PASTOR Reacts to Joyner Lucas - IM SORRY

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  • @pastorreacts6654
    @pastorreacts66545 жыл бұрын

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  • @kevinostling2628

    @kevinostling2628

    3 жыл бұрын

    Joyner Lucas speaks 100 truth and real. Yes he said f*ck god. And also god help me at his weakest. Many people have major demons inside them n kill themselves. Where the f*ck was god then? Nice you talking about this video but Joyner Lucas has a bigger voice then you. He speaks how it is. You speak what a book taught you to believe!!

  • @patbigley893

    @patbigley893

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree with both but from a person who doesn't blame music for a person action, I just heard and watch his video for the first time then watched your video right after ,and the pastor said he thought he was possibly giving people the idea that suicide is a option and I never will or would but during this time that video and song made me think about ,so what I'm getting at is the dad is old and wise and he knows life test you but this response was to me from god cause I felt what he thought but that's also because iam in a funk but to the son I also agree with a lot you said ,anyways thank for the time you to make this video you guys response was with in 2 minutes of me hearing this song and I 2as in a bad place for just a few minutes before you guys let me know god was there always thank you

  • @CERTIFIEDLVRGRL

    @CERTIFIEDLVRGRL

    3 жыл бұрын

    how are the both of u doing today? it’s been a year, are u okay? I hope that ur depression has gone away & that u are better now... truly hope that all is well🧸

  • @adreanaburns7246

    @adreanaburns7246

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@CERTIFIEDLVRGRL I hope you are having an amazing day and hope you are doing well❤️ your kindness is infectious

  • @terryfrazier1242

    @terryfrazier1242

    2 жыл бұрын

    Word says in the Bible I don't remember what part but the guy fell on a sword and God's I'll still allowed him and his family in heaven cuz he didn't want to go to war and kill people there's a section of the rules sometime you know everybody at the some people believe you're not going to heaven if you take your own life but I think it depends on the circumstances in the person and the way they lived in the way they feel and what's in their heart

  • @ironmasc5791
    @ironmasc57914 жыл бұрын

    Glad you corrected him when he said it's an advert for suicide. The whole video is to bring awareness to suicide and depression. And the fact we are talking about it......mission accomplished

  • @younes4229

    @younes4229

    3 жыл бұрын

    the second part is actually telling that suicide is a selfish decision

  • @Cert731

    @Cert731

    3 жыл бұрын

    Younes Benchoubane it depends on how u look at it i guess u could say.

  • @willmollard9078

    @willmollard9078

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@younes4229 no not that it’s selfish but that it might affect others and it forces people to confront how they will make others feel.

  • @yamato3573

    @yamato3573

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yup, 100% agree with you and him

  • @synxulol2702

    @synxulol2702

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's not what he said. He meant that the portrayal of suicide might increase the risk I'm of someone actually being more inspired to

  • @joshuaha7661
    @joshuaha76614 жыл бұрын

    To anybody who might get something positive from this: 99% of people who jump from bridges or buildings and survive, all say the same thing, "Once my feet left the ledge and i realized it was too late i immediately regretted it." and i can say from experience, about 3 years ago, i was in a bad place and i slit my wrist.. I lost alot of blood and almost died. But the point is as soon as that blade hit my arm and i saw the blood start pouring out of my arm. I immediately started praying that id survive. And i think of that moment now whenever im feeling suicidal. I actually had a disaster of a day today.. And got those old familiar feelings, but trust me, theres ALWAYS tomorrow. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. Trust me.

  • @racheliacob4425

    @racheliacob4425

    4 жыл бұрын

    That’s nice 😊

  • @heff434

    @heff434

    4 жыл бұрын

    God bless you, man

  • @goated456

    @goated456

    4 жыл бұрын

    May God bless you

  • @iGNiTETheKiD

    @iGNiTETheKiD

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good points bro

  • @jadenminter6895

    @jadenminter6895

    3 жыл бұрын

    ❤️🙏✝️

  • @soft_cactus
    @soft_cactus4 жыл бұрын

    About the pen thing, I heard that someone said god gave him three chances. The belt slipped, chance 1. The pen ran out, chance 2. And then he had one last chance by not pulling the trigger, but he did it and that was the last chance which he wasn't saved from.

  • @ironmasc5791

    @ironmasc5791

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nonsense. People are stupid. This is how delusional religious people can get. They can see 3 clear signs of god interjecting when dude is an actor and got up after the director yelled 'cut'. Nobody died. The director was trying to make a compelling video. We can't give him the credit. All the praise now goes to God who I'm sure the fanatics will say put the ideas in his head for the vid🙄😒

  • @NotSaga

    @NotSaga

    4 жыл бұрын

    A human like you and me wouldn’t understand that at the moment.

  • @soft_cactus

    @soft_cactus

    4 жыл бұрын

    Iron Masc omg I am aware, I‘m not even religious. But they are and soneone said that the director wanted to imply these 3 chances, so I decided to share that rather heartwarming thought to someone who *is* religious.

  • @AidanTheArcher

    @AidanTheArcher

    4 жыл бұрын

    Iron Masc are u being serious lol wtf obviously nobody thinks thats a real thing that happened hes saying a theory for what the story in the video was

  • @ironmasc5791

    @ironmasc5791

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@AidanTheArcher since yr speaking for everyone explain the comment two above yours👍🏾

  • @amarismendez2456
    @amarismendez24563 жыл бұрын

    This song literally saved my life bc it showed me how someone else would feel about me gone and that hurt. I wouldn’t let someone else go through that. Because of me.

  • @bridgetdarby2730

    @bridgetdarby2730

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah it helps me to also think that if I take that way I will pass all of my pain to the people that love me

  • @CharmzCharm

    @CharmzCharm

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @wadora4523

    @wadora4523

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love you both 🙏🏽

  • @justchillin5200

    @justchillin5200

    3 жыл бұрын

    how are you feeling now? i hope you are happy

  • @Kaden_SparksYT

    @Kaden_SparksYT

    2 жыл бұрын

    Damn same here

  • @soggynothere2438
    @soggynothere24384 жыл бұрын

    Last thing my dad said to me was I enjoyed our time thanks for making things more pleasant then 4 days later took the 40 cal to his head never got to say love you back or goodbye he’s been gone since 2016 I still hate myself for not being there so give your dad a hug and tell him that you love him because life is crazy it might be the last time why couldn’t god give me another chance

  • @devinbowen444

    @devinbowen444

    4 жыл бұрын

    Damn I'm sorry for your lost

  • @anthonyreese444

    @anthonyreese444

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nathan Zieminski I don’t know you but I love you brother. Thanks for sharing. Praying for you and your loved ones.

  • @avostorm8111

    @avostorm8111

    4 жыл бұрын

    I love you man. I hope the weight is lifting off your shoulders. Please take care.

  • @itsxavier6869

    @itsxavier6869

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nathan Zieminski I’m sorry for your lost and not trying to be disrespectful but a 50 cal?

  • @yaanzyboy

    @yaanzyboy

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nathan Zieminski sorry my guy.. don’t stress it, I’m sure he loved you and you both knew it. Everything happens for a reason:)

  • @RiotSableye
    @RiotSableye3 жыл бұрын

    If you haven’t lived in that mindset of being suicidal I don’t think someone can say if it’s selfish or not, you don’t know the pain we go through, you don’t know how our brain works or how we feel, I think a lot of people would switch their mindset if they knew how it felt and how worthless you feel and painful it is to wake up in the morning

  • @heathermcduffee7058
    @heathermcduffee70584 жыл бұрын

    i love the conversation being had. the ability to have that back and forth, to see things differently and actually be able to discuss it and find middle ground is just wonderful.

  • @4gibmeletttzfkk

    @4gibmeletttzfkk

    Жыл бұрын

    It reminds me of my brother especially 2nd verse...RIP ALPZ MISSYA BRO

  • @justicenxumalo1620
    @justicenxumalo16203 жыл бұрын

    Remember Joyner is a storyteller, this is story told by those who are left behind and the person who took his life

  • @vanessaespinoza798

    @vanessaespinoza798

    3 жыл бұрын

    He is actually portraying his cousin who’s name is “Brodie”. Brodie took his own life and the line “tell my family it’s okay” was actually in his suicide letter.

  • @Cris_Gomez
    @Cris_Gomez8 ай бұрын

    I don't think anyone will truly understand the internal battle we have with ourselves, this song is so powerful, I feel like this song represents the voice in my head and the constant contemplation of suicide and refusing to look at the good things in life that are in front of me because there's something inside holding me back. Truly Truly powerful! I break down every time I hear this song 😢

  • @henryrobert5917
    @henryrobert59173 жыл бұрын

    In my opinion, as someone going through a similar situation, the pen running out of ink is a representation of how much we want to say but can't put into words. It also symbolizes the end of the letter, thus the end of his life (a double being that joyner is rapping, his pen is his livelihood, even though he isn't the one committing suicide)

  • @JacobP81

    @JacobP81

    Жыл бұрын

    I think you're right.

  • @nutzdeez630
    @nutzdeez6303 жыл бұрын

    If memory serves right joyner wrote this for his cousin who actually committed suicide

  • @DSchae2165

    @DSchae2165

    3 жыл бұрын

    in the second part of the video by the casket, I actually felt the emotions of the words. It brought tears to my eyes.

  • @bumblebee7547

    @bumblebee7547

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@DSchae2165 ha gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

  • @entropy8634

    @entropy8634

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bumblebee7547 fellas, is it gay to feel emotions?

  • @yeshua7180

    @yeshua7180

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@entropy8634 in the comment section on youtube yea

  • @afenismama

    @afenismama

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@yeshua7180 so being a fraud for KZread is the move, huh?🙄 you're weak.

  • @joshhill4903
    @joshhill49033 жыл бұрын

    Ive never felt like "the world would be better without me" but ive felt like id be better without the world, and ive felt like the people i love would value me more if they didnt have another chance to. All ive ever wanted was to be valuable, to love and be loved like it was all fixing to end, because you never know.

  • @michaelnorman9441
    @michaelnorman94413 жыл бұрын

    My brother in law killed himself and my dad said he was selfish. That was pretty much the end of his and my sisters relationship and she never forgave him and he never corrected what he said. He died that way. Wish they could’ve had a talk like this where they at least tried to understand each other

  • @DesolateGore
    @DesolateGore4 жыл бұрын

    @7:47 Pastor is right! not only did the pen not write, but the first attempt the belt broke also. He had 2 ways out first.

  • @samaritan29

    @samaritan29

    2 жыл бұрын

    if god really didn't want him dead the gun would've malfunctioned.

  • @blackwall8203

    @blackwall8203

    Жыл бұрын

    god gave him 3 chances

  • @echo1765
    @echo17654 жыл бұрын

    The belt slipping should resemble God i believe.

  • @griffinewine615

    @griffinewine615

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ray-ts4he I think it resembles the dude killing himself

  • @ToxicChicken69

    @ToxicChicken69

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@griffinewine615 🤣

  • @ToxicChicken69

    @ToxicChicken69

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ray-ts4he it's a joke tho my dude

  • @ironmasc5791

    @ironmasc5791

    4 жыл бұрын

    U guys are hilarious. It's as if you believe you watched CCTV footage of the guy actually killing himself. You know he's an actor and didn't really die right? The belt slipping....the pen not working....this wasnt god but the thoughts of the director trying to make a compelling video. I guess your now gonna say that God put the idea in the directors head right?😂😂

  • @ToxicChicken69

    @ToxicChicken69

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ironmasc5791 dude shut up obviously the detector has hidden meanings in the video, were just trying to figure out what the hidden meanings are. Literally no one thinks this is real its its obviously just a video to go with the song, I know it's hard to believe but you're not the smartest person in the world were not stupid

  • @jorgenegrete1482
    @jorgenegrete14823 жыл бұрын

    Just found this song today then clicked on you guys...this is how I felt since a lil younger then what he says on his song

  • @kyramullins2186
    @kyramullins218610 ай бұрын

    I was like that when i was in high school because i had lost my best friend the only person who understood me n actually cared what i said was my grandmother my dads mother she passed away in 2014 Easter morning, i still grive to this day from losing her i got her name on my arm in angle wings with a halo. When i lost her i lost everything so i ended up trying to end my life 5 times cause i had nobody else

  • @lisa.hennessey19
    @lisa.hennessey193 жыл бұрын

    Whe. You're contemplating suicide, "selfish " is the last word I'd use to describe it bc you truly believe in your mind and heart that everyone is going to better without you.

  • @paradisegreen7057
    @paradisegreen70574 жыл бұрын

    Great video reactions! So ,glad you shared your experience with us! Your honesty about feeling suicidal is going to help so many people! I just liked and Sunscribed! Keep up the Great work!

  • @jaxxxsxo
    @jaxxxsxo3 жыл бұрын

    i enjoyed the conversation and trying to understand both view points. you guys were very respectful and understanding. i enjoyed watching! thank you

  • @MindofKevin
    @MindofKevin3 жыл бұрын

    In regards to the “selfish” argument, having been suicidal I always felt like it was selfish of people to tell me that I had to stay alive just so that they wouldn’t be sad. Their selfishness couldn’t look passed their own feelings and attempt to like at why I feel the way I do.

  • @drcrunch9561

    @drcrunch9561

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's hard to help people through things that you haven't experienced yourself. Don't look at them as selfish, look at them as scared for you and not knowing what to do. Pretty much the same concept of suicide. Let's stop demonizing each other

  • @carlosfonsecajr
    @carlosfonsecajr4 жыл бұрын

    You're both very well spoken with great perspectives that are very different. I greatly appreciate you guys doing this video. You just gained a new subscriber

  • @georgeclarke2598
    @georgeclarke25983 жыл бұрын

    I think that with the part where Joyner finds his friend dead its showing that because he's in the room its like people saying they're there for you but really they never see the truth. I loved your opinion on it though!

  • @jordancrawley3892
    @jordancrawley38923 жыл бұрын

    Thank You For Your Support R.I.P Kountry Gone But Never Forgotten.

  • @DSchae2165
    @DSchae21653 жыл бұрын

    if someone is suicidal, they have already had the thoughts. A music video isn't going to create new thoughts. They are already there. This gives them a connection to their feelings - in the beginning of the video. The second part gives them the perspective of the results if they ever went through with it.

  • @JohnDoe-ij7et
    @JohnDoe-ij7et4 жыл бұрын

    U guys have good chemistry with the way u interact with ur different point of views.

  • @rileyann1312
    @rileyann13123 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic video getting two different points. I would agree with dad and the son would put in his input and it changed my way of thinking. This is great.

  • @followfornothing
    @followfornothing4 жыл бұрын

    Your idea of the intervention for making the pen run out was an excellent observation. I never caught that... I saw you crack a smile when the pen ran out and you explained why and it makes perfect sense.

  • @nicksather2736
    @nicksather27364 жыл бұрын

    That is an awesome pastor! I’d love to attend a service!

  • @joefr123

    @joefr123

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @JacobP81
    @JacobP81 Жыл бұрын

    17:42 "They would see true reality" I think so too. There is a quote "For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known." (1 Corinthians 13:12)

  • @red2thebone
    @red2thebone2 жыл бұрын

    your video brought me to tears " your not alone" hit hard 🥺😢😞

  • @jeremywarren6628
    @jeremywarren662811 ай бұрын

    This song as well as the book tigers blood saved me. Pain doesn’t stop when you quit, it just transfers. And I couldn’t put my little brothers through that.

  • @shaundellantigua2636
    @shaundellantigua26363 жыл бұрын

    Just want to say to this father and son this is something that is good for a lot of young people please continue with the program

  • @vhhfdfttt
    @vhhfdfttt4 жыл бұрын

    This hit me close to home

  • @moritzkorsch9029
    @moritzkorsch90292 жыл бұрын

    This felt like a therapy session between son and father. I am happy that you found a good way to do that, and I am glad that I could witness it.

  • @moritzkorsch9029

    @moritzkorsch9029

    2 жыл бұрын

    Only thing missing is a hug between you two. 🫂

  • @robertlarosejr.1535
    @robertlarosejr.15352 жыл бұрын

    Okay I actually fucking love how much you guys learn off each other…. Pls teach American congressman 😂😂

  • @katrinaminor638
    @katrinaminor6383 жыл бұрын

    Your dad is awesome!! Love his point of views

  • @advilabuser
    @advilabuser4 жыл бұрын

    i really like how its a father and son reacting to this video which is about a father and son, thumbs up

  • @notcloudeclipse7493
    @notcloudeclipse74932 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad that this shows how people who haven't been in this position, don't understand what helps and what doesn't. They unintentionally make things worse. I love how open-minded this pastor is, in his ability to let things be explained to him by someone who has been there, instead of telling you what to change.

  • @sucio130
    @sucio1304 жыл бұрын

    I need your father in my life 😁

  • @dislikebuttonuser4996
    @dislikebuttonuser49963 жыл бұрын

    It’s so crazy because I remember feeling bad for the son watching this, now I feel. For the dad. I guess that’s life. That’s faith.

  • @carlosjenkins68
    @carlosjenkins682 жыл бұрын

    This is the very first song I ever heard from Joyner Lucas ..I love the review because.. I look for people that find the songs that I listen to & feel the same exact way I do about them..however a person that's been dealing with depression 4 that turns suicidal I'm speaking from experience and the fact that I tried twice.. So being saved is the last thing I thought about.. and I also have two uncles that have their churches in alabama Reginald Calvert and Jerome Calvert

  • @sabrinagonzalez9665
    @sabrinagonzalez96654 жыл бұрын

    I’m two second in and I both liked and subbed ♥️😭

  • @sharonbird2631
    @sharonbird26312 жыл бұрын

    Pastor they can't see any other way out , I'm Catholic and I know they say it's a sin to take ur own, but I believe my God would never consider that a sin God is good 🙏🙏🙏

  • @seanpatrick6303
    @seanpatrick63032 жыл бұрын

    Wat a good dad

  • @knee.co.8338
    @knee.co.83384 жыл бұрын

    I think the nuance whether selfish is the right way to describe suicide is if you’re talking about the action itself or it’s intent. Someone mentally ill enough to end their life isn’t going to have the perspective that they’re being selfish. With the line “I can’t believe you think the world is better off without you” that really is the way a lot of suicidal people rationalize with themselves when they end up attempting to kill themselves.

  • @lukeschacher3048
    @lukeschacher30484 жыл бұрын

    Whole new perspective on life 😭

  • @thatmanfromtexas

    @thatmanfromtexas

    4 жыл бұрын

    1:39 I noticed the pastor smiled at that part

  • @JacobP81
    @JacobP81 Жыл бұрын

    It's like they say, "I'm alive". Even if the day goes to shit, you're still breathing at the end, at least you're alive, thank God for that. You didn't kill yourself, you weren't killed, you made it. You still have your LIFE to live to see your loved ones.

  • @kuttoff15
    @kuttoff153 жыл бұрын

    Love this video between you & your dad. Shit was real as hell. I would definitely like to attend your dad's church

  • @jherrera3323
    @jherrera33234 жыл бұрын

    Did anyone notice when he says and were the fukk is god then the belt breaks

  • @ironmasc5791

    @ironmasc5791

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's just a video. He's an actor

  • @jherrera3323

    @jherrera3323

    4 жыл бұрын

    4 real!!! U swear!

  • @murderbird1733

    @murderbird1733

    4 жыл бұрын

    Could be a hidden message by Joyner, good catch

  • @lamaralonza3619
    @lamaralonza36193 жыл бұрын

    Great review

  • @BlackViod
    @BlackViod4 жыл бұрын

    Im surprised you didnt catch what happened when he said where the fk is god. He failed at hanging himself, that was god right there.

  • @chanteljohnson8934

    @chanteljohnson8934

    3 жыл бұрын

    Accurate unfortunately he ended up shooting himself.

  • @KykyDJenkins

    @KykyDJenkins

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chanteljohnson8934 God can't save us from every bullet we take.

  • @jacobmarshall5391

    @jacobmarshall5391

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@KykyDJenkins I think more so, after so many attempts, there's no chance that they haven't decided to choose death at that point. What else could God do, but to let them continue in their suffering. It's impertinent, I think, to remember that our LORD Jesus Christ, the almighty, the One and ONLY Judge. And whomever He chooses to save, or to take, it is the correct time for such. For he is the only one who knows all of the heart, and of the mind, and of the spirit. Depression is a disease, which I have, I might add, abbreviated SAD, that causes a person to have uncontrollable horribly negative thoughts of oneself. And God judges the hearts of man, of all their motives, and desires. Pause and wonder about the thought of just how difficult it would be to take ones own life. In my conclusion, where with depression's effect on ones brain, being a physical malformity, changing how a person believes, and/or behaves(Think Altzimer's Disease, Dementia etc.,) I do not believe that any souls are condemned by God for the act of suicide alone. Strong faith, love, and compassion Is needed, for so that is pertaining to the matter, to reinforce that God is patient long-suffering, merciful, and lovingly perfect, so that you should not worry where your loved ones have gone, Nobody that could have turned and repented will die, and the same goes vice versa. And when in doubt, seek it out. Romans 2:3-4: And thinks thou this, O man…that you shall escape the judgment of God? Or do you despise the riches of His goodness and forbearance and longsuffering; not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance?” Genesis 18:16-33 New International Version 22 The men(N) turned away and went toward Sodom,(O) but Abraham remained standing before the Lord.[b](P) 23 Then Abraham approached him and said: “Will you sweep away the righteous with the wicked?(Q) 24 What if there are fifty righteous people in the city? Will you really sweep it away and not spare[c] the place for the sake of the fifty righteous people in it?(R) 25 Far be it from you to do such a thing(S)-to kill the righteous with the wicked, treating the righteous(T) and the wicked alike.(U) Far be it from you! Will not the Judge(V) of all the earth do right?”(W) 26 The Lord said, “If I find fifty righteous people in the city of Sodom, I will spare the whole place for their sake.(X)” 27 Then Abraham spoke up again: “Now that I have been so bold as to speak to the Lord, though I am nothing but dust and ashes,(Y) 28 what if the number of the righteous is five less than fifty? Will you destroy the whole city for lack of five people?” “If I find forty-five there,” he said, “I will not destroy it.” 29 Once again he spoke to him, “What if only forty are found there?” He said, “For the sake of forty, I will not do it.” 30 Then he said, “May the Lord not be angry,(Z) but let me speak. What if only thirty can be found there?” He answered, “I will not do it if I find thirty there.” 31 Abraham said, “Now that I have been so bold as to speak to the Lord, what if only twenty can be found there?” He said, “For the sake of twenty, I will not destroy it.” 32 Then he said, “May the Lord not be angry, but let me speak just once more.(AA) What if only ten can be found there?” He answered, “For the sake of ten,(AB) I will not destroy it.” 33 When the Lord had finished speaking(AC) with Abraham, he left,(AD) and Abraham returned home.(AE) Matthew 18:10-14 New International Version The Parable of the Wandering Sheep(A) 10 “See that you do not despise one of these little ones. For I tell you that their angels(B) in heaven always see the face of my Father in heaven. [11] [a] 12 “What do you think? If a man owns a hundred sheep, and one of them wanders away, will he not leave the ninety-nine on the hills and go to look for the one that wandered off? 13 And if he finds it, truly I tell you, he is happier about that one sheep than about the ninety-nine that did not wander off. 14 In the same way your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should perish.

  • @watitduful

    @watitduful

    8 ай бұрын

    He can as He Is The Creator and has full Dominion. God is not a mortal that’s finite. God can stop every bullet but He also respects our free will and we will each receive judgement for how we lived in this life.

  • @Lumbeelegend
    @Lumbeelegend2 жыл бұрын

    I balled like a baby when I first seen this video. I've never had serious thoughts of suicide, or anything like this. Teenage angst is as far as I've ever gotten, but I think we've all had friends to end it. It happened x2 when I was in the military. 1 in Afghanistan and the other was suicide by cop in Ft. Hood. Dustin Cole was a troubled person, but he was deeply loyal, fearless, and someone who you wanted to on your side. I had no idea how to react when it happened. I grew up, desperately poor. No lights, water, or food. I'm only 32 btw, but its the hand my family was dealt. It was so painful and confusing when he did what he did. Evil. He killed a police officer, and I feel bad for feeling bad for Cole. PTSD is a real thing that I never believed in until I came back. Just venting in public, sorry.

  • @mbk4476
    @mbk44764 жыл бұрын

    Btw this is about his brother

  • @Troy24768

    @Troy24768

    4 жыл бұрын

    Timingruby it’s still family don’t be so mean

  • @esmeraldamartinez8558

    @esmeraldamartinez8558

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's his cousin

  • @TheVCudi

    @TheVCudi

    4 жыл бұрын

    uh no.

  • @CrzzySouls

    @CrzzySouls

    4 жыл бұрын

    Timingruby i see my 2 cousins as brothers because i grew up with them ... I do not have blood brothers

  • @KykyDJenkins

    @KykyDJenkins

    3 жыл бұрын

    At some point in your life if you become as close to your relatives as possible, you consider each other siblings regardless of whether you're cousins or not.

  • @Daniel-zt2nb
    @Daniel-zt2nb3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @justaduckwithamustache6593
    @justaduckwithamustache65932 жыл бұрын

    It's sad when people feel the need to try try again to end themselves. No matter how bad life is, people have it worse somewhere, and people love you whether it seems like it or not. Much love. Stay safe. How many people ended there lives before the glory. They thought the race was over when it just started.

  • @cupcakeangel365
    @cupcakeangel3653 жыл бұрын

    I think God didn't jam or stop the gun because he wanted it to be the guy's choice to live. The belt slipping and the pen running out of ink was God asking "are you sure this is what you want?"

  • @watitduful

    @watitduful

    8 ай бұрын

    Right. God respects each of our free wills that He has given us.

  • @coreyrogers8700
    @coreyrogers87003 жыл бұрын

    I like both of your points of views

  • @Brock73
    @Brock734 жыл бұрын

    Just about the best reaction channel on KZread

  • @EROD408
    @EROD4083 жыл бұрын

    Bro you are a king

  • @hewhoshallnotbenamed7862
    @hewhoshallnotbenamed78624 жыл бұрын

    So many forget that we are God's special creation for he imbued us with free will. The ugly side of such a gift is the capacity to do harm. Not just to ourselves but others.

  • @thatmanfromtexas

    @thatmanfromtexas

    4 жыл бұрын

    1:39 look the pastor smiled at that part

  • @bottlebongsforthewin5760

    @bottlebongsforthewin5760

    4 жыл бұрын

    You are brain dead

  • @hewhoshallnotbenamed7862

    @hewhoshallnotbenamed7862

    4 жыл бұрын

    Did you really reply on a months old comment with that middle school insult?

  • @bottlebongsforthewin5760

    @bottlebongsforthewin5760

    4 жыл бұрын

    hewho shallnotbenamed what is your point here bud

  • @hewhoshallnotbenamed7862

    @hewhoshallnotbenamed7862

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@bottlebongsforthewin5760 awe bless your heart. You're a "special" kid huh?

  • @storr2428
    @storr24283 жыл бұрын

    I know you're bad has a different perspective on what going on but thank God for him because my dad wouldn't even entertain or take the time out to even try to understand these kind of stuff. So respect to him bro!

  • @lunna_bluu547
    @lunna_bluu5473 жыл бұрын

    😢😢😢😢WOW...my heart hurts

  • @GreeVince247
    @GreeVince2473 жыл бұрын

    The ink running out point was deep.

  • @jacobgolec9269
    @jacobgolec92692 жыл бұрын

    I know this is a SUPER late comment, but I hope u see this! Some people do perceive it as inviting. I have witnessed it! Awesome reaction. You both did an amazing job.

  • @jaqualynnbullard6066
    @jaqualynnbullard60663 жыл бұрын

    Just now finding all these and this channel. Maybe I haven't seen the video if this was already explained but I almost feel like you made these videos to show him how you feel, without saying this is how I feel directly. Like its easier to hear when talking about the song lyrics and what they mean, as well as you introducing another view other than your dads in a way that doesn't out his defense up as much but be more open to hear anothers side

  • @BillieGomez
    @BillieGomez4 жыл бұрын

    Im thinking about it

  • @sabrinagonzalez9665

    @sabrinagonzalez9665

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thinking about? There’s people to talk to, even me

  • @mia7061
    @mia70613 жыл бұрын

    Just found out a close friend of mine from middle school took her own life. We played volleyball and soccer together and she was a grade under me, she had only started highschool. She had her whole life ahead of her, and she was an amazing soul, you'd never think she'd do something like that. I feel guilty for not talking to her more.

  • @anthonyhunt1130
    @anthonyhunt11303 жыл бұрын

    man this video is so powerful...

  • @gamingwithlacks
    @gamingwithlacks3 жыл бұрын

    Please do Magician's Assistant by Scroobius Pip and Dan LeSacs

  • @JacobP81
    @JacobP81 Жыл бұрын

    8:02 YES it could be.

  • @bomajesty9526
    @bomajesty95264 жыл бұрын

    Why would God create this crazy life knowing that people can't take this life that gives no answer to our questions. Then God has the audacity to send people to hell...

  • @rednebula7612

    @rednebula7612

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bo Majesty I don’t believe in god. He creates this horrible world we live in for no point. He has a kingdom of peace and happiness and then puts us on this prison for eighty years just so we can get in. With all of these things that MAKE people behave badly

  • @juvnchy

    @juvnchy

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nebula life is what you make it. Sorry you feel like that’s all life has to offer

  • @rednebula7612

    @rednebula7612

    4 жыл бұрын

    Zzzz Thank you for at least being understanding :) a lot of people just jump the gun and assume I’m a satanist or something

  • @caseysparks6297

    @caseysparks6297

    4 жыл бұрын

    God dose not send u to hell u send yourself to hell

  • @bomajesty9526

    @bomajesty9526

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@caseysparks6297 So you mean to tell me that I can be saved by the blood of Jesus and slip up and commit a sin, die in the same moment and go straight to hell?

  • @sharonbird2631
    @sharonbird26312 жыл бұрын

    We need to do better for our friends and family when there going through some hard things 🙏

  • @JacobP81
    @JacobP81 Жыл бұрын

    14:42 Yeah true they feel there is no other option.

  • @rsj2027
    @rsj20273 жыл бұрын

    I like how he stopped him to help his dad understand what really goes on inside the mind. Dad is listening, good. Wish he could help many clueless parents understand to, they just don't get it.

  • @Big.Stepper.
    @Big.Stepper.2 жыл бұрын

    Wow. This is my first time seeing this channel but you guys are entertaining. I sense some underlying tension between the two of you. Like your son grew up hearing you push your opinions on to others, so now he's made it his mission in life to show you that there are multiple perspectives to consider.

  • @justindanielson7301
    @justindanielson73013 жыл бұрын

    You guys should react to some Ivan B music. He's a rapper that brings up stuff about God and Jesus, life and it's problems, and things that conflict with stuff in the Bible. He's been one of my reasons for living.

  • @GLITCHED1
    @GLITCHED13 жыл бұрын

    The inspiration behind this song was Joyners cousin "Brodi" who took his own life. The line "Just make sure you tell my family: It's ok, I'm sorry" is rumored to be picked straight out of Brodi's suicide note

  • @justinzellers892
    @justinzellers8923 жыл бұрын

    Almost all suicide attempt survivors said the regretted it as soon as they took that step to end their life there is a video about a man who jumped off the Golden Gate Bridge in a suicide attempt he was one of very few who survived that jump and in his video he said the second he left the railing he regretted it.

  • @teayabrown3924
    @teayabrown3924 Жыл бұрын

    As a suicidal person with a depressive disorder, as well as someone who has had a loved one commit suicide, I used to be quite bothered by people calling it selfish. Ultimately, selfishness isn't a bad thing. I think it often gets confused with self-centeredness. But, I came to the realization that the reason it bothered me was, not because it wasn't selfish or that your thoughts aren't in the mindset of "me", but because the otherside of the arguement is just as selfish. And that's okay. The problem is that no one talks about that. The other side wants someone who has no desire of living to live. And, yes some people do say that it's because that person is taken away from the world and can't play their part. But, deep down it's because someone they love is taken from them. Whether they admit it or not, it is a selfish view. Just as much as the person committing suicide because they're tired or overwhelmed or feel like they got nothing left is selfish. It's very important to remember that both sides are on equal ground in this area. Ultimately, the only person that is selfless is the one who gives in and lets go of their desire. And, if we continue with only admitting the selfishness of one side and not the other, that side will ultimately just be hurt. They'll feel even more misunderstood and isolated, when they already can't be understood. And, then we definitely can't help them. Because everything is just stacked against them, there's no middle ground.

  • @ericrodriguezz215
    @ericrodriguezz2154 жыл бұрын

    Jesus this Moses that, Abraham hit me with a wiffle ball bat.

  • @edwardmongan9604

    @edwardmongan9604

    4 жыл бұрын

    Eric Rodriguez 215 so....hilarious...I’m crying......

  • @quantimix

    @quantimix

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lmfao

  • @joefr123

    @joefr123

    3 жыл бұрын

    I had a stroke trying to read this, lol

  • @jorgenegrete1482
    @jorgenegrete14823 жыл бұрын

    It's hard to ask for help

  • @DarKNG
    @DarKNG3 жыл бұрын

    There are two songs in my life that i consider really intense to me, snuff from corey taylor (slipknot), and this one.

  • @isaacfrank2801

    @isaacfrank2801

    3 жыл бұрын

    👍👍

  • @drcrunch9561

    @drcrunch9561

    3 жыл бұрын

    Snuff is deep.

  • @luevang4667
    @luevang46673 жыл бұрын

    This is the song I was listening to when I loaded my gun and was gonna pull the trigger when my nest friend walked in and took the gun from me

  • @adreanaburns7246
    @adreanaburns72462 жыл бұрын

    First person iv ever heard that has said he thinks god may let you in heaven even if u committed suicide. Iv wondered it so many time and have asked and they would say no your going to hell and I just feel God would really know us if we were good or bad and would judge us on that.. he made me tear up a lil bi

  • @Arkaynegel
    @Arkaynegel3 жыл бұрын

    The way I would word your statement at14:20 is "The people saying it's selfish are selfish themselves they may mourn but they do it with the support of those around them mourning also. To be in a state of suicidal thought your whole life is mourning by your self alone without support even if the support is present." also it's irrelevant trying to put logic to suicide in a mind that has true suicidal tendencies rational thought based on living is not present.

  • @youre_local_mailman2330
    @youre_local_mailman23304 жыл бұрын

    Plzz do Dear God by Logic

  • @trulynobody9676
    @trulynobody96763 жыл бұрын

    Thanx for saying this my uncle killed himself a few years ago Bruce to know hes in heaven right now

  • @bighova09
    @bighova094 жыл бұрын

    You added Only. Your pops didnt say that. In reality, WE are responsible for our own lives. What we choose to do with them is ultimately our choice.

  • @the_real_stafford8388
    @the_real_stafford83883 жыл бұрын

    Good thing you had your dad bud

  • @joeyfatlip5729
    @joeyfatlip57294 жыл бұрын

    How do I sumit a video for you guys to check out??

  • @JacobP81
    @JacobP81 Жыл бұрын

    4:50 I watched the original video before during a time when I was thinking about killing myself. It really made me think. It did not give me ideas of how to kill myself but it did help me think of what others would go through if I did it.

  • @JacobP81
    @JacobP81 Жыл бұрын

    12:13 Yes it is selfish. People do it to try to end there pain. To try to escape. I say "try" because nobody knows what happens after we die.

  • @alphawolfgamezyt
    @alphawolfgamezyt4 жыл бұрын

    Pastor looks like the guy from the Upside

  • @superdude7445
    @superdude74454 жыл бұрын

    it could be selfish but it could also be the oppitsite, your life doesnt feel like its yours to have let alone deserve, maybe the ultimate sacrifice

  • @brucewayne2365
    @brucewayne23653 жыл бұрын

    Suicide is selfish... But so is eating and breathing. Imagine the feeling of hunger and or being out of breath. Would you search for air and sustenance. Yes you would. Imagine that and then start to try and convince someone not to. Most can't but some can. I can't but I wish I could so that maybe one life can be saved by perspective. It is one of the powerful tools we have and it isn't utilized enough.

  • @1stfire_shadow
    @1stfire_shadow4 жыл бұрын

    I hate the why’s. Why is your care only surface deep.

  • @KELEVRA004
    @KELEVRA0044 жыл бұрын

    I too don't consider it a selfish act. To me when someone says suicide is selfish they are completely disregarding the suicidal persons emotions and putting their own as the ones that matter in that moment which is honestly pretty selfish. When I was suicidal I didn't want to die to go to heaven or to make other feel guilty. I didn't care whether I went to heaven or hell or was reincarnated or what have you. I honestly thought that I would end up in hell and despite having been a Christian for 16 years hell seemed better than what I was feeling and going through because at least in hell I could feel something. I'm past all of that now for the most part, still have some rough days but as bad as I long for death I don't see myself going through with the action. I'm also not a Christian anymore partly because of those experiences. Christianity was imposed on me since the day I was born but as I grew up and have the experience I have now I decided that religion isn't for me. I still respect other people's beliefs I just don't want to be associated with it and I feel like it doesn't have a place in my life

  • @JacobP81
    @JacobP81 Жыл бұрын

    17:20 Yeah I think they do regret it on the other side, a lot of people that do it anyway.