Whoever reading this, I pray that whatever you’re going through gets better and whatever you’re struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine I wish you the best of what life has to offer.💯

@phildunphy894

14 күн бұрын

Well I needed that thank you❤

@aishatumusa420

14 күн бұрын

Ameen and thank you

@jeanniejones8777

14 күн бұрын

God bless you for your encouragement 💯

@julieouko6729

14 күн бұрын

Thank you

@nancyulloa7119

14 күн бұрын

Thank you

Quintius all the way!! You definitely will find your Queen one day in Jesus name!!! 💞🙏

Yeah Quintius!!! “If they don’t have❤️ for God, they don’t have❤️ for Me!”

@BlaqQtee

14 күн бұрын

Exactly...

@neeshawndrafairley57

14 күн бұрын

I couldn't believe she didn't pick him

@YourRoyalHighness88

14 күн бұрын

What if the guy you chose will be hitting on your twin sister. Just saying.😅

@dijanaewilliams2950

14 күн бұрын

I pick him where is he at lol

@ladylin3026

14 күн бұрын

​​@@neeshawndrafairley57she was pretty foolish not to pick him.. But I knew she would pick #1 bc it was obvious she was lusting. He didn't seem interested in her... Only trying to "win"... But only a woman of God would really be interested in a man of God. So she saved Quintius from his time being wasted.

"Don't confuse the things you want with the things you need. You may find yourself empty handed" Life Quotes.

Q seemed like the better choice to me. God has to be ur foundation. Jay literally said he doesn’t have time. He’s seems too busy to date.

@melliemel32

10 күн бұрын

She just went for him bc he was the finest. I’m not saying he’s not a good guy, but I don’t think that drove her decision.

@princeetu8831

9 күн бұрын

saw it coming a mile away.

@ogunsoladare2613

7 күн бұрын

because when the storm of life comes, God would be their anchor. But most so called independent self-made women think less of God with pride. Because they believe if it doesn't work out, i would replace him because i am self-made and i do not need God to think for me on what to do. i have the capacity to figure it out myself.

I see she doesn’t know how to choose a husband material. The least to ever pick was Jay. Jay will break her heart but Stacie will make a good husband. You choose a husband from your spirit not with the physical eyes. When choosing a husband, you choose a man who will be good and kind to you. A man who sees himself privileged to have you not a man who possesses pride and will see you as an option or just a woman who wish to be around him.

@TriggaTreDay

Күн бұрын

😂 Stacy has two kids. How do you think those kids got here? It most likely wasn’t through him being responsible and getting married first. Doesn’t scream husband material to me. Plus my grandmother always told me you better not settle for a man that has kids when you don’t have any yourself. People with kids should be dating each other.

@tameikalexis

Күн бұрын

Literally this! Minus Stacy, I would’ve went with Q

@HolySpiritInspired

Күн бұрын

@@TriggaTreDay I know that’s true but people learn and grow . You could see humility all over that young man . Next option would have been Q

@SophisticatedTeacher

21 сағат бұрын

THIS!

“Well, you wanted kids!” 😂

@kaijordan6469

14 күн бұрын

So true.

@iremiawolumate6735

14 күн бұрын

Bam! 😂

@bertaseyeview9422

12 күн бұрын

Of her own. Without the babymomma drama. SMH

@amarachiapugo9332

10 күн бұрын

Well.... Not his kids, I knew she wasn't cut out for that

@janetwilliams5623

4 күн бұрын

LMAO😂

If someone don't have that relationship with God they just don't know how to love me❤❤❤

Some men are intimidated by their confidence. They're beautiful young ladies. If you stop looking love will find you. ❤

@concernedcitizen4824

14 күн бұрын

Why do you think the men are intimidated? Why can’t it be they just aren’t interested maybe based on her demeanor?

@name9601

14 күн бұрын

@@concernedcitizen4824 this what tell themselves when no one approaches.

@keithwisdom1663

12 күн бұрын

Intimidated 😊by rejection😊

@eleanorthompson425

12 күн бұрын

​@@concernedcitizen4824ñ

@7RB373

9 күн бұрын

that's an old wives tale women tell themselves to explain why the men aren't interested.

Simply put the sister is way more relaxed and approachable at first glance (body language and smile) Hence why guys want to be with her

@user-zx5xw4yw2e

10 күн бұрын

You meant not approachable??

@ifynevo

10 күн бұрын

@@user-zx5xw4yw2etypos edited

@Peppermentality

7 күн бұрын

I think he is meaning the lady's sister is more approachable. I definitely feel he is right, as l was thinking the same thing. The sister seems calm and non-judgemental.

@meme-hz1mq

4 күн бұрын

There are men named Ifunanya?

@ifynevo

4 күн бұрын

@@meme-hz1mqyes

She is dealing with the date meeting like a Business meeting ....

@amarachiapugo9332

10 күн бұрын

Literally

@SophisticatedTeacher

21 сағат бұрын

So what! Looking through a rose colored lens is why women get taken advantage of!

The best way to get chosen is to let go of desperation and have open and warm energy. People will naturally gravitate towards you. Your body language should be relaxed and your words should be clear and gentle. Don' be afraid of how others see your or fear rejection!

yea...the guy with the 2 kids and the thinking about the future in your spare time guy cancelled themselves.

she's right on the "having a family" part. what good is to waste your time on someone who just wants to play the field? she's right, ask the man you're dating about his stance on building a family. dating is not for fun, fun is a happy byproduct of that, dating is for building families.

I had chosen Jay for myself, but Stacey already saw him🥰

@offendedcitizen4075

4 күн бұрын

😅

I would've picked Jay too. Man is Fiiiiiiiiiine hot damn wow.

Quintus was really cool tho!

@Nyakoshow

8 күн бұрын

❤

@charmangelz777

6 күн бұрын

I would have pick Quintus

@Nyakoshow

6 күн бұрын

Hello

I think she made the right choice for her. She chose a guy that's as confident as she is and seems to be on the same wavelength intellectually and career wise. However things works out is up to them.

Is Quinton still single Germany is calling loud 😂😂

@LaminFatty-ly7ng

13 күн бұрын

Hello beautiful

They have no training on how to love me If they don't know how to love God first

People who think they don't look alike👇👇👇

@tosinmathew5168

14 күн бұрын

They do not 😂

@DJ_Ndiks

10 күн бұрын

They do, if you think otherwise there's something wrong with your eyes.👀

@Melissathebrand

10 күн бұрын

@@DJ_Ndiks you can give your opinions without sounding like as if you're excessively stupid than a bag(you might be though). The difference in body size alone is enough to differentiate them let alone the facial features. If you feel they are, FINE!!!!! don't come here and reply like as if you're talking to your sisters.

@ratilesinethemba3214

10 күн бұрын

It's make-up bby

Quinton is extremely fortunate to not get chosen by the twin. God would never be in that relationship.

@Noix009

14 күн бұрын

I need him in my life lol

@carolcole570

14 күн бұрын

@@Noix009 Don’t ALL Christian women ! Very few and far between these days. I KNEW the second he mentioned faith that he would not get a glance from that twin. I was just now watching a comedy video by Steve. I had heard he was a Christian, but he let go with an F word and I immediately had to rethink THAT.

@Noix009

14 күн бұрын

@carolcole570 one of the reasons I'm still single is because I'm not willing to compromise my faith. Sincerely I wish that in no distant time I would be found by a man of great value and a lover of God. What a lot of women don't understand is that a man that puts God first is a secure man. He would lead , nuture and build.

@carolcole570

14 күн бұрын

@@Noix009 You are Spot On ! And folks don’t realize that a marriage is not a contract. It is a covenant. I ask God to send you your own man from His choosing, who will love, cherish, and devote his whole life to God, you, and any children He wants you to have. That he be the leader yet at the same time will walk beside you, taking anything you say to heart as you walk the path together. That you will learn to pray together, praise together, and that each of you will encourage eachother until the Trumpet blows for y’all to come Home. God Bless you and keep you in the palm of His Mighty Hand.

@Noix009

14 күн бұрын

@carolcole570 this is so heartwarming and beautiful. Amen to your prayers You are so precise. Your prayer is my exact desire. Thank you so much for this I truly appreciate you.

What's crazy is, for some reason id choose black dress over the other twin

@kornaxon3522

13 күн бұрын

Warmth

@amarachiapugo9332

10 күн бұрын

Period!

@princeetu8831

9 күн бұрын

she's prettier and warmer.

@tokunbohodubanjo5301

9 күн бұрын

She has a nicer smile. Easy to see why and how the twin in black might do better on the dating market.

Stephanie is definitely the warmer one, her energy is very attractive

That was my first pick for her too.

I would've picked Quintius

I belief that for every Eve there is an Adam and for every Adam there is an Eve. Yours will come to you just keep watching and praying God will lead yours to you because the Bible says that every good and perfect thing is from God🙏🌷❤️👍🌸💕✌️😆👋

@DJ_Ndiks

10 күн бұрын

Amen sister 🙏🏾

Quintius would've been my #1 pick for mentioning God-fearing and wanting to be on the same page spiritually ❤ If someone don't have that relationship with God they don't know how to love me!!! Let me get that on a t shirt!!!! All 3 seemed really amazing though. Wish them all the best ❤

@ms.t3039

8 күн бұрын

Was he the one with kids? I’m wondering if she didn’t want to automatically be a stepmom.

@jayjordan9371

7 күн бұрын

Thoughtful response 🙂

@ShamiaIrving

7 күн бұрын

​@ms.t3039 Stacey was the one with the child. Quintius didn't mention a child...he was the bald one on the far left with the country accent 😂❤❤

Good to be here

Congratulations Jay

One of her issues is the billboard sign of “I’m successful and I’m professional.” That does not need to be banner display. Who is she outside of the success and professional? Hobbies, activities, free time and alone. What are her values, principles, morals, inspiration and admiration. Listen not for self when men talk and you will hear their desire. Don’t just focus on finances alone and physical but hear their heart. All three men value family-support, they draw strength and love from it. They are all ambitious and continuing to grow and become. Balance is what they require and a mutual person of time management, patience and understanding. If she require a lot of “it’s about me attention”, none of those are her guys.

@amarachiapugo9332

10 күн бұрын

You're so thoughtful

Quintius is the best for me. no question

@Nyakoshow

8 күн бұрын

❤

Stop looking so hard and it will come❤

Goodmorning from the UK 🇬🇧

Of course JAY 💰💵😂

I will not pick jay he look like he cant control his emotional and he talking about the longest he been with someone is two year i will not trust a man like that

Stacey and Stacey???? I doubt she will choose someone with the same name as she has..

@user-sl4cd2sz5l

14 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

@name9601

14 күн бұрын

no doubt kids named stacey too.

@sattasana7753

10 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@virgilmccray7421

10 күн бұрын

I didn’t even think about that one!!😂 makes sense

@WorldNews-cm2kz

10 күн бұрын

Facts!

Loves this

Imo she picked the wrong one. Quintus was the right choice. Oh well, God will give him a woman

So what's the update on them???

Keep going Steve ❤

Steve, these were great picks, wow!

I chose Q😢

@Noix009

14 күн бұрын

I'm choosing him for me🥲🥲

@A1glenn838

14 күн бұрын

Me too!

These men are awesome!!!

Yeah I thought Jay was what she wanted but my only fear is, dude already sounds so independent and busy, don't know how she'll fit in

@charmangelz777

6 күн бұрын

that's is correct that why I would have pick Q

@kessiofkerah

6 күн бұрын

Q was not on the same level with her though. Didn't sound or look confident and in my opinion was just spewing the faith and godfearing talk and it's funny to see a lot of women falling for it. She chose the guy who's on the same wavelength as her intellectually and confidence wise, however that works out is left to them ​@@charmangelz777

She heard "former nfl" and nothing else

Jay is my guy!... I'd think like him and live my life like he does.❤👍

Steve is so funny!😂

I hope in the next year they’re on the deer future wifey podcast engaged. Eeeeee!

If you’re in your upper 30’s or early 40’s and your longest relationship is 2 years then something is wrong with you. I would have asked a follow up question to that one. Lady, Jay will break your heart faster than you can log into your email.

@DJ_Ndiks

10 күн бұрын

That's what I thought as well 2yrs is very short.

@judithobatusa

8 күн бұрын

My thoughts exactly

@meilina3475

7 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂

They don’t look alike.

They look alike I already see the difference which will intimidate a man! Good luck sis, just be you ❤️

Where Q at, he still single???

This is interesting my kind of woman 😊

Some persons aren't interested in God and only remember him when they are in difficulties. Hence the reason she didn't chose Q because he had let it be known from the beginning that God is a big part of his life.

that is a checklist 😅

I would have picked the guy with kids who plays a saxophone in his spare time. The weiter guy is too professional, the thinker is just a thinker.

I would have pick Quintus

They are beautiful twins

Quinton Ugandan lady is right here waiting for you. Gospel artist, single Mum, and business woman ❤

Believe me her and Jay won't last long his longest relationship was 2 years in his 20s and he's on his 30s now nahhhhhhh he's a womanizer

All she wanted was tall, dark and handsome; choosing only what your eyes see and not what your ears hear will leave you disappointed. Discernment ladies.

Anyone else dubb them as the stacys when they stay the mans name was stacy😅

Whose 30 this year and single like my comment we hv a meeting

@cherieecoco

9 күн бұрын

Where’s the meeting holding at hun? 😂

Those are very basic.

Hey Steve, can I get to know Quintius

Handsome man,cute couple

So you pick the guy with the longest relationship being 2 years? Clearly she only went for looks.

They have to be attracted to each other.

Q all the way

So, there are over a 165 million men in the US alone, so why choose from a pool of 3?

I can relate to this am always single while my twin sister is always with boyfriend going for date

Damn i picked jay too,there was noway stacey could pick stacey

I think is Jay

Steve should have told this twin lady that, as successful and sexy as she is as an adult woman, I bet sure that when her own mother met her father more than twenty odd years ago, they NEVER had a Check List .... And, look how successful and sexy these young ladies have become .... Essentially, life is not a TEXT BOOK ....

Jay was the potential candidate at the first sight,look at how Stacey has watched him when he was speaking.

Steve please can you get Gayle King on the show she’s looking for a life partner 🥰

Jay Barnett when was this first aired?

#3!!!

If I was a man. I'd still choose her sister

2 beautiful woman

I understand why people prefer her twin sister. Her sister exudes confidence. Stacey has that nose flaring thing Gabby Union has and her video is kind of sharpe. Hopefully she fine the one & lover herself

I think she should’ve went with Q. I remember seeing Jay on the Dear Future Wifey Podcast. And if I’m not mistaken he’s still a Bachelor.

How old is this? I believe Jay just graduated with his PhD.

Wow… She passed up Q for Jay!?! 😮

Boss chick alert!!

Jay where can we find your books?

Jay was a bad choice he said he is look for someone to help walk HIS purpose out in life. She picked what she wanted and not what she needed. Stacey would have been a better choice because he was clearly emotionally available or her. Jay definitely was not

@mzroz410

3 күн бұрын

…I also think she def made the wrong choice..playa vibes!

@The-Oneness11

11 сағат бұрын

​​@@mzroz410I got the feeling that he was in touch with his emotions but I did get player vibes too.

I think the third guy is the one😊

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can't stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I've tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I'm frustrated, and i don't see my life with anyone else. I've done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can't. I don't know why I'm saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

@JoshuaAltom

13 күн бұрын

have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

@MarcusJ.Hastings

13 күн бұрын

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

@JoshuaAltom

13 күн бұрын

Her name is queen stella laveaux, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

@MarcusJ.Hastings

13 күн бұрын

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

@zaiokari1698

12 күн бұрын

​@MarcusJ.Hastings you don't want to do witchcraft to bring someone back who doenst love you

I need a lady. Like Stacy to marry

This is exactly what Kevin Samuel's was trying to say to the ladies. Men don't care about your success. U less he wants your money😂

@The-Oneness11

11 сағат бұрын

I would hope that they don't care but sadly it seems like a lot of them do. They don't seem to care to provide anymore.

Jat

Jees, Steve Harvey look like your father

She turned me off in the first 4 minutes

Approach the men first 😊

She quickly got on my nerves 🙄

@mzroz410

3 күн бұрын

😂

Hi Steve Sarah from Ghana 🇬🇭. I am still single and want to be in a relationship. Please help me

@concernedcitizen4824

14 күн бұрын

Are you in the states?

@saraharmah8955

13 күн бұрын

Please, no Still in Ghana 🇬🇭

@Leenalast90

9 күн бұрын

You are so desperate

What the all fellas IG ,I'm trying to see something!!! 😊❤😂

@Nyakoshow

8 күн бұрын

❤

Stacy it was probably the bad make up that scared men away but whoever did it for the show it looks great! 👍🏽 I’m not trying to be mean!

@amarachiapugo9332

10 күн бұрын

Same thing I thought. Her sister looked more beautiful and they didn't look identical to me