"When you're struggling to realize who someone is, it's because you don't want to believe what they're showing you"

@dragonflymagictarot

4 жыл бұрын

Wow...... so true

@dragonflymagictarot

3 жыл бұрын

@@h2orainwater39 its shocking... i think I even had ptsd from it. Just remember that narcism is on a spectrum and try not to take it personally...theyre just selfish-unconscious beings...but no matter how you slice it...If they were controlling, jealous, codependent and emotionally draining...you won, because if after they left you gained peace..then you didn't lose anything. My life is peaceful without him. I hope you feel better soon.

@dragonflymagictarot

3 жыл бұрын

@@h2orainwater39 your welcome 🙏

@rodrigodasilva9176

3 жыл бұрын

Great point, just see them for who they are. Accept it.

@AiBernadas

3 жыл бұрын

mind blown.

It’s insane that narcs go to relationship after relationship...but after being with one, it’s like you’re traumatized and don’t date for a long time due to flashbacks, triggers, trauma, and needing to HEAL from that specific relationship. Never again! I’m much more stronger now. My life is about me now 😭🥰❤️ don’t ever look back! These people are evil!

@BEEZIEWLRD

3 жыл бұрын

Bruhhh I’m tryna leave

@louc3135

3 жыл бұрын

@@BEEZIEWLRD Leeeave! You leave, yet? Only been 10 days for me. But, I have to. We’ve got to, brother, for our own sanity. And, to have a future worth living, one that we deserve! Love & light 2 u.

@NeeNeTV

3 жыл бұрын

@@louc3135 how have you been dealing it’s been 5 for me it’s so hard

@BEEZIEWLRD

3 жыл бұрын

@@louc3135 I’m leaving today

@louc3135

3 жыл бұрын

@@BEEZIEWLRD Do it, bro. Start ur new life. It’ll b hard. It’ll b painful. It’s taking me work and I’m only just starting for the millionth x but more importantly, the FINAL x. I’m done. I gotta live a real life, already. One that’s peaceful and filled w good people and light and love. We deserve it, homie!

A year ago, walked away from someone I loved dearly, because of his narcissistic traits , i was always last and I was frequently gaslighted and made to feel inadequate .... NEVER AGAIN

@Professional_Nobody

4 жыл бұрын

Chris Judd the always last part,,,because only everyone else deserved to see their good side. 😢💕

@misshestermofet2288

4 жыл бұрын

i did the never again earlier this year. I'm in my 3rd trimester of pregnancy and my narcissist only "tried" to make things right for 2 weeks and then got engaged, now he doesn't even care about the baby.

@chrisjudd2747

4 жыл бұрын

@@misshestermofet2288 do yourself and the baby the biggest favour that you can and forget he exists , try not to expect him to care It'll be hard as a single mum but you'll get support from other places - healthy places ...hugs

@madelinesosa1881

4 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry you had to go thru that I went thru 10 years I know its so hard.

@roxanabarrezueta9784

3 жыл бұрын

Feeling of inadequacy😑 I don’t want to experience this again, I’d rather be alone forever.

I have a saying towards Narcissist "I wish you well but well away from me!"

@anu7982

3 жыл бұрын

That's a smart one

@Melissa-mm9nr

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!! Far away from me!

@ladyd1614

3 жыл бұрын

Yes yes yes.... bye-bye 🥰💯❤️🙏

The worst part for me was never knowing what was true or right or wrong nothing to go on. My gut feeling was tortured.

@sspsp6545

2 жыл бұрын

I relate to this.

@fruitbud

2 жыл бұрын

SAME OMG

@myadhdlife4869

2 жыл бұрын

This ^

Binge watching videos like this are the ONLY thing keeping me from stupidly reaching out to my ex narc who I just left yesterday. I want so badly to text him and lash out for what he did, but I know it’s pointless and he doesn’t care and will only gaslight me. People like you are the real MVPs 🙏🏽💖

@johannaalexander2009

2 жыл бұрын

Whats amazing is that you actually know you did the right thing! Well done x If you call him, you'll be back on that broken treadmill where he wants you & you're on the Mend...When he calls ignore & don't pick up...gain STRENGTH after day one...Then BLOCK!

@jillscornavacco3310

2 жыл бұрын

You are re training your brain. Do what you need to do to stay no contact!

@janetfrances2802

2 жыл бұрын

It's hard not to want to crack their skulls

@susansheehan7965

2 жыл бұрын

I understand and am only one week out and he is calling from a unidentified unknown number several times a day

@toddweekly6810

2 жыл бұрын

Same here Danielle , Binge watching these sessions has educated me and prevented the serious mistake of crawling back..

I feel like the more I try to stand up for myself the less empathetic I am. But I feel like the less I stand up for myself the more depressed I get... it’s like this constant battle 😓

@grace2excell

3 жыл бұрын

Girl keep working on it. Its like building a muscle. U will get there am working on it too

Do they be super kind and generous to everyone else except for you?..even complete strangers! Then you have no friends to talk to about your abuse because they only see that hes such a nice guy! :(

@Ipdex

3 жыл бұрын

ain't that the truth. If I even started talking to a woman I knew from back in the day I was trashed by her. Yet if she met somebody, a guy, from back in her past its like I became completely invisible. Never introduced to them, completely ignored, as she engrossed herself & flirted in what he had to say. Pathetic really. Pathetic that I put up with more so.

@zobius9191

3 жыл бұрын

Just let them explode on you in front of their friends. My soon to be single narcissist went off about nothing in front of our friends on multiple occasions. When I finally brought up the abuse I've been tolerating, most of them automatically brought up "That one time they went off on you for x,y,z for seemingly no reason". In my case, her own friends took me in, and understood me. They even criticized the narc "You really don't deserve that.. I still love them but thats not okay" and were there for me. My advice is, TALK TO PEOPLE ABOUT IT. Don't be dramatic or talk to dramatic people, talk to people who display solitude and empathy, they more than anyone will not only understand, but respect the boundaries associated with what "venting" entails. Be strong, for yourself. They will degrade you until you leave, then promise to stop, or do whatever you want, in order to keep you around. They don't really mean to do it, but they rarely change, and due to this you must leave them. Maybe they will find someone who likes being abused, thats their ideal relationship.

@thesciencehubskb

3 жыл бұрын

They sure do.

@grace2excell

3 жыл бұрын

So True am glad it was not only me

@amys.johnson8449

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! They do. The best way to deal with this is number 1 to go No Contact if you can. #2 if you can't leave yet show no emotion with their abuse by going gray rock. God bless you. 🙏

I can't believe how much things have changed since I started watching your videos. You have brought so much positivity into my life! I finally was able to leave a very toxic relationship after feeling trapped for so long. Thank you! ❤

This helped me so much. I have been going back and forth about my relationship and this video gave me some clarity

@Tomwilliam777

3 жыл бұрын

Me too omg. It's like I've been going mad she always makes it seem like I am over senstivie and stuff.

@NehaSingh-kk6ws

3 жыл бұрын

Me too... This helped so much 🙏🏻

@rmrmrm004

3 жыл бұрын

Same. I loved her point of if a friend told you the scenario you’re going through - you would totally tell them to leave and move on.

@AK-nl1et

3 жыл бұрын

How long have you been in that relationship?

@grace2excell

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

I am so grateful for the time that we live in. I cannot imagine without technology being alone in my room with no source of information of guidance

@yishihara55527

2 жыл бұрын

Well it was like that pre-Internet which made breakups all the more maddening.

The problem is most people rush into a relationship way too fast. The way I think of it is that most people you meet are not your match. You try things out for a while. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. There's no deadlines. If he/she gives an ultimatum show them the door. Don't get so emotionally involved so quickly.

Why do people look forward to a New Relationship, after my current relationship ends I want some Alone time, .. I need me

@amanda-sy7kc

5 жыл бұрын

I totally agree

@emokiriemiabednegoabed2844

4 жыл бұрын

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@thereisnosanctuary6184

4 жыл бұрын

zumzy u you are a weak man.

@lisajackson6950

4 жыл бұрын

Im with you! I need my peace for a very long time!! So much healing to do and me finding to do! Literally YEARS!!

@lisajackson6950

4 жыл бұрын

I understand now! Im too comfortable and this is the first time in my life that i haven't had to struggle financially. Stability and security. But i have no freedom. No being me. No friends. No family. Im isolated and kept as an object/ pet. How do i leave?

Projecting on them, to be who you want them to be. Such a great point!

@donschlegel1972

5 жыл бұрын

Yes I have done this. Bla not anymore good aware ness

@donschlegel1972

5 жыл бұрын

Good awareness I have been there done this. Painful

@ib1452

5 жыл бұрын

Wow yes that is so true😐 i always tought after weird shit happens ( i want to be back to normal ) 😆 but it was the cycle😑

@bwilliams4266

5 жыл бұрын

I feel it’s wrong for anyone to date a narcissist gladly I could hack my spouses phone on time with the help of a hacker and didn’t get to marry them because I saw their conversations with people and how entitled they felt! Contact mike if you need any hack help! He will help you hack whatsoever you need to social media phones you name it his contact details are: Instagram @MIKESWILFRED WhatsApp/text +15182175945 and email HACKELITE0077@GMAIL.COM

@borosinyas2648

4 жыл бұрын

@@ib1452 ring when that ugly bitch coming through TV

If you ever feel you’ve screwed up God’s plan for your life, remember, you’re not THAT powerful!!!

@luckyduckydaisyflower2344

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!!! I sure hope so

@matiaspereyra9375

3 жыл бұрын

Yes you are

No contact is the way to go. Feel terrible every time she gets a hold of me,she is evil

@susanpennypacker

3 жыл бұрын

The new supply was an acquaintance.. my deep feelings of betrayal are overwhelming. She is gloating

@AK-nl1et

3 жыл бұрын

How long have you been in that relationship?

@FlowerGrl20

3 жыл бұрын

I feel like I am dying...... in this relationship. I feel so alone while being in quarantine as well.

@AK-nl1et

3 жыл бұрын

@@FlowerGrl20 I feel like my brain is going to push itself out due to the stress

@AK-nl1et

3 жыл бұрын

@@LBeeeeeee I’m sorry that happened to you. How long were you in that relationship/married ?

Absolutely true!! I ended up in two horrible relationships with narcs because of my mental stories. With the first it was that I wouldn’t find anyone else, the second was putting him on a pedistal...in my mind he was the perfect person...after I fell so in love with him and shit got real, I discovered his true colours...he was wearing the thickest shiniest mask...I was too blind to see it before I sank. Please ladies - I beg...whoever reads this...if you have a little tingle/sensation in your body, or a intuitive hit in your gut, that it doesn’t feel good being with the person, honour it. The stories of doubt or fear start kicking in, ignore it. Your intuition always supersedes the stories. Love yourself enough to listen to your inner voice and honour it. I wouldn’t want anyone to experience the emotional turmoil I’ve gone through these past few years ♥️

You just helped change my situation for the better. I feel so much peace right now. Thank you!

@AnthonyLopez-xn1um

4 жыл бұрын

Same here...like Freedom ~ Lighter :)

Thank you Stephanie, you always have the right thing to say when I am doubting the decision of divorce. I really admired you, I wish I'll develop this mental strength that you have and you teach us. ❤😘

@bwilliams4266

5 жыл бұрын

I feel it’s wrong for anyone to date a narcissist gladly I could hack my spouses phone on time with the help of a hacker and didn’t get to marry them because I saw their conversations with people and how entitled they felt! Contact mike if you need any hack help! He will help you hack whatsoever you need to social media phones you name it his contact details are: Instagram @MIKESWILFRED WhatsApp/text +15182175945 and email HACKELITE0077@GMAIL.COM

@sabuhassabaah2913

4 жыл бұрын

So Sofia coming crazy she's was potrize be careful to Com 😝💔😜😛💪💪😂

17 Days ago I walked away from my narcissistic single mother ex fiancee. She had put me through a lot of emotional abuse. Never have I been treated so poorly by someone. And day by day I struggle from the break up. Watching your videos is really helping me get through this Grief. This is the 7th video I have watched on your channel and I'm really learning a lot not just narcissism but also everything about relationship. Thank you for making videos like this because it really is very effective. Thank you. ✌️ I liked and subbed

@christianbenn316

Жыл бұрын

You have every right to walk awsy from her for she is toxic & is not worth your time so leave her & never look back.

@Fail-Safe-1

Жыл бұрын

@@christianbenn316 I left that blood sucking vampire 2 years ago. I’m now happily married with the love of my life. I never thought I’d be this happy.

Stephanie, you are amazing at what you do. These videos are helping me so much. Thank you for putting these videos online for free so people who struggle and learn to thrive.

@susansheehan7965

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like I know you also when you are speaking.everything you are saying is so true and I can’t believe how much I have been through myself! I am so much better now since listening to your videos. Thanks so much

Thank you for these videos They have helped me and I think others as well. I especially liked that you said if you have to ask when a person should leave then it’s probably time. Great job and I do hope others remember that the stories we mentally tell ourselves lay the groundwork for the future we want. Blessings of light and love 🙏🏽

Going no contact is critical in breaking the trauma bond with the narc! Never look at their social media! Never text or call them! I was having panic attacks at the end. I said to myself “no more!”. I have been no contact for 3 years! These people aren’t worth the time of day!

I am feeling so releaved by having all of this knowledge about narcissistic people, it makes me feel so much smarter as a 21 years old, i am growing more as a person, i really needed this after everything bad what happend. Thank you really much for sharing all of this on your channel, knowledge is so underrated 🙏🏼

You are a tremendous help.i feel better.thank you for sharing this.ive been shamed and told I'm wrong about everything for so long. I put up with too much from the narc..

Was literally waiting on this. Currently on my commute and was scrolling to see you finally uploaded and you did!!!

Watching Stephanie's videos is enabling me to finally see the light in relation to the longstanding narcissistic relationship I was in, but thankfully have now walked away from. I've felt as though this relationship was like a confusing jigsaw puzzle I could never finish or find the pieces for but Steph has helped me to find these missing pieces and so now I can see the finished clear picture, I'm so very grateful to her.

I am a single mom of a high functioning autistic teen, and I just want to thank you for your videos! I follow you on almost all social media platforms, except twitter. You have helped me, and continue to help me in stabilizing my emotions with being with a narc who emotionally abused me, via manipulation, guilt, etc. I continuously went back after the "hoovering" & love bombing; but recently have gone zero contact, and it has been 32 days (when today is over it will be 33 days). It has been a struggle to enforce this, but I feel much better everyday, practicing self care and parenting myself while feeling every feeling so I can heal. I just resonate with your videos, and listen to these also with my teen daughter so that something she hears may help her learn about healthy relationship patterns, self love, etc..

i’m going to watch this video everyday, because your words. i literally got full body chills.

You make me feel so normal. We are so alike and when you said u were a single mom i gasped. We are the same and i feel so much better. Its like seeing myself from outside my body

The way you say "strength" gives me life 💛

You're like an angel! watching your channel makes me feel better, it's even better than therapy!

Your videos are so inspiring and I felt so empowered by only listening and watching what you said and how you said it! Thanks from the bottom of my heart for the shared treasure, each and every video is a gem. I mean it.

Thank you for this video. It made me see that his issues are alot worse than anything I may have. I can continue my couseling and become a better whole person but he will never be fixed. He will never be healed or whole. ❤

LOVE your videos, they are so spot on, you put into words what I could not! YOU ARE AMAZING! Thank you always!!! 🙏🏼💖

1 year ago!? Gosh, you have been teaching in a few videos, than anyone in my life! You are real, genuine, compassionate, you know how much it is to be under these predators. Thank You, a big Thank You! All the best for people like you. ❤❤❤😎😎😎

you always say the right words and they are also full of light. Thank you, I understand everything better and find relief.

thanks Stephanie for another great video. I used to wish bad on the ex narc but now I see how completely miserable and empty he is. He continues to get in his own way. experiencing him..allows me to love and respect myself even more for the person I am. He has taught me to appreciate so much about myself. karma takes care of what needs to be taken care of. no more hate from me..

You are the best on KZread Stephanie. You help us all more than you know. Thank you so much for what you do.🙂

Thank you for your videos. It really helps me through my journey since I "no contacted" my ex narc.

@kellyuu

5 жыл бұрын

you go queen!

@bwilliams4266

5 жыл бұрын

I feel it’s wrong for anyone to date a narcissist gladly I could hack my spouses phone on time with the help of a hacker and didn’t get to marry them because I saw their conversations with people and how entitled they felt! Contact mike if you need any hack help! He will help you hack whatsoever you need to social media phones you name it his contact details are: Instagram @MIKESWILFRED WhatsApp/text +15182175945 and email HACKELITE0077@GMAIL.COM

Thanks for the video! But... Do not expect another person to make you happy. You won't find happiness outside of you. Happiness is within you. If you find someone that is nice, okay! But do not expect that person will be your other half. This person already has his internal struggles and won't be able to solve yours. Do not try to find the perfect person for a relationship because you will fail.

I love ❤️ the selfparenting part! Thanks Stephanie! I am a single mom too and so inspired by these vids!

@DanielleBraiden

4 жыл бұрын

Patricia Gabrielle me too!!

I totally agree with you 120% !!! That’s why whenever I come across a channel that talks about “revenge” and “Karma” on a ex narcissist, I immediately skip it only because it shows that the person hasn’t grown enough emotionally and in a place of true forgivenesses because technically speaking it isn’t the ex narcissistic fault that they did the behaviors they put on to you. In fact, it goes way back to what the parents and their parents and the history of of family members taught and projected onto their Children. So again, I don’t blame the ex narcissist, instead I forgive them and myself and my family traumas and find a healthy place to move on so i can become “FREE”! And that’s the best place to be !! Thank you so much for your videos and support! I can’t thank you enough!!💜💜💜😏

I binge watched your vids this weekend. It’s the first time in two months that I am starting to understand and be ok with a horrific breakup my family and I went through this past year.

Thanks for being realistic and giving us helpful tips. You helped me more than words can say 💞

I can’t tell you how helpful this video is to me!! Thank you 😊 I’m basing my breakup with my emotionally abusive boyfriend. He can’t be available for me emotionally and I’m walking on eggshells. I can’t tell you how degrading he is to me!! He has no respect for me at all!! Just thank you!!

@christianpulisic7784

3 жыл бұрын

Pamela Hansen,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌷🌹🌺,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!

@pamelahansen6816

3 жыл бұрын

@@christianpulisic7784 not anymore!! And thank you ☺️

@christianpulisic7784

3 жыл бұрын

@@pamelahansen6816 You are welcome dearest 🌹🌷🌹.I am Christian from the States.You?

Thank you so much for being you and helping 🙏🏼.

Dear Lyn, I am learning so much with you, I'm scared. I am understanding things at almost 50! But I feel strong and will work hard to heal and live a fulfilling life. Love you!

Stephanie, I love your videos! I take time in my day just to watch them :) I always feel so much better after listening to you give advice on “loving yourself..” I just got out of a four year relationship with a guy who has narcissistic tendencies, I am totally convinced he has NPD. I am also a psychology graduate contemplating going for a masters program in family and marriage counseling. Your videos have helped me realize the situation I was in during my last relationship. You’re right, everything about the relationship becomes so repetitive it’s being on a “hamster wheel” so mentally and emotionally exhausting. I am still dealing with the hurt and manipulation ten months later. I was introduced to cognitive dissonance during a therapy session, it’s definitely the biggest thing I still struggle with today. But your videos help so much and I admire just how brave, smart, determined, and considerate you are in making these videos every week. These are things everyone should know and be aware of when forming new relationships with people especially when in your early twenties like me. I recommend your videos to friends and family, they tell me they watch you now. Thanks for your videos!

You've helped me understand what's been going on in my life for 17yrs. I have a 14yrs. Son with this person and make situations alot more difficult really hard sometimes! Thanks for your videos.

Exactly! I dont surround myself with people like that because there negative people and any attention you give them feeds them more energy. I have known men and women like this that hide behind their money and assests and live by themselves its a comfort thing for them but if they didnt have it they would have a melt down. Its hard for me to relate to a narcassist because their goal is to live life by the dollar, sometimes they want something for nothing and when people spoil them or hand it to them they become bitter because of it. Steer clear of these people because no matter what you do its always somebody elses fault, its never their own.

Wow, each one of your words is so accurate. Thank you so much for your help and support. Best wishes for you. 💖💐👍👏👋

This video gave me a lot of clarity. A LOT. Thank you for this.

Thank you so much for the video 💜 I’m going through a discard from a narc and your videos have been helping me sooo much. Thank you!

Everything you say is what I say to myself on the daily so I’m so hopefully that I’m finally getting healthy. Just need the last step which is the strength to act on the things I say out loud. Thanks again for making me feel okay

Great video Stephanie. Extremely clear and good guidance. Thank you.

Omg, that was so deep! I love how you said that if you're confused about how to see a person it's because of cognitive dissonance and you not wanting to believe what they are presenting. Mic drop, that is so profound!

This is a really pertinent video talk for me Stephanie, I obviously need to be honest with myself, and be able to strong enough to do what I need to do. ❤

Thank you so much for all your work! Its inspiring and helping others to heal ❤️

For once in my life my child and I have just left from being in an narcissist relationship. I'm gonna be working on myself and what I want in my life for better.

Thank you for you support…I’m was beating myself up & you really help!

Thank you for all of your videos because it has brought me comfort and validation of my feelings of myself and who my husband really is as a narcissist. I always seen the red flags but as you said I wanted to see something good in him and wanted him to not be that horrible person that he was hiding until he couldn’t hide it anymore. So once again thank you, God bless you!

I try to listen to your advices coz I feel you are gifted in your sharing and helping us cope up with problems.A GOD given gift.Keep it up

Thanks for your authenticity. It really shows.

Steph, you seriously are the BEST. You have helped me so so much.

One of the best videos! Made me cry. Gave me hope. Helped me realize my value.

@toothlessbanana7988

4 жыл бұрын

Teresa Lussier you are worthy!

You really helped me see a lot of things about myself and my relationship. Thank you so much. I know I have to let him go but have not accepted it yet. I will continue to work on me and continue to listen to your videos. God Bless You!

Thank you for this video. It has helped me so much. You have changed my life.

Thank you for your videos and words! I too am a single mom, and that part of the video really struck me and was what I needed to hear today!

I love your channel! Thanks so much for helping to educate us. I have learned more watching you than from all the therapists I have paid to help me.

@christianpulisic7784

3 жыл бұрын

Michelle Marshall,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌹🌹🌺,hope you are not with a narc 😈!

Maan you are such a force for good!! What an awesome vision of helping enlighten younger people BEFORE they get into their own messes! Totally resonates with me! Wow I love even more how you boldly assert how essential it is - like gee could we spare an half hour for life transformative material if we can drill students in math until they're sick? Absolutely!

This was so enlightening. You are smart, easy to understand and make so much sense !!! Thank you so much

I really get so much from your videos Thank you so much. I especially agree with you at the end of this video where you said we should be teaching this in schools and it should be part of the curriculum I hope that happens one day, so many of us would be in better places if we had learned these things early on.

Omg ,a questions and answers are crisp ,sharp and clear ,Thank you so much 😍

Thank you. I needed to hear LOGIC! I appreciate YOU!

This was great! I’m so glad I found your channel!

my assumption when i started watching your videos was that you were with an abusive narcissist bc you talked about narcissism a lot... after watching almost all your videos i was right you were! you're the kind of person we all need as a friend

Going through the worst time and your videos are helping so much!! I really appreciate your guidance!

You are so awesome! Thank you for your videos. They help tramendously.

Thank you for everything! I need relationship experts like you to teach me this stuff.

13:43 I've been asking myself this question for 6 months now. Thank you so much for answering it!

Your so amazing you Broke this down so simply! Your so calming!!! I need you to be my life coach ❤️ I’m so glad I found this cause I need this , in the relationship their was extreme fight an flight ✈️ but I’m finally moving forward it’s been a couple of weeks but I cannot go back!!! Ever!!! I feel so much better just being alone! It’s not even about being with someone right now I’m loving and dating myself now

Hi Stephanie you are so sweet the way you do the videos and the advice that you give

thank you for being so positive and helpful!

you are amazing. never bored listening

Thank you 🙏 awesome video so much info and I learned things I didn’t even kno!

Go to Greece Stephanie. You’ll love it. It’s my summer escape from the day to day in NY. Embedding the things you say in your videos will be tough because of my short term memory issues, but thanks for making me “us,” stronger.

"All I want to worry about is my own energy." Thank you. Your vids are authentically helping me.

You are one of the best speaker , I ve ever heard

This explanation brings so much clarity, thank you ❤️.

Wow❣️You are real. Thanks for sharing this

I so appreciate you talking about narcissism! Yay!!

I am having to walk away after 27 years. Well I am actually being disguarded for a new supply because she says I hate her and she feels unloved. Funny how a person can be controlling, belittling, selfish,dishonest and manipulative. But when I finally stand my ground she bails out and blames me. I look forward to the light after the darkness. But I do love her so it will be tough

I'm 51 and your so right about narcissists.thanks for the advice.

Thank you, this helped to brinbg me closure to a painful chapter in my life.

I’m so grateful to have found your channel.

Thank you so much for the work that you do!!! 🙏🏻 it really helps ! Also you are such a beautiful woman/person/soul! An inspiration! Love how your energy is so grounded and balance and how you exude such a calm and humble confidence. May the universe bless you in everything you do! Greetings from a fellow Capricorn ♑️ 🙌🏻❤️🥰🙏🏻

Thank you for sharing your knowledge and your gift.

Good job answering and addressing some of the Many intricacies of healing from narrsisitic abuse. 👍

Yes you are very sincere and genuine, on assumptions I thought you were a high flyer business woman on the social scene!! Learning you are a fellow single mother makes me feel more in awe of all you have achieved. I totally agree we should be educating our youth on toxic v healthy relationships and my little one is fully aware of red flags. Huge congratulations on your great channel, God bless you and your little one 🙏🤎