This was such a great role play. Love seeing it in action. The first phase responses feel so typical of what could happen! You're doing a great service for humanity putting out this great content!

@FSUChildWelfare

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Thank you so much! We hope you will join us for our ALIGN Initiative's upcoming webinar series on Nonviolent Communication! Part 1 with Janelle and A''miracle will take place over Zoom on Wednesday, March 1 at 6:30 PM to 8:00 PM EST. Register for free for Part 1 at bit.ly/NVC-PT1 Stay informed of other and future offerings at FICW.FSU.EDU

Thanks so much. This was so simple and easy to understand. For the first time I could understand how can I begin to express my feelings and needs.

Your explanation and role plays are so clear! This is a great video 👏🏼 and I really appreciate it. 🙏🏼

When I have unresolved feelings, I can lash out. I recently called it emotional vomiting. Just like actual wretching, it's involuntary but necessary for me to have internal balance and it's ugly and embarrassing. I hate when I do this so when I did it I tried to take an honest look at the underlying needs I had that brought that out and it helped me work out that emotional understanding of my needs that I needed.

@OneWhoKnowz

2 жыл бұрын

U and me both! Honestly it scares me to communicate. I been doing this for 44 years! Literally I cry when I think about how what I say or how I speak to people makes them feel a way. I tend to be critical and point the finger because my needs are not being met! I chanted to be a better communicator and it’s challenging asf‼️‼️‼️

@FSUChildWelfare

Жыл бұрын

If you'd like more practice with nonviolent communication, our ALIGN initiative is hosting a free webinar series! Part 1 with Janelle and A''miracle will take place over Zoom on Wednesday, March 1 at 6:30 PM to 8:00 PM EST and focuses on Using Empathy. Register for free here at bit.ly/NVC-PT1 Stay informed of other and future offerings at FICW.FSU.EDU

An excellent example of nvc process, thanks for posting

@FSUChildWelfare

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Thank you ! What a great example of this wonderful and powerful technique

@FSUChildWelfare

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Really helpful intro to NVC. Thank you!!

Thank you. It's nice to hear about it, but SO clarifying to see it in action. Would you mind doing like 100 more of these role plays? I think if we could see it over and over in different circumstances, it would become part of us and feel natural. We would have more giraffe language than jackal language..

@FSUChildWelfare

Жыл бұрын

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Just read this book - excellent role play, thank you both!

Fantastic video. The role plays helped cement the ideas and concepts of NVC.

Thank you

loved it! sadly recognized myself in few of those! but thats how everyone speaks anywhere I go, never even thought its a form of violent communication, but can totally see it now! thank you!

@blabla4366

Жыл бұрын

La haine ramène la haine ! Moi je dois juste constaté et fermé ma guelle c'est ça que vous voulez et grevé en silence c'est ça!

@FSUChildWelfare

Жыл бұрын

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THANK YOU!!!! Yes yes 🙌

@FSUChildWelfare

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This is brillianrt. Love this rol;e play

Good job, both of you!

@FSUChildWelfare

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very good. Keep it up!

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At 15:01 interviewer interrupts the speaker. With empathic question, but still, we need to really give time other person to finish a sentence before responding....

@FSUChildWelfare

Жыл бұрын

We appreciate for your feedback! Thank you!

The link for resources didn't work - is there a new link? Thanks!

But what happens when you use reflective responses.. most of the time the other person will say " don't put words in my mouth" they don't feel heard..

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Thank you for sharing this was so helpful! Did you happen to share the pdf of those list pages?

@FSUChildWelfare

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Makayla! We're so glad to hear you enjoyed this video. The PDF resource is available here: ficw.fsu.edu/sites/g/files/upcbnu1106/files/2021%20Symposium/Feelings_needs_sheet_handout.pdf You can find other similar resources on our website here: ficw.fsu.edu/resources/symposium-resources/2021-symposium

@FSUChildWelfare

Жыл бұрын

Hi Makayla! We'll be sharing resources again during our ALIGN Initiative's upcoming webinar series on Nonviolent Communication! Part 1 with Janelle and A''miracle will take place over Zoom on Wednesday, March 1 at 6:30 PM to 8:00 PM EST. Register for free for Part 1 at bit.ly/NVC-PT1 Stay informed of other and future offerings at FICW.FSU.EDU

Very nice

Just a quick question here 17:54 isn't "awareness (on her hand)" wrongly picked since we are talking about her needs not her friend's. To me, talking about awareness in that example seems to be related to a certain behavior we are waiting from the other person. (It could be seen as a kind of demand if we talk directly to jasmine with that in mind.) So, the need would indeed be consideration in that sense

hi thank you for sharing. can you link the pdf shown at 2:40?

@shanebruce3997

2 жыл бұрын

I think that’s what I was looking for as well…

@girlinlovewithagirl

2 жыл бұрын

I think this is the same one: Needs Inventory www.cnvc.org/sites/default/files/2018-10/CNVC-needs-inventory.pdf

@girlinlovewithagirl

2 жыл бұрын

Feelings Inventory: www.cnvc.org/sites/default/files/2018-10/CNVC-feelings-inventory.pdf

@FSUChildWelfare

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching! The PDF resource is available here: ficw.fsu.edu/sites/g/files/upcbnu1106/files/2021%20Symposium/Feelings_needs_sheet_handout.pdf You can find other similar resources on our website here: ficw.fsu.edu/resources/symposium-resources/2021-symposium

@FSUChildWelfare

Жыл бұрын

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I found the needs list in the feelings list very helpful… I’m accessing this on my phone and I’m wondering if there is a place to obtain the list of general in common needs and feelings?

@girlinlovewithagirl

2 жыл бұрын

Feelings Inventory: www.cnvc.org/sites/default/files/2018-10/CNVC-feelings-inventory.pdf

@girlinlovewithagirl

2 жыл бұрын

Needs Inventory: www.cnvc.org/sites/default/files/2018-10/CNVC-needs-inventory.pdf

@FSUChildWelfare

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Shane! The PDF resource is available here: ficw.fsu.edu/sites/g/files/upcbnu1106/files/2021%20Symposium/Feelings_needs_sheet_handout.pdf You can find other related resources on our website here: ficw.fsu.edu/resources/symposium-resources/2021-symposium

@BalanceForLife

Жыл бұрын

@@FSUChildWelfare Links don't work - any way to update them? Thanks!

@FSUChildWelfare

Жыл бұрын

@@BalanceForLife We'll be sharing resources again during our ALIGN Initiative's upcoming webinar series on Nonviolent Communication! Part 1 with Janelle and A''miracle will take place over Zoom on Wednesday, March 1 at 6:30 PM to 8:00 PM EST. Register for free for Part 1 at bit.ly/NVC-PT1 Stay informed of other and future offerings at FICW.FSU.EDU

Where can we find those sheets?

@FSUChildWelfare

11 ай бұрын

They are available in our resource library on FICW.FSU.EDU

Thats wasn't a conflict resolution that was just trying to identifying the need of one party.

just came upon this randomly, but in listening, Is she saying yes ma’am… if she is, that’s a bit of a head shaker… maybe I’m not hearing her correctly but if so then seems somewhat inappropriate considering your different races…and history… perhaps I miss reading, but that’s my first sense and enough for me to not listen anymore…

@user-3w9jf4r5qz

Ай бұрын

what's wrong with yes maam? she was being formal and polite. not everything is about race. one sees color if they are obssessed with colour.😅

@jenskruse1475

Ай бұрын

I felt the same way

@janelleking8684

27 күн бұрын

Hi! I am one of the people in the video. Thanks for your comment and your care and consideration about historical racial power imbalances. Hopefully, in me sharing this response, it will land in a connecting way for you, and you will be open to my response. A'Miracle has a deep-rooted pattern of using "ma'am" and "sir". When we first met over 8 years ago, I mentioned to her she really didn't need to call me that and it actually makes me a little uncomfortable being called that because of power dynamics associated with the word(s), but she explained that she was raised to use this, and that it's deeply engrained and her preference. I hope after you hear this, perhaps you might be able to have more space and openness to watch the video, but I understand if not. Thanks.

@Smitch-hw1bv

24 күн бұрын

@@janelleking8684 hi and Thankyou for your thoughtful response…and the use of ma’am is again more of an American Colloquialism I suppose as compared to her in Canada where it is seldom used…

@janelleking8684

16 күн бұрын

@@Smitch-hw1bv Ahh I understand. Thanks for sharing that!

This is well intentioned but I don't like this process. I found it to be active listening instead of actually listening. The woman "managed the process" and it did not honour the speaker.