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@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

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@fin-rb3yz

Жыл бұрын

Your husband is VERY scary....make sure you keep tabs on him...make sure he is not a serial killer or child molester....

@milcahkabiru2818

Жыл бұрын

​@@attilacsipkes4210 ❤❤ XXXL

For Africans, dowry is very important..if you’re dating someone from a different race, you just have to explain why it’s important and come to an agreement ❤

@kaninamargaret8025

Жыл бұрын

NOT TO ALL FAMILY

@sonialewis321

Жыл бұрын

It depends my dear

@kaninamargaret8025

Жыл бұрын

@@sonialewis321 THAT’S WAY!!! THE WHITE PEOPLE THEY DON’T HAVE THIS CULTURE. AM BEST A MAN FROM YOUR CULTURE!!

@gloriabowie5629

Жыл бұрын

When couples are starting off, they need all the money they can get, in America the father of the bride pays for the wedding, if parents can’t afford it they pay for the wedding themselves, the man takes care of the woman so no money is needed to be given to the parents.

@kaninamargaret8025

Жыл бұрын

@@gloriabowie5629 EXACTLY

I am American, and my fiancée is Ugandan. I had no problem with paying the bride price. What confused me was how much to offer her father. The only advice my fiancée could offer was "it comes from your heart". OK but still I need to know some average figure. US$500? US$5000? How much??? After much internet research, I finally found that the average bride price is 10M Ugandan shillings (about US$2700). This was offered, and accepted, plus various farm animals and a satellite TV set.

@simplelifestyl9021

Жыл бұрын

Wow

@nabbumbadoreen8649

Жыл бұрын

U paid that because u could afford it but in Uganda u give any thing u have in terms of money but the main issue coz some even ask for the Bible or QURAN and that is for the father only but the cattles are also a must for serving the community and then the TV and others for the mother to share with her friends

@julietlubega9492

Жыл бұрын

@@nabbumbadoreen8649 but not all Ugandan tribes do dowry and you should know that

@majestymaurice3239

Жыл бұрын

I'm Ugandan but I'm not gonna comment anything on this, this dowry thing depends on the family you're marrying into. It's not fixed by culture or tradition. Yes,it's respectable if bride price is paid, but "how much" varies from family to family. Period

@ladyjuiceykitchen8096

Жыл бұрын

I only know Indian whom the woman pay

It is biblical.. He who finds a wife, finds a treasure.. there are no wirthless treasures.. Men, pay your bride price❤

@lifewithveronicah

Жыл бұрын

Doesn’t work like that

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

With the biggest respect dear Monica. Isaac were staying 14 years with his father-in-law for the younger daughter, and another 6 years for the brought goods. The father didnt want his daughter to leave, after he loved Isaac and he didnt want him to leave either, thats why he set up strict rules. If you want to take an example from the Bible, this is amongst the most popular ``stories`` and it contains both cultures. Man-made culture. Not God-made. Apart from the story, yes i treasure my Wife, like i said Her value cannot be measured in worldly materials. Thank you for your comment, God bless you.

@tuforu4

Жыл бұрын

You GENIUS I BET AND WELL TRAVELLED

Atti it's not buying a lady but giving a token to her parents for appreciation

In my country Jamaica 🇯🇲 we do not have a Dowry process we take care of the wedding and family can help but the man takes care of the family. Now that both parties are in the working world the man is still the dominant supporter and the woman helps however even that is shifting as the women are more prevalent in the workforce

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing.

From my country BOTSWANA🇧🇼 its the same as KENYA, the groom pays dowry to my parents as appreciation

In africa if you didnt pay bride price they think its a disrespect to your inlaws .its a part of appreciation to your inlaws.thats our culture as africans.if you didnt that women will never be happy in her entenal life😢😢

Am also shocked because in my country Uganda is the Man who needs to pay the dowry for a woman thanking the parents of being raised her because if a woman pays the dowry it shows that she is the one who marries a Man

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. God bless you.

Good insight! In Africa if you don't provide dowry the family of the gal will never attach value to you the man (,bridegroom) taking their daughter. Embrace that if you need your wife not to feel out of place whenever she's among her own people and for you as a man to be respected in her family. There is no debate on this or else she'll always be considered as one who went through the ventilator instead of rightly walking through the front door into the man's house. That's said, it was nice you both came to an agreement and are now happily married, congratulations!!

Hey Liz, thanks for sharing yes in Kenya that’s what many cultures do.

Such an educational topic....I love it because all people need to learn and respect other people's culture. I am from an island in the Caribbean and we don't have dowry but the women's parents are expected to pay for the wedding process such as the dress, the food, the presentation for the party and the man is expected to provide and safeguard his wife and future family. I think it's wonderful when both parties are from 2 different cultures it's a great learning experience .In my eyes you both are the best youtube couple dowry or no dowry you will always have my vote on whatever decision you make 👍🏾 Liz and Atti you are the best....lots of Love for both of you from Bronx, NY

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and supporting us! It is good to learn that not every African countries are the same in the dowry question.

@jenniferakali8408

Жыл бұрын

​@@attilacsipkes4210 I know more of bride price than dowry.

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 💕💕💕

@serahwairimu4699

Жыл бұрын

I have always desired to date a white guy but can't imagine my family paying the dowry whereas in Kenya it's the man who is supposed to pay dowry

@beatricekasudi4743

Жыл бұрын

@@serahwairimu4699 hahaha mbavu zangu

Atti & Liz, Blessings to both I am from Panama🇵🇦 Central and South America. We don’t have dowry in my country but the bride parents are responsible for all the wedding expenses. ❤️🙏🏾🇵🇦

Very educational to many of us I must admit. You guys are just blessed to be together because of you'll beautiful souls and that's my take. Love you guys❤❤❤

Atti please follow kenyan culture pay dowry to my sister don't ignore

My husband is white, from Ireland, he is Irish but he paid dowry, m from South Africa, we call it lobola, is all about uniting the two families and follow the culture, Attie needs to understand the culture differences

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

As Atti needs to understand my culture, its fair that we also understand his❤️all cultures are equally important, we cant dismiss another person's culture just cos we feel ours is the right one, thats why both sides need to find a mutual fair solution ❤️😍😍😍

@Light_Of_God_

Жыл бұрын

@@liz_atti exactly, I just love you both, God bless you always

It's a way of appreciation and respect to the family of the gal

Am a Kenyan married to an American,my kikuyu tradition there’s no exact figure,you can give what you have it’s just appreciating and getting blessings from the parents

@esternakisa4963

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

😍❤️

@duniainamambotv.worldhasissues

Жыл бұрын

U cheating people here tell truth

@tuforu4

Жыл бұрын

KIKUYU are SCAREY DANGER.

@janewajenefa

8 ай бұрын

That's a lie!

In Nigeria, the husband pays the dowry and also takes responsibility for wedding preparations and also buys clothes and shoes for the bride

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing Helen.

@twesigyerosemaryblessings6342

Жыл бұрын

Oh yes Helen , the same from my country RWANDA 🇷🇼🇷🇼!

@fin-rb3yz

Жыл бұрын

thats why i love nigeria....you dont tolerate nonsense....

@marywaithira6428

Жыл бұрын

Same to my tribe here in Kenya

@shalonshantel9525

Жыл бұрын

It's the same as in Uganda 🇺🇬

Nakuelewa vizuri sana Lizz

Atti good for you because now I think other cultures shouldn't always expect others to follow their culture but not yours, maybe after seeing your video they won't just accept without meeting each other half way. I'm originally from Caribbean, Jamaica, now in the UK, and our culture is the brides parents and bride who plan and pay for the wedding.

@gloriabowie5629

Жыл бұрын

Amen, it’s 2023

Liz and Atti I love you both and I pray Almighty God will bless and strengthen your bond for life...

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Amen🙏🏽🙏🏽

Yes, in Kenya it involves a lot including, education, age, purity. If the girl is more educated it’s more dowry the man pays, as well as if the girl is a virgin and never been married before it’s more dowry for the man to pay. It’s also more dowry if the bride is getting married with no children out of wedlock. Traditionally it’s also considered how well a girl could cook. The man is the one who pays for dowry and most of the wedding expenses, but sometimes both sides of the family form wedding committees between friends and family to help raise funds for the wedding . A man who do not pay dowry in some communities is sometimes disrespected, not considered man enough and May sometimes not even allowed to bury the wife incase she dies. Sometimes the man may not be fully considered as married if no dowry is paid and sometimes the parents of the girl can decide to stop the wedding when the buns are read in church due to lack of dowry payment. In most African communities Dowry is considered to strengthen the relationship between both families and an appreciation to the girl’s parents for raising a wife to the man, coz they consider the wife will be taking care of the man, cook for him, bear children and be a support to the man. To earn your respect as a man, getting married to an African woman, better pay that dowry😂 traditionally paid in cows, goats, gifts.

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

I love love how you explained in depth 😍 thank you so much for taking time to educate us..lots of love🥰🥰🥰

Am a South African, Ndebele culture. Same as Liz, but when coming to wedding, we value our traditional wedding, where groom has to marry a bride according to our custom slaughtering of cows done at bride home, exchanging cows and using cows bladder to unites our ancestors of both families. White wedding can follow just to celebrate with friends but traditionally wedding is very important to our culture and exchanging of gifts (umembeso) in our language

This was a very nice and important topic because most people don't actually know the essence of dowry payment. Most people think that it's a way of buying the other person, which is actually not that. I loved listening to both of your reactions

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much❤️❤️

Love the discussion and the information given re the culture difference between the two countries

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

It is interesting indeed.

Nice topic , happy everything is well . God blessings n love to you guys

Liz you are very right that is African culture even in Nigeria

From my country RWANDA 🇷🇼, before your wedding , you first go to the girl parent to pay Dowry, then after you go for wedding!!!

Glad you guys worked it out. Love conquers all

Honestly Atti. Every word you speak is with so much Humility. You make me fall in love again in full swing. May the good Lord God be with you always.you just said she is worth so much wow wow

Thanks for the good topic coz we need to learn more about different cultures,for us in Uganda,men are the ones supposed to pay dowry not women

May God make it easy for both of you 🙏 love you guys. I can't miss out on good content from u

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

God bless you.

Great and insightful topic Liz and Attie. Love you guys. In Zimbabwe the guy pays bride pride - cash and cows. The bride prize is not a once off payment though.

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much

Thank you for sharing. This topic is important for everyone to know about multi cultural marriage.💕

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

💕💕

Beautiful couple 💞 May God give both families the understanding to successfull complete the dowry process I had also a white man and this dowry negotiation with him was not good Thanks Atti and Liz for bringing this topic

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

🙏🏿❤️❤️ i hope you both find mutual understanding 😍

What a lesson, thank you for sharing Liz Culture . I'm also going to change the girl to take my son will have to give me cows Liz😁. Thank you Liz and Otti for sharing it's a very good lesson to learn thank you. Love you lots beautiful.

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

I also want cows for our future daughters lol🤣

Good topic my darling.If m not mistaken almost all the African countries the part of paying the dowry is everywhere and important to our parents.Its a sign of thanking them for raising us haaibo mukhuwa

Woooow I love the narration... At the beginning... Good job mummy

@rosemuema3850

Жыл бұрын

Malika is here👏👏

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Beautiful ❤️❤️

In Ghana , is the man who pays dowry. And the bride and her family provides necessary things for the ceremony. The bridegroom can also help the bride for necessary things they may need. This was how I did mine in 25 years ago🙏🏽

Thank you for bringing up this important topic , Ati explained it so well, Gracias! Yes many western from countries find "dowry payment" shocking. Some even say it's a costly process to marry an African woman but I love what Ati said, " It's a token of Appreciation, her value can't be measured ..... It's vital that we make them understand

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Very true

may God give you both strength 🎉to understand those things

I'm from Tanzania 🇹🇿, in swahili we call MAHARI is a man supposed to pay to the woman family. All the best

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Thank you😍

In my culture,the bride family, pay for the wedding. I'm from USA 🇺🇸. Love the video,learning about the culture.

In Nigeria the man pays the dowry as appreciation to the lady’s family for raising their daughter well, and to show he can take good care of her in his home.

Wow this is quite educative.... culture integration is beautiful...

🤔🤔hmmm 🤔🤔maybe when you blend cultures compromising has to come into play🤷🏽‍♀️hard to follow both sides🤷🏽‍♀️ deciding as a couple what you will follow and not follow in your home🤦🏽‍♀️**exactly Atti>finding a mutual way!

Lizzi im from Zimbabwe yes the man is the one to pay my Dwory to my family❤

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

We are Zimbabweans too 😃❤☮

@thandocmabena9317

Жыл бұрын

Oh wow nice

@alicebowen1018

Жыл бұрын

Yes in my family this is true

@ethelsibanda

Жыл бұрын

I love you my fellow Zimbabweans

I think that DOWRY is CRAZY and i DONT believe in it coz its like buying someone.I have never had one and i never want one,although im married to a sweddish man.Ofcoz me and him have assisted my Kenyan family alot financially with building nice homes,buying cars, opening diff.bussinesses for them BUT i said capital NO to DOWARY discussions!

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

This is an interesting point of view from a kenyan, thank you for sharing,God bless you.

@nck2310

Жыл бұрын

@@attilacsipkes4210 Thanks.

@lucywanjikumandziuk1611

Жыл бұрын

I'm married to a German and they don't know dowry and I tried to explain to him he got so mad that my family want to sell to him a lady so I didn't pay but we have also done alot for my family

@lucywanjikumandziuk1611

Жыл бұрын

There is no dowry in Europe. I'm married in Germany n my daughter in Netherlands n there is no dowry at all but I'm planning to pay my own dowry to my family

@jackiechebet1661

Жыл бұрын

This is my school of thought too

Yeah, I agree with both of you since I’m in one. But good thing is in the end there’ll be compromise ❤

@katushabeallen9581

Жыл бұрын

Sheryl please i need a white man

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Very true ❤️

Hey Liz would you mind sharing products you use for your face .... please you can do even tutorial for me please....

Both of you are beautiful people. My daughter is American and married a Brazilian man. There was no expectation of a dowry on either side. May God bless your marriage.

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, God bless you.

@katelynnhopkins9309

Жыл бұрын

@@attilacsipkes4210 ♥️♥️♥️

But not all Europeans do that since my younger son sister got married in 2010, in Eldoret town since they met each other in the town. It's the family from Australia who paid the dowry.

Thank you for bringing up this important information. Dowry is normally a clash even in our own country(between our own communities) would speak about Kenya coz am Kenyan but negotiating and understanding each other's culture Makes it's easier and amgla that you passed this

@normalynmasters9659

Жыл бұрын

Love this topic I am from Jamaica living in the United States watch you guys but never comment but this one Everyone should pay attention and listen in Jamaica too partner come both sides together give preparation gifts both mother father family's friends let me say love you have for each other and and the life you all live in the community and in the world and remember put God first you can't go wrong pray blessing on you both love

@rizzieangote36

Жыл бұрын

@@normalynmasters9659 wow good information right there

Thank goodness that’s not the case in my side of world !! Uk , Caribbean, America!! Imagine in this hard times having to pay the family to get married !! Wow !! It’s the husband and wife pays for everything 😅 probably of you have a rich father in law or father he’ll probably give some money !! 🇹🇹🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

Wow ❤You are blessed Liz and Atti,I understand how it can be devastating,that was our case but my hubby had to understand and paid dowry because that is our culture.Anyways all the best good people ❤

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

😍😍😍

Well explained . Very inspiring to all intending to go interracial marriage.

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

😍

My culture is similar as Liz it's not about selling but makingva relationships to both families. Paying a dowry basically thanking bride family for raising a beautiful daughter and appreciation the beauty, Am a South African Ndebele culture, inbour culture when you marry a bride they are protocol to be followed by groom family since they are the ones who saw a beautiful flower. For examples changing gift (umembeso) where both families slaughter cows same day and exchange half of the cow to each family and both bride and groom binds by cows gall bladder that we called traditionally wedding and its the best Ndebele wedding, white wedding can follow just to celebrate with friends. Love my culture very much

In Uganda its different my dear whether educated or not dowry depends on a man's potential if he has a lot of money he can pay everything he can 😅

@duniainamambotv.worldhasissues

Жыл бұрын

Same with Luo

We respect our cultures but dowry will never be enough or you cant equit it with the worth of an individual. It has become like a point of exhortation by some families especially relatives 😅😅. IN SHORT IT SHOULD BE A FORM OF APPRECIATION!

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your opinion, God bless you.

Even me here am having issues with my man about dowry. He is American. I wish u guys a happy future and many children

Very informative. I agree it is a topic of much importance between multicultural couples. Being from the Caribbean, and as far as I know (please don't come get me if I am wrong, just saying what I know of), the wife's family is responsible for her and all things related to the wedding. From that day forward, the man "takes over" the support and care of the woman. Nowadays, most couples are both working, maybe even living on their own, some get married much later even, and parents (guardians) may not be around. Adult children move away from home to another country and settle there. In these cases the couple may set up their own funds to have their wedding (again, this is how I know and understand it, not negating the fact that other cultural differences exist). I have heard of dowry but never knew the process. As much as Atti didn't get into details as such, it was still clearer how that goes. I think it lovely either way, just respect as you both keep saying, and knowing before hand to avoid the shock and possible interpretation form the other party that you are in disagreement or even dispise their culture. So happy to see you all, esp Atti who has been missing in action for some time. ❤🇹🇹❤️

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your culture with us❤️❤️

In Interracial marriages compromise has to be found in the cultural practices Meet in the middle

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree on that. God bless you.

To solve the problems let both families come together and pay, he has is culture he believes in & you have you culture you believe in just saying.

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

They came to a fair agreement 😍

I can say Dowry is very important for the African culture and yes you should also go with there culture mummy....I love the fact that you all positive about it❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Thank you hun❤️❤️

You are correct I'm from Jamaica parents of the bride paided and you work as a team 😮😊

Not buying please, is more respect from family.

In my culture after the groom pay lobola, the bride family must buy presents and bedroom suit for a bride and cutlery, dishes,blankets to their daughter and grooms family but you give gift in your wedding day to the grooms family .I love u guys frm south Africa 🇿🇦 ❤ ♥

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

So your culture includes both? Wow, thanks for sharing. God bless you.

@lifegood8665

Жыл бұрын

It's like our culture

First to comment yaaay!! Lots of love from Ghana🇬🇭to you two💯❤❤❤

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

God bless you our sister!

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Lots of love ❤️

Waow this very educative Lizz n Atti. I love you so much ❣️🥰. Looking forward to next video

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Love you Princess 🥺❤️

In South Africa Zulu's and Swazi's a groom pays dowry ( lobola) to the bride's family.When they are married they are supposed to work and maintain their family ( kids) both of them.

More advice from lev,lucy natasha his husband papa camel from India also the girl supposed to pay dowry, also from kikuyu culture the man is tha one supposed to pay dowry, more advice from them

It shall be well dear trust God he knows the process 🙏

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

Amen! God bless you!

I am so blessed that I live in the USA. My husband and I pay for our wedding. Didn't need our parents to do it.

I strongly suggest that Atti should pick up some overtime shifts and come up with about $2,500 to $3,000 and take it to Liz's family. It won't hurt you nor diminish you. Some of these things have mystical power in them. Though you claim that you all came to a compromise, I'm 100% sure that there are significant people in Liz's family who are unhappy with the purported deal that you all made. When you love your wife be ready to go above and beyond to do such things for her. It won't change you brother man. In this same culture sometimes the woman earns way more than the man but the man must respect the culture. I have witnessed a case where the couple faced a misfortune, a very severe mishap.

There is no dowry in the western world or in the Caribbean, but the wife's family usually with the help of other friends and loved ones come together to do the wedding and to help to take care of all the important things pertaining to the wedding and the bridal shower and gifts that the bride and groom will need after they move into their home. Sometimes at home can be bought for them or they just rent an apartment or by an apartment but it's furnished partially with gifts that are given to the couple that they would need from friends and family and loved ones, like are fryer, blender mixer bedsheets bed-in-a-bag sets sent this household things, even furniture it depends on what one wants to give them as a gift to speed them on their journey in marriage. And the men can also help with the expenses or even shoulder the expenses if he wants to but when they come together as a couple to plan the wedding they make the decisions as to what they want to do and how much they want to spend and it's between the man and the woman to be married and then they get the family involved. I can understand the situation if an American or Westerner is marrying someone from Africa then they might get the dowry involved, but I believe that African culture should stick to Africa, and if you're marrying in the western world and you don't have to do Dowry. I have African friends from different parts of Africa that got married in the US and didn't do Dowry because it's not an American thing.

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the insight🙏🏿❤️ yes both need to find a common ground favourable for them❤️

Hapa America hakuna hata Hiyo dowry thing wazungu wa huku hawatambui hiyo

@gracewehrle6813

Жыл бұрын

Mimi niliambiwa nisitanje hiyo kitu 😢😅

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

🤣

Am also shocked with the Hungarian culture,😮😮😮

@liserorose4713

Жыл бұрын

Good to see you Anne and Johannesen here.

Oh my God mm sijai ona kamahiyo

I am a Jamaican it the womans family who finance the wedding not the man

@attilacsipkes4210

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing Caribbean traditions.God bless you.

This is Africa ways for the man to provide for his new wife to be and it's man taking a responsibility to provide for the girl in order for Atti to get married

Hi baby girl nice to meet you am always following you am from Uganda. I may like to ask did vist Uganda cause it like I saw you at busowookofalls with your friends 😊

We don't have pay dowry in Europe. I think it hapens only in Africa. In Portugal we don't have to pay dowry to the brides parents.

I really don't think being interracial has anything to do with dowry. In America, traditionally, the bride's family pays for the wedding. I think dowry exist in American culture. You guys are an awesome couple. This is the first step to working things out in your relationship. God bless you. I pray for the day you can live together as husband and wife.

@shirublessed1024

Жыл бұрын

Don't say its not a big issue for sure it is.I think if an African man marries a white woman then the brides family pay the dowry then its posible for our African men to think that they were married by the bride instead of them marrying the bride and I think may be they will not take marriage serious and will be reluctant to their duties as providers.its confusing somehow🤔

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Amen! Thank you so much!

That was wisdom, respecting both cultures and meeting in the middle instead of creating conflict ❤. Wishing you a beautiful marriage

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much

I come from the western part of Uganda,we HV wat we call okugaba obugyenyi(first visit)in this first visit he comes wiz a few members esp men to ask the gals family to give their daughter for marriage on the same day that's wen thy negotiate about the dowry en the date thy will come back to bring it wc we refer as kuhingira(introduction) ,on this day that's wen de gal shows other family members en friends her husband to be,all in all it's the men who pay dowry,then on the wedding day that wen the gals parents gift her home equipments if I can say e.g bed mattress, utensils,land title if thy a rich etc 😂for starting a family en that's wat I think ur husband culture refer as board goods ,so long I wish KZread gives us a voice option too ,much love en support from Uganda ❤

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for educating us on your culture 😍

liz bro wa uyu ako wapi???,,, the way anakuexplain weeeeh

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

🥺melted my heart

Hohoho,woohoo,I pray to mine doesn't refuse.

Liz girl, I love you, but it's not about how educated a girl is that shows how valuable a girl is to the husband matters dowry, a woman's value is so diverse and can't be pegged on education and that's why a man will choose a less educated woman over the other

@liz_atti

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🙏🏽❤️❤️

@MamaTEL

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It's true the more a lady is educated the more dowry you pay, and the less educated a woman is the less the dowry..Highly educated men go for highly educated women.. because they meet maybe in college or at work..it's very unlikely for highly educated man to marry a less educated woman

@janehoe6681

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In America which is the west we don’t pay dowry. Never heard of. Only in Africa. The man takes care of his wife.

@gloriabowie5629

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@@janehoe6681 Amen

we sema kuandika kwa karatasi kizungu haitaki mchezo.mkianza kuclash hivi woiii chesoo

@eleainehurd7763

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I'M from Jamaica living in England we don't have downy both parties contribute to the wedding

In my culture as South African (Xhosa culture) The family of the groom is the one that pays the bride’s price and then after the bride’s price has been payed, the family of the bride buys gifts (furniture for the bride and the groom) for the groom’s family (blankets and groceries)

@liz_atti

Жыл бұрын

Very fair😍

As Christians we forsake our cultures and go with what the bible says and build your life's on it. Then move forward...🙏

The intro is dope love love it 😍

@liz_atti

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Thank you Hun 💕💕

@Browniecarole254

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@@liz_atti shika simu wewe

Where did you meet?

Yes like Liz explained dowry is paid by the groom to be family and this biblical too,when Abraham's servant was going to find wife for Isaac his master gave him gold ornaments and clothing,to be given to Rebecca's family and Rebecca too after agreeing to go with the servant to marry Isaac. Liz and Atti are so understanding of each other's culture respect each other's feelings, Atti's a great husband, who said his wife's worth can't be quantified,may God bless your union and bond you more divinely with eternity in view 🙏 ❤❤💙💙🤍🤍🌹🌹💜💜🔥🔥🙏.

@liz_atti

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Thank you so much for this beautiful comment ❤️❤️❤️❤️

🎉From Namibia 🇳🇦 you can pay every thing for your bride is a must

Have never had of a lady paying dowry my God

@liz_atti

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🤭 also in India its like that

😂 mine the man will be told to pay cows. In the northern part of Ghana 🇬🇭

@liz_atti

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🤣 a herd of cows

When my husband and I got married, he and I paid for our wedding. I am from the United States, but I have friends from other countries who have also paid for their weddings. I think that since we are in more modern days, even with foreign countries, the bride and groom should mostly pays for their wedding.

In my country Nigeria, he is the Groom that pay's his Bride dowry not the Bride's family or the bride, Atti you have to do what is Right for your wife, if you Truly love her, because is a Tradition in most African Country.

@liz_atti

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❤️❤️❤️