One of the Most Important Decisions You'll Make (Hint: It's About Love)

I believe that love is the greatest power there is to produce great results and that the most important decision you can make is who you choose to have loving relationships with. A good love partner, or better yet good love partners (your spouse, your family, your friends, and your business partners) who will care deeply about your wellbeing and help you through your downs as well as your ups is the best thing in life. By love, I mean caring about the person so that their being well feels like your wellbeing.
If you have love, or at least empathy, you will have the foundation for harmony, peace, and prosperity-just as if you have hate, you will produce fighting, war, and destruction. All major religions are most fundamentally about how to produce harmony, peace, and prosperity through love and empathy - e.g. “do unto others as you would have them do onto you,” karma, etc.
Psychologists have shown that loving communities lead to greater happiness, health, and effectiveness. Love is both joyous and functionally good because 1+1=3. To explain what I mean, a little bit of my help for you can make a big difference in your life just as a little bit of your help for me can make a big difference in my life, so us exchanging these gifts of help give us a lot more than we have alone-and it produces the joy of love on top of that. Conversely, 1-1= -3. Look at how hate in war is causing so much brutality and destruction.

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  • @TS-fr7ch
    @TS-fr7ch3 ай бұрын

    The joy of liking eachother! So true, and I'm always looking for the ways to maximize joy with my relationships (kids, wife, family, friends). Nothing is ever perfect, but what I focus on (joy) will make the greatest impact!

  • @HoangAnhNguyen-sg9iv
    @HoangAnhNguyen-sg9iv3 ай бұрын

    Compatibility is more important than chemistry, and that’s what makes relationship last long. Got it.

  • @surfn123
    @surfn1233 ай бұрын

    I like this guy he reminds me of my dad a lot. Good advice and a very relaxing and reassuring tone and way of speaking.

  • @mohamadqaddoura6226
    @mohamadqaddoura62263 ай бұрын

    That's what I'm talking about But I am directly inside a major conflict zone between two parties, and I am witnessing real events that exceed those shown in Hollywood films - AFTER 5 months of war, it's time for me to take some real money so I can move on with some things, Calculate your calculations and think about me quickly because time passes quickly. 1- Trust and together. 2- No trust at all.

  • @s.el.5018
    @s.el.50183 ай бұрын

    It's love, beautiful love. Thank you a lot. I already made it. 😊😊😊😊

  • @yashagar4443
    @yashagar44433 ай бұрын

    Very true 😊

  • @chkee17
    @chkee173 ай бұрын

    choose the right life partner. ❤

  • @whfan469
    @whfan4693 ай бұрын

    Hey Ray was it hard to find such a good partner matching in so many dimensions or was just luck, stumbling upon each other? Would love to know how we can find such partners.

  • @Sevilleman
    @Sevilleman3 ай бұрын

    100%

  • @kwadasare
    @kwadasare3 ай бұрын

    First to watch and comment