My son, my son (1940)
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A self-made success is determined to give his son the lavish upbringing he himself was denied. Not surprisingly, the son grows up to be spoiled rotten, causing grief and pain to everyone who loves him.
Director
Charles Vidor
Writers
Howard Spring (novel by) Lenore J. Coffee (screenplay)
Stars
Madeleine Carroll, Brian Aherne, Louis Hayward
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He was such a wonderful dad, but he thought not giving his son any discipline was showing his son love! However, discipline the right way is done because of love, not in spite of it!❤
@robertdesantis6205
11 ай бұрын
I had a father of grown boys tell me sadly he wished he'd read the book of Proverbs when his children were young. Now, it was too late.
@rescuepetsrule6842
15 күн бұрын
"Train up a child in the way he should grow and when he is old, he will not depart from it." Proverbs 22:6. Proverbs 13:24 speaks of not sparing the rod. I know a family that trains Dogs to do all kinds of tricks, but their own children were never "trained" (disciplined) and ran amok in town.
I was eating and the ending saddened me so much that I stopped eating. Oh why are old movies so good and unforgettable? I will never forget this story My son,My son.
The child actors in this movie are better than adult actors in today's movies.
Covered an entire lifetime of relationships. Wonderful movie. It shown life's complicated emotional issues. ❤ Enjoyed this watch entirely. Didn't want it to end.
“Greater love has no man but this, that a man lay down his life for a friend.” ❤️❤️Wonderful movie 👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
A sad yet powerful story. Sometimes the truth hurts more than is possible to bear. A great message to ponder about. Yes, worth watching again.
@jubalcalif9100
Жыл бұрын
Well said and well put.
The old ones are the best! Thank you so much; I loved it.
Wonderful Brian Aherne!
Thank you for giving me the chance to watch this wonderful movie.
As a father who remembers being a son, indeed t'is not always obvious. A great film! Bravo... funny how good films were before hocus-pocus replaced great dialogue. Only wish could get my son to watch such wise old films. His day of wisdom concerning his father's love, like my own, will likely come a stroke of fate too late.
A cautionary tale. One sadly too many parents have missed. Just look around? Olivers EVERYWHERE!
@pannamal5182
2 жыл бұрын
Every generation and political atmosphere has brought this on.
@Sunny25611
Жыл бұрын
Yes
@Sunny25611
Жыл бұрын
@@pannamal5182 Yes it’s an unholy mess.
@mariahbrown2167
10 ай бұрын
A good example is right in the White House now!
@dawnfunck8928
8 ай бұрын
@mariahbrown2167 the prime example was the lying, adulturist rapist that got booted out during the last election.
One of the most beautiful portrayals of friendship and fatherhood that is worth more than one viewing.
@marjorjorietillman856
Жыл бұрын
This is my first time seeing this movie, and it’s definitely worth a second watching. I had to repeat some of the scenes, because I wasn’t sure what Oliver did to the young woman to cause her to commit suicide??? The only thing I could think of is, he possibly got her pregnant against her will 😮??
In the second part of the departer scene b/w William and his son Oliver, the hesitant tension of an embrace was powerful and perfectly timed and sequenced, rightfully holding back on it but not giving it; to rouse the watcher to wanting more from it. Well Well done .
Brian Aherne, a good English actor, born in Worcestershire, lived and died in NY, America. He was first married to Joan Fontaine, and divorced after 6 years. He remained married for 40 years to his 2nd wife until his death in 1986, age 83.
@eshaibraheem4218
2 жыл бұрын
@@gigihess4229 Did he?
@poorthing
2 жыл бұрын
@@eshaibraheem4218 I have a couple biographies on Marlene Dietrich, one written by her only child, Maria Riva. She documents her Mothers (many) love affairs. Some lasting years with stars like John Gilbert, Douglas Fairbanks jr, Yul Brynner & Brian Ahern. Marlene managed to stay married to Maria's father for over 50 years, part of their arrangement included the husbands mistress. They all coexisted and Maria wrote openly about all of it. Fascinating book. Brian Ahern & wife Fontaine were avid aviators, they even set records I believe. Joan was a fascinating woman too.
@sabine4759
2 жыл бұрын
@@poorthing Correct! I read the same book too, I 'm German , so was
@alfredbonnabel7022
2 жыл бұрын
@@gigihess4229 Who didn't have an affair with Marlene...
@jubalcalif9100
Жыл бұрын
One of my favorite stars. A truly fine actor and classy gentleman.
The most I liked about this movie is it's dialogues. Simple, true and heart-touching. I feel so lucky to have stumbled upon this movie.
@jubalcalif9100
Жыл бұрын
I heartily concur !
Wonderful, understated acting in this movie and a poignant story.
@jubalcalif9100
Жыл бұрын
I certainly have a notion to second THAT emotion !
What a story… until the very end, Oliver had no empathy. So glad he was finally with the woman he truly loved.
Louis Hayward is perfectly cast in this play. One of Britain's best! And, I was introduced to Brian Aherne when I saw him portray Max von Hapsburg in a 1939 film- "Juarez"~ among his finest roles.
@leelarson107
11 ай бұрын
I never liked Louis Hayward. 💣 Or his intimate relationship with Noel Coward.💣
@DavidRice111
11 ай бұрын
@@leelarson107 Have to agree- such perverse relationships put me off as well!
Wonderful story. Good movie. Louis Hayward was the best of brats. Brian Aherene is always good. Josephine Hutchinson was an old soul. I've watched this movie now for the 3rd time. I just seem to see or hear something new each time. Thank you.
Wonderful film, top notch cast and script. Thank you for this gem.
I love Brian Aherne.
@jubalcalif9100
Жыл бұрын
A truly gifted actor.
The simplistically life of old when a chance meeting lasted long enough for a walk so that man truly looked at woman and saw the beauty and intelligence of her and she fell in love with the twinkle in his eye and not the thickness of his wallet..
Long movie but didn’t seem long because it was constantly changing onto the next stage of their lives and boy was that a tearjerker movie at the end. 😭
I had no idea what this was about but so glad I watched it. Well written and the acting was superb. Thanks for sharing.
How many times through history the father and mother work to the bone to provide better for their children only for the children to turn out bad, spoiled, and pretty much useless and dependent on the parents unable to provide for themselves.
Very,very,intense movie of human relationships.Very,very well acted by all of the actors.Thank you,for showing this very well made film.
The main difference in these movies and the new ones is that you CARE about the characters in the old ones. Everyone in the new movies are superficial.
The only comment I have is - this is an awesome movie! Can't believe I've never even heard of it before, but so glad I accidently found it. I think the perfect word is "poignant".
@nancymcmonarch
Жыл бұрын
I'm surprised to learn it was a U.S. film, not a British production. As it's holiday time, I'll be seeking out more old Edward Small productions to watch with cocoa near bedtime. Get thee down the road, Hallmark Channel!
@jubalcalif9100
Жыл бұрын
Indubitably !
Yes, Brian Aherne was a very talented actor. I haven't seen much of this movie yet but I wonder how large a role Bruce Lester had. He, is also on my list of great actors.
Just for the record, the title is from the bible (2 Samuel 18:33), where King David spoiled rotten his son Absalom, who in turn turned against him and tried to take over Israel, and kill David.
I miss my 81 and 88. I adored my children more than life itself
Very good film. Thanks
Thank you so much for the wonderful movie!
Simply an AMAZING story! MARVELOUS movie...HEARTFELT scenes.. throughout the tale ! VIEWER .. finds themselves Caught-up in the emotional aspects of the 'various volitile Relationships' within the extended families, which cause a feeling of 'personal upheaval' within several members of the family & friends. The VIEWER... gets to the point where they feel as if .. they are ... there ! Well done and thrilling ENDING. Wonderful MOVIE. NHP
😃Great movie 🎥Thank you 🥰👍Sept . 19 , 2023
A good film thanks.
Loved the Irish sentiment .
Crazy about Madeline Carroll. She left her Hollywood career when her sister was killed in an air raid during WW 2. She volunteered her services to avenge her sisters killing.
every one of these old movies is the best movie ever made. anything newer is godless trash. oh the sobbing, the crying, the puddles of tears. what acting, what artistry. what brilliant moral content. if only hollywood still had the skill to make these movies the theaters would be packed.
@girlfromthebronxbywayofelb7288
2 жыл бұрын
I truly love aherne, especially in comedies. But..."puddles of tears"... you're kidding right? Just checking... But I do absolutely love a black and white movie, they are best!!!
A very touching story. Enjoyed it too. Shows the power of love and deception.
well that was so well written and acted by all ..thanks for posting ...tears for sure .
@jubalcalif9100
Жыл бұрын
I agree 100 per cent.
Great movie !Thanks for this freebie .Can't find this quality writing and acting in Hollywood or anywhere anymore.
@meichong8278
2 жыл бұрын
NO because today DIVERSITY managers and cultural appropriation police amongst others would render the story untellable
A tragic love story, well acted and filmed, and showing a good bit of history along the way. I love to see how people lived back then, and this had several interesting people to follow. TY!
Such a touching and well acted movie. I saw it years ago and was delighted to view it again. I enjoyed it just as much the second time around and will probably view it again at some point in time. Thank you so much for uploading this great movie that serves as a reminder that though life has its ups and downs, fidelity to goodness wins in the end.
@Sunny25611
10 ай бұрын
Beautifully said!
A good story, very well told; Thank-You for this!
Very fine movie. Thank you I enjoyed it.
I love the lighting and makeup. The heros, clean shaven and pale white. The ruffians and villagers, smudged and unclean. What a great way to influence the audience.🤣🤣
I just love these heart full dramas with everything in them , life in as hard as it is ,but always there’s a silver lining ! Thank you 🙏
@vivianstidham9596
2 жыл бұрын
This was one of the best movies I have ever seen. They don't make good clean movies like this anymore. It's a shame! The talent in Hollywood is not there anymore! It's been replaced with Filth. Our nation needs to stand up and reject the vulgarity and political brainwashing of the movie goer's. Movies today have no real story and our great actors and actresses that were so very talented! Hollywood produces trash from the bottom of the Barrell. I haven't gone to the movies in years because I refuse to pay money to sit through a movie and be insulted with Filth language and vulgarity! It's worth my time to watch great old movies!!
Thank you so much! This is the best movie I have seen for some time! However my mascara is all down my face. 🌷
@janaprocella8268
2 жыл бұрын
I have just found this I'm always searching for Noble films to watch.. They are life-saving
@pennyjosephides3927
2 жыл бұрын
I didn't even go to the bathroom.. So not to miss a second...
@gailjarvis2592
2 жыл бұрын
@@pennyjosephides3927 Charming sentiment.
@carolynjohnson5358
2 жыл бұрын
0
@yasminedey8612
2 жыл бұрын
Mine too 😭
I love When Oliver.. deeply understands ... He was wrong and defended his mother?... Why, did he do it? ... is the Question? ... he needed a parent and guidance NOT a play pal ... OLIVER avoided a well deserved thrashing .... consider if his antics would have been ✋ stopped then? ... he might have been a better child and later adult ... 👏 It's about right and wrong... and being a good parent !!! Not just a gift giver ... love cannot be bought... Morality is taught by real love and example ❤
@drpatrickbarry
Жыл бұрын
That was wired; afterwards he continued on being obnoxious
quite good, Aherne was exceptionial
I've never heard or seen this , but it looks and they act so good. I'll watch it
Beautiful movie thank you 😊
These films are what 'dreams are made from' !
@jubalcalif9100
Жыл бұрын
Just like the Maltese Falcon !
Very good ! Thank you 😊
this is my first time seeing this movie and i am enjoying it thank you for the posting
Makes me glad l'm raising my yorkie instead of kids. Great movie 🎬! Thanks for the upload 👍 😀.
@patricialescano8323
2 жыл бұрын
LOL!
@claucemicro1080
2 жыл бұрын
😂
@appletongallery
2 жыл бұрын
That’s really sad
@elyenidacevedo1995
2 жыл бұрын
@@appletongallery no it's not lmao 😂
@appletongallery
2 жыл бұрын
@@elyenidacevedo1995 Why are you laughing to the point of crying?
A touching and well acted story.
I have read most of Howard Springs books, my son my son is the best…❤️🇬🇧
love these old movies! they need to go back and start writting stories like this...dont need sleazy, moralless, plotless, stories with overpampered stars with millions of dollars spent...they started going down hill in the late fifties and got worse...glad hollywood has been taken down hopefully they will clean up their act when they come back
@Sandra-gk3ct
2 жыл бұрын
Nowadays it's 'predictive programming'.
@meichong8278
2 жыл бұрын
The truth is they COULDNT do movies like this now .... the diversity manager would demand a major re write of the story to make sure of representation of all minorities , Faith's and sexual deviancy... the story would take a back seat ..... representation and equity is all .I'm just glad we are able to get uploads that havent been butchered and scenes and characters taken out to pass todays moral code rendering it unwatchable .I'm with you .... just love these old movies
I never realised Louis Hayward was so short! Anyway, thank you again, Andrei.
Good movie
Wrong move! He could have sent her to France to have the baby and then adopted it with livia. He has always acted like he didn't have a spine. Tsk tsk
@c.a.savage5689
2 жыл бұрын
I agree. He (the father) seemed determined to ruin his life one way or the other. How to make a bad situation worse: marry the considerably younger woman who is pregnant even though you're in love with someone else. That there's a semblance of a happy end is miraculous.
@jeannettekim2748
10 ай бұрын
It was a good movie but I wish they would have included the mention of the mother towards the end..she was right in the discipline of Oliver while growing up!
Second watching of the terrific movie🇬🇧
Quite a tear jerker!
Drama is spread all over his bread
Thank you! I enjoyed it a lot !!! ♥️♥️♥️
What a top melodrama, can't believe I haven't seen it! Thanks so much for the share, it made my night.
My dear grandfather and grandmother went through the WWII. Living in Rotterdam, with two toddlers. There have been times where I heard some of their stories through my mother (one of the toddlers then). They lived by the day, "one didn't know if one would still be alive the next day". I was always happy staying over at their place because there was such respect !! They had seen the uglyness of human behaviour in the war especially and they had this attitude too of "chin up, shoulders beneath the load/burden that one in this life had to carry". In a way the equivalent of going upwards, onward - excelsior 🎯💯. Whatever came on their way, incl. the death of their grandson (in the seventies) at the age of twelve, "they kept on" through it. Honour, selfdiscipline, loyalty, courage and picking up life again and again after ordeals. And even at a time of financial difficulty, there was always room for one extra.💞. They had values. This movie reminded me of them. A breath of fresh air - this movie and script. Thank you 🎀. Especially since the world is "slip-sliding away" concerning all the mentioned above. I'm sorry to say that in these days a remake of this movie, made within it's time-line..., would be an impossibility beyond measure. May God bless you and your extended ones 💐 Sincerely in Christ Jesus, 💖🕊️
@NancySanders-om4ic
3 ай бұрын
You were so,so fortunate to have grandparents,a family like yours.Thank you,for sharing your wonderful,loving family with others on KZread.Peace.
@a.deewai3181
3 ай бұрын
@@NancySanders-om4ic Hi. 💐 The way you emphasized quote : "I've been so, so fortunate to have such grandparents" (wich I've been 😏), in a way made me wonder - with all due respect (!!) for you - and ask you an honest heartfelt question... Are YOU doing ok ? I wish it for you, but if you have been or (maybe still) are in a difficult situation - you're free to contact me. Ok ? And this is with all due respect from the heart 💞💯. 💌 God bless 💝 !! Sincerely in Christ Jesus, 💖🕊️
What a lovely movie. I watched a lot of old movies but never saw this one.
A real tearjerker, wonderful film.
Oh my gosh! This movie is so good! ❤️😢
A lovely drama, quite enjoyable, thank you.
Wow corny but powerful movie - I loved every minute of it. Thankyou
@garyolsen3409
2 жыл бұрын
Corny? We must be watching different movies.
Sweet! Great acting. I loved it!!!😊😊😊😊😊
Oliver was a psychopath. He couldn't feel empathy towards anyone.
Thank you. Good channel.
What an amazing film, thank you ......
Thank you! ❤
Excellent movie
Such a great movie !
Outstanding!
"The Narcissist Son" more accurate title. That's hiw the behaviors are diagnosed.
From what we've heard about Louis, he was playing himself...😏 Also, he puts me in mind of Hugh Grant.
@Catssandra13
9 ай бұрын
I haven't ever read anything about Louis's childhood or upbringing, all I know is that he was one fine actor in every single film I have seen him in. Check out "Ladies in Retirement", where he stars with Ida Lapino, whom he was married to at the time. Look for his films here on KZread, there are quite a few. And - he was definitely a lot more accomplished and classy than Hugh Grant, imo!
@miapdx503
9 ай бұрын
@@Catssandra13 I love that film, Ladies in Retirement. I've probably seen it half a dozen times. I think I've seen everything with Ida Lupino, also what she's directed. Amazing woman. And I agree with you about Grant. I just saw a physical resemblance. 😏
@Catssandra13
9 ай бұрын
@miapdx503 Yes I see what you mean about the physical resemblance. Ida was certainly an amazingly talented actress and director, so much talent and not enough recognition. I actually discovered her films here on YT, so I am grateful for the people who upload these classics.
Makes me think of the ways I have indulged my son!!!🧐
@lisashapiro4714
Жыл бұрын
I used to love indulgence to my kids. With love kindness empathy and show how to act in this is right this is wrong ..and ofcourse spoil them after learning new lessons :)
This has been made, remade several times - all good ones.
Such an amazing movie!🎥
Yes very rare that we see story’s of Father and son/child, even the beginning when the midwife dismisses the father as if he’s nothing. How men are misunderstood and women can takeover their role. Really good movie
Malaysia movie was adapted this movie with title is "anakku sazali" very sad and more moral message
Some people are just born evil. Good actor.
repentance is a beautiful thing!
I enjoyed watching this movie, 🙏
Wonderful movie!Is it just me or does Brian Aherne look a bit like Kevin Kline??Anyhow,so glad to have seen this gem.
This film was great in demonstrating just what happens when you spare the rod and spoil the child. Could of written a better outcome to Maeve's situation though. Louis Hayward was a favorite of mine among British actors. He like many other soldiers came back from WW2 with PTSD that was known as "Shell Shock' or "Psychiatric collapse" back then. There was no rehab or resources to help these vets deal with the scars of war. His wife n' actress Ida Lupino couldn't keep their marriage together and he told her to divorce him.
Here in 2022 looking at the movies today,and in our betrayal of modern life one has to think with all our gadgets and sophiticated ways we have left a part of ourelves behind, the part that made us human! Now the world celebrates those who are like Oliver, the truly honest people get shoved aside and the calouse and ruthless people lead our world to a place where most of us will find no lasting happiness. Let us hope we can find it in our hearts to change this for all our sakes!
What you get from spoiling
just great!!
I really like Madeleine Carroll's and Laraine Day's characters in this film. Not many father/son dramas feature such interesting heroines.
Great movie by all standards
A file film for a balcony watch