Overcoming The Rat Race Mentality - Why So Many Of Us Wish Our Life Away
What's it all for? Sometimes we get so caught up in it all that we forget to stop and think about this and decide for ourself.
What's it all for? Sometimes we get so caught up in it all that we forget to stop and think about this and decide for ourself.
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i watch this with great sadness knowing all my peers and family are blinded to the fact that they are living through an image of the future, a concept that only exists in the mind.
@sloppyjonuts9162
4 жыл бұрын
drain ahahhahhhh 2010 I was in high school my mom asked ..what do you plan on doing with your life ?? I said I don’t know be homeless sleep on a bench? Live in my car work when I have to..she smacked me...present day that’s what is happening ..I’m sleeping in my car working a part time job and powerlifting..I plan on going to Florida soon.
@jordangish6579
4 жыл бұрын
@@sloppyjonuts9162 Are you happy ?
@josephinev8140
4 жыл бұрын
@@sloppyjonuts9162 That's really cool
@bruhsoundeffect2882
4 жыл бұрын
@@sloppyjonuts9162 As long as you're happy that's all that matters.
@urthamckenzie4176
3 жыл бұрын
@@sloppyjonuts9162 wow!
I have pondered and have come to one realization - We are all born just to live, not to achieve something beyond ourselves, but to live, to explore, to see, to learn, to experience. The most we can make of our life is to enjoy every bit of it while we can instead of chasing after something that will never end
@ancala4140
2 жыл бұрын
Sound beutiful and soothing 😌
@subhadeeppaul4457
2 жыл бұрын
True. Life is that simple! But everyone is in this rat race to achieve something beyond themselves. Very few people see life as it is.
@mrknarf4438
2 жыл бұрын
I partially agree. I think having a greater goal to strive for can be great, while also enjoying the present. Halfway between today and tomorrow, between here and there, in constant unbalance, as a step taken while walking: that is the most fulfilling human experience, in my opinion.
@baconhair1159
Жыл бұрын
Beautifully said
@Sydr0
Жыл бұрын
I have come to this realisation myself as well. The best thing you can do is to simply enioy life to the fullest as much as you can and not take everything so serious.
We never will make it to the future, it will always be now. So enjoy it
@nathanseegers1711
3 жыл бұрын
True nico wisdom
@AcaJudiJudiJudiJudi
3 жыл бұрын
Live your dash folks.
@ayushmaned1669
Жыл бұрын
Taking notes..
@adammorra3813
Жыл бұрын
Thanks to Covid
Not me. I never wish to grow up when I was a kid. I enjoy it,playing around,running in the fields,bathing in the rain , had a bath in the river. Wandering in the forest. That childhood was so pure.
@andres93b
4 жыл бұрын
You will be or are a nice adult now :D
@b_08_amitkumarsahu90
4 жыл бұрын
I never had that childhood. All I got was assignments from schools😕😕😕it gave me health problems
@juanaceves1488
4 жыл бұрын
Same I never wanted to grow up I knew being a kid was the best thing ever
@rpeshbhujade3974
4 жыл бұрын
Joy Gaudiano you are very grateful to have such a beautiful a childhood, my childhood was difficult schooling just ruined it all nothing great to reminiscing about was all cold empty with some trivial highs in between.☹️
@sujayshah13
4 жыл бұрын
Sams here. I truly enjoyed my childhood and I really miss it, it was so beautiful... I wonder why does anyone want to grow up.
I just feel so lucky to find myself living in a society which values the only thing that matters today above tomorrow: the memes.
@Leto85
5 жыл бұрын
That in itself could become a meme.
@shinchanthebest
4 жыл бұрын
yup same here
@donandremikhaelibarra6421
3 жыл бұрын
Basically,be happy of What u have cuz once Its all gone,u cant get it back
@LX7music
3 жыл бұрын
this made me smile thanks for that :))
@anonymus3219
2 жыл бұрын
inspirational, thank you
The trouble is we need money for everything, and most of us are not born rich! We need passive income to cover at least a basic life. How to do that is the question? It's not easy, but it is possible!
i am glad that the universe and the Divine woke me up at this age. I am 15. I truly believe that i am here for a mission, a mission i do not know yet . Slowly i am evolving into my greater and higher self. In every step of the way They will guide me , revealing my true purpose of this existence. Why do people chase the future. There is no future, it is an idea , it is not real, we only have now. love, claire
We thought of life by analogy with a journey, with a pilgrimage, which had a serious purpose at that end, and the thing was to get to that thing at that end. Success, or whatever it is, or maybe heaven after you’re dead. But we missed the point the whole way along. It was a musical thing, and you were supposed to sing or to dance while the music was being played. - Alan Watts
@bruhsoundeffect2882
4 жыл бұрын
I love Watts :) I'm happy in my younger generation that type of philosophy is making a resurgance right now
@jacobunofficial1146
3 жыл бұрын
@@bruhsoundeffect2882 do you know what book is this from I would like to read it. Thank you.
I'm saving this to my watch later playlist so that when I'm wasting my time going through it, I'll be able to remind myself to fully enjoy the pie that I'm eating before it gets stale and not to eat it all in a hurry in anticipation for the next meal that will never come.
This channel realy changed my way of thinking..it helped me to overcome my depression..THANK U SO MUCH😢!it's just life changing...love the voice behind💙
My Dad has been retired for the last 4 years when he was 60...he's done nothing since. He sits all day in the garden, maybe go for a walk, but mostly just sits in the garden all day listening to the radio. As a 30 year old this terrifies me to the core. My whole life he gave me the traditional blueprint of life go to school, university, career blah blah. But when I see him it makes me feel to jack in everything I have and just go travelling until I die....
@TheDoomWizard
3 жыл бұрын
Hell yes agreed. I'm 31. Go watch my channel.
@lordclansman4205
3 жыл бұрын
He seems to be enjoying himself in a peaceful way, you could learn something from him instead of being scared of how you're gonna end up when you're 60.
@lner4454
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I got an idea for a story.
The irony of the make 'quick cash' or 'upgrade yourself so you can finally start living' ads before and after the clip is so ironic and obtrusive it really gives a stark comparison to the culture we are trying to identify as sickly
this really gets on me.. superb..this is true for all of us.. its a sick society//
@zen.7843
5 жыл бұрын
@Rardd5 uhhhhhh
@stevesetzer3361
5 жыл бұрын
@Rardd5 THis video "proves" it? Society is us.... so, hello satan.
@stevesetzer3361
5 жыл бұрын
@Rardd5 how are you? :-)
@egoicdreamer8808
4 жыл бұрын
So you admit your sick...you of course being one with .....sociaty...universe.when u smile we all smile
@epicsex9072
3 жыл бұрын
Socitey.....
I would say the rat race is not the current paradigm. Instead of rushing from point to point, people have instead frozen at any given point, terrified or unable to go to the next point
@madiemadland5020
8 ай бұрын
More like rushing to wrong direction in mass then giving up.
But finally, what we observe around us is that those who think about the likes of what is mentioned in the video are the ones who end up being sad. Those who are actually part of the rat race and doesn't care to stop and reflect are actually not worried much. And that's the paradox, is what I feel. You end up being sad when you try to dissect and find solutions to reality, while those busy in the flow and not caring about the bird's eye perspective don't give a damn.
@adamnovelli2994
2 жыл бұрын
So true
@ashtynfoley6053
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, yup. Help
@ogeo.8966
2 жыл бұрын
This makes so much sense
@abcdabcdoops
Жыл бұрын
Yep. They will call you negative if you discuss these things.
Your content has been greatly helping w my depression. Respects...
I love what you do! Great job. Keep going. Profound thoughts/concepts communicated in an easy way. Bravo my friend
@PursuitofWonder
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Francisco! That is very much appreciated.
That was the best way to end this video...i gasped with prenewed understanding and deepened appreciation
Roger Waters summed in up beautifully in the song Time...."The time is gone, the song is over, i thought i'd something more to say....."
balance is the key to everything
@kendalls.w.3234
3 жыл бұрын
In which you'd have to own the scale.
@urthamckenzie4176
3 жыл бұрын
@@kendalls.w.3234 hahaha
"Progression, trying new thing evolving and working towards new goals are all great. But when it gets to the point where it prevents us from ever being able to appreciate that this moment right now, is also great, perhaps you have gone to far." Very well said
Slow down, watch what I have done and where I'm at. What is this very moment in my life, I feel I have never been this good ❤️
This message is good, but it can also cut off motivation for many. If you always live in the present, you’ll never seek to improve; if you always live in the future, you’ll never be content. Balance is key 🙏
@jacobjacob4139
3 жыл бұрын
Maybe we don't need to improve because there's nothing to improve, improvement too is an illusion just like the future.
@archravenineteenseventeen
Жыл бұрын
Improve? Improve what? I just simply breathe
@Alex_Sturm
7 ай бұрын
Seriously, improve what?
Eckhart Tolle wrote an amazing book on how to live more in the present...
The last statement made my day ! Thanks for the video !! :-)
Loving this channel more and more❤️
Ha! You showed the Ivywild School in Colorado Springs, Colorado. That place has been turned in to a couple of restaurants/breweries and a social gathering place.
Thank you, this was a nice little reminder to stay present.
There area a lot of reasons but loneliness and the aging process are I think very crucial to this at least to me
I have a big pie when I finished the race and I'm enjoying it now while young and healthy .
I always wondered we are living in 2019, we have every basis facility that we need then what this rush of wanting more things why cant we sit for some time and try to fix our lives.
@havish530
4 жыл бұрын
Oh India 👍👍
@pradipchavan7465
4 жыл бұрын
Yehhh...
Another thought provoking moment thank you!
these thoughts seem wonderful if you are living in a world first country. This approach can't work with developing countries like mine we have to be more subtle in our choices and we may have to make these adjustment in our career just to put food on table
@vasudevsarvam6912
2 жыл бұрын
It's all mindset game. I am also living in India and I am from middle class family but it's all about life choices and correct mindset. Thinking about career is great and vital but overthinking and giving so much value to "what others think of us" is a serious issue.
@samkumar1115
2 жыл бұрын
You are💯 right, in places like India, getting a livelihood in the form of job for a common man is a very very tough and big deal, enjoying the moment is entirely a different thing
I get that, but I gotta get my money up so I don't have to have the 9-5, can do what I want and don't have the burdens of not being financially independent. I'll probably have goals even when I do hit that state, but they'll be on my terms.
Paraphrasing Alan Watts? Good video regardless :)
@PursuitofWonder
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@grahamgarner2318
4 жыл бұрын
I found Alan Watts around 3 years ago and changed my life completely when I found Self.
Why are you going to work? -"to make a living"- So you're maintaining your existence by doing so? -"yes"- So you're doing maintenance? -"uh, yeah"- WHAT ARE YOU MAINTAINING??? ((AND WHY? >>> what's the point? >>> enter existential crisis))
The video is awesome! think about it folk many teenager got into the mafia in their 16 like El Chapo because the were poor - I am poor too I am from Haiti I have had hard time. even though some make money and have fame, but constantly living in danger and unrest they can't even enjoy the properties they own - it the risk worth it?
I love this - clearly inspired by Alan Watts with a fresh spin
So true! Love this 👍
I dint know how to relate with money i dint know how the rich became rich 8 dint know i was gonna build my way to wealth. Until i came across these kinda staff and knew there is a different way to life.its been a year of working towards it and im glad that im quitting my job to go and live. Thanks to university of KZread
Did you guys come up with that quoye at the end, or who came up with it?
Just 4 minutes video but this moved me
There is no Golden Goodie at the end.
The suffering of those who live in First World countries. Woe is them....
Good video, except I think that nomatter how much you want to avoid doing this, it is simply impossible. Maybe we can go like 15-20 minutes at the most. I love Schopenhauer’s essay “On the Vanity of Human Extistence”. Many of the existential philosophers do a good job of identifying these types of things, but then offer a crackpot solution to them. I think the unfortunate truth is that there is no solution.
@JamieDallas
5 жыл бұрын
I think Camus found the solution: "The point is just to live." "I derive from the absurd three consequences: my revolt, my freedom, and my passion."
tl;dw Enjoy the moment, the present moment matters just as much as future moments.
I use this as my life purpose, to live happily and contentedly outside of rat race society. I know many people who feel tired too but they don't have enough courage to resist it, in the end they conform to society's standards.
Very true 👍
The time I work is a complete waste of life as far as I'm concerned. I'm not happy go lucky with this shit. This is why I pursue FIRE and will be done by 35.
@jacobunofficial1146
3 жыл бұрын
What is FIRE?
@mrhat7531
3 жыл бұрын
@@jacobunofficial1146 Financial Independence Retire Early
What was it all for? Simple. It's all for getting married, have children, and supporting your family for our next generations to do the same. It's all for better chance of survival(a.k.a. Life).
I am done explaining this to my mother and brother they just ignore this fact , so I just left them
Progress vs contentment I find these two to be quite the balancing act
This moment is meaningful
Damn u r growing so fast
What a hideous trap we are all in.
@chickedeedee292
3 жыл бұрын
@@Jordan_Dossou I’ll do my time like a prisoner. I won’t be beaten BUT I would have loved the choice. I think you know what the answer would have been. I’m two thirds through by the way, and getting happier as the decades pass. Would have been tolerable if there was not: chronic ill health; mostly poverty; suicide and a few other issues.
Great video.
That's a nice confirmation.
👍
its happening for the experiencer, know your worth if you know your not lying to other beings who might be lying they even keep track
The answer is 42
Yeah!! 'we eat it all along the way'👍👌😊😊
This channel is so fucking great
I really like this video. It's just wish that the images would stop moving so much. Otherwise it was perfect.
Most people surprisingly just think about the present. They cannot project the future, and spend most of their time spending money today instead of saving and investing in tomorrow. There is no need for more present lovers.
Only wars will reset things
Sooooo paraphrased Alan Watts, ‘The Game of Life’ 🤔 still though, good video.
@solen1849
5 жыл бұрын
Oh your so smart wow I want to work to be as smart as you
I want prosperity. And I want it right. fucking. now.
all these vids always point out how stupid society is which is true. but how do u escape the rat race? some say invest others say don't work at all but all these "solutions" aren't easy. I accept the fact that life is more or less a cage where if u dont do what society says u die from hunger etc.
The meaning is obvious but it's not about us (the individual human beings) it's about the humanity itself since the beginning . The history that we learn is not about "us", not about the people as individuals, it's about ALL the Humanity, in this perspective a lot of things become more coherent .
@abcdabcdoops
Жыл бұрын
But humanity will not pay my rent. The struggle is personal and none of us chose to be here and be part of the grind. But I see your point
Great video
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thanks
they've created this boring pattern, and sadly they've called it life
03:50 "we're constantly coming out with new videos" hearing this after the wallace video is ironic
0:09 thats exactly how me playing minecraft feels like
@nixpaFPS
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah then you finish too fast and wish you ddnt.Minecraft is a great exanple of life.
@raduionescuzissibobina3589
4 жыл бұрын
@@nixpaFPS sometimes i am getting bored enought and i use creative mode,somethimes not...
@Nexyps
3 жыл бұрын
@@nixpaFPS Hell yeah
Devaluing ourselves looking for value.
And so... "What's it all about, Alfie?" ... 6/2019
Went skating with a few friends today, met some hobos and nice people - life is nice. I know it's going to turn to shit soon
@solen1849
5 жыл бұрын
It sure will
So true
Greed is the reason. Do not take people's income, and expect them to exist! Everyone who are demons, shut down our channels, feeling the Truth will not get out, but it will be exposed. We can do better, but the end will come, and it will be too late. The poor outnumber the rich. We want incomes and not handouts to pay our bills. 100% employment, if you pay people to work online. A word to the wise is sufficient!
Alan Watts did this way more eloquently
@Deborahstormfoster
3 жыл бұрын
But Alan Watts would have taken an hour today it.
But why do we need to eat the pie?
fuck allat shit imma take my god damn time n if someone gotta problem, they gon have to deal wit it
@deenadream
2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely hate rushing
im 22 and am an engineering major. i think i've made a mistake
@Mosh-f5b
4 жыл бұрын
Do what makes you happy
@Rafael-ly7hr
4 жыл бұрын
mosho sihole the thing is , i don’t know what makes me happy. i just feel content having friends and family , but well i’ve found lately that i have very few friends and i’m 22, at this point in life it’s way harder to find new friends or meet new people. at this point , social circles are set
yes
This video made me want to bake a pie
I'm dying to know who is behind these profound videos. Narrator changed in this one. Confused now
Anyone is from Wiseman practise ?
If we did not have a race, this video would have been what a vagabond we are.
What are the alternatives to the rat race? Becoming homeless?
@terriesmith8219
5 жыл бұрын
The alternative to the rat race is BALANCE!! Why must it always be the extream???
@bobingsonbob8893
5 жыл бұрын
@@terriesmith8219 Exactly. Live your life in the moment, but still use the moment to do things that are good for you and that you find enjoyment in, instead of self destructive behaviors that you use to fill the time between work and sleep.
@casinobeachbum
5 жыл бұрын
Yes, and I became homeless 10 years ago. And jobless. All I do every day is wake up from my tent (usually 3am - 5am), bike to a spot to do yoga, bike to free meals, go to the libraries or community center and use my laptop or phones with free WiFi. Some times when I can summon up the energy I'll bike to the beach 8 miles 1-way, get in the Gulf of Mexico a few hours and bike back. Pensacola, FL. is a great place to do this.
@erikkooy2804
5 жыл бұрын
@@casinobeachbum that sounds like an interesting, but also very tough life. Did you choose to live this way?
@casinobeachbum
5 жыл бұрын
@@erikkooy2804 Yes, I chose it. Mostly at first to spend time studying the Matrix of how our world works. And just be as free as I could figure out to be without alarm clocks, bosses, jobs (others' work), etc. And to do what I wanted to every day before I die. Who knows when that day is coming. Certainly about 30 people from my High School generation, and about 10 - 15 on the streets here in P'cola, FL. didn't know it was coming.
feels bad man
People in first World countries - my life is a complete misery People in third world countries - that's cute
someone tell this guy we work because we have no option not to. we do it to pay bills. not for our amusement. we have no choice.
When you blame society remember you are too a part of the society. ~common sense~
@harshrana3518
3 жыл бұрын
@Edwin Thomas interesting
Originally from Alan Watts: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o3yiq6yedZaycaw.html
Just accept yourself as is. You are the entire universe in fluid motion. Also go watch my channel, I literally just vlogged about this.
I wanna savor that pie
Like the message but the images shaking make me sick watching it.
Thats so self explanatory tho
Nextistentialism