One of the Main Reasons We're so Alone and Alienated as Unfaithful Spouses

Today Samuel shares insight into why we find ourselves alone as unfaithful spouses.
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Samuel is an infidelity survivor and is one of many contributors to Affair Recovery's Survivors’ Blog, www.affairrecovery.com/our-blog. He participated in Affair Recovery's courses developed by founder and infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW. After finding healing, hope, and new life, Samuel wishes to share his journey and what AffairRecovery.com has to offer with others so they too can find hope and healing.

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  • @dharasutar
    @dharasutar4 жыл бұрын

    Excellent lesson ....thanks .....but my husband will never listen to this becuz he thinks he knows everything and that he is perfect

  • @brankaanakeesta330
    @brankaanakeesta3304 жыл бұрын

    This really hits hard with me and my recovery. As an unfaithful it's amazing to hear things like this, these flaws, these feelings, all of these things that other people have been through and then they accepted their faults and healed the right way from it. Knowing that it is something people have gotten through gives me even more hope. Thank you! Let me be that person who no matter what doesn't want to be the exception. They want to be humble and lay down their defense and say, "I just want to get better. " Thanks again for all you guys do. It means so much.

  • @matthewfoster8217
    @matthewfoster82174 жыл бұрын

    This was wondeful. Thank you for all your hard work, Samuel. This describes my wife almost perfectly, and now I have a better understanding of how I may be able to communicate better with her. I can even see some prideful thoughts and actions within myself as well, and make some changes to better myself. I send my Thoughts and prayers, brother. God Bless.

  • @daniellemoss7746
    @daniellemoss77464 жыл бұрын

    Hi Samuel, your videos have helped me tremendously. My husband left me and our two teenage boys over a year ago but he is still with the affair partner. I feel like my situation is so much more complex than others. I called Affair Recovery to see about an appt with you but they they gave me an email to reach out to you. I will do that shortly but wanted to thank you for your authenticity!

  • @g-level2589
    @g-level25894 жыл бұрын

    Fed up,with repeatedly extending her chances to reconcile, her lack of effort or willingness to listen to all the ripple effects I have endured for her sleeping with my brother in law and then lack of remorse to me or family has caused me to change in a bad way, I need the peace of the HOLY SPIRIT and possibly a new partner. I'm besides myself with great pain and despair, her ambivalence is forcing me to take direction in a way that doesn't include her,this will cause our children, myself and her to go through unnecessary situations that are devastating to my beautiful family.Depression is the devil's tool to dismantle my life and cannot allow this by the grace of God,I need protection and answers Mr. Sammy SAMUEL, I have been listening everyday since june 21 2017 at 10PM for Real

  • @DocBMT
    @DocBMT4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your work.....it is so hard to heal after finding out about his affair last September. Even to this day he will not talk about anything except our divorce. We were married 35 years and my heart is soooo broken. Pride and Ego is so true that killed our marriage and pushed me so far away from him. He has been living with his affair partner since February and he has just acted like I never was important to him. He did leave me as a hit and run...… the grief the pain I'm feeling at 61 years of age. God knows my humble heart and my faith is only in Him now. Just me DJ

  • @milomazli

    @milomazli

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry that you are in this situation, I am sooooo heartbroken for you as I have been there too. Its the most painful thing I ever felt in my life. A train going over me would be a caress compared to this. I am praying for you and sending positive energies.

  • @matrix5175

    @matrix5175

    4 жыл бұрын

    My heart goes out to you for the hurt and pain you're feeling. It's so hard to believe that our spouse can be so careless and unempathetic with our life and with our heart. I pray God will pour out His love and peace to you and give you the comfort you need to weather this storm, In Jesus name. Amen

  • @kaylakelley5276
    @kaylakelley52764 жыл бұрын

    I’m having issues as the unfaithful spouse. Since I had the affair I have been trying to get help. I begged my husband to do counseling and he always told me that he didn’t need therapy and that we had great communication. I unfortunately continued texting the person and now my husband has left. He says he wants things to work but he won’t get help with me. I’m trying everything. I go to therapy multiple times a week I have started new hobbies and I don’t know how to get him to see I’m changing. He still won’t do therapy and is hardly speaking to me. He says he wants to make this work but I feel so alone and he doesn’t feel I’m safe either. I’m just so confused on where to go. I’m moving into an apartment next month and it has me feeling very alone. I don’t know how long to wait for progress before I just give up.

  • @smartiemart252
    @smartiemart2522 жыл бұрын

    Pride is something we ALL must battle continually. If we feel we have achieved defeating it, we’re probably staring it right in the face! #pridecausedanangel2fall

  • @shandanakhan6339
    @shandanakhan63394 жыл бұрын

    Hi samuel u r in my prayers,.ur videos gave me hope,..may Allah help u always

  • @zachsteven5650
    @zachsteven56504 жыл бұрын

    Very helpful!

  • @debbiemahoney5936
    @debbiemahoney59364 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Tough stuff here! Struggling with this. Could really use a mentor myself. Would anyone be interested in mentoring a messed up unfaithful lady? I am in counseling but could really use someone on the outside for guidance and to talk to.

  • @samshealingpodcast

    @samshealingpodcast

    4 жыл бұрын

    have you taken the hope for healing course Debbie? are you seeing anyone professionally? i would also post on the group/main wall at affair recovery and see if anyone can reach out to you?

  • @Crystal-oi6ne

    @Crystal-oi6ne

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi! Have you found someone to talk to? As an UF I understand too

  • @heidiainsworth4348
    @heidiainsworth4348 Жыл бұрын

    What if its the betrayed that are prideful and not want to do the work?

  • @PvC63-Jan
    @PvC63-Jan4 жыл бұрын

    Hi, how can I register for your EMS online?

  • @AffairrecoveryLLC

    @AffairrecoveryLLC

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hello! Please visit www.affairrecovery.com/product/ems-online.