Dear Susan-Today is pivotal for me and my sisters. My father has dementia and one of us must live with him. I am the one because I am a retired nurse, divorced, and my son and his 3 children just moved out. So I am moving into his basement and will care for him. It is bittersweet. My heart is squeezing and my eyes are leaky. I found a letter my baby sister wrote to my Dad asking for a birthday present. My mom had left our Dad for her boss who was 30 years her senior. We missed our Daddy. This sweet letter was folded up and in his wallet and I am filled with so much emotion that I am overwhelmed.

@texasmimi5566

Жыл бұрын

This brought tears to my eyes. Please know you are an angel to your father in his time of need. Bless you.

@LittlePoet

Жыл бұрын

Hello Helen, I read your beautiful words and cried. There you are a lifetime later caring for your father...a little girl who dreamed of him and missed him...by no fault of her own is there now caring for him in his final years. I love your big heart and dedication. I love that you trusted us enough with an outline of your beautiful but difficult life....sacrifice and hard work....and generous spirit. You make me want to be better...much love and prayers are always for you and your father....Happy Father's Day...be good to yourself...don't forget. xxoo Susan & Desi

@Kathy-kr1sv

Жыл бұрын

Know Even if words aren't spoken... Your dad loves you ALL Make sure you refuel your soul with little breaks. Your sisters can do a little to help him and you ❤️💙💜💕

@sabinekoch3448

Жыл бұрын

Wishing you strength and lots of peace and joy in the task you undertake for your dad. It is one of the greatest challenges to have in life - taking care of the welfare of one’s parents. Please take time for yourself every day to make sure that you too rejuvenate. 🫂💐

@americafirst9144

Жыл бұрын

Hi. I hope you called your sister and relived good memories. If your dad is a veteran you might be able to get an in-home helper. If not, make sure you have some good help. Treasure your moments together.

There is nothing wrong with being solo if you are your own best friend

Seeing Desi resting so soundly and peacefully over your shoulder in the background is one of the most precious and insanely sweet visions you have ever captured in one single video. Love it!

When I ally divorced my alcoholic husband of 20 years. I went from a size 14 to a 6 in 3 months!! Cortizol, the stress hormone, is responsible for that!! So now that you are happy in your long awaited little home, your cortisol levels dropped and the weight dropped!! I am SO happy for you and sweet little Dezi!!

@carolseven3802

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for mentioning this!

Desi steals my heart every weekend. That little gangsta’ is the sweetest little man ever. Love seeing him romp around his yard. His joy is infectious!❤️

@carolynlabruce8538

Жыл бұрын

I love you and that adorable little dog is sweet, like you.❤❤❤❤❤

@debbieworsech1119

Жыл бұрын

Desi is adorable...little man

I was a victim of child sexual abuse and at 55 realized I was still a victim by being obese. I lost 120 lbs, started to date after being a single Mom for 30 years, became a Sexual Assault Councilor and met my husband now of 6 years. Just as drugs or alcohol satisfy the addict food does the same for many of us. You look beautiful and your home does as well!

@dianaschoen4485

Жыл бұрын

CONGRATULATIONS AND GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!❤❤❤😊😊😊

@suzettecooper382

11 ай бұрын

Congratulations and well done

I can't believe somebody called you "fat" online. My word! First, you are not and second, you carry yourself so gracefully and you put together outfits that are very flattering and you are not afraid to wear lovely flowing outfits. You are so feminine. Enjoy your treats - balance is the key. You are living life fully and I say go for it!

@burnzz100

Жыл бұрын

Shame on them. Unfortunately we got the haters out there. It only signifies they are sad people.

@kimrobinson6280

Жыл бұрын

Agreed totally Susan is beautiful

@CoffeeTeaAndPotpourri

Жыл бұрын

Jealous people are often the ones with other "issues" like pride, intolerance, selfishness, the pride that is so destructive that it often lashes out at others in the hope of destroying other people. This make some people like arrogant types and narcissistic individuals use gas lighting techniques, put downs and name calling to feed their own self-serving ego and sense of entitlement. They give themselves the right to rule over others with words that can only come from a self-centered heart full of darkness. They thrive on their hatefulness and continuously look for ways to express their cruel opinions. The Book of Proverbs, in the Bible...tells us in God's WORDS..."Pride comes before destruction". These mean prideful people want to destroy others...but they will eventually be destroyed, themselves. It's sad when people don't show a modicum of kindness.

@melodyhernandez2482

Жыл бұрын

My mom made me feel so ashamed for my whole life. She had my pediatrician start me on diet pills when I was in 4th grade. I didn't know any better but felt horrible when the Dr would tell me do you want to where a barrel or a tent for your dress. And then later on she would tell my dad what he said and they would both laugh. It ruined me inside for the rest of my life. I never never had any confidence and always thought I wasn't enough. Then later in years when I was married she still didn't stop. We were going to a family wedding and she tells me I should wear a girdle or wear something that makes me look slimmer. Well guess what I cried the whole night and I told my husband we weren't going to go. And we didn't ugh ! Then she calls me the next day and told me that they had a lot of fun. I swore I would never do that to my kids. And I never did.

Oh Susan, you are the epitome of GRACE & BEAUTY❣️ It’s beyond me how people can be so rude… those type of comments say so much more about them than they ever do you. You are GORGEOUS; the very definition of class! Most of us gals are here because we adore you and Desi. Life just seems a little better after one of your videos. You are a breath of fresh air in this stale old world and always a light bringer. Don’t ever change!!!! You are loved and admired! ❤️

@LittlePoet

Жыл бұрын

You are so kind...thank you for such sweet words!!! Desi and I love you right back!!! xo Susan & Dez

@trinawitte8625

Жыл бұрын

😘❤️@@LittlePoet

@graceb

Жыл бұрын

Trina Witte, Such beautiful words!!

@juliemoore6957

Жыл бұрын

I agree!

@BedfordFalls7

Жыл бұрын

That was so well said trinawitte. Susan has so much class and is such a graceful lady. I think she is so beautiful inside and out. We love you Susan and Desi!

Well tonight after eating a wonderful grilled cheese sandwich, enjoying every bite, I thought... 'wow, I wasn't even hungry'. Then you said "it's so comforting". I'm in the process of taking care of my Brother on hospice. I'm in his home. He doesn't want to go to a nursing home. He wants to die in his own bed where his wife went Home to the Lord 13 years ago... But all I want to do at the end of the night is eat something salty. Thank you for sharing. You look great in those outfits. You are so Blessed. You bought yourself a home and are close to Family. God Bless You...

@sharonpeters5797

Жыл бұрын

Bless you and your brother. It is wonderful you are caring for him.

I think what's hard about not having a spouse when you are older is that there is a lot of things you can't do for yourself and that makes you feel vulnerable . I totally get it. If you don't have the means to hire someone to do things you can't handle one your own it's tough.. That's what's hard if you are a homeowner

@terrytt2932

Жыл бұрын

I strongly disagree! I'm 75, single for 40 years, and altho I do have help from my (non-live-in) son, that is exactly what google and youtube are for! I've learned to do lots of things for and by myself. It's very freeing!!

@annarose4828

Жыл бұрын

​@@terrytt2932you are so right! I'm single and a senior and I'm good with Google! I'm independent and l have a precious grown daughter and 2 furbabies! I'm good!❤❤❤❤

My Dad died 20 years ago but I miss him constantly, esp in the difficult circumstances I'm in now with a difficult mother still alive and difficult siblings. I miss all the relatives who were helpful and who have now gone. So it's normal to talk about the people who were supportive, and especially when things are tough.

@barbraprosper9065

Жыл бұрын

❤

@lindafrazier8092

Жыл бұрын

❤

@Bachconcertos

Жыл бұрын

Go on a Paleo keto diet and cut out carbs & sugar

@user-dianejcml

Жыл бұрын

Just as they did while they were here, thinking about them brings comfort and a feeling we are still in some way connected. Especially important when you feel alone during challenging times ❤

@streaming5332

Жыл бұрын

@@Bachconcertos no can do, am on the cheese on toast diet.

Hi Susan and Desi, I am a happy single, 64 year old grandma. I look forward to your videos every Saturday night! Thanks for sharing with us.😊

@lindafrazier8092

Жыл бұрын

Me too❤

@vickiwalters1529

Жыл бұрын

Me three!

@ireneturner2944

Жыл бұрын

Me 4 🎉

@katrinmx658

Жыл бұрын

Me too 💚

@conniejones2106

Жыл бұрын

Me, five

The second year after my divorce, I ate dark chocolates EVERY day/night. I said to myself - this makes me happy, I deserve it, chocolate is the love I don't have. That went on until my cholesterol and blood sugar were negatively impacted. I had to find other ways to feel loved, to cope with loneliness, rejection and disappointments. I learned to eat what I love in moderation, and try new things. But, I also learned to loved myself setting boundaries, reading, hiking, going on solo-dates, and resting well. Susan, thanks for always sharing things that encourage to learn to love ourselves, to live fully and well.

@victoriah.2083

Жыл бұрын

Good for you, dear heart. I luv the "solo-date" idea. Thank you.

Look at Desi sleeping there behind you! He looks so cute and happy!💕 You both look so happy there!💕

Starting at age 11, right after my dad died, my brother in law started making comments about me “starting to fill out”. Followed by many many creepy comments about my body throughout the years. I think that’s what started me using food to hide my body so I wouldn’t be attractive to men. I’m 60 now and I cut my BIL out of my life; I never want to see him again ever. I also know I’ve let myself go physically, as I’m about 60 lbs overweight. It doesn’t help I love to cook, and I’m a good cook. I think food addiction is the worst because most other addictions you can live without but you still need to eat.

@proverbs3150

Жыл бұрын

Something similar happened to me -recently -in my 60’s! I examined my emotions and lack of motivation afterward and discovered that I didn’t want anyone’s attention and maybe that if I looked good I would just attract the wrong people. I changed my perception and lost weight for me-there will always be people around with negative creepy words-but they are the ones who need help!

@1218kimber

Жыл бұрын

Isn’t it terrible that we allow other people to affect us so much? To the point of not wanting to look good. I’m glad you examined what was really going on and recognized it. ❤

@suzannecampbell2260

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for the way others have made you feel. Yet it I may. My story is a bit different. I'm a person who used to love to Bake, cook, and to try new things. Yet after my only Child moved out. When he was 19. Then he went to College and a few years later was married. So I was like in know how to, prepare for just one person. My Son is a big an. 6”4 and he has always been big. So I had to cook in large quantities. I'm a tiny woman who is 5’4 well that's what I'm told them at the DMV. I have never weighed over 126 lbs and that was my heaviest and pregnant. With my Son. I am told I need to gain weight. I was told this the entire time I was pregnant. Yet I couldn't. I had that form of Sickness where I three up 24/7. I could no gain any weight. When they were not able to stop my labor again. I had a Emergeny C-Section. At just 8 months. My Son was almost 9 lbs. Many family members who had not saw me in a few months. Didn’t believe it when they saw me and would ask Suzanne whose baby are babysitting for. I would reply he is mine. Then the oh yes now really. That hurt. I was in the Winn Dixie with my First and only child. I was 88 lbs. 10 lbs lighter than I normally am. As we know our hormones are Cz after we give birth. So I would just breakdown and cry. It truly hurt me. I’m the type of person who eats to just live. I don’t live to eat. My Mother was in her later years. Due to her health issues and back surgeries she could not work out or even walk,due the things she loved as she was an outdoors woman. She loved her flowers,her own vegetable garden,fishing,so her entire life changed especially when she lost my Dad. So she gained weight. However she was still a beautiful woman. She wore a lot of long vests over her dresses. She changed the way she dressed so,she was always beautiful even when she was 200 lbs. she was taller than her kids. She was 5’7. Yet she wore her makeup and perfume. So no matter what people say. You never let their thoughts of you make you sad. I get I’m too skinny. Yet I cannot help,it. She was over weight. She tried all the time. To cut back. Yet it was her health and medications. So as long as you due your best to look nice. Please never give up. Whatever your best feature is . Dress to use that. Makeup can draw eyes to a person if they are a beautiful shade. I’ve see many big women. Who are just as beautiful. Being skinny is not what anyone other than the Modeling business thinks is beautiful. We are all beautiful in our own special way. Sending your love and a hug. ❤❤❤

@TheSweetsherrypie

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sad that I was so scared I let myself go for the same reason! I would have never said that out loud. But others went through the same thing. Wow

@minarosered6699

Жыл бұрын

My mom gave me my food addiction as a girl. I struggle with it now in my early 60's. So glad you cut out your BIL. He was a creep!

Love seeing Desi asleep in the background! Your decorating is beautiful and inspiring.

Hi Susan, I know you live in Michigan but you would be a great model on HSN, QVC, or any shopping channels. Your sense of style combined with your personality would be fabulous. 🍷

@reneeraw6927

Жыл бұрын

Agree! I thought the exact same thing!🥰

@annbright1556

Жыл бұрын

I agree ☝️

@janicechaudhury6043

Жыл бұрын

Susan, you would be perfect for modeling on a TV Shopping channel. Best wishes from Canada.

Take one of your shams to the paint store and let them match your green! That would look beautiful! Your bedroom looks so calming. Have a good week, you and Desi! Oh I was 40 pounds over weight before my daughter's wedding and I went on a keto/intermittent fasting diet and so far I've kept 30 of it off for 2 years. I didnt want to be fat in all her beautiful pictures and I wasn't.

Susan, we only live ONCE, so if you want to eat a meal...then eat whatever it is you want. Just do not do it all the time, but enjoy your life. I am your age exactly 68, and the older I get the more I feel "what the heck" about once a month and buy something I do not normally eat. The binge will last maybe just an hour--could be Hagen Daz Cherry Vanilla Ice Cream or maybe a pastry or freshly baked cookie from the bakery (just one or two) and always in the mid-afternoon, never in the evening or after 5 PM. I want to go no thinner than 135. I am five eight and now I am about 147. I lost 30 lbs on KETO and I do not want to get too thin because as we age, believe it or not, a bit of weight will look better on us. If we should get ill, then it will be healthier too. God Bless you and the adorable Desi! He looked so sweet sleeping in the background of your video. See you next week! Jennfier

@stevevernon5038

Жыл бұрын

Why do you reward yourself with food? Splurge using something else like a new movie or book or just something other than food.

I remember I was cast as Motel’s mother in Fiddler on the Roof. The Director was staging the wedding scene. In front of the whole cast he said I was too fat to be downstage. I was crushed. The show wasn’t the same for me after that rehearsal. Fast forward 15 years, and I’ve been in many shows since. Mostly part of the ensemble because I felt too fat for anything more. Then I decided it was time I no longer let that moment define me. I auditioned for the Matchmaker, and I got it! This year l was cast in my dream role as Mother Abbess in The Sound if Music with that very same director. I am 63 and considered obese. I’m lucky to say I have no health issues, and I’m living my life as I see fit. I admire you and what you do in your videos. We all deserve to feel good about ourselves, and I’m happy to say we share that in common. Thanks for all you share. You’ve become a special friend to me, even though we’ve never met.

@jacinthanoronha8009

Жыл бұрын

I will be watching sound of Music in Mumbai next week.

@nelvinlewis23

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations on your successful role showcasing your beautiful body today. Enjoy your Encores every show. Big girls rule.

I love seeing how Desi has really blossomed in your new home! Please include a little peek into the life of Desi! He's adorable!

I'm a shoe girl. I've been addicted to high-heels since I was a little girl -- prancing around the house in my mom's stilettos. 💕

My parents are gone. But I talk about them all the time. I just love your outfits. I've recently lost weight also without trying. And love watching Desi running so happily around the yard.

I never struggled with my weight until I got older, I am in my 60’s and it is a struggle but I just want to be healthy. I sure don’t get tired of seeing Desi run in that backyard, it just makes me smile. 😊

I married my second husband 10 years ago. I have put on some weight and he just tells me that I’m beautiful. My ex would have been giving me trouble. To be healthier, I should be setting better, but it’s comforting having a husband who loves me no matter what.

I have been overweight my entire life - at least according to this dreaded doctors’ weight charts. I’m now 66 years old and the word “fat” no longer holds any negativity for me. It is just an adjective, like “tall”. I’m tall and I’m fat and I have grey hair … and I love myself just the way I am. I think it helps that no one has hurled insults at me (that I’ve noticed) for many years. I’m so sorry to hear about your mother’s experience. That must have been horrible. I think maybe food holds some “love” for me but mainly, I just love it and I eat what I love. I work out and that helps me stay mobile, which I wasn’t so much after sitting at home during the pandemic, but even working out 3 hours a week, I haven’t lost a pound. Luckily, I love myself just the way I am. If I end up losing a few pounds, that won’t change how I feel. It’s not about the scale. It’s about being mobile and maintaining my independence. Sorry for the long comment. I just get a bit passionate about this subject.

Each time I’m enjoying seeing Desi sooo happy. Today he showed us that he’s definitely the king of the roost! Susan, I can imagine how your mama felt. She must have been quite lonely and sad. That must weigh on you and make her proud that you have turned her lesson around. I’ve struggled with my weight for over 15 years due to thyroid disease, which has wreaked havoc in myriad ways, from slow metabolism to chronic pain and other health challenges. Yet, I kept physically active with walking, bicycling, yoga and other activities. After struggling with faltering stamina for a couple of years and coping with HBP and then a stroke, I was finally diagnosed with AFib. I’m advocating for myself to get a surgery to correct it permanently. As I wait to receive the recommendation from a specialist I receive other treatments that are ineffective and experience my energy level continue to decline along with my body. Not only has my enjoyment of physical activity been curtailed, but also my social life and travel. The other day a girlfriend took me out for a spin in her convertible. That was the most fun I had had in a long time. I’m 67 and she’s 81 and has so much more energy than me. I’m hanging in there. I go to PT 2-3 times weekly. I give thanks daily. I still dream my dreams. And, yes, food is sometimes a comfort and I don’t go overboard. Yet, I can’t help but gain weight. 💕💕💕

@elaineinman7077

Жыл бұрын

@@sunnyoak I have been thinking the same thing over this last week. Thinking my body has changed since those meds were prescribed years ago! It's possible that I might not even need them anymore and getting off of them could be the key to better health & more energy. I wish I could get trusted help. I'm a young 78!! but low energy...

I love your choice of green for your bedroom trim. You won't have to paint the whole room. And your bedding is lovely. And of course, Desi is adorable and looks so happy. Im glad you found each other. I have 2 small rescues, am a 68 year old widow and I'm never lonely since I have my 'girls'.

If that's a picture of your mom, she looks classy and beautiful to me. I love the uniqueness of women that doesn't just include their looks but the whole package of their energy that gives everything. I remember so many strong, beautiful and unique women involved in PTA at the schools, cub scout moms, little league and girl scouts. Giving to their communities and their families and churches everything they could. They truely are so beautiful. All to be admired and treasured so much. It looks like she is wearing the same shade of lipstick as you.

@lindafrazier8092

Жыл бұрын

❤

@BR-kk9qu

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the very same thing. I remember women from my elementary school years in the 1970's. I still hold them in my heart. ~ Belinda

Hi Susan My heart breaks for your mother. Such a cruel and inhumane way to be treated. My mother had her traumas in life - but for some reason she didn’t use food for comfort - and she never discussed weight issues with me. Therefore I was surprised when I was working my first job in a retail clothing store at age 16 about how so many mothers shopping with their daughters commented on how “skinny” I was and asked if I was on a diet. I didn’t think I was skinny, just normal, and I was glad that food and dieting weren’t problems for me. And then in early my 20s the food and weight and diets and appearance monster bit me and for the next 10 years I was anorexic and bulimic. I channeled all my anxiety about growing up and being “attractive” into thinking being “sleek and skinny” would make life perfect. I didn’t drink grape juice for 10 years! It took a lot of educating myself on eating disorders and learning how to cope without being so critical of my weight number as a benchmark of personal success. It’s a very hard habit to shake even 50 years later. So I had my double chocolate Milano cookies tonight anyway! ❤ to you and dearest Desi

Love the way you model your clothes and put your makeup on with such care. You are beautiful inside and out.

You are just too adorable in your fashion show!!!! You are beautiful and classy because you are genuine. All my adult life my family made comments about my weight. And the thing was I wasn't even obese, maybe a little overweight from being pregnant for two years in a row before I was 20. But my appearance was forever a topic of discussion no matter what. Consequently, I attached my self worth to others opinions about my weight., a battle that I struggle with to this day. I wish I would've been loved and accepted for who I was instead of what I looked like but I never was. So, it's up to me to do that for myself. I'm just so thankful I have role models like you Susan, even though I'm a wee bit older than you are. Thank you!

Your new clothes are stunning on you, you look great in the black pantsuit and also in the dress. You pick the clothes that are just perfect and make you look fabulous. Your makeup is so well done and your skin looks amazing. I struggle on and off with weight so I know how you feel. It’s so easy to add 10 pounds but so hard to get that off. Desi is so precious, seeing him run around the yard like he is protecting your home and then to see him sleeping behind you on the sofa is just precious. Thank you for the links to the great products. Be well and have a wonderful week with Desi! ❤

I’m sorry that happened to your mom. Though she couldn’t follow her own advice, I’m glad you listened to her in reference to the food. It’s crazy how life works sometimes in that whatever we resist, just continues to persist. Instead of resisting the carbs, you’ve allowed yourself to enjoy in moderation and you lost weight anyway. It’s not about eating the pain away, but enjoying the variety of foods out there, and being joyful and grateful for being able to eat it. Love that Desi, and his blue tie. I love how he has his own little colorful tie outfits that his mom buys him😊❤

Oh, Susan... I loved the video. I relate so much to the topic of weight. I think I've mentioned before that I had WLS 19 months ago. I had already been on a health journey for 2 years before I had the surgery. All in all, I've lost 150 lbs. I feel like a new woman. I have gone from a 5x @Torrid to an XL @Venus. When I was super obese makeup was my passion... well it still is... but girl... now... I'm clothes-obsessed! I still want to lose more weight. I'm in a 16 or an xl. I'd like to wear a 12. At some point, I'll need skin removal surgery. I'm like your Mom... I associate food with love. I'm a very good cook... because my Mom was. She had a restaurant and did catering. Food was a huge part of my existence... my identity. That sounds strange doesn't it? I am known for my cooking ability. I still cook some since I've lost weight for my family... on occasion. But nothing like I used to. I cook for myself and they are welcome to eat what I cook for myself. But I've totally changed my view of food. Food is nothing more than fuel now. I eat only to achieve a certain level of micronutrients and overall macros for the day that I've set for myself. I no longer cook to impress, show out, or show my love. I eat to live not live to eat... and that's how i truly used to be. But I went to therapy... still go actually and I worked out a lot of pent up stuff... and let go of stuff and im beggining to really like who I'm becoming. I have so much more to offer than just a meal. I was hiding behind my skills and my fat. No lie. So now I'm developing other interests and hobbies. One thing is I've started vlogging some. I need to learn to edit... lol! You inspire me though! I just filmed a lot when we went to Hot Springs this past week for Bike Fest. I want to travel now! I wasnt able to before. I was pretty much housebound/bedroom bound for several years. Im telling uou I got so bad... so sick. But the weight loss has changed my life... and im going to travel vlog I think. That's gonna be my new hobby and focus. What do you think?

@Faithful10415

11 ай бұрын

Your joy is palpable. So glad you are feeling healthier and subsequently more adventurous. I wish you the best in your travels!

Desi is so happy. It makes my heart sing❤🐾

Seeing the contentment on Desi's sleeping face at the beginning of this video makes me smile. I look forward to your videos every Saturday. Tomorrow will be the first Father's day since my children's dad passed away. They are so, so sad. I wish I could wave a magic wand and take their pain away...

@user-dianejcml

Жыл бұрын

Sending you all a hug ❤

You and your house look lovely…and happy. Your mom’s story was heartbreaking. I’ve always struggled with my weight. I starved for over 50 years to be thin enough. No more.

Ever since I heard on one of your videos about pumpkin seed oil, I’ve.been using it and love it. I use it for both face and hair. As far as food, my husband used to say, honey - don’t stint on food. It’s one of the joys of life - just balance. That’s what I do. I eat balanced, exercise moderately, am involved in volunteer work and enjoying life to the hilt. Balance is the key for me . When I feel like treats I don’t hold back - I just don’t gorge. It works for me. We all have to find our balance and what works for us but not make diet an obsession

It's so good to see you and Desi, he looks so happy running around the yard and sleeping near you on the couch. Thanks for sharing. Enjoy your week!

Susi, I'm so glad you shared what you did. My mother had me on yo-yo diets, from the time I was in 2nd grade. I guess my body played catch up because I was born a preemie @ 5 lbs. It KILLED my metabolism! My Sophomore year in high school, I took the bull by the horns and started measuring my food. I lost 70 lbs. that Summer. I was bullied so much through school prior to that, because of my weight. Kids can just be so CRUEL. I made sure I NEVER did that to my daughters. Dieting at a young age just leads to so many problems, in my opinion. I really adore you and appreciate your weekly videos. You really are a sweet soul. I also want you to know, I continue to wear the art deco bracelet I bought from you a couple of years ago. I get so many compliments on it every time I wear it. I truly treasure it. Your home is looking really nice, Susi. You and Desi appear so darn happy. Take care. Be BOLD and be BLESSED❣️ Love, KIMBER(Your Austin, Texas Sister in Beauty and Faith)🥰😉🙏

I love your bedding it’s beautiful. Since losing my husband a few weeks ago I’m trying to adjust to being alone and I don’t like it. Guess after so many years together this is going to take quite an adjustment 💕💜

Hi Susan. and Desi, You look so beautiful in those outfits. Hope you enjoyed the concert. Desi looks happier every time I see him. 🐶

What a treat! I love Saturday nights! You look great and your home looks great! You inspire and cheer me! Desi is so happy! And struggles with weight are seemingly endless. That's all I have to say about that. LOL Absolutely loved your style show!

Hi Susan! Saturday nights are so special to me because of you and Desi! I'm watching tonight with a big smile on my face from the beginning to the end of your video! You bring such JOY to us. Thank you for being you!❤❤

Food is love when given by someone who cares about you. On it's own food is just food.

Hello Susan and Desi, I turned to food after everyone in my life passed away. I steadily gained weight and my health decreased. Then one day I looked in the mirror and weighed myself. I gained 35 pounds. I decided to stop eating as much sugar as possible and saturated fat. No junk food in the house. It took me 6 months to lose the weight. I returned to regular yoga and weight training. I feel the relief in my body and mind. Im wearing pretty summer dresses just above my knees at 66 . I just love your videos and seeing Desi. It makes me smile. Thank you both for the sunshine from Australia. 😊

As a long time, Weight Watches member what powerful words. "Don't let food become your life"! I wrote that down and every day I will read that. I am almost 70 years old and 20 pounds above my goal. I am working toward my lifetime again. I swim for 1 hour 3 times a week and choose healthy food. I now have cut out sugar and carbs. Thank you for your time that you have put into your videos. You are a beautiful person and your mom loved you very much. As a nurse I heard you say you are blind as a bat. Please have your eyes examined. Cataract is so common as we age. You don't want to lose your sight. Maybe that was a figured of speech but please be aware.

I love being a girl too and very proud of it ! ❤️ kisses to that precious Desi 🥰

Love your outfits, especially the black jumpsuits. Your bedroom looks so beautiful and calm. Your and Desi have a wonderful week.

It just feels like weeks between videos now!! Too long to wait to see what you've done to your little cottage! :D So FINALLY, I"m going to watch!!!! :D ~Kelly~ Colorado

My Mom always told me I'd be glad when I was 35 that the boys called me skinny during puberty. I wore 2 pair of pants, for God's sake!! Lol. Now I'm 71 and understand what she meant because I still can't get heavy no matter what I eat or don't eat. That makes sense you would lose weight when you take the middle road but make yourself happy at the same time. I so look forward to your blog each weekend...thankyou so much. 🥰💖

@carolinedanielson4387

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I am the same as you -- always criticized for being too skinny. When I was 7, part of my small intestine was removed after my appendix burst. I was skinny until this year, my 67th. After being called anorexic by yet another doctor, I ate a bag of potato chips every night for 2 months! I ate things my body couldn't tolerate, all to make the criticism stop. I gained 15 pounds in those 2 months, all in my stomach and thighs -- a first. I'm unhappy now, and none of my pants fit! We know best what our bodies need.

@neanea1173

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I wore Long John's under my jeans in highschool. I was always told I was too skinny.... it hurt too.

Susan you are beautiful inside and out. You are not only a beautiful woman but you have a beautiful heart. I love how your home is coming together. I’m not surprised at all. It’s always so exciting when I see a new posted video!

@dianaschoen4485

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Agree!❤

We have tons of wild roses in Alaska and the rose hips are huge. I bet I could make my own oil. Goung to try the pumpkin seed thnx ❤. I am 61 and my brain can't catch up with my age! You have helped me alot. I lost alot wait during my sisters final cancer journey and it made me look so much older. I put 12lbs on this winter and look better only my clothes don't fit 😮. I really got heavy during menopause. I have struggled with weight most of my life, went on every fad diet and diet pill. I even bought those things you sniff away to thinness 😅 Now I eat light from May to Nov 1st. Then dive into comfort foods from Nov thru April and it usually even out. But the main thing I don't do is deprive or gorge myself. I need my energy for gardening, grandkids and playing on our islands beaches. You have inspired me so much. Your beautiful inside & out ❤ PS hope your new cottage has great roof. Our insurance was going to drop us if we didn't replace ours. We bought our cute cottage about 8yrs ago. 35,000 for a roof. Meanwhile my kids are in Hawaii. Happy for them, but since we had to put such a big whole in our retirement thought we would die this one out. On the other hand so blessed that we didn't have to face this and have no money to do it. ❤❤❤

Your beautiful mother to be treated so horribly is inexcusable…..shame on them. Talent is to be celebrated not cast aside for our size 😢She must have felt crushed 😢 Bless her dear heart & wise words to you her daughter 💐🙏🏻💐 Love your bedspread it’s gorgeous & the golden yellow compliments it beautifully. Desi loves his step up to bed 💙🐶 Your complexion is so lovely & hair is lush. The modelled clothes are delightful so well put together, gives a woman such a lift to know we look good & feel good. Thankyou for this super happy vlog again & have a great week Desi darling too 🩷💐🐶🏡🌷🍃🌷🍃🌷🍃love from UK

Loved your video Susan! We want to know more about your neighbor, your town surroundings, your singing, your decorating, your family. You know how to take care of yourself beautiful lady! ❤️

Oh Susan your mom got the biggest slap 👋 in the face that day any woman could feel. I’m 100 pounds overweight right now but I’m so tired of worrying about it. I’m not going to have the life I prayed for, that ship sailed 45 years ago. All I can do now is accept the way it is. I just have to try and make myself happy now the best I can ❤

@catherinedoherty9676

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Good for you. God Bless. Best Wishes from 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 xx

@alevan1

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You don't need a man to be happy, starting loving you.....

@dawndemet3331

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Would it be cruel to think, ha! Someone else in my boat! I love your attitude though, I need to work on mine. That ship has sailed for me to. But, we can still have great times right?

@TheSweetsherrypie

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@@dawndemet3331 we can try I guess. But I’ve been down so long I don’t think I have the energy to climb back up now.

@davisholman8149

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Sherry - what you don’t see as you go along in life is this: so many of those slim women you see have eating disorders. I was stunned, when as a part of my career in healthcare, I became aware of the actually number of women at an appropriate weight who had major eating disorders. If you look at the number of ladies who are overweight plus those with disordered eating behavior - it is almost 90% of all women in the USA!😳 Something isn’t adding up. Perhaps the chemicals in processed food? This much I am sure of - it is at least somewhat NOT the fault of women in North America.

Susan, I love all your videos! I do relate to your mom as I have dealt with weight issues my whole adult life. Food became comfort to me through a bad marriage where my husband had me on diet pills at 140 lbs and I'm 5'7". I felt like I did was never enough for him, and gave up. I was 50 lbs heavier when he left me 9 years later. I've lost and gained weight for many years. Even when I lost weight, I was judged over and over by men that broke up with me or refused to date me because of my weight. I even had one man say to me "why would I want to drive an old car when I can have a sports car". Men can be so hurtful. I've tried so hard to show grace, and not let it make me bitter. I'm now a young 62, and alone because of my fear of rejection. I will never give up on losing weight for my health's sake, but, food gives me a false sense of comfort. Its hard to control at times. My weight has kept me from experiencing alot in life. I totally understand your precious Mom, and am glad you took to heart her advise to you. I love your positivity, and the way you romanticize your life, and your loving heart. I have been told when we pay less attention to things we want, things happen, and I won't give up hope. You are a beautiful Soul and you continue to nurture yourself, and others, and I trust that God has saved an amazing man that will soon show up in your life. In the meantime, continue sharing your videos with the world. We enjoy seeing you and your sweet Desi. You have made your new home so beautiful and we love all that you share. Hugs to you and Desi.

Susan, You always put together such a beautiful home!

@LittlePoet

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Thank you so much! You touch my heart!

Susan, It’s really amazing how you found this way of telling your story and expressing in order to heal. You’re a rare example of what can happen. So happy for you. 🎉🎉🎉

Susan, any info you give us that you think we don't "need." Well, fyi we still WANT it. Yes, indeed. Anything and everything you want to share is never tmi. And that sagey green will be perfect as window trim color. We luv you. And luv Desi-doo sleeping in background. Trying to upstage you. lol. You do look more wonderful since the move. Happiness does that to a person.

There was something very touching and special being with you tonight...a softness and calmness I sensed in you.💗 I really did enjoy your company!!

That's Evergreen fog by Sherwin-Williams, A beautiful green I painted my end table in my bedroom.

My mother-in-law once told me, “I don’t live to eat.” That’s helped me over the years. ❤✌️🌷

Susan, You and Desi look so happy and it shows. You truly always look amazing. I love watching your videos. You looked amazing in your new outfits. Thank you for sharing. I appreciate being part of your community. Your channel is truly my favorite. I always look forward to it. You’re such a blessing.

Hello Susan and Desi, I'm so glad to see you again! It's my therapy time at 2:22am here in Europe! Kisses and hugs xoxox ❤

Look at that sweet boy, Desi sleeping on the couch. I could watch that little guy all day.

Susan I really love your videos. They brighten my Saturdays and really give me so much hope. I am a 61 year old Nana, who feels so sassy, fun and confident at this age, and I see the fun and tender moments you share, and they encouage me to be vibrant and full of life like you, as i gracefully meet another day.

@dianaschoen4485

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I am the same age and situation. I agree with you!❤😊

Hi Susan, you look adorable in all of your clothes and your complexion is really pretty. I want go into my weight situation because it really brings up bad memories of my childhood. But now the way i maintain my weight is smaller portions and it works. Have a great evening and upcoming week! 💕

For the first time in my 62 years, I'm struggling with weight. It started with uncontrolled pain and, then, pain medication. I don't feel very good about myself AT ALL. By some standards I look fine and I've been chided for saying I am overweight. It's very personal and subjective. I don't deny myself, but I don't overdo either. I am active but can't always exercise due to back issues. I give it more head space than I should. You look amazing Susan! And every time I see Desi in his backyard, I smile and my heart soars for him. Best of everything to you, both.

Susan , you carry yourself in such an attractive , classy, confident way. It is so easy to base our self worth on the pre fix before our name, the zeros in our bank accounts, and the current size we are wearing vs who God says we are ; precious children. he treasures and died on the Cross for. Susan , you are lovely, and the kind of person we all would to have as a neighbor and a friend !! ❤️❤️❤️

Hi Susan and Desi, I love the black pantsuit with the different belts, especially the red one. Love the yellow sheets with your quilt. It’s really pretty. With it being so hot outside, sometimes I struggle with what to make for dinner for just me. I try to eat healthy, but not a whole lot. I’ve been getting tomatoes from my garden, and spinach so far. Your little patio room looks cute with your plants. Thank you Susan for telling about the pumpkinseed oil. Give a hug to Desi!🪴🌷🌹🪴🐕

This video was emotional for me, I love how you can talk about hard issues like weight. I have weight problems, but know that one day I will overcome them. I kept putting off staring my KZread channel thinking I would do it after I lost enough weight. I realized that day might not ever come and I decided fat or not I was going to just do it. I call it my retirement job. I have so much fun making videos. I have to say I have been watching you for sometime now and always find encouragement in your videos. Thank you for all the hard work you do putting out your lovely videos.

@marcellixxx

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Most successful richest KZreadrs are in fact - heavy set. 😊 ❤

That snippet of Desi bouncing toward the camera in the yard like "Tigger" was joy personified! Susan, you are beautiful and in my opinion you don't look anywhere near your age. I'm always surprised when you mention the number b/c your skin is so lovely. I'm about 12 years younger than you and discovered your channel about 4 years ago so you have become one of my role models for aging gracefully!

@LittlePoet

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I just love you so much!!!

@gardenbun

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@@LittlePoet Not to get too deep, but menopause hit me like a train and I was thinking my good life was over (in a sense). Why bother putting on make-up, doing my hair, buying nice clothes, etc.?? I found your channel just in time! It inspired me to create a new chapter and I always take time to read dozens of the comments from other women. You have created a community of hope, joy, and love.

As I age I detest worrying about weight all the time…I just want to be healthy. I see very thin and so called beautiful women that are so unhappy and miserable. You are so real and beautiful. Thank you for sharing your deep and honest thoughts. ❤ PS. Give Desi a kiss and hug for me…he is so adorable.

Susan , I’m always eager to watch your latest videos ! I feel like you are one of my best friends. Loving your new home and your quilt is gorgeous. Also that black pants outfit with the white belt and white jacket is the BOMB girlfriend !!! Wear it on your next dinner date. Wish I had your confidence. Keep on doing whatever makes you happy. ❤️

Susan, I’m not sure if your water is hard where you live, but if it is, I highly recommend Water Chef Filter Shower Wand!! It is so easy to install and I believe it cost about $70, but that includes the Shower Wand with the Filter. Then if you go on auto ship for the filters, you will receive a new one every 6 months and the filter alone is about $23. It doesn’t add salt where the water feels like you can’t get the soap off, but it removes all the calcium and minerals that are in your water. So good for your skin and hair! I love your new dining chairs and your home in general! Still so happy for you and Desi! Much love, Janette

Love your comments about your Mom. People are so cruel, it is sad but true. Speaking as a 75 year old, overweight all my life. I have now reached the point where I am happy with myself and because of some health problems, losing weight just does not happen. Keep up the good work. You are very beautiful in everything you wear. I am always struck by your beauty every time I see you. I might also add, I have been a farmer all my life and worked extremely physically hard. Also never got thin because of it either. Sometimes we have to go with what we are dealt.

Since the pandemic and living alone, food was a comfort for me when we had to stay home. I got arthritis in both knees which made it difficult to go for walks like I used to. Being 40 pounds overweight has made me feel bad for myself...pandemic, arthritis, quit smoking, and the death of my 42 year old son has taken a toll on me! I have developed diabetes because of the weight gain. I'm 72 years old, and Italian and love to cook but it's only for me now, and I'm trying to eat less and more healthy foods....most women gain weight when they are older, it's a fact, and the skinny ones are hardly eating anything at all! The only thing we can all do is keep trying!

I adore you and Desi! ❤ you're like a little bright light on my Saturday evenings. Fat is in the eye of the critic. Pay them no mind because they don't matter. You're stunningly beautiful inside and out!

Susan, I have loved your videos for many years. Desi looks so happy in his back yard!!! And sleeping peacefully behind you. Thank you for sharing!

I love you and your channel. Such an inspiration. Thank you.

I went on my first diet when I was in the second grade! I was 7 years old. I have been fighting obesity my entire life. When I was 51 years old, I decided to have Gastric Bypass Surgery. It has helped me a lot, I lost over 150 lbs but I am still over weight. I am 68 now and I have vowed to never "diet" again. I try to eat healthy, I have a bad back and have had to have 5 spinal surgeries in the last 15 years but I do as much as I can. Right now I am about 15 lbs over my lowest weight since my surgery. I'm trying to get back to where I was. You know the older you get the more difficult losing weight is, but like I said this is not another diet, this is a life style :). I love your home. I love your style. You are much more of a lady than I. Have a wonderful week and I will look forward to seeing your video next week... Take care, Kentucky Lady aka Becky

Love seeing you happy and enjoying your new home!!

Hello again. So lovely to see you and Dessi are doing so well and loving your new home. Thank you for sharing your encouragement.

I have lost 55 pounds in the last year. I don't want to lose anymore just maintain 155 to 160. I'm older and don't want to look gaunt. I've always been overweight in my adult life and struggled. Food was my friend and comforter. Now it's my friend but in a healthier way. Bob lost weight too because he eats mostly what I eat. We never deprive ourselves that snack we just don't eat the whole bag 😂. I adore being able to wear clothes I couldn't wear before. Loved the fashion show. You look fabulous as usual. I get inspired. 💖🌻🐝👏👏👏

Funny you should talk about weight... I watched this video with a bellyache because once again, my eyes were bigger than my stomach and I ate too much for dinner. I could've easily eaten half and saved the rest for tomorrow; why didn't I? Ugh - old habits are so hard to break! I love your new bedroom quilt and yellow sheets. So cheerful! That Christian Siriano jumpsuit looks great on you. Desi has perked up SO much in his new home! It's a joy to see him happily running around the yard and jumping up on your bed.

Another great video, I look forward to seeing you on Saturdays, Desi asleep behind you is so adorable!

Hi Susan ❤ I’ve always had weight problems. However, with every failure I’ve learned and today I’m doing well and not depriving myself from anything. Thank God 🙄 It’s great to see Desi enjoying his yard, love 💕 the bow . Do please give Desi a hug and kiss 💋 for me,and you stay safe ❤❤

Love your stories and Desi❤

Thank you! Love your channel!

You are beautiful inside and out! You lift spirits ❤❤❤

Happy weekend to you, Susan. I have to say that the black pantsuit is absolutely stunning on you...wow!!! One of my fave things I have seen you modeling! The tie dye dress is beautiful also, but that black pantsuit is very special & looks like it was custom made for you. I'll have to try some of that Pumpkin Seed oil, as I have tried & love the Pai Rosehip seed oil. Would be an interesting comparison. So happy for you & Desi in your new, beautiful cottage & congrats on the extra 6 pound weight loss. 😎

You are so pretty, inside and out!! Love your videos.

I know what you mean about being too tired to throw the decorative pillows off the bed at night! Your home is beautiful!!!

I like the brown dress 💛 I’m going to try the blurring blush. Have fun at concert Susan!

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the way you've made your home yours! Beautiful, just like you. Love your outfits and your makeup. Love how Desi is master of all he surveys! ❤🥰

You just make me smile and that's wonderful.

Quite inspiring and amazing stories,,, God bless you and desi

You are beautiful!!! So classy, and wear your clothes beautifully!!! I look forward to your videos every week. You are such an inspiration, and feel as if you are my friend:).