I am a CIS-gendered man in my 50s. I am single and never been married and am not dating anyone. And I'm doing fine. Society wants to pair-bond us all and make single people feel incomplete and inadequate for being alone. But you can live a full life alone. I'm doing it. I don't look for love anymore. I find happiness in little things. At the end of the day I think inner-peace is better than happiness, and name me one couple that ever enjoys inner-peace...

I feel like we’ve had the same experiences in regards to dating. My 1st told me I was only for practice and I’m not a real woman 🙄 another drove from Michigan to “spend time” with me and left as soon as he slept with me, going back to his wife who he said he was separated from 🤦🏻‍♀️, etc. it’s a mess and there are other ones too. I feel less sad about those knowing I’m not alone

@southjersey10

3 жыл бұрын

I’m hetero male and can relate to your story ....... I remember on the TV docu drama “ To Catch A Predator” seeing men who drive hours to have sex with underaged children. Seems reasonable to want to meet people first - in a public setting - and the first meet is just conversation; nothing intimate. Perhaps that sifts out the freaks, the curious, the devious. This may preserve the hearts of trans and cis alike. It’s seems tough out there 🙁

@jimmielittle877

3 жыл бұрын

Jokes on him saying you're the practice! Now he has to compare ALL the girls to you 🌺

@kevinbarwick6451

3 жыл бұрын

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@jasonforest5158

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry you went through that.i don't have any problem dating a transgender woman.

@BlackberryTitties

2 жыл бұрын

I mean they use yall for sex. That's it. I mean what makes yall anymore special than real women? Y'all be delusional thinking men are going to treat y'all better than us Real women. But that's just not the case. They are trash in general and so good luck with them. They're nothing special.

Over here in the uk things are so much the same.Your story reflects my own exactly.The straight guys I dated all feared they were gay.Even after I had to explain to each and everyone of them that their attraction to me is an attraction to femininity not masculinity which makes them straight their behaviour towards me remained the same.These guys where at first very nice to me and treated me respect but as we know it doesn't extend to them having the courage to be open about dating a trans woman for fear of what society believes.Its great to hear you talk about self reflection.I genuinely do believe that the majority of people simply don't know themselves fully as we do and have to.I think that's the biggest problem.We're dating people who are strangers to themselves.For me,I have always been bisexual but after dreadful experiences with cis gender women also I felt I could never find love.But!,I did.And I found that with another trans woman.Total Shock lol.We connect,not because we are both trans but because we both know who we truly are and aren't afraid to communicate fully.I wish you all the very best in finding someone.X

Omg I just want to give you the biggest hug right now , I’ve always liked you & just the way you are , love from London UK 🇬🇧💙

Thank you for your transparency and openness. I have loved only one trans woman in my life. When we met, I quickly developed such strong feelings for her. She revealed to me then that she was a trans woman. I chose to stay with her . I knew I could adapt to lovemaking with this lady I loved so much as long as I remained open minded. Ultimately, she broke my heart. I had never in my life pulled a woman's hair or slapped a woman but she wanted those things. her favorite phrase was, "No pain, No gain". When I used the term lovemaking, she quickly corrected me. She demanded that I use the word "f***ing instead. We were obviously a poor fit. I was in over my head I would guess that it is uncommon but, in mycase, I was the one who was traumatized. For months, I would cry uncontrollably for hours. To this day, those embers of hurt still smolder in my heart

I remember watching your videos when I first figured out who I really was. Can't believe it's been about a decade. Though trauma obviously isn't pleasant, it's oddly comforting hearing your stories and seeing the similarities we all seem to share in our struggles. Even if we find ourselves alone, it's nice knowing that we're never truly without others that we can relate to. PS fuck all those dudes, keep rocking it girl

Started transitioning MtF 6 months ago and came across your channel recently. Just want to say thank you for videos like this and sharing your experiences, good and bad. I'm from Chicago, so luckily all of my friends and people I have come across have all been very supportive. Looking forward to watching more of your content.

My heart was hurting the whole time I listened, people using and mistreating you just for existing sucks.

I am a straight man and my heart goes out to the trans community they have gone through so much and the only way I can even understand what is going on is by watching these videos so thank you for sharing we love you for that,

Loved the raw grit and honesty. Hope you do find your love and acceptance

Oh my goodness. I feel for you girl. I've been there too. Its just the worst. I've got my own stories to tell. You are a beacon of hope for all those embarking on transition. Keeping it real 👍⭐❤️

Your stories break my heart. No matter what anybody's beliefs are, we are still people; and we deserve to be treated with some humanity, care, dignity and a little respect.

Thanks for sharing, think a lot of us have gone through trauma like this especially with men and it super hard to acknowledge and bring to light, so thank you

That is rediculous that you were shunned by gay men and women or anyone for that matter. You seem like a very nice, intelligent person. My sister-in-law was transgender. I knew her before she had reassignment surgery and it was miraculous change that I saw. She was always a very shy recluse as a man. I always thought she didn't like me. After her transition she was the most loving self confident person. She passed two years ago. I miss her so much. My sister and I are so close. We have great memories of her. I only have two conditions for loving and liking people. Kindness to others and themselves.

I’ve dealt with some of these issues I don’t have any trans friends. So I never get to talk to anyone about topics like these bc they just don’t get it nor understand. So this helped a lot with my mental state so thank you. Xoxo

I feel this so much, thanks for sharing. I think it's really important it's put out there and said. subbed

Thank you for sharing that. It helps me and I hope it helps others. I am so very sorry that you were hurt.

Your video was recommended and I'm so pleased it was. You have anew sub. You echo my feelings perfectly about many men that want to sleep with us. Thankfully I realised this very early, plus many of my experiences with men were never great before transition, but I've managed to avoid any trauma. I'll say as advice to any other straight mtfs out there: Be selfish. Make sure any relationships, casual or otherwise, are on your terms. If you have something casual with a guy, NEVER think it may develop to more unless they show you very good evidence that it can. If you are meeting someone for the first time whom you can see potential in, make sure you meet in public, for safety, but crucially, to work out if they are transphobic and therefore ashamed, these types will only meet behind closed doors. If a guy is transphobic, do not sleep with him, you deserve better. You do not have to settle, there's ALWAYS someone better out there. Also, agree on the gay men / lesbian thing, can be some of the most hostile. My previous good friends were and are still fine, but I am cautious with new ones. Stay safe 🏳️‍🌈 🇬🇧

Thank you for sharing so honestly and openly. Being a woman comes with so much added vulnerability. Absolutely more so, in a world hostile to trans people, POC, etc. Your strength is apparent, but I know for me strength sometimes feels like a curse - a life long invitation to future trauma. You deserve to be with someone that will appreciate the extraordinary woman you are and I hope you will. On a personal note, could you dish on what dating and intimacy are like for lesbian and female leaning bi trans women? There isn’t a lot out there on the topic. And what I’ve heard kind of makes a desert seem like a thirst trap. Kind of intimidating for someone in very early stages of HRT who lived a pretty charmed dating life as a straight boy.

@asifhossan9180

2 жыл бұрын

Hi

That was some trauma session you had I should say!!! Mam...you are a beautiful woman and most importantly a person with a soul, one which is very hard to find these days. Respect and Love from INDIA.

Hearing this story broke my heart. I really wish you all the best ❤️

Great video! It’s so interesting hearing about your experiences! I’m sure you’re going to find someone that really loves you one day don’t give up. Everyone should feel like there’s something in the future that they’re hoping to happen. It’s good for your psyche. Even if it doesn’t happen, maybe it will. 😊 There’s good people in the world but unfortunately you have to meet all the bad ones first.

Love the video. I struggle with dysphoria so I can imagine. Keep being you

Sorry to hear about your experiences with men. Thanks for sharing.

Darlin, all I can say is that I wish I was younger...I think you would be wonderful to date, getting to know, sharing life experiences....everything that a couple does.

I’m sure you have been told a million times how beautiful you are only because it is true. Your honesty is refreshing and humans are so often awful but you will rock someone’s world. You are so good at speaking, I bet there is an opportunity out there for you to tell your stories and help a lot of people and become rich and famous, or even better rich and happy. You’ve had some real bad experiences and it’s time for the tide to change. Some very lucky person is going to fall in love with you and you with them . You deserve to be loved and be happy, I hope and pray it happens soon and that you have lots of fun in the mean time.

Thank you for sharing your stories with us. I can tell you are genuine and honest and have suffered a lot. As someone who practices and teaches love and compassion for all living beings as well as not judging anyone, I support you and love you as a person. I stand side by side with you anywhere on this planet as an equal because you are. Namaste.

love your candor! thank you for sharing your experience!

Sorry u had to go through all that Trauma, ur a very beautiful woman from the inside and out..take care and wishing u all the best! 💚💚💚🤗🤗🤗

thank you, people who gain your confidence and heart, then rip you apart are horrible. Don't let them take your love and joy, all the best.

And this is why I'm saving myself till marriage. I've had so many dates where I saw it going there. Dates are easy, love is hard.

Wow, I’m sorry that you went thru those bad experiences - what they did was very mean. You seem so sweet and intelligent - and extremely beautiful. Best of luck to you.

Your stories hit home. One guy straight up told me "it's not like I'm going to introduce you to my friends and family. So don't expect for us to go out and be seen together". That a-hole for years kept trying to contact me without a single response from me. My guard is always up girl. I'm worth more than that I learned.

@Fiorwestcoast

3 жыл бұрын

Urgh sorry that's awful. Statistically we are the least dated and the most over sexualised out of all people.

@monica93304

3 жыл бұрын

@@Fiorwestcoast like you I prefer to live alone. I've accepted that i will likely live alone for ever. Living up to some guys standards of being passable isn't worth my anguish. I transitioned knowing the price I would pay in the form of family rejection. So I turned my attention to my health and financial survival. I stopped looking for a mate because my standards are higher than ever. I want someone to stand with me instead of away from me. That's why your video resonates.

@jimmielittle877

3 жыл бұрын

Yes you are girlfriend 🌹

I am so sorry for what you went through. Everyone deserves to find someone that will truly love and respect them.

@MrBass4art

3 жыл бұрын

I wish i had someone as compassionate and loving as you are in my life. You are more than a sexual being. I know what it is to have your heartbroken multiple times and wanting to close yourself off from people so it does not happen again. But you sometime risk not finding that one person who understands you and truly does loves and respect you as a person.

This video is so touching, and I admire you for sharing this. This is the reality that all of us transwomen face. You are absolutely gorgeous tho, no wonder those guys went crazy over you! But seriously, you're a strong woman and all these experiences make us one of the strongest people in the world! I'm subscribing!

@coopergates9680

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry. What kind of discrimination do you see the most, if you can tell if it's due to religion, toxic masculinity, or even from men within LGBTIA? I have a bad feeling about the "He didn't know I'm trans" exchanges when a guy found out late, but the stories need to be heard...

You are such a Scorpio! I knew that way before I even watched a video where you announced your sign lol

I'm sorry that you had to go through this , that's a horrible thing to do to another human being I hope life is better for you nowadays❤️🙏🏼

Not a downer video- ok - this is a MUSt View for anyone mtf!!!! Absolute truth right here- stop watching the trans beauty influencer” and listen to real - possible life saving advice right here!!!!! Hugs all

i am also transgender and iv had a lot of the same stuff you talked about happen to me. All I can say is I feel for you and understand you, and for that reason i actually no longer go on dates and have decided to just be alone. I got tired of being a sexual experiment for men to try their curiosity on.

@SnowyPirate

2 жыл бұрын

how do they use u like an experiment for curiosity ?

I love you thank you sooo much for making this

You made an excellent point. Self-reflection makes us better people.

I'm so sorry that happened to you. I hope you meet someone who treats you with the love, kindness, empathy and respect that you deserve.

It's so sad that some guys are this way. I consider myself a straight man, but have no problem dating and or failing in love with a trans. If I find someone attractive and we seem to have a connection between the two of us I'm totally in love with them and not afraid to go out in public and introduce them to everyone I know because I'm very happy to be with them everywhere. It seems that some guys feel being attracted to a transwomen makes them question their masculinity and makes them feel they might be gay. But I have never felt that way because I feel a trans person was just a person who had been born into the body they were never meant to be. Some people just can't seem to understand things can happen that we just can't understand why it happens yet. But love is love and it doesn't matter what is down below that matters, but what's in the heart and mind that matters of the two people involved.

Dear Fiorwestcoast , wow 😮 thank you for sharing in such a truthful honest manner. I am so sorry to hear how mean some people have been to you. You are an amazingly strong & a true fighter to get through what you have faced & not only survived but to be able to make videos that will surly strengthen & enlighten anyone facing the same road. Your truth is also a big wake up call for people in general & how we view our trans brothers & sisters . To me - from one perspective it is like a big brain washing that still persists from the Eurocentric Judeo - Christian world view. That has essentially denigrated femininity & femaleness. So ( in my opinion) many so called “ straight “ men are very attracted to the femininity of trans women physically but through indoctrination - also - at the same time inwardly look down on them for expressing the very femininity that they are attracted too. They also feel “shame “ that somehow if anyone finds out this will somehow take away from & call into question their own masculinity. But I am glad to hear you are a deep thinker & seem very philosophical. You are right , it is the human condition, we can be Gods but most of the time we choose to be small minded, maggots , hypocrites, bullies & cowards . Always caring too much about the opinion & approval of others. Sorry for going on so long ! But I hope you have some good loving friends around you & you most importantly keep loving yourself & knowing your true value . True love always comes from within & all we want on the outside must first be established in our own hearts & minds . Keep your head up Warrior Queen ❤️xxx

@coopergates9680

Жыл бұрын

I've still been struggling to get the point home to Christians that some sins are not immoral, and an "objective" standard that is just a sugar coated, flawed dogma doesn't have advantages over secular frameworks. Could it also be that transphobes don't see the major difference between gay men and trans women, even though some trans women were out as gay men before they transitioned? Great comment. Polyaromantic here. Long live 🌈

I'm so sorry to hear about all your trauma. No one deserves to be treated so calouslly. I see why, you're so pretty I'd want to spend most of my time with you, I hope you can find that other someone that will treat as lovingly as you deserve. If I were a younger man I'd look you up, date you and If compatible, move you in with me.

Thank you for sharing this, take care and God bless ya 🙏❤️🙏

I am happy I am not attracted to men so I will never have to go through what you did. I am so sorry that happened to you. I hope you know how beautiful and strong you are. Clearly they were missing out.

Wow.... I'm so sorry you have had to deal with guys like that. You know, if a guy cannot be a gentleman and treat you with the dignity and respect that you deserve and desire......don't waste your time with them. You are far, far better than that. I don't understand people who treat others so disrespectfully, I find that disturbing and unforgivable. You seem like a very sweet lady, you are beautiful, very intelligent, well spoken, interesting and still able to laugh about things. A gentleman would be lucky to share the wonderful things life offers with a lady with all your qualities. Don't give up, we are not all bad, honest, but don't waste your time on the losers out there either, you are better than that and deserve far better than that. Thank you for sharing with us, I find you to be quite delightful.

Sorry this happened to you. It was just wrong in so many ways. I am glad you are talking about it and hope you are doing alright

I love your video, much love. Thank you for sharing.

I don’t care what anyone says or thinks no one deserves to be mistreated or degraded and devalued like that in any way. Sorry you had to go through anything like that and sorry for anyone at all that has to deal with anything like that. Glad to see you overcame it though. I know not all people overcome that sort of difficulties.

I really love your style, I hope to transition and look good like you. I want a nose ring like yours too. XD

Sorry you had to go through all that! I feel very bad learning where our society is heading. When I hear these stories it makes me hate lust even more.

You give me Sandra Bullock vibes❤️ great video

@manFromPeterborough

2 жыл бұрын

She does look like Bullock

I wish you all the happiness you deserve and you are truly a beautiful woman 🙏🏻🌹

@marshalltoday5361

3 жыл бұрын

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2:28 can we get a story time on that?? Also I thought I was the only one who dealt with the hate from gay men and most women, I would get treated like shit at the gay clubs and I never understood that.

@jimmielittle877

3 жыл бұрын

I'm thinking of 8 billion people on planet earth about 4 billion are men, so wouldn't it seem possible there is more than enough population to pair up💜

@katrinaboyer386

3 жыл бұрын

You have to speak the gay Lingo if not you're considered an outsider.

@kevinbarwick6451

3 жыл бұрын

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@keirfarnum6811

2 жыл бұрын

Most gay men I know are fine with trans women. But there must be a subset that are weird about it. Strange.

You are beautiful and seem like a great person.

@harrykendrick4670

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry you are right about men. God bless 🙌you.

@jacksonjeremias3003

3 жыл бұрын

i guess it's kinda off topic but does anybody know of a good site to watch newly released tv shows online ?

I’m really sorry you’ve been treated in these ways Jaklyn ,despicable and inexcusable. How you’ve ended up an apparently happy and well rounded girl is amazing and so impressive. You are a credit to yourself. If the goal is to find someone for the long term,I hope you find someone really great. Some people who’ve passed through your life definitely did miss out. Wish you the best in life.

Thanks for your video today. While I don't always agree with you, I do today. Especially about the human race. It's an unfortunate truth. But whats cha gonna do? Press on and don't waste time in them. Life's too short, and all that stuff. Thanks for sharing. It's awquardly nice to hear of someone else going through similar experiences. Anyway, thanks and have a great evening! Jackie 💞💃

I'm so sorry to hear about your events hoping the best for you you're beautiful

So Sorry you had to experience that😔

hugs. So sorry that happened to you.

Thank you for sharing 💚

OMG how is the the first I've seen of you?!!!! Your videos are SO good, not the videography but your manner or demeanor? Whatever it is keep making them! So yea, I'm tired, and my transition really was amazing; I'm happy with almost everything. It's not dysphoria that makes me want to give up. It's being on the other side of a successful transition and realizing that no matter how well I slayed it I still lost everything.

@coopergates9680

Жыл бұрын

Damn... everything? Are you still on the lookout for LGBTIA communities, or you found enough people who understand that you can be yourself? Reminds me of folks leaving fundamentalist religion, it's crazy how nearly everyone turns on them

@brookeconroy6466

Жыл бұрын

@@coopergates9680 I just noticed my comment was all fracked up, had to edit a typo. It’s a journey and I wasn’t LGBTQ identified before I took the red pill and realized I was trans. I did this alone and without a community, it was shitty. Then COVID, moved to a big city alone, it was a dark time. Since I’ve found myself more deeply and moved back to a more chill area. I’ve learned to love being alone with myself and we, um… I, have a good time🤣 I actually have become a plant person ❤️🪴 Digging into my own self love issues was a big part of that, and I’ve turned a corner. So it’s all good in the hood now, whatever happens I’m gonna be fine. It’s still hard to watch the news and being trans is no picnic, but I know how to handle it better every day😊

@coopergates9680

Жыл бұрын

@@brookeconroy6466 I know, I saw some extra words in there and couldn't tell what they were part of It wasn't a very inclusive big city like the twin cities or Chicago or Denver? I had a phase when I was into venus fly traps, sundews, and pitchers. Mimosas are also fun

@brookeconroy6466

Жыл бұрын

@@coopergates9680 it was Chicago, and it crushed me because I was alone and it was stressful. I’m an engineer who wanted to live in the city, which meant I had to commute to the north burbs to work and it was HELL. Not the inclusivity it was because I had zero support and no clue how to be me and trans, the stress of getting a job and everything was gonna end me. I still LOVE CHI and I’ll never forget the good times❤️

@coopergates9680

Жыл бұрын

@@brookeconroy6466 Commuting somewhere crowded sucks. You're a civil engineer? I'm a programmer and remote. I've been to the O'Hare airport at least a couple times but not actually around Chicago. Would it have been unpleasant to live near that suburban work site?

Hello, from Hong Kong currently transitioning myself so sorry to hear ur negative experiences, but also thanks for ur video as it gives me some new perspectives let's just say i know someone in a similar situation as you or the past u have mentioned and yea, this has helped me understand her a little more :) so thanks! and yes, people are assholes lol, in the past 10 years, when i was still a guy, i've seen too many trans who just wanted to use me when all i wanted to find was love. and these were the same people who always complained about life unlike you and ur whatever it's the past mentality. even in HK, my friend tells me that a lot of trans there will judge trans lesbians.... and that's just so sad also.

I wished, meeting such a wonderful woman like you!! Sadly I'm alone now for 13 years and nothing will change that!!

I've recently started my transition and I'm 32. I've never been in a relationship (or even been on a date as male) and its scaring me. But it could be exciting too i guess. For now though I'm just taking it one day at a time. Thanks for being a good trans momma 🥲

@Fiorwestcoast

3 жыл бұрын

As male or with a male? Are you ftm? I'm confused 😕 😂

@Sactown15

3 жыл бұрын

@@Fiorwestcoast Sorry, I'm mtf. I know im into women but I'm toying with the idea of being with a man. 🤷‍♀️ I'm most likely to be with a woman.

@Fiorwestcoast

3 жыл бұрын

@@Sactown15 I mean you like what you like. I'm currently focusing on dating women. All depends on how you feel.

@kevinbarwick6451

3 жыл бұрын

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@Sactown15

3 жыл бұрын

@@kevinbarwick6451 sorry no thanks

You are a very beautiful woman. Stay positive. The right guy will come along when the time is right🙏

I’m a happily married dude but you seem like a good person and you are super cute. I just hope you find happiness and success in all you do.

Girl you are absolutely gorgeous!!!

So sad for us...but well said, Sis.

You are obviously a very intelligent and very articulate lady, you will find that person one day.

Omg im so like...falling in love with u, like u r sooo pretty! U r an inspiration to me :)

You tell a good story, I think you're a beauty ☺️

I worked in the industry as well back in the mid-80s early 90s under a well known notorious Madame in Hollywood. I went for the big bucks I did not settle for anything less

Thank you for sharing, you are a very brave woman and very beautiful.

I went out with a beautiful young woman last night. We met at a restaurant, had drinks, talked and talked until they kicked us out. Then we stood in the parking lot and kept talking. We are going out again tonight. I am a 51 year old widower and she is a 28 year old . Luckily she has always dated older men. I could care less about the fact that she was born with male parts. She’s beautiful, smart, funny and I think she finds me attractive. Guys need to get over the sex stuff and look for a partner that you can spend your life with. PS, you are stunning, smart and well spoken.

I feel you girl! Fellow trans sis here

@kevinbarwick6451

3 жыл бұрын

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@ms.moreno8471

2 жыл бұрын

All facts. I hat cis men. I only date worthy men now. Trans men

This was not a downer video you told the truth! Stay up the right person will come along and things will get better. I believe that since you are comfortable with being by yourself when that right guy comes along he’s going to be one lucky guy 👍

I love your thoughts 👍🏽

Beautiful woman. Starting a relationship with a Trans girl was the best decision I ever made. Changed my life and grew my soul. There is something simply incredible about someone who has gone through such struggle to manifest their true selves in reality.

Self-reflection is the cornerstone of self-improvement. There are good people out there.

Thanks for sharing your trauma events from dating.Those guys acted like assholes. My fiancee is trans. I could care less what anyone thinks besides her. I love her very much.

@11:51 you make an important point, which is that, sexwork/pornography, while being liberating in some regards-as a source of income and therefore autonomy-bears significant drawbacks. Effectively-it was said by both Daniel Defoe (author of Robinson Crusoe) and Immanuel Kant-about sacrifice. "Everyone serves a master, lest they become a slave to their baser instincts. However, it is the disciplined servant who, through his discipline, may choose his master and therefore his liberation." That's not a perfect quote, a paraphrase and so forth but it stands to reason. If people want dignity they have to choose a dignified path, finding your way there takes sacrifice and a direct sense of commitment to that vision you have of your future self or future life. This is critical because it is an underlying trend which affects all of humanity (not just one demographic or another) and could serve as a bridging point on the issue of recognition and acceptance across identities. For the life you choose to live (one of discipline and commitment) and the actions you take to live this life (your convictions) are far more important than... genitals. Thanks for sharing your story.

If I were a guy I would have no problem being with you. You seem like an awesome woman❤. As for myself I have a lot of issues..my age I'm easily clocked, always being put down by my spouse and family. Whatever I'm still the happiest I've ever been and I'd do it again.😊

Amazing how shallow and hurtful people can be to each other.

Sounds like you have a good grasp now of the sad reality of people these days. Trans people are still a relatively new thing in society, and I think most people are still not understanding of trans people. Some people are drawn to others out of sheer curiosity, and I think you have had an experience with those types. With time comes normality and acceptance but unfortunately for you and many others, you are the pioneers and trailblazers out there, hence you are making the path and walk better for those who will one day follow. I can tell you are a very intelligent person and I wish you all the best.

i’m fascinated with you

Hi there..I’m a transgender woman and empathize with your story! It been very difficult to have people accept me for who I am. Your a beautiful woman who deserves the very best! LA is a crazy place I grew up just south of there in OC. Wish you the very best.

So sorry to hear about those horrible experiences. I’m a trans lesbian, I’m not holding my breath thinking I’m going to meet that one girl that’ll love me. 🤷🏻‍♀️😪

I feel for you as those words were not about you but him. He needs a candle lit for him. You are more a woman than you realise because you are so strong . Guys are rarely that strong emotionally . I don’t know why , but it is no doubt about society and it’s perceptions of who we are expected to behave . You are beautiful and all girl - do not put yourself down. Love surrounds us , but we do not always see it or respond to it. Love is not about sex, but being valued as a person . We all need to be appreciated and when we are we are taken to a whole different place - and that is where we can be taken by somebody who loves us for who we are and not our bodies or the jobs we do. Too many people are like children and the older they get does not improve them . If a child is horrible we don’t stop loving them and it is why we should not adopt others faults and make them our own, because we are not them .

@jimbowler7169

2 жыл бұрын

You are a very attractive woman and I Hope that you have a nice relationship in your future.

You have the cutest nose & most mesmerizing eyes ♡

Thank you very much for sharing that with me

@rickwong4918

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Thank you for responding I love listening to you

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Thank you I went over all your past videos

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I love them all the touch all the bases I'm going through so thank you very much and God bless you

Sorry to hear that

I would have the courage to go out with you. You are intelligent, emotionally mature and comfortable in your own skin. Not to mention sweetly feminine. I would not have a problem coming out to everyone, including my dad who would probably disown me.

I'm really glad I took the time watch through this. It's been very enlightening to hear things about situations like this from a first a hand perspective. Personally, I don't understand why most cishet men seem to be of a mindset like this and have such a hard time reconciling a completely rational attraction. When I was a teenager and I found myself attracted to a transwomen for the first time- ya that might have been a little confusing for my adolescent mind in the late 2000's. Now, as an adult, I'm completely open about the fact I find transwomen attractive. I'm a straight man- why wouldn't I find a gorgeous woman attractive?! Transwomen are women and lying to yourself about that funny feeling in your pants isn't doing you any, or anyone else any favours. It's pain, trauma, and confusion all around. Cis or trans, as far as I'm concerned the sweetness of wine is a single flavour.

You are very beautiful. You make being trans look exciting because of how well you look. I love your makeup and style and natural beauty. Thanks for sharing your self with us. I like seeing you

Wow that’s awful….. thank you for sharing your perspective.

You are very pretty and I’m so sorry this happened to you you look amazing and it sucks he straight up used you I wouldn’t do that to anyone beautiful 😍

Smile little darlin you’re beyond beautiful you’re you!!!! And ur a gem 💎🌹🌹🌹🌟