Can I just read this somewhere I cant focus on this robot voice, trying my hardest. Thanks for taking the time to make this though, it helped

Could you possibly share where you got the literature from about narcs being stuck in the P-S position? Thank you!

@NarcissistFreealmost

3 жыл бұрын

"Introduction to the Work of Melanie Klein" by Hanna Segal. "Love, Guilt and Reparation..." Melanie Klein Both good places to start.

@theembodimentproject7171

3 жыл бұрын

@@NarcissistFreealmost thank you! I have the first one but I couldn’t see anything about narcissism...will try the second one!

@NarcissistFreealmost

3 жыл бұрын

Also refer to Masterson for the specific mechanics.

Adoption...please please don’t personalize this as far as adoptive parents are concerned .. I am speaking purely from the new borns experience.. I married 2 men that were adopted.. (not at same time 🤦🏼‍♀️) .. 1 was adopted at 26 days old because they insisted on a Catholic family. The other at 9 days.. every day, every hour is a lifetime for a new born. Unfortunately I believe both were narcissists.. 1 whom I was/am married to for 20 years is without a doubt. :( I feel my first was cerebral overt and 2nd was/is somatic victim malignant covert :( Sadly it appears I have a type.. but I feel those days create the “need” for the split.

@NarcissistFreealmost

4 жыл бұрын

I would never say adoptees are narcissists, all I said was that my first exnarc happened to be adopted. I do not believe there's any correlation. As far as a "type"... I've already been a member of that club, and split a while ago. 👍 Thanks KJ!

@latrinenazi

3 жыл бұрын

The baby does have a "mother" KJM even if it is NOT its real mother or even if it is a Father or a man who is looking after it. Read More Books, including ... THE DEPRESSIVE POSITION, which while writing this, the speaker of this video just mentioned. Have A Nice Day.

@naeemrazaq4882

3 жыл бұрын

I was married to an adopted person. Wonder what happened during his time in the womb as well as his first 5 weeks before his adoption. Religious conflict and no family support in a foreign country. I had no idea what I was letting myself in for.... the fight to get free continues...

@worthlesscrusaderuntilliha6943

3 жыл бұрын

When you know you really don’t,not unless your a psychologist or psychiatrist, this type of person is highly camouflaged and chameleon like in every aspect.

Would be so much nicer to have a real voice.

@NarcissistFreealmost

3 жыл бұрын

I wish I could, but my speech too slurred from a brain injury.

@yassskween9842

Жыл бұрын

@@NarcissistFreealmost I can do voiceovers for you for free. Lmk if you’re interested. I appreciate you sharing your knowledge

Terrible machine voice

@NarcissistFreealmost

3 жыл бұрын

I agree, but it does get a little better.