
For him, church is a business
The way this guy is talking is actually showing that the devil won him
This guy has a deep rooted victim mentality, NO accountability at all. He lives in his own world where everything is somebody’s fault. Nobody owes orphans a special treatment. Like any other child they need love, nurturing, acceptance and accountability… I am an orphan myself, it’s hard but life has to carry on.
@joseymoloi7169
20 күн бұрын
So disappointing 🥲
I personally feel the wife must come and share her side of story. This guy once trended on social media with pictures sleeping with a man and he was in a relationship with a white guy more mature in Cape Town. The internet doesn’t forget their pictures of this man being naked and doing things that are inappropriate. The drunkenness is the least of what happened, I remember she was interviewed by one Zimbabwean socialite and I don’t think this is the story she shared. It’s been a long time 🕰️, I wish him all the best!
@buffalo_skies8490
23 күн бұрын
Oh ma Jesus!! 😮
@shekinah8475
23 күн бұрын
If this is true then the interviewer must remove this interview as it is a lie and misleading .
@brendonmartin9737
23 күн бұрын
@@shekinah8475 I guess they’re none bias and they try to give everyone a platform, the reason the wife left him it’s because she discovered a lot of things that he was doing discreet as a man of God. One of the reasons that apartment he lived in it was rented by a rich white man who happened to be in a relationship with him and the wife had evidence to prove. It’s been years since this incident happened but I’m sure if people search online this can be discovered.
@rrunganga
23 күн бұрын
Check the link I have put there , his ex gay lover speaking Gore rino hatidi zvwkuitiswa
@rrunganga
23 күн бұрын
kzread.info/dash/bejne/aatr0KlscZqunps.htmlsi=GcxsCXozk8-lZE4x
Inganekwane!!! Amanga amangaka lomuntu ay cha we not stupids hle
@elvisndlovu1232
22 күн бұрын
I'm glad you noticed, this guy is such a liar
Ha.a, this guy is not forthcoming and yet he is a Ps, he can't disclose where he comes from, he doesn't want to disclose his age...kuningi, I say he is here to push a story...we would like the 'wife' please. Something is off..
@melodyzvimba7050
21 күн бұрын
@@fezilemakaula1823 he is Zimbabwean
@ngulubeprincess5009
20 күн бұрын
Yes he is a walking red flag from Zimbabwe. Was in a relationship with a woman old enough to be his mum who claims she has marine spirits
Grew up with this guy. I really don't know what went wrong but he was a very powerful man of God back then
Contradicting himself, able to control his emotions the next thing sometimes when he thought about his parents while preaching he cried. Did'nt his teachers at the theology college first, his spiritual leaders later identify the need for counselling re: his emotions? How was he leading a church with this particular phycological challenge for such a long time, and not seeking counselling. If his story is true, l wonder how he could help others with the similar problem in his church. onsmanage
True that ur childhood traumas shape up how you navigate life. No accountability from his part. She did this. Friends did that. My brothers did that also
Pastor Casper needs to spend time with God, read his Bible from Genesis to Revelation and back again. Through this process he needs to pray for understanding. If he had read his Bible, he would know that the Bible doesn't say that divorce is a "sin". God doesn't like it, but He did permit divorce. I also note that he slept with the lady before they got married and sent her nudes prior to their marriage yet claims he was completely sold out to Christ until he felt compelled to marry, accelerated by his prospective wife buying him a car😢 Would love to hear the wife's side too. TBH, I was convinced she was an agent of Satan at the beginning, but realised that they both opened doors in their lives for the devil to recreate hell in their lives.
Hai bandla "Man of God" kuningi and it keeps getting kuningier 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾
wow what a heavy episode. nothing beautiful like taking accountability and learning from your mistake. god will make wonders with your life apostl casper. u will restore what you have lost bambelala
Pastor Casper, you are not going to hell as long as you maintain a contrite spirit and repentant heart like David. ALL have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.
In the first 5 minutes, I said.. khona something e off 🤨
Uyu murevi wenhema uyu Casper kaa next time just say the truth amana
@wendymtandagai5240
20 күн бұрын
@samanthamapiye7682 😂😂😂even me am in oohh!!! So much omitted, anyway, let's settle with his story.
Casper you had a white sugar daddy, we havent forgotten.
@elvisndlovu1232
22 күн бұрын
And he was never married either, he fabricated the story of getting married and posted his own nudes to become popular...it didn't work so well
@mufadzashaya
Күн бұрын
Andwhy come after this long and not speak about things properly. He is trying to hide a lot and trying to make himself the main victim. We need the 'wife' next to hear her side.
Pastor said "They're in deep sht" 😂😂😂 ..Ai bandla 😅
He must say he had hustle not ministry.
@sontogumede989
22 күн бұрын
Business
@CbosEasyRecipes7
19 күн бұрын
Yes he said he wants to live something for his kids.. inheritance.. hustling for his kids, kwaa!
@kaylinmangwinyana3292
17 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
I expected him to humbly mention the name of the 2st pastor he trained under, instead of saying he trained under a certain pastor Again being younger than his wife shouldn't be an excuse to abandon his calling, vision and mantle I pray he truly repent and have the fear of GOD in earnest
Is not make sure this guy
@CanisLupusMediaSpace
18 күн бұрын
He was once exposed 😂 he's a good lier kzread.info/dash/bejne/l2ylldd9Y5rcfNo.htmlsi=kGN9rbj3r9gSApxD
One thing people need to learn to do is taking accountability for the decisions they make. He says she made her drink. No, he made a choice to drink when he felt the pressure of yet another choice he made, getting married.
T D Jakes preached a message many years ago titled ''Leading while Bleeding''
@dimakigulah4311
22 күн бұрын
And he is also gay by the way. T. D. Jakes
Alot doesn't add up here, he made personal bad choices and doesn't take any accountability for any of it. We need to hear the wife's side of the story. Last he starts being aggressive with God and justifying sin ,haibo, which one is this one?
Sorry Lungelo can't finish this episode. Uyaxoka lo .
Pastor I'm a bit confused because your mum died when you were still about 5 years old, yet you have three younger brothers to take care of 😢
I think ndinovaziva🤔
''I am so glad that Jesus loves me, Jesus Loves me, Jesus Loves me. I am so glad that Jesus loves me..Jesus loves even me''
This guy is from Zimbabwe and why is not free to disclosing where he's coming from?
A Narc at his best
I don’t normal feel pain for pastors but this guy I feel sorry for him I was married to the guy who i jealous of me I was not allow to go anywhere
This guy is not making sense,he’s lying.
Guy being an orphan is not something out of this world, is part of life. Orphans have conscious, it is not correct to expect other people to teach you everything about life, again, common sense plays a role. So please..... take responsibility, accountability,
I pray Pastor Casper and his wife heal As I'm still listening, there appears to be some gaps or omissions in his story. Some things are not quite adding up. Regardless, I pray God touches them both and use them for his glory and that the children are not negatively impacted by all the drama and trauma.
@elvisndlovu1232
22 күн бұрын
He was never married, I'm sorry I'm gonna sound like a hater, he is a gay conman from Zimbabwe, he is a chronic liar
@jmp4660
22 күн бұрын
God must touch him first. he is a liar and slanderer
Looking at him speak about his wife like that you can tell Red red flags not pinkish flags.
@elvisndlovu1232
22 күн бұрын
Thank you
Kudenga kucharohwa vanhu
@memorymusakwa4522
19 күн бұрын
@@melodyzvimba7050 sure
Sounds like you need to have a serious conversation with God, Pastor Casper. I agree with you that it seems unfair that the devil was thrown out of heaven to earth where he's continued his evil and chaotic ways with humans. HOWEVER, not to talk about sin or hell when you return to ministry, makes Jesus' finished work on Calvary immaterial. Do talk about sin and hell just don't focus or fixate on it. As you rightly stated, Jesus/God should be the focus.
With respect, Apostle is pointing a finger too much. Not really taking responsibility for the part he played for things to wrong. Please you are not a victim, you contributed to the problems." She made me do this and that", please...we pray for you to heal and move on.
Helped to come to comments because im still waiting for his wife age and a whole lot, calling a church his bread, such an embarrassment
Pastor please define the word ugly because everyone is made in the image of God 🙏
You can love God, but do you really to become a pastor. We have enough of those around. They say church business is the best business. Politic same, you don't have to hussel. Lucrative business hey?
@Blessed_for_life_2023
19 күн бұрын
And who doesn't love God. I was a bit irritated by his ongoing mentioning of I love God so much.
Hmmmmm yoooh its hard to believe every thing he said
As soon as he opened his mouth, I thought he's from Zim. From what he says his age is now, he probably was a bit immature to lead a church.
Casper needs to repent and seek God more, there is still hope for him.
Twendy seveni sold you out bro you straight outa Zim just say it ooo nawawooo 😂😂😂😂😂
Haibo Casper
@shekinah8475
23 күн бұрын
Mazivana here😂😂😂
@casperabonga8050
23 күн бұрын
Tariro my guy .how are u😊
@elvisndlovu1232
23 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@buffalo_skies8490
23 күн бұрын
Apostle who? 😂😂😂😂😂
@rrunganga
23 күн бұрын
I have put a link about the video of his exgay lover
Tirikuendepi Senyika😢😢😮😮
@elvisndlovu1232
22 күн бұрын
Pakaipa
@mufadzashaya
Күн бұрын
Kwatakananga ndokwatiri kubva. Apa kana kubvuma kuti mwana wevhu. Hanzi ndobva kuvavakidzani. Mwari imi 😂
@user-zz2zj3mh9g
Күн бұрын
@@mufadzashaya A komanyepo acho 😅😅😅😅
Hamusi kumuziva
"My people perish for lack of knowledge." As much as it pains God, He gave permission for divorce, so it's NOT a sin. God hates it, but the Bible clearly stated that God allowed it because of the "hardness" of man's heart. PLEASE read your Bible so you are not led astray by every myth, fable, misinterpretation, cultic leader, fake pastors and prophets. That reminds me, I'm yet to listen to my YouVersion audio Bible today 😐😞
Kuthwele loku,namasonto awu 3 ,kudakiwe kucabanga kuti silima zako,open churches for money ,doti
'This is our company, this is where we are being fed'. Is that the purpose of a church? He nsy have met a bad partner but he needs to be accountable for his part! There's nothing for mahala!
500 seater 😂😂😂 where in Zim that we do not know
Key members? So, there's a hierarchy of congregants; quite saddening to say the least.
Which country is he from?
@mazwimsimanga1466
18 күн бұрын
Zimbabwean, a gay but Hiding it
Lungelo please stop this! This is a lie
@ncedisakhewu
22 күн бұрын
💯💯💯
@elvisndlovu1232
21 күн бұрын
I agree
His demeanor. Uyaqweba lo.
@CbosEasyRecipes7
19 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂🙈🏃🏃🏃🏃
If hell does not exist why must we repent?
Just repent live a holy life , don't justify anything.
Heyiiiii asazi 😂😂😂
At end of the interview. Appears Apostle Casper has grown and learnt from his past mistakes and misfortunes, but still has some rough edges to be smoothed out by God alone. Please pray for wisdom, understanding, clarity of God's word and divine help to keep his commandments so you don't fall into the trap of the devil again and go astray. I pray the same for myself daily as it's so easy to go astray. Even our attitudes and emotions (eg pride. anger or jealousy) can open a door for the enemy to sneak in. I'm learning to repent daily and ask for forgiveness. Stay blessed and victorious. Shalom 🙏❤❤
@elvisndlovu1232
21 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@mejullindlovu4626
21 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
Haybo iphara lomfundisi
Lungelo was not asking the right questions especially where he is obviously contradicting himself. When did he loose his parents, when did he get married, how long was he in the ministry, How/when did he get here. Who was he living with… So many lies
It’s hard to trust what he’s saying,a lot has been said about him
🤔this is not make sure boy
Kkkkkk life ka 😅😅😅😅
Hahahahahaa idzi😂😂😂😂
@ngulubeprincess5009
20 күн бұрын
Dzirikuzama zama.
Ahh havasi vekumbonetsa ku fb
@elvisndlovu1232
22 күн бұрын
Ndivo
@Nunec
19 күн бұрын
Yes ndivo
Guy lived with a white man in Cape town being the wife😊😊😊😊
Opened your church?
😂 that guy is the problem. No one makes you drink you can’t say she made me drink, right there I know you are the problem. You don’t leave your family for another apartment. You don’t blame wife for your actions she is not responsible for covering up your nonsense she is not the reason the church failed your behavior is. Take some accountability and responsibility for your actions. It was right to lose the churches because what kind of nonsense were you trying to teach others. First marrying after one month because you got a car, second sex before marriage when a pastor, third terrible husband but blaming wife or trying to make her pretend you are a good husband. You need serious self reflection. I think all you see is money or taking money from others be it sugar mommy or congregants. You can’t teach anyone anything healthy if you lack accountability and self awareness
My guy not taking accountability by blaming everything on the lady 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄But she took the car and lobola money mxm and tooo many gaps on this story lies lies lies lies lies lies lies
The Late Bishop Carlton Pearson was excommunicated by the College of Bishops because he said he no longer believed in the doctrine of sending people to hell. The author of The Gospel of Radical Inclusion. May his soul continue to RIP kzread.info/dash/bejne/iq6h06Obm5mwcag.html
This guy does not take responsibility for anything. He is dangerous. Claiming to be a man God, he decided to do some things secretly
Very difficult to listen to
As we journey in life let us know the difference between a motivational speaker and preacher of the Almighty God …. This will save us all this nonsense
Bring the wife to the show
@elvisndlovu1232
23 күн бұрын
Because she does not exist, she was never there, this is a Zimbabwean well known con artist, he is gay and was married to very old white man...which is not a problem, the problem to lie that he was married to a woman and had a church...he might have been invited to preach in other churches but he never had any...let me not forget to say (allegedly)
@elvisndlovu1232
23 күн бұрын
Because she does not exist, she was never there, this is a Zimbabwean well known con artist, he is gay and was married to very old white man...which is not a problem, the problem to lie that he was married to a woman and had a church...he might have been invited to preach in other churches but he never had any...let me not forget to say (allegedly)
@elvisndlovu1232
23 күн бұрын
Because she does not exist, she was never there, this is a Zimbabwean well known con artist, he is gay and was married to very old white man...which is not a problem, the problem to lie that he was married to a woman and had a church...he might have been invited to preach in other churches but he never had any...let me not forget to say (allegedly)
@shekinah8475
23 күн бұрын
@@elvisndlovu1232🙊🙊🙊🙊🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️
@casperabonga8050
23 күн бұрын
@@elvisndlovu1232I think you know me better .thanks to u brother
This guy is not taking responsibility, his own act led to his predicament…
27 year old pastor hahahhaha
The wording 'His 3 Churches' just sounds bad. I don't think ANYONE owns a church... It's led by individuals but not owned by anyone but God Himself
You cant even tell which country you coming from. I sense childhood trauma and hatred now you pointing a finger!
@tembisilesithole7640
21 күн бұрын
My question too. Why hide your roots as a man of God. 😅
This guy is a scam. He swears😮. Dont go to any church he starts
@elvisndlovu1232
21 күн бұрын
Thank you, he is a well known con artist
@melodyzvimba7050
21 күн бұрын
@@elvisndlovu1232kudenga kune shamhu yake unemuyu
Two things: either this is a prank (he's trolling us) or this Pastor has decieved himself to believe his own lies .there is no way this man want us to believe this😏.
@tmbrightfuture2023
4 күн бұрын
I think this is really a prank. This can't be true
Casper the scammer....ooops, I meant ghost. She bought me a car and I had to marry her🙈 20 year old father figure🙃 Forget red flags, these are red billboards
LOOK FOR A JOB LEAVE YOUR WIFE ALONE
Still shifting black this one I don't trust
I really dont know what this guy is really saying. Very confusing and definitely confused himself
'I'll never talk about hell or sins." This man was NEVER a pastor, because theologically, HE IS SUPPOSED TO DO SO. A big false apostle. I am a sinner, and we all are and if we live in habitual sin, YOU WILL GO TO HELL. Goodness, glad he isn't in ministry - he'd be destroying people's walk towards the eternal glory God has promised for us.
Either Casper is a talented filmmaker or a great writer of fictitious stories. This story has so many gaps. I mean the pastor arrived at 3 am, started drinking, and then blamed his wife for not being ready for Sunday, all while under the influence. He mentions nude photos, blacking out, owning an 8-bedroom house, receiving five invitations a month, and lacking spiritual guidance. It all seems quite unbelievable to me. It feels like a scene from a movie, the product of a vivid imagination, or perhaps an elaborate prank. There is a narcissistic tendency in this story. By the way - misqouting scripture 💁💁💁. Casper you need therapy my brother.
😂😂😅😅this mampara pastor. Sympathy he was looking For didn't land .. Guy needs therapy. WTF. Zero self reflection. Victim . Everything happens to him.😅 weelele 😅😂😅😅