Part 1: Tamera’s Emotional Return and Important Message

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Tamera opens up about how her family has been coping with the tragic loss of Alaina Housley, and she has an important message on healing the divided nation.

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  • @javarwalton-cooper6464
    @javarwalton-cooper64645 жыл бұрын

    That “I’m ok” BROKE ME😢😢😢

  • @tater4442

    @tater4442

    5 жыл бұрын

    Melanin Queen it’s okay not to be ok

  • @blumberg1982

    @blumberg1982

    4 жыл бұрын

    Javar Walton-Cooper yes. I’m a survivor as well. It sucks. I’m with you Tamara and Tia!

  • @seawinsjemz7183

    @seawinsjemz7183

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Melanin Queen you are so right because when she said I'm okay and broke down that clearly showed she really isn't okay.. and it's okay not to be okay...people somehow feel like they have to have this strong strength when a devastation has happened and you don't.. it's okay, you don't have to and it's even okay if you don't want to right?

  • @Chin.SW7

    @Chin.SW7

    4 жыл бұрын

    And then the tears!☹

  • @unaboramashala2485

    @unaboramashala2485

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me 2

  • @PureAloha78
    @PureAloha783 жыл бұрын

    “She was my niece from marriage but she was my friend and sister from the heart.” Beautifully said Tamera

  • @nirmalabhagwandin6635

    @nirmalabhagwandin6635

    3 жыл бұрын

    L

  • @roslyn286

    @roslyn286

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nirmalabhagwandin6635 your life's an L

  • @locheyy

    @locheyy

    3 жыл бұрын

    wait who passed from her family?

  • @PureAloha78

    @PureAloha78

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@locheyy her niece Alayna.

  • @valeriasimental7217

    @valeriasimental7217

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why was she crying?

  • @raymond5823
    @raymond58233 жыл бұрын

    I found this from TikTok when she cried I love tia and tamera with all my heart..

  • @billieeilishstan2003

    @billieeilishstan2003

    3 жыл бұрын

    Was it the one that said, Me after losing that person I'd never thought I'd lose? If you did, I saw it too and I had to see why she was crying because I love tia and tamera so much.

  • @monji7966

    @monji7966

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@billieeilishstan2003 that’s the one I saw

  • @xoinarii

    @xoinarii

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@billieeilishstan2003 yeah I saw that one

  • @becca5499

    @becca5499

    3 жыл бұрын

    Do you know why she was crying like what happened?

  • @kassandra2047

    @kassandra2047

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@becca5499 her nice passed

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty13 жыл бұрын

    I just realized she's wearing black because she's grieving.

  • @_mya4glockss575

    @_mya4glockss575

    3 жыл бұрын

    what does that mean? im sorry im very curious

  • @brandonsaraniti771

    @brandonsaraniti771

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@_mya4glockss575 It's tradition to wear black after a death of the loved one. It's to show to the outer world you are in deep grieving so others around you may be respectful. Hope that helps.

  • @kelslon

    @kelslon

    3 жыл бұрын

    Orrrr she’s just in black...

  • @gioveiryguzman8650

    @gioveiryguzman8650

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@_mya4glockss575 when a loved one dies people usually wear black or dark colors

  • @istoleyoursugar2015

    @istoleyoursugar2015

    3 жыл бұрын

    She never really wore black because she always felt it was a sad color

  • @lalalady06
    @lalalady065 жыл бұрын

    when someone ask me "how am i" the tears automatically start rolling

  • @itsriya5950

    @itsriya5950

    5 жыл бұрын

    lala E. Yes and sometimes when try to hide it or be strong you just can't.

  • @nawal10

    @nawal10

    5 жыл бұрын

    lala E. Same

  • @Janee93

    @Janee93

    5 жыл бұрын

    me toooo

  • @chanellebooysen9570

    @chanellebooysen9570

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ugh I hate that😭

  • @patiencesenegal1721

    @patiencesenegal1721

    5 жыл бұрын

    lala E. Yhasss and then they try to hug me after they ask😩

  • @rosaisela6952
    @rosaisela69525 жыл бұрын

    Omg the sadness in her voice kills me... I don't know if you'll ever see this but Tam, it's okay NOT to be okay. 💙 God is with you.

  • @mariannimoh9514

    @mariannimoh9514

    5 жыл бұрын

    Rosa Isela what happened to her. Where did she go

  • @christyhudson5502

    @christyhudson5502

    5 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️

  • @necopolk2955

    @necopolk2955

    5 жыл бұрын

    Marian Nimoh her niece, by marriage got shot in another mass shooting, so she took time off to grieve with her family.

  • @Coqui2005

    @Coqui2005

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @Sssssssslf

    @Sssssssslf

    5 жыл бұрын

    'God' 😂😂😂

  • @imalwaysright
    @imalwaysright5 жыл бұрын

    It’s only been 2 weeks, Tamera. It’s ok to not be ok

  • @trinistar1930

    @trinistar1930

    5 жыл бұрын

    yesssss cardi mami

  • @lianelayman7577

    @lianelayman7577

    4 жыл бұрын

    I would never be OK if it were my niece.

  • @ioneldanila9535

    @ioneldanila9535

    4 жыл бұрын

    what happened

  • @maci3x._

    @maci3x._

    3 жыл бұрын

    What happen

  • @--BACKTFUP

    @--BACKTFUP

    3 жыл бұрын

    Moon-young😳

  • @donjuan2704
    @donjuan27045 жыл бұрын

    “I’m ok.” *immediately starts crying* This goes to show how desensitized we’ve become as a society. She’s clearly not ok, nor ready to be back at work, yet we’re happy to see her back. She needs time.

  • @roseandlotus

    @roseandlotus

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed with this. We have created a society of masking emotions and no one is genuine

  • @SwissmissSarah

    @SwissmissSarah

    10 ай бұрын

    So so true😢

  • @christineshultz7615

    @christineshultz7615

    7 ай бұрын

    I lost my son almost 2 years ago suddenly. I went back to work a week later. Seems soon but i needed a schedule back. I needed to know i wake up at 6:15 am, i do yoga and work from a to b. I make dinner, etc. Yes i grieve still and recognized that not having simple goals was not helping me either. I still took the appropriate amount of time to plan necessary things. I cried everyday in my car for months. Two years later it isn't always tears but he he definitely at the fore front of my thoughts. The grief is forever unfortunately. I imagine Tamara maybe felt the same and needed to her schedule back and to have the focus of her day not entirely be grief.

  • @alextroy9202

    @alextroy9202

    6 ай бұрын

    “Honestly, Im not okay”…that is what she could have said

  • @KKelly-ng1ni

    @KKelly-ng1ni

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@christineshultz7615I am so sorry for your loss. My mother died four years ago and I think of her everyday. I still cry.

  • @siamahlee7173
    @siamahlee71735 жыл бұрын

    Tamera just seems like the sweetest person. You can literally feel her heart as she speaks! Such a sweet soul.

  • @Markpierce2674

    @Markpierce2674

    5 жыл бұрын

    I know I hope I get to meet her someday!! I love sweet and nice people like her!! Not to brag I’m just like her tbh!!

  • @AmbyJeans

    @AmbyJeans

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mike Carter That's such a horrific thing to say. Congratulations, you're an asshole.

  • @Niah-jx9zi

    @Niah-jx9zi

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Mike Carter wow you're pathetic.

  • @phylliserford8256

    @phylliserford8256

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @ivoryhaynes4501

    @ivoryhaynes4501

    4 жыл бұрын

    I love her

  • @momoh511
    @momoh5115 жыл бұрын

    0:36 That "I'm okay" with that fake smile represents so many of us sadly lying through our teeth hiding our pain and sorrows. I've never seen Tam so broken since S1. It truly breaks my heart to see her like that. I really wish for her strength and I'm sending love to her and her family 💕 🌻

  • @BriaBarrows

    @BriaBarrows

    5 жыл бұрын

    i was JUST about to post this. literally.

  • @kindakomplicated4537

    @kindakomplicated4537

    5 жыл бұрын

    What happened in S1

  • @ceecee8766

    @ceecee8766

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yup! I’m crying watching this

  • @fayepatrice1672

    @fayepatrice1672

    5 жыл бұрын

    She is usually such a ray of sunshine

  • @momoh511

    @momoh511

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@kindakomplicated4537 I meant to say throughout all five season I've never seen her so broken.

  • @tesssully4250
    @tesssully4250 Жыл бұрын

    "Tell me some more about Alaina" I loved that moment, she could see Tamara needed to keep talking about her and gave her that space. Not just to talk about what happened but the person who was lost. That was really beautiful

  • @baybae92
    @baybae924 жыл бұрын

    “Tell me some more about Alaina :)” I lost my dad two years ago, and people never know what to say when I reminisce about him and get emotional. What Loni said is exactly the right thing to say. Just thought that was a cool moment of empathy :)

  • @Kenzieann34

    @Kenzieann34

    4 жыл бұрын

    Will Smith I lost my dad about 4 yrs ago.. and I agree that’s the best thing a person can tell you. The memories are what hold us together sometimes

  • @lovelynaomi723

    @lovelynaomi723

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sorry God bless you

  • @200puppy

    @200puppy

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are truly correct. I wish people would ask me that instead of saying life goes on!!

  • @baybae92

    @baybae92

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Kenzieann34 absolutely ❤️. hope you’re doing okay. grief is such a rollercoaster, isn’t it?

  • @baybae92

    @baybae92

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lovelynaomi723 thank you Naomi, that’s very sweet ❤️

  • @natayleegivens1046
    @natayleegivens10465 жыл бұрын

    I knew the moment she said "I'm okay" I knew it wasn't true. You can see the pain and heartache in her eyes. I like everyone else have never seen her so broken and it's heartbreaking to see her like this. I will continue to pray for her and her family, because losing someone you love is no joke.

  • @worshipcatalyst1

    @worshipcatalyst1

    5 жыл бұрын

    she probably meant it in that moment but knowing that people weren't actually asking about her but about how what happened affects her - it's a reminder. your current state of being and what affects it are two different things. so she was ok for a moment and then everything came back and then she moved forward with that. and tears dont always mean someone isnt ok. just like laughing doesnt always mean someone is good/fine etc. emotions, mental health and the grieving process are so vast. best to never assume such things and let people be free to feel out how they feel inside for themselves. am i saying you're wrong in assuming she wasnt ok? no. i think that's a default response pending a person's tone, body language, facial expression, etc and knowing what has happened. but a healthy person does have moments of being "ok" in the midst of hard times which gives a relief to the stress of processing a situation. it's when you stay down and cant come up for air that you have a problem. i hope this doesnt offend anyone. i've just processed so much grief, trauma and loss and i hate when people assume how i feel instead of asking. i hope y'all have a pleasant holiday season and please stay safe out there.

  • @brittany8318

    @brittany8318

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@worshipcatalyst1 I know exactly what you mean ☺️

  • @brittanyreid4855

    @brittanyreid4855

    5 жыл бұрын

    Nataylee Givens losing someone is no joke

  • @msyellarose

    @msyellarose

    4 жыл бұрын

    So true. Sometimes “I’m okay” just means “I’m pushing through “.

  • @chancoo2896

    @chancoo2896

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@brittanyreid4855 who did she lose ?

  • @joannasaad298
    @joannasaad2985 жыл бұрын

    Oh Tamera ☹ She should have taken more time off, still so raw 💙

  • @BriaBarrows

    @BriaBarrows

    5 жыл бұрын

    like a month. WAYYY to early.

  • @mgmtgirlyeah7493

    @mgmtgirlyeah7493

    5 жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately, most jobs won't allow more time off.

  • @kiamyal8698

    @kiamyal8698

    5 жыл бұрын

    Mgmt Girlyeah yup and it depends on the family member you get more if it’s a parent

  • @elidilara6489

    @elidilara6489

    5 жыл бұрын

    Time can't heal a loss so great. She explained why she came back. The best thing for her was to move forward. Plus, she has a story to share in this emotional time, this is the best way/time to share it.

  • @nadiajuarez4763

    @nadiajuarez4763

    5 жыл бұрын

    True but for some people grieving is easier when they get back into a normal routine. Only time can heal that pain but it will never fully go away

  • @ylaincarterandthekids4265
    @ylaincarterandthekids4265 Жыл бұрын

    I saw her cry on tic Tok and I had to find out why she was hurt I am such a huge fan every since sister sister . So I look up this story and just let me say when I herd her say I'm ok , I can feel the pain she was trying to hold in and cover up and I began to cry with her losing someone that you are so close to may it be family or a friend especially at a young age and the way she past it's something that is so hard to recover. Her niece not only was she beautiful she looks as if she brought so much joy to her families life as if when she walk in the room she brought nothing but love n sunshine . I know that this happen a year or so ago but I pray for her family and any one who has lost someone in that way like she said this world needs more love more supporting each other life is to short . So my love I share with all. All lives matter no matter who you are I love you for just being you

  • @tamikalove7305

    @tamikalove7305

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @syb.ent.boutique

    @syb.ent.boutique

    Жыл бұрын

    Mettoooooo. I'm like who hurt my girl??? It's an old clip. But just saw it today on tiktok

  • @bradleylambie6115

    @bradleylambie6115

    Жыл бұрын

    I saw too! I’m like “wait what happened?”

  • @lyonzmane6332

    @lyonzmane6332

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @kahala701

    @kahala701

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here .. I had to find out what happened.

  • @shakitashontajones
    @shakitashontajones6 ай бұрын

    I remember going back to work after my mom died. And the moment they asked how I was doing I broke down. I cried everyday, I took bathroom breaks often. It was only God who got me through this. I cry less but I still cry and I still can't believe it. Time really is what it's going to take. Someday you think you are fine and the next thing you know you calling someone crying having a panic attack. My heart go out to Tamera and her whole family, I know how close they are to one another.

  • @gmcmim1
    @gmcmim15 жыл бұрын

    When Tamera said she was okay and that long pause after showed that she isn't okay and is still getting over it. Tamera take your time. We love you♥♥♥

  • @timhoward5

    @timhoward5

    4 жыл бұрын

    You have 400 likes

  • @kateplays778

    @kateplays778

    2 жыл бұрын

    What happened

  • @macteri

    @macteri

    Жыл бұрын

    Her niece died

  • @julie_li
    @julie_li5 жыл бұрын

    "My friend and sister from my heart" The tears started flowing the minute she said that 💔

  • @smolomega101
    @smolomega101 Жыл бұрын

    A friend of mine once said at our mutual friends funeral . Grief is all the love you have for that person . With no place to go. That’s why it builds and builds… and finally explodes into tears

  • @Ibrahim-bv6rv
    @Ibrahim-bv6rv5 жыл бұрын

    She IS a phenomenal actress, I believed the ” I’m okay ” until she broke down

  • @scout9120

    @scout9120

    3 жыл бұрын

    Actress? Dude she was actually and probably still is hurting...

  • @Vilevic666

    @Vilevic666

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@scout9120 u didn’t understand what their saying

  • @monkeyaddict1

    @monkeyaddict1

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@scout9120 bruh they meant when tamera was acting like she was okay, bc she’s not

  • @scout9120

    @scout9120

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@monkeyaddict1 ohhh

  • @scout9120

    @scout9120

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Vilevic666 I got it now and omg I love Vic Fuentes

  • @kristine7689
    @kristine76895 жыл бұрын

    I was not ready for 0:36 - 0:55....I'm crying for sweet Tam & her family! RIP Alaina Housley

  • @corneilmadison9436

    @corneilmadison9436

    4 жыл бұрын

    You ain't never lied tears starting falling

  • @timhoward5

    @timhoward5

    4 жыл бұрын

    444

  • @togundezainab9785
    @togundezainab97855 жыл бұрын

    My heart shattered when she said she was fine and started crying

  • @iseunifeoluwaakinkugbe330
    @iseunifeoluwaakinkugbe3305 жыл бұрын

    I don't think people realize what a loving and pure spirit Tamera has. God truly outdid himself creating her; never before have I seen someone so true to her faith and convictions consistently even as a celebrity. Breaks my heart to see someone so special go through so much pain and grief. This world is full of too much tragedy.

  • @MelaninBarbie33
    @MelaninBarbie334 жыл бұрын

    In 2020 I'm still here tearing😰💔

  • @InfinityKennedy

    @InfinityKennedy

    4 жыл бұрын

    ImaBeautieQueen ! Girl same!!

  • @mrstwilight411

    @mrstwilight411

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ok I’m not alone

  • @kimwalters2364

    @kimwalters2364

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m watching it and I’m crying

  • @MelaninBarbie33

    @MelaninBarbie33

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Fyebabe's green beans and potatoes Tamara is leaving the show😱omg

  • @saturnsmind5106

    @saturnsmind5106

    3 жыл бұрын

    2021 and it sadly became a tiktok sound

  • @youknowwhoitis2106
    @youknowwhoitis21065 жыл бұрын

    This really made me tear up, when she said she's ok and then I saw that tear in her eyes, it really touched me

  • @musicgal421
    @musicgal4215 жыл бұрын

    Love Tam and you can just feel how heartbroken she is. Those girls are just more then coworkers they are her family and you can feel that. I’m so glad Andrea was there for her❤️ that must have made Tam feel a little better

  • @Taehyungsfeet444

    @Taehyungsfeet444

    3 жыл бұрын

    I haven’t really got it yet like why is she crying ?

  • @kaylarivas386

    @kaylarivas386

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Taehyungsfeet444 Ik 😭😭😭i dont know

  • @abiiicakes

    @abiiicakes

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Taehyungsfeet444 her niece Alaina, who was 18 years old at that time, died from a mass shooting last 2018

  • @itsmenala9087

    @itsmenala9087

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Taehyungsfeet444 niece passed

  • @ExploringTheHorizon1
    @ExploringTheHorizon1 Жыл бұрын

    I watched it hundreds of times, and it’s still make me cry, I can tell the pain in your voice, it hurts.

  • @aubrineetv5326
    @aubrineetv53265 жыл бұрын

    Who else instantly started bawling ? 😭

  • @corneilmadison9436

    @corneilmadison9436

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @RandomCapricorn

    @RandomCapricorn

    4 жыл бұрын

    Koca BEAUTY TV I did it’s so heartbreaking. Poor tamera and the housley’s

  • @uursullla

    @uursullla

    3 жыл бұрын

    So me when I cry

  • @mariadelgado2745
    @mariadelgado2745 Жыл бұрын

    When you ask someone if they're okay when they're trying to be and really not okay I went thru this when my mom passed

  • @izzyc4490
    @izzyc44905 жыл бұрын

    when she said "i'm okay" and starts tearing up... i lost it!!! my heart :((

  • @allthingsalexis1440
    @allthingsalexis14405 жыл бұрын

    As she remembered the heart ache of grief, she began to tear up but she firmly reassured herself. Then, she closed her eyes and took a deep breathe before she began to speak. Ladies and gentlemen, that truly takes STRENGTH.

  • @brit5133
    @brit51335 жыл бұрын

    It’s been over a year since my mom died and I wanna break down every time someone asks me if I’m okay 😩 the pain never goes away no matter how early you come back to work.. you will always feel that raw and emotional feeling of loss.

  • @rach7572

    @rach7572

    5 жыл бұрын

    hope you're doing okay and sending love your way xx

  • @zarahshabs7936

    @zarahshabs7936

    5 жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry! Lots of love to you ❤️❤️

  • @2jcward

    @2jcward

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too!! It will get easier.

  • @christineaikhuele184

    @christineaikhuele184

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry for your loss

  • @Salama47055

    @Salama47055

    3 жыл бұрын

    Psalm 34:18. The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn5 жыл бұрын

    Andrea Regalado!!! I miss seeing her and Tam’s dynamic on camera !! That was sweet seeing her best friend in th the audience in support of her coming back on the show after such a hard time 🙏🏾

  • @jesuzee11
    @jesuzee115 жыл бұрын

    she was truly missed .R.I.P to her niece and all the victims but her being the youngest

  • @TJ-sj5ge

    @TJ-sj5ge

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wat happened to her

  • @xyailonharmon1251

    @xyailonharmon1251

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TJ-sj5ge she was shoot

  • @xyailonharmon1251

    @xyailonharmon1251

    3 жыл бұрын

    *shot

  • @DeiRockstar

    @DeiRockstar

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TJ-sj5ge She was shot at a party.

  • @Kiwisamoan_05

    @Kiwisamoan_05

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TJ-sj5ge She was one of the 12 victims in the Borderline shooting of Thousand Oaks in 2019.

  • @williamwalker5326
    @williamwalker53265 жыл бұрын

    "And God shall wipe every tear from their eyes; and there shall be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. For the former things are passed away."....Revelation 12:4

  • @icsx1797

    @icsx1797

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @spicylemon7042
    @spicylemon70424 жыл бұрын

    When she said “im okay” 0:36 and then she started to get upset. I really felt that. My thoughts go to Tamara. God bless her heart. Stay strong!!! 💖💖💖💖

  • @vanessandanga5897
    @vanessandanga58975 жыл бұрын

    Tamera is such a strong woman❤ she still tried to put on a smile even when she's broken inside Keep pushing Tam❤, God will bring you the comfort that you need 💖

  • @hynson1990
    @hynson199011 ай бұрын

    Every time I see this clip & as soon as she says “I’m ok” the tears roll…!

  • @lovelybabee7499
    @lovelybabee74993 жыл бұрын

    “I’m okay” 🥺 I felt her pain ...

  • @lovetolaugh1453
    @lovetolaugh1453 Жыл бұрын

    First time seeing this video. Tamera said what I’ve been saying for years. You NEVER get over losing somebody you love, but rather God gives us grace to “move forward”. ❤️

  • @willemdee
    @willemdee5 жыл бұрын

    Tamera is so strong for being so open about this situation.

  • @candaceranahan1971
    @candaceranahan1971 Жыл бұрын

    This gets me every time so many of us try and put on a brave face and her showing her vulnerability speaks volumes of her strength of character!

  • @taye9457
    @taye94575 жыл бұрын

    I was so excited for Tamera to be back but watching this I realized she needed more time. My heart and prayers go out to Tamara’s family and to all the other families who have lost someone.

  • @bemnetteshome1593
    @bemnetteshome15934 жыл бұрын

    Why do i cry whenever i see tamera cry

  • @jessicacoger3312

    @jessicacoger3312

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bemnet Teshome girl everytime!!!

  • @jasmineirizarry1180
    @jasmineirizarry1180 Жыл бұрын

    I just came into this video because i saw a clip of this on social media. and I just want to say my family has been in pain last 2-3. My uncle passed away and he actually was always active at the borderline bar/restaurant and I definitely feel your pain. I came in here to show love to those who may be grieving because I am there with you. Giving a big hug to whoever needs it because sometimes during grieve we feel so alone… ❤

  • @mystery38106
    @mystery38106 Жыл бұрын

    She’s probably been strong for her family and hasn’t had time to really grieve until she’s asked “how are you”.😢😢

  • @anapg2
    @anapg25 жыл бұрын

    Grew up watching her on TV. Seeing her cry makes me cry. It's like seeing a sibling cry.. hope God gives her and her family strength.

  • @sbalchan
    @sbalchan5 жыл бұрын

    I am crying. This is so raw right here. Tamera we love you and your family and we mourn with you all.

  • @OriginalChemist
    @OriginalChemist5 жыл бұрын

    Andrea there for Tam, such a great friend ☺️

  • @RoyalMasterpiece

    @RoyalMasterpiece

    5 жыл бұрын

    She is one of her ride or die friends.

  • @pe8658
    @pe86585 жыл бұрын

    This support between these ladies is so so strong, and I can feel the love in this.

  • @miluskapatrnogic6214
    @miluskapatrnogic62142 жыл бұрын

    This video just popped up… 3 years later and thing haven’t change in the country. So sad

  • @StevenDoh
    @StevenDoh5 ай бұрын

    I cant count how many times I've seen this.....and when she says "im ok" the "sorry" i break down 😢 Tamera is a beautiful soul

  • @bosslady7362
    @bosslady73625 жыл бұрын

    That moment when you're hurting inside and for a moment you think you're fine, then someone asks you how are you, and immediately the tears begins to flow. I felt that in my heart. It is never easy losing someone you love and care about. I cried literally as soon s she started talking.

  • @missemin8469
    @missemin84695 жыл бұрын

    For her to come on after such a tragic loss is so strong. Using her platform and voice to try and make a change. If I went through this I’d be ugly crying. I’m so so sorry..

  • @neyyy352
    @neyyy3525 жыл бұрын

    If you ever felt pain, that silence after saying “I’m okay.”, resonated with you the way it did with me. It’s okay Tamera, you’ll find the light out of this. 💞

  • @shortyd2404
    @shortyd2404 Жыл бұрын

    The thing about grief is you have to find the balance of grieving and moving forward. That is the hardest thing I’ve had to do thus far, it is not easy. After losing my mom unexpectedly in August of this year, I can totally relate.

  • @SwissmissSarah

    @SwissmissSarah

    10 ай бұрын

    This.😢

  • @TheYaoigirl101
    @TheYaoigirl1014 жыл бұрын

    I've watched this video many times since it was released and I am comfortable now talking about it. I am from the town where this shooting took place. At the time I was frantic thinking about if I knew anyone that was there. Thankfully I didn't but my heart goes out to those directly affected by it. I was home that weekend and the fire broke out. I was so torn up about what was happening to our town I was lost for a while. Tamera's words explain it all. I don't think I will even get over the fear and suffering myself and people around me felt but I will move forward. Sister Sister was one of my favorite shows growing up, I never had a sister but watching that show made me feel as if I did have one through them. Thank you Tamera for everything back then and now. Love shall over come grief, always.

  • @valerieb7295
    @valerieb72955 жыл бұрын

    Ugh this makes me cry and hurt for her. I have the same type of relationship with my niece from my husbands family. I’ve known her since she was 7, she just turned 21 and she really is one of my best friends. I love her so much so I know Tamera is broken by this as I would be too. I saw comments on another video saying “she wasn’t even her real niece.” It doesn’t matter that they didn’t share the same blood, they were family. My heart goes out to you Tamera, I can’t imagine what you must be going through.

  • @Frances86
    @Frances865 жыл бұрын

    The second she said “I’m ok” I lost it! 😢 im so so sorry for your lost Tam! My condolences to you and your family ❤️

  • @kikimartinez1918
    @kikimartinez1918Ай бұрын

    When someone says are you ok ? I think it's hard to not cry!

  • @justineplemons7585
    @justineplemons75855 жыл бұрын

    My heart breaks for her. You can hear the heaviness in her voice and heart.

  • @ravenanderson1695
    @ravenanderson16955 жыл бұрын

    Man grief is a journey. My mom passed a few months ago, and the pain is real. I truly hope her family has the support that they need especially her parents ❤️

  • @decembernovember3972
    @decembernovember39725 жыл бұрын

    When you are holding so much pain, the words “How are you?” are the breaking point.

  • @senoraantero2836
    @senoraantero28365 жыл бұрын

    Ugh it kills me to imagine the pain all those effected by these kind of violent acts.. God bless to all ♥️

  • @brandongutierrez944
    @brandongutierrez9445 жыл бұрын

    I’ve seen this video more then 10 times a day. It might sound weird but this interview or “girl chat” is just so raw and pure. You can hear the hurt in Tameras voice and see the pain on her face. Although she is hurting, you can see such strength and love in her.

  • @jessicaburns9894

    @jessicaburns9894

    Жыл бұрын

    I do agree

  • @alexism8194
    @alexism81945 жыл бұрын

    You're allowed to still not be OK Tam even when you're moving forward❤️ God is with you

  • @MamaJ0nes
    @MamaJ0nes5 жыл бұрын

    Powerful. Touching. Impactful. Her words and the way she handles herself is so heartwarming. The hurt and grief is real she may have the strength the go back to work but she also has the strength to express and show how she feels. empowering.

  • @cayanamichel8137
    @cayanamichel81374 жыл бұрын

    I love how the girls at the table have such a bond when tamera said I’m okay they all were silence because they no she is not okay are not ok so much love for them 💜

  • @chrissay1820
    @chrissay18205 жыл бұрын

    We love you Tam Tam! Take as long as you'd like to grieve❤️

  • @ZairayCash
    @ZairayCash2 жыл бұрын

    I just lost My Dad in June and I felt this. When you are genuinely trying so hard to be okay but you're not and someone asks you. That heavy deep breath and then the tears come. It hurts every time.

  • @claudiafuentes8811
    @claudiafuentes8811 Жыл бұрын

    We my family and I lost my brother and I feel her it hurts sooo bad 👎 first months unbearable pain , I think you never get back to normal because you are missing that one close person but theres no other way than forward you just have to live with it the rest of your days until we are back together with that person someday ❤️

  • @anitramiller9626

    @anitramiller9626

    Жыл бұрын

    Praying for and your family.💕💕

  • @soccerlife8912
    @soccerlife89124 жыл бұрын

    I didn’t even hear anything about this. I Googled why she was crying on the show after someone clipped it and put it on Twitter. I’m so sorry for her and her family. How awful. 😔

  • @alexroman3682

    @alexroman3682

    3 жыл бұрын

    What happen ??

  • @Sopheeshaa

    @Sopheeshaa

    3 жыл бұрын

    There was a shooting at a bar in Thousand Oaks and her niece was one of the victims :(

  • @lewismoriah
    @lewismoriah5 жыл бұрын

    This broke me down, because I lost my aunt the Friday after valentines in a house fire. And I haven’t been able to grieve but this helped me start that process!

  • @kittyfairy662
    @kittyfairy6625 жыл бұрын

    this made me cry, such a tragedy and hardship for the family. especially since she was so young. grief in a family is something you never get over. RIP and i wish everyone affected the best

  • @msstee1424
    @msstee14245 жыл бұрын

    Lots of love to you and your family Tamera! You all are in my prayers!

  • @shaedavis53
    @shaedavis535 жыл бұрын

    Its one thing to be grieving over the loss of a loved one but to then go online and see hateful comments from people because of statements made by her husband has got to be killing her!! EVERY VICTIM AND THEIR FAMILIES OF THIS TRAGEDY HAS MY HEART AND PRAYERS!!! May the blessings of the Lord keep them at peace!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @SippinTeaaa

    @SippinTeaaa

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Mike Carter stfu hating ass bitch

  • @vocalcoachktsings

    @vocalcoachktsings

    5 жыл бұрын

    Some are hateful some are speaking from anger regarding Trayvon. She deserves her moment to grieve her kins loss, but you shoildnt have to lose a loved one in this manner to access the pain it would feel. Trayvons mother lost her child, to hear Adams comments muat have hurt too. We must be careful what we say, none of us our exempt from the potential of this pain.

  • @SippinTeaaa

    @SippinTeaaa

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Mike Carter like I said stfu hateful bitch

  • @FUNKYGIRL9

    @FUNKYGIRL9

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Mike Carter I had time off work to go support my husband at his uncles funeral, I know numerous people that have time off to support their in laws as when you get married you become a family

  • @FUNKYGIRL9

    @FUNKYGIRL9

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Mike Carter you said what person gets time off work for in laws dying its actually pretty common

  • @melindahmkhwanazi
    @melindahmkhwanazi5 жыл бұрын

    I've watched this three times and every time Loni asks Tam if she's okay I still lose it! She's so hurt! My gosh!

  • @samanthahulett4098
    @samanthahulett4098 Жыл бұрын

    Beautifully said I'm so sorry for your loss I know she's in heaven smiling

  • @lindsaymccarty1443
    @lindsaymccarty1443 Жыл бұрын

    Sending my condolences to you and your family 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @jl-heatfan4life717
    @jl-heatfan4life717 Жыл бұрын

    I LOVE THE MOWRY SISTERS, I GREW UP TO AND WITH THEM WATCHING THEIR SHOW, I SHED MY TEAR WHENEVER I SEE THIS, GOD BLESS STAY BLESS 😊🌹😊🌹😊🌹

  • @seanogle9901
    @seanogle99014 жыл бұрын

    Having a niece now myself, I can feel her pain. The idea that something could happen to my niece makes me sick to my stomach. I respect tam so much for coming back so soon and having such a positive attitude. I would want to set everything on fire and someone go pay for what they did.

  • @NolithaMfihlo
    @NolithaMfihlo3 жыл бұрын

    people who impact our lives in positive ways .. and light up our world dont last in this world .. i lost my aunt ..she was a free spirit ..loved everyone and was so kind hearted .. she was also young ..just 29years old

  • @shavondaconway3518
    @shavondaconway3518 Жыл бұрын

    This makes me cry everytime because we have all been here and smiled and said I’m ok while breaking down

  • @j.mitchcolour.7598
    @j.mitchcolour.75984 жыл бұрын

    I still cry when I re-watch this.

  • @eltoriaakins6270
    @eltoriaakins6270 Жыл бұрын

    I felt all of her pain and sadness when she said I’m ok really had me crying it’s to okay not be okay it’s hard to hide emotions I felt all of this when I lost my dad, so I know how Tamera feels. I felt all oof pain

  • @jholarkin7736
    @jholarkin77365 жыл бұрын

    It takes real strength to do what Tam did, much love ❤️

  • @mavsgurl061
    @mavsgurl0615 жыл бұрын

    It's April 2019 and I still cry watching this. Ugh still so sad.

  • @thaliat1051
    @thaliat10515 жыл бұрын

    Tamera, Love is truly what we need in this world, now more than ever. I wish you and your family the very best during these critical times. My heart goes out to the families affected by gun violence. Alaina and all the victims of gun violence will not die in vain, as you stated. We need to do better! This has to stop! XOXOXOXOXOX Thalia T.

  • @desireecolon894
    @desireecolon8945 жыл бұрын

    That “I’m okay” & stare between the four of them instantly had tears running down my face. We love you tam tam 💛 your fans & 3 sisters at that table are here for you 💛

  • @jadakiss379
    @jadakiss379 Жыл бұрын

    I grew up watching Tamera on tv and she almost feels like a big sister to my childhood, seeing her hurt like this breaks my heart so much ❤️

  • @willymase02
    @willymase02 Жыл бұрын

    Tamera I felt that “I’m okay “ 😢 I’m so sorry

  • @carolinesingh713
    @carolinesingh713 Жыл бұрын

    She is so strong though. I love her, god bless her and her beautiful Babies🥺🥰

  • @nataliacantarero414
    @nataliacantarero4145 жыл бұрын

    I still can’t watch this her pain makes Me cry I wish I could take this pain away may our Heavenly Father protect their family and may Alaina Rest In Peace ❤️

  • @kamiaperez8807
    @kamiaperez88074 жыл бұрын

    This was really hard to watch, so heart breaking. The pause, the silence, the tears. Wow ❤

  • @bbigfish1langille940
    @bbigfish1langille9402 жыл бұрын

    Although this was 2yrs ago , i would like to tell Tamera and family and friends of Alana how sorry i am to hear of your loss 😥 I pray time has lessened your grief . God Bless all 💙

  • @reginamushi6582
    @reginamushi65825 жыл бұрын

    Loni looks lovely👌...Tamera too as always...its sad when we loose ppl in our families...stay strong girl 💖

  • @difficultzari5168
    @difficultzari51684 жыл бұрын

    i felt that “i’m ok”🥺💔💔

  • @salinasn3
    @salinasn33 жыл бұрын

    I remember being so sad when I heard this news. I wanna give you the biggest hug ever. Bless you and your family. ❤️

  • @brendazepeda4583
    @brendazepeda45835 жыл бұрын

    I love you so much as a human being you seem amazing, you're words have touched my heart with your words tam. Rip Alaina

  • @trinityg.1213
    @trinityg.12135 жыл бұрын

    0:34 - 0:50 Literally exactly how my first therapy session went.

  • @flyaway9086

    @flyaway9086

    4 жыл бұрын

    "Draw near to God and He will draw near to you." -The Bible

  • @siaravanexel7833

    @siaravanexel7833

    4 жыл бұрын

    EXACTLY how it went. Same

  • @seriousjobroluvur

    @seriousjobroluvur

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly how I was when talking to my therapist a week after my grandma passed away

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