My TERRIBLE Relationship With A Thai Bargirl

I interview Dan, a British expatriate who embarked on a life-changing journey from the UK to Thailand. After closing his business, Dan decided to start fresh in the "Land of Smiles." He shares the deeply personal story of a tumultuous relationship he had with a Thai bar girl, shedding light on the challenges and lessons he learned along the way. Dan also opens up about how he met his Thai wife online, and the interesting strategy he used to make sure he found someone who wasn't after his money. #thairishtimes #thaitalkwithdan #movingtothailand
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00:00 Intro
01:15 Why I moved to Thailand
08:55 My terrible relationship with a Thai bargirl
16:24 The arguments we had
19:08 How I met my Thai wife
21:44 The rocky relationship with my Thai wife

Пікірлер: 360

  • @ThairishTimes
    @ThairishTimes9 ай бұрын

    Here’s part 2: kzread.info/dash/bejne/fJyasdejnsuvepM.html

  • @waynedrummond6583
    @waynedrummond65839 ай бұрын

    Why would anyone be stupid enough to want a relationship with someone who sells her relationship time through a third-party?

  • @taterrhead

    @taterrhead

    9 ай бұрын

    can't imagine uprooting/selling entire life to move to paradise JUST to end up in serious relationship with literal hooker lol

  • @birdmusic1206

    @birdmusic1206

    9 ай бұрын

    same reason some women just date bad guys or whatever, i mean i don't know what the reason is but it's the same one

  • @nikkimclay5474

    @nikkimclay5474

    9 ай бұрын

    desperation ?!

  • @_Alfa.Bravo_

    @_Alfa.Bravo_

    9 ай бұрын

    ...plus the danger being infected by certain illnesses or addictions on her side to forget about the bad in the past (and/or present)

  • @mixalis6168

    @mixalis6168

    9 ай бұрын

    they think, their saving the girls, when infact most chose the easy money @@

  • @johnohara1433
    @johnohara1433Ай бұрын

    Dan seems like a VERY nice guy. Smart, well-spoken, authentic, level-headed, not a show-off. His wife must be quite shallow not to appreciate what she has. His devotion to his son is so admirable. I wish him the best of luck.

  • @JonnyElk
    @JonnyElk9 ай бұрын

    Two of my favourite KZreadrs … so really enjoyed this. Seems like you’re the only one Pete to have ended up with such a great partner …. from everything we hear. Your Irish accent is much thicker now btw …. 😂. keep up the good work

  • @ThairishTimes

    @ThairishTimes

    9 ай бұрын

    Thanks mate, glad to hear it. Haha hopefully you can still understand me

  • @hippohappy7957
    @hippohappy79579 ай бұрын

    Imagine it from the other sides perspective...this guy would rarely do anything wrong from his view. This guy chooses certain types of women to be with and says, I hate drama! Are you serious buddy? You need to stay away from relationships because you are delusional about yourself, and what a relationship even is 😂 truth, not hate...

  • @AquaTofana.

    @AquaTofana.

    5 ай бұрын

    😂😂

  • @jacksonj3082
    @jacksonj30829 ай бұрын

    First came to Thailand in mid-80’s and lived & worked for a Thai company in the 2000’s - my feeling, bar girls have a different emotional tolerance than non-bar girl types. Of course not all Thai girls are the same, but from my experience it seems bar girls including freelancers can be more emotional and narcissistic.

  • @Josh-rn1em

    @Josh-rn1em

    9 ай бұрын

    Maybe being f*cked for money with thousands of men you don't like, makes girls a little nuts 😂😂

  • @AdolfMitler-ch8ns

    @AdolfMitler-ch8ns

    9 ай бұрын

    Why can't people say Bargirls are the same....just coz there are Outlier s doesn't mean we can't Generalize.

  • @kevingonzalez3673

    @kevingonzalez3673

    8 ай бұрын

    Witches b crazy

  • @joemann2178
    @joemann21789 ай бұрын

    Dan doesn't have much luck with women, but he's making a living telling horror stories about Thai women to other men who don't have much luck with women either.

  • @betsymartin4709

    @betsymartin4709

    9 ай бұрын

    That’s what happens when your brain is further down than it should be .

  • @nikkimclay5474

    @nikkimclay5474

    9 ай бұрын

    hes with his wife now

  • @L-Nino

    @L-Nino

    9 ай бұрын

    Wife 🙄 From the the frying pan because of bad choices, now in the fire because of continued bad choices.

  • @_Alfa.Bravo_

    @_Alfa.Bravo_

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@betsymartin4709 ... or if there is non

  • @nikkimclay5474

    @nikkimclay5474

    9 ай бұрын

    @@L-Nino trying to raise his son, more than most men do

  • @themacker894
    @themacker8949 ай бұрын

    When I lived in Thailand I had an English friend at one of the English language schools where we both worked, and he brought a bargirl back to live with him. A couple of weeks later he decided it was a bad idea and he told her to move out. The next morning he came to work white as a sheet and he told us what happened. She grabbed a huge kitchen knife and held onto the blade with her bare hands (handle extended towards him). He was afraid she would stab him, so he grabbed the knife which cut her hands pretty deeply. She then wiped her blood all over every single piece of clothing he owned, the walls, furniture, etc. We were all speechless listening to the story.

  • @shadowfilm7980

    @shadowfilm7980

    9 ай бұрын

    Women are nuts. Better in small limited doses. Nothing serious.

  • @ma3stro681

    @ma3stro681

    9 ай бұрын

    The fool got out of it lightly …

  • @AdolfMitler-ch8ns

    @AdolfMitler-ch8ns

    9 ай бұрын

    Picture or it never happened.....😂😂😂😂😂..

  • @nadzirahfarhah3423

    @nadzirahfarhah3423

    9 ай бұрын

    Thats grim

  • @mikehicks2283

    @mikehicks2283

    Ай бұрын

    Lucky the cops didn't throw him away for years.... no one is on your side over there and you will always be seen as the wrong. Fairness does not exist.

  • @mattkearsey812
    @mattkearsey8129 ай бұрын

    My two favourite Thai KZreadrs, definitely went back to Thailand for the bargirl though 😂

  • @williamhartz8707
    @williamhartz87079 ай бұрын

    Kudos to Dan for hanging in there. I wish he & his wife the best.,

  • @karenavey2183
    @karenavey21839 ай бұрын

    My bullshit detector was ringing off the hook!

  • @do7696
    @do76969 ай бұрын

    Great interview.Very coherent and could feel the frustration.A lot of lessons can be learned from this video.

  • @PloyandJayinThailand
    @PloyandJayinThailand9 ай бұрын

    Great video. Maybe dating a bar girl is not the best strategy to start a serious long-term relationship. There are educated women in Thailand. And no. Not all of them are bad.

  • @mixalis6168

    @mixalis6168

    9 ай бұрын

    Not brain science ! Only a fool would ! Tho i have met one bloke, whos mate married a bar, tho she only worked in the job for a few months. married and still over 20 years !@

  • @GA001

    @GA001

    8 ай бұрын

    Do educated Thai women want uneducated chav types like the bloke in this video?

  • @mixalis6168
    @mixalis61689 ай бұрын

    I know A BLOKE in Australia, who's lost 4 houses to 4 Aussie women!!

  • @joanofarcxxi

    @joanofarcxxi

    4 ай бұрын

    So 4 times failure, he is the common denominator. Obviously he is messed up. Should work on his issues.

  • @proudockers5281

    @proudockers5281

    Ай бұрын

    Pretty standard in the west the woman are rubbish

  • @ianarn

    @ianarn

    Ай бұрын

    He needs to avoid women entirely for the rest of his life in any form other than maybe friendly acquaintances. For a lot of men myself included it just doesn’t make sense to get too involved and if you’re not in your twenties full of hormones it’s best just to stay in control of yourself myself included.

  • @ang5035

    @ang5035

    22 күн бұрын

    @@ianarnor just keep it casual? Why get financially entangled after like 2nd time?😅

  • @user-zm9gc1kt8b
    @user-zm9gc1kt8b9 ай бұрын

    Great interview lads! I love both your channels !

  • @adrianenglish511
    @adrianenglish5119 ай бұрын

    Was waiting for this team up!!

  • @thehammer3340
    @thehammer33409 ай бұрын

    Guys need to understand, when you're taking on a bar girl, you're taking on a totally different beast..that's putting it mildly.

  • @Paul-dv4dr
    @Paul-dv4dr9 ай бұрын

    Dan's "origin story" is relatable. Bloody hardcore really! GL bro.

  • @yourdadsvan6763
    @yourdadsvan67639 ай бұрын

    Another great interview Pete. ❤

  • @Josh-rn1em
    @Josh-rn1em9 ай бұрын

    Meth and prostitution DON'T make a good girlfriend. 😂😂😂

  • @certificateofvaccinationi.d.19
    @certificateofvaccinationi.d.197 ай бұрын

    RULE 1; Do Not Date a Prostitute. RULE 2; Do Not Date a Prostitute. RULE 3; IF IN ANY DOUBT,REFER TO RULES 1 OR 2.

  • @mrtomas0990

    @mrtomas0990

    7 ай бұрын

    Its pretty sound advice 😂

  • @afrivox

    @afrivox

    2 ай бұрын

    Rule number 0. Do not go to Thailand for a serious relationship 😂

  • @Somerset976
    @Somerset9769 ай бұрын

    FINALLY!! Ive been following Dan for a while , was wondering Wen you were gonna get him on, well done Pete.

  • @majorkade
    @majorkade9 ай бұрын

    This guy sounds as dramatic and stubborn as the women he's describing. 😅

  • @ma3stro681

    @ma3stro681

    9 ай бұрын

    He says he doesn’t like drama (no self respecting man does), but he marries a crazy Thai woman and has a kid with her. Dan’s as blue pilled as they come … 😂

  • @phoenixknight8837

    @phoenixknight8837

    9 ай бұрын

    Not really.

  • @rickylee6129
    @rickylee61299 ай бұрын

    Excellent VIDEO 😊. I have watched every video that Dan puts out. Great Channel 👍.

  • @mikefigures5075
    @mikefigures50759 ай бұрын

    Play with fire...get burned brotha. Thats the type of people youre dealing with. Great guy, dumped his girlfriend in a pinch. Fired all his employees.

  • @petem7759

    @petem7759

    9 ай бұрын

    💯 he's a Right 🐓

  • @Kodakcompactdisc

    @Kodakcompactdisc

    9 ай бұрын

    Ya that firing all his employees didn’t sit well with me either.

  • @Visor8888
    @Visor88889 ай бұрын

    Watched his (Dan) channel and looked through the comments. I can see the people in his community are exactly the falangs I steer clear of in Thailand.

  • @Enochsrite

    @Enochsrite

    9 ай бұрын

    C, Mon falangs don't speak to each other in Thailand, I been too

  • @Ned88Man

    @Ned88Man

    7 ай бұрын

    Yup!

  • @AndiGomez-yu2dx

    @AndiGomez-yu2dx

    2 ай бұрын

    Care to explain?

  • @JaimeWarlock
    @JaimeWarlock9 ай бұрын

    I noticed most of these horror stories come from Thailand. Filipina girls seem so much more mellow.

  • @ksmithpmp

    @ksmithpmp

    9 ай бұрын

    Filipina bar girls are no different. Recreational use only.

  • @loufrost824

    @loufrost824

    3 ай бұрын

    A prostitue in any culture is still a prostitue, these guys mess up because they date prostitutes.

  • @Roberto-xc5xy
    @Roberto-xc5xy9 ай бұрын

    Great interview!

  • @markpearson5355
    @markpearson53559 ай бұрын

    By the sound of it just stay single

  • @loufrost824

    @loufrost824

    3 ай бұрын

    Heres a better idea, dont date prostitutes.

  • @Goldfinger555
    @Goldfinger5559 ай бұрын

    Wow! Interesting to hear Dan’s own story given how his vlog is of stories of others dealing with the same.

  • @nikkimclay5474

    @nikkimclay5474

    9 ай бұрын

    thats why he started his channel !

  • @reoun1654
    @reoun16549 ай бұрын

    A wise ole character said to me when I was a young man regarding woman in Asia "Dont make your problems my problem"

  • @ianmillar4817
    @ianmillar4817Ай бұрын

    A truly great interview

  • @lewisfruen5648
    @lewisfruen56489 ай бұрын

    It's a rite of passage, get a messed up GF at least once when you are new there! Lmao great stuff Pete, needed a good laugh

  • @chadmartinez459
    @chadmartinez4594 ай бұрын

    This guy is immature, self absorbed and so full of himself. I feel sorry for the Thai women! (When everyone else is wrong, it’s probably not them). I like to listen to a good story but this guy is insufferable.

  • @NITBAN
    @NITBAN9 ай бұрын

    He shouldn't live in Thailand. He doesn't have the temperament to live in Thailand. That doesn't make him a bad guy from a western perspective though.

  • @andrewmoss1135

    @andrewmoss1135

    9 ай бұрын

    Who are you to tell him where he should live? 🤡

  • @NITBAN

    @NITBAN

    9 ай бұрын

    @@andrewmoss1135 my opinion dude. Everyone has one. Don't get all riled up.

  • @andrewmoss1135

    @andrewmoss1135

    9 ай бұрын

    @@NITBAN lol, riled up, my emotions are fine mate, no chance of any riling up

  • @NITBAN

    @NITBAN

    9 ай бұрын

    @@andrewmoss1135 all good then 😀

  • @ma3stro681

    @ma3stro681

    9 ай бұрын

    Exactly. He’s quite a damaged guy. He’s desperate for the Disney fantasy (which is actually a nightmare), and also wants to teach his “wife” a lesson. You can’t teach woemen anything. They live in their emotions, and so does Dan. He needs to go to a monastery for at least 6 months and start learning and practicing Buddhist teachings as he’s completely deluded, as most westerners are. Otherwise he’ll continue to suffer and become increasingly deluded and bitter …

  • @TerryChimes123
    @TerryChimes1239 ай бұрын

    This Dan character seems to be his own personal worst enemy. Always determined to prove his point.

  • @Ned88Man

    @Ned88Man

    6 ай бұрын

    yup. I don't see the appeal honestly. Just another one of millions of falang that think they get it, but don't

  • @afrivox

    @afrivox

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@Ned88Manif you get it, you avoid particularly Pattaya as a plague. By the time you enter Pattaya, all odds are on the table 😂

  • @YuChiGongG
    @YuChiGongG9 ай бұрын

    He is CORRECT. And it is no joke. You, too, can find peace in Thailand.

  • @writeronthestormkyushu565
    @writeronthestormkyushu5659 ай бұрын

    Sometimes, after the female spider lays the eggs, she eats the male and his corpse is used to feed the offspring. Loved this interview because of Dan's honesty and willingness to share.. How can we enjoy the amazing Kingdom of Thailand without getting caught in the oh so common webs that end up trapping us and taking away our freedom?

  • @eddenoy321

    @eddenoy321

    9 ай бұрын

    The female mantis mates with a male and when they finish, the female bites the male's head off. So there you go.

  • @Visor8888

    @Visor8888

    9 ай бұрын

    Honestly. it’s usual falang sob story and always makes me chuckle. You see people like Pete and others dating properly in Thailand and doing their dude diligence. Others just fall for the first bar girl they meet 😢

  • @loufrost824

    @loufrost824

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Visor8888 If you don't date prosititutes and remember you're not there to help somebody elses family, i can't see why its so hard. Maybe I'm sociopathic but the second they start talking about their families money problems, i`d say, wow thats horrible, whats for dinner lol If they chuck a tantrum and split, that's life.

  • @DigitalNomadOnFIRE
    @DigitalNomadOnFIRE9 ай бұрын

    ThaIrish Times, love it.

  • @richardbayne7566
    @richardbayne75669 ай бұрын

    I don’t think it’s just Thai women that can’t control their emotions. Most people cannot. It’s just manifested in different ways. Women in general tend to be more openly emotional than men and use emotion to get what they want.

  • @fs5775

    @fs5775

    4 ай бұрын

    well they can't beat men at physical force, especially a petite Thai girl, so instead use the power you got (emotion)

  • @Sagan_Starborn
    @Sagan_Starborn9 ай бұрын

    My Thai wife does have a hot-headed streak about her, but it's very fast to cool off, and she nearly always says sorry. I love her very much. She was never a bar girl - she worked at the Pandora factory in administration for a decade before finding a de facto there and opening a shop selling Jok and Isaan curries. She made a fortune while her man went out womanising and drinking himself into a stupor every night. She eventually caught him balls-deep in someone else and she broke up with him. He came back with his family and guns and told her to hand everything she had worked for over to them. Her parents had to go collect her and bring her back to the farm. I had decided before I went looking for her that I was going to go live in Thailand. I met her on a Thai specific dating app and flew to Thailand for my first ever visit, thinking, if she didn't turn up, I would at least scope the place out for where I planned to set up my life. She turned up. She was and is the best person I have ever met in my life. What little drama we have is gone in literally minutes and with a little kiss on the cheek and a sorry, it's all forgiven. I can't imagine my future without her.

  • @_Alfa.Bravo_

    @_Alfa.Bravo_

    9 ай бұрын

    ... thx for sharing. May be she has learned, how define herself by what she is, and not by what she has

  • @nikkimclay5474

    @nikkimclay5474

    9 ай бұрын

    great news, all the very best, there certainly is very beautiful Thai women with good hearts out there

  • @ma3stro681

    @ma3stro681

    9 ай бұрын

    The blue pill is a hellava drug …

  • @rrgguhgrvnirugu4ghu43konni9

    @rrgguhgrvnirugu4ghu43konni9

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@ma3stro681yeah this guy helieves that crazy story?? Lmao

  • @L-Nino

    @L-Nino

    9 ай бұрын

    I always find it interesting when a Falang is describing his Thai girlfriend/partner usually within the first few sentences he claims she was never a bar girl. Red Flag 🚩 I am not saying this guy’s wife was a bar girl or not I don’t know her or care. Just another strange "only in Thailand” observation. Just think about your father, introducing your mother to his friends for the first time and the first words out of his mouth, "by the way Gents she’s not a whore” Again i’m not saying the guy who wrote this comment girl is a bargirl. However if a guy says, "she’s not a bargirl she’s different” That usually means she’s NOT different and definitely a bar girl! But there’s always an exception to every rule.

  • @richardbayne7566
    @richardbayne75669 ай бұрын

    You can take the girl out of the bar but you can’t take the bar out of the girl.

  • @peterpan3358

    @peterpan3358

    3 ай бұрын

    Amen mate, i been with a girl for 6 year and i live in thailand. She goes back to bar 😂

  • @thegormlesstwit849
    @thegormlesstwit8499 ай бұрын

    Everyone knows that you use ONE FRIKKEN TEASPOON! Not two. OMG, these people.

  • @colinwhite6037
    @colinwhite60379 ай бұрын

    Common thing acting suicidal, and if you dont take them serious then they will plot to kill you...this has happened to some of my friends, the difference between my thai wife and bar girls is like chalk and cheese.

  • @louisbee7923
    @louisbee79239 ай бұрын

    Poor guy. Seems he's really into deluding himself. Either he's very naive or he has a thing for rationalizing and romanticizing his life. He's sort of old to still making basic mistakes with women.

  • @williamhartz8707

    @williamhartz8707

    9 ай бұрын

    There is a kid involved.

  • @ma3stro681

    @ma3stro681

    9 ай бұрын

    The blue pill (being a beta) is a hellava drug …

  • @darrylknight2675

    @darrylknight2675

    9 ай бұрын

    I am 67 and can say You are never too old to stop making mistakes with women.

  • @petercannon6906

    @petercannon6906

    16 күн бұрын

    You are never too old.

  • @keneaton2855
    @keneaton28554 ай бұрын

    After 4 failed relationships the main problem might just be looking back at him in a mirror

  • @afrivox

    @afrivox

    2 ай бұрын

    In a sense yes. Anyone who goes to Pattaya for a meaningful relationship needs to look in the mirror and spit on the guy he sees 😂😂

  • @davidduxbury9246
    @davidduxbury92468 ай бұрын

    Dan would be brilliant to have a beer with, refreshing to hear down to earth people.

  • @sarinaj72
    @sarinaj729 ай бұрын

    Why are these men dating bar girls? obviously they are not the most mentally stable considering their life styles, there are many normal girls but I guess they are not as desperate as he ones working in a bar.

  • @_Alfa.Bravo_
    @_Alfa.Bravo_9 ай бұрын

    May be there is a reason why "bitch" and "witch" differ only by one letter ...

  • @_Alfa.Bravo_

    @_Alfa.Bravo_

    9 ай бұрын

    ... and the most dangerous is the vagina-witch

  • @senianns9522
    @senianns95229 ай бұрын

    One of the crazies was slashing her wrists with a knife! I told her she was 'doing it wrong'! What?? I told her she was trying to slice across the veins! I said 'Try lengthways as that will really open the veins and help you die quicker'! She looked at me in disbelief and stopped. She put down the knife down and went away. Never put up with their BS!

  • @Kodakcompactdisc

    @Kodakcompactdisc

    9 ай бұрын

    😂😂

  • @Xiaomi9A-rd3nw
    @Xiaomi9A-rd3nw9 ай бұрын

    Another good one Pete. I like both channels. I wonder if Dan has any Irish in him, Mairtin.

  • @b4bmm
    @b4bmm9 ай бұрын

    Well able to talk this lad. Didn’t see any Starbucks on Koh chang the last 10 years I’ve been going but seen many relationships like this.

  • @YuChiGongG
    @YuChiGongG9 ай бұрын

    Exactly HOW did he stop his relationship, within 24 hours after returning to Ireland, from Thailand, as he stated? Maybe he needs another interview to explain this.

  • @user-zm8th7gp9e

    @user-zm8th7gp9e

    9 ай бұрын

    0

  • @petem7759

    @petem7759

    9 ай бұрын

    Maybe He is just Completely FofS 🤔

  • @themountainwanderer
    @themountainwanderer9 ай бұрын

    Great interview! Ah, female emotions... It's got to be so hard, but I am pulling for Dan to overcome the troubles. Seems like such a solid guy. Yes, you don't abandon your kid as a father, I would not even give it any thought. 👍 Looking forward to part 2.

  • @ma3stro681

    @ma3stro681

    9 ай бұрын

    His biggest mistake was thinking she was “different”. It’s a blue pilled, beta, deluded outlook on woemen. So he played himself, but I think he’s waking up …

  • @michaelshirley4874
    @michaelshirley48749 ай бұрын

    I have just watched a couple of you posts about your thoughts on Thai woman, , my first watch on KZread of your thoughts and advice

  • @rickdeckard7470
    @rickdeckard74709 ай бұрын

    Epic my 2 fav expat channels

  • @user-gv7xw4pk7m
    @user-gv7xw4pk7m2 ай бұрын

    All the best mate 👍

  • @asdfgh123lkjhgf
    @asdfgh123lkjhgf9 ай бұрын

    A good man is Dan, wishing the very best for him and his son. It's not easy!. Respect and best wishes to the big fella and the wee fella.

  • @parasinthephilippines
    @parasinthephilippines9 ай бұрын

    Feck me ! This a last collaboration I'd I've thought possible. Jaysus .

  • @mangostickyrice555
    @mangostickyrice5559 ай бұрын

    Thumbs up 👍 Pete & Dan

  • @Mranfunnee
    @Mranfunnee9 ай бұрын

    You little beauty, Dan and Mr Thairish times

  • @vjames888
    @vjames8889 ай бұрын

    Link to Dan's channel?

  • @andyb2347
    @andyb23477 ай бұрын

    Changes the story as he’s going along, make your own minds up

  • @ross9503
    @ross95034 ай бұрын

    I wish happiness and balance to his small family of three 💞💞💞💓

  • @shinchanmuhara7474
    @shinchanmuhara74749 ай бұрын

    Big fan of Dan 🎉

  • @nikkimclay5474
    @nikkimclay54749 ай бұрын

    Dans a good sort, I enjoy his humour

  • @msachillefs
    @msachillefs6 ай бұрын

    A few years back. I don't know if it's exists today, a Thai lady was called Madam something was teaching the ladies through a on line course how to be with a foreign man by crying and many other tricks charging them 5000 Baht. I do know that because my Thai Holliday girlfriend told me when I was together with her. So they learn all that and more in advance you know.

  • @spirittravels.
    @spirittravels.9 ай бұрын

    Been watching a few of Dan's videos lately. Same old thing going on. There should be warnings signs at the airport telling people what not to do in Thailand. It would mean a lot more happier travellers, and that's better for Thai Tourism.

  • @ma3stro681

    @ma3stro681

    9 ай бұрын

    Every noob to the Kingdom needs to read Private Dancer. Blue pilled western men have no chance against Thai bar girls …

  • @afrivox

    @afrivox

    9 ай бұрын

    I think most know. I am sure even as we speak now these same guys will still fall in trouble ...including most of us hearing these stories 😂

  • @spirittravels.

    @spirittravels.

    9 ай бұрын

    @@afrivox Probably. But there should still be warnings. There are Countries that are well known to the government, whereby romance fraud is a big occurrence, yet they don't do enough to protect their Citizens from it. It's not something to joke about either, as it can have very serious negative effects. People can lose everything they have worked for, to people who never cared for them in the first place. I've read enough about multiple Men committing suicide because of this.

  • @darkstars-torpedoes-of-truth

    @darkstars-torpedoes-of-truth

    8 ай бұрын

    The first sign would be go to Manila.

  • @afrivox

    @afrivox

    8 ай бұрын

    @thedrummerboy1215 here is the list. 1. Do NOT go to Pattaya.... apart from girls, there is nothing you cannot find anywhere else in Thailand 2. Do NOT go to Sukumvit... see number 1. 3. Think with your big head, not with your small one. 4. If you are 65, fat and bald and a 20something yo beauty tells you you are handsome, think twice. 5. Do not date any girl in the pleasure industry ie masseuse, dancers, bar girls except for a short time if that's your thing. 6. Do not leave your common sense home. Ok?

  • @jamesdspaderf2883
    @jamesdspaderf28837 ай бұрын

    500K baht!!! holy cow, money gouging seems to be the way of the Thai! I made a similar decision and emigrated from the UK to New York. For many reasons but also because I got bored silly in the UK. It was a tough transition, for many reasons. Do I harbor regret? Not in the slightest. My 2c on women: seems wherever you go, men and women are just different. Men are from Mars, women from Venus (it's a good book and worth a read). They have estrogen, ovaries: the woman's brain is physically wired differently to a man's brain. A marriage will always be a compromise. And men seem to be the ones' compromising the most. Up to each one of us, to decide if the compromise is worth it.

  • @wills9732

    @wills9732

    2 ай бұрын

    Good post but in all reality this quote "Men are from Mars, women from Venus" really does not accurately portray just how different the sexes are. Dude we are not even from the same galaxy let alone solar system.

  • @conbob
    @conbob9 ай бұрын

    Pete and Dan great combination

  • @101kreger
    @101kreger9 ай бұрын

    yes dan, fight the good fight. just a lowly guy in chaing mai. big fan of the tharish times too, rock on boys love the graft

  • @lakid9749
    @lakid97499 ай бұрын

    What a great guy Works 24-7 then plays with the kid Don’t you get it knuckle You don’t give her any attention, romance or love Sad dude

  • @YuChiGongG
    @YuChiGongG9 ай бұрын

    Concerning this 24-Hours release time. How will you calculate this? Exactly? Or, in the Thai way?

  • @ThairishTimes

    @ThairishTimes

    9 ай бұрын

    It'll be released 6pm Thai Time Sunday 12th Sept

  • @mikehicks2283
    @mikehicks2283Ай бұрын

    Never buy them anything with real value or give money away. That's rule #1.... if they get mad you don't give them lots of stuff, move on.

  • @Nttmf
    @Nttmf9 ай бұрын

    Mate, can’t believe he’s still trying to make it right. I’m so glad I’m not in his situation, out in issan everything is upside down and back to front. The women are intolerable and toxic. Everything revolves around gold.

  • @AndiGomez-yu2dx

    @AndiGomez-yu2dx

    5 ай бұрын

    Disgusting so called culture 🤮

  • @afrivox

    @afrivox

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@AndiGomez-yu2dxI think it's guys like these who made it what it is now. Idk

  • @JourneyinThailand
    @JourneyinThailand9 ай бұрын

    Im a Buffalo, Walking ATM Dirty Farang in Thailand. There's No other way 🤷‍♂️ lol 😆

  • @michaelchristophergutierre7244
    @michaelchristophergutierre72446 ай бұрын

    Its easy for a man to not take the redflags seriously sometimes . it happened to me in tbe Caribbean. Alot of theses women that have tempers, exhibit self harm traits they might be bordeline and or bipolar.. As a older man 58, looking back at my younger self....A man has to have clear boundaries and standards. And stick to them ❤ "Nothing is worth more than your peace".

  • @Chawaniii
    @Chawaniii9 ай бұрын

    Dude talk about understanding thai mentality when he only choose to date women working in the sx industry BARgirl and other red district 😂 These boomers really are naive

  • @samhellion

    @samhellion

    9 ай бұрын

    Dude, boomers are like 70

  • @paulthurson

    @paulthurson

    9 ай бұрын

    @@samhellion well yes the oldest baby boomers are 77 this year and the youngest are 59 .. but yes Dan looks younger than 59 so probably not a boomer

  • @Chawaniii

    @Chawaniii

    9 ай бұрын

    @@samhellion he looks old enough to be one of them

  • @firstnamelastname8217

    @firstnamelastname8217

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@Chawaniiiokay zoomer

  • @samhellion

    @samhellion

    9 ай бұрын

    @@paulthurson my Gpop is 80 and technically a boomer.

  • @petersutherland1985
    @petersutherland19859 ай бұрын

    Only an optimist thinks they have a relationship with a prostitute😢

  • @afrivox

    @afrivox

    2 ай бұрын

    Sorry English is not my mother tongue. Is optimist a fancy word for idot?😂

  • @andrewmoss1135
    @andrewmoss11359 ай бұрын

    I like Dan but he’s far too forgiving when it comes to his wife and cuts her way too much slack.

  • @Dirk-Diggler77

    @Dirk-Diggler77

    9 ай бұрын

    What he mentions here is only the tip of the iceberg. There is a lot more to what he says here.

  • @Ghost_Rider_786
    @Ghost_Rider_7866 ай бұрын

    This chap comes across as a really good bloke ....but he's unlucky with the females ... He's gonna get burnt by his current wife I suspect ...He's super unlucky to have had a child with her ... hope things work out for him

  • @afrivox

    @afrivox

    2 ай бұрын

    He is definitely a good blood...AND for that he shouldn't have gone to Thailand for relationships. A little too late, unless he gives up his son, but he should leave Thailand and go be stable somewhere else

  • @bigal2417
    @bigal24179 ай бұрын

    Cant believe im listening to you Dan, saying keep quite , back down etc with a Thai women, any drama i have had here was with bar girls donkeys years ago and just got rid of them. Find a real girl NO dramas ! All the girls ive dated over the years within a few meetings they know i wont tolerate drama or KEEP QUITE AND BACK DOWN ( sounds pathetic) man up you guys 🤣im not a weak guy who they could take advantage of.

  • @MONKLJ
    @MONKLJ9 ай бұрын

    I've had the same thing happen, when I left, she grabbed a butcher knife, and put it to her stomach, and neck to commit hari kari

  • @AluviumOSRS
    @AluviumOSRS7 ай бұрын

    I love Dan for what he's done and the principles he has. He is living the dream and I envy him 100% Right now I'm making the money, I'm addicted to it but I know my heart is in Bali in Indonesia. I should make a decision but I'm too connected to the cash and the every day in Australia. Good luck Dan and I hope you live your dreams in life to Thairish.

  • @leehodson1929

    @leehodson1929

    7 ай бұрын

    But that's the point he ain't living the dream got a wife who's a nutter working everyday for peanuts lumbered with a kid and constantly telling stories about guys getting ripped off in Thailand. Just another one of many westerners telling you how his own country is so shite and how great Thailand is but doing nothing but moaning about his situation. Unlike Pete who didn't let his d---k rule his head met a lovely educated girl and got a great life together never slagged off his own country or Thailand should take a leaf out of Pete's book

  • @michaelchristophergutierre7244

    @michaelchristophergutierre7244

    6 ай бұрын

    Your post made me genuinely sad when u said ur addicted to money... life is short and on your death Bed your not going to asking to make more money. I hope you re-center and find out what's really important in life.

  • @AluviumOSRS

    @AluviumOSRS

    6 ай бұрын

    @@michaelchristophergutierre7244 Thank you for your open and honest feedback. Money is important to me right now to support my family. I have a son with special needs and I can't just up and leave my responsibilities behind. I'm not making money for me, I'm doing it for my family. One day hopefully living overseas will be a reality. We're doing well financially and get to travel to Bali twice a year but that sort of move is very expensive and it would be incredibly irresponsible for me to take my family overseas without some sort of nest egg behind me.

  • @afrivox

    @afrivox

    2 ай бұрын

    Is Dan your definition of living the dream? Mate...Please 😢

  • @AluviumOSRS

    @AluviumOSRS

    2 ай бұрын

    @@afrivox Not after his recent updates. No life is perfect.

  • @Kevin-jq8sj
    @Kevin-jq8sj9 ай бұрын

    When you visit Thailand you’ve gotta leave your heart at home.

  • @101kreger
    @101kreger9 ай бұрын

    another good one is thai talk with paddy, fyi

  • @danielgaba6579
    @danielgaba65798 ай бұрын

    As Dan says, narcissism or may even borderline, they tend to not being able to control or understand their own feelings, its all over the world, and you can't really do anything about it.

  • @danielgaba6579

    @danielgaba6579

    4 ай бұрын

    @@Tugela60 Its not funny really, they tend to destroy other normal people around them, it's a survival strategy for sick people both men and woman.

  • @stephendooley9386
    @stephendooley93869 ай бұрын

    Only thing - in a relationship western or there, it's not about being right, just apologise regardless & cool things down, & let them know you understand & listening

  • @AndiGomez-yu2dx

    @AndiGomez-yu2dx

    5 ай бұрын

    Apologies for something you didn’t do particularly wrong? No thanks, I’d rather stay single

  • @lostboi3974
    @lostboi39749 ай бұрын

    In America theyll leave you for no reason and take everything. 😂

  • @spoonkiller7elie
    @spoonkiller7elie9 ай бұрын

    this one will have many views. People just love hearing about bad stories from Thailand and see Thailand as a place for sex tourists

  • @nazleslie
    @nazleslie5 ай бұрын

    I am from Brunei and have been staying in Phuket since April 2023. In January 2024 recently, I met a mancunion guy who has the same age as me and started on the day we met, we spent everyday together for one week. He had been dated two thai bar girls before meeting me and he had bad experience with two of them until he met me. I was expecting he won't contact me again after he went back to UK but contrarily we speak together everyday on video call until one day he asked me to move to UK with him. I booked immediately one way ticket to Manchester which I will be leaving in April.

  • @alitarkcelikbas2896

    @alitarkcelikbas2896

    2 ай бұрын

    How did it go?

  • @Explorshon123
    @Explorshon1239 ай бұрын

    I feel like he's just described women everywhere. Maybe the way it's expressed as slightly different with Thai women. But in general women are very emotional and they're very different to us. And you never win an argument with any woman so..

  • @marshmallowpuff4899
    @marshmallowpuff4899Ай бұрын

    Yes marriage is for the kids . I have great respect for Dan . I hope it works out for him.

  • @noelmcgarry456
    @noelmcgarry4569 ай бұрын

    Pete, how is your subscribers going now, is it a steady climb or up and down, I came across your site in the early days

  • @clivebaxter6354
    @clivebaxter63544 ай бұрын

    We have argued if it's raining or not!

  • @DigitalNomadOnFIRE
    @DigitalNomadOnFIRE9 ай бұрын

    Captain Savaho in da house. 🤡

  • @Ben_Chode_420
    @Ben_Chode_4209 ай бұрын

    I love this guy mindset but maybe a little naive. Very true about people in the UK wearing masks...

  • @telchalone7115
    @telchalone71159 ай бұрын

    The visa is 11k pounds?!

  • @user-vg5rv5xf4u
    @user-vg5rv5xf4uАй бұрын

    She threatened suicide 😂

  • @tookay5
    @tookay59 ай бұрын

    where is the screaming chipmonk? :)