Everything you said in the beginning could have been my life. I did not grow up in a family that told you how pretty you were. Nor did they give kisses and hugs. I grew up under a firm foundation of being proper and a lady. I did not discover that I was pretty until in my late 50’s and by that time I didn’t care. I found my beauty just like you in my surroundings. In my family…and I do not put makeup on daily. I do not put makeup on to go to the store, but I do put makeup on to go to something special. I live in the country and nature helps ground me. The road to beauty must come for everyone at different stages but my best description of that road is total contentment! ❤

@LittlePoet

11 ай бұрын

We women share so much in common...ther is so much pressure put on us to " look and act a certain way. It seems we only have the courage to break free as the wisdom of age over takes us...and we can breathe.....it feels so good! My love to you, Susan & Sweet Boy Dez

@kathleenmiller2119

11 ай бұрын

You are so talented Susan! Your words resonate in my soul. You have such a talent for making your videos. They are filmed and edited so thoughtfully and always with such a beautiful message. I look forward to every Saturday night!

@socorromolina-sm9vy

11 ай бұрын

​@@jeanettec6212 I'm sorry that your dad said those cruel words to you! especially as a Lil girl 😢

@sheilafae

11 ай бұрын

I haven’t felt pretty in a long time. At 62, I wear makeup and feel better about my appearance than if I don’t wear it. I am having a hard time accepting that I am growing old; I know my worth is not found in my face but the development of marionette lines, wrinkles, saggy neck and jowls is doing me in.

@annahayes1007

11 ай бұрын

@@kathleenmiller2119 viewing from France, Susan's video is the first thing I do, with a cup of coffee, of course!

Susan. You are so inspiring. My twin sister and I were born to two young people who had no business being married let alone being parents. Our brother was a result of their honeymoon and we surprised them two years later. Our mother told us from the time we were small that if we worked hard at it we would be attractive but we weren't pretty like her. We are 74 now and Mom has been gone for over 25 years but the words still are imbedded in our minds. A funny thing happened a few years ago and I'll share. We had taken a trip to the little town my parents had grown up in. We lived there until we were three. We were 69 years old on that day. We parked the car and decided to walk the street we lived on. A few houses from our old house a lady spoke from her porch. She said "You must be Erdean Midgleys twins! " I asked her how she knew and she replied "You look just like her!" Well that was amazing because we always thought she was beautiful and we were plain. That's what she told us our whole lives. We smiled all the way home. It was a good trip!

@maynicolas3222

11 ай бұрын

Very touching

@aviewer9516

9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story. I understand what you mean by having parents that had no business being parents unfortunately. It is amazing what words stick to our soul like oil.

@Jkaye13

9 күн бұрын

I'm sorry that you had to hear that from your mother.. words hurt as much as actions and they are just as hard to heal from. You obviously turned out to be much more beautiful than your mother.. she only had beauty skin deep.

Thirty two years ago when I got married my mom told me that if I didn’t wear makeup every day my husband would come home from work (with a made up and gorgeously clothed secretary) and see me without makeup and instantly have an affair. Isn’t that crazy? It’s been just recently that I got an eye infection and couldn’t wear makeup that I noticed how wonderful it was not to wear it all. It’s akin to burning my bra! Haha! I will tone down my makeup quite a bit now, and the days I’m not going anywhere I will not wear ANY. And if my husband magically becomes so shallow as to leave me because of it…well, I’ll get myself a little apartment and a little dog …because someone incredibly strong that I know on KZread inspires me that I will be okay 🥰

@sharonholiday-jr8kk

5 ай бұрын

EXCELLENT COMMENT. BRAVO. 👏👏👏👏 Moving on down the Road.. 🎈

@Jkaye13

9 күн бұрын

Wow! You're mom knows little about men because it's a known fact that most men would rather women didn't wear makeup! They like us natural! Not all 'made up'.. I wore makeup growing up and liked how l looked wearing it.. only to find out that my boyfriend, now husband, has never liked it, and asked me one day "why do you wear so much makeup? You look better without it.." I think we women wear makeup to have men find us attractive, because we think we are attractive with it on.. and what a shocker to find out that they could care less! But if it makes US feel better, then put it on! 😊

I have never felt more beautiful than when I would pull my car into my daughter's yard at their farm and before I could open my door & exit my car, my three grandchildren would run out of the house or around some corner of the yard, yelling, jumping, and waving their arms and converging on me, screeching "Grandma Judy!!!" ❤

Susan if you love makeup, wear makeup. Let it be your choice. ❤ You are beautiful inside and out. I am the happiest I've been in years. Almost 16 months since Jerry died, and I am moving on and moving forward. Acceptance was the key. I love you and Desi.❤

I grew up always feeling beautiful because my dad told his 7 daughters they were beautiful. I put on makeup when I go out and I love how i feel looking in the mirror but I feel even prettier walking my 4 mile walk each day. I love the energy I feel and just knowing I’m a healthy 70 year woman😄❤️

@suzannemeade6335

11 ай бұрын

You were lucky. My dad never praised me but made sure I was belted and critized.

@annahayes1007

11 ай бұрын

That is great. I always tell my friends who have children, to tell them how smart they are as well.

@Glorydancer333

11 ай бұрын

Suzanne: I am so sorry. You didn't deserve that treatment. 🩷🤍🩷

Susan, I'm 69 years old and never go out of the house without make-up. I don't have the confidence, like my mother, grandmother and older sister to go make-up free. I use make-up to "feel better" about myself. I admire women that don't feel the need to wear it. I'm just not one of them! You always look so beautiful and classy. I admire the way you take care of yourself. Just had to put my two cents in! ❤

@jennieforcum5396

11 ай бұрын

I’m there, too. I’m 68, wear makeup daily, and I feel good about this part of ‘taking care of myself.”

@ashleybergstrom8934

11 ай бұрын

I am there also. Agree.

@mimiv8766

11 ай бұрын

Interesting she didn’t say she’s giving up coloring her hair so 😉

@streaming5332

11 ай бұрын

You can go without makeup but hair colour is non negotiable unless you want to look old before your time.

@DebbieDebcor1

11 ай бұрын

I wear makeup for me because it boosts my confidence. 👍🏼

Hi Susan, I am 66 year old lady that was raised in Michigan. I've been divorced for 24 years and alone. I have had to move around due to changes in my job. I spend so much time alone. I've been away from Michigan for 12 years. I have been in this state for one year and don't know anyone other than the people I work with. I have 2 cats that really keep me Company. I really look forward to listening to you every week. So many things you talk about is really useful to me. I'm going to try and get out more and enjoy my new area. I have recently changed my hair. I got it cut shorter and no longer straighten it. I have started to work with my natural curls. I've gotten a few compliments that they like it better curly. Thank you again for having your weekly channel!! Lori

@Faithful10415

11 ай бұрын

I admire your resolution to get out more and meet people I hope you find a true friend (or friends) In the movie Little Women (the one with Susan Sarandon as the mother) Amy says “you don’t need scores of suitors, you only need one”. I think that can apply to friends too. All the best to you!

I loss my husband over 3 months ago, and I just turn 60 in February.. I celebrated my 60 in the top of happiness with my soul mate, but now everything is turning upside down for me. Then I found your channel, I love you and Desi so much. You make my day nicer, I love your channel very much, thank you❤

@truthbetold6942

11 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss😢

@dianaschoen4485

11 ай бұрын

❤❤🙏

@pamsmith7369

11 ай бұрын

It’ll get better. Do what you love whether work, hobbies, volunteering, socializing; people will come to you.

@kimim2702

11 ай бұрын

You have my deepest sympathy for your loss.

@gwenhatcher7542

11 ай бұрын

♥️

I used to be horrified at the idea of leaving the house without makeup. I stopped wearing it during COVID and never looked back. I don't color my hair any more either. I've embraced my silver-taupe hair. I eat healthy and exercise and I no longer worry about the number on the scale. I am learning my real beauty comes from who I am, and that I am a good, kind and loving person. That kind of beauty is available to us all!😊

@MattieVera1910-gv7ds

11 ай бұрын

I did too. During the pandemic I stopped makeup and allowed my hair to grow gray. And I feel pretty good just running out to grab a few groceries or something unplanned .

Oh, Susan I was a very homely young girl. I was tall, thin and gawky. I work ridiculously ugly ,brown, octagon shaped glasses. And my mousy brown curly hair was not my "crowning glory" by anyone's standard. I was 15 when I FINALLY began to look decent. I got contacts, had a few curves (not much), learned to do my hair and use makeup. Yes, I did look fairly good. However, I still felt like the ugly little girl that never was told she was pretty. It took quite a few years to realize and accept that I had, indeed, become an attractive woman. I'm not bragging, please don't think that. My road to beautiful, at 62, has become all about being authentic and true to myself. It's been about giving myself grace and accepting my flaws. It's been about celebrating my wins, however small and not dwelling on loss. I am taking control of my life in a way I never had before. Inner peace and contentment have replaced stress and turmoil, and it shows. Happiness softens your features, especially the eyes. Beauty has taken on a different meaning. I must say I missed seeing Desi in his backyard this time. It just makes my heart soar every time. I'm so happy for you both.

@ashleybergstrom8934

11 ай бұрын

I missed seeing Desi in the yard too!! Makes me happy.

@Glorydancer333

11 ай бұрын

You really spoke a lot of truth in this post. Thank you for sharing.

Thank you Susan for all your encouragements : Growing up in Irleand, ☘ born a natural copped Redhead, No freckles , Also. Born with Hazel green eyes, as a teenager, Blonds were more In the limelight, today as an 80yr old senior, I have raises my family, now a widow 51yrs married To my love❤ of my life, My husband passes 2016(husband' name Desmond , Desi for short ) And. now find ,I am proud of my soft Irish voice Because I get many compliments, I am not usually boastful, yet welcome the opportunity to express whom Imam as a woman. Ps So happy to hear you had a nice Date. , *you smiled a lot. Mary Canada 🇨🇦

@barbraprosper9065

11 ай бұрын

❤

@janonthelam3418

11 ай бұрын

My dear Mary, we have so much in common and Susan has made us this special meeting place. ♥️🇨🇦

@lindafrazier8092

11 ай бұрын

❤ your comment! Can relate!

Susan, thank you for your story. I grew up being told that I was ugly, so ugly. My dad would say that I was so ugly he was going to have to pay someone to marry me. Maybe he thought this was funny, but at 8 yrs old I just believed him. My step brother and sister chimed in repeatedly. I’m 60 now, still trying to believe something different. It’s a daily battle. Thank you for the beautiful insight. I needed this now.

@Anne-pk8gs

11 ай бұрын

I’m sorry they did that to you. Do what makes you feel beautiful for yourself, everyday for the rest of your life!

@ashleybergstrom8934

11 ай бұрын

Gosh, that is terrible! I am so sorry you were told that, kidding or not. I bet you are pretty and just don't see it. What an awful thing to do to a child!

@anitadeponte1699

11 ай бұрын

How terribly sad and heartbreaking for you! I just know that you're a most beautiful lady, inside and out. Don't ever forget that. Anita from South Africa ❤

@gigics6695

11 ай бұрын

I am truly sorry you experienced such unkind and insensitive comments as a child. For whatever reason, it certainly said more about them than it ever did about you! Nonetheless, I hate to think how that must have, unfairly, impacted you. Tell yourself, OUTLOUD, EVERYDAY, that you are beautiful! Not that you do not already know it’s truth, but as a reminder to live out your beauty as well as to see the beauty in every aspect of your life/world…. In spite of the dissonance playing at this time. God bless you!

@gloriasaliba3395

11 ай бұрын

Some parents are just clueless - disregard those words

It didn’t matter how many people told me I was pretty, I knew that the clear message I got from my parents was that I was plain. It wasn’t until I had my son at age 42, and as he grew into toddlerhood he would say the sweetest things to me. I spoke sweetly to him, and I guess he learned that is how to act. He is 23 now, and I am so grateful this amazing son was placed in my life and made me realize that God made me beautiful and special enough to be his Mom. I realized that it had to come from me and how I spoke to myself. I learned to speak kindly to myself, because I am enough…

@Jkaye13

9 күн бұрын

Yes you are! Pretty is something we feel on the inside.. and not how we look on the outside.

@Katrn30

9 күн бұрын

@@Jkaye13 thank you ❤️

I really loved this video! I could relate to so much of this video! When I was young, my step mother told me that if I wanted to be beautiful….I had to have what people called… my Marilyn Monroe beauty mark… burned off! I was crushed! Not that I knew who Marilyn Monroe was at that time… but that someone I thought cared about me … thought that I was ugly enough to have my face burned! I was so devastated that I did not want anyone to look at my face! Somehow I made it to my teens… when things got even worse! I had to get glasses AND braces! So now I am called 4 eyes, metal mouth… and dirty face! My family never corrected those ugly words… ever! I was the only girl out of a slew of boys. No one to teach me what being a girl was supposed to be! It was a difficult time that I would not want to revisit…. Unless I could take what I know now back with me to do it over differently! I turned out just fine…. Married, 4 children and 15 grandchildren…. However… my husband of 25 yrs. Did leave me for someone younger and prettier! I am happy being single and living my life joyously! My children and grandchildren… think that I am awesome and beautiful!🥰

@pamsmith7369

11 ай бұрын

You go, girl! I was never told I was pretty. Told I was gangly, pigeon toed, ET neck, 4-eyes, uncoordinated. I grew into my face and got better looking as I aged. Men would stop me in the grocery store and tell me how pretty I was! I keep in shape by teaching Pilates and yoga so that’s what I focus on; not so much my face. Inner beauty is more important, anyway!

@gigics6695

11 ай бұрын

…and you ARE awesome and beautiful!

Susan...my deepest thanks for sharing this stunning message today. After 30 years of being devalued and made to feel as if I was never good enough, I am learning in living on my own in a new community, it is about who I am at my core. People respond to kindness and compassion. I still like to get dressed every day and put on light make up for myself, but part of my day is spent gardening and doing my chicken chores on my little homestead. I go for long walks with my dog, Finn who doesn't care how I look, but cares whether I am loving toward him. I am enjoying my new home but it is far more about creating a welcoming space to share with family and friends, a place where people can feel safe and loved. Your videography skills are a visual treat. Your beauty shines from your heart and soul. I look forward to continuing to follow you on your journey as I traverse mine.

@adesign3755

11 ай бұрын

Beautiful said ! I agree ❤

You can just tell how happy you are inside . You have a glow about you that shows you're at peace with yourself . It's done you a world of good to move close to your family and let them experience some of your inner glow.

Hi Susan. Stay true to yourself. You love clothes and makeup. Keep being you. Don’t change because those around you are different. You are a beautiful soul who loves fashion and makeup. Don’t change to fit in. ❤

@ashleybergstrom8934

11 ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly. Who cares what the neighbors do??

@janetstraw191

11 ай бұрын

Susan, please don’t ‘throw the baby out with the bath water’! I try to live in ‘the real world.’ Looks have always and always will be important. We don’t necessarily need a full face of makeup - but just a little bit here and there makes ME feel better. I cannot imagine going out totally bare-faced. It’s just not me. You do not need to become ‘dowdy’ just because your neighbors are! 🥰❤️❤️❤️💕‼️

@beachseeker634

11 ай бұрын

I totally agree.

@patriciaeisert8483

11 ай бұрын

I totally agree too. I enjoy wearing makeup and want to look my best. I do it for me. I too hope she doesn’t change just so she can fit in. That would be a shame really.

@cherylmarshall6874

11 ай бұрын

That's the thought that i had as well. Don't give up the little things that bring you joy just to blend in with the crowd. Susan you are beautiful . You glow from happiness and confidence. Be proud, be true to your self. Lots of small town women have YT channels about decor, hair, makeup, clothing etc. Love ❤️ you!!

When you look better, you feel better. I don’t wear make up for anyone else. I do it for myself. I believe makeup helps protect your skin against the elements. I’m not ready to give up yet.

I love wearing makeup everyday ! It gives me a lot of self confidence I’m 71 ! I have been a very successful women in my life ! You do you and I do me 😘

@mimiv8766

11 ай бұрын

Susan, are you going to transition to gray too?

This video totally nailed life for the older woman. When you realize what true beauty is then and only then do you truly become beautiful 💕

My cousin whose a couple of years older than me said why do you care about makeup and skincare we are old and I said I’ve always been this way and will till I die and for 68 and suffered as much loss as I have I still look pretty good. Attitude is a big help, not giving up cause I’m a senior 💕

I lost my mother several years ago. She was the best mother anyone could ask for and some. My mother always lifted me up, she loved me, she said I was beautiful, smart and kind. She was proud of me. I miss hearing her voice and seeing her, she to this day, I knew she loved me unconditionally! Susan you are beautiful, smart and a very caring, kind person. Even if you may not hear it, we , your listeners love you and desi. Thank you for sharing.

@lisaschmidt8466

11 ай бұрын

I still have my mother and this makes me cry. I will feel like you when my mom passes. She’s my best friend.

@Elizabeth-arb22

11 ай бұрын

Your comment is beautiful! My mother was a lot like yours. She, too, is gone now, and I miss her so much. I agree wholeheartedly with your sweet comments to Susan. 💗 💗

@SheilaEnglish2

11 ай бұрын

You were very fortunate to have a mother like that. She sounds lovely.

“When I walk into a room they’re taking in how I make them feel.”That was so profound! That’s my mantra every morning, everywhere I go, at every door I open.

@LittlePoet

11 ай бұрын

I think it is 100% true...and it helps me to remember who I am

I was never told I was pretty either. I went to Catholic school for eight years and was very strict. I didn’t hear it from my parents I had to gain my confidence from within myself . Beauty is how we act toward others . I have been single for so many years and I don’t look for validation through others. I try my best each day to do my best and show up in the world .

@ookipuki

11 ай бұрын

You ARE beautiful and so sweet 💝 it's true.. we need to be kind. That is beauty within

@freezedriedak

11 ай бұрын

Me too, same experience, as if I wrote all of those words myself.

@lindafrazier8092

11 ай бұрын

👍❤️

@juliefizpatrick513

11 ай бұрын

Same:).

@nancystinger7393

11 ай бұрын

@@ookipuki ❤️

Don't throw any of your makeup away. I think that you are a somewhat polished person and that is a part of your personality and your persona. Maybe you can influence a few of the women around you to take it up a notch. I have recently gone to the store a few times with no makeup. I notice that I act differently and less confident and I don't like how it feels. If a little lipstick and blush makes me feel better, what is the harm? Like they say, "Any old barn looks better with a little paint on it" Hahahaha Sorry, I just had to go there.

@SheilaEnglish2

11 ай бұрын

I haven’t heard that saying about the old barn but now it will be part of my repertoire 😂

@cherylmarshall6874

11 ай бұрын

😊💖

I will always love wearing makeup, but less is better as I near 70. I am not ready to give it up altogether though. It’s too much fun! Desi is such a sweetheart. ❤🐶

@carola3046

11 ай бұрын

Oh, I so agree. I love putting on “my face” even though I have lightened up my look somewhat at 74. It’s fun, I enjoy the self-pampering, and it makes me feel good. It’s something I do for me.

Getting older has been such a surprising blessing. So much self imposed pressure is gone! Beautifully said.

I was a chubby teenager and was constantly told by my parents if I didn’t lose weight I would never have a boyfriend or get married! Grew up with no self confidence that I married the first man that wanted me. Divorce came after. Not until I matured and realized my worth did I marry my husband, now of 35 years. My 30 y/o daughter was told daily she was beautiful and smart. She is a confident and successful young woman. Beauty is so much more then makeup or a waist size. It is confidence and happiness! Thank you for your channel. I look forward every week to seeing you and Desi. You are beautiful inside and out. 😊

My Dad has never once told me I’m beautiful, not even on my wedding day! I spent a lifetime trying to get love and validation from him, but as I’ve grown older, almost 46 I have learned that I never needed to hear it from him. I just needed to know it for myself! Thank you for sharing your road to beautiful! Your humility, your ability to be vulnerable and your kind heart is the most beautiful aspect I see in you even though you are also a beautiful person on the outside.

@gloriayouchisonbrown7734

11 ай бұрын

Unfortunately a lot of people dont feel comfortable telling others How lovely they are, I grew up in an era where it was hard for parents To tell there children that they loved them and vice versa, but they had ways Of showing them, although not in words.❤

@gigics6695

11 ай бұрын

…or not, unfortunately.

I grew up just like you. no one ever told me I was pretty until I started dating my husband at 19, He made me feel so beautiful and pretty, even without makeup. But, I do have to say that I feel better about myself when I have a little foundation and some light lipstick on. Maybe because I'm 70 and I've worn makeup for so many years I feel naked without it. I also live in an area where most woman do not wear makeup, but I still do, and I always will, it just makes me feel pretty and that's important.

Sweet Desi!! 💙 He honestly looks sooo much happier!! I am so glad you are so happy in your new town!! 😊🩷🌞 Stay true to you!!

Susan, the road to beauty comes from within and you are showing us all the route. Much Love 👍🏼♥️🇨🇦

@barbraprosper9065

11 ай бұрын

❤🇨🇦

Any woman will always be beautiful to those who love and respect her.

My Mom never told me I was pretty but just the other day in the Supermarket a woman told me I had the most beautiful smile, she made my day!.....xxx Many greetings from Ireland....xxx

Just had my 62nd birthday last week. Life is filled with beauty. I am an elite stylist at Ulta and have worked with women of many ages and stages. I work each day to make my clients feel better. Listening to them, crying with them, uplifting them in times of sorrow. My husband and I also have an RV and go glamping when we can . Nature is immensely beautiful. I think it’s important to look and feel your best and to help others as often as we can .

This resonated so much with me. My sister was pretty with naturally platinum blonde wavy hair. I was a “plain Jane” with poker straight mousy brown hair, that my mother always said she could do nothing with. It wasn’t until I was 15 (in 1965) that I discovered that make up could transform me and I actually started to feel beautiful. I have worn make up ever since. Unfortunately, I don’t feel like me without it. If I don’t wear make up, I look very pale and sick. I’m 73 now, and could not go out of my front door even to walk my dogs without at least a little bit of make up on. I had a wonderful husband of nearly 50 years, who died 3 years ago. He always told me I was beautiful, and he was the only one who did. I do wonder why I don’t have the confidence to stop wearing it and just accept my own face without it. Thank goodness for little dogs who love you whatever you look like. ❤

@Jkaye13

9 күн бұрын

Your husband saw you without makeup, and still thought you were beautiful.. believe him

I, too, always put on my face for the day, just as my Grandmother did. After a bad car wreck seven years ago, I quit wearing makeup. It was too taxing to do so. Just recently, I started feeling like my old self, so I purchased some new products. I can't wait to try them out. You inspire me. Mimi

Hi Susan! Hi Desi! I love being in my 60s…..because I am trying new things and feeling good about myself finally. Looking for my little house……😊. I live in a condo right now and have my own bathroom for the first time……buying all kinds of things to make me look pretty…it’s fun! I’ve found some things on your Amazon site….thank you! I’m finally taking an interest again in wearing makeup and dressing nice….I have a glass of wine and sit on the porch with my dog and watch you.

Susan, this was such an important video today, my mother was a known beauty, people stopped and stared at her, she was petite, blond, stunning, I was red-haired and had freckles, she used to call me Fat Lotte, after some cartoon she knew, for many years I believed I was fat, an aunt once told me I had beautiful almond shaped eyes, I'll never forget how that made me feel. Sad all those wasted years thinking I was fat, and I never was.

@Jkaye13

9 күн бұрын

The power of words.. Even ones spoken that aren't true can have detrimental effects. So sorry your mother called you a name that affected your self image that way..

You are beautiful inside and out. I think back in our parents time, they didn't express or even know how to say things like we do now.

I love watching you and Desi! I'm turning 62 this month and wear some makeup everyday always have like you it made me feel better about me even as a teenager. I wanted to share a little story with you, my grandson turned 21 last week and wanted to have a shot with mom and grandma, so I put on makeup and got dressed up in boots and jeans and I felt pretty and thought not bad for 62. Then I saw the pictures, I had a mini stroke several years ago and one side of my face droops, I was devastated the pictures made me look so old. But you made me realize that I am still beautiful and can draw attention when walking into a room, just no pictures please!!!

This podcast really resonates with me. I look "washed out" without any makeup. So I wear makeup most of the time when I go out. However, my most joyful and meaningful activity is spending time in nature. Sometimes when I go out very early in the a.m., I just wash my face and put on sunglasses. I'm so happy that you're near your family and in a place you love, with natural areas easily accessible to you. Blessings to you and Desi! 💗

No one is more beautiful than a woman who knows her worth. Congratulations! This was one of the best posts ever. Thank you so much!

I feel your channel is important encouraging other women with your positivity. You are a good example of the road to beautiful with or without makeup

Do what makes you feel true to yourself and don’t change because others around you are doing something different.

@sarahd3980

11 ай бұрын

Truth

@christinehodder2747

11 ай бұрын

I totally agree

@louisebeck9912

11 ай бұрын

I agree, do what makes you feel good. I come from a small town in England and I'd say 90 % of the women my age ( I'm in my 50's) don't wear make up. I do. I love to get up and get made up. It gives me a bit of confidence to face the day ahead.

This really hit home. I'm 66 and retired now (not all the way by choice). When I worked, I wore makeup everyday. I was also obsessed with different makeup. In the last year though, I've lost interest in the daily makeup "routine". Too many other important things have happened. I don't wear my contacts as much, I do still like to put a little brow and a touch of color on my face, but I'm learning to be more comfortable in my own skin. My family was always very demonstrative and did give compliments. I'm now in the process of totally decluttering all makeup that doesn't fit me anymore. Beauty is from within. Much love and peace to you and Desi ❤and all of you out there ❤️ 🙏

Susan, you are such an inspiration to me. Growing up we never said “I love” nor hug . My mother was so strict. Listening to you made me realize that life is beautiful. Thank you .

Susan….I look forward to you every Saturday. Thank you for being here each week for us. ❤

With or without makeup, a smile is what people notice most 💕

@Jkaye13

9 күн бұрын

Totally agree with this! I have never seen a smile that wasn't beautiful..

I have felt myself getting more and more beautiful over the past 8 years when I , as you mentioned, took the time to realize AND put into action who I really am

Thank you for sharing your experiences regarding beauty, you bring me so much joy. Growing up I am 72 now and like you I was never told I was pretty. I have always felt that to this day, I avoid having my pictures taken of me, until I listen to you and your encouragement ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@cathyandresiak

11 ай бұрын

Really , you look very attractive in your picture.

@tweetybird4347

11 ай бұрын

You are definitely very pretty! Smile and take those pictures!! ❤😊

Susan- I can most certainly resonate with all you said. My goodness ! As we get older I think we get smarter. We realize that we now have more years behind us & things we worried about then don't matter anymore. We just look at life so differently now. We finally get it. My spiritual journey is becoming so much more. It's the simple things, the small things that mean more. Yes, just be yourself. It's enough. ❤️ It's all in good hands 🙏

I’m happy for you Susan. I’m just the opposite. After years of self neglect, I’ve re-embraced my enhanced beauty. If you don’t think people aren’t looking? I beg to differ. People are always looking. I’m weary of looking at the women around me who could care less about their appearance. Every time I wear a dress to the grocery store I get compliments. This makes me feel a change. That’s me, and you have you. Still - I love you, Susan.

@janetstraw191

11 ай бұрын

👏👏👏🇺🇸🙋‍♀️‼️

@patriciaeisert8483

11 ай бұрын

I totally agree❤

I simply love your videos. You have the sweetest spirit, and the joy you have is beautiful too. I wish you were my neighbor. I am a 72 year old living alone, and you bless me every week. God bless you ❤❤❤

My mother was a fierce and resilient woman who had to navigate the difficulties of single parenthood with grace and strength. Despite the challenges she faced, she always managed to provide for me and shower me with love. However, there was one thing that she never did - she never told me that I was beautiful. At first, it bothered me, but as I grew older, I began to understand that this was not a reflection of her love for me. It was simply something that she never learned herself. My mother's upbringing had been devoid of affection and praise, so it was not something that came naturally to her. Instead, she showed her love through her actions and unwavering support. Even though she is no longer with me, I cherish the memories of her and the love that she gave me every day.

The tears just came---I related to so much. I do believe, we really do always remember the way people made us feel ....rather than what was exactly done. Kindness is so beautiful. Susan, have a beautiful week! And Desi you always look so dashing!!

Great topic! I was never told I was pretty by my parents, either. Even when boys (and men :) started approaching me in my teens, it didn’t occur to me they thought I was attractive. When I entered my corporate career, other women started giving me advice on wearing makeup and styling my hair and clothes. I eventually developed a dependency on makeup to feel attractive and to be seen. At almost 70, I always wear a little makeup even to walk my dogs or run into a store, and for my husband. I have noticed, perhaps since the pandemic, fewer women wearing makeup and sometimes I feel overdone. It does give me a sense of confidence that I don’t feel without it. I still want to be seen in the world and know I have more to contribute at this age than when I was younger. So, in other words, I’m not ready to go without a bit of makeup :)

Susan, Just be you! My mama was the one with whom I talked with about makeup and fashion. She’s been gone now for almost 3 years. She was beautiful to her last breath with her beautiful cut and color and her adorable pjs. What can I say? It gives us joy and that’s what you do by sharing your eyeshadows and stylin’ purchases. Thank you! 💕💕💕

I really resonated with this one! Thank you for this! My road to beautiful was learning to be my own best friend. So much confidence and peace it that! You can still enjoy other people and all that relationships bring into our lives, but I think enjoying our own company is an important step in our "evolution". I'm 2 years older than you and I really admire you for making such a big change in your life. It's not easy at our age, but you not only did it, you embraced it. And you see beauty every day. I'm sure you know how blessed you are to just be YOU!

What a blessed life you are living! And that little Desi has got to be one of the cutest little dogs ever!

LP: Today's message truly resonated with me. My mother would tell me "you'll never be the most beautiful girl in the room but you can make yourself smart and interesting". What a message to give to a child! 19:58 I've spent a lifetime trying be interesting, clever, well rounded and informed. I have realized over the years that men want and gravitate towards perceived beauty. Somewhere along the way i became weary trying to get the attention and appreciation for who I was. I am so much more than the spackle I occasionally apply to my face. My attitude makes me an outlier to most of the women I know. Oh well.........

Susan…I have to say you seem so happy in your new little town, close to your family. I can’t wait to see more of your new surroundings.

I am 72, 53 yrs married to my college boyfriend & look forward to your wonderful videos each week. As a child, My mother used to say this phrase to me a lot : “You can’t make a silk purse out of a sow’s ear”! (Mainly as a self deprecating statement about herself, but it stuck in my head & I always used to relate those words to myself, as her daughter lol). We all live & learn over the years. Sending you my warmest greetings, happy vibes & a big hug from across the Pond in Cambridge U.K. ❤️🙋‍♀️🦉⚓️👩‍🎨🎨🧜‍♀️🌸🌼🙏

Wow! You're 68? You're absolutely fabulous. 🎉🎉 celebrate it, be yourself, enjoy it, love from UK xx

I love small towns! I thought that was Hal at the table with you. How the heck did you find a man to date so soon? LOL I didn't know you had an adult grandson. By the way, you were beautiful as a child and you are still beautiful, Sue. I'm glad you've changed your perspective on beauty. I've never been big on makeup and in the last few years I hardly wear any at all.

@gloriasaliba3395

11 ай бұрын

Each to their own!

I was a tomboy growing up, not very feminine at all. Fast forward to almost 65 in a couple of weeks. I wear makeup sometimes. Today, my hair in pigtails & a baseball cap walking my dog - that’s me in a nutshell…lol !

I wish I was strong like you. I was raised by a mother that never told me I was pretty bit beat me almost everyday and called me tramp where even at a age I didn't know what it meant. I've never loved myself and still don't know how. My husband Sister and furbaby passed away in 2017 within 3 months apart and my last sibling in 2021. I don't have anyone to turn to anymore. I have withdrawn and isolated myself in my apartment don't go anywhere except to get groceries and I do that at night. I wish I had your beauty and confidence. You're a sweet soul and I love watching you wishing I could feel like you do. My hair is very long and Grey I never get to go to a beauty salon etc. I do the best I can to look the best I can. You're so precious and very beautiful God bless you

Sounds like a good week, keep up the happy thoughts and positivity. I absolutely love little Desi he's just the cutest little fellow in his smart bow tie. See you both next week have a blessed one.

Another gem of a video, Susan. And just look at Desi, coordinating his colors with his bow tie to your pretty dress (or top)! ❤❤ ❤

Hi Susan, I certainly can relate. It is difficult for our looks to change. I have been feeling it at 66 . I don't care about the wrinkles much but the sag can get up and go any time now. I also never felt pretty in my teen years, as I got older I think I did at times. AS we get older I think we realize our spirit and our relationships are what is more important and our ability to to feel happy within ourselves. I don't wear much makeup anymore but I have to admit I do like it if it is put on right. Also makeup has so many chemicals in it I don't know just how good it really is for our skin. I am happy you are happy and moving was a good decision for you. Much love to you and Desi!

@sarahd3980

11 ай бұрын

Let me give you a different spin on makeup. I came from a strict religion where makeup was not allowed. Mind you, I never had problems getting boyfriends. I think my personality was a draw. In my 20s I started wearing makeup and guess what? Nothing changed as far as people were concerned but I loved my makeup. It made me feel better. And I never leave home without it!! The plain look is fine if you like it but never again for me.

You nailed it! It's taken me 62 years and I still sometimes slip into my old ways of needing outside validation. Before COVID I would NEVER go out without makeup. All those hours I could have been doing something else!

Love seeing Desi and you every week and wish you could post more than once a week.....Thank you for sharing your journey with us!

Wow Susan, you said something that has always been a wonder of mine. I was not told I was pretty either. I was loved by my parents and grandparents, but beauty never came up. So when you spoke about it, I really could relate. I was so shy growing up. Once I went to College, boys were paying attention to me. Suddenly I was pretty. I got more and more confidence for this reason. So much importance for a girl was how she looked. You would see it in Magazines and on TV. So I did wear make up by the age of 16. Being a city girl I have noticed is a big difference. We tend to wear make up. I actually feel so much better when I have on some blush and my make up. For me, to look in the mirror and like what I see gives me the confidence to do more. I'm happier. It's like a good hair day. If our hair looks bad we feel our whole look is ruined. I'm more outgoing and just feel better when I think I look nice. I think you are very pretty and if you like make up you should enjoy it. Your in a small town now, so that may be making you self conscious about yourself wearing it. I understand the whole being you thing, but for me my "look" is me. Young girls today don't wear much make up I noticed. In my day we had the Cover Girl natural look. But it was make up. We all have to know who we are and go from there. That's the important thing.I know who I am and I'm not one to not voice my opinion. I love all animals and am a huge music fan. I love your little town so much I want to move there every time I see you speak about it. Hello to sweet Desi and you two have a great week. I will be back to see you both.

Some beautiful people make the rest of us feel inferior……not all but some. So when I meet someone and they’re sweet, kind and caring ….no matter what their face or figure is like they are beautiful to me. Some of the most beautiful people I’ve ever met have been in their late 70’s or 80’s when maybe wrinkles have set in and not much or no make is worn, but the beauty of their souls shine through. My friend and neighbour was 100 when she died and a more beautiful person you couldn’t imagine. That’s real beauty. You’re looking radiant Susan….this move has certainly been good for you….I’m so very pleased. Desi is a star and if you want beauty then just look into his little face. God bless you both 🌸

Love the fireworks❤ you must be so proud of your son and his family. It must of been so nice to see your grandson..❤ I hope your date went well.. how is HAL doing? Has he come down for a visit yet? Thank you for everything you’ve shared. Have a blessed weekend..loves and hugs to you and Desi❤❤

@peanutcampbell

11 ай бұрын

I was hoping Hal was her date

@tweetybird4347

11 ай бұрын

​@@peanutcampbellMe too! 😢

I can’t tell u how much I enjoy your channel! I too am 68 and live alone. I feel as if you are a very good friend! I wore makeup everyday since I was 13 and now I very seldom do! I feel it isn’t necessary and yes everything you said about finding the beauty around me is so true. Thank u so much for sharing your friendship with me! I truly appreciate you…and Desi of course!😊😊

Susan, You have arrived! You are the best You... because you know what really matters is being the real you. That's why so many people love and follow you and look forward to seeing you every week . We relate to you . Breathe in and enjoy every minute of this season of living ! Being a beautiful women on the outside and inside to the heart! We will all support and be here ready to enjoy the next visit! ❤

My husband fell in love with me because I was just myself. I was still hurt after a bad relationship. So, hubby and I dated for a year. No pressure, no games and I didn't care how I looked or what he would think of me. I was astonished that the more that I treated him like a friend I happened to love, the more he wanted me. That really taught me so much. Beautiful is whoever you are and however you look. I'm with you on makeup Susan. I have mine pared down to 4 products: Stick foundation, cream blush that's also lip gloss, brown kohl eyeliner pencil that doubles as eyeshadow and a little mascara. And confidence! Love to you and Desi xx

Susan you are very sweet, thankyou for your videos. My husband left my 2 children and myself whilst living abroad many years ago, it was very hard on us, especially as my children were still at school,. He left us for a family Friend, but I fortunately met a lovely man that is a sincere , wonderful person after returning home to UK . I got my second chance of love.😊 sending hugs xx

This weeks video was a trip down memory lane for me. Back in our generation things were a lil bit different, women were suppose to be seen not heard, boy things have changed . You look so happy’ and Desi’ well let’s just say he’s a ⭐️ ! A smile in your heart and on your face is the most beautiful thing in the world. 🥰

I am your age Susan. When I don't wear makeup, everyone tells me I look sick. I feel blah. I feel ugly. I never care what others are doing around me. I do me and am true to myself. In my opinion, there are very few women who look pretty without makeup and I am one of those. Being pretty on the inside is most important, but that can also include wearing makeup. Doesn't need to be one or the other. I have always been told by friends and relatives, that I was so pretty. When I go without makeup I feel anything but pretty. Putting it on, I feel back to me. Which ever works for you is what you should do.

@Elizabeth-arb22

11 ай бұрын

I can really identify with, and appreciate, your comment, Ashley B, because I am very pale skinned and really need some makeup to give my face a little color and interest. I look kind of sick without makeup too. :-) I also feel more like myself when I'm wearing some makeup. 💗

@ashleybergstrom8934

11 ай бұрын

@@Elizabeth-arb22 Yes, I have found getting older, you start losing color, lips thin out....etc. A little blush and lipstick alone do wonders. I need eye liner or my eyes disappear. Elizabeth, I think there are many others who are just like us.

I’m the same as you Susan. I moved here to Alabama from New Orleans Louisiana and notice not to many ladies wear makeup. But don’t let that stop you. You look beautiful all made up. You Do You, keep that motto

Where is Hal? We miss him. Please continue to share the joy of your new city.

@deborahpellerito6117

11 ай бұрын

I miss Hal

I've always loved makeup (and hated my "world's worst dark under eyes"), mostly because my mom loved it too. Just after graduating high school, mom & I were visiting relatives in Ann Arbor, MI. One of my mom's sisters turned to another sister and said, "Have you seen how much makeup Debbie is wearing!" while mom was sitting right there. My mom told me about it the next day. I don't think mom was upset about how much makeup I wore. She thought her sister was out of line. Hahaha. Over the years, there have been others who wore very little makeup that found ways to say something to me. I do wear less now but only because I want to wear less. Do what makes you feel beautiful. Blessings to you and Desi from Midas and me!

I am so in line with what you are saying about coming into your own beauty and being confident. Most recently I purchased stickers that said Queen on it to help me step up into owning my confident strong self. Letting go of loooooong held beliefs that I'm not good enough is the road I am on, and this video runs parallel to my journey. It's a Big one and I am down for tackling it. And I also have begun being more minimal with my make up. On the weekends now I wear just a little foundation, a bit of blush, need the eyebrows, and maybe a little gloss. Most of the people I work with do not wear makeup. More power to them. I still enjoy looking my best, being minimal at the same time. Thanks Susan- great message.

LOVELY TO SEE YOU AND DESI!🐕❤️🙏

Yep I turned 57 this past week, 7th of July an man I had a Shocking but Wonderful picture sent to me as a look here ! It was in my 30s . Man what a shock 😢. But as I licked my wounds I felt Pride that I’ve made it this long an have sooo much to be thankful for. An now I feel blessed to just be here a little longer ❤

Isn’t it so wonderful to finally be at this stage of life. Love how you are able to put our feelings into words.

Absolutely loved this video! Thanks Susan! ♥️🌸🐾

I live in a small rural town and most of the women don't wear makeup. I am 61 and still wear makeup everyday, it makes me feel ready for the day even if I am not leaving the house. I did struggle the last couple of years with how I dressed during the summer, people assume after a certain age that you shouldn't wear shorts or short sleeves. I did that for a couple of years and then realized I shouldn't have to be hot and uncomfortable because I am old. I am back to wearing whatever makes me comfortable and if people don't like it they don't have to look. Thanks for all you do for us!!

I just love you ~ I love your new city and wish you all the happiness in the world! I'm so happy for you that your dreams are coming true with your cozy home and enjoying all that your new city has to offer. Many blessings to You & sweet boy Desi ~ Until we meet again next Saturday ~ have a safe & beautiful week ~ xoxo Love & prayers 🌷

I only wear makeup on special occasions. I think you are beautiful with or without makeup. Your skin glows, it is beautiful. I also love seeing Desi in the videos. I was always self conscious about my mouth because my teeth were not perfectly straight. Then one day on an errand for my mom, a perfect stranger told me I had beautiful smile. I was in top of world, cause no one ever said anything so nice like that to me before.

I love finding beauty in nature and little things. It seems you do too. But I’ve never seen beauty more deeply than when sharing it, in any form, with my grandchildren. I think it’s always more joyful when shared, and I’m so appreciative of all the ways you do this with us. The beauty of Desi’s romps in his new garden, knowing his background, just brought tears to my eyes, as did the joyful beauty of your wonderful new house and life with your family. As a retired chaplain of thirty years, I found so much beauty in the stories of my patients and their loved ones that I was so privileged to hear. Their willingness to entrust sacred moments of their lives, especially in hospice, were some of the most beautiful, even miraculous moments of my life, for which I’m ever grateful. But the joy of the birth of my children, meeting them and my grandchildren for the first time and any moments we can share together (increasingly few as they’re now so busy) are the most beautiful experiences on earth for me (apart from those with The Lord.). I love your image of the stands on the sports field and it’s so true. Since a disabling car accident, my stands went from overflowing to plenty of times of emptiness. Such a painful transition in aging and/or illness. But, whenever I can accept it, somehow others show up. I’m so happy and grateful whenever you’re there too. 💕🌷💕

That creek area is SO serene. Desi looks so happy 😊

@LittlePoet

11 ай бұрын

It was! Thank you so much! Much love to you! xo Susan & Desi

I wish I could find the road to beautiful. I'm 68 also . I have commented on your channel before. We have a lot in common. I grew up with a sister 6 years older than me. She was the pretty one. I always felt like the ugly duckling. No confidence, self esteem, nothing. I try and look my best every day and do get compliments from strangers. But I don't see what they see. I used to care what people thought of me but at 68, I don't give a dam. I worked all my life and after my divorce, some couldn't understand why I wasn't seeing anyone. Didn't get many compliments growing up like my sister did. Unfortunately she passed at 39. Her diabetes took over and changed all her features. She knew she was pretty and must have been devastated what the disease did to her. I care how I look and take care of my skin and health but I can't see how I will ever feel beautiful. When I worked in a hospital for 20 years being a transcriptionist in Radiology though I was an administrator with how I dressed and looked. The day of my divorce, a complete stranger told me I looked absolutely stunning as I was walking in the courthouse. My attorney said that has never happened to any of his clients before. I felt God sent that stranger to me which gave me confidence to walk in that court room. I never forgot her. She looked to me like she didn't have much but took the time to compliment me. But for some reason, I never felt beautiful. I wear makeup everyday. If I have to make a fast run to the store on days when I plan to be home all day, I don't want to run into anyone I know. Guess that will never change at 68. But I am happy just not with my looks.

@LittlePoet

11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for being here..I can so relate to your words!! I had a very pretty girlfriend in grade school and I always felt ugly time heals...but we always remember how we felt...Love to you! Susan and Desi

@sondrasmith2691

11 ай бұрын

Yes! Yes! Please don't tease us. Please bring little Desi into more videos more often. I bet he can be persuaded by bribes. 😉 ☺

My road to beauty comes through spending time in nature…at 68 I have a glow that comes from within. It also comes from self care on all levels. I love my life!

So happy you have had a great week and loving life!

I think beauty is more about wisdom, kindness and a kind soul. However, when I do wear makeup it’s just because I like how it looks on me and I find it a personal choice. It’s not so much about worrying what others think…including my other half. Just be yourself which includes being kind to yourself. You are a beautiful woman with a kind heart. Thanks for sharing. ✨

Susan …. I hear often s cry from within from you… of your own worth , & acceptance of who you are… It’s a wonderful experience when we grasp the knowledge of our worth. It gives us strength & peace of mind. For me the beauty of the soul is enriched in the knowledge that God has made me, as I as I get older each yr, I’m more confident & content in my skin, because of Him, & His love for me. It isn’t a man or a new relationship that brings any of these qualities…. Beauty is as a fading flower… but the beauty of our soul is eternal… I am a perineal 🌹 I will grow double in strength , & always have a fragrance to exude..🌹