Don’t you just love how Lydia is self aware,articulate and outspoken💜i manifest that kind of self awareness.

@mytinylittlechannel

2 жыл бұрын

Ugh, I love it!

@Bilhagitonga

2 жыл бұрын

100%

@lucymwai7540

2 жыл бұрын

I love love Lyd

@anastyist

2 жыл бұрын

That kind of awareness is achieved through a lot of reading, meditating it can't just be manifested it's work

@edanangila6912

2 жыл бұрын

100%

Co-signing here that Jules needs to bring Lydia on My TLC ❤️

@judymwende8876

2 жыл бұрын

Yeeeeessssss

@mercykeya6158

2 жыл бұрын

Yesssss

@baddiebuddy2484

2 жыл бұрын

Yes please

@seraphinecharlesyoram8943

2 жыл бұрын

Yesssss @Jules

@kezmaina-doktari

2 жыл бұрын

Yes yes

Ivy is very beautiful, intelligent and charismatic. Her sense of fashion is also dope. A great lady she is. ❤❤❤

@akinimueni

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah she always pulls up looking Bomb AF

Gosh I can never get enough of Lydia km .She is a gem for sure.

@mytinylittlechannel

2 жыл бұрын

Me neither!

@florencembaabu

2 жыл бұрын

Very true

@dayba3133

2 жыл бұрын

She is a gem❤️

@katkenziedr

2 жыл бұрын

She’s brilliant!

@ruthnyaks464

2 жыл бұрын

Lydia KM... nakupenda sana..

Lydia is such a deep thinker and analytical ! It's mind blowing 😊

@k3ygvrv

2 жыл бұрын

Guess the fact that she was raised in the UK has a part to play in her being so opinionated. Western world kids are usually so opinionated, i wish that was the same in Kenya

@limukiikamathi8162

2 жыл бұрын

Yes this could be a contributing factor. But I also generally appreciate how she looks at things from different angle/s. Then I am just like woow I didn't even think of this in that way.

@k3ygvrv

2 жыл бұрын

@@limukiikamathi8162 yes, she's a very smart woman as well

@limukiikamathi8162

2 жыл бұрын

@@k3ygvrv Very Self aware and Emotionally intelligent.

@k3ygvrv

2 жыл бұрын

@@limukiikamathi8162 very important qualities...i wish most people would strive to have those qualities, kwanza emotional intelligence and a person who's self aware, that's a very big thing for me!

A jules and lydia collabo is EVERYTHING

@matildakipchumba2946

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@ruthkiruki7333

2 жыл бұрын

Yesssss.....

I feel like Lydia and Joan are soulmates in terms of friendship

@shade_ofnite7autopsychogra411

2 жыл бұрын

They have chemistry kabisa ❤️❤️. You can tell they respect and love eachother and give space for the other. And seeing clearly that they are different individuals. Their essence is oozing support, reciprocity, acknowledgement, acceptance.

When Lydia talks, you listen! Wow just wow

@wanji5851

2 жыл бұрын

Ikr 💕 Lydia for women rep 🙂

Before dumping your stress on your friend, you can check with them if they are in a mental space to be a shoulder to lean on. I have learnt to verbally say when I'm not able to be a shoulder to lean on, but do a follow up when I'm a float

@suheyra5185

2 жыл бұрын

Louder!!!!

@Wahsoep

2 жыл бұрын

This👏👏

I like how Joan displays love to Lydia, a true BFF!

💐 here, LydiaKM, your flowers. You have such a stunning mind, a refreshing, holistic approach to life. Thanks for the collab; two of the best in the game #TMIpodcastKE #Over25 ... keep winning. ✨

Juliaaaaaaaaa! Your honesty about being the single friend puuuuuuulled at my heartstrings. Love you sana ❤️

@brendawafula2549

2 жыл бұрын

You and me both❤️

lydia is different..i like her. over 25 is a whole vibe wote

I looove Ivy 🥰🥰🥰. This is an Ivy appreciation comment😄

@herimaya3466

2 жыл бұрын

I fell in love with Ivy again in this episode..she's such a vybe!!!

@jenwm

2 жыл бұрын

Me tooo 🥰

I would LOVE to see more Over25 × TMI Podcast collabs in the future! 💛

A moment to appreciate Lorna’s fit and hair 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

@lilianotoigo9579

2 жыл бұрын

@@mosesowino7676 hahaa, it had to be a man

@lysahcoast3767

2 жыл бұрын

@@mosesowino7676 How so??

Ivy's energy was all the way at the top!!!!!!

@mollykabuteh7144

2 жыл бұрын

Also, listening to this made me question a lot of dynamics in my friendships...insightful!

I have never had a friend who are on my path and at any point in my life nor do I have a sister . This means I have led a very lonely , friendless life . That’s why over 25 helps me understand that kind of dynamic .

@charityw5260

2 жыл бұрын

I relate 🥹💯

@doreennkunja8215

2 жыл бұрын

@Nancy kahuho💕💕💕

@tokyococo6996

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@loisemburu2970

2 жыл бұрын

❤️

@joeysworldke1542

Жыл бұрын

I can relate

Ivy's Outfittt😍❤️...its alwayss Lydia's self awareness and how she alwayss puts her points across for me😍... I love love listening to herrr!!!

I feel Jules about being the single one in a group of married and partnered friends. I generally pull away from people when I’m struggling with something and find it easy to talk to a therapist. I’m very guarded about opening up to people due to being burnt in previous friendships(and they are very understanding off it). I will show up for friends and if I’m not able to I let them know. 1 or 2 Friendships have also ended as my being single seemed to be an issue. It was the judgement and making it a pity thing and downright being condescending. I had to choose my well-being. It’s ok for a friendship to run its course. I am also very mindful about sharing my wins, I would not want to overwhelm anyone in the event they are not experiencing highs in their lives.

@barnettedavids7653

2 жыл бұрын

You sound like a good friend ❣️

@doreenmollo1889

2 жыл бұрын

me too

@m23120

2 жыл бұрын

I like your mindsets

@brendarutto

Жыл бұрын

Girrrl the last point is so me. I don't overshare my wins because I don't know what my friend(s) is/are going through at that moment. I have always thought I am bad for feeling low when my things are stagnant and my friends are winning (I want them to win, but I also want to win). But this episode has shown me that we are only human. My best friend on the other hand overshares her wins and she knows I am not doing great. It bothers me alot but this is where I clap for her and mute where and when I can to catch a breath.

At this point it's safe to say I'm obsessed with Lydia! So smart, insightful & engaging! Thoroughly enjoyed this episode. Well done!

I like how Ivy notes when someone was saying something but didn’t get a chance to speak

@faithgatwiry

Жыл бұрын

She looks more of an observer than a speaker

Am glad someone touched on this part of friendship. It's something friends don't talk about often

I agree we need to normalize outgrowing some friendships

@winniewangui9661

2 жыл бұрын

Very true

The way Ivy intentively looks at Jules from minutes 12:14 through 12:47, you can tell that there's real love there! This group of friends is iconic, Gosh 💕

I totally relate with Jules, I'm the single friend with friends who are in relationships and they have kids. It's like everything has changed around me and I don't know how to relate with them anymore. Stuck between navigating my life and trying to still be a good supportive friend.

@sheilahrotich5427

2 жыл бұрын

I so much relate to this too

@k3ygvrv

2 жыл бұрын

I really hope and pray that you don't fold to the pressure, take your time and let God do whatever He's doing in your life.

@mytinylittlechannel

2 жыл бұрын

We are in this together Loice

@wanjirumuthee3024

2 жыл бұрын

Me toooo! Atleast I am not alone!

@loicemaswai5795

2 жыл бұрын

​@@k3ygvrv thank you

Lydia is well spoken

Ivy's outfit 😍😍😍.... That first point hit home

The episode I didn't know I needed. So uplifting and assuring. Recently had to let go of my primary and only friend group. As an introvert I struggle but growth must happen. Managing expectations is important and it takes drumming up guts to be alone and be okay. Edify yourself for yourself and new authentic relationships ❤️😎

@daphnekaburara9663

2 жыл бұрын

You can do it,Felix!

Guys, those are 4 Pisces on the show, Shikie, Murugi, Lydia, and Julez all born in March. 😂😂😂 Forgive me but I had to point it out coz I'm a Pisces too and I did not remember when they featured on TMI last week. I love these ladies. Over 25 and TMI are changing the game and I am here for it. And yes I mute people, friends all the time for me.

My fave Lydia KM 🙌🏿🙌🏿 "No one has greater love [nor stronger commitment] than to lay down his own life for his friends. John 15:13 AMP

I was referred to this video by one of my friends and Ladiessss!!!I feel like I just had a big sister talk with y'all😭😭❤❤thank you for suffocating us with knowledge and wisdom!!

I'm in the mute & clap stage. I make a point to have a bouquet of flowers delivered to congratulate that friend when she's winning then I step back into my own timeline.

Make this a series. The shoe game doesn't disappoint

I love how I wake up and the episode is already up.. perfect way to start a Monday

What a lovely intro/outro from Ivy. Lydia you are such a powerhouse, I could listen to your ideas all day.

Ivy,s energy is back💣, hope your feeling better 🥰❤🤍

@KenyanAtHeart

2 жыл бұрын

Yes....love to see it!❤️

A moment for Lornzie"s fit and hair...isn"t she just gorgeous

Love the Topic: Start of this year I had a friend and I used to feel overwhelmed by her and her constant issues. I was not able to be the friend she needed because I was going through so Much at that particular time. And when I communicated the friendship boundaries she ended up cutting me off completely. Let's just say I hope she's doing Fine.

@barnettedavids7653

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you healed from the break up ❣️

@_pjnkirote

2 жыл бұрын

Don't worry,me too... And as much as I miss their vibrant selves, I honestly think it was time to let go and the relationship wasn't doing it for me anymore 🤷🏽‍♀️❤️

@esthermutahi2811

2 жыл бұрын

@@barnettedavids7653 Working progress

@esthermutahi2811

2 жыл бұрын

@@_pjnkirote Adults are just selfish that's the best way to describe this.

@antonettewambani805

2 жыл бұрын

Imagine you will be fine , you may end up reconnecting if it's meant to be and even if that's not the case you will heal. Though in my personal experience breaking up with a friend is even worse than a romantic relationship

I clicked on this to play on the background as I finished up a few tasks and in no time I had everything else on pause and was fully engrossed. Lydia just stole the show, she is articulate, self aware and beautiful.

Ladies y’all loooking AMAZING 😍🔥 Totally relate with Jules on the first point,it’s hard relating with friends who are on a different journey buh you have to make the conscious decision for it not to trigger you.Everyone’s journey is different,clap for your friends as you wait for your turn💜

Aki Lydia’s make up😍😍😍….actually Lydia’s whole face❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽

Lydia is just smart and so beautiful… her responses are very rich and thoughtful

@nzisaa

2 жыл бұрын

She sure is! I'm so in love with the person she is!

The first point made me cry. I am in that point of muting my friends and clapping for them. Sooo confusing stage!

@stellahwanyoike7865

2 жыл бұрын

SORRY

@mytinylittlechannel

2 жыл бұрын

@judymwende8876

2 жыл бұрын

Hugs ♥️

@dianamusita8981

2 жыл бұрын

Hugs

@JoanneCheptoo

2 жыл бұрын

Hang in there ❤🫂

My favs in one video....!!!!😃😃😃 Also can we appreciate how amazing these ladies look!!!

Communication in TMI and over 25 is goals. Love how you guys listen to each other, try to see the other person's perspective even when you disagree. 😍

Rewatching this episode leo... lol... yaani mlishoot a whole episode bila maji ama wine??? 😅😅😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣

Imagine Over 25 and TMI collab...chills...I def need popcorns

I love this collabo this conversation is very important now I'm okay with some of the decisions I've had to make recently considering where the friendship was taking me, having Lydia as a friend is a blessing she seems to be more understanding than judgemental which I really appreciate and it's rare to find.

Do this more often your energies wow...love all you gals

I thoroughly enjoyed this . Classy Women, together , with mature conversations is just what Kenya needs 😌❤️.

Another banger 😃 Lyd is my other half for sure and you lovelies are loveling🤩❤️ Healthy friendships and boundaries have to go hand in hand, I learned that much since I’m a therapist and an introvert like Shikie and I tend to take on too much but I learnt to not do that such that I’m left empty. Self care is important and you can’t be a good friend if your house is on fire sweethearts

These are the raw &authentic conversations that both women & men need to have more often in order to elevate as an individual/relationship/ partnership to greater levels.

So happy this happened, Jules thanks for talking about friendship breakups

Always looking forward to watching y'all❤

This is a great episode! Lydia really was so good today, loved all her thinking 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Guys u have just hit my mind mostly in the part of business support. When I started my business I expected my first clients to be my friends but none actually did. I felt bad but later on I just realized is good to know ur friends can support u in different ways. When they post my work I feel so great deep in side also when they tell me u can use this page of this person can help you get client. You guys also inspire me all the way around. Love for you TML and over 25 ❤️💋

All my favorite women together, thanks for the insights, love you ❣️

Goodness Gracious! this show is the gift that keeps on giving with the TMI duo being the cherry on the already delicious sundae. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ the topic but most especially the part where in any given r/s, pple should clearly communicate what they expect/need/want from each other(realistically). Your friends are not clairvoyant nor are u, to expect pple to know what you want without telling them,so Speak It! The part abt the transitioning & navigating the muddy waters of friends/business, that happens alot even amongst siblings who own communal property. The first rule of thumb is knowing when to switch out ya sibling hat & pick up the business partner hat...if u can't do that,that's how family businesses end up crumbling. Thanks beautiful ladies, we enjoy u immensely. Watching Lydia listen so intently as someone speaks is beautiful.

The chemistry in your friendships is admirable

I already need a part two this conversation! Enjoyed listening to you ladies 🤎

Awww Shikie with the Parisian vibes. Ladies looking beautiful 😍

Ivy did a good job facilitating the discussion...and I like how she let everyone articulate their views/points.

I really loved this collab I watch both channels and just to find y'all in one place was just fire!!!!! this must be done again! love from London

Finally, a highlight on friendship break ups👍🏾. It was so eye opening.

I love the kind of friendship you guys have. May you treasure it and guard it. You are blessed to have each other.

I love this conversation. It’s truly important to have candid and honest conversations in friendships

@Davones_lifestyle

2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful conversations.You are shaping a generation ladies

Aririri🎉🎉 finallyyy Queens👸🏿 collabo #Over25 meets #TMI 💃🏿. Candidness💯 , good vibes🔥🔥💖. I relate to Jules❤️. Monday made brighter🌞. Warudi tena👏🏾👏🏾.

deep conversations here. amazing. honesty is the key with friendships or relationships in general. friendships tend to die naturally when there is no more depth to it.

I could listen to Lydia the whole day mahn! Love this gurl

I need a friend that looks at me like Joan😊

Vibes on vibes, this really lifted up my energy levels today🔥🔥🔥

I thoroughly enjoyed this! You guys have some great chemistry and one can listen to you for hours without realizing that time has flown. Great job and great collaboration ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.

I loveeee you gals..... Big up darlings 😘😍

Wow❤️love this conservation. You guys are just amazing. Love you😘

Loved it so much! Over 25 and TMI Podcast are the perfect duo!

I love how Jules thinks about things before saying

This was so refreshing!!! Definitely want to see this collaboration again 😊

I just love Joan her radiance,confidence could be seen right from her presence ❤

absolutely loved the conversation! so insightful, and a lot to take home. Kudos!

I love Lydia energy and Jules❤yall ladies are looking gooood❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

I love Lornzie's style. I keep staring at her outfit!! Love Love.

Just love you over 25 and TMI you're all such a vibe . You just make my Monday ✨😘🥰

Great conversation! You should definitely have a series for this particular collaboration.

Loved it so much! Being in the diaspora, one thing I miss is friendships I had in Kenya. They were so authentic

@jamesmwangi7710

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. How are you? Where exactly are you in diaspora?

@KeziahMuthoni

2 жыл бұрын

Me too!! Diaspora sucks in the social scene.

@jamesmwangi7710

2 жыл бұрын

@@KeziahMuthoni what do you do over there

@clauza03

Жыл бұрын

So true!

Mimi I am just here to watch this for the second time. Also, lyd I can't get enough of you. You guys impact us more than you actually know😭😭

It's always great watching every episode. I love your confidence and friendships.

This conversation was awesome! I love how I get to learn something every week, from this channel!👏

Lydia Km blows my mind each time she speaks!!!!

LOVE your energy Ivy❤️❤️❤️...Loved the conversation!

Your episodes are very much like a refreshing cup of coffee on a cold day 🥴 thanks for these conversations ladies, lots of us are growing through your experiences and the lessons you share. Lydia and Murugi fit in perfectly in this quad squad, love love their insights 💯 #Over25totheworld #TMItotheworld #overloadofsubscribers

OMG. Joanne that is my exact position I am in right now. It’s like my friendship is connected with knowing I will never disappoint with loaning money!!!

I'm always too busy but never the day I miss out on your episode You're amazing souls. Watching from Geneva

I loved every bit of the conversation ... Beautiful, intelligent women ❤❤❤!

I love you all. Oh the content is oooooh sooo lovely, relatable and authentic.

Powerful and mind opening content as always. I'm glad you decided to have this conversation especially about how to be the friend during different levels.

The collab that we all needed!!! I love it ❤️

My favourite duo ❤️ I feel like screaming. My favourite big sisters

Really enjoyed this!!! soo,vocal and full of wisdom😍😍😍 much needed this

Wa Wa Wa! Ladies haki the gems you have dropped. especially during transition in adult friendships and setting those boundaries, mainly speaking on different tatse as we grow. Speaking and voicing expectations #WOW uuuu chillle