The real drama is the fact he got ranch dressing instead of Caesar Dressing. A true crime in of itself.

@vielara

Жыл бұрын

It's a damn tragedy is what that is. Ranch on a Caesar salad. 😢

@alchemyty

Жыл бұрын

As someone who had a similar experience and is now seeking therapy, I whole heartedly agree.

@Gryph00

Жыл бұрын

I remember someone gave me blue cheese on it once, and it opened up a universe of putting in on damn near every salad I eat. Balsamic? Blue. Caesar? Blue. Garden? Blue. lol

@Enderlinkpawnu

Жыл бұрын

I wouldn’t mind that. I don’t like caesar dressing.

@kcmccray5686

Жыл бұрын

🤢 🤢🤢🤢ranch on caesar salad

Pyro making drama out of nothing and apologized for baby like behavior? Day must end in a y

@haunter64

Жыл бұрын

He needs a lala chair to go with his attitude

"I've tarnished the Pyromancer name." Foul tarnished, in search of sympathy. Emboldened by the flame of ambition. Someone must extinguish thy flame. Let it be Xeno, the War Father.

@Cipher_Actual

Жыл бұрын

Laid those ambitions to rest.

@kharngotrekson1726

8 ай бұрын

“Unfortunately for you, however, you are restrainless. Without humbleness, without the strength of restraint, and without an invitation to the Tower of Zot...”

My fiancée has ADHD, ASD and PTSD, but shes not a fucking asshole whatsoever. If anything shes the kindest person in the world and only wants to uplift people provided you aren't an asshole. I'm sick and tired of Pyro's excuses over and over again so I fully agree with everything Xeem's said in the video.

@swagnius

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. Mental illness isn't a free pass to be a jerk to people.

@talancorwell

Жыл бұрын

If anything, I think he might have some undiagnosed issues he needs to address

@itsisci

Жыл бұрын

This ^^, I'm dealing with many mental illnesses and surround myself with similar people so that we LEARN from our mistakes. Pyro makes the same dumb mistakes over and over again and never learns, he just doesn't care. Which is sad because I really enjoy(ed) his lore content in WoW/FFXIV.

@dangauthier8957

Жыл бұрын

I agree as well. He is only apologizing because he realizes his career is on the line. He is a very selfish person and it is very obvious if you watch his streams and see how he interacts with others. These videos confirms that he is full of shit when he can't even keep direct eye contact with the camera and show general disappointment with himself, accept responsibility and identify how steps he will take going forward to change. You can change being a asshole, being inconsiderate and what not but that change comes with actions and self help. I saw this years ago when I watched a stream once and quickly decided I have no desire in supporting him or his content. Pyro or whatever he wants to call himself has no desire to change.

@kieran2k917

Жыл бұрын

Mental illness does not affect everyone the same way. Not everyone will be the same as your fiancee.

The whole adblock making the experience better is true. Countless times I've gone into a stream and then got Ad 1 of 8 immediately and just decided to rage quit there and then.

@rare8567

Жыл бұрын

after using adblock for so long if i get ads in twitch i just lose focus and do something else tbh.

@olololo4807

Жыл бұрын

that's not ragequitting that's common sense. :)

@mems9953

Жыл бұрын

I honestly dont know why its 8 whole ads Like if it was 2? Whatver, that's only 30 seconds to wait But Twitch expects me to sit through 2 minutes of them. Absolutely not

@Pixtrix_

Жыл бұрын

@@mems9953 just little amazon things trying to get as much money as possible

@Liquefaction

Жыл бұрын

​@@rare8567 but you're still supporting if you leave the video open

This apology video is so unnecessary. A tweet was good enough for the rant, a tweet is good enough for the apology. "I was wrong, sorry." Boom. The details don't matter, and can actually make things worse. This video is all about a narcissistic need for acceptance.

@Maria_Erias

Жыл бұрын

And money. Kid saw his bank account explode when he did the MSQ, and now he's seeing the fallout and it's making him scared and jumpy. He thought he'd won the lottery when he'd really just won $500 on a scratch off.

@Paien75

Жыл бұрын

Yes except he’s a narcissist so he still needs this to be about him and trying to sound so self aware lol. Dude is a clown

@puntacana7550

Жыл бұрын

Usually super defensive stuff comes from low self esteem. They know they are low so they can’t stand criticism and play overly defensive. So narcism here is more like their personal mind barrier rather than real narcism

@ralk7048

Жыл бұрын

@@puntacana7550 There are actually 2 types of narcissism according to the DSM (psychologist diagnostic manual). Grandiose narcissists actually believe they are great. Vulnerable narcissists are the ones that have low self-esteem, a lot of shame, and are defensive.

*Taylor in therapy* Therapist: And is this "Pyromancer" who makes you say stupid shit, is he in the room with us now?

@FunnyDougy

Жыл бұрын

Pyro flames fluidly in and out of the conversation. Then Taylor covers for him with mental manipulation.

He never says sorry or I’m wrong period. Its always yada yada “I never meant to” “came out a different way” “I was upset” “foot in mouth” etc. I know he’s an emotional guy but he should walk away when he gets angry and should definitely not be on twitter in any capacity.

@Maria_Erias

Жыл бұрын

As I said on another reply, this is classical "I'm not sorry for what I did, I'm sorry people got mad that I did it" behavior.

@ryanrushford7918

Жыл бұрын

Yeah exactly. My ex boyfriend had the exact same kind of behaviour. I had to force an apology which I knew wasn’t real but even then it was just a joke. This kind of behaviour never, ever changes.

Yeah, Xeno makes the right call here. I am an older dude, I have high functioning autism and ADHD and I lived with it for 20 years before it became the cool crutch that I see every streamer offering up for explaining why they act like a tw&t. I had to learn how to live with it and navigate around it. As Xeno says, everyone has RL issues and doing dumb things and when you get burned for it falling back on the “it’s not me it’s my mental issue, don’t hate me, respect me for valiantly streaming with this condition” GTFO of here. My son has the same issues as me and since day 1 I’ve taught him that his conditions and challenges are never an excuse, never a get out of jail free card. It can be a blessing, it can be a challenge, but it’s never an excuse for acting up. Learn to live with it and don’t make it the worlds problem.

@ikeaira8701

Жыл бұрын

I feel this, and even I'm still learning to properly function as a "normal" person and navigate around my mental related issues and even using it properly to my advantage via I May see how to solve a problem in a more efficient manner than others, etc. It is a spectrum, some cope with it easier than others, but there's a time when ya gotta say: "I'm tired of this bs." and take that leap of faith TRYING to get better then Learning by talking with family & professionals to help get you on the right track. People shouldn't go at it alone imo(that's part of the reason why it gets worse, or loops back on itself and may be the reason why Pyro loops through the same issues nonstop. Just an assumption based off of what I've seen since he joined the XIV Streaming/Content Creation sphere. Also I'm not tryna make excuses for him either, just an observation).

@kapified

Жыл бұрын

You could have typed that out for me just by changing a few words. You nailed it. I don't blame my ADHD and autism when I make the choice to be a twit about things. I apologize and learn from my mess up. Why is it so difficult?

@Benhutchison1978

Жыл бұрын

@@ikeaira8701 Exactly, being neurodivergent can lend itself very well to occupations like streaming. In a sense, where you fall on the spectrum or the flavour of ADHD you have can give you a real advantage that non neurodivergent people just don’t have. On the flip side though it has real weaknesses too. To be successful, like everything else in life, you need to capitalize on your strengths and compensate for your weaknesses.

At a certain point, you have to question whether anything he says is genuine. Frequent apologies aren't sincere. He does this way too frequently It's like, if a person apologizes to you five separate times for shooting you in the foot five separate times, do you think the sixth is going to be any more genuine? I'm sure he meant it the last five times, but he's probably going to shoot you in the foot again. (Just like Activision-Blizzard! But that's a whole 'nother can of worms.)

@forterocks123

Жыл бұрын

I genuinely think he's bi-polar or autistic, he's got mood swings. He's young and spends most of his life on the internet, that isn't going to lead to healthy habits in managing stress or emotions. I feel bad for him.

@ZarathosDaimaoh

Жыл бұрын

It is not authentic . Does he have mental issues ? That part is real . Is he really apologizing ? nope . it reads like "I'm sorry you felt i had to apologize for shooting you . Since it's causing me troubles , let me tell you about my pain , and that i did not really mean to shoot you , however you kinda deserved it . i'll work on myself to not shoot you again , but man it's such a struggle"

@grisch5244

Жыл бұрын

Exactly this, he use to pull this shit during his time with WoW. Dude systematically likes to cause issues then play victim but still lets u kno its ur fault for not supporting him and his dumb ass reasonings. Kinda happy to see he got little "relevance" in 14 but i doubt he will stick around too much longer

@richardshiflett5181

Жыл бұрын

If he has adhd then why isn't he taking meds or seeing a doctor if this keeps happening? Pyro does this to himself.

@Spoodasaurus

Жыл бұрын

I don't believe a single KZreadr apology videos is genuine tbh. They're just trendy things to do when you make a fucky wucky, and try to snake people into continuing to watch them because they realize that it's actually not them keeping the channel alive, it is the viewers like xeno said himself. Drama is free content and still gets views as well so they milk that aspect.

Hardcore progging while still providing RACT content, sasuga baldicante sama

Angry narcissists will always play the victim once cornered, its the energy game they play. Xeno is completely right to not care about Pyro's "mental state" because its simply just Pyro trying to gain some control again. The guy is a nasty person and hes now the subject of that wonderful thing called, Karma... Man, that apology vid was bull....

@annavictrix

Жыл бұрын

"The energy game"! What a great way to put it with people like that.

@rasmachris94

Жыл бұрын

I agree, to be quite frank nobody gives a fuck about his mental state. Your mental state is your own to deal with and sometimes it can be hard, but that doesnt mean you drum up drama every few weeks. You have maybe a slip and fall where you hurt someone maybe once every couple of years by saying something stupid or getting angry. That's life and as long as you interface with people eventually you'll piss someone off or hurt someone when you dont mean to. I dont buy his half assed apology. Not once did he actually address what he said to the viewers and why it was a horrendous take, this is damage control pure and simple. Kept skirting the issue. Saying something stupid or getting angry isnt 'you mean nothing to me if you dont give me money' that's a core money grubbing personality thing. That's hard baked, that's not something you say on accident unless you genuinely think or have thought that at some point. This is not the first time either, this is one in a multitude of meltdowns. He needs someone as a community manager to control his online profiles and proofread what he's going to say before he hits post. But again, this isnt on anyone but him that he cant control himself from saying stupid shit. You can tell that he didnt actually mean this apology by the way that he never actually apologised for anything concrete. His response to people feeling hurt that he said viewers that arent subbed or have turbo and have adblock can get out was 'you're valued'. That's not an apology, that's a weak ass attempt at garnering sympathy and trying to make people feel special to ignore the fact that he said they can leave if they cant or wont give him money.

My favorite streamer thanked me numerous times for lurking a couple time a week for 2 to 3h, like I feel super welcome in his stream despite not getting a subscription till my financial situation is good enough to do stuff like that. Pyro is like 2 people sometimes, he needs to get help and stay the hell away from all things online when he can't get all his medication.

Im a MSQ Vampire. Ill watch that journey 100 times. This mofo had me disgusted before he got to Heavensward. WoW can have him lol

@hellsing154

Жыл бұрын

I tried to watch a stream of his back in heavensward and just the constant taking 5 to 10 minute breaks between lines in cutscenes killed all momentum and enjoyment.

@danielj6897

Жыл бұрын

Yeah there were times when he fixated on something innocuous from chat and got worked up. That was the first time I truly understood the feeling of cringe. It weirded me out and I had to leave. And that's not even counting the 5-10 minute notebook breaks. It's one thing if you have a spontaneous idea for a video or some theory and you wanna write it down so you don't forget. But it got to the point where it felt like he was just transcribing the entirety of the cutscene dialogue. I can brush the notebook time aside as his own personal preference and I'm not gonna say that was wrong since everybody should be able to enjoy the MSQ as they see fit (as long as it wasn't a legitimate stall tactic to stretch viewership). But the negativity, attitude, and backpedaling on his actions have been excused enough times and I can't listen to anything he says as genuine.

@Tylenish

Жыл бұрын

bruh, not even wow players wants him back he is that much of a mess because apparently he caused some issues there as well

@amazinspodermanproductions1342

Жыл бұрын

WoW/FFXIV player here: we don't want him in either group. 🤮

@Tylenish

Жыл бұрын

@@amazinspodermanproductions1342 both MMOs dont want him, he is an exploding drama source AND internet aids for both

Just a minute in and want to comment. My condolences to Xeems for getting ranch dressing on his Caesar Salad. I'm physically sick knowing that such a travesty happened.

What he said about AdBlock is not technically correct. The impact is not direct. AdBlock does not block the ad on the server, but on the client. For the server the ad is running, you just dont see it. So the problem "for them" with ad block is the "conversion" is lower, which is not even a concern to the content creator OR the platform. It is a concern to those who pay for the ads. It is a concern to whomever sees paying for lots of ads and not selling stuff. It is even not possible to the server to know exactly if you running adblock unless they ask for a feedback, which you CAN GIVE if you know how. I have been running ad block for years, and even websites which have that script to block if you have ad block I bypass using the very own adblock for that. The content creator is even better off with adblock, because me, I see the content without ads, the content creator get engagement and subs, and the only one wrecked is the company paying for the ads. That is why KZread, Twitch, or whatever, do not activelly block the adblock. They just offer "ad feee subs" because "why not ?".

@lokipic4988

Жыл бұрын

I had no idea AdBlock worked this way, thanks for this explanation. As far as I can remember, there always were a bunch of streamers/youtubers demonizing AdBlock thinking that it would directly amputate a portion of their paycheck.

@Athai_

Жыл бұрын

Xeno should pin this this is really informative

@patyos2

Жыл бұрын

Depends on the websites some websites has checks to check if the ads actually displayed on the page or if theres a ad blocker extension installed in the browser.

@17Master

Жыл бұрын

Is there a source to back this all up? I want to take it at face value, but we all know just believing everything one reads in a comment section can get sketchy real quick.

I cannot stand Pyro. Even when he tries to be reasonable, he is so damn obnoxious. The ego on this dude is unreal..

@1Mrstephen

Жыл бұрын

Beta male…

@richardshiflett5181

Жыл бұрын

He's a former haddcore wow fan. That toxicity isn't so easily removed

@frenchdream330

Жыл бұрын

Bullshit, in your lovely FFXIV community you also have Numerous Dramas, your top parsing tryhard hardcore community is also cancer AF, it has to do with human nature, not wow.

@dmccarrell1

Жыл бұрын

You would think after drama #53 in his 'career', people would understand that all of these 'I am trying to change' for ten years isn't happening. I do love Xeems takes on it, and it is entertaining just watching people react to it, I cannot understand how people just keep giving him the benefit of the doubt.

@TheAssirra

Жыл бұрын

@@richardshiflett5181 Look at the mirror...you talk about toxicity yet paint a whole playerbase like that.

the pyro cycle: *pyro gets baited into saying something dumb* *internet flames him* *he claims hes sorry and will change* RINSE AND REPEAT

@Zanbatoss

Жыл бұрын

Cant wait for the next dumb shit saga pyro stir up

@Adu767

Жыл бұрын

Nobody is even baiting him, this time it was just an absolutely fair take and he blew up because he's an egotist with an entitlement complex

@itsyaboiherman

Жыл бұрын

@@Zanbatoss same sir

@DoppelgangerTH

Жыл бұрын

​@Adu767 maybe that, but also desperation. I think financially he's seeing that iceberg, and his titanic is on its course to hit it

@fleeplayTV

Жыл бұрын

Its not even bait he just self inserts himself into these situations all the drama this boyo has been having aren't related to him

You're not trying to "beat a dead horse" but in this case the horse keeps coming back to life and shitting on the living room carpet.

@batwingpie

Жыл бұрын

Best comment 🤣

The issue with havin your true self in the internet is that if someone disagrees with you, you’re gonna feel like people don’t “personally” like you. Having an internet persona allows you to fall back to your true self and helps you look at situations objectively.

@batwingpie

Жыл бұрын

This is true, however the point, I think, being made is that his internet personality didn't write those comments, he did because they are the same person. He can't seperate the two in this case because his internet persona is not a character, it is just him using a branding name. I personally think he is very true to his own nature on stream and not another "entity" as he says.

Xeno is on point here . I've seen another "chapter" of his apology tour , and it frickin' starts with something sounding like "If you're saying don't blame it on mental health issues , stop the video" "or it's only happening because of FF14 and its community" . That's utter bull right there . His struggle being real , i'm not even debating over this , i'd rather 100 believe it's true .. but it's irrelevant , and just a factor , not the real cause . He was being mean toward people and let his true thoughts go through . just assume them and that you have shit takes and moments , like anybody else . Don't give us that malarkey about not being what you said or wanted to say . I'm tired of him , if you apologize ... it gotta be for something you actually did and know you did .... you ain't supposed to double dip and both somehow mean it , but not really . Hell the ban on Xeno is the perfect example . "We're cool , i apologize (because people did not take my side) , but i'll ban you later "

@34:50 "I'm sorry for hurting the feelings of those people" NOT "I'm sorry for what I said" If you listen carefully to what people say, they will reveal the real truth to you. Pyro deep down does not believe he said anything wrong, he only believes what he said will negatively impact him.

@Spoodasaurus

Жыл бұрын

This is such a trend with KZreadr apology videos. It's always "I'm sorry you're offended or I'm sorry you feel that way." If only there was a bingo card for these 😂

@Chastlilys

Жыл бұрын

"I'm sorry for hurting your feelings" and "I'm sorry you feel hurt" are very different though, in the former's case it is in fact an acknowledgement of having done something wrong while the latter redirects the topic on perception.

@COA5T

Жыл бұрын

@@Chastlilys In both instances, you are apologizing based on pure assumption (there was no evidence presented showing that someone said their feelings were hurt) on how someone else feels. Instead, you should be making an apology based on your own actions and what is within your control. "I messed up, I made a mistake, I was wrong, I apologize for what I did". Let the recipient tell you how that impacted them, don't assume on their behalf how they feel. Come on, this is Apology 101.

@Lunamana

Жыл бұрын

@@COA5T Yeah, that's one thing that really irked me about his video as well, he never apologizes for what he said being factually wrong, instead focuses on feelings which don't matter at all. He keeps apologizing to his fans not realizing how bad it looks for people outside of his fanbase, he even specifies "people who started streaming because of me" as if that means anything at all. All he had to do was apologize for being a dumbass and being wrong but instead he apologizes for basically nothing and does half an hour rant about how his mental health is effecting him. Take it however you want but i think this is the problem with being way too emotionally attached to things, he apologizes for the emotions he 'may have caused' to people, but never apologizing for the mistake he did, Apologizing for the mistake is a true apology, apologizing for emotions is just a way to shift the blame.

I remember when he was playing FF14, either in Shadowbringers or Endwalker, he said something along the lines of if you are only here for the big moments and not the others, your opinion doesn't mean shit.

@Peaceful_Hermit

Жыл бұрын

woah i think i remember that. it was either a clip or something i saw after the fact. though at the time i thought that was a one off thing. lol.

@maxmagnus377

Жыл бұрын

Too bad for him streams in general are 90% boring as fuck. I watch highlights exclusively for a reason. people just aren't entertaining multiple hours in a row.

@Miriam_J_

Жыл бұрын

It's always funny when people say this about this MMO specifically. Final Fantasy is about big moments, all the old games are constantly moving the story forward, you don't have to stop and do chores every town you visit. I feel like it's a fair critique (especially in Shadowbringers) to say they need to cut down on the "We have to do chores again?!" type quests this many expansions in. When the in game characters start joking about constantly doing chores, it gets even more unbearable, in my opinion.

I like how it's "part 1" because it's just expected that he's not done with his bullshit yet lol

This reminds me of that girl that freaked out over people not subbing, screaming "FIVE DOLLARS" lol

Pyro is so insufferable man. This is what terminally online looks like.

We all know pyromancer is going to do this again. Maybe not today. Maybe not tomorrow. Some day and for the rest of his life. Aslo not buying this is a character gaslighting.

@Tecolote41

Жыл бұрын

His Twitter will come back and we can expect another apology video in another few months from now.

I burned out on FFXIV for a few months but I’ve come back and catching up on everything, you’ve been keeping me very entertained War Father, keep up the good work!

@richardshiflett5181

Жыл бұрын

Taking breaks is cool. That's why I love ff14. I don't need to play it 24/7 like another certain mmo

@kroganlauncher

Жыл бұрын

Great to have you back. I tend to drop the game for weeks at a time, maybe even a month, whenever something new comes out. That's how I keep myself from burning out. Either that or I go play elden ring a bunch of times

@GoufinAround_

Жыл бұрын

I’m in the burn out section myself, been catching up on my backlog to refresh myself

@Tuskyboy

Жыл бұрын

@@kroganlauncher Yeah it’s nice to have an mmo where if I dip for like 3 months yeah coming back there’s gonna be a grind to get to where I need to be at but it’s not hair pulling

@marcuscorvin9998

Жыл бұрын

Watch the lalafell chair drama yet? 😂

Also, nothing pisses me off more than someone falling back on “I have mental health issues and that’s why I’m an asshole sometimes.” It shows that he doesn’t try to improve himself at all and it undermines the struggles of people who really try as hard as possible to avoid letting their mental health issues define them. He needs to get off the internet and actually try to work on himself. I got really mad at the fan fest but too, how is that important? Why would you even be going when you clearly have far more important things to worry about? How stupid can you be?

Streamer tries to not talk about mental health problems in apology video challenge (impossible)

He started off good by acknowledging he did wrong but the longer I watched, the more I got the sense that he was trying his best to avoid apologizing because he feels the people he angered are more at fault for taking issue with what he said then him just admitting that what he said was wrong and owning up to that. Learning is more than just admitting you did something wrong, you have to also show remorse. Otherwise the whole thing just smells like stinky, hollow damage control rather than an apology.

@Daecoth

Жыл бұрын

I seen these types before. "I can change" "I'm working on my anger" and "it won't happen again." It should be obvious that these are the words of repeat offenders that they use to justify their toxic existence without taking any real accountability. I'm convinced the only people left subbed are there for the emotes and the only ones watching are there to actively trigger him. I just hope the rest of his streaming career is as present as his attitude. I'll support more wholesome streamers. I know two specifically 😏

@dendraki

Жыл бұрын

This is apology number 6? Of course its damage control.

@NeoSpira

Жыл бұрын

He always "acknowledges" he did wrong and then he goes right back to being an absolute asshole like a loop. It's so empty when it comes from him.

@Maria_Erias

Жыл бұрын

This is a classical "I'm not sorry for what I did, I'm sorry you're mad for what I did."

@colinmccoy736

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, it's like, the language of abusers. "Oh no, I'm so sorry I hit you, I'll never do it again. Yeah, I know I've said it before, but you made me do it this time. If you'd stop provoking me, it won't happen any more. You need to do better so I stop hitting you."

I agree with you Xenos. Best advice for him is to walk away when he's feeling pissed off.

Pyro is the inverse of Asmongold, Asmon gives off a very bad first impression but if you follow him for a while you understand that he's a pretty nice guy. Pyro (outside of his drama Monday) can give off a pretty good impression but if you follow him for a while *WOOOOOHEEEEE*

@Peaceful_Hermit

Жыл бұрын

this ^. My first impressions of both streamers are exactly as you say haha. Pity pyro is like this.

@fai4743

Жыл бұрын

In addition, Asmon is an actual personality. Pyromancer is not a personality, he's not playing anything up for jokes or over-reacting. When Asmon streams on his Zackrawrr channel he's a totally different, very chill person. His backyard chat videos, as Zack, are very different than anything he's ever streamed or uploaded to anything with the Asmongold name. Pyromancer never changes. And using his real name is just a sympathy ploy in this instance. If he actually never comes to twitter that'll be a first.

@nhedd0s839

Жыл бұрын

@@fai4743 "he's a totally different, very chill person"- I mean Asmon says this himself, but honestly his main channel content aint even that different. He streams on his main channel for special occasions nowadays, but it's honestly not that different.

@TheAssirra

Жыл бұрын

@@nhedd0s839 The man took a long break and basically merged "Asmongold" and "Zack" to what we see now.

@monzu1234

Жыл бұрын

Asmon has a big ego like Pyro but he actually tries to see other people perspectives unless he thinks you're completely wrong. But he not going to have a go at you for using ad block especially since Zackrawrr channel is not even monetised.

Caesar salad with ranch dressing? That salad is ruined.

This dude CAN NOT look at the camera for HIS LIFE Damn, Xeems got the boy shaking

Aw man I just LOVE SO MUCH the way this video ended LMAO

Probably made Yabi's week for liking his vid, Based AF

Pyro is a classic case of NPD. He is completely oblivious.

Hope he buys better salads in the future, it's a tough problem to have.

FFXIV's own lolcow. Pyro should collab with GingerPrime and have a cryfest.

I love that he starts the video with that lowered head and sad voice ~ looks like someone wants to play the victim.

Pyro just seems like he lets the intrusive thoughts win.

Oh you even linked yabi in your describtion. thats very sweet of you man. dont have much to say to this situation. pyro is clearly desperate, oh well, whatever, moving on.

Its the difference between a spoiled child and a reasoned adult. A childish person cannot admit they are wrong and will use every excuse to try and cover it up. A reasonable person will admit they are wrong if it is proven to be the case. Its pretty clear which option Pyro's 'apology' fits.

Pyro just needs to leave social media. He's basically the next Fahros, which isn't good. All of your points are spot-fucking-on, he's got that same vibe a lot of certain... personalities in the community has as well. It's that fake nicety, overtly positive shit that makes me wanna fucking vomit and then they -do- slip and its like "well, yeah, saw that coming."

Someone should keep count how many apology videos has Pyromancer made.

WOOOOOO SAVAGE AND DRAMA??? We drowning in content

Thank you Mr. Streamer man for feeding my drama addiction. Its almost as bad as my kissies addiction which you also help me with when I catch your streams.

I like how he has such a massive undeserved ego, he acts like soooo many people are massive fans and continue to watch him because he’s so amazing. He left wow and joined ffxiv at a convenient time and is now insecure because all of his success had nothing to do with him but where he was. He really needs to find another career path

Pyro is like a twitch landlord lmfao

In regards to him saying Tyler vs Pyro I personally think he only said that bc of something Zepla said on stream. She said something along the lines of you have to separate Tyler from Pyro and not take things personally. I think the narcissist side of him tried to use that knowing her community would be watching. His whole apology seems fake and only trying for damage control. This is not a symptom of ADHD is narcissistic behavior and I'm sure something else. I hope he can get some kind of help if he really even is seeing a doctor for these issues.

He gets mad becasue of the ego. Pure and simple. He's a god and how dare you not pay a sub for the privelige of watching him. He might also want to try a different therapist because the current one is doing a great job.

once again the "but my mental health" . I love every time a player or streamer just fuck up magically is their mental health. You would think that a person that has been struggling with this would idk have the tools to remove themselves from situations that can potentially trigger their issues BUT NO here we are because they seem to get some enjoyment out of being a victim.

Maybe the real drama was the friends we made along the way

Can we get Pyromancer tickets to Fanfest, so a bunch of Lalafell cosplayers can beat the crap out of him?

@melissas4874

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I think he already has tix?

@whoarethou3462

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😂😂😂😂

gimme that juicy drama mister war father

I started watching Pyro when he was doing the FF14 MSQ stuff because I enjoyed watching all the different people's reactions to it. I never watched most of it live, just highlights on youtube, but he seemed fairly pleasant for the longest time. And then... The first drama. I just kinda thought "oh, no big deal, someone had an epic gamer moment, these things happen, live and let live, it's okay." And then it happened again, met with incoherent mumbling. And then again, with silence, and then *again.* And every time the videos are exactly the same thing, almost verbatim, of an apology. It's meaningless. None of this means anything if you keep having to apologize for the same thing. I finally unsubbed on youtube because I just wasn't getting content I cared about anymore and it's been kind of exhausting seeing it constantly, over and over. I'm good, man.

@dmccarrell1

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And now you basically understand his ENTIRE WoW time. Drama after drama after drama. He started to get noticed with his lore videos and then just like felt like monthly drama just like what is going on in FF.

@knowwhoiamyet

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@@dmccarrell1 Woof, that's rough. I pretty much just enjoyed watching anyone go through the story that halfway paid attention to it. When watching clip videos of people playing, when it was a choice between Pyro, who paid attention, or someone that would go OOOOoOoOOOOOO when literally nothing happened, scream over dialogue, then 30 seconds later go "wait what??" It was... An easy choice to make. I just enjoyed watching people experience the same things I did once.

Topic>drama>delete twitter >react to drama> apology video> react to apology video> have twitter back. The unending content.

@AP-cb1th

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Deadass! This is like his 172922773rd time doing something like this…

@OrbitalDeathRay

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An Ouroboros of Ls

Pyro ain't apologizing, he's trying to walk it back. It's a denial with a lot of extra steps. Considering it's not his first rodeo, this needs to dog him for a while if he's going to actually learn from this one...

I love that you went and liked their video, I hope that makes their day. Good shit, and my favorite part of the whole video lmao.

Dude I'm so glad I just caught up on season 1

Pyro's problem is he's trying to have it both ways. He needs to decide if he wants to be a nice guy streamer or a salty son of a bitch and stick to it.

@naota909

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Underrated comment

this drama got me biting my nails

Main Character Syndrome personified. If he's not being heard, he doesn't exist in his own mind. It's sad, but it's not an excuse to be a bag of shit. Glad he's allegedly getting help, but he'll have to actually listen to his therapist instead of thinking he knows best.

An apology doesn't mean very much if you just have to keep making apologies again and again because you never change your behavior.

Aw man, Xeem's salad. I feel bad for him, getting ranch when you asked for caesar is horrible. Hope he recovers soon.

Every cut in the video is someone banned in the chat, it was all out warfare live. Loved it.

"Our stream" - I cannot believe the xeems is doing a C O M M U N I S M. unbelievable. Also gz on all the clears and stuff. I am taking a long break from ffxiv, but I'm still here watching le bald man drama reactions. lol Anyways, man I really liked watching pyro play the msq and stuff. Pity he's stuck in this cycle of drama. Hope he can get out of it and actually fix things. But the bald man does have a point. Also his video could have been like 7-10 mins instead of 18. Pyromancer really needs an editor.

Pyromancer is going to become the next dsp. Give it afew more years he will be begging and crying about detractors. (If u dont kno dsp theres a great interview on sidescrollers on youtube )

@Hobodrink

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a fellow dsp detractor

@havocdb450

Жыл бұрын

Darkside Phil?

@Yazmat451

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I can't wait for the "this is how you don't play" Pyro version

@Yazmat451

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@@russpc9739 lol, can't wait for it

Hell yeah strimmer drama, my favorite kind of content

I read a study on the psychology of online personality management... and one of the things they found was unlike in real life, people often respond hostile to ur apologies. They had a couple of theories why, one being that in real life u dont often apologize to total strangers. So he probably should have just kept quiet and moved on

This guy (Pyro) says "you know" for 50% of all of his words. The other 50% is the actual point. xD

Holding back the tears to the consequences for his own actions

I'm watching pyro saga for the 4th time since it came out and I'm still not bored

he seems conflicted with himself, he needs to watch the movie split and then he'll understand what he truly is. 🤣

Post-Fanfest, I wonder how Pyro came across to people in attendance. Also, he privated the video. I guess that's his MO, fuck up, make an apology video, then private it after some time so that any new person stumbling upon the channel doesn't realize who they just came across.

Off-Topic, but i think it was really sound that Xenos saw a really nice & respectful comment, then took a look at the commentors channel/video on Stream. Sometimes that's all you need to get noticed, and it was really sound of you to do that. Respect ❤️

It sucks for him. He doesn’t know how to own up to his mistakes without being an egotistical jackass. It’s damage control and he can’t even admit to that.

For me adblock isn't even just about not wanting to see ads. I used to have it, and then specifically turned it off for sites I thought were deserving of support. Then that whole business with ad banners serving up malware happened and the adblock went on for every site, forever. Even if I like the content creator, the ad servers have lost my trust. And if they ever want that trust back, they're going to have to earn it. Until then I'm perfectly happy to go on not seeing ads.

I get mad everytime I go on Twitter even if it's only once a month. I do not understand how one platform can be so annoying. But if I went crazy every time I seen something that made me mad on Twitter I'd be in a mental hospital.

@hannasaynwittgenstein-berl6931

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thats why you don't follow dumb people, i never have this problem. all i see as far as my feed goes are anime tits and gaming news, i'm pretty sure you can easily filter all the Bullshit on twitter so i genuinely don't understand why people get upset instead just clean up their feed. it's so simple

I run adblock and still subbed to Xeno, been watching the guy since Creator Savage, hes come a long way and his streams and channel only become better ❤

"I need to slow down and think more" Damn at this time he should be going full speed on reverse with amount of drama he's making. Even if saying is 3rd time's the charm its not 3rd time, its 13th.

Damn, I don’t even want to make a joke about people being bored at this point, the guy just needs serious help, and I can only pray that he gets it. He just needs to step back from everything for a while.

I understand people that want to keep their online person from the real one but once he starts comparing the actions of his persona with him as a person at that point there is no persona anymore its just you.

I kinda can't even really be mad at or feel bad for Pyromancer. No one held a g*n to his head and said "OVERSHARE YOUR ENTIRE LIFE STORY - WEAK MOMENTS AND ALL" - bro did that all on his own. We've all had a shitty time in our past we can all point to and go "never again." Everyone has problems that they have to sort out, man - you can't expect the world to bend over to you and you alone. A lot of people might find Xenos a bit harsh but he's just being blunt - Pyromancer is a grown ass man at this point, married too. I'm sorry he's dealing with mental health issues but lets be real - its 2023 - who isn't dealing with some sort of mental health issue?

@KitaiAryik

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ikr. pyro doesn't get that twitch/YT/social media ain't his therapy. that is completely the wrong place for that. x.x he needs to see an actual therapist for that stuff..all pyro is doing is giving ammo to use in baiting him into another drama. at this point i'm just waiting for his twitch to crash and burn around him at the rate he's self destructing.

Paraphrasing Todd from BoJack Horseman: "You can't keep doing shitty things and then feel bad about yourself like that makes it okay! You need to be better! You are all the things that are wrong with you. It's not the alcohol, or the drugs, or any of the shitty things that happened to you in your career, or when you were a kid. It's you."

4:50 "It's like having a fast car" Yes, a fast car with a slow minded driver

This is why I don't watch Twitch on my tablet. They play an ad almost every 5 - 15mins. I don't mind if a streamer goes afk to the bathroom or gets them something to eat and wants to run ads while they are afk, but seeing ads in the middle of a important game moment or conversation the streamer is having sucks. Which is why I'm extremely thankful some streamers put their vods up on KZread.

I took a break for a month from ffxiv and god!!! I missed a lot of dramas 😢 now I have to catch up everything from beginning now

I feel like Pryo's apologies are just a dozen different ways of saying "I'm sorry if you got offended BUT..."

Thank you for another great video!

''tarnished the pyromancer name'' jeezus fk man this isnt a game of thrones episode

I swear, Pyro's apology videos are like a constant Charlie Brown's teacher voice from Peanuts. Hot air.

I will say, not a therapist by any extent XD so bare with me. I remember Pyromancer essentially being the argumentative lore man in WoW, and he tells stories bout how he constantly has to defend his positions on lore that in the end he was correct about. So I see him acting like this stemming from that, essentially arguing with chat about WoW lore, arguing with content creators who think it's wrong. And now that he's sorta starting at square 1 with the FFXIV community, he isn't used to the non hostile environment, the people who aren't necessarily interested in Lore and are interested in him instead. And with that in mind, let's be a lil honest. The story is so Transparent how exactly can he make content on Speculation? WoWs story was all about the UnKoWn, the Hidden Mysteries, Cliffhangers and all that. If he can't be the lore man, just gotta put yourself out there.

"....suggest when he gets mad to stand up and walk away..." Dude would never be at his computer. All I ever see of him is whining and raging.

I'm not sure I believe in the "real you" idea anymore. I think people are actually conflicted internally and they can be two different people depending on situations. The concept of the "real you" is probably what we label as a negative personality trait that outweighs any positive ones. Nobody can trust him to control himself and his attitude so all his apologies are watered down and pointless.

i used to watch pyro because i enjoyed his stuff with msq but now its like every other thing he posts is an apology because he cant filter himself

He has always been a huge EGO boy. He just can't leave it behind.

mental health is an explanation, not an excuse

He needs to fight someone on creator clash to beat that ego down.

@MiniDallas000

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Wings vs Pyro?