"That would have been......... always...... obviously." . Jesus. The chills. It has always been so obvious that she adores him.

@passiveaggressive6175

Жыл бұрын

I know! And he constantly screws it up. Every friggin time

@bizzionary1

Жыл бұрын

foreal. like even tho they're in relationships with other people at this point, she still says, "Always. Obviously." infinitive form.

there whole relationship was a bunch of miscommunications, but they always found their way back to each other.

So frustrated at Connell’s inability to communicate properly 😮

@swunt10

4 ай бұрын

More like afraid to ask, afraid to impose.

@vladn6031

4 ай бұрын

@@swunt10 Not just that. He made it seem like he wanted to break up when he didn't. He's an idiot.

This shows how important communication is to a relationship.

I like that they respected the dialogues Sally Rooney wrote, I didn’t notice many differences

@meuthianabilapratiwi5535

Жыл бұрын

Well she’s the scriptwriter in this show

When I was 18 I had a similar experience with a girl I was totally in love with. After a summer of 'will they won't they' we finally got together. The next morning she told me that "maybe we shouldn't tell everyone about this", which I took to mean she regretted it. Broke my heart, but I did what I thought she wanted and backed off. A month later I was leaving to go to uni and I messaged her to essentially spill my heart out and tell her how sad I was about it - she wrote back saying that was never her intention and she just meant that we should keep it a secret for the time being, and that she thought I was the one who regretted it. We were both devastated and I thought about it/her for genuinely years afterwards. I still think about it occasionally and I'm 35, married with a kid. What could have been? We'll never know. Insecure kids not knowing how to talk to each other openly - I learned a harsh lesson from it.

@ghzlfthn_

Жыл бұрын

Damn

@Jellyfishpinkk

11 ай бұрын

i feel bad for your wife wow.

@antnybeard69

11 ай бұрын

@@Jellyfishpinkk Ha, no need, my wife is the love of my life. I wasn't saying that I wish I could go back or that I still had feelings for the person in the story or anything like that - it was literally almost 20 years ago and I was a dumb teenager, I've had multiple long term partners since then. It was just a story about a missed opportunity that I regret(ted), and I only think about it occasionally because, well, who doesn't think about those sort of things sometimes?

@luzvez

10 ай бұрын

@@Jellyfishpinkksame it would be so hurtful for her to read this comment

@Jellyfishpinkk

9 ай бұрын

@@antnybeard69 you still think about it “occasionally?” After 20 years and being with the love of your life? And even after having multiple relationships since then? That makes this even worse. Still having feelings of what if so deep into a relationship is just not a good thing, but even if you’re not the only one who has them. Very sad.

Oh these two just break my heart!

My heart ❤️ I fell in love with this story, the tone and these beautiful characters

@dallasstahr

7 ай бұрын

What episode and season?

the song coming right in with "We brought this on" is so brutal

That scene cost me my third tv, smashed up in sheer frustration!

@aniyahgivenchy303

Жыл бұрын

lmaooo

@freddieoleary1833

Жыл бұрын

😭😭LMFAO

@realcapitalist1462

Жыл бұрын

@@freddieoleary1833 and Aniyah, thanks but this show cost me an awful lot of money! TV 4 went after Italy and a 5th nearly went just before Connell sorted (well almost) the gruesome Alan.

@westminsterwatcher5152

Жыл бұрын

No idea why, but I laughed so hard I choked at that comment!

@realcapitalist1462

Жыл бұрын

@@westminsterwatcher5152 Apologies for any discomfort caused. Are you choking watching Westminster at the moment? or drowning??

This little manoeuvre cost them 51 years

@SuperDarkVegan

Жыл бұрын

what you mean

@alexisdariensanchezespinoz8097

9 ай бұрын

​@@SuperDarkVeganit means that will stay on a limbo relationship

@anasaravanja476

5 ай бұрын

This made me laugh harder than it should have 😂

@darkinstruments

5 ай бұрын

crying

Love the slow and natural sounds, voice and audio.

This scene just breaks me into pieces every time

This part killed me.... so heartbreaking 💔

I feel BAD every time i rewatch this scene. God, but the pain !

Honestly found this moment so completely frustrating that wouldn’t text at all or have any form of convo

THIS PART IN THE BOOK OH MY GOD FUCK

Communication is key!

I am frustrated by the facts they have been truthful with each others feeling but misinterpreted when it matter the most...😬

Funny and emotional 😂

really good

They can't communicate for shit huh ?

This was the only part of the show that I didn't like, doesn't make sense that people can miscommunicate this badly and then just end the conversation after 5 seconds

What episode is this

@lastday90925

Жыл бұрын

Episode 7

Wait, "I want to see other people" clearly says that I want to break up with you. Isn't it? Or the guy was so selfish that he just couldn't leave her

@Yesnoyesnouhhhhh

7 ай бұрын

He never said that. She misheard him. He actually said “ I guess we should see other people “ as a question to her. Presumably hoping she would say no

@tatasmit

5 ай бұрын

​@@Yesnoyesnouhhhhhhe said "I guess YOU want see other people", while she heard " We should see other people"

انا اسفلكم بجد😭😭😭😭

Well, it's slightly pretentious but both of them are quite good.

@medievalpoopscooper6219

11 ай бұрын

Ikr. if u think about it, the whole plot is cheesy but the performance and production just delivered so good u can look pass it

@Shelby1135

9 ай бұрын

I mean the whole show is on the level of Skins - drama for the sake of drama, nothing else. But the actors did such a phenomenal job that grownups are able to really get into that story. Amazing work by them really

😭

He was such an asshole to her. He ruined her life. He turned her into a sadist. A self deprecating sadist. Her life is a tragedy because of him.

@SuperAbid0001

Жыл бұрын

He also in many ways saved her. Her life is tragic but not only because of him but because of her family. Don’t try to make him out to be a villain when it wasn’t as black and white as you’re saying lol

@MusicHandsAbrupt

Жыл бұрын

@@SuperAbid0001 you’re right, her family was very nasty, especially her brother. What a monster.

@lalolanda0114

Жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@hannahsings517

Жыл бұрын

He actually turned her into a masochist, made her feel like she was worthless and undeserving of love

@gohilravirajsinh7291

Жыл бұрын

@@hannahsings517 how did you even come to that conclusion?

In this film, I don’t understand why Marianne so upset when Connell said he has new girlfriend?

@HelloGudbye93

5 ай бұрын

I think her crying was just from the weight of the confusing, unfair topsy turvy mixed signals he's repeatedly giving her. Until they cleared up the mixup, as far as she knows: she was finally blissfully happy with Connell then one night in July he pulls the rug out from under her and "breaks up" with her out of the blue, then he goes out of his way to reconnect and stay friends while repeatedly expressing jealousy about her new boyfriend. But then he drops the bomb that this entire time he's had a semi-serious girlfriend 🥴 that's just too much for anyone lol

@Randomthing07

Ай бұрын

​@@HelloGudbye93it's not jealous. It's genuine concern. Her boyfriend was shit and also he didn't wanted to break up. Marian didn't let him finish the sentence and misunderstood him.