We have not been successful in family court, but at 15, our son is becoming aware of what his dad is, and is doing to ALL his relationships with myself, both sides of the family and his own friendships. I’ve always told him the truth in a age appropriate way and as not to denigrate his dad, I teach him about behaviours, and validate his feelings to help him understand what he is living through with multiple resources and supports. It’s unfortunate that many of us cannot afford to “play” the high conflict parents games through the courts and put an end to the toxic behaviour. A lot of parents I’ve encountered in similar circumstances are just waiting for the children to age out and come back from the control of the high conflict person.

The other sign of parental alienation is in a co-parenting arrangement is when 1 parent overrides the decisions of the other parent. I see the alienating parent make all the decisions and does not allow the child to go to extra curricular activities, seek medical treatment they dont agree with, will buy the child everything the child asks for, allows the child to partake in risky behaviour that the other parent did not agree too. This behaviour completely negates the other parent choices. It always seems to never be about the best interests in the child but more a way of getting at the other parent.

@larrylorimer3065

6 күн бұрын

My children were taken to the Dr.'s so many times till they all had illnesses. Now with mental illness they can collect health benefits so the Abuser uses the money for their own gain and more control. My children their Bank cards and debts grew and the Abuser caused them to have poor credit ratings.

Unfortunately I realized it too late. My daughter made false allegations against me (out of the blue and left notes to her younger sisters that were very negative, stating that we were not family and called me a degragorty term). I am leaving it in Gods hands as she’ll be 18 soon. I pray one day she’ll see the truth of thw suitation. She has excommunicated my whole side of the family( Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, etc…)

@Nurmi860

6 ай бұрын

My heart goes out to you 😢

@user-hk2yy7rc7s

5 ай бұрын

💔

@user-hk2yy7rc7s

5 ай бұрын

Please, don't give up. I am still trying.. My daughter is 25 😢 She was alienated from me by my" mother"

@my4boysmom

2 ай бұрын

We (our entire family) were erased shortly after the marriage and started to reunite prior to the divorce. It is now happening to him and his children. 6 and 9 the six year old is being brain washed but exposes her mom which helps in navigating things the 9 year old isn't speaking to dad which the court thought was a good idea. Therapy starts when mom gets her there we are hopeful but now I'm wondering if he will ever have a relationship with her since the PA is so bad. Its not work with the younger one as well since she stands up to her more and knows the truth on her own.

@Yourfavekikki

Ай бұрын

@@user-hk2yy7rc7smy mother attempted the same, hard to understand why your own parent would do this to you 💔

This guy is brilliant.

I have been dealing with PAS for 3+ years and these 3 videos have been the most information i have been able to find. I am fearful of hiring the wrong lawayer. How can i figure out if the lawayer is the right one? What are the odds of a person fighting this Pro se? I have been dealing with pretty much every aspect of what you talked about and now after watching your videos, I see light at the end of the tunnel! Thank you!

@sandraksimmons8653

5 ай бұрын

Pro se could work but you are talking about your child. You should be 150% for sure you know all the laws and rules of the court in the state and county were intend to file your case. You miss a deadline to give an response to a motion the other party has filed and it could make you lose custody completely, and like he said when dealing with parental alienation you need to cite correct information from a source that is accurate and accredited back when you are saying, and always remember that the best interest is your only goal for your children or child.

Narcissistic parent traits prevent an alienators from following all the best court orders. The system is broken and the kids are stuck in the middle. Look at the long game and pray you can connect with your adult children after they break free from the web of lies. And continue to connect with your child in the most positive way possible. No down side to kindness and love.

Hey handsome, I am glad that I watched this. You are a breath of fresh air with your professional perspectives and advice for those whose minor loved ones are being used as weapons against them. You have my subscription and I hope that these comments and online attention draw others to you. You deserve the best🙂

Currently experiencing this myself . Thank you for this video and information it was very helpful!

This man is brilliant and finally gives me hope! I bet my notes are over 200 pages already!

Thank you for this! I wish you offered svcs in Florida. My kid & i formally dx with ptsd from PA by his NPD dad and this is ruining our lives; I’m currently studying law to go pro se against my ex to save my son. The thing you said in the other video about child subconsciously thinking “i love mom and i know she’ll never reject me so I’m being cruel to her bc it’s safe, whereas disappointing dad isn’t safe” made me cry 😢 it’s soooo accurate. So sad.

@lawofficeofkellypeterson6881

6 ай бұрын

I do help out of state folks, and their attorneys, in this area. Feel free to contact my office to discuss setting up a consultation, if you wish. www.kmpetersonlaw.net

@3rotic_glitch3s

6 ай бұрын

@@lawofficeofkellypeterson6881 ok! Thank you so much! Will do!

it not only takes an enormous amount of work it takes time... For example my ex since the temporary parenting plan was entered on 2/10/22 she did not comply until 3 weeks before our trial. So I made sure to send plenty of demand letters I should have filed contempt more but I was pro se homeless from the DVPO and she had forged my signature used my DL and cleaned out all the accounts and took the tax return. The court system has been a nightmare man I would love for you to take a look at my motion I'm preparing for a motion to restrict abusive litigation she is the moving party. The court record does not show what they need to establish abusive litigation. Seeing as i only filed one contempt motion but we will see how this judge does on 3 march

@mercenary1881

10 ай бұрын

Women☕

@ABlessman

7 ай бұрын

This has nothing to do with gender. It has everything to do with mental illness which strikes both fathers and mothers.

@sandraksimmons8653

5 ай бұрын

That is an ignorant response becuase I am a woman and because of my sons dads wife yes a woman but not all women are bad just like some dads are great dads but I say ignorant answer becuase your on a website where parents are watching this video reading the comments and they are heart broken enough about having to watch videos like this to begin with they dont need to read rude comments man or woman .I am a woman a mother who lost her 1st son becuase of parental alienation I didnt have as much money as his dad and I had 2 other kids to support all own my own so I couldn't hire an attorney and we weren't married so no custody established and he coparented just fine for ten years I trusted him that he would never do that to at least our son or to me because I never keep our son from him. But his new wife didn't like having to have her husband my ex my sons dad having to have contact with me or that he had to just see me to drop and pick up our son People are evil some parents just should not be parents or step parents. Please think about this the next time you have to hate on woman because this happens to both parents not just men parental alienation does not discriminate and this doesnt only happen to men.

I wish you could practice in FL / GA. I have been the target of horrific parental and grandparental alienation of my daughter and grandaughters by my father and step-mother. There are definitely damages. Their alienation made it so I have not seen / heard from my daughter for 11 years and have never been allowed to me my granddaughters. I live in NE FL and they live in SE GA, but also have availed themselves of travel and meetings/vacations in FL. The emotional distress of what they have done contributed to my getting breast cancer. My husband has witnessed the alienation. My daughter and I used to be very close before this all started. My father and step-mother at one point were putting $3000 cash weekly in envelopes in our mailbox with my daughter's name on it to manipulate her.

@lawofficeofkellypeterson6881

6 ай бұрын

There are some things I can do to help out of state folks and/or their attorneys. Feel free to contact my office if you'd like to set up a consultation. www.kmpetersonlaw.net

Very informative , thank you . I wish you practiced in Florida ☹

This is underrated information. I wish i had a parental alienation specialist to help me with my case.

@lawofficeofkellypeterson6881

4 ай бұрын

There are some things I can do to help out of state folks and/or their attorneys. Feel free to contact my office if you'd like to set up a consultation. www.kmpetersonlaw.net

Someone send this great 👍 educational vedio to Bam Margera

What questions do you ask in the interview of family members and other witnesses?

Is this specific around US family law or Canadaian Family law?

Good luck on all that. Now name judges that will charge these females with this.

This is great. How do we actually make this happen? My previous attorney wouldn't even acknowledge PA. Can this work pro se?

@lawofficeofkellypeterson6881

4 ай бұрын

There are some things I can do to help out of state folks and/or their attorneys. Feel free to contact my office if you'd like to set up a consultation. www.kmpetersonlaw.net

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I dont know how all states are but seems nurses have to take continuing education classes to keep there license, he said that judges and attorneys or are not up to date on parental alienation. And in washington state when you do a parenting plan both parents have to take a parenting class before the judge will geant the parenting plan at all. It goes over very lightly dont talk about the other parent nothing to this extremity they also make both parents but dont make the other spouse go to this class. And in my case being unmarried and never having a parenting plan drawn up because for almost ten yrs we coparented very well, until he got married to a young person who does not have any kids who didnt want me the ex and mother to be in ger life ao my son was taken and all the decisions made pertaining to my son were left to her inlcuding her doing the patenting plan and my sons dad only signing it. She lied about some of the questions on the court forms like where had the child live for the past 5 previously or are they any other people who have a right to spend time with the child. Me my mother his uncles his brother and sisters have a right. And you see we lived in washington he kept our son when he went for his normal summer visit. And would give him back. I moved to north dakota to be closer and they afyer 3 yrs moved back to the same state and county which they originally took him from. And got custodial custody. He convinced a person whom i thought i could trust to file serve him and to file the response because she said she would but didnt that our son was happier with him and he had more money. And lord knows what else was said. I was put into default and lost custody. They need to hold a step parent to their role and make them go to a class to because she filled out my parenting plan i got mothers day if i was in washington and at that time i lived in nd and i got 1 day durning summer the 4th of July. She treats me like shit and ive never really even meant her. She doesnt feel she needs to acknowledge me and she took my son away and thinks its okay. I tried to talk reason to him to bring him back and we would go to court and if a court decided our son shouldn't live with me and he said live with them id been fine with that but he knew there was nothing i have done that would have took my kids away from me. No i didnt own a home like them or have snow moblies but i had a house and he was taken care of and very much loved and i promoted their relationship with him. He had nothing so they stole him. When umarried people have kids it should be a law that the mother has custody right away and if they split up then the father has to go to court becuase if didnt and just took the kid and he would go to jail. If that was the law my kids dad would habe never took him and all of our lives woukd have been different , the way the law is allows fathers to just take a kid and leave thats not right. I get it some mothers dont deserve to be a mother but sane gies for a dad, and any parent who thinks its okay to not have the orher parent be apart of the childs life without a court of law determining that doesnt need there child either. It really causes damage to the parent and child and all the other people who get earsed from the childs life. Its like my son is dead but i think its worse because hes alive and i dont know what he looks like i dont get to hear him laugh or smile or hug him i dont get to love him or there for him the way i should have i failed my child and it hurt him and my other children as well.

I dont agree with this. If a child feels this strongly that they are threatening to hurt themselves, then i cant rationalize pushing them… And I am the alienated Parent.

How do I contact your office sir. I have a case.

@lawofficeofkellypeterson6881

5 ай бұрын

Www.kmpetersonlaw.net

What if the children stoll live with the targeted parent?

@lawofficeofkellypeterson6881

2 ай бұрын

It depends on the other facts in the case.

How i wish you were operating here in Southern Ontario, Canada….. but then again, I may not be able to afford you…..

My son dad won’t let us communicate with him they have us blocked from his phone or won’t let him call us taking advantage of my son he has some autism too so they confuse him he did false allegations on me because I told his dad he’s not not complying with court he punished me now my son is at age to not come see me but he don’t let me ask him if it’s true isn’t that abuse

@mercenary1881

7 ай бұрын

It's abuse to the child and spousal abuse to you, I would say it's more damaging than physical violence, the lack of no closure and grieving your child everyday. Hardly anyone even thinks it's a thing though

I can tell your a good attorney sir. What is your hourly rate/retainer lol

@lawofficeofkellypeterson6881

Жыл бұрын

Hi John. Please contact me at 801-375-0484, or www.kmpetersonlaw.net if you’d like to schedule a consultation.

I disagree 100% then what are we teaching our children? That bad behavior is ok?? So when they’re older and get into relationships the bad behavior is ok?? The cycle is just repeating itself.