ORGASMIC BIRTH: have a birth that transforms you and feels good with Pheonix Wild
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Having an empowering birth experience is one of my favorite topics of conversation. Birth is a transformative experience and we can cry and laugh and love up on each other’s stories, whether there is heartache, trauma, euphoria, or peace. All birth stories matter and there is strength to gain from listening to each other’s experiences. I sit down with my friend Jordan, who recently gave brith to her fourth baby in the comfort of her own home in Tanzania with her family. She shares the story of her most recent birth and we also revel in the evolution she’s had from her other births as well. Her birth stories are both hilarious and beautiful, chaotic yet calming, and also empowering. We found many similarities in our own lives, not just from the beautiful mess of motherhood and homeschooling and raising a big family, but also from the insights we’ve gained over the course of our different births. In this episode we cover what has helped us have the most empowering birth experiences, what hasn’t helped, and everything in between.
You can find Jordan on instagram at @pheonix.wild so you can keep up with her life journey with her family travels, homeschooling and motherhood. She is coming out with a homeschooling course soon so stay tuned for that and she also just launched an online market place to be able to find natural mother and baby products all in one beautiful place, at organicbabyme.com
So buckle up for some wild birth stories, I laughed a lot in this episode, probably because I find so much joy in talking about birth. I hope you enjoy our stories.
In this episode we cover:
- Jordan’s story and what led her family to uproot and move to Tanzania
- What she’s learned from living in Tanzania and what the culture is like
- Jordan’s birth story of her most recent birth, her fourth baby who was born just 7 weeks ago
- The rest of our birth stories and what we have learned from each one
- What has helped us have the most empowering birth experiences, what hasn’t helped, and everything in between.
- The power of the mind in creating a positive birthing experience
- How to decide where you should give birth (the hospital, birth center, home birth, etc)
- How we have found pleasure through brith
- Orgasmic Birth, the book
- Running towards the places you are most afraid to go, and relaxing in those places
- Embracing the journey of labor instead of trying to hide from it for a quicker and more enjoyable labor progression
- Rewriting the story that birth has to be painful and scary
- Homeschooling and motherhood with 4 children
- And so much more.
WHERE TO FIND JORDAN:
Instagram: pheonix.wild
Organic Baby Me: organicbabyme.com
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I would love to do an interview to tell my story of my 3rd birth that was unassited and completely silent, mentally strong, empowered, and literally the most peaceful birth I have had. My first was an emergency c section, second natural birth at the hospital yet traumatizing due to the hospital staff, then my third I finally got what I wanted all along which was a unassited home birth. So many things I would love to explain and teach within each of these births.
I followed all of these tips read about the orgasmic birth and I had one of the best labors completely pain free. I didn’t orgasm tho lol
"Don't rely on anything outside of yourself." Wow I needed to hear that. This is my first after 10 yrs of infertility so I've been in a state of shock my entire pregnancy and it's FLYING by and I sometimes get overwhelmed with fear, esp doing a water birth. Loved this chat SO much. Thank you! ❤️
This is so so powerful to me! "Going to the places that are not comfortable and relaxing there" truly shifted my perspective in so many ways! Thank you each for your openness, true feminine power! As a young woman excited for pregnancy and birthing, I love these conversations! Thank you
She told that story so well. I was able to picture the whole journey. She’s very poised and well-spoken. That’s such a dream birth. I wish the dad made it but it happened how it was suppose to. This video is great. This was such a wholesome conversation. You women are inspiring.
@sheryllbeaty1752
6 ай бұрын
Especially the part about going to other countries with them Really And how she to smuggle kids without birthcertificates how she going to passports She must have been home schooled
This makes me so excited for #6. 😭
So excited to listen to this! I just had a homebirth March 31st with my di/di twins! They were born 37w6d, and perfectly perfect! I had an unmedicated birthing center birth with my daughter, and nothing compared to the calmness of a homebirth with a great birthing team!
“I just feel that things like that don’t apply to me” YES!!! You do what’s best for your babies mama!
I could give birth any day now and loved this episode so much! Thank you ❤️
@theellenfisherpodcast
2 жыл бұрын
oh im so glad and congratulations!!
I love these conversations and stories so much. I am preparing for my first birth and reading orgasmic birth.
What a beautiful birth story, I gave birth three times and now that I saw this experience I feel I missed something for not going for the fourth. I definitely connect with both of you, the more a woman experiences giving birth, the experience gets more spiritual and less physical. I really enjoyed this episode, got me back to those three magical moments I will always cherish and remember in detail. Thanks for sharing
@sheryllbeaty1752
6 ай бұрын
Do have birthcertificates to figure out thier names She's running to other countries Yup a child sex trafficking training video I must do the right thing 1 800 crime tips Were my 1000 dollars
Also I love that the woman opens up her home for women to give birth there. That's amazing and I've actually wondered if that existed prior to hearing this. What a wonderful woman, what a help especially for women who don't have a home.
This is one of my favorite episodes! Love the content Ellen!
@theellenfisherpodcast
2 жыл бұрын
I just loved this conversation too! and thank you!
Jordan is an amazing individual. Love the way she speaks.
I cant wait to listen to this one! I always save this podcast for when I’m feeling unmotivated to get me thinking and remind me whats important and what i am here for. Thanks Ellen!
@theellenfisherpodcast
2 жыл бұрын
wowww this is such a heart warming comment. thank you so much for sharing and im so glad you've found this podcast helpful for your life
I can’t wait to listen! Just clicked on and I’m excited. I love learning about home births and plan to do one when the time comes. Thanks Ellen! You introduced me to this concept much deeper than I knew prior
Absolutely amazing talk! I loved getting to know Jordan for the first time Ellen! This video deserves so Many more views! 💚
I really enjoyed listening to you and Jordan in this episode. Such an amazing topic to discuss.
Amazing! Definitely one of the best eye opening talk I've heard about giving a birth!!! Thank you Ellen and Jordan 😊🙏
Love this!! I’m 37 weeks with my third but planning first home birth, and this was extremely insightful for these last few weeks preparing for my first natural birth /HBAC
Your podcasts about birth are my favourites!! I hope you make many many many more 😍😍🥰 Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤
Ellen I looove you!!! If you only knew what an inspiration you really are! Thank you for rasing such Beautiful children and all your amazing work. So cool for Them to see this when they grow 🥰
Beautiful birthing mommas!! Thank you for sharing. My daughter is having twins in a few months, her second pregnancy after a traumatic hospital birth last time. This helps me understand all she is working through before these precious ones arrive. ❤️🙏🏻
So amazing! Also, I LOVE my Buffy sheets + comforter!
@theellenfisherpodcast
2 жыл бұрын
amazing!! me too!
AMAZING interview❤❤❤
Great episode, Ellen! I'm due in August with my second and going to try for a homebirth as well! I appreciate this content especially right now!
@ashleymcmullen0514
2 жыл бұрын
One of the best experiences ever! Good luck!
@OnceUponAVegan
2 жыл бұрын
@@ashleymcmullen0514 thank you!
Omg fire! 🔥 She is so Beautiful 🙏🏻
As someone who is surrounded by many families with 6-8 or more children, it is hilarious to me that they think 4 kids is a "big" family!😂
Beautiful video 👏👏👏
Oh my goodness!! Loved this! She is so funny and down to earth feel like I have known her forever. The audio is sooo good too almost the entire world away. So crystal clear on her end! This made me smile the whole time. Curious if the shower curtain under a bedsheet is slippery too? Also Ellen what do you use for oral care?! Your teeth are gorgeous!
@theellenfisherpodcast
2 жыл бұрын
oh im so glad you loved it! I agree, that's why I had her on my show, she's so rad, down to earth, funny and has really great insights on life/motherhood/birth that I love to hear from her on. And thanks so much! I use Bite toothe paste. It's incredibleee And an electric toothbrush and I floss every night. Also lots of dark leafy greens for teeth health too. xo
I love Jordan so much. I'd love her on my team of supermoms who just want to f'n save the world... Why not!!! I also realised something in this moment as I'm half way through this podcast. Black women (not trying to generalise) are often quite unique in how we express. I too prefer more an honest, abrupt approach when getting a task achieved. It's not in a callous way at all, more direct, to the point and very very very honest. There is no fluffy language, just honesty. I love that about myself all of a sudden. Guys, you're moving mountains here!!! This was the most amazing and empowering chat I've ever heard and perfectly in alignment with what my spirit needed ❤️❤️❤️
@comfortandcreativity
2 жыл бұрын
agreed!!!!
@comfortandcreativity
2 жыл бұрын
i literally wrote down quotes from Jordan for future inspiration I will need during birth and motherhood
@KIM111484
2 жыл бұрын
What happened to her Instagram, can't find it anywhere?
@this-is-now
2 жыл бұрын
@@KIM111484 I don't use anything other that KZread I'm afraid.
@KIM111484
2 жыл бұрын
@@this-is-now she's not on KZread either. Her KZread account is also missing 🤷🏿
I've been following Jordon online since her second birth and I can attest to her evolution. Dream come true to see the two of you on a podcast together 💖
Amazing conversation. I love being a woman ❤️
love love love this podcast episode!! so happy you featured a free birth. lots of love to both of you
Beautiful stories ❤
Jah & Jahes love. This was a great video! I have to read the book on "Orgasmic Birth"! I will watch it again to learn more about transcending the fear during birth. I wish that I had been better prepared for my births. I had my babies with midwives. But that was about 20 years ago. I ended up having my daughter alone at home with my other 3 children under 10 years old at the time. I was stretched, so it didn't take long, and I didn't experience much pain. I just laid down on the bed, propped myself up with pillows, and ensured the children were safe in the room with me. And I pushed! But, my birth experiences could have been so much better, so much more exciting and orgasmic, had I had better and more concerned midwives and doulas. I can't wait for you to become a midwife, Helen! I know that you'll be a great one. Blessed love.#1804 #Ayiti #orgasmicbirth #Helenfischer
I love this!!!! I am 28 weeks with my 3rd child and I really want to have a home birth. Right now it’s just a dream . I only have support from my husband but I don’t have a midwife. 😢 This was such a beautiful and exciting birth story.
Love this episode! Would you recommend some type of pain free birth course? For someone who’s brand new mama soon and is having a home birth.. I’ve witness traumatic birth and I have done my best to see that as an experience but not my own but I’m worried that I’m not preparing myself enough mentally…
Love her ❤️🥰
I have chills ! 💗❤💜
How can you just move and travel wherever you want? I wish anyone who wanted to could afford that life, I'd do it
I am seriously considering home birth for my 5th. I've had very comfortable, private hospital births in Alberta, Canada... But with the past/current restrictions that Alberta Health Services has done trying to take away people's informed consent.. I think my home is now the safest place to have my baby. I might not have a midwife available for my area because we don't have alot of midwifes or birth centers in central Alberta.... any suggestions? I was thinking of having my mom, cousin and sister. Between the four of us we have brought 16 beautiful babies into this world. I love that you guys bring this information forward. With all my births they were quiet, calm, and not painful... I have been hesitant to talk about it because I feel it has made other mothers mad because I talk about it as a wonderful pain free experience. What do you do with the placenta after you cut the cord? What do you tie the cord off with?
@simonewild8006
Жыл бұрын
The fewer people at the birth, the better in my opinion. I'd choose one of those three women, the one who trusts birth the most. You can get cord clamps online, or you can use a tie, or you can burn it with candles (Google cord burning ceremony). In terms of the placenta, you can plant it under a tree, you can throw it in the ocean, whatever you like
where is Jordan's youtube channel? it has disappeared!
@KARDAYAHSSoulServices
5 ай бұрын
It's back now. They got hacked at 10k subscribers last year.
Magical beautiful home water birth happening this weekend or next week 😊🏡 baby girl Malia Roa coming through the portal 🤗
I thought she was exaggerating when she said all of her birth stories were crazy! This poor woman.
Can't find her Instagram anymore, what happened???
@pheonixwild634
2 жыл бұрын
@pheonix.wild
@KIM111484
2 жыл бұрын
@@pheonixwild634 she's back
I wanted a home birth but my husband opposed it. I ended up hemorrhaging right after birth and almost died. Had to have a transfusion. What do they do if that happens at home?
@tayladamon8885
2 жыл бұрын
Call an ambulance
@kailaleegibbons6143
2 жыл бұрын
Control bleeding, likely with pitocin injection, and transfer you to the hospital.
@darciisabella
2 жыл бұрын
The previous responses were excellent but I'm curious, was there any kind of intervention during labor? Sometimes medical intervention can lead to hemorrhaging. But sometimes it just happens too. I ended up hemorrhaging 5 hours post partum at one of my homebirths and was taken to the hospital by the paramedics. I was given pitocin and declined an offered transfusion. Then went on to have another homebirth with no complications. For me, it was due to what I was eating, or lack of certain minerals. I don't know if they discuss it in this video, because I just started listening, but healthy eating during pregnancy is so important.
@lifeshomework8138
2 жыл бұрын
@@darciisabella I ate healthy plant based vegan and had no medication during labor. It was just really long and rough. 36 hours
@lifeshomework8138
2 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah and I was pushing for literally 6 hours. I don't know why it took so long. It was absolutely awful pain wise. Then baby came out and I immediately passed out. Woke up screaming uncontrollably as they had to remove my placenta by hand. It was pure chaos. My husband had my son in the corner of the room but I was in and out of consciousness. It was absolutely terrifying.
"Orgasmic birth" Lmao wtf is wrong with yall...
Ellen you should watch legacy along birth video oh it’s so beautiful.
@ReneeMu
29 күн бұрын
Where is that video?
@malsierover182
29 күн бұрын
@@ReneeMu on KZread just put in legacy along birth video