Pree, I am a biological male and I'm glad that I had only one experience with a catheter and that was when I had surgery for an enlarged prostate and bladder stones. I had the surgery in the morning and when I woke up after the surgery, a Foley catheter was in for the rest of the day and overnight in the hospital. The catheter was taken out the next morning. I returned home on the day following the surgery and chose not to have a catheter. Recovery was eight weeks of wetting my pants several times a day and discovering and trying in order, pads, pullups, and eventually tabbed diapers, starting with drugstore brand, ordering medical brands online, then discovering higher capacity ABDL diapers. I can get by now with a male pad, but there are times I like to wear diapers to bypass using dirty public restrooms and at home to not have to interrupt online meetings. Also at home there are times when I enjoy the feel of a diaper, along with the increasing bulk and weight as it gets wetter.

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

Discovering the ABDL diapers have definitely been a game changer! Awe cute! The feeling of the ABDL diaper makes everything better!

@maidjadeanne2070

Жыл бұрын

@@Fetishmale On that morning I was discharged I feel like I was given the bums's rush out so they could get someone else in the bed. I almost think that the nurse didn't drive to work in a car but rode a broom instead, insulting me when I tried following the doctor's orders. There was a very quick meeting with some other nurse and I turned down going home with a catheter and declined a home health aide. They even hated that my family friend who was my chauffeur took more than five minutes to come and pick me up. After a few days I phoned the cousin I was closest to, who is a retired RN who for a while was head nurse of a geriatric floor of a hospital. I followed her advice and started using pads and pullups, then a bit later started exploring tabbed diapers with a transition period of using belted shields as I became familiar with diaper tab placement.

@Fetishmale

Жыл бұрын

@@maidjadeanne2070 Im sorry, you had to experience at the hospital, I also experienced somewhat stressed doctors, and some super stressed once... Not the best I was mostly just curious as to why, it took "so long" for someone to do something, to reduce the wet pants and bed, but then again, i'm certainly not much better, and in my case diapers/pull-up was something i already had, and was on my radar

Pree.....don't feel embarrassed for who you are. Look at the love and friendship you have here, and how you are being a positive influence on those of us who also need diapers. You are loved ❤

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

Awee thanks I needed to hear that! 🙈🖤🖤

Don't ever feel embarrassed about things you cannot control. If you have an accident while out and about, that's ok. Just consider it as that it's not the last time that it may happen. Go out there and rock your diaper and rock yourself. You're stronger than you know!

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

It was only really ever embarrassing when I never came across diapers. After wearing them, it was a sigh of relief for me! It gave me a reason to not fear being out.

I am incontinent with urinary retention and am all too familiar with the pain that you talk about. I refuse to use catheters and use diapers instead. I don't have an obstruction or anything, just a neurogenic bladder. I have some tricks to get my bladder to release. Maybe you can try them out if you have an issue again. For me, being stressed or just uncomfortable makes it worse, so getting my body to relax is key. Something that works for me every time is getting in a hot shower. I typically wake up in the morning with a full bladder, and a hot shower does the trick. Another thing that works well, especially if I've been sitting at a desk for a few hours, is to stand up, stretch, and crack my back. What works for me might not work for you, but I hope this helps. Good luck! 👍

Really great series. Seriously, it was like an adventure!

One thing I absolutely love about your channel is how educational it is in videos like this! It really is like "Come for the diapers, stay for the medical journey" for me as an ABDL, lol. I'm so glad you're so open about everything like this because it helps understand your condition. I know your journey isn't like everyone with MS, but it's still eye opening to see what it's like as someone who doesn't have that condition.

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

Awe!!🖤🖤🖤

Another great video with really good points on both sides of the incontinence world!!

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

Awe thanks! 🖤🖤

Good points Pree! I wish you a wonderful week!

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

Awe thank you, I hope you have a good week too! 🖤

Awesome video once again! Keep up your positive attitude! Hope you are doing well 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

I am thanks and I hope you are too! 🖤🖤🖤🖤

Thanks for all your videos . It is very helpful and interesting ❤

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

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I hope you are fealing better. Retention is a serious thing with urinary fluids. I hope you are well now. All best ❤❤

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

Awe yes I’m doing much better now and I hope you’re doing good! 🖤🖤

This was awesome!! I loved it!

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

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@kdusel1991

Жыл бұрын

@@BumblePree are you gonna do more diaper reviews? I love those!!

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

Yes!

@kdusel1991

Жыл бұрын

@@BumblePree yay! I'm looking to start wearing them soon and your reviews have been so helpful in helping me research what diapers to try!!

@kdusel1991

Жыл бұрын

​@@BumblePree could you review some of the abu diapers? I really really wanna try some of those as my first diapers!!

Good to see a new video again from you. Hugs

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

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I didnt realize you also suffered from bowel incontinence...i can relate! Another wonderful video! Thank you!

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

Awe yeah it wasn’t too long ago where I realized I titled all of my videos with “overactive bladder” when it wasn’t really saying much about my overactive bowel lol. Awe thanks! 🖤

@claybaby8852

Жыл бұрын

@@BumblePree Oh sweetie! I am soo sorry! Welcome to my every day!

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Full disclosure, I am an DL male, but i also have some back problems, that ended my up in the hospital, with amount my back problems, also cause me to have urinary/bowl retention becauseof the pain (still “kind of do” sometimes, long story, but on a smaller scale) and ended up with a with a catheter for 4 days, it was “great” (a real life saver at the time, yes really!) when you are “locked in bed”, but not when you are moving around/walking/standing, so would 100% preferred a diaper, even a small cath into a diaper (?) with the pulled on the long tub, in! your private parts, and a big bag of pee with you at all time, or on display on your hospital bed, a diaper is nothing! imo

Hi Pree, Great video as always! I've had Foleys put on me twice during hospitalizations done by really competent nurses and they still hurt like a MF... they're also super uncomfortable as a guy too, if you accidentally pull on it it hurts like hell. I rather deal with diapers than to go trough that again. As for measuring pee output without the catheter bag, its less precise but they had a neat little trick were they after changes weigh the diaper before disposing of it... 1gram is roughly equivalent to 1 milliliter of pee. Keep being awesome! 🖤💜🖤

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

Awe thanks! Gah accidentally pulling on it is so uncomfortable especially when the bag starts filling up! Ouu truthfully, I didn’t really care to measure the pee but was so happy to see something coming out! 🙈 Awe and keep being you! 🖤💜💜

@federicovailati4545

Жыл бұрын

@@BumblePree Glad you're feeling better! cant wait for the new series you mentioned 😲 Have a great day!

Hi BP , thanks for the update !! Do you drink a lot of water ? It makes a ton of difference because the more water you drink the less caustic your urine tends to be . Also cranberry juice might help . Be well , and take care , Dreamer 

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

I have been since the ultrasound 😅 Listening to the faucet drip also helps me pee for when I forget and I do have a laxative too for when it gets difficult sometimes! But for when I go out, the overactive bladder and bowel is back! Cranberry juice is something I’ve heard a few ppl tlk about so I’ll give tht a try! Awe thanks and I hope you’re having a good week! 🖤🖤

@Dreamer5211

Жыл бұрын

@@BumblePree Thanks , my dentist saw a shadow on an x-ray near the root of a back molar , I hope I don't need a root canal . So far just keeping mindful of it . Other than that , just the usual craziness !! LOL 

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

@@Dreamer5211 awe had a root canal when I was 10 LOL Being at the dentist is no fun!

@Dreamer5211

Жыл бұрын

@@BumblePree LOL , I could have thought of better places to be !! Hopefully it might have been a temporary thing , no symptoms so the word is to just be aware that something might be going on . Fingers are crossed !! LOL , Take care , Dreamer 

I do have neurogenic detrusor overactivity, (NDO), it is technically an "OAB", and sometimes a reflective bladder as well. My NDO is very painful, perhaps i do have Interstitial Cystitis as well, that is not diagnosed yet, because i am male and the urologists say: "Men do not get that." I do get Botox now, to calm down the bladder, but this causes retention and i have to do ISC. Diapers and catheters have definitely different pro and cons, during the summer i do prefer catheters, but they are not the Foley-type usually, mostly i do only intermittent catheterization (ISC). I do use the Foley when stuff is really bad and my pelvic floor feels like concrete, i can handle all by myself and would not let anybody do that for me in the future as long as i am capable of it. My tip: Learn how to to do ISC, just in case, it is much better than a Foley.

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

Awe oh no! The diapers are kind of annoying having to wear in summer but in winter it’s not so bad! Ou thanks for the advice, I’ll keep that in mind the next time I may need a Cathether!

Hello Pree, I hope you are doing well. I wanted to ask whether tena pants maxi or tena pants plus which one is better for comfort and I have to start wearing diapers because I always wet my bed and wet my pants on the way and I sweat also very strong and that's why I wanted to start wearing diapers but I'm uncomfortable and I'm also afraid of diapers can you please give me a few tips and encourage me

foley catheter's are the worst! thought I was gonna die a couple of times when I would accidently tug the drain tube. Hope you never need one again

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

Gah that was definitely uncomfortable!

This has happened to me back in 2012 while I was on the road (in a semi) and it was so BAD that I had to go to the Emergency Room, because of the PAIN. This was also, before I was diagnosed w/PPMS and after they inserted the Foley Catheter... WOW!... What a relief to finally being able to GO to the Bathroom! 😁 Then I wore this Cath for about Two wks. when I got Home my GP remove it. And shortly after that my OAB started to rear it's head and my Flood Gate would just open at the most unwanted Time, after having some embarrassing accidents in Public I started wearing protection during the day and as for Night I already was having accidents and had been wearing almost every night for about two yrs. Great video Pree!! "And Don't STOP Putting them BLOOPERS at the END"! 😅😂🤣😁 "TAKE CARE"!🖤

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

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Hello Pree Hope you are doing well.

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

I am thank you and I hope you are too! 🖤

For adult diaper reviews you should try tena flex or belted shields. Also seni makes good shaped pads with mesh pants..

Bless your adorable heart. You are precious, so don't worry, just take care of yourself, and put a diaper on your butt, and go about your day. Adult diaper butt squad 4 life!

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

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Sorry, haven’t watch the rest of the video yet, but I had to comment on this for the person who said having a catheter isn’t that bad I can tell you from stories my dad who had to have one put in him when he had his kidney failure he said, and I thought it was the worst pain I’ve ever had in my life“ and I’ve had a bad experience with a catheter when I was six years old and I couldn’t P for some reason and they were going to stick with me. Luckily, it didn’t happen but still.

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

Aweee it’s must’ve been hard being a little man and having gone through that!

👉🏻👈🏾

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

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Don't let people's stigmas of having to wear diapers for medical purposes affect you, Pree, ok? 🫂

@BumblePree

Жыл бұрын

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