Narcissist Never Takes Responsibility On Their Own!
Stop helping the narcissist not take responsibility! The narcissist is a blame shifter and only focuses on themselves while pointing their finger at everyone else. The narcissist wont take responsibility because that would require them to admit fault. The narcissist thinks they could never be at fault because of their beliefs they are grandiose and all-knowing. Everyone else is the problem and not them? So, why do narcissists not take responsibility? Because they are incapable of seeing themselves as wrong. If they did feel at fault for something this activates narcissist shame and then they enact their narcissistic punishment tactics to protect against deflating their narcissistic ego. So, if someone doesn’t take responsibility for things they actually did, they will lie. Why do narcissists always lie? That is the only way out of a situation they have created. They lie as part of the gaslighting and blame shifting. They lie to get the spotlight off them and onto you. The narcissist may also give the silent treatment. Silent treatment in relationships allows one person to not take responsibility because the issue can’t be discuss. The silent treatment is a type of avoidance which results in nothing ever getting resolved. Narcissist manipulation in a relationship is rampant because they are always looking out for number 1, which is themselves. Will narcissists change? A narcissist is always right and everything is my fault - which is what the narcissist wants you to think. So, no, the narcissist will never change. Their passive aggressive behavior, silent treatment in relationships, and narcissistic rage will always be ways in which they respond to situations in which they feel they will be found out for the fraud they are. The narcissist is manipulative and controlling. They won’t change to improve the relationship so stop waiting for them to change. Instead, focus on yourself and stop helping the narcissist not take responsibility for their actions. While it might be easier for you to just apologize for your supposed wrong doing, it doesn’t change anything and only encourages the narcissist to be able to continue to lie and deceive.
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Comment below if you have helped a narcissist not take responsibility for something because you wanted things to be better between you. Your experiences can help someone who might be in a similar situation.
Silent treatment is a psychological punishment
I am always the one who apologizes, and she is always the one that picks fights..... I have learned that must detach from the issues and remain stoic. It can be hard, but it is what it is.
My narc mom is falling apart. We have a lot of family, but I'm the only one who sees her daily. Everyone else (aside from oldest sis) stays away So hard to watch, but she is very toxic. Very sad situation. I pray everyday to God to handle this situation.
00:27 "The narcissist will never take responsibility for their actions that can't be viewed as positive." Now that you say it it's so obvious. Toxic people lead you to believe they want to talk about the issues. Then, they prove their innocence and your guilt as you get more and more unsettled by their behavior. Sam Vaknin recently released a video that explained that if reality is different from what a narcissist wants to believe the narcissist will hold their thoughts as the truth. They will literally ignore reality and believe their thoughts as if they were reality. I've gotten to the point in life where I stop trying to have heart-to-heart to work things out with people who have intentionally done me wrong. I smile and distance myself knowing nothing I can say or do will change the situation. Further, any more time around this person will lead to more of the same behavior.
Not even once in 24 years of marriage she approached me to discuss our real or perceived problems.
I have two words : “Help Me”. I was a happy , easy going self sufficient, financially secure 56 year old man. I had a second marriage to a narcissist and her “‘golden child”. I am now bankrupt, anxious, depressed, agoraphobic, just 180 degrees the man I was. I divorced her and she still is always asking for more money than I am obligated to give her! …. She owes taxes on her house and says if I don’t pay them it means I am evil and want to see her and her son homeless !! Oh, and she is a PHD! I am $150k in debt thanks to her and she only cares about me giving her more and more. What a mistake I made. I should have stayed single . Of all the wonderful woman I dated , I choose to marry the wrong one !
@bostonjackson9384
4 ай бұрын
Never ever ever marry without a prenup.
Ahh, but to relive the nightmare. There was only one person I tolerated (trauma bonded) whose pathologically critical behavior was so over the top. I was always apologizing, ughh The thought of actually going out & having fun together like playing miniature golf ⛳️ was but a dream 💭
I was allowing a narcissist to do their work and I was apologizing. It was hard to me to stand this tension, my stress response was huge in the proximity of the narcissist. And in the work environment it was especially hard because a narcissist boss had a control over my doings.
100 percent accurate
This video is so eye opening, I can't believe such a short video explains so much about my past relationship. this is pure gold.
@DrEmilyMayfield
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for the kind words and your support!
He's placing blame while im watching this 😅
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Any thoughts when kids are involved, so you feel you have to step in?
Very nice. You from uk
You are extremely well versed on all aspects of the subject of narcissism. Very insightful information very helpful thank you ❤
@DrEmilyMayfield
4 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! And thank you for the kind words.