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@hildahkageha668

3 жыл бұрын

J

@ncwscmfa4118

3 жыл бұрын

Nana thanks for the motivation

Anywhere I see Nana, I click to watch ......Nana this is soo brave of you!

This is a story that needs to be shared with everyone, girls and boys, women and men! Silence can no longer be the norm for those who suffer from abuse.

This is difficult to watch😢soo sorry for what you went through Nana... If a child tells you they feel uncomfortable around someone be cautious and do your research protect your kids💔🙏

Nana my favourite 💓 Nana my hero❤️ Nana my love❤️❤️much love from Europe, nakupnda sana❤️

😭😭😭😭,it also happened to me when I was 8yrs then 12yrs &it still affects me upto now.Vowed to protect my children&educate them on the same.

@dorcasmetah5647

3 жыл бұрын

Waaaah hugs mummy

@sophienyoroka3731

3 жыл бұрын

Hugs mrembo

@lucynjuguna9653

2 жыл бұрын

Hugs girl.speaking up puts an end to the cycle

This made me shed tears😥😥Nana may God give you the healing you need

I was barely 10 when the rape took place. Also molested by uncles and cousin while mom visited dad in Nairobi, leaving us in Shagz with grandma. Never gained courage to disclose to my parents. The moment I opened up to afew friends last year, my recovery process begun then. I always caution parents who're fond of taking their children to Shagz over holidays while they enjoy life in the city 😥 Personally, I have never trusted my own brother with my children, something that once brought conflict between mom and I. Never trust any man with your children!!

@mercynthemba59

3 жыл бұрын

I thought am the only one, I don't trust no one with my child, for holidays we go together and come back together

@thePrincipalOpiyo

3 жыл бұрын

I have stayed with so many relatives and never molested any

@purejoyke

3 жыл бұрын

@@mercynthemba59 that's how it should be.. you may trust someone but you dn know whom they leave your kids with.

@ndungujoy5777

3 жыл бұрын

Am not yet a parent but what I know is that I will never entrust my kids with anybody

@finebwoy77

3 жыл бұрын

Hi

I was 12 when I was raped. My mum had relocated to Kisumu with me and my younger brother and she would go on business trips even for a week and leave me and my younger brother in the house alone. The first time it happened, I told a lady who lived with us .... She told me it's my fault because I have "bedroom eyes". That was the last time I told anyone untill I was 22yrs. It went on for 2 years everytime my mom went away on business and he threatened to kill me and my brother and send my mother to prison if I ever told anyone. Finally I left Kisumu and went back to live with my grandparents and I had changed. I had become angry, rebellious and eventually suicidal. My family just explained it away as "normal teenagehood" . I did a lot of things to hurt other people the way I was hurting. I started stealing, joined a cult and was just outrightly a trouble child. When I was 16 it happened again. But this time it was my cousin and this time I did not even hate my cousin. I had accepted that it was my fault and I thought I deserved it. I have battled with depression and have tried commiting suicide 6 times and my family just know of one. I finally decided to talk to someone after my 6th attempt. By then I was in University and for the first time I started healing. I turn 30 this year and over the last 8 years I have gained the courage to talk about it and to also talk to other people who have gone through the trauma. I have learnt that family do not really handle such things well and I decided to not share with any family member.

@annmureithi9394

3 жыл бұрын

Am so sorry for what you have gone through. It's was not your fault. I hope you find healing.

I can't stop crying aki am so sorry Nana,thank u for sharing ur story Swthrt u will heal dear pole sana.....

Nana I love you one day I will say the truth without judging myself or questioning my decisions

@susankavai2952

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@mercyachieng2554

3 жыл бұрын

Am with you

@njakwamwandila3644

3 жыл бұрын

My story

@sophienyoroka3731

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@winnieadhiambo9948

2 жыл бұрын

I wanna say the truth to but I'm ashamed and scared😔

I know I'm not a prominent person but I now think I should also be called on this platform🥺🥺🥺 We love you nana regardless 🥺❤️❤️

Wow these ladies were just smthng else a vibe to work together. As we get to know them better, it's always God's plan for everything under the earth.

Hugs to everyone (both ladies and gentlemen) who've gone thru this😭 may God heal you from the trauma 🙏🏿 and we still have very ignorant able parents esp mums🤦🏿‍♀️ it really aches me

@marygoretti3342

2 жыл бұрын

These relatives are rogues,,one of my mother's relatives also did that to me, gave me some coins , threatened me too .I was eight years it's still fresh and painful in my life today, hate that day ever.

@queenezzywanjiru3582

2 жыл бұрын

God bless his seed we will never die untill devil see our God 🙏

I'm so sorry , I faced the same na nliambiwa that I am not special , a man is a man ..I never move on but I know one day I will ...Take heart Nana

@marypaul376

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry 😩

@christinejeptum3207

3 жыл бұрын

Pole

@432hzeverything6

3 жыл бұрын

You are SPECIAL. Your pain/trauma is valid. I hope you heal. Sending you love❤️❤️❤️

@bettymacharia3291

3 жыл бұрын

You are beautiful ,wonderful and special probably the most courageous human being I've heard,I don't know you but I feel you are my hero ,God loves you dear ,

@doctorrees4473

3 жыл бұрын

OOOh my that is very sad. How can somebody say that. Be strong and pray, it is well.

Am a victim too mwikali trust me parents or relatives are not worth sharing the story too coz they take it so easy😥😥😥

@deeshanon9512

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah sure that's why we can't even share with our parents,,,coz they will take it easy ....for me that's why I kept for myself

This is so emotional and sad i can't hold my tears ..am so sorry Nana this has to happen to you.. ❤i really love this woman

Watching this from south Africa and I can't stop crying 😢😭

@julietniysh125

3 жыл бұрын

Im in jozi too

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Help us oooh Lord to be very close and friendly to our kid's may you receive a parmanent healing from above beautiful nana this is a lesson learned aki

You are very brave for coming out with this story.you are helping out lots of women out here

Nana you are such an inspiration I wish one day I'll get the courage to open up

@shifay

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you do🤗

@Jules_3

3 жыл бұрын

Me too..but I donno who to open up to...exactly

So emotional 😭😭😭Nana your a heroine indeed;your journey to recovery has started;thankuu so much for sharing this.

Oh my,am watching this after 8 months and I can't believe I missed this, Nana I have always wondered where you trained to be this courageous and strong,kumbe life taught you darling,,, you are a real mother, sister, babe, heroine,, mention them,, you are a conqueror and on top of it all you are a gem 💎 a good one lovely

Woiye Nana,akh I love you gal,may God always protect you,this was toooooo much for a babygal 😭😭😭😭😭

Everytime I hear this Nana's story it brings tears to my eyes because I am a mother of 2 girls, your mum failed you there big time! When my girls were little and even up to their teens, I was very careful about male relatives visiting or even staying over.

This is so sad😭 Don't trust anyone when it comes to your children's expecially this behavior of taking your children to ushago to stay with uncle or cousins they are the most dangerous creatures...... Surely God forbid😭😭 😭 I once went through the same situation.

I've learnt a lot as a mum. A lot.

I love you Nana thank you for sharing ❤

This story made me cry ilove ur passion

Ooh Nana,, my favourite... Am glad youve taken this out of your heart and l know you're partly healed. Am sorry you went through this.. l love you

Nana you're teaching me alot, as strong as you are I too will one day be strong 💪

Jeeez!!!Much love Nana.😘😘

This is so sad 😢😢😢At some time its shameful,coz the person was doing her his uncle 😭😭😭😭😭 Ohh my God may you continues healed this young gal 💕 and the way she is beautiful ❤️# ❤️❤️ really loves you gal 💕

I can feel ur pain dear ..felt the same pain too but the grace of God am healed.

The same thing l passed through, but up-to now no one knows.That thing hurts me so much coz I don't have someone to talk to.

@wanjikunjuguna8386

2 жыл бұрын

Look for therapy dear.

@marykariuki4724

2 жыл бұрын

Speak it out darling,that thing didn't define the real you,its just something you need face,,you heard of facing your demons,,they are such,speak it out and move on hunny

"Silence of the victim " true. Pole sana.

Wooi I'm so emotional watching this 😭😭😭 Nana you will overcome it one day.This reminds me how lucky I was a friend of mine wanted to rape me but I thank God we fought and it didn't happen later I came to know he was even HIV+ 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️ I was 19yrs old God is always faithful

@monicamwaush5119

3 жыл бұрын

omg sorry ..our mightiest is faithful

@Makhtar806

3 жыл бұрын

@@monicamwaush5119 amen darl

So Sorry Nana. It's heartbreaking.

Touching story ,,,I felt so bad when I had that story from Nana

@evefinity2

3 жыл бұрын

Aakd

This makes me cry. I rem in 2007 I used to cry like a baby not to be left with a certain cuzo. To date I hate him so badly.

Imagine all these. Take heart ❤️❤️ mum!! Society should standup and listen to girls.

I am touched by this Nana story..this have proved how mummy's have failed the families society by not doing,saying the truth and correct words to their children...today I look at the society and see failures on mummy's...Nana and many more out their God heals broken spirit and souls, physical as well as emotional...take heart..

@wambui-njagi4681

3 жыл бұрын

All blame should be aportiond to the abuser, not any other party.

Nana you are a strong lady... Some traumas live with us.. We just learn to leave with them ❤️

Same here when I was 9 and 21 but the Lord helped me overcome

So heartbreaking😪💔I can't believe it......take heart and I pray that u will heal completely🙏

Bravooo Nanaa, you're so strong💪💪💪

I understand you Nana

Oh baby gal I feel you, hugs mum..it is well. Thanks for sharing

Bring a man who went through it and if he can be honest enough about how it changed his life that would be good

@arikamonica

3 жыл бұрын

There are so many men who have gone through the same but sadly it's not easy for them to come out and speak for the fear of judgement...

Av gone thru the same but with different family members n av never ever spoken about it. Trust issues is what i suffer from.

@pstleilaciku7171

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry ❤️❤️hugs.. Look for someone n share for u to heal

@Nyarwaiworld

3 жыл бұрын

Am so sorry queen ..lots of hugs❤and God will give you the strength that u need to heal from this

@QueenOptimist

3 жыл бұрын

Pole Sana, sending you virtual hugs 💖

@lucynyamai6854

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry about this. I mean it!

@maryannemwangi168

3 жыл бұрын

Look for someone and tell someone

This is really sad😭😭😭

Wow!!!!!!!!such a touching story,,,,power 2 u Nana

Nana ur such a brilliant woman

These wounds never heal. Especially to some of us who have never talked about it because of fear and also because we have no one to share with

@paulinekiarie6215

3 жыл бұрын

It pains but find someone who you close to and share it...that's one way of healing. Take heart mama 💓

Nana I love you

Wow Nana you are strong 😭coming out n talking about it is not easy...

Nana is so strong God bless

So emotional😢

Can't stop shading tears have been there,my step dad did it to me when I was 11,but I never had the courage to tell my mom

@QueenofLifeNuggets

3 жыл бұрын

My twin....Same to me aki....Me I told my mom, she did nothing, just cried and I don't speak my things with anyone to date..Even her...I live my life quietly and kill my own snakes...And to me till this day, every person is a suspect...I do not trust any person....

@wambuigrace6907

3 жыл бұрын

You'll be okay girl ..eventually we will heal our wounds ..Hugs

@evamaina2290

3 жыл бұрын

@@QueenofLifeNuggets I am so sorry my dear.😞 sending you love and hugs

@christinekawira1175

2 жыл бұрын

Your better of without telling her,,I never shared with my mum how her brother used to molest me when I was young,you know why because as a kid I realised she would never stand by me by all chances and even today she trusts and listens to her brothers and sisters more than us,her kids,,and now that am a mother am overprotective of my daughters,I listen to them more and they come first,,

Have been there at the same age 9 and my mom told me it's a disgrace I should not tell anyone, ,, I hated myself, living in fear, I tried to commit suicide but it was unsuccessful, I can't stop 😭😭😭

@harrietchronicles5707

3 жыл бұрын

Take heart you will heal with time

@evamaina2290

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry 😔😞

Thanks Nana

Pole sana nana our mentor on switch tv.

I'm so sorry, I really have never gone through it but everytime someone talks about such I go through this wave of emotions. I'm currently bawling my eyes out like a baby. Me I catch somebody doing it to someone, I think I will commit my first act of murder then. It angers me. Not for girls alone but for men as well, I will kill for someone. Cos justice is never served in these instances

Hugs Nana❤️

happened to me to am still healing

Silence is the weapon oppressors use. Shout out to Nana for such courage, so much abuse in this society,..so much secrecy..King is good peeps and so is she. The best to them.

This story is so painful, sorry nana😭😭

Oooh my Nana am so sorry for wat u went through this was so painful I can fill u my dear am sorry my favourite person

Am sorry Nana😔

Some parents are failing at their job shame on you parents that don’t help your kids

Too sad,l once went through this and up to now,l have never talked about this, wherever l think about it,l feel Soo down

Silent is what killing us

My relationship and that of my mum even today has bumps,,she has never been that friend,we are never open on issues,,she has never been there for me at all,,and that really made me go through hell in the hands of people that she trusted me with but made me go through hell

😪😪😪I hope i gather the courage to speak out one day

@lilianndichu3457

3 жыл бұрын

Hugs

@kilenamapenai6127

3 жыл бұрын

Someday you will. Take your time and heal. First share with your closest friend then expand slowly. It's a journey but someday you will find the strength to share out loud

@solomonngao2300

3 жыл бұрын

Trust me once you disclose it the healing will start from there

@carolinenganga3965

3 жыл бұрын

@@solomonngao2300 thanks Solomon i'll try

@idahmuriuki8848

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry

I think this is where we say "lea mtoto wako wewe mwenyewe" cz ukimpeana either to the relatives ati you are going to work, you'll regret it when its too late trust me they will not be 100% nice. THE CHILD IS YOURS .

@wambui-njagi4681

3 жыл бұрын

Not all relatives. The lady shared that she would even slept in her grand father's bed and felt safe

@christinekawira1175

2 жыл бұрын

If only my mum knew we needed her presence more than the money,I would be a happy soul and we would be great friends,,but now look 😭

Nana... I feel you I also hate home.. Coz my mother did not believe me.. Am literally cry watching this.. But all will be well...

@bettymacharia3291

3 жыл бұрын

Don't cry dear,you are wonderful , beautiful and you posses so much greatness that you are a change in your family and your generation ,doesn't matter who believed you or not ,you are my hero for being brave and the strength ,God loves you so much

@nansiekate5234

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much guys... I find myself crying all the time watching this.. Am watching from Saudia Arabia, and for really feel more safe here more than in my own home. I don't miss home at all.. Although I have a daughter, she stays with my mom and my stepfather which gives me chillies anytime I think about it.what I do 'manze' I pray for daughter Sana, because if anything will ever happen to her, I'll kill someone since nobody is listening.

@nansiekate5234

3 жыл бұрын

@Kaye Ti Thank you Kaye.. Will do that.. I talk to her once in a while though.

@christinekawira1175

2 жыл бұрын

I also hate home,I became an angry rebellious girl from a cheerful princess,,and I don't even miss anyone who didn't support me then even my mum,and by the way did I say she has never trusted or protected me in anyway

@nansiekate5234

2 жыл бұрын

Am not alone, but girl, life goes on.. Thats y we are strong today, my home is where I am right now..

10q 4 sharing nana&10q 4 having her as a guest

It is so hurting,, I have seen this I have remembered back 2016,,,I was a young girl. Someone almost damaged my whole life ,,jxt because he is a family friend,,, na kunitishia if I try to tell anyone he will my whole body with chemical no one will be able to know me again,,it is so painful 4 what young girl do go though,, telling you parents they see it is a lie until everything turns the way round is the time they will accept

Lyk me my own mother never taught me how to wear a sanitary towel leave alone being molested im pregnant and I can't tell her

@marypaul376

3 жыл бұрын

Be brave n hugs🤗💖take heart😩u r too strong 🤞

@peaceatheart101

3 жыл бұрын

Be encouraged. Perhaps you can talk with another person, Family or Clergy, who will help you share with your mother. God Bless you. 🙏

@lakitamwangi505

3 жыл бұрын

Just know you're strong!!! God loves you

@maryannemwangi168

3 жыл бұрын

@fay keiy open to another person like a clergy or someone u trust

@christinekawira1175

2 жыл бұрын

She is like my mother,,and have had not to tell her in all my pregnancies until somebody else tells her or she finds out when have already given birth,,am at my 30s

Love you Nana sooooo sorry that happened to you😟

Waaah This is real courage. I am sorry

Waa God comfort u

Sorry Nana God heal your heart and emotions because he heals the broken hearted and those who are crushed in spirit and sll those who have gone through this.

The truth is just too difficult and painful and traumatizing , and a nightmare as we women relive the traumas, with brothers,cousins. I cannot rap my head my heart around the situation. Today I hate almost everything about society that dictates my life. Society wants to be protected and maintained but it does not protect me, not on the list 😢

Hugs Nana..

Woah ... it's sad that the comments are full of people with opinions and few who are choosing to understand that your story is your story and some of the things we have to heal from actually rarely make sense to others if they haven't gone through it themselves. The men who get it are like a breath of fresh air but those who don't understand cannot be blamed because they're looking at it from a different and more biased perspective; It's likely that in these cases it's a negative one, unfortunately. Guys will watch this and think 'women' and unfortunately again, it may never be fully understood how painful it is for it to be dumbed down to just that, 'women'. The oversexualisation of our society as well as the perversion of the beautiful act that is sex, has to be blamed for the lack of understanding on the part of those who don't understand. It's alarming that I can also confirm that the statistics we hear, of one in every three/five have been assaulted.

Same thing happened to me 😭 until today I never told anyone

@marykimani5050

3 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭

@bettymacharia3291

3 жыл бұрын

Be strong dear you are beautiful and wonderful ,God loves you so so much

@brenasimplerecipe

3 жыл бұрын

@@bettymacharia3291 thanks alot ..is hard I can't sleep when I think about it but I put everything in god's hands 🙏

@bettymacharia3291

3 жыл бұрын

You are so beautiful dear kindly never let that fear bring you down ,I've seen you have a KZread channel this shows how big and great you are ,you are an overcomer , I'll pray for you ,and once again you are a wonderful creation of God .

@deeshanon9512

3 жыл бұрын

Am sorry same case here until today I never told anybody ..always when I remember I cry much ,,,, 😢😢

Break the silence!Dont be imprisoned by fear

Kisses swtier ❤️❤️❤️nana much love

This was fun to watch but very emotional 😥😥..I'm so sorry Nana

It happened too....it affects me so much..sometimes i breakdown so bad....may God protect our children and may the wounds heal one day....♥️

@harrietchronicles5707

3 жыл бұрын

You will heal take heart❤️

No matter what u went or going or huv already going up open up to someone who trust

Yeah, and that kind of hurt projects to those around us,, especially when you talk about it and no one believes you or excuses the perpetrators. Some wounds need grace to heal. Thanks for sharing...

You are really a strong woman

Mwikali this is great thanks alot for making this aware. Nana so sorry for what you had to go through as a child,am a single mum and am so protective of my daughter I don't leave her in the house with any male not because I don't trust them but its better to be safe than sorry.I always tell my daughter mtu akikuguza nyonyo,vagina na matako kuja uniambie and she knows that touching her is wrong and she says ukiniguza uko na tabia mbaya. We should teach even our sons about this so that they are also aware of being sodomised.

Oooooh my this is sad😥😥....call a spade a spade ...

Sad story😭😭😭😭😭

Wow

She is one of the strongest and realest media personality around.

It happened to me too. 17 yrs laters I still remember it like it was yesterday. I just started talking about it and it's crazy how I didn't realize how that experience contributed to my low self-esteem till date.

@bettymacharia3291

3 жыл бұрын

You are wonderful , beautiful ,and the greatness in you is greater than all your fears ,God loves you so so much

@maurine3553

3 жыл бұрын

@@bettymacharia3291 thank you so much 😭😭

@mariaadhiambo4738

2 жыл бұрын

It happened to me too I was 10 my mum was tough so I could not tell on him. He molested me for a whole year