He needs to go to civil court and sue her for half of those bills since the parents are responsible

@miraculerlovingmiraculous6528

2 жыл бұрын

I agree but I wonder what the kid did to have legal fees hopefully nothing too bad

@shannonobrien9922

2 жыл бұрын

Ikr!!! My X also had 2 carry health insurance AND 75% of out of pocket!!!

@adamdavis539

Жыл бұрын

Apparently u didn't hear what he said

@jessicaarmstrong5035

3 ай бұрын

I'm not even sure he can do that. He has to have a reason for why he's suing her for that. His son getting into trouble has nothing to do with the mom because she has no authority over him. That's the thing when you're the custodial parent. You take on the responsibilities of the child. It's his own fault that he never got child support before. Now he has to prove that there's a change in the financial circumstances. If his son is being a criminal that's on him. He has to do something about that or he should've raised him better. It's harsh but it's true. A lot of kids that turn out bad do so because of problems at home. I won't say there isn't the odd little psychopath but most likely if his son is doing these things it's because there's something he's upset about. The best he can do for him is to take him to therapy to deal with whatever is causing him to be like this. There are a number of different supports that can help with a problematic child.

I don’t think I’ve ever felt sorrier than I do for this man. And the mother ain’t even show up. DAMN. 😞

@nature-kv3xe

11 ай бұрын

I think the father should find out where the mom is drop him off keep it moving

@kparsa1

5 ай бұрын

Man that's rough...Wish him the best.

I kept laughing every time they looked at the chair as if she is there and she is not there 🤣

@analyciawilliams1791

3 жыл бұрын

Me too I’m laughing my ass off !

@RihannaMEGAfan

3 жыл бұрын

I swear I DIE every time!! 🤣

@cecelove2821

2 жыл бұрын

I am in TEARSSS

@dazzahoward7104

2 жыл бұрын

Hardly funny.

@yesindeed3571

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

What about the fact that the mom moved away? She relocated and is no longer doing 50/50.

@bharathcool414

3 жыл бұрын

Mediation - they came to an agreement that no child support is needed .. if both agree and sign mediation doc ..it's powerful and can't be changed that easily

@agentwade

2 жыл бұрын

It doesn't count when the father is concerned only if the mother needs more money. Always been that way

@maatssun6713

2 жыл бұрын

@@agentwade This....

@Liamryun2783

2 жыл бұрын

@@bharathcool414 he just has to take her to civil court and charge for have the cost of damages it’s mot child support so nothing to do with her paying anything on going but as a parent even if the child does not reside with you if you have moved interstate and canceled her side of the health insurance she can be sued for part of the cost of damages and liability’s as she is still the parent of the child and the judge can make a decision with the circumstances taken into account the child is being a dropkick and any mother who moves interstate and stops paying health insurance for there child is a piece of shit in my opinion anyway :)

@pleasantserenity9648

2 жыл бұрын

If she is no longer doing 50/50 then yes. But just because she relocates doesn’t automatically mean she isn’t doing 50/50. So to speak.

I really feel for this guy. It takes 2 people to make a child

@savagekock

4 жыл бұрын

Only takes 1 to have it .. MGTOW.2014 !!

@miaaragon38

4 жыл бұрын

@@savagekock only takes one time unprotected on each other's part

@savagekock

4 жыл бұрын

@@miaaragon38women have over 15 types of birth control , a man gets as far a a woman lets him , . "her body her choice" . lol.. MGTOW.2014 !!!

@miaaragon38

4 жыл бұрын

@@savagekock and guys have condoms

@savagekock

4 жыл бұрын

@@miaaragon38 keep youre legs closed !! MGTOW 2014 !!

I feel for this guy.

@cliftonandrus2761

3 жыл бұрын

It's fake

@jiselyntito5045

2 жыл бұрын

@@cliftonandrus2761 o ooouiui

@adanhernandezgc4447

2 жыл бұрын

@@cliftonandrus2761 bruh how u know

What. If he would have asked for half of the bill... not child support... That's what he needs... Split the bill.... YOU HAVE TO ASK FOR THE RIGHT THING... the son is under 18... it's criminal not medical....

@JudgeVondaB

4 жыл бұрын

Correct, criminal...has nothing to do with child support.

@impactproformance

4 жыл бұрын

Typical of kids who grow up without fathers. Obama went over those stats years ago, its scum judges who dont give auto 50/50 that are the real criminals ruining kids like that.

@elnazamjad8616

2 жыл бұрын

@@JudgeVondaB but didn’t mom drop the insurance? You said there must be a change in order to get a child support. That is a change.

Wait a minute. The Judge said that both parents were suppose to provide insurance. He stated the mother is no longer doing that. But she gets of scott free?

@avreerussell2712

2 жыл бұрын

She stated that the child was double insured. Children don’t require being double insured. He still has insurance on the child.

@valeriewade1341

4 ай бұрын

dad said his insurance won't pay because it was because child was involved in a criminal act mom should help.with Bill's she had moved out of state and doesn't insurance for the child I don't understand why mom doesn't have to be responsible for anything Judge was way off on this one. I hope he can find someone who will listen to him and get him some help

@jessicaarmstrong5035

3 ай бұрын

That wasn't her choice though. It's not her fault that insurance companies won't cross state lines. Also, the child was double insured. Now he's just regularly insured. It doesn't make a material difference in the long run.

@cbrown4293

2 ай бұрын

But it was her choice, to move to a new state

Mom Quitting her job and Moving out of state and dropping the kid from her insurance is Atleast 2 different changes that you mentioned. She most likely has a different job potentially making a different amount than she was making previously. I know these are skits and I LOVE watching the you!! You are amazing!! I do kinda feel like this one potentially fell through the cracks.

@jessicaarmstrong5035

3 ай бұрын

Technically she didn't drop the kid from her insurance. You can't insure a child across state lines. And the rest is conjecture. You don't know that she's making a different amount. The problem is that Judge Vonda can only practice Texas law. And the original agreement was made in Texas. It's always the originating state that has jurisdiction. Which means that the original agreement stays in place. The original agreement in this case was for him to not receive child support. In order for that to change he has to get her to agree to it. And no one in their right mind will agree to that. So there's really nothing that Judge Vonda could've done differently.

Man I feel for the guy. The system needs to be reevaluated. But hey judge me and wifey love the vids. Very informative. Thanks for everything you do

@JudgeVondaB

4 жыл бұрын

Madison Hopson Thank you!

@joannstonebarger3545

6 ай бұрын

​@@JudgeVondaBThere's been 2 changes she's not seeing her son and she's not paying insurance.

@jessicaarmstrong5035

3 ай бұрын

@@joannstonebarger3545 Neither of those would make a difference. She didn't choose not to pay insurance. Insurance did that. And not seeing her son would work against him in this case because why should she have to pay for a son she doesn't see? Even so, he's the one who agreed not to receive child support. This could've easily gone in the opposite direction. If she moved and was paying child support, moving would not be a reason to change the order because it goes by the agreement in the originating state. He screwed himself over by agreeing to that. He should've been smarter.

I would love for my daughter to follow in your footsteps! I love the way you carry yourself and take care business. This is refreshing.

She said at the end of the video that for him to receive child support one of the things was that the other parent of the child would had to have relocated and that was considered a substantial change but when he tells her that she moved away then she says there’s no changes that can help him receive help. This case made no sense to me. And that poor man looked like he was going to cry because he is struggling with everything he’s going through with his child.

@this.is.pointless

Жыл бұрын

Yes I'm a bit confused about that myself. That seems like a pretty significant change. The mom moved and her insurance was dropped. Kinda seems like a change to me.

What? She quit her job (Change of income) and moved out of state (relocation). How is that not substantial change based on your definition at the end of the video?

@Just_janee_

3 жыл бұрын

He would have to prove she did but he don’t bring anything with him showing that so she had to go fourth like nunthing had changed

@b1akn3ss93

2 жыл бұрын

But Her not showing up is a also form (proof/evidence)...

@bekind2416

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY, the mom is no longer around for the child ?????? How does this not constitute as change ????

@ashleyalger9546

2 жыл бұрын

And he has to continue to pay back child support I find this rediculous

@Hwkgrl16

2 жыл бұрын

@@ashleyalger9546 I do too.

The child has become a criminal! His mother should split the expenses that their son has made!

@JudgeVondaB

4 жыл бұрын

That’s not how child support works.

@cmhensley

4 жыл бұрын

What about moral obligation?

@simoneyoung5439

3 жыл бұрын

@BigChris Man the same way they make men pay for children that women don’t let them see ..

@Hwkgrl16

2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree

@Hwkgrl16

2 жыл бұрын

@@JudgeVondaB It seems like the Texas kaw is allowing the mother to get away with not taking care of her child. I wonder if it would've been the same if the roles were reversed. This man can't seem to catch a break even though he's actually taking care of his child.

Wait, the child is now living with him, and she bounced ? That’s not a change? Relocation of a parent?

@bfpaul1

3 жыл бұрын

Think it's more cause he waited too long to go there about the change which is funny cause I swear I heard back payment on child support mentioned O.o

@Hwkgrl16

2 жыл бұрын

I asked the same question.

@bullet5596

Жыл бұрын

He is a man that's why! If he did that they would track him down and put him in jail!

Love this show. My heart goes out to the guy hard to watch. I wrote it earlier but i would imagine he is entitled to assistants with medical help just maybe not through CS.

He trusted her. Too funny. He'll learn today.

Why is everyone missing where he said that the mother lost her job and now isn’t covering their son that is a pretty substantial change

@kimigrande8640

3 жыл бұрын

it had to be increase not a decrease

@teenasnyder4888

Жыл бұрын

But by law she is required to carry insurance on him court ordered. I went through the court hearings they required both of us to have insurance at all times. When it’s court ordered no matter if you lose your job you still have to carry insurance on that boy.

I feel so sorry for this man. He's trying to protect his son and keep him on the right track and he gets no help.

She said no change but is child was on both insurances and she lost hers and his wont pay now thats a change cuz hes goin to have to pay out of pocket for the hospital bills so im confused why wouldnt she have to pay 50 percent of the uncovered medical she dropped her ins moved and lost her job so her income and ins has changed

I would ask for her to be required to have health protection on him. If I couldn't get that then I would take her to small claims court to reimburse half the medical bills.

Lmao why the camera keep focusing on the chair 😂😂😂😂

Awe. That poor man. I feel for him. I hope his situation has changed since this video.

This isn't about child support....it's about legal responsibility/ parental obligation. The judge is wrong on this one.

@Hwkgrl16

2 жыл бұрын

I think so too.

I can appreciate the fact that from what I've seen...u base your judgment pertaining to the law. Not emotions.

@JudgeVondaB

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@cotcb

4 жыл бұрын

@@JudgeVondaB That's what I like about you and judge Judy. Mathis & Brown are emotional as hell. Mathis crying all the time and Brown always giving his personal opinion on any and everything even though nobody asked him.

His Only Other Option Is Civil Litigation In A Civil Lawsuit.. It May Work? But It's A Stretch.. Child Support Court Hands Are Tied.. He Agreed To The Arrangement..

I feel bad for this guy. That is so unfortunate.

My heart breaks for this man

Committing crimes seems fairly substantial to me.

This is horrible for him!!!

This poor man, I really felt for him. He is drowning in debt.

This is the classical sexism that goes on in courts

How is the child being dropped from insurance, and no longer being insured by mom, and being hospitalized not a substantial change

AJs living arrangements are going to change. I see prison in his future.

What about the fact that she was ordered in that mediation to keep him insured on both of their insurance and she didn't!

The mother scammed him

@valeriewade1341

4 ай бұрын

and also the judgr

I think he just went to the wrong court. This sounds more like a civil matter.

Something has changed! She moved out of state and doesnt see her son! now there are criminal acts they are responsible for financially and medical bills. So yes, significant change!

That poor guy. You could see the defeat in his demeanor as soon as she said there was nothing that could be done.

Oh she a judge- judge!! LOVE ME SOME JUDGE VONDA!! She give me big Judge Maybelline energy!

@JudgeVondaB

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you love!❤️

The judge can help, she's just blowing smoke. Both parents are on the hook for all expenses concerning the minor child

@JudgeVondaB

4 жыл бұрын

🤔

@gentlespiritdavis

4 жыл бұрын

Its always the same thing.....screw dad as hard as you can. That's why I had a vasectomy . All my ex wife's kids are grown. Have a great life....deuces ✌🏻

@impactproformance

4 жыл бұрын

Typical biased unconstitutional judge.

@zerogeass7147

3 жыл бұрын

@@gentlespiritdavis how much did you pay for the vasectomy I just have one kid that's it I don't want no more

So court costs and/or medical don’t count as substantial change?

Sounds like a lot of things changed!!! She isn’t taking care of son anymore. She left the State and stopped Insurance on Son. Her income has changed. She isn’t helping with court costs. So he needs to go back to court and demand she pay child support and 1/2 insurance and 1/2 court costs, and 1/2 property destruction costs.

Actually he said “the mother moved out of state”. Good thing these are actors.

@impactproformance

4 жыл бұрын

Reality is far worse.

@this.is.pointless

Жыл бұрын

Sometimes they really do look like actors. Are they all really actors? I've known people that have gone on judge Judy. That's some crap if they are. I get it but at the same time ugh. Why. Ew. I hate that.

@Autumn2Yall

Жыл бұрын

@@this.is.pointless the lady playing the judge is an attorney. Now the people may be real clients who participate in her videos. But the people they being sued by may not necessarily be their “real” baby mama or baby daddy.

Ugh, I feel so sad for this poor dad. I was really hoping for him. His son screwed up, that doesn’t mean HE should end up in that much debt. 😢

the kid is out of control he needs to be in juvinal

@afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154

4 жыл бұрын

*Juvenile.*

Never agree to no child support! If he don’t need the help just save the money for a rainy day and if that day never comes give it to the child when they need it

why was the wife able to drop insurance when they was supposed to be duo insured

A child debt needs to go to civil court and get shared between the parents.

Why is he the only one, having to pay for THEIR kid. :/

Uh uh no this was a terrible ruling. The needs of the child changed. Legal fees, medical bills, debt from debt manages are material changes. He said that he was probably going to be dropped from his insurance and some the mom left the state that child could now be uninsured. This was NOT in the best interest of the child judge I’m very disappointed.

What about because she moved away the child is no longer covered under mom's health ins.

Things have changed though, he should have been able to revisit that situation to modify it. I think the Texas law is too narrow. Glad I don't live there.

This poor guy I hope he sue her

So moms loss of insurance in the dual insurance agreement and medical expenses arent significant changes the same as simple chid support. So in retrospect, mediation was a farce in this instance. No discussion of what happens if 1 parent drops or loses insurance thats agreed upon or expenses of medical bills. It sounds like he should be able to sue her for half in civil court. On one hand, this clearly illustrates the pitfalls of a mediation agreement. On the other it reveals that cooperation isnt always the best to protect ones future legal situation. One would think mediation would discuss violations of any pending agreement and how it would affect the child to protect the child once such an agreement is in place. The mom gets to skip town and skip out of her agreement to have insurance. Not surprised.

@ericaschaidt8588

4 жыл бұрын

rushfan9thcmd I don’t think mediation can deal in “what if’s”.

But the child isn’t carried by her insurance anymore so why would there be no child support for him mom really gets away Scott free without having to take any responsibility for her child so sad

@lifewithshenna1713

3 жыл бұрын

Right! It has been a change . They still agreed for him to insured under both insurances . But, now he’s insured for the dad. Like that’s a big change to the case. Which should appear and explain why he isn’t covered under her anymore. It’s either that or pay the day

🥺🥺I feel so sorry for that man no senior should go through that man seeing this makes me think about my grandma

Mr Thornton this is your fault for giving the mom a free pass. She would've milked you like a cow if it was the other way around.

@afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154

4 жыл бұрын

I agree.

@impactproformance

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@delyn13

3 жыл бұрын

R U KIDDING ME THIS IS DEFINITELY NOT HIS FAULT HE WAS ABSOLUTELY TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF BY THE MOTHER THE MOTHER KNEW EXACTLY WHAT SHE WAS DOIN SHE EVEN ASKED THE JUDGE IF THE AGGREEMENT WAS IREVOCABLE I KNEW RIGHT THEN SHE WAS TAKING ADVANTAGE OF HIM AND THE JUDGE I NORMALLY SUPPORT THE MOMS ON CHILD SUPPORT BUT THIS TIME I CANT SUPPORT THIS WOMAN

Aww he was so disappointed.. his hands were tied 😞

I love how she explains at the end

She is so professional.

But the mom moved out of state. Wouldn’t that mean she’s not seeing her son as often? Isn’t that a substantial change?

You could have stop the back child support. That would have help him

The bailiff is fine.

@JudgeVondaB

4 жыл бұрын

I think so too.😁

a relocation of the mom is a change and she quit her job so her insurance dropped the son. those are two significant changes. Jugde fumbled this one. poor guy. he needs daredevil to be his lawyer.

If it was the Mom she'd be awarded half his income. Id be worried about him if I was the Judge. But hes paying m o m BACK PAYMENTS.

Maybe address him by his name instead of the boy to start.

If this was the mother it wouldn't happen

He just needs help she should be liable for half of medical expenses and court costs for the child

You said that something in mums income would to have changed but I thought he said that the mum quit her job and moved overstates. Would that not be a change in income thus allowing him to file for child support? Maybe I’m confused though 😂

What about the change in medical coverage?

It's such a shame that he's having to bear all the issues and debts yet the mother gets away with it all, surely she should be responsible for half of the debts being the child's mother!

I must be missing something, the boy now lives with Dad, Mom hit the road. Why does Mom not have to help support the child and be responsible for his expenses?

Some times this show confuses me. Why not a parent come back and say “ I want child support now” why mom is not responsible for this bills.? Isn’t it an expense? So hospital bill is not an expense, but basketball is?

Just because you don’t put the other parent on child support doesn’t mean you can’t do that later though, so I’m confused. I agreed to no court ordered child support and then when my ex husband didn’t keep his end of our personal arrangement, I went back to court and the judge ordered it. So I don’t understand why here it’s like “well a few years ago you said no child support” so is the dad just screwed because he tried parenting with no financial help from the other parent before it got too overwhelming? Is this a TX law? That’s unfortunate

The mom not liable for her parenting is irresponsible! She moving out of state so she won't be contacted for financial assistance for child support, dad should be able to alter the agreement if the child is still under 18. That's awful, putting all financial burden onto one parent!

There's a whole lot of changes that occurred though... I'm not understanding. The mom moved out of state and left the kid with the dad, AND he is getting into trouble. THAT in and of itself proves his son has changes in his mental health for the worse. He needs help. This dad needs help.

It's when you take Mama to small claims court and sue her for half

She left so she wouldn’t have to pay!

I pray for him. He sounds so hurt

Man this is breaking my heart poor guy stay strong homie

This was a weird ruling , the mom moved away and took her child out of her insurance … Bot only that , the kid is a criminal yes , but as a result the dad’s bills have increased … BECAUSE of the child that he needs to SUPPORT financially in order for him to rob around.

That's what happens to men everyday! But if it was a woman doing the EXACT same thing,bet your ass he WOULD pay! And let a man not show up to court! He would be in jail.

She must be a ghost 👻🤣🤣🤣

The kid sounds like he needs help.

The fact she isn’t contributing to her son by a second insurance I think should be considered a substantial change that’s messed up.

Is the medical stuff or loss of insurance a substantial change??

The mother relocated, didn't she? Still this guy is right, she is washing her hands off the kid they both made

Poor man. God bless him. 🥺💔

And if it were the wife in court asking for help, the courts would see her plight and award her accordingly.

@glenda3752

3 жыл бұрын

obviously they wouldn’t.. did you not listen to the end?

@glenda3752

3 жыл бұрын

@Trey Gordon don’t cry bout it sir

I agree with most of your cases, you are great! And I love the show! But I think you missed on this one judge There clearly has been several substantial changes. From relocation of the mother, half of the (double) insurance is no longer in place, and now there is a substantial monetary change concerning the incident with the police and subsequent damages. The mother should also be on the hook, if the father is being held accountable for those damages.

So ole girl in the back didn’t have a case😭

The only episode I watch where the dad was seeking child support and he somehow did not wtf!

How is the son incurring huge debts not a change of circumstances?

Lesson kids..... Never settle for No child support. Bc it will come back you bite you. 😣

I feel there was some change in the son behavior in which the father would need to get him evaluated

How do all these medical expenses not cou t as significant changes.

@JudgeVondaB

4 жыл бұрын

Great question. By law, parents split the uninsured medical expenses. That has nothing to do with child support.

@msy6030

4 жыл бұрын

@@JudgeVondaB Doesn't that mean he is technically entitled to assistance just not through child support?

@JudgeVondaB

4 жыл бұрын

Msy No it doesn’t.

@ericaschaidt8588

4 жыл бұрын

Gloria Ptach maybe the medical costs in question aren’t the medical cost for injuries the child sustained, but costs of his victims,?

Made my heart cry

something did change - the kid resides in jail now. what would have happened if something happened to the kid requiring constant medical attention, etc?

You zoomed on the chair? 😂😂