Parents Open Up About Their Experience Adopting Teenagers | Today

While most people think of babies when it comes to adoption, there are many older children in need of families. Lauren and Nelson Cano open up about their experience being adopted as adolescents, and their parents Jeremey and Joslyn Ahlgren share what it was like to adopt older children.
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  • @isa_bella2516
    @isa_bella25165 жыл бұрын

    "They're just our children to us and we just happen to get them later in life" beautifully said Jeremey.

  • @MaddiHenderson

    @MaddiHenderson

    5 жыл бұрын

    Isa_Bella i read this right as it came to that point in the video

  • @davinia6165

    @davinia6165

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@MaddiHenderson same it was so weird

  • @robinrose461

    @robinrose461

    5 жыл бұрын

    Maddi Henderson SAME wtf

  • @Jacky-pr1ed

    @Jacky-pr1ed

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@MaddiHenderson OMG SAME WTH

  • @chloecornaby-holmes6450

    @chloecornaby-holmes6450

    5 жыл бұрын

    Isa_Bella brought a tear to my eye hits home I was adopted and went though the same thing it’s good what people can do to change a child’s life forever xx

  • @frances5947
    @frances59475 жыл бұрын

    that's my freakin professor!!!!!!!! Let me just brag about this woman for a moment: Dr. A is always(!!!) there for her students and is quite literally the most dedicated professor, this past spring she organized an entire research symposium dedicated to raising awareness about transgender health/medicine, AND she spends her free time raising awareness for adoption??? amazing. AMAZING.

  • @megatubalub

    @megatubalub

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fran C what college does she teach at?? That is so great ❤️❤️❤️

  • @SuperShakirawakawaka

    @SuperShakirawakawaka

    5 жыл бұрын

    University of Florida

  • @helloalexandraa

    @helloalexandraa

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wow!!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @pragawa

    @pragawa

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wow@Fran

  • @tamiweber7241

    @tamiweber7241

    5 жыл бұрын

    Awesome

  • @boricuaflutie4
    @boricuaflutie45 жыл бұрын

    I met Nelson when I worked at his school as a tutor. Didn't know his story until now and wow it's amazing. He stood up for me when kids would disrespect me, this gentleman is going places. bless this family.

  • @wazawana7939

    @wazawana7939

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sure ya did.

  • @no-io1jm

    @no-io1jm

    5 жыл бұрын

    same we went to ncf together, super cool guy

  • @ToniCarrington

    @ToniCarrington

    5 жыл бұрын

    👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽😊

  • @tabbycat3610

    @tabbycat3610

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@wazawana7939 whys it so hard to believe one person out of hundreds of thousands who's seen this video has met him lmao

  • @Sound_Spark

    @Sound_Spark

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@tabbycat3610 because it's simple, they just want attention so they make up a lie.

  • @teressaginthe303
    @teressaginthe3035 жыл бұрын

    I adopted my son after 2 years of fostering. He's 8 now. He's the sweetest kiddo.

  • @agni_oh

    @agni_oh

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wishing you both all the happiness✌🏼✌🏼

  • @yancuicrodriguez1913

    @yancuicrodriguez1913

    4 жыл бұрын

    God bless u

  • @soleilm3866

    @soleilm3866

    3 жыл бұрын

    May your joy and love grow always..I am blessed to read your post..we all are.

  • @teressaginthe303

    @teressaginthe303

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@soleilm3866 Thank you all. 🙏

  • @Darkdevil1584

    @Darkdevil1584

    2 жыл бұрын

    thanks for doing them a huge service as well as your community. Im excited to adopt a kid someday if life plays out how i want

  • @NikkiVelazquez
    @NikkiVelazquez5 жыл бұрын

    I am a former adoption caseworker, and I encourage people to consider adopting older kids/teenagers. One practical reason is that you know who you're getting. With a baby, you have no idea. Your love can't fix them or prevent ill effects of their prenatal life. And these older kids deserve a family as much as everyone else.

  • @shannalese

    @shannalese

    5 жыл бұрын

    I would love to adopt a teen. Wouldn't have to go through the whole toddler and child phase that is way more tedious and expensive.

  • @terrirnbsn3596

    @terrirnbsn3596

    5 жыл бұрын

    I want to but I live alone and everyone tells me it's a bad idea to adopt a teen, especially a male, for safety concerns.

  • @NikkiVelazquez

    @NikkiVelazquez

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@terrirnbsn3596 You should speak to an adoption specialist rather than listening to people who are unqualified to advise you on the subject.

  • @Bioriah

    @Bioriah

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen. One thing I’m looking forward too in my 30’s is adopting is much rather adopt than birth my own. I’d love to adopt siblings if I could and the older kids in general.

  • @merncat75

    @merncat75

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@terrirnbsn3596 you do have to be careful.. everyone is different. A friend of mine I adopted a little girl who's Mom is in prison for constantly setting fires and it turned out the little girl is a pyromaniac and they can't even keep a lighter or match anywhere near the house, otherwise she tries to set fires.. another person I know adopted a young boy who steals from her and then runs away from home. They are both in long-term therapy but still have many challenges to face.

  • @nompilomazibuko4615
    @nompilomazibuko46155 жыл бұрын

    " i guess i don't have a reason to be mad anymore, i was just sad"-Nelson❤

  • @tamiweber7241

    @tamiweber7241

    5 жыл бұрын

    “Priceless” children want to feel like they belong and feel the genuine love.

  • @AnaisAzuli

    @AnaisAzuli

    5 жыл бұрын

    That was powerful

  • @annmcdonald7713

    @annmcdonald7713

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@AnaisAzuli very powerful

  • @alyssaameliia

    @alyssaameliia

    5 жыл бұрын

    f u for making me cry again

  • @AjieA

    @AjieA

    5 жыл бұрын

    Nompilo Mazibuko ❤️

  • @flawlesssome9718
    @flawlesssome97185 жыл бұрын

    I knew a 17-year old girl from my school, her parents died and she didn’t have family in this country. So I begged my parents to adopt her and now she already lives 1 year with us as my foster sister 😁❤️

  • @sofiad8128

    @sofiad8128

    Жыл бұрын

    So beautiful! Is she doing good?

  • @flawlesssome9718

    @flawlesssome9718

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sofiad8128 she's doing wonderful! she is now in her last year of uni and is really happy with her boyfriend ;) ofcourse sometimes things are really hard but she is really strong and stays super positive, i don't know how she does it :)

  • @gabriellabm
    @gabriellabm4 жыл бұрын

    There's a phrase from a mom who adopted an older kid that always gets me: "I needed my mom in my 10s, in my 20s, my 30s, and even now in my 40s. Even tho she is already in her 20s, she needs me as a mom now, too." Everyone needs a family, doesn't matter what age.

  • @shylashes
    @shylashes5 жыл бұрын

    Lauren, now you’ve planted the seed in MY brain about adopting older children. I’m totally serious too. Thank you for the video!

  • @MaryJJones-ge7iz

    @MaryJJones-ge7iz

    5 жыл бұрын

    shylashes 🖤🖤🖤🖤thank you for considering! I was in the system five years before someone adopted me when I was 9

  • @waitingatsunset6831

    @waitingatsunset6831

    5 жыл бұрын

    thank you for the love. hope you can adopt soon.

  • @str4wberrymachine

    @str4wberrymachine

    5 жыл бұрын

    hahahaha planted seed

  • @shannonknox1578

    @shannonknox1578

    5 жыл бұрын

    shylashes Lauren is the adopted girls name, Joselyn is the mom.

  • @MaddiHenderson

    @MaddiHenderson

    5 жыл бұрын

    Shannon Knox i think she still was directing it towards her

  • @jaheje7079
    @jaheje70795 жыл бұрын

    Love this, I was adopted at 15, 24 now. She changed my life.

  • @asdfghjkl-oo7lv

    @asdfghjkl-oo7lv

    5 жыл бұрын

    I never really cared about giving birth or changing diapers. My husband and I do not like small kids but we really want a family. I think adopting an older child is our calling.

  • @jaheje7079

    @jaheje7079

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@asdfghjkl-oo7lv you should! It will be hard but if just keeping trying you will feel so proud and accomplished and really truly make a difference in the childs/ teens life. I have no doubt I would have turned into a homeless drugged out prostitute just just my older sister, but she was six years older than me and had already run away when my twin and I had had been taken into foster care for the second time. my adopted mother is everything to me, she adopted me at 25, as single mother, with a 2 and 3 year old at time, being with her made me realize I had never truly known a good, healthy and wholesome love, ever. she taught me how love and feel loved and taught me everything on how to live and become a responsible adult. I'm now 24 married to my teenage sweet heart going on six years (been together for eight) and we now have three beautiful children, aged 5 months, 2 and 3 years old, I have nice home and a beautiful life because she made the tough decision to just love me when no one else did. She helped me break the cycle with my own children, and they have never felt anything but love, care and support from me, having been taught by my mother.

  • @jaheje7079

    @jaheje7079

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sorry for spelling mistakes, mimosas at a wonderful family bbq. Lol

  • @asdfghjkl-oo7lv

    @asdfghjkl-oo7lv

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@jaheje7079 thank you 😻

  • @jaheje7079

    @jaheje7079

    5 жыл бұрын

    Of course, my heart swells with love for you for even considering adopting a teen, even though I've never met you. You could truly make a difference and that makes feel so hopeful that another child might be given the same chance I was given, so thank you!

  • @desiree697
    @desiree6975 жыл бұрын

    I just found out that i was adopted last night, this made me smile!

  • @keilijohnson8407

    @keilijohnson8407

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's amazing! Congratulations! God bless you and your family ❤

  • @suzannebracker8219

    @suzannebracker8219

    4 жыл бұрын

    You are lucky. You were much wanted.

  • @poppylawrence3509

    @poppylawrence3509

    3 жыл бұрын

    Keili Johnson congratulations xxx

  • @flixart8891

    @flixart8891

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s been a year since this commented was posted but I hope you’re still happy with your new family!

  • @sofiasalazar5243

    @sofiasalazar5243

    3 жыл бұрын

    how are you??

  • @laurawatson6001
    @laurawatson60013 жыл бұрын

    "You're not going to like everything they do, but that's life. You're going to get that whether they're biological or not." More people need to hear this, once you adopt them they're yours and it's beautiful. ❤ I'd feel so lucky if I adopted kids.

  • @ashleybanks4517
    @ashleybanks45175 жыл бұрын

    “They’re just our children to us, we just so happened to get them later in life” made me wanna shed a tear. Super sweet story. 🥰

  • @thegreatone5059

    @thegreatone5059

    5 жыл бұрын

    Vamos hacer eso

  • @aderiusscott2220

    @aderiusscott2220

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ok!! 😭

  • @TheLuci915

    @TheLuci915

    5 жыл бұрын

    Theyre

  • @ashleybanks4517

    @ashleybanks4517

    5 жыл бұрын

    lucy lu imma correct it now! 😊

  • @sriwidiani5068
    @sriwidiani50685 жыл бұрын

    And may i say.. Nelson and Lauren are BEAUTIFUL... god they're so pretty..

  • @AKIRA-we4hd

    @AKIRA-we4hd

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah the girl is so pretty

  • @emily-dd4do

    @emily-dd4do

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@AKIRA-we4hd u can call Boys pretty too

  • @sonia-jo2zv

    @sonia-jo2zv

    5 жыл бұрын

    emily she never said you couldn’t

  • @lindaisnotfunny

    @lindaisnotfunny

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sri Widiani Lauren goes to my school, she is in my gym class but she is a grade lower then me, she is very kind and athletic :)

  • @laurenjoliee

    @laurenjoliee

    5 жыл бұрын

    so nice :)

  • @valerieb4893
    @valerieb48934 жыл бұрын

    I’m only 14 and I’ve decided that when I’m way older I’m having biological and adopted kids

  • @SelenaY.1331

    @SelenaY.1331

    3 жыл бұрын

    We also need more foster parents

  • @cannibalpotato7306

    @cannibalpotato7306

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I'm 13 but I want all adopted kids. There are so many kids that need help!

  • @julianna9854

    @julianna9854

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same, I'm a little older but I've wanted to adopt a lot of kids and have a few biological for a few years now. I could make a big positive difference in someone's life.

  • @calebellison428

    @calebellison428

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same I want to adopt from Africa

  • @sewamazing4498

    @sewamazing4498

    2 ай бұрын

    Same but I don't want bio kids im going to foster and then adopt

  • @brigittavanmeter5243
    @brigittavanmeter52434 жыл бұрын

    Dr. Alhgren was my anatomy professor 2 years ago at the University of Florida. She is such a kind and compassionate person I am so glad that these kids could find a loving home!

  • @imwastingtimehere6453
    @imwastingtimehere64535 жыл бұрын

    Dad: "we just happened to get them later in life" Me: 😭

  • @dh1432
    @dh14325 жыл бұрын

    I have a similar situation,my mother was VERY abusive...she did drugs, a prostitute.we barely got food if we did it was a treat but, I soon got adopted by my amazing family This really touched me.

  • @leggs4113

    @leggs4113

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hearing you refer to something as simple as food as a “treat” makes me realize the things we take for granted.

  • @Lauren-uv8nc

    @Lauren-uv8nc

    5 жыл бұрын

    glad you got out of that situation 😊 food should not be a treat, it’s a basic necessity

  • @cirese2570

    @cirese2570

    5 жыл бұрын

    thank... you... for telling....us....your....story.....

  • @dh1432

    @dh1432

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@cirese2570 :) of course

  • @glenbe4026

    @glenbe4026

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@dh1432 My life was hellish growing up but as a child it was always my wish that I would be adopted by someone else. But I do find it strange that in America parental rights can be taken away and the kids immediately put up for adoption so easily. Though I guess it makes sense in a way since I have heard really bad things about the American fostering system. In New Zealand and Australia much more emphasis is put on the fostering system and cancelling someone's parental rights pretty much only happens when they are a physical danger to the child.

  • @itr0863
    @itr0863 Жыл бұрын

    The dad “they give me way more than what I can give them”. Right in the feels 😭

  • @cassidysellers8840
    @cassidysellers88405 жыл бұрын

    I was adopted 4 days before i turned 18. It was the best thing that has ever happened to me. I am a better person because of the love i was given as an older foster kid.

  • @dhbuddy4064

    @dhbuddy4064

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello, I'm a 13 year old girl who's getting hit and abused by her parents. I am mentally going through a lot.I just want to get adopted and end all of this.Please let me know if i can get any kind of help.

  • @veronicalalalala
    @veronicalalalala5 жыл бұрын

    i wish more people would adopt older children like 6-17 it would give these kids a fighting chance in life instead of them having to grow up without a family

  • @himynameiswhat3966

    @himynameiswhat3966

    5 жыл бұрын

    oki cools I want to adopt ! It seems to take years ? Unless I’m wrong , I would adopt an older child for sure

  • @NikkiVelazquez

    @NikkiVelazquez

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@himynameiswhat3966 It varies depending on the situation. It can be as little as a few months.

  • @anniemariekennedy2505

    @anniemariekennedy2505

    5 жыл бұрын

    When I’m old enough I plan on adopting an older child. I’m 16-18 rn. And when I’m financially stable. After college maybe

  • @DJUniMekaju

    @DJUniMekaju

    5 жыл бұрын

    I would like to adopt older kids or teens.

  • @camillejohnson2085

    @camillejohnson2085

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ive been looking for this comment because i know i wasnt the only one who heard iy

  • @monipl9095
    @monipl90955 жыл бұрын

    That last part, “ we just happen to get them later in life ♥️ “ my heart ♥️😭

  • @guendymora9164

    @guendymora9164

    5 жыл бұрын

    Moni Pl 😭❤️

  • @Iris-lm2gd
    @Iris-lm2gd5 жыл бұрын

    “They’re our children to us, and we just happened to get them later in life.” That was beautiful ❤️

  • @Khandiments
    @Khandiments5 жыл бұрын

    what the heck lol dr. ahlgren was my anatomy professor, i literally found this by chance!

  • @ananyasharma4220

    @ananyasharma4220

    3 жыл бұрын

    She seems like a gem

  • @chellep6740

    @chellep6740

    3 жыл бұрын

    God works in mysterious ways for His Glory! 💕 Be blessed! 💕

  • @intuitivediane

    @intuitivediane

    3 жыл бұрын

    Weren’t you lucky ❤️

  • @Karen-Campos
    @Karen-Campos5 жыл бұрын

    Every child deserves a forever family❣️

  • @stueygriffith4671

    @stueygriffith4671

    5 жыл бұрын

    how many have YOU adopted???? Yeah, that's what I thought. 🙄

  • @hayleymarse2853

    @hayleymarse2853

    5 жыл бұрын

    Stuey Griffith not everyone is called to adopt. Everyone has a different path in life.

  • @stueygriffith4671

    @stueygriffith4671

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@hayleymarse2853 thanks, Yoda.... 🙄

  • @hayleymarse2853

    @hayleymarse2853

    5 жыл бұрын

    Stuey Griffith no problem 😂😂

  • @hayleymarse2853

    @hayleymarse2853

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lana Joy you absolutely can. I was just saying that not everyone is able to adopt but they can always support those who do choose to do so and the children still in the adoption system

  • @pinkpink-kb6dl
    @pinkpink-kb6dl5 жыл бұрын

    Those kids have such unique features the girl in particular is absolutely gorgeous!

  • @SheniceSays214

    @SheniceSays214

    4 жыл бұрын

    Both are gorgeous

  • @lavern1402

    @lavern1402

    3 жыл бұрын

    Her sweet little voice, reflects her sweet little soul 😢😢😢 And Nelson smiles, and then his face just lights up like a flower breaking open from its blossom 🌺

  • @corvidaemoon8744
    @corvidaemoon87444 жыл бұрын

    Please Adopt me. I'm 25 now, but i've never known love like this. You trying to understand to help them, and willing to adjust for them Youre amazing parents.

  • @keilijohnson8407

    @keilijohnson8407

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Luna Moon, may God bless you with a family in whatever form that looks like ❤ God loves you and will always protect you!

  • @obiwankenobiwithinternetac7926

    @obiwankenobiwithinternetac7926

    4 жыл бұрын

    Luna Moon must you join the group of padawans

  • @aimeeallen-kirk4723

    @aimeeallen-kirk4723

    3 жыл бұрын

    Where do you live? I will be your mama. Are you coming home to Alabama for the holidays this year? ♡

  • @zaiokari1698

    @zaiokari1698

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@trishasaha3578 Im in Africa i can adopt you

  • @zaiokari1698

    @zaiokari1698

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@trishasaha3578I may not be like your parents, but i will try, will love you and be your besr friend

  • @ASMR_MJ
    @ASMR_MJ3 жыл бұрын

    People who want to adopt and give their life’s to children in need have such a huge heart all of them. I’m adopted and my mom has the biggest heart ever. Adults who adopt older kids deserve the world. It’s difficult to create bonds with teens, especially familiar bonds and create a safe space where they feel as if you are their mom or dad. Most adults who are looking to adopt seem to disregard older children saying they are “difficult” or they feel as if they aren’t their real children. Family to me isn’t always blood, its the people who love you and support you and you don’t always grow up with them. I’m so touched by this story it’s always beautiful to see such giving people give love to those who most need it 💓

  • @malayaanderson8222

    @malayaanderson8222

    3 жыл бұрын

    Adopting a child at all is amazing, I will never take away from anyone just because they know what they can or can’t handle. Adopting a older child is far from easy, & yes some are difficult. Unless you’ve gone through how hard it is to be a foster parent, you don’t really get to talk on it.

  • @shecamt

    @shecamt

    3 жыл бұрын

    My husband and I just finished our home study so we can adopt from foster care. We're very excited for this new chapter in our lives. I did and do kinda want to adopt a sibling group 12 and under but I'm starting to open up to the idea of a teenager. It's been on my mind that I didn't want this big person that had a lot of anger or resentment (I know young kids can feel this way too)taking it out on me and my husband. We want a family bond and I don't want someone who may leave us in a few years as soon as they become of age. I know that may sound selfish but I want to adopt a person who can always come home to us even after they've moved out and still think of as mom and dad and not just those people I lived with when I was in high school. I know every person and situation is different but these are the thoughts that I have. I would love to provide a loving home for a teenager who we could do stuff with, take on vacation, get involved in whatever they're interested in, teach new things to them. I'm trying to keep an open mind.

  • @dhbuddy4064

    @dhbuddy4064

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello, I'm a 13 year old girl who's getting hit and abused by her parents. I am mentally going through a lot.I just want to get adopted and end all of this.Please let me know if i can get any kind of help.

  • @merendoula

    @merendoula

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dhbuddy4064 hey! Contact with specific public body or child support servicies of your country and ask for help. I hope everything goes well! If you do something let me know how it goes❣ If you want any kind of help contact with me, don't hesitate💞💞

  • @blairariavanderkamp3405

    @blairariavanderkamp3405

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dhbuddy4064 I'm so sorry!! Is there any adult in your life that you trust that you can get help from? Like a teacher or school counselor for example or a mom or dad of one of your friends?

  • @royaf7261
    @royaf72615 жыл бұрын

    this made me cry :( sending love to that beautiful family

  • @alexisulibarri1935

    @alexisulibarri1935

    5 жыл бұрын

    malia x same🥺

  • @madisongoldsberry7062
    @madisongoldsberry70625 жыл бұрын

    I was in foster care at the age of 2 or 3 & got adopted with 3 of my biological siblings. (One was already an adult) I was 14 when I was adopted. Super thankful for my (adoptive) Mom believing in us & loving us.

  • @tamiweber7241

    @tamiweber7241

    5 жыл бұрын

    ❤️💜💕

  • @madisongoldsberry7062

    @madisongoldsberry7062

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Michelle Rivera shes 7 years older than me. She ran away from foster care when we were first taken away. She was around 12. I guess she just survived. Shes been back in our lives since I turned 18. I'm now 24.

  • @intuitivediane

    @intuitivediane

    3 жыл бұрын

    ❤️

  • @dhbuddy4064

    @dhbuddy4064

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello, I'm a 13 year old girl who's getting hit and abused by her parents. I am mentally going through a lot.I just want to get adopted and end all of this.Please let me know if i can get any kind of help.

  • @MegaAronsen
    @MegaAronsen5 жыл бұрын

    Being a child that was adopted, this hit me hard. Edit: as I’m watching this my adoptive dad called me

  • @aaru7835

    @aaru7835

    3 жыл бұрын

    Please adopt me😭😭😭😭

  • @minahthechampionmusic8750
    @minahthechampionmusic87505 жыл бұрын

    "I guess i didnt have a reason to be angry anymore... i guess i was just sad" that made me tear up because i can relate

  • @mirquellasantos2716
    @mirquellasantos27165 жыл бұрын

    I'm in tears and God bless that wonderful mom and dad. The world certainly needs more people like the Ahlgren's. PS: The boy looks a bit like Colin Kaepernick.

  • @beebee33

    @beebee33

    5 жыл бұрын

    And the daughter reminds me of Ariana Grande for some reason

  • @LisaGallegos

    @LisaGallegos

    5 жыл бұрын

    Tee Bee omg yes!!! Ari and Colin!

  • @sinjon

    @sinjon

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think he looks ex’s toy like Cade Foehner

  • @brielleimana1408
    @brielleimana14085 жыл бұрын

    As someone who would like to adopt someone older as well (someday in the future) I appreciate this positive story. Too many people are focused on the negative POSSIBLE outcomes of adopting an older child. They are just hurting and shouldn’t be overlooked.

  • @himynameiswhat3966

    @himynameiswhat3966

    5 жыл бұрын

    Brielle Imana loving caring homes can change a child older or not , it’s sad they don’t get adopted more often , you’re right ! And I would love to adopt older as well

  • @noellecasteel55

    @noellecasteel55

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Jessie Jay That's why I plan on possibly adopting older children after my biological kids are teens. That way the adopted kids have added support of adoptive older siblings who they can confide in if they're not sure how mom or dad would react to something yet because we're all still getting to know each other.

  • @turduckenwrath6110
    @turduckenwrath61105 жыл бұрын

    i’m a therapist for foster kids/adopted kids. Specifically teens- omg this made me cry

  • @tracyw
    @tracyw5 жыл бұрын

    Bless this beautiful family unit , awesome parents !

  • @baileywengerherrera6185
    @baileywengerherrera61855 жыл бұрын

    I wish I could "love" this video. The like button isn't enough. Thanks for sharing this story. I hope it can encourage others to either adopt or foster or be a support system for those who do.

  • @matthewplays8029

    @matthewplays8029

    5 жыл бұрын

    Bailey Wenger Herrera Me too

  • @txsweetie03
    @txsweetie033 жыл бұрын

    Every child deserves a home with parents who love them! This story is so touching!!

  • @rowni
    @rowni5 жыл бұрын

    I came on KZread to laugh, but I stumbled on this video, now Im bawling my eyes out because this is so heartwarming. Thanks YT Algorithm

  • @heidivallejo6263
    @heidivallejo62635 жыл бұрын

    I am adopted and this experience is just beautiful 🥺

  • @tamiweber7241

    @tamiweber7241

    5 жыл бұрын

    ❤️💕💜

  • @KayJay79
    @KayJay795 жыл бұрын

    Please pass me a tissue! This story is absolutely beautiful! God bless this couple for having such open, loving, & caring hearts!

  • @hajarh21
    @hajarh215 жыл бұрын

    When they were cheering her on during the volleyball game and she turned to them and smiled... that just melted my heart

  • @kr5726
    @kr57263 жыл бұрын

    This gives me so much hope. As a 22 year old, I’ve always been afraid that I’d be considered too old to be adopted. I just want to be part of a family who will love and accept me for who I am. I’d do anything to have this.

  • @beccabaker7636

    @beccabaker7636

    3 жыл бұрын

    😭, kids like you are the reason the arkhouses are so important. But they need a step beyond and put people in place to teach you kids to check the oil, change a tire, change a house plug, cook a meal, sort laundry cause with that comes bonds and family is what you make of it. We have nine and four others that call us Mom n Dad cause we've let em get up on their feet two of them their own parents wouldn't help them and the other two grew up in the system our kids told them my parents will be yours and they brought them home. The one just moved out last July, our other adopted brought him to us, he's going to school and working back home in Florida after staying with us for nearly two years. My husband taught him how to work on cars so that's what he's going to school for, 😊. I don't think we've ever had an empty room since we've been married, bless the LORD for such lessons.

  • @pvm0708

    @pvm0708

    3 жыл бұрын

    No one is ever to old to deserve to be part of a family ♥️

  • @mikewrasman5103

    @mikewrasman5103

    2 жыл бұрын

    There is adult adoption! You can go to Probate Court and apply for a petition for adult adoption.

  • @stephtrader4662
    @stephtrader46625 жыл бұрын

    I have 2 biological children and adopted a pre teen, now 15. This is a process that requires a lot of patience and I think you have to go into it knowing there will be some significant challenges but you get through them. Wonderful story.

  • @CMB5226
    @CMB52265 жыл бұрын

    My 11 year old daughter and I literally just watched “Instant Family” 2 days ago because she heard about it and just had to see it. Then, I came across this clip. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 My heart goes out to all these kids. I also give these parents kudos for their strength, patience, and kindness to give these kids a better life. I truly believe that we all would be respected and loved IF we give respect and love first. ❤️#humankindness

  • @gayemarianesfox2405

    @gayemarianesfox2405

    5 жыл бұрын

    CMB this clip made me think of that movie too!

  • @hopehefley
    @hopehefley4 жыл бұрын

    Imagine being adopted by people that you’ve never even met, have never met you, but yet they already love you. That’s so beautiful ❤️

  • @patsysolatzzo2962
    @patsysolatzzo29622 жыл бұрын

    I am single but I have so much to offer a child who needs a stable and reliable home. I always wanted to be able to be there for someone and teach and grow. I have been looking at adoption websites that focus on older children and I really think I’m ready. I am glad I saw this video.

  • @amandar2219
    @amandar22195 жыл бұрын

    I always knew I wanted to adopt older kids. I always knew and videos like this just confirm; when I can I will start the process. There are so many unwanted children/adolescence in this world. Why not give them hope and support?

  • @jusletursoulglobaby

    @jusletursoulglobaby

    5 жыл бұрын

    ditto

  • @dhbuddy4064

    @dhbuddy4064

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello, I'm a 13 year old girl who's getting hit and abused by her parents. I am mentally going through a lot.I just want to get adopted and end all of this.Please let me know if i can get any kind of help.

  • @duvine3882
    @duvine38825 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for working on these human bond pieces of journalism, this gives us hopes for some of us older couples to adopt.

  • @JLAShazam
    @JLAShazam3 жыл бұрын

    As a child I bet it’s amazing finally knowing that you have someone who supports and cares about you.

  • @briijohnson9587
    @briijohnson95875 жыл бұрын

    “Yasss Period”😂😂😂. I love how happy they are

  • @ismaelmercado2962
    @ismaelmercado29625 жыл бұрын

    My mans flexing with the LV belt

  • @maggie12md18

    @maggie12md18

    5 жыл бұрын

    4:24 lmao true 😂

  • @ToniCarrington

    @ToniCarrington

    5 жыл бұрын

    😎😎😎

  • @djxox.2025

    @djxox.2025

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fr tho he hadda show the belt 😂😂

  • @Calvinfe37

    @Calvinfe37

    4 жыл бұрын

    As soon as I saw that I was just 😂

  • @TheChristopherBlake1
    @TheChristopherBlake15 жыл бұрын

    The quote, "At first it felt wired, now it feels good.", broke me down into tears! Thank you for sharing this .

  • @benblake-johnson7075

    @benblake-johnson7075

    4 жыл бұрын

    TheChristopherBlake1 he said “weird” not “wired”

  • @ICdedppl666
    @ICdedppl666 Жыл бұрын

    This is such a moving story. I want to be a foster parent when I am a little older and more financially stable.

  • @katy_banks
    @katy_banks5 жыл бұрын

    I’ve always wanted to adopt teens, even though I’m still a teen myself rn, but whether I choose to have biological kids or not in the future at some point that’s something I’d like to do. I’m so happy to see people like this adopting, to see teens and older children being placed in great care and happy 😊

  • @lx9582
    @lx95825 жыл бұрын

    I’m not adopted but I’m under a SGO with the most amazing foster mum and family I could ever have wished for. Entering the system at 12 I didn’t have much hope and the first 2 year I just moved around a total of 6 family’s and 2 homes and then just after I turned 14 I moved in with the most wonderful family and I’ve been here ever since and I’m 17 next month and I’ve never felt so happy. I love my family so much! ❤️❤️

  • @AbbyS...
    @AbbyS...5 жыл бұрын

    Good for them. Maybe this will inspire more people to follow.

  • @MargaretMargaretMargaret
    @MargaretMargaretMargaret3 жыл бұрын

    The sense of missing their mom, will sadly never go away, but over time, healing can and will happen. I pray they will have an amazing life as a family.

  • @critterwhisperer5821
    @critterwhisperer58214 жыл бұрын

    I’m just amaze at how many siblings get adopted together. I’ve heard of rare stories where siblings are separated. This is just beautiful and amazing

  • @victoriawebb5382
    @victoriawebb53825 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your kindness and loving heart!

  • @Aritul
    @Aritul5 жыл бұрын

    Those parents are special. It seems the children are lucky to have them.

  • @rat.cheese
    @rat.cheese4 жыл бұрын

    as someone who was adopted as a teen and then kicked out of the home at 18, I am so glad to see videos like this where it doesn't happen to everyone.

  • @lavern1402
    @lavern14023 жыл бұрын

    Tears and smiles and tears and smiles... especially at 4:50.... What BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN! Lauren’s little voice reflects her precious little soul... Nelson is such a beautiful young man! Just look at his smile 💙 It can be sad when children come to the planet and doesn’t get the LOVE they deserve from the actual humans who carried them here on this journey. However, their journey can be just as WONDERFUL when they’re allowed to be part of other people’s lives- people who DESERVE THEM! 💙💖 I am so grateful for these family who has so much love and so much understanding... NELSON AND LAUREN WERE MEANT TO BE HERE... it couldn’t go any other way! There are no mistakes here. 💜💖🌺💖☀️

  • @JoshuaOtusanya
    @JoshuaOtusanya5 жыл бұрын

    Very beautiful. Just like whoever is reading this. -Josh Otusanya

  • @pauline4581
    @pauline45815 жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful family. God bless you.

  • @unlocked6352
    @unlocked63525 жыл бұрын

    homegirl stepped over the line with that serve at the end though

  • @missraslan1523

    @missraslan1523

    5 жыл бұрын

    unlocked this comment made me laugh haha 😂

  • @laurenjoliee

    @laurenjoliee

    4 жыл бұрын

    I really didn't the line was the purple line 😂😢

  • @harls_974

    @harls_974

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@laurenjoliee Oh my God, you're so pretty🌟

  • @mikewrasman5103

    @mikewrasman5103

    3 жыл бұрын

    Okay, so what? They were not in the Olympics. It was a junior high school volleyball match.

  • @unlocked6352

    @unlocked6352

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mikewrasman5103 chill mike it's a joke

  • @paolacarrera8792
    @paolacarrera87925 жыл бұрын

    My man said *PERIODT*

  • @Myself12383
    @Myself123835 жыл бұрын

    It's always been one thing i wanted to do.... And they water it.... 💓 God Bless them

  • @eternitykentucky6935
    @eternitykentucky69355 жыл бұрын

    GOD BLESS THIS FAMILY!.. TRULY AMAZING.

  • @manderbos
    @manderbos4 жыл бұрын

    Brought tears to my eyes. Such beautiful children and parents. Every kid needs someone they can depend on. Good job guys, for following your hearts.

  • @Amblin80s
    @Amblin80s4 жыл бұрын

    What a sweet couple... It’s so wonderful how they’re focused on the children and not on themselves, the ego that comes with a lot of parenting can be destructive. But these two seem really selfless.

  • @peri-sue6973
    @peri-sue69735 жыл бұрын

    Truly selfless and a lesson in unconditional loving! ❤️

  • @rudist5858
    @rudist58585 жыл бұрын

    why would anyone in their right mind give this a thumbs down? This was beautiful.

  • @mrsir9358

    @mrsir9358

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sharon Cato Their race is completely irrelevant to the video.

  • @rae1555
    @rae15555 жыл бұрын

    3:50 Ik this is supposed to be serious but did homeboy really just say periodt 🤣

  • @ohaidenny9852
    @ohaidenny98524 жыл бұрын

    I choose to be childless but am planning to adopt or foster. I don’t need a baby to look like me to love them with no strings. I am struggling to create stability for myself but once I do I want to provide it for others.

  • @muurisoras5878
    @muurisoras58785 жыл бұрын

    What a wonderful loving couple. Am in tears

  • @dip-teavlogs489
    @dip-teavlogs4895 жыл бұрын

    It just moved me to tears. Thank you for being so nice you guys. God bless you

  • @chloeolivia3451
    @chloeolivia34515 жыл бұрын

    Are we just going to not talk about how the adoptive dad was like Period I'm deadddd sksksksksk😂😂

  • @chloeolivia3451

    @chloeolivia3451

    5 жыл бұрын

    @ryeh ryeh 3:51 😂

  • @Mandeee

    @Mandeee

    5 жыл бұрын

    it's called making a statement. period.

  • @Mandeee

    @Mandeee

    5 жыл бұрын

    end of story. period.

  • @tabbycat3610

    @tabbycat3610

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Mandeee exactly lmao. I remember when people said it before it became more of "slang" like PERIODTTT. 🤦‍♀️

  • @jojoqueenyo

    @jojoqueenyo

    5 жыл бұрын

    and that’s on periodt sis

  • @vaskelaff
    @vaskelaff5 жыл бұрын

    Let's face it, we are all crying at this point. Such a strong family. Such great parents and such sweet kids!

  • @adrienhusson8247
    @adrienhusson82475 жыл бұрын

    You people are good people. Thanks for being who you are. Wish you all the best.

  • @freshlove7926

    @freshlove7926

    5 жыл бұрын

    Adrien Husson - Great message Adrien

  • @jessicalt4121
    @jessicalt41215 жыл бұрын

    I’m so happy they are all together now, a family.

  • @dguri
    @dguri4 жыл бұрын

    "They're just our children to us and we just happen to get them later in life" - OMG this is the essence of it all

  • @SpiffyFurFamily
    @SpiffyFurFamily5 жыл бұрын

    There’s so much love between the members of this family. Amazing

  • @rexyranger
    @rexyranger5 жыл бұрын

    I'm over here balling my eyes out...what a beautiful story..it warmed my heart & soul 💙💙💙💜💜💜💚💚💚

  • @adrianaavila5230
    @adrianaavila52305 жыл бұрын

    When I grow up I'm going to adopt.

  • @aimeeallen-kirk4723

    @aimeeallen-kirk4723

    3 жыл бұрын

  • @katiix
    @katiix5 жыл бұрын

    This really made me tear up because I was adopted at 5years old from my drug addicted parents , so I know exactly how they feel being taken from your parents. And no matter what it'll always affect you throughout life whether you're in a good home or not.

  • @louiefajardo1518
    @louiefajardo15185 жыл бұрын

    This makes me emotional.. Man! It made me cry. Blessed this people. So much love is going on here😇🙏

  • @TheSweetForever
    @TheSweetForever5 жыл бұрын

    I’ve always wanted to adopt older kids. They are just as important as babies. One day 💜

  • @Pennyk900
    @Pennyk9005 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Jesus. BLESS this family .

  • @RachelAndrea14
    @RachelAndrea145 жыл бұрын

    Im crying. God bless them! Seriously. They have such a beautiful heart

  • @TheDivineracer
    @TheDivineracer5 жыл бұрын

    I'm so proud of this beautiful family! When you watch this video you can feel their love for each other. It's wonderful.

  • @lailabaloch568
    @lailabaloch5685 жыл бұрын

    What a wonderful story. Bless this family and their children.

  • @ellaenchanted2348
    @ellaenchanted23485 жыл бұрын

    This is beautiful... One moment while I dab away the tears 😭

  • @eeks850
    @eeks8505 жыл бұрын

    I was adopted and loved seeing this heartwarming story.... congrats to the family and new members. Wish a lifetime of happiness for you all.

  • @0oMadisono0
    @0oMadisono05 жыл бұрын

    I was lucky and adopted as a baby. My heart goes out to all of the kids in foster care. So glad these two are in a safe and loving home 💗

  • @amapparatistkwabena
    @amapparatistkwabena5 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful. I've been thinking of this for over 10 years... it just makes sense sometimes. Blessings to you guys and may each of you realize just how awesome it is that you have each other.

  • @laurae2489
    @laurae24895 жыл бұрын

    Bless this beautiful family ❤️

  • @christinaspasaro8524
    @christinaspasaro85244 жыл бұрын

    Wow, these parents are amazing ppl. They opened there door and there hearts to these 2 teenagers. I am so happy to hear such a wonderful story like this. God bless them all.

  • @sp1d3rgutzarogantanarchist94
    @sp1d3rgutzarogantanarchist945 жыл бұрын

    Thank. YOU. Ive been talking about how people should adopt older children. Thank you for making this!

  • @emmam3416
    @emmam34165 жыл бұрын

    This story is beautiful thank you for sharing!!! So inspiring!!