My Very First Official Hater

Тәжірибелік нұсқаулар және стиль

My reaction to my very first official youtube hater. Here's how I deal with it. How would you handle it?
Thanks so much for watching, commenting and subscribing. I appreciate the time you take to watch and comment on my videos on my little bitty yt channel...xoxo patti

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  • @lesliemorton7658
    @lesliemorton76584 жыл бұрын

    I'm a 48 year old African American Women and I watch your channel because you're an inspiration, I pray I'm as beautiful and sassy as you are when I'm your age. Jesus even had haters so who are we to think we won't. You keep letting your KZread light shine.💄

  • @IsabellaDemarko
    @IsabellaDemarko9 жыл бұрын

    Hi Patti, I've just recently come across your channel and I just love it :) I am 18 and have always had a fascination with ageing gracefully and older women who like to take care of themselves. I guess you could say I just have a huge respect for older women who never gave up on their looks :) I think it's amazing that you have made a KZread channel despite the fact that it's seen as such a "youngster scene". I only wish more mature women would do the same! From what I've watched you seem like such a genuinely lovely woman and I can't wait to learn more about how you maintain yourself and stay so beautiful :) I know you must get these types if comments a lot but I truly mean everything I say. Everyone seems so afraid of ageing but it's women like you that actually make me look forward to my 70's! Keep doing what you do , you have a true spark of life within you that I adore and think is so attractive in all aspects. Take care and lots of love! -Isabella xXx

  • @kathymacleod4648

    @kathymacleod4648

    6 жыл бұрын

    Isabella Demarko aren't you the sweetest thing may you always be blessed for your kindness and gentle woman's gift

  • @janetmcdonald9340

    @janetmcdonald9340

    3 жыл бұрын

    I cant access your reply Patti, but I agree with this young lady all the way! I am 69.5 and still look young, even though my body has gone to hell in a handbag because of a botched hip replacement at 58. You are just stunning !

  • @janetmcdonald9340

    @janetmcdonald9340

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ditto!!!

  • @vickidorminey8985
    @vickidorminey89859 жыл бұрын

    You are such a class act! Your beautiful.......kind and I'm so happy I found you on you tube!

  • @breabg828

    @breabg828

    3 жыл бұрын

    Vickey Dorminey DITTO!

  • @melindalewis7235
    @melindalewis72357 жыл бұрын

    Patti, I can't imagine anyone hating on you!! I just love you and your channel. I'm 56, soon to be 57, and you're such an inspiration to me. I've always loved makeup and fashion and taking good care of myself. Life has thrown our family some hits the last few years, so self-care wasn't always top on the list. Watching you has been so much fun, and has inspired me to get back to who I am - living well by not only loving on others, but also loving on myself. God bless you for taking the time to do these videos. Please keep them coming.

  • @shepherdLoki
    @shepherdLoki6 жыл бұрын

    When did 'grandma' become an insult, some "people" are so rude. More importantly, I love your eyeshadow, it's so beautiful

  • @gaetanaarnone6158

    @gaetanaarnone6158

    3 жыл бұрын

    There are two people in this world. One is a giver... One is taker... You are fabulous! Give freely of yourself... Old Age is priceless because there is so much to learn from it. So much experience to share. I would love to see & hear more of life lessons from you. Forget the Haters. They take from others to make themselves feel a sense of self value. They are empty, have nothing to offer anyone!

  • @debbiepeacock1270

    @debbiepeacock1270

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think you are totally awesome!! I love your eye shadow would love to see how got such a lovely look! I just saw this as I have not been doing KZread long, but you are about the only beauty channel I watch.

  • @debbiemalina
    @debbiemalina9 жыл бұрын

    Omg!!!! You are too funny!!!... You know what haters hate??? That they can't get under your skin and get a reaction from you !!!! You handled this GREAT !!!... GO GRANNY !!!...😳

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    9 жыл бұрын

    debbie malina LOL !!! xo patti :)

  • @connieharris1307

    @connieharris1307

    3 жыл бұрын

    Your marvelous. Want to look just like you💕

  • @imours9673
    @imours96737 жыл бұрын

    I am 52 years old and I am a grandma. I am so happy about my age, there is no way that I would ever want to go back to being young. I do have a channel here, but I am so small that I have not had "my first hater". However if I do, oh well that is just their opinion. Other peoples opinions matter very little to me. Maybe that is one of the many gifts of being our age. Patti, you are an amazing Woman! Keep up the fabulous job!

  • @MsGoldgirl
    @MsGoldgirl11 жыл бұрын

    If that's what a grandma looks like, I can't wait until someone calls me one! You're gorgeous, funny, and I just subscribed!

  • @asherlewis8896
    @asherlewis88965 жыл бұрын

    This lady is so COOL !! I Love how she said the hater doesn't know how to hate 😂😂 ! It's easy to be beautiful when young. But if you can look good as an older woman, does it get any better than that ?

  • @marycase767
    @marycase7679 жыл бұрын

    Love your channel, your fun videos filled with the joy, and appreciation of life and all it has to offer!! I will be 60 next April 2015 and feel so so blessed to be fortunate enough to be experiencing all this time of life has to offer. My mother passed away at 48 years of age, I was 14 and I often think of the blessing she was in my life but also, I think that I wish she could have experienced grandchildren, the wisdom of age, and the excitement of "reinventing" ourselves as we go. So, I think you're "hater" was indeed not good at it, being "old" is not a dirty word, it is a word which can mean wisdom, grace and opportunity beyond measure. I watch your videos with my morning coffee and you are a gem, gracious, charming and true. Keep up the good work!

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    9 жыл бұрын

    Mary Case Thank you so much Mary. I so agree about your mother...she missed so much! hugs patti

  • @cbisme6414
    @cbisme64146 жыл бұрын

    I've just found and subscribed after watching your video on updos, this is the second I've watched and can say I feel there are no words better than being called grandma, grandmother or in my case Nanna, I'm so very blessed and so are you for your gracious response and inner serenity xx

  • @nancybardon6285
    @nancybardon62854 жыл бұрын

    Patti, you are an inspiration to all of us! Your kind, sweet, beautiful and professional! I am 67 and need your advice and just love you!

  • @paulapoe5514
    @paulapoe55145 ай бұрын

    I am so sorry you had to experience something like this. I hope you will be able to just let it go and know that the person that was a hater has probably done it to many other people because they have been hated on. Please be able to rise above this, you are so much more, and you bring so much happiness to so many with your wonderful videos. Please don’t stop publishing your videos, there are so many people that enjoy them. Again, I am just so sorry for what you’re going through which was caused by somebody who just is abusing social media.

  • @cassandrawilson3783
    @cassandrawilson37835 жыл бұрын

    I am 52 turning 53 this year. I am so happy to have found your channel. I find some of the techniques you use are also helpful to everyone at any age. My Mom is a widow in her late 70s and I have been teaching her some of your tips, and she has got a wonderful, respectful boyfriend and he is amazed they are the same age and she looks 10 to 15 yrs younger than him once she is put together. Ignore the hater and just know we older ladies love you and appreciate all you help and tips. 😇🙏

  • @Marthacraftsandmore
    @Marthacraftsandmore7 жыл бұрын

    Hi Patti, ever since I was a little girl, I have been drawn toward older people. I have always loved listening to their life experience and wisdom. I am 59 years old now and when I turned 53 I became a grandmother. I have a beautiful granddaughter, my only, her name is Alexandra, she calls me babushka! This has been the greatest blessing in my life! It's so sad that there are so many mean spirited people out there, I believe they are just unhappy, unfulfilled and need prayers! Don't mind them, keep on being the graceful, kind and happy woman that you are. Love your videos ❤

  • @pierrettemacgregor8594

    @pierrettemacgregor8594

    5 жыл бұрын

    Everything Martha @I just found your videos the other day and I am hooked. Ive been telling everyone about you. Keep doing what you are doing. Never mind the haters . Not everyone is going to like us.

  • @GrowingOlderWithStyle
    @GrowingOlderWithStyle6 жыл бұрын

    OMG, Patti! I just came across this old video and you gave me such a good laugh. Thank you for that. Here you were with your first hater and it wasn't even a pro. What fun, the way you handled it. I love you, grandma!

  • @judithprettyman
    @judithprettyman11 жыл бұрын

    Just recently found you and love your videos. Those of us over a certain age need all the help we can get! You are a positive voice for us all. Keep bringing us more! I love being called grandma!

  • @charlenekelley7268
    @charlenekelley72685 жыл бұрын

    Patti, I just discovered your videos and FELL IN LOVE with them and with you!!! I am 73, and also will go down fighting! I love your soft, Southern voice, very easy on the ears! Love all of your topics! Keep making as many videos as you possibly can and I will watch and be thankful for them all!!!

  • @janicehammond1335
    @janicehammond13353 жыл бұрын

    Haters usually have jealous spirits. They not only are jealous of your beauty but also jealous of your sweet spirit. So wonderful that you reinforced the positive reaction that I've been working on in my latter years. We can't control actions of others but have all control of our reaction. My confidence had been wrecked in childhood, but I'm conquering and smiling more these days. I just love you so much, and shared with my therapist that you have helped me so much not only with aging beautifully but feeling confident for the first time in my life

  • @hmusick9220
    @hmusick92203 жыл бұрын

    I love how you've put such a positive spin on something so nasty. You're beautiful inside and out. Keep doing what you're doing!

  • @nyanahart8844
    @nyanahart88443 жыл бұрын

    I just found your channel yesterday and I love it. I love your energy and positive attitude toward this hater who is obviously a very miserable person. So I'll be a subscriber for life and besides us grandma's need to stick together.

  • @SusannahPerri
    @SusannahPerri3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Patti, this is 2021, many years after you made this video, but I just had to respond. I have been a subscriber for a few months now and decided to watch your earliest videos and this one just made me smile. Although I have had two KZread channels (one since 2008!) for many years, I only became serious about vlogging over the past couple of years. I always said that when I got my first thumbs-down I will have "arrived," but I have to admit it stung a little bit. But then I watch KZreadrs such as yourself who get a few with each video, (because at this point you have tens of thousands of subscribers) handle it with such grace, style and humor and I remember the big picture. We are here to share, support and entertain and most people receive us with an open heart. You are still a gorgeous lady and I really enjoy watching you. Thanks for the continuing inspiration to keep being youthful and enjoy life as we walk alongside all the young KZreadrs!

  • @victoriagreenroyd3120
    @victoriagreenroyd31203 жыл бұрын

    I’m proud to be a grandma, my 5 grandchildren call me grandma & I love being one! I saw a bumper sticker back when I was in my 20s which stated “ If I had known grandchildren were so much fun I’d have had them first ♥️”…. It’s so true! Children, grandchildren are a blessing, a true gift from God. Thank you Patti for being a proud woman who stands up for aging gracefully and kindness! Love you, Victoria Greenroyd 🌻🙏🏽

  • @terrygill1484
    @terrygill1484 Жыл бұрын

    I'm a 67 year old Latina woman, who absolutely enjoys how you are able to engage with your audience! Keep sharing with us and know that watching an interesting, inoffensive woman is inspiring. Thanks for sharing this in your kind way.

  • @seanmock1135
    @seanmock11355 жыл бұрын

    Please don’t let anyone take your sparkle! You come from a place of love..it’s so obvious in all that you do. Don’t stop doing what you are doing.

  • @MsMurphy143
    @MsMurphy14311 жыл бұрын

    I'm so thrilled to find your channel! I'm 53 and love to see info geared to those of us who aren't 21 anymore! Can't wait to go through all of your videos! Have a blessed Easter!

  • @lauradee5468
    @lauradee54685 жыл бұрын

    Having a hater means you've made it! Congrats and keep up the good work!

  • @magpie06
    @magpie067 жыл бұрын

    One of these days perhaps your hater will reach the "golden years" and realize just how alive and vibrant we can still be at 60+! I'm 60+ and feel great! I just found your channel and plan to watch your videos tonight. Good stuff!

  • @joannequon9971
    @joannequon99712 жыл бұрын

    Patti-I just discovered and subscribed to your channel so I am just now watching your videos. Just wanted to say that age is a gift denied to many. I have lost to many friends pass young, so at 67 years young I truly appreciate the gift of aging. When your hater said something about being old that hater doesn’t realize what a gift we have been given to grow old. Bless you for and your channel.

  • @so_cal_mom
    @so_cal_mom7 жыл бұрын

    OMG hahaha what a rude person! They must have a miserable life. Take that Grandma????? That's actually funny it's so lame . You're great and I love your channel! Love your attitude 😂😂😂😂😂.

  • @rozannaeastland1247
    @rozannaeastland12472 жыл бұрын

    Im old, and proud of being a grandma!! You have really inspired me to have hope that I too can look beautiful. You are very beautiful!! Keep up the good work! You dont realize how you help others like myself. Thank You!!

  • @maryreed2619
    @maryreed26196 жыл бұрын

    This just popped up in my feed and I, for the life of me, cannot see how anyone could hate you..You are just the sweetest, kindest lady. You are gorgeous, inside and out. Have a super weekend Patti! Mary xoxo ⚘

  • @SissitheGerman
    @SissitheGerman6 жыл бұрын

    Patti, somehow KZread recommended this old video to me. What a fun spin around! The hater actually made you a complement! I love how you said that haters are a different breed! I’ve had many haters- usually they hate my accent. Sometimes I feel like hate is connected to being jealous of something...

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    6 жыл бұрын

    Well that's cool that yt recommend this video. Yes I do believe that hate is jealousy...I agree. xoxo p

  • @franceswitham8214
    @franceswitham82145 жыл бұрын

    I love your channel and you. I never knew either of my Grandma's and hope they would have been as kind and loving as you. I'm 64 so we are both in the same place in our lives. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts with me through your videos and keep on keeping on. You are Sunshine on a cloudy day.

  • @nbrenizer
    @nbrenizer5 жыл бұрын

    You are so sweet, so kind, what's not to like about you? You are very genuine and very helpful for women of all ages. I love you, you've made a big difference in my life. Keep it up!

  • @janetleavy7317
    @janetleavy73177 жыл бұрын

    I am still shocked in the work place,..some young people are just unbelievably mean.

  • @carolecoote1926

    @carolecoote1926

    5 жыл бұрын

    The nastiness people I have encountered have not been young. There are a lot of sad people in this world who are so unhappy in their own skins they spew out the poison they feel about themselves.

  • @lovesouthfrance

    @lovesouthfrance

    3 жыл бұрын

    Some parents did not teach them to "respect their elders". I see this a lot also. Big fail in western society these days.

  • @lindabewick5267

    @lindabewick5267

    3 жыл бұрын

    Patti, I'm 56 years old and when my daughter told me I was going be a Grandma So I had to decide what I wanted him to call me. Well I didn't have to think about it, I told my Daughter I will be called Grandma. I guess I should of mentioned I'm divorced from my daughters father, but he is remarried. Then my son in laws Mother 🙄 said way before Michelle even got pregnant..I'm not going to be called Grandma cause I'm just to young for that, I'm Gigi 🤢🤮🤭. Well I sat my Daughter down and said, I Had so much Love for my 2 Grandmother's I don't care if I'm 20, there are 7 children in my family. My Grandmother's were part of each one of us , in their own way. My Mothers mother remarried when I was only 3, my Step Grandfather was like my real Grandad. My father's mother lived 8 hours from us but we went and stayed for weeks at a time, and we all Cherished each of our own memories about my Loving, Caring, The Kindest, 4 Grandparents could ever want. I feel like my mother & father passed that baton to US 7 children like here is your reward. Go have your own families and cherish those babies, then you will know the true meaning of Love when your Grandchildren come ❤. What A Honor, My son in laws Mother is all about me me me. She lives 15 20 mins away from her son an his family, she saw that baby one hour in the entire 2020 year. I've watched him everyday since he was born, he will be starting kindergarten in the fall, My husband treats that special angel like he is his, my daughter too. People are so full of hate for each other with zero respect for themselves, so they can't show respect for anyone else and these younger generations are destroying their future and they don't have a clue. I'm sorry I wrote so much, but I also went and ordered me some Sq headbands and I Love them. I told the girls you sent me . Take care you sweet lady.

  • @bettyg7274
    @bettyg7274 Жыл бұрын

    Priceless Patti - that's what this is. I have watched you for two years and enjoy you as a person, and the helpful makeup tips and product reviews. Having your "own hater" means you have arrived. Look all around now, 188K+ who love you to pieces.

  • @xtraluv4u
    @xtraluv4u11 жыл бұрын

    I found you a couple days ago and just subscribed. I love your attitude and THANK YOU for not letting the hater run you off. I've seen so many ladies who had so much to share be run off youtube by haters. I hate when they win like that.

  • @JessicaTheBeautician
    @JessicaTheBeautician11 жыл бұрын

    I just subscribed! I love old people because they are wise, intelligent, and give the best advice. And I feel like I just found a gem by finding your channel!! Going to watch more of your videos now.

  • @Cvoor
    @Cvoor6 жыл бұрын

    It's sad when people like to put down, criticize, tear someone down because they are older, one day you'll be our age, I'm 59 and absolutely adore you. Your beautiful, sweet, honest, your a class act.

  • @kimberdawn4424
    @kimberdawn44242 жыл бұрын

    9 years later and this popped up in my feed. I can only hope and pray, I am as GORGEOUS as you, in 15-20 years! You keep on being the "ROCKSTAR " that you are!!!! Love ya, KIMBER(Your Austin, Texas Sister in Beauty)🤗😘🥰👄💖👄

  • @deborahdonovan7892
    @deborahdonovan78922 жыл бұрын

    You bless me with your warmth. Anyone who would hate on you is a very insecure and possibly disturbed individual. Thank you for doing what you do!

  • @suetyson1650
    @suetyson16503 жыл бұрын

    This is so bazaar that I just watched you first the first time today. I was feeling rather low and when I started watching you, I started to smile. I sent my sister a note and told her that she should watch you because it would give her good tips on beauty and because you were adorable! That other person who commented negatively to you is nuts!!

  • @evefiamma5818
    @evefiamma581810 жыл бұрын

    Just found your channel, watched a couple of videos and got hooked. What a precious person you must be. And what a classy way to reply to that hater. I just had to subcribe, not because I feel sorry for you but because I feel sorry for me as I am half your age and not even half as joyful and full of life as you are. I'm sure I'll learn a lot from you, thank you for your KZread videos!

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    10 жыл бұрын

    First of all thank you for subscribing...I appreciate you! hugs patti

  • @debschlicksup2973
    @debschlicksup29738 жыл бұрын

    Hi Patti! I'm a relatively new subscriber and I know this video was quite awhile ago, but I just wanted to let you know how much I enjoy your videos! I have learned so much about skin care and anti aging, style for mature women, and more from your channel! I think you're great and just keep on keeping on! Love you! Don't let one or two unhappy people have more power than those who love and appreciate you!

  • @deniseschneider4476
    @deniseschneider44762 жыл бұрын

    Hi there, while watching newer tubes I came across this one. I wish I had found you years ago. I'm now the age you are in this video & love all your wisdom & tips you've shared over the years. As for haters, they have nothing better to do than to troll & make bad comments. They must have very sad lives. Love your channel. Stay well & be safe.

  • @dustyd48
    @dustyd489 жыл бұрын

    I just turned 68 and have been looking for ladies in my age group that know how to use makeup. I love Ms. Tammie's and Emily sites and have found some useful information. I just love your video's and fill like I'm home. I don't know why you would have a hater but the lady should be ashamed. So glad I found you and some of your friends.

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    9 жыл бұрын

    dustyd48 Truly, I think that was the only one so far...and it only bothers us if we let it...

  • @charlie2ism

    @charlie2ism

    5 жыл бұрын

    @dustyd48 I'm about to turn 68 and have recently found the lovely Patti on here and am now an avid follower. I live in a village in the northwest of England (population about 1,000), and there have always been some older women here who've stood out from the crowd, because of all they've done and achieved in their lives and their inherent wisdom. I hold these women in such high esteem, I can't tell you, and I've felt so lucky to have their inspiring presence in my life. I mean, for example, dancing to pop music down in the village hall well into your 70s and 80s is the norm around here, and driving a van full of donated clothing many times to eastern European orphanages right up to age 88 or running marathons, post-cancer, at 60, that sort of thing, is what they get up to. Now, I'm finding even more fabulous women, on KZread, who are a little bit older than me and who are showing me how to live! That is, they've broken stereotypes, something I admire! One of my other favourites, way up on my list with Patti, is a lovely woman called Margaret Manning. Do check out her Sixtyandme page on here and on Facebook. Loads of good discussion on there, including makeup and health.

  • @yolandacaldera7653

    @yolandacaldera7653

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am a gramma and a great gramma and it is the best thing that could happen in our lives. I feel so blessed that my oldest great-granddaughter is 15 and still loves to chat and text with me!!! My other great grands are alot of fun also!

  • @becky8851
    @becky88514 жыл бұрын

    How savvily you handled that Patti. That sophistication takes years to perfect! Very clever x

  • @kathymacleod4648
    @kathymacleod46486 жыл бұрын

    I think you are absolutely drop dead gorgeous! I just turned 61 and you have given me such inspiration to stop thinking I am now to old to try and get back what nature and my disabilities has stolen from me. I wish I were a grandmother too my step daughter chose against children, and my son is no longer in a relationship, here's to hopes and wishes may the good ones come to you!!!!

  • @patriciahollis9759
    @patriciahollis97592 жыл бұрын

    You are AMAZING!!! I'm always so inspired by you. Some people are so miserable all they can do is TRY to make everyone else feel the same. They should be pitied. You're beautiful inside and out. Wish we were neighbors 😊

  • @naziaibrahim77
    @naziaibrahim7710 жыл бұрын

    I think your an absolute inspiration, I'm actually sitting down watching your KZread videos, and I absolutely love them. I've just qualified as a therapist at the age of 35 and was studying with young girls age 16 and above, did not bother me as I am comfortable in what god gave me. And one way is to maintain that and my god I've never been so glued to KZread. You deserve so much goodness for the time and effort you are putting in to these videos. You are a beautiful lady and you have inspired me may god bless you Keep up with the good work And as for the haters jealousy gets you no where and you are there doing it loving it and most of the genuine subscribers love you Xxxxx Kind regards Naziya

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    10 жыл бұрын

    How sweet are you Naziya! peace...patti

  • @cherylsmith639
    @cherylsmith6395 жыл бұрын

    Your a true inspiration to those of us who want to keep looking as well as we can as we grow old gracefully.....bless you....

  • @kbobm40
    @kbobm408 жыл бұрын

    I love your videos and could watch you all day and do and have almost watched me all. I love Wayne Goss and hot and flashy too, and many of the younger ones but you really inspire me.

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Kathy Midriff Thank you Kathy...xo p

  • @2lmdi
    @2lmdi8 жыл бұрын

    I've been subscribed and enjoying you and your videos for some time now but just came across this. My, my, what to say? Well, I'm 71 and you're such an inspiration to me. That's why I was watching tonight. Getting ready to buy a wig in a color other than my gray... watching you was just that extra little push I needed. Thank you. Keep up your wonderful videos and kudos... you handled your self and this novice hater very well. ;-)

  • @kathlynnmathis2919
    @kathlynnmathis29197 жыл бұрын

    Hi, I just recently found you and started watching. The video of "My very first official hater" was great. Being called a Grandma is the best thing ever and I love you attitude and what is wrong with age? Nothing!!! It makes us more seasoned to handle all the living that goes on around us. You keep doing what you are doing and have a great day!!!!

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    7 жыл бұрын

    Hi Kathleen....I'm so glad you found me. Thank you for wanting to spend a few minutes with me! I agree with your comments about being a grandma because as of this past November I am one!!!! xoxo patti

  • @bmwanlass
    @bmwanlass2 жыл бұрын

    I love your channel! I found you because I'm older, thought 10 years younger than you. I'd love to look as great as you do when I'm your age!! So, I started following your channel hoping to learn how you do it! Your positivity (and that Arkansas accent) brings me a lot of joy! I hope you live to be 110 and still look just as young!

  • @lindah.5647
    @lindah.56477 жыл бұрын

    I just always go back to one of The Four Agreements....take nothing personal. It speaks volumes about the hater, not you my dear! xo

  • @dolly1740
    @dolly174011 жыл бұрын

    Patti you are such a sweetie! I watch you because of your genuine warmth and hospitality. I feel like I'm having coffee with a dear friend when I'm watching you. We are many miles away I'm in Washington, DC, but it feels like were next door to each other! Love you xoxo

  • @conniefeltman3189
    @conniefeltman31894 жыл бұрын

    I just subscribed .... you are an amazing woman! I am playing catch-up and when I saw you saying...I HAVE MY FIRST HATER....had to go see it! You are so graceful always and dealing with her you took the high road! I am a granny...MiMi and Gams ...nine! And a great - MiMi...Gams! Six! So...HOORAY FOR US! 👏

  • @cathyofsharick3211
    @cathyofsharick32119 жыл бұрын

    I WILL BE 68 IN A FEW WEEKS, AND YOUR ARE AN INSPIRATION TO ME! THANK YOU!

  • @lynnroots7556
    @lynnroots75563 жыл бұрын

    May 20th 2021. I only recently came upon you Patty. You are 100% delightful 💖💖💖

  • @angieangst8581
    @angieangst85819 жыл бұрын

    Hi Pattie. I have been watching your channel for ages now, and felt bad since I had never subscribed (sorted today!). You are one of my fave youtube vloggers simply because you are so natural. You are so inspiring for women choosing NOT to use plastic surgery. (Not that I condemn that, but ugh! so expensive, so time wasting) and you still look GORGEOUS. I love you to bits and I hope you keep on inspiring mature women to look stunning. Haters are a compliment,it means you are being noticed. Or something!?

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    9 жыл бұрын

    Angie Angst Well thank you Angie...officially, welcome to my channel....xoxo patti )

  • @mhea9601
    @mhea960110 жыл бұрын

    Haters will be haters. You are gorgeous, intelligent and gracious- small people will hate on that. I've been on youtube for over 10 years and you are THEE first person I have found interesting enough to subscribe to. Do your thing Sis- you do it well.

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    10 жыл бұрын

    Hi Marie...Thank you so much. I know that there are so many wonderful people doing videos here on youtube and I appreciate you so much for choosing to spend a few minutes with me from time to time and to actually subscribe and comment. Love ya...patti :)

  • @ginger062964
    @ginger06296411 жыл бұрын

    Your attitude about this is just another reason why I enjoy watching you so much. I'm a Grandma...and proud of it! I can't wait to absorb the wisdom you so generously share with us. You are a awesome role model!

  • @lindashuler2587
    @lindashuler258715 күн бұрын

    I am a seventy five year old widow. I have been alone for the past eight years and was starting to feel my life is over. You have inspired me to adjust my stinking thinking and enjoy life again! I love your channel because you are a beautiful lady and inspire women to look their best and keep a smile in their heart!❤️

  • @marydorisscicluna4256
    @marydorisscicluna42567 жыл бұрын

    i love you Patti.i always watch you every night before i sleep .ypur voice is like sedative to me , keeps me calm .keep the good work. God bless you always.hugs.

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    7 жыл бұрын

    Oh my gosh Mary...how sweet!!!!! xoxo p

  • @darladugan1835
    @darladugan18355 жыл бұрын

    Well,I am a grandmother and a great-grandmother and proud of it.I am 72 and trying my hardest to look as good as I can for my age.I think the older I get sometimes I feel a little invisible.So I am glad that you have your own channel to help us older ladies out.I'm sure you will not let the hater get the better of you.

  • @cinsu8208
    @cinsu82089 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely LOVE this video and your attitude. I'm almost your age (67) and this is the best time of my life! I feel so sorry for anyone who doesn't like old people. One day they won't like themselves! Your hater has a lot to learn.

  • @timcharles4135
    @timcharles41357 жыл бұрын

    I love your channel Patti, I've watched and enjoyed several of your vids and they are great! I'm subscribing. Blessings!

  • @Alypally1
    @Alypally12 жыл бұрын

    Hi Patti, I just discovered you this week. I love your outlook, your makeup tips and just listening to you chat away. You are only as old as you feel. I'm 57 this year and was feeling a little jaded, what with lockdown and all but I have so enjoyed your channel. Keep it up and see you soon. xxx 🥰

  • @bittersweetjess
    @bittersweetjess7 жыл бұрын

    Came here for the hater story and can't stop admiring your eyeshadow look. xo

  • @leaf3986
    @leaf39864 жыл бұрын

    Patti,I listened to the entire video and thanks for sharing this. I ❤️❤️❤️ your videos!

  • @raelynncase3284
    @raelynncase32846 жыл бұрын

    I’m new to your channel & I adore you! You’re such a beautiful lady inside & out. As far as your “hater” I think when people are nasty for no reason they’re just miserable people & they don’t even like themselves. They feel so ugly & miserable inside that they usually try to hurt the people they’re jealous of to make themselves feel better. It’s actually sad if someone feels that miserable & when I come across someone like that I try my best to be so kind to them because what they really need is Love or kindness shown to them. They most likely have had a hard life or a loss & when they see that we will be kind to them no matter how hateful they want to be something eventually changes in them. As if their hard hurt heart starts to soften because of our kindness towards them & they learn how to be kind & love themselves. I hope you have a blessed day Patti, you’re such a wonderful person.

  • @sharmanburch4942
    @sharmanburch49423 жыл бұрын

    You're gorgeous!!! Thanks for all the hair and makeup pointers. I love it!❤

  • @kathypiersee1084
    @kathypiersee10845 жыл бұрын

    All i can say is bless their heart. I love watching you. Frankly, being a grandma, whether blood or marriage, is an honor. You keep up the good work. 😚😚

  • @terrilunsford3594
    @terrilunsford35944 жыл бұрын

    I know this was years ago, but I love you and have learned so much kindness from you. Haters are viscous individuals. Nothing can please a hater because they never learned how to love themselves. I think you are a beautiful, magnificent woman! Please never change your style or personality for no one. ❤️❤️

  • @carolyoung3827
    @carolyoung38272 ай бұрын

    I loved reading this funny story! It made my heart smile! But I am struggling with them thinking that being a Grandma is a bad thing! We are actually the happiest people out there!

  • @kirstenson1
    @kirstenson111 жыл бұрын

    Well said! When I first started watching beauty videos on KZread about a year ago, I wanted to find women more my age (I'm in my 40's). I'm sure you offer great advice that many women will find helpful. I'm subscribing so I can find out some of your secrets!

  • @kimxo9
    @kimxo99 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry you had to deal with your hater. People that hate, don't hate you, they hate themselves. I bet the "hater" was jealous of you & just bored. You gotta feel bad for that person. Never let them get you down! You're beautiful inside & out. Xoxo, Kim

  • @karenlyn6134
    @karenlyn61345 жыл бұрын

    Wow, I just love all your videos. I know the hater was wrong lol. I watch you bc you are a sweet person & I love makeup & you have the best tips of any video I've seen. I know this is an older video but if you happen to see my comment, pls keep keepin on bc you're doing great! You are beautiful inside & out & love watching you & hearing your stories & all your makeup advice. Many blessings!

  • @rosemarysigur2007
    @rosemarysigur20073 жыл бұрын

    I love your hair like that😊. As for that hater, so many people die young, it is a God given blessing to live long enough to be old. I will be 71 this year, and have 3 grandchildren and 2 great grandchildren. I never knew either of my grandmothers much less any great grandparents. They are such a light in my husband’s and my life. I only hope one day to have more. I would say “many more” but i’ve already been told to forget that!😄. Keep doing those videos. I do so enjoy them.

  • @sharontrimbo8103
    @sharontrimbo810310 жыл бұрын

    Just found your channel and can I just say that you are adorable! Keep on laughing at those haters. I'm turning 50 in a couple of months and have been feeling a little 'blue' about it but you have given me a much needed 'kick in the pants' and just to get over it already! Rock on rxstrmom!

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    10 жыл бұрын

    Oh Sharon...you are still a baby ! And I bet a "babe" for sure !! Remember this aging thing is all in our heads. We can continue to be exactly who we want to be...don't forget it...xo patti :)

  • @kathleengotsch4819
    @kathleengotsch481911 жыл бұрын

    I just found your channel and I am enjoying it. God Bless you and I will keep watching!

  • @marilu1277
    @marilu12773 жыл бұрын

    Patti, like my grandson would say, “You’re the best!” I love your videos.

  • @dianegaines565
    @dianegaines5656 жыл бұрын

    Patti I love that all your videos are so positive. We need more people in the world like you. My thoughts and prayers are with Linda.

  • @charliebox8980
    @charliebox89804 жыл бұрын

    Love your channel...this reminded me of middle school....someone wrote my my name on the bathroom stall..."I HATE..." ...I was impressed that they hated me enough to do that!😄

  • @debi623
    @debi6234 жыл бұрын

    I loved how you handled that, Thats was great, your a very kind hearted person,I’m not a grandmother either,but I have three wonderful fur babies.When I become attached to a best friends child it makes me a grandma. God Bless

  • @annmeeks9273
    @annmeeks92733 жыл бұрын

    I love you! I’m old, still working at 72 and when I need a boost came and visit you❤️❤️

  • @Pootzy
    @Pootzy9 жыл бұрын

    My comment is late bc I just found your channel and absolutely love it! You are a beautiful classy lady! Someone was probably jealous of you!

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    9 жыл бұрын

    Susan Pile First of all Susan, I'm so glad you found me and that you want to spend a few minutes with me...thank you! I don't even give the haters a second thought...no one should. hugs patti :)

  • @karendinning5144
    @karendinning51445 жыл бұрын

    Hey Patti! I’ve been one of your subscribers for a long time but I just saw this video. I laughed so hard my stomach hurts!! I love you!! You’re a beautiful lady inside and out and so funny at times! I’ve learned a lot from your channel. I love your “calmness” and sense of inner happiness and words of advice that make me feel so positive! I’m a Southern Belle and will turn 60 in January. I think I look better with age - I know that sounds weird but I do! About that hater - the only reason I can think of as to why a “person” (?) would write something bad about another person is because they want to feel better about themselves by dragging someone else down. They are narcissists. That hater needs to learn how to hate better though. (I agree with you!) I absolutely LOVED this video and I absolutely LOVE you!!! Stay as beautiful and funny and most of all as inspiring about life and happiness as you are now!!! Congratulations for getting your first “hater”!!! LOL!!!

  • @nelsutoob
    @nelsutoob9 жыл бұрын

    EXCELLENT!!!!! THIS WAS THE BEST REPLY TO HATERS!!!! JOB WELL DONE! I subscribed to your channel for these reason... 1- you look way younger than me (56) and I can use all the tips to look as young as you. 2- you talk to us you tubers as if we were friends forever...love that! 3- you take your time to explain things. 4- you are just stunning to look at....even my hubby would agree. 5- you are very open and welcoming...you draw us in...so sweet! 6- love , love, love your southern accent. 7- you are truly one of Gods children and that does show....you keep shining Patti. Hugs and Kisses... 💛💛💛

  • @oliviabeaver1640
    @oliviabeaver16405 жыл бұрын

    OMG I am sorry .Pati . I found so many haters that I closed down Facebook Twitter. I love your channel and have learned a lot from you.

  • @SREGAN7
    @SREGAN79 жыл бұрын

    YOU'RE THE OLDEST AND YOUNGEST LOOKING BEAUTY I'VE SEEN THUS FAR ON KZread! I'M IN MY 64TH YEAR AND I'LL ALWAYS BE LOOKING TO YOU AND OTHER WINNERS LIKE YOU FOR ADVISE. TREAT HER AS AIR.....SHE'S AS NOTHING. SHE CERTAINLY ISN'T GOING TO HAVE ANY NEGATIVE IMPACT ON YOU.....YOU'RE TOO GRACIOUS AND KIND FOR THAT. THE DARK IN SOME ONLY MAKES THE LIGHT IN OTHERS SHINE BRIGHTER.

  • @jussayin6749
    @jussayin674910 жыл бұрын

    I just found you tonight and after one video I immediately subscribed!! I am 56 and would give anything to look as young and beautiful as you. Being born and raised and still residing in Alabama, I also love finding a fellow southern bell. LOL!!! You seem to be as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside. Will definitely be catching up on all your vids. I am trying so hard right now to battle low self esteem issues and the way you embrace your age and your life is so uplifting to me. Thank you for sharing yourself with us. GOD bless.

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    10 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much..you don't know how much I appreciate you subscribing to me. I'm so glad you found me !! Aging is a funny thing..my mother once told me that it's better than the alternative! I just think we need to get up each day and strive to be the best we can be and I've learned, that for me, that when I just do a little bit to take care of my appearance I feel so much better. It's sort of like wearing pretty underwear - you may be the only person who knows it but it just makes you feel good. 56 is still young, trust me. I think you are going to start to see some wild and crazy changes not only in your body but in your mind and in your spirit. That's what's happened to me and my girlfriends. We are actually getting better with age because we truly like where we are in our hearts and souls. We can laugh and cry at the saggy skin on our arms and necks and faces. And wonder where in the world that saggy skin came from just above our knees. We just appreciate that we are reasonably healthy. I've always said that I'll never be the prettiest, I'll never be the ugliest, the richest or the poorest, the smartest or the-well you know. I just had to figure out how to be happy and the rest has fallen into place. So, hang in there and know that you have lots of support here on youtube..hugs patti :-)

  • @Mjapeland
    @Mjapeland9 жыл бұрын

    I realize my comment is a bit late as I only just found you about a week ago, but I love you and am quite jealous that you look younger than me and I am 54! Keep doing what you're doing....haters gonna hate, as they say. You just keep being you! XO

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    9 жыл бұрын

    Melissa Apeland :)

  • @madelinenowitzke408
    @madelinenowitzke4082 жыл бұрын

    I love your videos. You definitely were on point. Gotta feel sorry for anyone who has to go out of their way to be negative. Please keep your videos coming.

  • @mrs.marylamb6964
    @mrs.marylamb69646 жыл бұрын

    You are so beautiful inside and out. Please don't let some unfortunate soul try to tell you any different. i love watching your videos and you are so honest with us . Have a blessed 2018 ~Mary ~ Tx.

  • @chanelandshelties1001
    @chanelandshelties100110 жыл бұрын

    I "stumbled" on your channel today and I just adore you!! You are so adorable and funny! I look forward to watching more videos! Thank you :)

  • @rxstrmom

    @rxstrmom

    10 жыл бұрын

    ChanelandShelties WOW...I'm so glad you found me and I truly appreciate that you would want to spend a few minutes with me...thank you! xo patti

  • @christinekobzeff
    @christinekobzeff11 жыл бұрын

    Michael likes your lipstick!! Totally random I know, he was just watching over my shoulder and told me to tell you haha. I love it too! Anyway, I had actually just stopped by to make sure I was subscribed to you and yes I sure am, so great! You are so funny in this video, I love your sense of humor. I need to catch up on more of your videos! Huge hugs!! xoxo Christine

  • @cjlame1
    @cjlame111 жыл бұрын

    Patti you are an inspiration!!! Haters are just people miserable with themselves. They want everyone else to feel like they do. I love watching you and so glad that I am your subbie.

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