Netflix's Messiest New Reality TV Show is BACK With The Ultimatum: Queer Love

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The Ultimatum returns with a new season, a new host and new contestants in The Ultimatum: Queer Love. And this time there's a whole new mess to be made as contestants dish out an ultimatum and engage in trial marriages to learn whether distance makes the heart grow fonder... or if the grass is truly greener on the other side.
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  • @BachelorFantake
    @BachelorFantake Жыл бұрын

    Imagine telling someone you think they're a bad person and they hit you with the xD 😁

  • @julibeanbag
    @julibeanbag Жыл бұрын

    Mouthing fuck off (maliciously) at your partner repeatedly in front of other people (or in general) is abusive and no one can tell me otherwise

  • @nebullae

    @nebullae

    Жыл бұрын

    the audacity of vanessa to feel offended when she got called out for that like.... she's so evil fr

  • @taylorg6067

    @taylorg6067

    Жыл бұрын

    For sure, especially in context. She has yet to show an ounce of empathy or even awareness of others wants, needs, feelings...it's hard to watch

  • @lis7063

    @lis7063

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@taylorg6067 exactly! There are so many lack of empathy/selfish moments with her, but one that really stood out to me was when Rae was upset about them having sex. I was almost in disbelieve at Vanessa just sitting there smiling and the answers she was giving

  • @DottieMinerva

    @DottieMinerva

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m confused what she was even mad about. She was mad that Xander had an ex that she wasn’t aware of? Because why does that even matter?

  • @pia_s_music_words

    @pia_s_music_words

    Жыл бұрын

    @@DottieMinerva I suppose because as a narcissist or simply an egoistic person cannot stand 1) not being the only one 2) not having control

  • @nataliacruz6218
    @nataliacruz6218 Жыл бұрын

    Vanessa saying that Xander maybe asexual and only attracted to her was wild, especially see Xander have chemistry with a lot of other girls

  • @ErieMaxwell

    @ErieMaxwell

    Жыл бұрын

    Right? And Xander had just talked about being a fairly sexual person 😆 The editing team deserves so much.

  • @carrewen

    @carrewen

    Жыл бұрын

    Yea agreed and I also thought it was kinda rude of Vanessa to discuss Xanders sexuality without anyone else in the room😅 I mean it's nobodys business unless they wanna tell on tv themselves i would say🥺

  • @laurap256

    @laurap256

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ErieMaxwell This. It's definitely something Vanessa tried to convince Xander (or herself) of.

  • @Hanayaaa

    @Hanayaaa

    Жыл бұрын

    Also how she said that on national television??? I feel like that was something meant to be private.

  • @TheMadsVolta

    @TheMadsVolta

    Жыл бұрын

    Super inappropriate. She outed her on television! Just like outing someone as gay or lesbian without their permission, that isn’t ok.

  • @princesswineo
    @princesswineo Жыл бұрын

    Vanessa needs to be in polyamorous relationships. She is polyam, this girl is not built for monogamy. Flat out. Also, she needs therapy.

  • @adusza8902

    @adusza8902

    Жыл бұрын

    She seems to me like she was treated poorly by men, so she had the idea to become lesbian and she is making fun of it. I can bet she'll end up with husband and bunch of kids

  • @lis7063

    @lis7063

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@adusza8902 I didn't get that at all from her. What parts made you think she was making fun of being a lesbian? Also, she identifies as pansexual, so it's not like she was hurt be men and ruled them out. I think as far as her sexuality goes she is sincere

  • @bubbles4897

    @bubbles4897

    Жыл бұрын

    Why do people see a cheater and then are like “they are built for polyamory” like the fuck you can still cheat and be in polyamorous relationships also

  • @reading1713

    @reading1713

    Жыл бұрын

    @@bubbles4897 Who did she cheat with? We say she is polyam because she said that she dislikes monogamy and wants to explore relationships with multiple people.

  • @catlemasters9037

    @catlemasters9037

    Жыл бұрын

    you need great communication skills to be polyamorous without chaos 😭😭 so definitely a lot of therapy first lmaoo

  • @tash936
    @tash936 Жыл бұрын

    That fingering conversation was the wildest thing I've ever seen on reality tv- I was shook 😱😭😂😂😂

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    I've been waiting my entire life for this. I've wanted to see lgbt people get messy for too long

  • @bootscooty

    @bootscooty

    Жыл бұрын

    yOUvE BeEn inSiDe HeR?!? ,😲

  • @laurap256
    @laurap256 Жыл бұрын

    Xander needs to be protected at all cost. This is a hill I'm willing to die on.

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    No yeah here I am trying to find my Xander and she's getting abused? Nah fam I am a proud social justice warrior let me at'er

  • @TheKira708

    @TheKira708

    Жыл бұрын

    She’s gotta learn to stand up for herself as well. Instead of making excuses for someone who belittles her.

  • @Meh4991z

    @Meh4991z

    Жыл бұрын

    Nah. People like Xander thrive on self-pity . It might be sweet for a couple weeks then after that, I’m sure it gets pretty annoying to deal with. It’s also worth thinking about what she sees in Vanessa to have dated her for 4 years . Perhaps they’re more alike than we think. Which is why I’m also looking at Lexi sideways. Lexi liked Vanessa up until the point she didn’t , now she’s on this hate-spree and expects everyone to think the same thing.

  • @brittwilds1729

    @brittwilds1729

    Жыл бұрын

    Xander is a liar. And can’t ever be honest.

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    @@brittwilds1729 what was a lie? When dyou feel they aren't honest? Lol

  • @Moriri_By_TshepiB
    @Moriri_By_TshepiB Жыл бұрын

    Vanessa gives off narcissistic personality. Xander can only be attracted to her, Xander can't choose someone because SHE doesn't like them. She is with Rae to get back at Lexi. When that 'morning after' talk took place that's when I was done with her. That creepy smile 😖

  • @YourGirlDeee

    @YourGirlDeee

    Жыл бұрын

    Did you mention how hot and irresistible I am?

  • @amandadosanjos3994
    @amandadosanjos3994 Жыл бұрын

    This season is literally AMAZING!!!!! Barferella, Shane, Sheike, and Jackie walked so Vanessa could run .. not just run, like 5k marathon run it!

  • @amandadosanjos3994

    @amandadosanjos3994

    Жыл бұрын

    @Christina Jones no. Maybe you do?

  • @thehousespouse

    @thehousespouse

    Жыл бұрын

    She's definitely the reality show villain to end all reality show villains. She might even end this reality show if she gets even worse!

  • @amandadosanjos3994

    @amandadosanjos3994

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thehousespouse right?!?

  • @Meganb1286

    @Meganb1286

    Жыл бұрын

    Pass on Vanessa. Glad she has some fans but def not me.

  • @amandadosanjos3994

    @amandadosanjos3994

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Meganb1286 obviously being a villain in a reality tv show is not how you should be getting fans lol, but it’s her life.

  • @CanaAlyce
    @CanaAlyce Жыл бұрын

    Vanessa is so unhinged.

  • @TheStarForge
    @TheStarForge Жыл бұрын

    How is Lexi the youngest, but also the most emotionally intelligent and aware person on this show... though I will say, she should know better then to be on this show.

  • @wanderers5641

    @wanderers5641

    Жыл бұрын

    I vote Sara as most emotionally mature ❤🎉 She's incredible

  • @iyanutookoo

    @iyanutookoo

    Жыл бұрын

    My only criticism of Lexi is her threatening to tell her family members on Rae that she had sex with Vannessa.

  • @TheStarForge

    @TheStarForge

    Жыл бұрын

    @@iyanutookoo I cannot remember that part. I thought she said she would tell her family they broke up/she cheated?

  • @reaganmartin4065

    @reaganmartin4065

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheStarForge she said that she did/ or now is going to have to tell her GRANDPA

  • @TheStarForge

    @TheStarForge

    Жыл бұрын

    @@reaganmartin4065 Okay, I just rewatched the scene. I don't think she is threatening anything, I believe what Lexi is saying is that she is going to have to tell her family that Rae basically cheated, that she slept with someone else.

  • @KaraDep87
    @KaraDep87 Жыл бұрын

    This is already so much better than the first one.

  • @YourGirlDeee

    @YourGirlDeee

    Жыл бұрын

    I sooo agree!!!

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    We're gonna need more gays plzzzzzz

  • @YourGirlDeee

    @YourGirlDeee

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nailinthefashion 🔥🙏🏽

  • @herefortheshrimp1469

    @herefortheshrimp1469

    Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been asking for one of these shows to have this kind of cast for YEARS! I love being validated haha

  • @quarantine1993
    @quarantine1993 Жыл бұрын

    I wish you talked about the dog situation too

  • @rhiannonrecommends

    @rhiannonrecommends

    Жыл бұрын

    "I like to sleep with my legs stretched out" "You hate my dog! I CANT BE WITH SOMEONE WHO HATES MY DOG" W i l d. 😳

  • @sleepingwhale

    @sleepingwhale

    Жыл бұрын

    I think tiff probably thought if they couldn't sleep together with the dog then she should've gotten the bed for herself and the dog

  • @YourGirlDeee

    @YourGirlDeee

    Жыл бұрын

    YES! That was mental, but everyone seems to have their dogs in bed and I am soooo surprised

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@rhiannonrecommends this comment made me laugh so hard I choked. Rhi... I would sue if it weren't SOOOOO good

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@YourGirlDeee I was like is it really that much of a dealbreaker? Why don't they have their own bed and why isn't she more lenient with a woman than stinky mcbutt...

  • @SheLovesFubu
    @SheLovesFubu Жыл бұрын

    When I grow up, I want to be like Lexi. Vanessa acts as if she is an alien trying to learn human interactions without any understanding whatsoever about the same.

  • @CherryCharris

    @CherryCharris

    Жыл бұрын

    Lexi wished for Vanessa to trip down the stairs. Would you like to be like that?

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope I'm Xander one day. She's so simple and hot and just wants her schmoopy to gush over

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    Also Lexi being a fem in a blazer without the blazer? Can any of us handle that?

  • @cgill914

    @cgill914

    Жыл бұрын

    I can appreciate some of Lexi’s qualities but she is one of the messiest people there! Vanessa is not my cup of tea either, but Lexi is not as emotionally mature as she thinks she is 😂

  • @SheLovesFubu

    @SheLovesFubu

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cgill914 honestly, Lexi got on my nerves on the latest episodes 😭

  • @thatoneacecomedian
    @thatoneacecomedian Жыл бұрын

    I’m loving the cast differentiating romantic, sexual and platonic attraction like it’s no big deal and totally normal

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    Modern lgbt shows be like: here's the emotional intelligence you've been craving. Sip responsibly

  • @Emmah1243

    @Emmah1243

    Жыл бұрын

    What is platonic attraction? A friendship?

  • @carly2290

    @carly2290

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Emmah1243 yes

  • @mabelameba

    @mabelameba

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Emmah1243 i think platonic attraction is more like being "in love" with someone without feeling the need to have intimacy. That's different from a friendship. But its just my opinion based on experience.

  • @taracallaghan8935
    @taracallaghan8935 Жыл бұрын

    Vanessa really gives off the “fresh out of the closet baby gay” vibe of thinking saying super sexual things is funny and is going to make women be attracted to her.

  • @hannahschlosser-hall3093
    @hannahschlosser-hall3093 Жыл бұрын

    its so funny how ppl like vanessa will blatantly lie even though they are literally being filmed.. like the proof against you is RIGHT THERE

  • @ErieMaxwell
    @ErieMaxwell Жыл бұрын

    Vanessa reads to me like someone who has never seriously dated a woman or enbie outside of Xander and is looking for a chance to date around, and who also might be nonmonogamous. Which would have been fine in the real world, but instead of just talking about it with her partner, she agreed to this mess and immediately started coming on way too strong. Like, I don't think she's a terrible person, but she should absolutely not be DATING anyone until she sorts herself out, let alone getting married. 😂

  • @diamcole

    @diamcole

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly the kind of vibe I got. She hit the ground running and seemed to genuinely enjoy dating other people, and she definitely seems to lean more towards a more non monogamous relationship dynamic but a flag went up when it was mentioned that she never thought Xander would hit it off with others.

  • @breajones4012

    @breajones4012

    Жыл бұрын

    I get the vibe she doesn’t want to get married ever and would much prefer to be in an open relationship. Which maybe her and Xander have talked about it, maybe they haven’t. And I think everyone is making her feel bad for never wanting to get married which seems a bit backward. Even her saying she doesn’t have romantic feelings isn’t crazy. People have sex with people they aren’t romantically attracted to all the time! Friends with benefits didn’t just go away in 2012.

  • @woodyhitya

    @woodyhitya

    Жыл бұрын

    We do see first hand that she is abusive as well. I think it’s absolutely fair to call her a bad person

  • @kweenz600

    @kweenz600

    Жыл бұрын

    @@breajones4012 sure but then she should definitely not be on this show. The premise at least necessitates a passing interest in marrying the person they came with. She definitely seems to want to stay open and would probably do much better on Perfect Match or a similar type of show. I think she’d do really well on The Circle honestly!

  • @kweenz600

    @kweenz600

    Жыл бұрын

    @@woodyhitya I didn’t see anything in her that I would call abusive. Inconsiderate and shallow, sure. But abusive feels like a stretch.

  • @bizzyb912
    @bizzyb912 Жыл бұрын

    Rae choosing Vanessa shows a lot about her. Lexi and Mal go really well together.

  • @winterhug4331

    @winterhug4331

    Жыл бұрын

    May 30, 2023 Yes I also think Lexi and Mal go really well together. I think Rae and Vanessa got with each other to stick it to everyone else who thought they should not be together

  • @tea6306

    @tea6306

    Жыл бұрын

    It does!!! I'm glad Lexi said it makes her question her b/c damn everyone picked up on it but Rae. Like girl are you living under a rock??!! It's the obvious not taking it serious that idk how Rae doesn't see it. None of their conversations have had any substance.

  • @Thegamingprofessor2024

    @Thegamingprofessor2024

    Жыл бұрын

    @@tea6306 it was insane that Ray chose Vanessa. I cannot see them being together honestly, then you know living together maybe they can be roommates but not girlfriend that’s insane Siri because Vanessa is too self-absorbed.

  • @tuberAlma
    @tuberAlma Жыл бұрын

    Xander seems so sweet, I hope its not fake.

  • @kenshinrurouni3784
    @kenshinrurouni3784 Жыл бұрын

    Everyone is bypassing how Lexi made all those comments to her partner about how her grandpa will be disappointed, etc. makes me think she’s not as mature as she seems. Also, saying I love you in a couple days is WILD

  • @lauraperdomo9095
    @lauraperdomo9095 Жыл бұрын

    It's Mal and Sam for me ❤. Love those two. The healthiest ones this season, in my opinion.

  • @sarahcisco3233

    @sarahcisco3233

    5 ай бұрын

    Thiissss

  • @tlewis449
    @tlewis449 Жыл бұрын

    Y’all please don’t think Lexi is a great example of emotional maturity. She’s certainly got it together compared to Vanessa. But yelling at someone in public, continuing to publicly scrutinize them isn’t okay. The threats she made to Rae were not okay and she escalated the situation unnecessarily. To me I see a lot of black and white thinking. To me, Mal is a much better example of emotional maturity. Also Vanessa is playing a role and getting the villain edit. Keep in mind this is a tv show.

  • @jessicastahmer2509

    @jessicastahmer2509

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree there’s a rush to put Lexi on a pedestal that could cause some unhelpful takeaways from the show. I think she’s getting a hero edit because she has relatable reactions to some wild situations and she can be charming. There’s a focus on her being wise for her age when some of her choices are not good. It’s very reminiscent to me of one of the “heroes” of Love is Blind season 4.

  • @tia2073

    @tia2073

    Жыл бұрын

    Mal is great ❤

  • @mabelameba

    @mabelameba

    Жыл бұрын

    I was going to say that. Mal is by far the most grounded and stable out of this group. Her feelings were consistant.

  • @lacelilies

    @lacelilies

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah Lexi gave me an odd feeling but I wasn't too sure until I watched the rest of the eps. She has that coercive control in her conversations

  • @cgill914

    @cgill914

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t like Vanessa much, but I also don’t like Lexi’s personality much either. Like why did she tell all her family that Rae cheated on her and made Rae feel sooo bad when Lexi was also becoming obsessed with Mal herself. Very hypocritical. Lexi and Rae are NOT a good fit.

  • @julietantonio1049
    @julietantonio1049 Жыл бұрын

    The Jonathan Frakes clips were comedic gold, chef's kiss, 10/10 no notes

  • @AndSoWeLaughed
    @AndSoWeLaughed Жыл бұрын

    I find it weird that Vanessa was so fast to come to a conclusion that she doesn’t want to be with Xander at that party but doesn’t bother to communicate with her at all. And how Rae chose her knowing she, herself wants to be married and have children but Vanessa wants to explore polyamory and isn’t interested in marriage at all. Which is why I did not feel bad for her after expressing her feelings about “the situation” and she’s crying and then Vanessa says “remind her how hot I am” lol what? Rae wanted to engage in sexual activity with her, I don’t like how Vanessa is being villanised for it. You don’t fuck friends is dumb because there are plenty of friends with benefits but it was weird that she wants romantically interested. What really ticked me off about Vanessa was that as soon as Lexi called her out she decided to be petty was fuck and say she was interested in Mail at the table to hurt her. And Mail turned round and said “we’ve had one date”, it was clear it was malicious. She then said “I’m happy you chose me (Rae) before I could choose your first”. Girl, what? Your first choice was Lexi, then you tried Mail and you’re not even romantically or sexually (as you claim) interested in Rae. Why would you have chosen her? I don’t think she’s the worse person I’ve seen on reality Tv, mainly because I know editing is always going to play on the fact they’ve found their villain and they need it to look way worse than it is. But yes, I’m not sure what her intentions are. Edit: I’d also like to add. No one’s intentions are completely pure on this show. If they wanted to sort their relationship out, they’d have got to therapy, counselling or done the experiment on their own. It doesn’t need a budget and TV crew.

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    Imagine not even being someone's second choice and then choosing them just to stay on the show lmao. My heart goes out to Rae the most. She's so soft spoken, Vanessa is using her like a perfectly chilled Capri Sun til the last drop like she did with Xander. Also, your auto correct made Mal, Mail and I couldn't handle that lmfao

  • @tea6306

    @tea6306

    Жыл бұрын

    A lot of ppl aren't even realizing that by the 2nd episode, Vanessa knew Rae would be the only option she had left. She literally had no other options. The rest of the cast picked up on her bs immediately. Took Lexi actually LISTENING to what Vanessa was saying & not be blinded by constant compliments to wise up, but she did. Vanessa even tried to play in Lexi's face after being confronted with her "Well don't feel bad if I don't pick you" statement. I was glad Mal called her out about their 1 convo. It was obvious she was trying to make it seem like she had multiple ppl to pick when in reality it was only 1. I think both Lexi/Rae were distracted by their attraction to Vanessa to pick up on the nonsense from jump b/c as a viewer, it's very obvious Vanessa was there to fuck as many ppl as possible & find a reason to dump Xander lol. There's no amount of editing that can make you say/do the shit Vanessa was pulling lol

  • @taylorg6067
    @taylorg6067 Жыл бұрын

    This was maybe the best show recap yet in my opinion. The question montage, the sleuthing (blew my MIND) the jokes, incredible job. I was losing my mind after these episodes and I needed a friend to freak out with and make jokes and you are that friend. Thank you 😅

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    I think there's room for a part two already: there's so much drama and intricacies to go over. The dog situation BOGGLED me

  • @Tollkirschenkind
    @Tollkirschenkind Жыл бұрын

    The Beyond Belief compilation, I was screaming! I could've used that when I was still dating, that's a bunch of great questions, preferably all in one date without wanting to listen to the answer 😂

  • @mick7804
    @mick7804 Жыл бұрын

    I dont think Lexi wanted Rae to not do the same, she was okay with her talking and flirting with other people and wasn't uncomfortable, she was even dating and flirting with the same person (Venessa) However, it was when Lexi clocked that Venessa isn't a good person and tried to tell Rae about it so she could be cautious at least so she won't get hurt by her. That's when she would rather her choose someone else thats there besides Venessa.

  • @cgill914

    @cgill914

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel like it’s an unpopular opinion, but Lexi is my least favorite person there. Vanessa has issues, but she comes off as misguided. Lexi’s behavior seems more malicious to me. She doesn’t actually treat Rae that well. You can see that Rae is constantly emotionally distressed when she’s around Lexi :/

  • @britneyh8679

    @britneyh8679

    Жыл бұрын

    Lexi wanted to make Raes choice for her because she ‘ knows better’. I don't think her anger was about Rae choosing Vanessa as much as it was Rae making a choice she didn't approve of

  • @Meganb1286
    @Meganb1286 Жыл бұрын

    Worst case scenario for me is Vanessa works Xander and they end up together. Vanessa sucks and Lexi had her number and no one can unhear that.

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    I think Xander is too busy with someone who actually appreciates her now. I would never look back if I found such an amazing upgrade hahahah

  • @bootscooty

    @bootscooty

    Жыл бұрын

    Lexi is a grade A heifer who will end up married to a man and nobody can change my mind

  • @tea6306

    @tea6306

    Жыл бұрын

    I could see it happening after cameras left, but don't think they'll survive past the airing of these episodes. Xander would have to get past the visible lies, the manipulation, gaslighting, etc. that were forever caught on tape. The newfound self-respect with Yoly won't allow that. They experienced 1st hand someone loving them for them.

  • @WilliamsPinch
    @WilliamsPinch Жыл бұрын

    Vanessa is so scary… she seems to have some misunderstandings around consent.

  • @Meh4991z

    @Meh4991z

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s a very dangerous comment to make . Rae initiated the contact so consent wasn’t the issue , she just felt bad about it afterwards. But don’t blur the lines and start making things up .

  • @herefortheshrimp1469

    @herefortheshrimp1469

    Жыл бұрын

    And so do you. There has been absolutely nothing in the show to imply that she has done ANYTHING physical without the other persons consent. Rae is being treated like she isn’t a full adult. You can dislike Vanessa but people making baseless accusations like that are only going to hurt her (a real person) and other victims

  • @pigpjs
    @pigpjs Жыл бұрын

    Love that you opened woth pointing out all the other options these couples had besides this show. I watch it because its very premise is messy. Love that Netflix is embracing queer romance reality. So far the editing choices haven't felt fetishized either.

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    Lexi is putting herself out there, no need to make a slutty edit, and I've never been so here for a Netflix project hahaha

  • @herefortheshrimp1469

    @herefortheshrimp1469

    Жыл бұрын

    There was definitely a sex scene that was edited super poorly and lasted to long - but otherwise I agree lol

  • @Joshpower57

    @Joshpower57

    Жыл бұрын

    I was wondering in the beginning how this would turn out. They're all the worst versions of every bad couple from every romance show. The fact every single one of them flipped so quickly to calling their partner an ex was weird af. The French ultimatum understood what this show was actually for, thos one kind of just shows that queen couples move on extremely quickly and are extremely fake.

  • @bink9797
    @bink9797 Жыл бұрын

    I never thought my favorite youtuber would reference my favorite show ever Beyond Belief Fact or Fiction 😂

  • @Skeezer66
    @Skeezer66 Жыл бұрын

    Having watched all of the original run of "The L-Word", I thought I knew lesbian messy, but this is a Whole New Level!!

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    It's crazy to think how much representation we have now compared to the cis white fem L word of yesteryear hahaha. I love that show, what a pioneer

  • @bellacurtis6026
    @bellacurtis6026 Жыл бұрын

    Why didn’t you mention the dog drama with tiff!!!!!

  • @MsSaby97
    @MsSaby97 Жыл бұрын

    OMG WOW ... this almost makes me wanna watch it, but i know i will scream in frustration/secondhand embrassment in 5min and be unable to watch it hahaha

  • @zuzanna6468

    @zuzanna6468

    Жыл бұрын

    It is sooo fun, watch it😅

  • @mearafoster277

    @mearafoster277

    Жыл бұрын

    Watch it! Vanessa is the only unlikable person 🙂

  • @KW-up2ox
    @KW-up2ox Жыл бұрын

    This show was a total cringe fest & I couldn’t look away until the fourth episode was done 😂🫣

  • @oliveyim5216
    @oliveyim5216 Жыл бұрын

    Personally, I don’t like Yoly. She's so unnecessarily mean to Vanessa. Like every time she talks to her, it's to put her down.

  • @liftmeupwithchikabaybee4299
    @liftmeupwithchikabaybee4299 Жыл бұрын

    I like how you got the tea on Xander and Vanessa 😅 explains why Xander always looks so guilty

  • @mariefurie9241

    @mariefurie9241

    Жыл бұрын

    What do you mean?

  • @liftmeupwithchikabaybee4299

    @liftmeupwithchikabaybee4299

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mariefurie9241 i appreciate his fbi mode on revealing the game plan between Xander and Vanessa. They came for clout and it is so obvious.

  • @mij-kb7rg

    @mij-kb7rg

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh no! I haven’t watched the video yet but I adore Xander right now 😢

  • @KatM272
    @KatM272 Жыл бұрын

    Lexi is so mature and self aware it’s increíble. She’s make an incredible friend or partner. Love her! Can’t believe she’s only 24

  • @calaragazza3556

    @calaragazza3556

    Жыл бұрын

    Ummmm 24 isn’t a baby. It’s mid 20’s.

  • @KatM272

    @KatM272

    Жыл бұрын

    @@calaragazza3556 she’s not a baby but in todays tik tok phone addiction day and age, it is VERY surprising. Especially in a society where so many people aren’t self aware and have no sense of accountability. She catches onto behaviors and details that most people just don’t, then she’s able to communicate them effectively- the rarity of communication skills and emotional intelligence. Also, your brain isn’t fully developed til you’re 25; not that it makes a difference for many people.

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@calaragazza3556 thanks for emphasizing that cuz most of the people I've met 5+ years younger than me literally seem like 16 year olds. Screen culture is stagnating overall maturity, so when someone like Lexi pops up, yep, we all take notice. I'm sorry that that bothers you but awareness is the first step to fighting a problem

  • @laurens8161

    @laurens8161

    Жыл бұрын

    LOOOLLLLLL

  • @AmberO
    @AmberO Жыл бұрын

    You get bonus points for the “Beyond Belief” reference!! 😂😂😂

  • @isastu
    @isastu Жыл бұрын

    I watched the first four episodes just WAITING for this

  • @deaunafoster1214
    @deaunafoster1214 Жыл бұрын

    I'm loving this season so far.

  • @gabrielalamberti5860
    @gabrielalamberti5860 Жыл бұрын

    This show is a trainwreck and I love it. I also love how spot on your are with your commentary and your editing is spot on too!!! Kudos.

  • @naturalistafangirl
    @naturalistafangirl Жыл бұрын

    The tea is hot !

  • @naturalistafangirl

    @naturalistafangirl

    Жыл бұрын

    Honestly I love sapphic people so much, the drama is gooood. I usually only watch reviews but I feel this season is worth watching 😂.

  • @thenewtaithotel
    @thenewtaithotel Жыл бұрын

    Your videos always make my night, thank you for sharing

  • @user-pp5wy8zz8j
    @user-pp5wy8zz8j Жыл бұрын

    i knew i couldnt watch another season of this. your review is perfect.

  • @bootscooty
    @bootscooty Жыл бұрын

    Idk why people are hating so much of Vanessa. She's weird but tolerable.

  • @pay4739
    @pay4739 Жыл бұрын

    i haven’t seen that compilation in years. THANK YOU for reminding me of it.

  • @ohno-wx6jz
    @ohno-wx6jz Жыл бұрын

    I couldn't hate vanessa past a certain point because it just started feeling like bullying to me. Like I get the usual "youre not here for the right reasons" spiel and her behaviour towards xander really sucks but at some point it really felt like ganging up on her. Treating her like shes some kind of monster and the way the sex conversation was had turned hard to watch lexi looked like a step away from calling her a rapist + also the edit being very transparent with wanting to make her the villain such as when they made it look like she was laughing while the other girl was crying. Shes definitely a weirdo and ive seen someone else saying she looked like an alien trying to navigate human conversations and... yeah. It just feels like she doesnt know how to interact with other people but that doesnt make her a monster or even fake. I would probably hate her for the asexual comment in the beginning but nah. At some point its just ganging up on an acceptable target

  • @chibee4l

    @chibee4l

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree to some degree that it did seem like they were ganging up on her since rae did consent, but the next second she said she's not attracted to rae is what brought me back to reality. This is a show to determine who you want to marry and if she's here just for a good time, it's pointless. Why did she even come

  • @ohno-wx6jz

    @ohno-wx6jz

    Жыл бұрын

    @@chibee4l its a reality show i doubt any of them went there because they actually wanted to get married. Vanessa is just the worst one at hiding it/playing it up for the villain edit and maybe this situation is serving her im just annoyed the producers are treating the girls' behaviour like its okay.

  • @cgill914

    @cgill914

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, thank you! I think Vanessa is misunderstood. I don’t know this for sure, but I feel that she may be neurodivergent and that can make it difficult to interact in social settings. Vanessa definitely made some mistakes, but to me Lexi is the real villain. I get big mean girl vibes from her unfortunately.

  • @loonawoods922
    @loonawoods922 Жыл бұрын

    Can wait for your next episode! I actually don't watch reality TV haha just your recaps so I'm exited

  • @samtmg1652
    @samtmg1652 Жыл бұрын

    Very nice touch at the end there Fantake 😂

  • @Tassie85
    @Tassie85 Жыл бұрын

    Okay, so now I have to go watch this mess - thanks to you, I am acquiring yet one more guilty pleasure! When I told my gay friend about this show she asked if it was sponsored by U-Haul. I laugh-snorted my Diet Coke.

  • @chibee4l

    @chibee4l

    Жыл бұрын

    I stopped it midway to watch everything😂 now i'm back

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh my god. Never let them go, they are one of the funniest people on the planet

  • @tamcar04

    @tamcar04

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @laurap256
    @laurap256 Жыл бұрын

    I could HEAR your voice while watching, this show was made for you to review! Ok watching now lol

  • @parrisnia72
    @parrisnia72 Жыл бұрын

    You know what's crazy? I was JUST thinking about The Ultimatum this morning only to log onto KZread this afternoon and see they're back for another season! Soo wild!!!!

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    ✨️ manifesting ✨️

  • @zeeking3929
    @zeeking3929 Жыл бұрын

    This channel is soooo good!

  • @refiloendlovu6518
    @refiloendlovu65183 ай бұрын

    I need to pause this and binge watch this now!!!!

  • @whyamievendoingthis...
    @whyamievendoingthis... Жыл бұрын

    The questions cut. 🤣

  • @rosegold-sc6fp
    @rosegold-sc6fp Жыл бұрын

    Hahaha! Not the Fact or Fiction clips!!! That was awesome!

  • @victoriaskully
    @victoriaskully Жыл бұрын

    Watched the first episode yesterday. Vanessa is 😂.

  • @w.urlitzer1869
    @w.urlitzer1869 Жыл бұрын

    4:23 Q: "do you wanna sit on my face?" A: "anything to shut you up."

  • @christineloera2929
    @christineloera2929 Жыл бұрын

    omg i worked in post on this show. LISTEN LESBIANS ARE MESSY TOO OK

  • @laurap256

    @laurap256

    Жыл бұрын

    Y'all did an amazing job. This is so true to lesbian culture (on steroids lol), I love it! Also love how you showed the most normal consent questions and how different kind of attractions were discussed without anyone acting weird about it. Sure, the show is a mess, but it's a lesbian mess so I'll protect it at all cost 😄

  • @TT-dv9er
    @TT-dv9er Жыл бұрын

    The FINGER BANGING on this show is pure gold!!!!! TOP MARKS!!! VIVA NETFLIX!!!! VIVA NETFLIX!!!! VIVA NETFLIX!!!!!

  • @morelove444
    @morelove444 Жыл бұрын

    I actually wasn't going to watch this until you said it was the messiest. Now, I'm in!

  • @loldoctor
    @loldoctor Жыл бұрын

    The rescue 911 clips might be your best edit ever... what a perfect throwback

  • @laurenbartley5985
    @laurenbartley5985 Жыл бұрын

    More please! 10/10

  • @ElsaT7579
    @ElsaT7579 Жыл бұрын

    The Beyond Belief Fact or Fiction montage took me out 🤣🤣

  • @girlie720
    @girlie720 Жыл бұрын

    I hope that Mal and Lexi become a couple. They seem very like minded. They seem very settled and mature about this whole process. And I think that Xander and Yoly are well matched. So I think that's a win-win. Rae, she plays her cards very close to the vest. I think she has feelings for Lexi, but she's not ready to take that next step and I believe encountering someone as over the top as Vanessa has opened her eyes to what she's had in Lexi. But it may be too late because Lexi's with Mal, and she sees a partner that's reciprocating her feelings for a homelife, marriage and children. I'm baffled by Aussie, for a woman of her age to be so emotionally stunted to me is interesting. Could it be cultural? Could it be the fact that she did not want to come out because of culture. But, then again, you have Mildred being very passive-aggressive, being very used to a toxic style of communication with Tiff. So maybe that shuts Aussie down even more. Who knows but I don't hold out hope for those couples. But, I am absolutely 100%. Rooting for Xander and yoly and Mal and Lexi.

  • @CaptainCait
    @CaptainCait Жыл бұрын

    4:36 BHAHAHA I forgot how funny you are dude

  • @fotimaibrokhim7466
    @fotimaibrokhim7466 Жыл бұрын

    friendly reminder that being asexual does not mean one cannot form romantically intimate connections with someone else. This incorrect rhetoric about asexuality is harmful

  • @lilliebobson3146

    @lilliebobson3146

    Жыл бұрын

    So what is asexuality then?

  • @elatafalando

    @elatafalando

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@lilliebobson3146 good question. There are even sex workers saying they are assexual. I just don't understand.

  • @bubbles4897

    @bubbles4897

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lilliebobson3146 asexuality means you means you experience no sexual attraction. You can still want experience romantic attraction and be asexual. Not that I care much about this, but why did y’all think that word meant you can’t form romantic relationships when the definition is literally….right in the word lol

  • @CaribbeanCitizen

    @CaribbeanCitizen

    Жыл бұрын

    People often confuse asexuality and aromanticism. While these two can go together, they don't always. The Split Attraction Model is helpful for explaining this.

  • @jl7662

    @jl7662

    Жыл бұрын

    In even simpler terms: Xander = not asexual

  • @izio4408
    @izio4408 Жыл бұрын

    These people are so unfaithful to each other, it's really sad. The previous Ultimatum season wasn't nearly this bad...

  • @carrewen
    @carrewen Жыл бұрын

    YEEES A VIDEO ABOUT THIS SHOW thank you for making these they're so damn entertaining and it makes me so happy knowing im not the only one watching this trash hahaha

  • @oliviadenman3958
    @oliviadenman3958 Жыл бұрын

    Vanessa reminds me of that girl (can't remember her name) on Matt James season who was telling all the contestants that one of the other contestants was a prostitute and was smiling while saying it.

  • @alexandranicole27
    @alexandranicole27 Жыл бұрын

    I AM SPEECHLESS

  • @Hanayaaa
    @Hanayaaa Жыл бұрын

    Vanessa is a narcissist and has no empathy and it’s scary asf 💀. First off, before they even went into this it was like she was trying to let Xander down easily by telling her to look for someone that could be special to her and she could see herself with…and then when they hugged her eyes just seemed so dead , it was so terrifying.

  • @amberc5457

    @amberc5457

    Жыл бұрын

    Yesss. It seems like she wanted to find someone for herself and move on but had a rude awakening when Xander found someone to love and she didn't.

  • @DottieMinerva
    @DottieMinerva Жыл бұрын

    You always make me want to get Netflix!

  • @nailinthefashion

    @nailinthefashion

    Жыл бұрын

    Arrrrrrgh matey!

  • @sheskis613
    @sheskis613 Жыл бұрын

    I screamed with laughter during the Jonathan Frakes montage

  • @enmanuelperez7564
    @enmanuelperez7564 Жыл бұрын

    Insane stuff

  • @syphilisma8293
    @syphilisma8293 Жыл бұрын

    Lexi was actually the biggest villain on the show (very narrowly beating out vanessa) cannot fathom how anyone can stand her

  • @pizzamassacre

    @pizzamassacre

    Жыл бұрын

    Fr!!

  • @hollaatmsv
    @hollaatmsv Жыл бұрын

    So you're just not gonna talk about how awful, inconsiderate & uncompromising Tiff is because someone doesn't wanna sleep with her dog⁉️ Let's just call it what it is...selfish‼️ Mildred isn't much better. She turns into a bit of a bitch by the end & changed my opinion of her. The only thing she is right about is that Tiff is trying to build an entire relationship on good sex. A good match for Tiff would've been Vanessa based on that fact. But her & Mildred deserve each other. I love these shows because they have some truly unlikable people usually. Villans. This season did not disappoint with Vanessa(I hate that she shares the same name as me), Tiff & Mildred. But the surprising thing is there are some truly lovely personalities too. I ❤️ Zander, Mal, Lexi & Sam!!! The jury is still out on Aussie.

  • @mij-kb7rg

    @mij-kb7rg

    Жыл бұрын

    Right! My opinion on Mildred changed too. I kind of felt an understanding of her during that convo while Aussie was ironing. Then I remembered back to how hard she tried to come across as considerate (way too hard) in the beginning and the pieces just fell together. I believed Aussie’s side and empathized. She seems fake. I don’t particularly favour Aussie but that’s what I felt

  • @ninaprague4798
    @ninaprague4798 Жыл бұрын

    I am so glad I dont have to watch these things. Thank you Fantake for taking a bullet for me :)

  • @shreyasharma9530
    @shreyasharma9530 Жыл бұрын

    New video? About new episodes?

  • @EllieC130
    @EllieC130 Жыл бұрын

    Dude ngl, if a dude acted how Vanessa did towards Rae we would all be calling him creepy. All this "I love a good challenge" shit like ew.

  • @claystripe6514
    @claystripe6514 Жыл бұрын

    Cheyenne's come a long way from Reba

  • @orthenight
    @orthenight Жыл бұрын

    The hypocrisy of Lexi. The superiority complex of Lexi. She’s literally going off on Vanessa about not thinking Xander would have a connection with anyone else there. Then she loses her shit at Rae having a connection with anyone else but her. The whole scene of Yoly & Lexi bullying Vanessa about having sex with Rae while Yoly fully had sex with Xander was gross. I’m not saying Vanessa doesn’t suck. She does. She sucks. But the hypocrisy, the thinking you’re better than anyone else is GROSS.

  • @ariellelillian8644

    @ariellelillian8644

    Жыл бұрын

    AGREED.

  • @maenowwesleymotuba7516

    @maenowwesleymotuba7516

    Жыл бұрын

    The level of hypocrisy is something else. It's like it does not exist for them. They are like, so far as my secret is safe with me I'm fine.

  • @chasestrickland3065

    @chasestrickland3065

    Жыл бұрын

    FAX

  • @dedel0ve890

    @dedel0ve890

    Жыл бұрын

    Only ppl with common sense get this

  • @orthenight
    @orthenight Жыл бұрын

    I think it is just SO rich for Lexi to say Vanessa isn't there for the "right reasons" when Lexi is 100% there to grow her OnlyFans income.

  • @aubreydeangelo
    @aubreydeangelo Жыл бұрын

    Vanessa scared me. Talk about no boundaries.

  • @IdkFoxii
    @IdkFoxii Жыл бұрын

    Me and my gf said we’ll go on here and play them all lmfaooooo

  • @tvmallory6010
    @tvmallory6010 Жыл бұрын

    omg im so curious 😬😬😬

  • @xx9aznfaith9xx
    @xx9aznfaith9xx Жыл бұрын

    Vanessa reminds me of someone appearance-wise but I couldn't figure it out and now I realize it's Caitlyn Jenner!

  • @KatM272
    @KatM272 Жыл бұрын

    Not sure how rae didn’t hide when they got to their room the first night. IN-TENSE

  • @mindon_3
    @mindon_3 Жыл бұрын

    What’s the name of that show with that random questions? I used to love that show growing up and couldn’t find it for the life of me later on

  • @DanaEveValencia

    @DanaEveValencia

    Жыл бұрын

    Beyond Belief: Fact or Fiction 😆

  • @asarishepard8171
    @asarishepard8171 Жыл бұрын

    Hook up with someone else. Wanna marry me yet? This is the worst relationship idea EVER

  • @Aeunax123
    @Aeunax1234 ай бұрын

    This show was WILD

  • @enbdedrick1295
    @enbdedrick1295 Жыл бұрын

    top tier fact or fiction clip right there

  • @graciousmarwisa9496
    @graciousmarwisa9496 Жыл бұрын

    my three favourite things in tv - gay girlies, girlies fighting and sweet romance

  • @DianeShira
    @DianeShira Жыл бұрын

    Xander. I adore her. She refuses to pile-on her “ex” - even when she has reason, she refuses to “spill tea” just ‘cause, and she stays empathetic and compassionate towards others and self. And she’s hot. And I’m straight and married, but crushing. I like Mal, too. And Lexie. And Mal and Lexie together. But mostly I just ADORE Xander.

  • @YouWillGetThereBuddy

    @YouWillGetThereBuddy

    Жыл бұрын

    I don’t know man… I was on the Xander train until she told Yoli she’s it and ready to marry her at the cocktail party only to say she doesn’t know later in the evening. Also the way she is leading Vanessa on and telling her they’ll get married or end up together as well.. idk feels a bit scummy.. Like be honest and don’t lie to both people. Be upfront ya know?? I started side eyeing her when she started living with Vanessa again. Yeah Vanessa is a fucking mess and I can write a whole paragraph about her but Xander is leading her on. Also, them both deciding to not get physical with anyone on the show then Xander immediately starts fucking Yoli and get mad that Vanessa fingered Rae…??? Uhmmmmm

  • @DianeShira

    @DianeShira

    Жыл бұрын

    @@YouWillGetThereBuddy - valid points after I binged episodes 5 -8 over the past two nights! I still adore Xander yet I can see her sort of "giving in" to Vanessa ("Xander!!, say 'I love you' back""!) out of what I perceive to be an in-the-moment kindness to not make waves with Vanessa. Mal, on the other hand, is SUPER straight-forward with Yoli ... I REALLY appreciate how Mal speaks to Yoli, validating her confusion and giving her space, while being totally honest with her. And you know who's grown on me during the last few episodes? - TIFF!!!! I'm starting to REALLY like them!!! Super cool human.

  • @YouWillGetThereBuddy

    @YouWillGetThereBuddy

    Жыл бұрын

    @@DianeShira I get that but everyone is just ignoring that Xander is moving shady simply cuz Vanessa is a mess. I agree Vanessa just wants her cuz she wants to be chosen even though she doesn’t actually want Xander. I get just saying shit to appease the situation but she quit literally slept with Vanessa in the three week trial too. She told her on the air balloon that they were ending up together. She doesn’t have to lie in order to appease the situation. You know…?

  • @DianeShira

    @DianeShira

    Жыл бұрын

    @@YouWillGetThereBuddy - agree. Xander is so conditioned to ""keep the peace" with Vanessa that she definitely got messy in terms of not not telling Vanessa how she REALLY feels about Yoli.

  • @YouWillGetThereBuddy

    @YouWillGetThereBuddy

    Жыл бұрын

    @@DianeShira Yeah.. definitely. They shouldn’t be together period. I just don’t like how nobody is calling Xander out on her shit as well is all. Even the getting physical things. Her and Yoli made it seem like Vanessa did the worst thing she could with Rae and aired out her dirty laundry in front of everyone but refused to address that they had sex as soon as they possibly could. It’s just hypocritical.

  • @girlie720
    @girlie720 Жыл бұрын

    Vanessa is the worst villain in reality television in quite some time and let me tell you why. The way she blatantly disrespected Xander at the choice dinner was so awful and so humiliating to everyone. You said you don't wanna marry this woman, but you're sitting there telling her to f off. The woman gets 3 words out when asked a question by the host and Vanessa has to center herself in the conversation, nobody is even talking to you, ma'am. Sit at the end of table and shut the f up. She has to be the center of attention. All eyes have to be on her, and she's just desperately wanting to be the it girl, the hot girl that everybody wants..Lexi called her out on their date and I agree Vanessa is not tethered to anyone, and if you listen to her words and if Xander was listening to her words, she would know that, and she would have left that relationship long before ever giving Vanessa an ultimatum. She's only for herself. I'm not gonna call her narcissist.. I'm gonna call her hedoist. A very immature one hedonist.

  • @your_lav5278
    @your_lav5278 Жыл бұрын

    I have watch this in Netflix but I want drama so I go to youtube to see the other people's opinion in comments 😂😭

  • @ashleycrisman1445
    @ashleycrisman1445 Жыл бұрын

    Mildred in the newer episodes is displaying abusive characteristics as well. Scary like Vanessa.

  • @nellylah4818
    @nellylah4818 Жыл бұрын

    Now I'm definitely gonna watch this show.... I loves me some serious junk reality😂😂

  • @manucardosoxx4678
    @manucardosoxx4678 Жыл бұрын

    YESSSS

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