regardless of how identity is sitting for you right now, your soul is so beautifully gentle and it's a huge light to see you unfold a little. take care of yourself Phoebe ❤

Thank you for such a wonderful vlog Phoebe, it is so wonderful to see you growing, thriving, working it out and advocating for yourself with such beautiful love and compassion, that can be such a challenging thing to do, and a lot of people never learn to do it - it makes me so happy to see you shine. Speaking of shine, is Merlin the silkiest, glossiest good boy ever?!! Sending all the happy vibes to you both 💜

@HoneybunchofOnionTops

11 ай бұрын

thank you so much Dawn

As someone who’s been following you for years, I’d like to add to your exposure list: wonderful, creative, talented, smart! ❤

So nice to hear from you. Can't believe Merlin is 3! I thought he was a puppy still!

@HoneybunchofOnionTops

11 ай бұрын

in spirit 1000% hehe! they say labradors take around 4 years old to "settle down" :)

I have watched your videos since I was 14 (I’m 21 now) in that time I have also realised my nonbinary and autistic identities, and it is wonderful to see you discovering these things about yourself. Of course, it’s bittersweet, wondering what your life could have been if you had known as a young person, and also uncovering layer upon layer of mask that has built up over a lifetime of trying to fit in and be what was expected of you to be. It’s also a beautiful process, one of exhaustion and burnout, and of unravelling and discovering and metamorphosing. Sending care and warmth 🪲

@HoneybunchofOnionTops

11 ай бұрын

i appreciate you

OMG I am so grateful I stumbled upon this channel, you are awesome!

thanks for popping in!! So nice to see your video on my feed. Best of luck with your assessment, good job continuing to look after yourself :)

This was very affirming to watch. I've been following along with your channel since 2020 and just really love your gentle and accepting energy :)

proud of you, friend! happy you're taking steps to live your life more authentically

It’s lovely to see you as always! I’m so proud and happy for you! I hope you enjoy this journey of continuing to find/become your true self. Just know that you have a lot of people rooting for you! :)

Phoebe I've been following you for years and every time I see a vlog notification it makes me feel so happy! You are luminous and I hope you get all the answers you are looking for! Sending you so much love!

I'd love to see you write a piece deep diving into the nuances of ADHD, Autism and Aspergers personality traits where it pertains to where you find yourself now on this spectrum. So glad to see you exploring and introducing the real you. xo

As a fellow enby, I’m delighted to hear all the great news ❤❤❤

I noticed a difference in your energy over last months and without wanting to assume anything, it felt familiar. (I'm non-binary myself.) You seem to rest in yourself much more. I feel happy for you being able to live your truth more and more. Enjoyed this video a lot! Thanks for "checking in" with us, haha!

@HoneybunchofOnionTops

11 ай бұрын

that's really validating to hear, thank you

You go girl! Smashing it and looking divine!! Blue definitely your colour xx

@saarahkunze

11 ай бұрын

Hey Ellen, you probably didn’t mean bad, but maybe we can rephrase to "you go human"* xx

@ellenoble2312

11 ай бұрын

@@saarahkunze my bad thank you for the correction :)

Hi Phoebe, you look happy, so I'm happy😘 Best wishes and please give Merlin a big hug xx

Phoebe, I'm happy to see you, but hope you just do what makes you happy most of the time. If it isn't this, don't do it, at least not programmatically. YT isn't supposed to be an onerous chore! Glad you are thriving creatively and enjoying cooking again, and that you have posted this update of what's going on. Thanks for posting : ) And thanks for the composer recommendation; I listen to mostly classical and jazz and am gravitating more to contemporary artists.

You are an amazing human being Phoebe.

Loved watching you try all these recipes, do you have the previous recipe you tested for the pumpkin rolls please, would love to try those! I have a shed load of canned pumpkin I need to use up

We love you so much Phoebe 💖

You are amazing phobes ♥️ Always remember always

I've definitely missed you on youtube but can understand that it's hard for you at this time. I can't believe that Merlin is almost 3. I'm 52 and still sleep with a stuffed animal at times 🙂. Both my kids have autism (only diagnosed as young adults) and my eldest is non-binary. Sounds like your day in the city was a big success.

Phoebeeee ❤❤❤❤

Long time no comment! I started watching your videos because I love yummy cozy vegan cooking (Your eggplant park recipe is still one of my all time favorites) and also I think we would be friends if we knew each other. For a bit now, I have been on my own gender journey so I think it’s cool that you are finding your truth too :) the binary is not where we belong! Best of luck with the diagnosis process. I hope you eventually feel comfy unmasking bit by bit but I understand its unnerving. Lizzy McAlpine with def help the nerves and soul til then (love her sweet sound!)