Although very familiar with Jewish culture, I didn’t know that observant Jewish folks didn’t shake hands. Few years ago I met an observant Jewish person and extended my hand to shake his. When told that he wouldn’t touch my hand and to not get offended, I smiled and said that I understood because in my culture we greet each other with a “namaste” 🙏🏼. I saw him again a few months later and he called out to me saying “Namaste 🙏🏼.” I thought it was so wonderful, thoughtful and respectful!

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Wow, that's a really special story. Thanks for sharing!

I am not Jewish however what this couple says is so true. I enjoyed their talk so much. Thank you.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome! These kind of insights are universal!

I love how they look at each other. Not all googly-eyed, but full of respect.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

😊😊😊

I am Christian .I also have values ,but I have found your message very,very special! The way you talk,the way you LOVE each other is an example for all the world👍🌏! Thank you very much for sharing! May God bless you very much🙏🙏!!!

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

🙏🙏

Love the way they look at each other. The trust.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Trust is so important!

Now the whole world will see the beauty, the holiness, and intelligence of our incredible Rabbi and Rebbetzin. Through their examples, their teamwork, and their leadership, our Shul overflows with love, guidance, caring, learning, worship, compassion, holiness, kindness, and acceptance. Fantastic video. My sincere thanks and appreciation to you both.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

😊

@toddvoss52

Жыл бұрын

You are very lucky to have such a Rabbi and Rebbetzin

@superm70

Жыл бұрын

Stunning I'm Christian and this is such stunning advice and a wonderful couple

This couple gave me so much to meditate on.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

That's great to hear!

I’m so happy to have heard both of you!! You are a beautiful couple, with a beautiful family and synagogue. I’m so grateful to be a part of your congregation! Arlene Parkin

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

They really are! Glad you enjoyed

As an Azerbaijani Muslim, I would like to say that you guys are today the subject of my prayers, may God bless you both! 👍

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Thanks!

Okay...let's talk about how he looks at her when she's speaking 😅😅 That's amazing.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

😊😊

@marilynryan7822

Жыл бұрын

@Michael Acquah…and the way she looks at him too.

@margybernard

Жыл бұрын

And she likewise. 😊

@margiematson781

Жыл бұрын

And vise versa ❤

This dude has a serious way with words. well done.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

I'm not a Jew, but this perspective on marriage, 10 on 10.

I like when she said that if you found love once you can find it again in that same person.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Powerful point indeed.

As a Catholic I share the same views. Bless you both

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

I love this so much. You both speak so well. I am a cradle Catholic and though I have never question faith I have struggled with Catholicism. I love to hear your passion and a commitment

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

So happy to hear! Glad you enjoyed, and thanks for watching!

Feeling great sympathy for this couple. Wise rules and life advice.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

💯💯

I agree with everything you said regarding marriage! Thank you for this wonderfully informative discussion!

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

You are welcome :)

Thank you for sharing. 😊 I have been struggling recently and you made some beautiful points that have helped me. From my heart, thank you. 💜💜

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

You are so very welcome

I love it! Thank you for sharing this beautiful video!

Beautiful couple with excellent values and great understanding of humanity and the guidance humanity needs

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Well said

that was incredible, thank you Rabbi & Rebbetzin for your Gd given wisdom, and open hearts with sharing golden nuggets with the world. May Hashem bless you and your family ad 120 and see you soon BH in Israel.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Amen! Thank you!

Yes! Great conversation! More people need to be addressing these issues.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

💪💪

I love you guys, thank you for the purity, honesty, beautiful and Godly advice and words. God bless you both 🤗🙏🏻

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Same to you!

Shana Tovah! May we all be inscribed for good, for blessing, for health and for maasim tovim in the book of life.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Amen! Thank you!

I love this🙌🏻 And the way the answers are expressed!

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

What a great example! Love love !

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

Thank you so much for this! It has helped me understand our marriage better without even realizing what we were doing.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

I love this so much.

Enjoyed this video immensely!

I loved hearing this lovely couples perspective Well communicated

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

So glad you appreciated!

Excellent as always from Rabbi and Rebbetzin Vigler . Very insightful as we have come to expect and have experienced as relatively new congregants. Shana Tova... Michael and Brigitte B.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Shana Tova to you too!

@mattfreelie55

Жыл бұрын

Interesting, we share a last name!

Very nice! Thank you Viglers

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

🙌🙌🙌

Toda. Love your sharing and honesty.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

So nice of you

I'm a traditional Roman Catholic and your way of explaining the whys is wonderful and agree.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Thanks!

I love what they have to say! And the end is the best part. Rabbi, leave ur wife alone 😂!! And she said what she has to say in a subtle loving way!! Anyone can imagine that! Very sweet and very spiritual and very deep!

This is the best way !

I would have loved to have grown up like this ☝🏼 God bless you

The thing that we tend to forget that there's so much in common when it comes to religions....as a Muslim we commanded to believe in all religions and all prophets without distinguishing them from each other " as long as it's practiced peacefully and respectfully".....and I found so much sense in what they spoke about in terms of the scarcity of the marriage and the sexual boundaries....all the respect 🙏

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Glad you think so!

Beautiful. It made me thoughtful.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

That's great to hear, thank you for sharing!

I love this. Very insightful.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Indeed :)

First time i hear Marriage word in Hebrew is the same as Holly, wow! I am born again Christian and I agree to what you are saying about marriage, that is what I believe. God Bless You 🙏

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

G-d bless you too!

@superm70

Жыл бұрын

Agreed !!

I loved this video. Thank you.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

Absolute gems of Torah wisdom 🙌🏻

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Yes indeed!

Beautiful couple with the right insights, living life, marriage and family the way it is supposed to be!

@KeeHart

Жыл бұрын

The way it's supposed to be in your opinion, couldn't be further from what I think marriage is about, we're very equal in mine,I'm not treated just a baby carrier or just as mother,I'm treated as a woman where my opinions and wants are respected.

Wonderful

Beautiful ideas. Thank you for sharing these healing values. I am not Jewish, but agree completely with you.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

😊😊🙏

Beautiful words 😊

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! 🙂

Holy, sacred, set apart!💐♥️ 🔥

Love your view on observance differences vs orthodoxy. We are all different and go through a growing process. But every category always tries to separate us. We are such a small group. Don’t need more division.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Well said!

Hello! Lovely video thank you! Beautiful couple. ❤ שָׁלוֹם

I love you both! ❤

Great bring more

@joanblack626

Жыл бұрын

a beautiful dialogue between the two of you....so proud of the two of you and feeling so fortunate and happy to be one of your congregants!

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Will do!

Agree thank,you

So beautifully explained

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Glad you think so!

Thanks for sharing great

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Pleasure!

intimacy and sex is not seen as impure and is not taught as bad like in other religions. it is sacred and holy

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@CalmPotato

Жыл бұрын

Curious to know which other religion you are referring to. As most I know speak of the same thing.

What a loving couple.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Indeed 😊

Salam, 🙏🏻 Rabbi Dovid and Chana Vigler, you are absolutely Right in your interpretation of Relationship, Marriage, Orthodoxy & Observance 👍🏻👍🏻🌹and I am so Happy that it is so close to the teachings of Holy Quran/Holy Bible/Holy Torah 👍🏻which binds us so tightly close,& rightly close by the Prophet Abraham's Religions 🙏🏻God Bless Humanity across the Globe 🌎 Amen 🌹 Sohail Karachi Pakistan ❤️

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Hello 👋👋 Thank you for sharing these words!

Hello love this video, I’m Christian & I feel really uncomfortable hugging & kissing friends I’ve never really liked it when people invaded my space. I totally understand your commitment just to your family. Since coming out of covid for me it has now put a stop to this, I missed hugging our grandsons & our daughter so to keep them safe I no longer allow people into my space. God bless you both & keep you safe 🙏🏻🙏🏻

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Thanks!

That’s powerful 😊😊😊😊😊

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Glad you think so!

really enjoyed this one. thank you for your efforts!

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Happy to hear that!

@deborahgolob6275

Жыл бұрын

So very well sad

Thanks for this! Please gibe more Jewish relationship advice!

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Will do! Stay tuned!

This is so wonderful. I want to b in a relationship like this so much😅

@StopDropAndLetGo

Жыл бұрын

I want the same Pam 🤗

@shirleydoncel5512

Жыл бұрын

Me too

@theresefournier3269

Жыл бұрын

In-DEED ♥️🔥🎶

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

🙌🙌

Observant…great!

Ty shalom toda

What a beautiful couple ❤, well done

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

You are so kind

All men should have a mind and sense of humanity that this rabbi has. Is no wonder that she is in love with him. I fell in love with him as well. God bless them both. Yes, the world would be different and for the better.

I love this. My husband and I made the commitment many years ago and we had many problems during our marriage and had to rebuild the marriage many times. We had to fall in love many times. People don’t stay the same and find new parts of each other that we loved. Love is something that happens and you have to grow life a life plant.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Powerful. Thanks for sharing!

Beautiful couple! God bless you,,,God keep you!

Her hair is amazing! Ouu loving it 😍

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Yes!

I’m Jewish and this was so wonderful and made me think and meditate about some of the subjects

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

That's awesome! Thanks for watching

Beautiful and Godly perspective on intimacy and marriage. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻💜✝️✡️

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Our pleasure!

What a beautiful couple!!

I definitely agree. I've always felt that, too much touching, feely, feely thing going on between relative strangers.

Wow this video is just beautiful

I'm not Jewish but I can get behind a lot of these ideas. I think a lot of people don't like the idea of living within any guidelines.

I think all your answers are perfect answers and really should apply to all people and all religions not just being Jewish.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

These ideas have universal relevance, and can apply to people of all backgrounds.

I love you guys thank you so much my neighbor has been trying to get me to go to your Shull for a few years now I moved from Jupiter to Stuart but I have to tell you I'm going to show up probably on sukkot. I need to meet you. very inspirationl and many things you said were things that I needed to hear it is as if God just answered my prayers this week

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

That's awesome, thanks for sharing!

When making more of these videos, can you have a voice over for the questions please? It makes them more accessible for people who are blind or visually impaired. I was unable to read the questions.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for the feedback!

I'm beyond happy I've stumble upon this! Like founding a treasure. Thank you and to this beautiful couple. In G-g's will, I'll be married soon.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Please G-d! So happy you found this. Welcome to our channel!

Thank you Rabbi and Rebetzin for your wisdom. A question I would pose is, doesn't a hug or peck on the cheek of a friend show that you value them and their friendship above just another person you may know? Isn't it just a sign of affection for a dear friend without it becoming sexualized?

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

That's a great question! Perhaps this will shed some more light on the topic kzread.info/dash/bejne/iJ2i19uTkpCrg5s.html

Thank you for sharing! As a non Jew formerly married to a Jewish man. I enjoyed your insight. Although not together we have an amazing grown son!

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

👋👋👋

G-d's involvement is vital

We change so much in the modern world that we want a spouse who can change in a similar way.

I love when he says he was looking for a kind person - not a professor. Look for character not externals. Externals change, character does not.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

So true! 🙌

Yo Rabbi and Rabbi's wife, that was truly expiring and insightful and all that! I believe that what y'all was saying is the secret to happy marriage! Once when a young lady was axed if she "liked" a young man that she was dating and answered that she had the same love for him as any other jewish person the Menachem Mendel Rebbe said . . . “For a husband, you have to have more than basic love of a fellow Jew.” well this rabbi wife seems to have that, if you axed me.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

That's such a great story and message! Thanks for sharing!

Chanukah Sameach. Watching from London UK.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

👋👋

❤

I don’t know if I can handle a perfect person with no flaws and never anything to have to figure out together as a team!

It's time to cherish as well, our private life.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely.

I must say I missed hugging my close family and friends during Covid. However, people I hardly know hugging me drives me mad!

Amazing even if your not orthodox ! Thank you, Shalom

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Shalom 👋

It's fascinating listening to them, because they really believe in what they say and they look very happy. But I also know that my life was very different and there are many different ways to be happy in marriage: I 've been happily married for 21 years and neither of us believe in God or verginity before marriage. And taking away physical contact with other human beings from me would be like killing me, even though I have never thought for one second that I could betray my husband. But hugging my friends of both genders in times of distress isn't certainly a sexual act, but simply an act of kindness.

Beautiful Jewish Couple. Mazal Tov!

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

🙏🙏

I met this couple many years ago at their Yom Kippur service in a hotel. It was my husband’s first time making it through the service without leaving. They are something special. Truly wonderful neshamas. We’ve now become Baal tshuva, but they gave us our first good taste of true chassidus.

Thank you for this video. After 28 years years (I'm 38) I decided to convert. I've wanted to since I was 10. I'm worried that I chose the wrong "type", if you will (reform). I'm very conservative and I like following the rules for G-d, but no one really even shows up to Shabbat! Am I being stupid? Or did I not do enough research first? Every time I research a question it's like taking one step forward and twit steps back; I wind up with more things I want to know than I began with!

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like a real journey! Judaism strongly believes in asking questions and Jewish texts are full of debate. We hope our videos will help you find more answers.

I don't entirely share the same opinion as you, that marriage comes first and then love; but what I do agree with is that love most certainly grows daily in marriage .. and that intimacy is more special - deeper, and overall incredible - in marriage. I believe intimacy outside of marriage cannot compare to intimacy within marriage. Another thing .. non-Jewish people just don't go around kissing and hugging every woman or man that we see, as your absolutely beautiful wife suggested. We do hug and/or kiss those we love and care about, of course .. but there are certainly lines drawn, for most people, as to whom gets shown our affection in that way. In marriage, loyalty is paramount, and our affection toward our spouse should be held in the most high regard than toward any other relationship or person. There is absolutely no wiggle-room whatsoever where that is concerned.

I love these two beautiful people

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

🙌🙌

I am a Christian woman and I completely agree with this lovely couple. It would benefit all couples to sit down with them to discuss the realities of marriage. It is all about commitment and loyalty.

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

Indeed!

im not jewish or religious but i can tell kind ppl when i see it

@myJLI

Жыл бұрын

😊😊😊