Loni is right it doesn't matter where you are at . My heart breaks for Tamera .

@rogers5622

5 жыл бұрын

Reis World it is sad that her neice's death has opened Tamera up to the reality of this world.

@kayA-gv1rb

5 жыл бұрын

I cry each time I hear her talk about her neice

@tinahuttner7280

4 жыл бұрын

Sure most states have their parts you want to stay away from.

@brucematewere2963

Жыл бұрын

I actually was waiting on someone to say it and was super glad that she did

@talibahheaden1526

11 ай бұрын

Thank God that was a false alarm 🙏🏾

I hate seeing Tamera cry. I can see she tries to get it together... 😢😔

@JS-wl3ds

5 жыл бұрын

Mike Carter bruh her family has been directly effected by a mass shooting.

@zainabdiouf6523

5 жыл бұрын

Mike Carter u r crazy he niece died

@MORBmb

5 жыл бұрын

@Mike Carter trash.

@lastdays3148

5 жыл бұрын

@Mike Carter,WOW YOU INSENSITIVE CLOWN FOOL. Tamara Niece,she was gunned down and KILLED in a mass shooting. You Evil Son of a Satan.👿

@yayalee8114

5 жыл бұрын

@Mike Carter that's her husbands niece. Her niece. Her family. But you clearly got a problem with someone you don't even know. Says a lot about your waste of existence

Loni is such a good friend and cohost.

@brownsierra2607

5 жыл бұрын

Neeshpeesh123 idk y but I thought this said colorist for a second I was like whheeettt😂😂😩👌🏽

@peggyperson7018

5 жыл бұрын

Neeshpeesh123 yes she is she is straight forward

Loni is an amazing friend to jump in and piggyback for her

@gettinmine3760

5 жыл бұрын

@@nobodynobody3182 ok so damn true

@angeljohnson6665

5 жыл бұрын

Ms A stfu liar loni is the devil and that heffa a snitch she got tamar fired stfu

@abigailwilliams8889

4 жыл бұрын

@@nobodynobody3182 Do you know what a freaking joke is? Do you think an intelligent woman like Tamara would allow a "backstabber" in her home and around her kids? Get a brain.

@lianet777

4 жыл бұрын

nobody nobody girl loni jokes dry.... she doesn’t hate Tamara and she isn’t fake. She jokes too much, but she doesn’t mean it in a messed up way

@peachxtaehyung

4 жыл бұрын

@@nobodynobody3182 has she?! Omfg i already didn't like her but esp not now smh

Maybe it’s the way I was brought up, but I have always been vigilant everywhere I go. It’s normal for me at this point.

@kudakchi3959

5 жыл бұрын

StingingwithqueenC You know. I’m paranoid everywhere I go my mind is so alert. It’s sad we have to do that but it’s a must in this day and age.

@lauraswan8647

5 жыл бұрын

Same here

@sw6951

5 жыл бұрын

Me too I suspect everyone

@kaitenunes

5 жыл бұрын

Same here ... living in Trinidad I have been extremely aware for where I am ... any time I am walking I always look back I don’t know why but I do

@raveen01

5 жыл бұрын

Me too im from London, UK. I've been doing this since the late 90's. The first time I ever took my lil bro clubbing like 18 years ago I taught him the exact same thing plus we always had a secret look between us should we feel that something was about to kick off and a meeting point away from the venue should we get split up. He still does this with his boys to this day. Got to always be prepared and be aware of people and your surroundings

I think Tamera needs to take a longer break than the week she took. Or at least talk to a professional about her feelings.

@AdelaideAnn

5 жыл бұрын

I agree. I can see its affecting her incredibly, she needs time to heal.

@ScottD_

5 жыл бұрын

Jasmine H how do you know she’s not talking to a professional?

@AdelaideAnn

5 жыл бұрын

@@ScottD_ I dont think shes implying that shes not talking to a professional. I think shes just offering up her advice because Tam is clearly hurting. No need to turn it into anything else

@ScottD_

5 жыл бұрын

Adelaide Agbozo I’m not turning it into anything , it just seems that she assumed that Tamera isn’t speaking to someone when before she has stated that she has seen therapists before

@ccMomOfJays

5 жыл бұрын

Regardless of how long the break, the tears will still flow every now and again and it's ok. I hope the tears i shed become less frequent, but if they spill from my eyes till my dying days..it's OK because that's just another from of love.

I hate when people say “safe city” there’s no such thing as a safe city. Evil happens everywhere

@RosesCaliente

4 жыл бұрын

Babs that’s exactly what Loni said, cuz of JM mentioning Watts

@northwoodlandhills

4 жыл бұрын

Barbara she said that because Thousand Oaks is ranked one of the safest cities in the country.

@jurnee-y

4 жыл бұрын

I said what I said because their is no such thing as a safe city EVEN if it’s “ranked”, it’s Dosent make it exempt from evil. that’s why it’s good to always be aware and cautious of your surroundings because anything can happen at any moment

@lindae7839

4 жыл бұрын

Barbara I would be more comfortable in Compton than like Los Angeles.honestly

@CatharsisByProxy

3 жыл бұрын

I'm from El Paso, so. Yeah I know that much is true.

Tamara do not ever say sorry for crying. Your emotions and fears are raw. .. I know it was probably your turn to talk but it hurt my heart to hear you say sorry so many times. Hug! ❤️

@jayleeh9459

5 жыл бұрын

Valerie tam tam is the sweetest thing..my heart breaks for her

@valerie4912

5 жыл бұрын

jaylee h I agree.

@sxm76

4 жыл бұрын

She's a sweetheart. So loveable.

@2jcward

2 жыл бұрын

Oh shut up

Omg Tamera in the thumbnail made me cry 😢

@HazSut

5 жыл бұрын

The actual video made me 😢

I like how Loni slick checked Jeannie on the Compton part , because it doesn’t matter where you are.

When Tamera broken down crying; that was so sad!!

@sxm76

4 жыл бұрын

It was.

Tamera has been through a lot. :( (edit) Her niece was taken by gun violence She lost her Grandmother who she loved so much She knows Jussie Smollet and is super concerned for him and his situation

@creamfilled08

5 жыл бұрын

Her niece was murdered in a mass shooting in November, her grandmother passed away in December, her friend Jussie was either the victim of a hate crime or he attempted to pull off a hoax of a hate crime in January. If it wasn't a hoax that means its awful, if it was a hoax its just as awful (worse IMO) so she must be feeling disillusioned about everything. Worrying for her children's safety. It may not be a lot to some but pain shouldn't be compared since pain is pain. How awful would it be if people showed some compassion for her and also each other?

@shannifarooq5727

5 жыл бұрын

@Mike Carter what a stupid person you are to open your gob without knowing nothing typical moron much mike carter more like in sensitive knows f all dumb carter;)

@ms.williams6009

5 жыл бұрын

Project Create so has Adam, that was his niece by blood

@bmilprncss22

5 жыл бұрын

Mike Carter her niece was murdered and than her grandmother died

@Indianeyezs24

5 жыл бұрын

@@creamfilled08 very well said

Thank you Loni for saying it doesn’t matter if it’s in Compton or in Jeannie’s case Watts or in the safest city in the world, you can still get shot. Cause Jeannie made it seem like since she was in Watts, it made it more likely to get shot.

@chanyisme

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly!! She lost me when she started talking. We caught what she was saying.

@monicacinco577

5 жыл бұрын

Because it is

@williampayton982

5 жыл бұрын

A person can get shot anywhere but in some places shootings are more likely to occur. Here in Australia shootings are much much rarer than in the US, so obviously people in America are more likely to be shot, and then you can break it down further, the risk would be higher in Chicago than Wyoming. Nothing Jeannie said was wrong

@anonymousperson1327

5 жыл бұрын

Nicole McP-- It's certainly way more likely to happen in the hood than a safe area. Let's not play these politically correct games! Statistics don't lie.

@jerusalem4492

5 жыл бұрын

It is more LIKELY (statistically speaking) that she could get shot there. But I see what you’re saying. Because regardless of the “times” we’re in, it would still be dangerous to be out that late in Watts, so it was kind of irrelevant to the discussion.

She had me in tears. It’s still too fresh of a loss for her and that’s perfectly understandable. The pain of losing a loved one never really goes away. God bless you Tamera, my heart is with you. ❤️

This is very triggering for Tamera. I hope she heals within due time

@ebecky4275

2 жыл бұрын

You don't heal from it. You learn to live with it.

Tamera's obvious pain immediately brought tears to my eyes. I love you girl. May God give you and your family the strength to get through this.

When my daughter was 4, several years ago, we were in a public bathroom and she actually looked at me and said "if a bad man comes with a gun, we have to stand on the toilets like this so they don't see our feet and know we're in here." it absolutely crushed my heart that it was something that she was already being taught in school but i understood it was absolutely necessary because of today's social climate. There were two or three days out of the year where the active shooter drill scared her so much, that she cried at school and as a parent that hurt me and brought me to tears when discussing with the teacher. I hate that I want to protect her at all costs... but its clear I can't. All it takes is being out in public on the wrong day at the wrong time for something like this to happen. There definitely needs to be stricter gun control. Just look at Friday's Illinois workplace shooting. That shooter had a felony domsetic conviction for beating his girlfriend and still managed to get his gun license, AND buy a gun LEGALLY. Somehow he passed background checks with a felony conviction. My prayers are with those victims and their families. Edit: nowhere in my above comment do I say that I believe guns should be illegal. I am pro second amendment, however after getting my gun license I saw how easy it was to have access to such a powerful weapon and we should value our citizens to know that a change should happen to make it SAFER.

@Baxfam1

5 жыл бұрын

If he was a felon, he obtained the gun illegally. If guns become illegal do you think the bad guys will stop getting guns? No. Ever heard of the black market? Making guns illegal will only keep the good guys from being able to have guns for protection. The bad guys won't stop.

@ASHSID

5 жыл бұрын

we were taught stuff like that a couple of times a year every year

@xoMari24

5 жыл бұрын

Aletheia Backs actually he obtained it legally because his background checks came back clean although he was convicted for the felony. When he applied for his carry license they took his fingerprints, realized he was a felon and asked him to surrender the weapon which he never did. He then went on to kill 5 innocent people because he was fired from his job. All of this should’ve been prevented because the gun should’ve never landed in his hands.

@xoMari24

5 жыл бұрын

D while that is true, the shooter was mentally ill and this was known and documented. That is why my comment states gun control should also take into consideration mental health, a huge issue. When I applied for a gun license, they ran a background check and that’s it. I could be insane with no record and a gun would be easy to access. That’s dangerous.

@Depplova81

5 жыл бұрын

That bout made me cry reading that. I have a 4 year old niece in America and I don't think she understands that sort of thing yet (and they do at that age too), and I hope she never does, but who am I kidding? There's too much going on.😔 Kids these days have even less time to be innocent and carefree, as they should be.

Jeanie should be ashamed. I'm glad Loni cleaned that up. People aren't only getting shot in Compton and Watts.

@kisha4040

5 жыл бұрын

She needs to keep her ass out the hood

@dayday8984

5 жыл бұрын

exactly what I thought !

@breannanouveaux5132

5 жыл бұрын

And yet you feel safer in white neighborhoods dont you?

@lexboi87

5 жыл бұрын

@@kisha4040 depending on what part of San Jose she is from, she may have grew up in the hood or near it, she isn't new to being in those types of area. Growing up in the Bay you are exposed to it.

@BriteEyes1

5 жыл бұрын

Since when is Watts considered worse than Compton? Why even put that comparison out there?

Thank you Loni for clarifying that it can happen anywhere even places that aren't the "hood" ❤

Lonis such a matriarch on this show....love how she jumps in and backs up Tamera

yes, even movie theaters I check where the exits are. when I buy something off fb marketplace, I meet at public places and screen shot our meeting place and take a pic of what I'm wearing and send it to my family. it's unfortunate but it is the new normal.

@TiffanyRayneOfficial

5 жыл бұрын

This shouldn't be our new normal, please God no, because it shouldn't be. It's not healthy or safe, especially mentally and emotionally. And most if all physically. It's like people can't just simply live and do simple everyday things now. This can't be the new normal.

@missmaker1373

5 жыл бұрын

caling98 I’m going to do this too!

@igothoes4sales814

5 жыл бұрын

Lol

@amandacarbajal8590

5 жыл бұрын

For me I was taught when i was little (im 31 now) to look for all exits everywhere hotels, restaurants everywhere not just because of guns or people that could hurt you but because of fires or natural disasters. My dad wanted me to be prepared he said cuz if you are at a restaurant and a fire breaks out you need to know all possible exists cuz the one you know could be blocked so you need to know in case. So for me its always been a thing to be aware of where you are and how to be safe not just because of people but because other uncontrollable things. So this to me isn't "the new normal" because anything can happen not just a person with a gun and it's not being paranoid it's just being aware so that of something does happen either a fire, earthquake guy with a gun ect you know how to get out quickly. This to me should just be something you do for safety in general

We are living in the end times, he will return soon. Stay prayed up

@irene4217

5 жыл бұрын

Amen. Very well put.

@csggb3412

5 жыл бұрын

🙄

@joyjewel748

5 жыл бұрын

Amen! This is the bottom line of the whole conversation.

@jgreening6164

5 жыл бұрын

Csg Gb yes?

@emmabenson9572

5 жыл бұрын

Haha

Jeannie girl crime doesn’t have a designated area it’s EVERYWHERE!! Thank you Loni 💙

It's time to wake up to all of this enough is enough

I didn’t like that Jeanie used a “hood” as her excuse. I mean I get it but that’s not the topic at hand. We’ve always done that because that’s what we were taught. The difference is now that danger can be everywhere and that wasn’t always the case. Also why would they make them talk about something that hits so close to Tamera’s home? That’s to insensitive of the producers.

@tiffanyheartsu7271

5 жыл бұрын

Same with them using her face on the thumbnail. I get it, it brings more views but seriously? Have a bit more respect

@AnahataHeart

5 жыл бұрын

Because it's their job to discuss and report. Do you remember when J had to read the prompter about divorce or breakup and she was like...I think it's low-key shady that the producers had me read this. Lol

@MajesticMyronn

5 жыл бұрын

Jasmine H I feel like it's the stigma also the news sometimes puts out there... " don't go to ... because it's dangerous " I think that's where she was coming from but I do appreciate Loni diverting it to the point of it doesn't matter if you're in the hood or not , it's danger everywhere now

@ashliethomas3032

5 жыл бұрын

Loni handeled that sis..

@ashliethomas3032

5 жыл бұрын

She let her know that it dont matter where you at. Tamara niece was killed in what they consider the safest place in America. thats WTF ....

Hugs Tamara! I know you’ve been through so much in a short time sending you hugs and prayers filled with positive energy! Don’t loose faith!

People in the hood come across gun violence everyday for years. We are pretty much desensitized to this. This is just new for the “nicer” neighborhoods. Now because it’s affecting them people want to push for changes.

Honestly when tamera started talking I could see in her eyes and by the pauses she kept taking to try to talk that she couldn’t think and that she wasn’t feeling right..it’s so sad to see her like this especially sense she’s a sweet, happy person. Then the fact that she keeps apologizing for crying is heartbreaking, like noo don’t apologize, it’s ok to not be ok and she needs to take all the time she needs. Much love to her and her family🥺

Well jeanine was waiting on that clap

@a.b.5473

5 жыл бұрын

she was lol

@PiscesRus

5 жыл бұрын

Lmaooo I caught that

@asantewaakissi2650

5 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣 she always is

@sadegrigsby9534

4 жыл бұрын

VSG Ik lol

@RosesCaliente

4 жыл бұрын

Asantewaa Kissi she’s always is lol glad for loni to clean that up

Ugh tam, I love you so much. Any time you cry, I cry. I genuinely feel your grief

you don't need to apologize Tamera love it is so innerstandable and beautiful that you are emotionally moved! this is what we need more of! Compassion, care and love ❤️

I dont really sympathy cry, I feel sympathy when somebody cries but I usually dont cry when they cry. but when I saw tamera's face tears came out. I can't even imagine.

When you grew up in the hood and the fear of getting shot has been your “norm” your entire life 🤷🏾‍♀️ sad but true

@riz-rq9wr

5 жыл бұрын

Da'Niyah Goodwin I know it's mine smh

@heavenlyaguilar6607

5 жыл бұрын

Facts

@daniyahgoodwin8342

5 жыл бұрын

Gun violence HAS always been a concern but now that it’s happening in the nice neighborhoods, something must be done 🤦🏾‍♀️ tragedy is still a tragedy but children in inner cities been experiencing traumatic experiences; where’s their outcry for change 😩

I think because Tamera knows that her niece is dead, I think it triggered a form of emotional PTSD inside of her

So sorry for tamera and her family.

Tamera I’m praying for you and your family for strength! That was really hard for you....It will get better!

When tam started crying it broke my heart:(

Honestly , this is a really scary time for our country ! And to see the amount of crazy things happening regarding shootings in general , you feel small , you feel defeated , you feel like you can't make change because you're overwhelmed because there's so much more to fight for than just " shooting " we have to talk to each other , help each other out and resolve issues like this ASAP so we won't have to go through troubling times like this anymore! We shouldn't have to walk in fear everywhere we go , expecting something bad to happen

@L9ines

5 жыл бұрын

Myronn Coleman this is coming from a person who lives in the UK but this could be hugely resolved by getting rid of that gun ammendamnt you Americans have but then you lot are so stubborn into having the right to have guns but then complain about innocent people getting shot up all over the place the world looks at this and just thinks America could get rid of this problem by getting rid of the stupid gun law you lot have

@tayeshahudson4794

5 жыл бұрын

Scrimpy Gore Actually bad guys would still have access to guns. Obtaining illegal guns is just as easy for some as it is getting illegal drugs in America. So although I know from the outside it looks easy to just say "you know what no more guns! We have taken away everybody's right to bear arms." You know what will happen? Someone that really wants one and is planning on criminally using it will get one. Just like when they made it illegal to sell or drink liquor or to have an abortion. People found ways around it. The same goes for guns. They will find a way. So then now you will just have crazy deranged people in the possession of a gun and others without. Don't get me wrong I HATE the fact that people can get a gun LEGALLY and cause havoc on so many people's lives. What I do believe should happen is the laws need to be more strict. The background checks need to be more thorough. You should not have mental issues and be allowed to get a gun LEGALLY. Again it won't stop them from obtaining one necessarily BUT it would slow down the process of getting one. AND that person would be on a HIGH ALERT status as a threat. In the situation where the man shot up his former workplace that should have NEVER HAPPENED! WHEN he didn't turn over his gun, the police should have been at his residence within a couple of hours with a swat team. That could have saved lives.

omg this broke my heart :'( no one should have to go through this, especially a kind soul like tamera :( i'm so sorry for your loss and my love, thoughts and hugs go out to you, The world needs to stop with violence there is no excuse for it! :'(

This brought me to tears 😭♥️ luv u T!!!

Fear is so crippling. It’s easy to say, “Don’t be scared! Live your best life! Don’t let people make you afraid to leave your house!” But it’s hard.

@brooklynebony

5 жыл бұрын

it's hard but it's not impossible. if you're scared today that's okay (especially for those who have been in a traumatic situation) but the key is to work on not being scared for the rest of your life. it doesn't benefit you to do so in no shape way or form. it only hurts YOU.

Tamera made me cry😢 My heart and prayers go out to her and her family 🙏🏾💜

I love my nieces and nephew with all my heart and especially if you have a child you knew all their life. You can fall so in love with them ❤️ breaks my heart. Blessings to the family and I pray for comfort and restoration of peace and joy

Sorry for your loss Tamera. I can definitely understand where you’re coming from. Too many of my close friends passed away due to gun violence as well

My heart still breaks for Tamera and her family, as well as all the victims and their families of these mass shootings. I'm legit terrified of hanging out anywhere in public whether it's at night or daytime. I much safer in the confines of my own room and that's sad to say as a 23-year-old.

It’s like all of the USA suffers from PTSD.

It’s crazy how even before anyone started talking and just the question being asked and hearing “a new normal” really triggered me because it’s so sad but so true . Everywhere you walk you have to be aware because anything can change in a second . God bless those who read this & those who scroll past . Amen 🙏🏼❤️

Oh my gosh!!!! When will this end?? 😔

@LBay-ko9jf

5 жыл бұрын

Yulissa Salcedo well looks like when the Lord comes back

@tylerwolff5104

5 жыл бұрын

Never. Politicians make too much money from the NRA

@katiadelivrance7119

5 жыл бұрын

Yulissa Salcedo when God will come back 🙏

@ninawillow2429

5 жыл бұрын

This comment really made me pause because I immediately started thinking about other countries with high rates of violence. Unfortunately, it takes these moments for me to realize how easy it is to ignore the thongs that don't happen to you.

@ChristsPapillion

5 жыл бұрын

When Jesus returns. It's only going to get worse...

Bad Things can happen anywhere jenni Mai not just in wattts or in Compton.

@xoangelicaf0523

5 жыл бұрын

Ngalula Dodier duh but that’s where she was at and she grew up in LA and those places aren’t safe either bc Latino gangs

@GreenBanana675

5 жыл бұрын

@@xoangelicaf0523 it's not only because of "Latino gangs" dummy.

@Veronica-nq7ci

3 жыл бұрын

@@GreenBanana675 yeah well it mainly is

That delayed clap for jeannie lol

@linzycallahan3980

5 жыл бұрын

really? that’s what you get from this

@alyssasmith6724

5 жыл бұрын

I don't get why there was a delayed clap.

I keep watching this episode and cant stop crying when I look at tamera crying. Its heart breaking

I am crying watching this and its sad but it kind of is a new normal. I mean as a child you're always taught to be aware of your surroundings and people and the way they move. It's sad that you actually have to live that way everyday of your life. I just try my best to get through the day with prayer and not live in fear just live alert. I know that at any given point and time something out of my control can happen. sigh. Tamera girl I am praying for you and your family. Im praying for us all. XOXO.

The things you guys have to think about is crazy. As a Canadian, I have never had that feeling of fearing for my life much less having to scout out exits when I am out dancing with my friends in fear that a shooting might occur. Why cant Americans just get rid of their guns?

Tamera we are pray for you and know that you will be fine in God hands

When Tam started crying....I teared up. Praying that her heart may heal❤️

I couldn’t agree more with Loni. This reminded me of how Saddened I felt to see schools practicing Alice drills, which is pretty much a drill on what to do if theres an active shooter in the school. They have these drills a couple of times a month at my childs school & I felt so broken because I just questioned myself how devastating is it to explain to a 5 year old what to do in these types of cases.. like how do you go about explaining this to a small child who is completely innocent to evil. I remember back it my days when there was only such thing as an Earthquake drill.

Jeannie, you lost me. It seems to me you checked for the exits because you felt you were in a dangerous area? I don't think that is the same as people being afraid because they are in places they think are supposed to be safe.

@ida5067

5 жыл бұрын

the point still stands. fear of gun violence

@chanyisme

5 жыл бұрын

@@ida5067 But being afraid of being shot in a club you know may be dangerous, is not the same thing as being afraid you're going to be shot at church which is supposed to be a "safe place". It just isn't. Which is why Loni made the point she made at the end.

@MajesticMyronn

5 жыл бұрын

iloveu85 it's not the same but it's still the thought of it potentially happening which is the point

@ida5067

5 жыл бұрын

@@chanyisme fair enough.

@chanyisme

5 жыл бұрын

​@@MajesticMyronn But are we not taught that we should be aware of our surroundings in dangerous areas? For instance I grew up in New Orleans, which has some dangerous areas, but I always felt safe at school until Columbine, when one of my safe spaces no longer felt so safe. The thought of something potentially happening in a dangerous area is always there, the thought of something potentially happening in a place we feel is a safe place, is a new reality.

Tam, Tam😢😢 love you girl!!❤

I can’t even imagine what you experienced. My nephew and my kids are the world to me.

Tamara's broken vulnerability breaks my heart 😢. Much love and support to you and your family sweetheart 💜

I love tams and lonis friendship

Oh Boy Jeannie that Watts story was a fail. First of all what are you doing there lol?Second like Loni said the location is not important it happens everywhere.

@glittermafia5759

4 жыл бұрын

She was at a club with friends, and although these things can happen anywhere they are more likely to take place in areas like Watts. Common sense.

@JenJHayden

3 жыл бұрын

@@glittermafia5759 exactly. common sense.

i love how when ever i watch these clipa or show that evrytime i always find Tamera, Loni, and Adrienne being the ones crying

Sending love and healing prayers to Tam and the rest of her family, that is still a very fresh wound.

Trayvon Martin.

I’m sorry for the surface level comment (I commented on this topic on a separate video) Loni looks amazing with minimal makeup. You can tell how hard she’s worked to live a healthy lifestyle and I’m really happy for her.

Asoon as tamera spoke while the audience was still clapping after what Jennie said Lonnie could tell in her voice she was gonna be emotional and she looked up at her and gave her an encouraging smile to keep going. Awwwww

I think we're all crying with Tam.😢 like...real tears. We love you sis!!!

This is sad that we have to think of these things and can’t enjoy themselves anymore.

I don't like leaving the house unless I have too. I'm scared I'll end up shot

@daviddobrik3570

5 жыл бұрын

Damn, that must be hard.

@pabloevuu5232

5 жыл бұрын

Ashley Noneya you don’t have no idea how sad it made to read your comment ! And I’m a Libanese living in Germany ! I pray for you American brothers & sisters ! It’s just so sad ...

@dopegirl2820

5 жыл бұрын

That must be rough, glad I don't have to live in fear. The media doesn't scare me, never enough to keep me trapped inside my own house.

@dopegirl2820

5 жыл бұрын

@Danny Bowen You are more likely to die in a car crash, but yet we don't talk about how we are afraid to drive or how we should just ban cars.

@riz-rq9wr

5 жыл бұрын

the reason why I don't really go out much I also hate cars smh anxiety be on HIGH going to the movies to night wish me luck 😊✌🏾

I went to the mall the other day with my husband and 14 month old daughter. We sat down at one of the tables at the food court and I had a full blown panic attack and started crying. I told him I wanted to leave and as we were walking away he asked me what was wrong. I told him I was scared to be around so many people because if something happened in the mall that’s probably where it would happen. This is 100% our new normal. It’s so incredibly sad that this is what our country has come to.

My condolences to Tamers Housley and Family. ...🙏Tamera thanks for sharing your grief with the world. ..just know I cried with you. ..its relatable...Thanks for staying Strong! 💪

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!

lonnie should be the head girl in that show

Poor Tam & family... but thanks for still addressing this sensitive, very fresh topic.... we need to be aware & on guard and never get too comfortable.

It doesn’t matter where you are or what city your in! Thanks Loni for that.

Jeannie in Watts, California 🤔 I guess Jeezy didn't work out🙄😂😂😂

My goodness, it broke my heart when I saw tamera cry😢😖

I agree with you Jeannie. My father has taught me this before shootings became out of control. You should always know your surroundings and closest exits. It’s just being safe.

I don’t know why I cry every time i see tam and Tia cry 😭

It’s so sad how we have to be scared to even go out nowadays. Smh

I’m sorry but did Loni say “supposeBLY”?

@NellieKAdaba

5 жыл бұрын

I think she did.

@blesseddaughter4358

5 жыл бұрын

I caught that..LOL...should be supposedly

This has me tearing up it just breaks my heart 💔😥

I feel Tamara's pain. God bless & comfort her. Time does heal ALL WOMBS. It will get better with time.

Wow tamara is hurting so much God bless xx

Tamera, please to therapy or counselling. It really helps. I am so sorry for what has happened to you and your family.

It’s sad that it’s all I do when I go out & have anxiety of who’s around or being around too many ppl I’ll freak out no matter what, this world is scary & it just keeps getting scarier & dangerous, nowhere is safe not even your own homes 💔💔

I live in A city close to Orlando and I didn’t hear anything about what happened at the airport, however I just went to the movies last night, and once the lights were down I made sure to find the exits....I always get kind of an in easy feeling in the movies now.

Jeannie...what you doing in Watts?

@ashliethomas3032

5 жыл бұрын

With Jeezy!!

@kisha4040

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly! I hate when folks who have no business being in Watts or Compton go there just to be nosy and then act as nervous and scared when they're there.

@BriaBarrows

5 жыл бұрын

right??? LMFAOOO

@BriaBarrows

5 жыл бұрын

@@ashliethomas3032 stopppp looool

@sipappeal

5 жыл бұрын

Vultering 👁

Jeannie.. all of a sudden you hanging in the hood????

@Xoxo_701

5 жыл бұрын

Cece Giles exactly I hate when Jeannie Talks. Sometimes. It’s always awkward even the audience paused a while before the clapped

@glamour101girl8

5 жыл бұрын

She was raised in the hood

@GG-yh7mc

5 жыл бұрын

She was raised in the hood in San Jose

@thetruth5098

5 жыл бұрын

@@glamour101girl8 and u no she has a fetish for "urban " men

@MajesticMyronn

5 жыл бұрын

Cece Giles she was raised in The Bay Area...

I used to be that person who said: i want to live there or go there bc it's too much violence and terrible things going on, but then i was like no matter where you are bad things can happen. It's like the world is not safe anymore. The only place where there's no violence or bad things happening is in heaven. Man, i just wished i could wrap my arms around Tam this episode.

My heart breaks over this and for Tamara.. God bless you and your family honey

Umm Jeanie I'm a bit confused.. if you feared for your life at a "reggae" club in "watts" then what were you doing there to begin with?? You were clearly trying to paint a certain picture the way you described the environment so if it made you that uncomfortable then you probably had no business being there.. you made a concious decision with your friends to go to that club and have the nerve to go on national tv acting like a scared victim after the fact.. TF

@tiyahtirvana

5 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU!

@delicatedee23

5 жыл бұрын

CarPedium2014 I do this all the time. Due to high anxiety. I never feel safe anywhere I go. Even at work, concerts and movies. I NEVER feel safe and anxiety is always at its high where a lot of people are.

@Stilettoexec

5 жыл бұрын

Desperate to be with a black man but doesn’t really want blackness

@egocentric222

5 жыл бұрын

I feel like this at any club, conference or stadium anywhere not just at reggae clubs in the hood.

@breannanouveaux5132

5 жыл бұрын

And yet the black males yall defending would still choose her over yall. Black women need to get some damn sense. Yall in this ALONE. Your SONS and KANGZ want nothing to do with you. And yall know it. So continuing this loyalty only shows how stupid sisters are as a group. And self hating.

I feel like tam needs a longer break than just the week she took off or get some professional help

I was in Orlando when this happened. My daughter was at a dance convention in the hotel attached to the airport. They came in the rooms screaming active shooter run! It was mass chaos. Kids and parents running everywhere. I’m so proud of the kids who just ran but when I say it was the scariest moment of me and my daughters life I am not lying. Having to call parents and tell them I had their kids and we were safe ugh!! We see forever changed by this!

The timing of this segment is so real for me. I was in Kroger's last night and a group started fighting. Basically, someone pulled out a gun, I just started running for the back exit. It's scary y'all. Always scan for an exit. Always think of your escape.

This watts story is suspect

@glittermafia5759

4 жыл бұрын

How? She went to a club and checked for exits... hardly a crazy exaggerated story.

Bad things can happen ANYWHERE AT ANYTIME WE ALL KNOW THIS .... If you know you’re going into a neighborhood that is known for being unsafe Jeanie isn’t wrong it’s amazing that she was so aware because many of us know a certain place is unsafe and we’re not that aware soo I personally don’t think she is wrong for what she said or her thought process.

This is so true i find myself now sitting where all the exits are. If there is a window im there also facing the door to see clearly. Its sad that this is now the new normal for us. My kids i have to talk to them well before they leave for school or anywhere. Be aware of your surroundings watch put your phone down ear buds out your ears pay attention.

Thanks loni.. More and more and more i understand you and your responsibility on this show💖💖💖🙏